I've been with my boyfriend for almost one year now. Everything in our relationship has been great, except his best friend is a girl and it bugs me. What should I do?
In cases like this, the best advice is usually to not stand in the way of the friendship. A guy and a girl can innocently hang together without anything happening. And if youre constantly freaking out on your boyfriend about this, or spying on him (even worse) things are going to get very rocky between you guys. Its normal to feel a twinge of jealously and toss out a subtle comment or two while youre getting adjusted to the other girl. But then youve got to get over it. How?
One way is to get to know her a little better. Thatll help put your questions of trust to rest. When the two of you are in the bleachers watching your guy play baseball, dont ignore her talk to her. Ask her what shes into. You may find you have similar interests and get why your boyfriend thinks shes so cool. Strategy number two: If your boyfriends not already inviting you to join him and his best friend when they go out, then why dont you suggest it sometimes not all the time. (You wouldnt want him coming everywhere with you and your best friend either.) Seeing them in action together
In cases like this, the best advice is usually to not stand in the way of the friendship. A guy and a girl can innocently hang together without anything happening. And if youre constantly freaking out on your boyfriend about this, or spying on him (even worse) things are going to get very rocky between you guys. Its normal to feel a twinge of jealously and toss out a subtle comment or two while youre getting adjusted to the other girl. But then youve got to get over it. How?
One way is to get to know her a little better. Thatll help put your questions of trust to rest. When the two of you are in the bleachers watching your guy play baseball, dont ignore her talk to her. Ask her what shes into. You may find you have similar interests and get why your boyfriend thinks shes so cool. Strategy number two: If your boyfriends not already inviting you to join him and his best friend when they go out, then why dont you suggest it sometimes not all the time. (You wouldnt want him coming everywhere with you and your best friend either.) Seeing them in action together
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