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00:00:00 I went to my room and there were only chairs like in a department store.

00:00:03 Only those chairs.

00:00:05 When I climbed up the hardwood floor, I thought that

00:00:07 after the hardwood floor, I would move to another room

00:00:10 which was bigger.

00:00:11 But no.

00:00:13 I was lying on that chair and I was green.

00:00:15 You mean you moved out that fast?

00:00:18 Yes.

00:00:18 I thought I would be moved to a more beautiful room to be green.

00:00:22 But no.

00:00:22 There were only those chairs like in a department store.

00:00:25 That room was a green room.

00:00:26 It was a green room.

00:00:28 You imagined it.

00:00:30 Yes, in my mind, it would be beautiful.

00:00:32 You imagined it.

00:00:33 Your father made it.

00:00:35 Hello Nhi A, Ngoc Lan.

00:00:37 And hello to the audience of the show "Mom's milk".

00:00:41 I'm Thien An.

00:00:42 And I have a daughter who is almost 10 months old.

00:00:46 Wow, 10 months old.

00:00:47 Please drink some water and eat some cake.

00:00:49 Your cake is chocolate.

00:00:50 My cake is strawberry.

00:00:51 And what is your cake?

00:00:52 No, it's mango cake.

00:00:54 We will cut the cake part.

00:00:56 Is it good?

00:00:58 We will talk after eating the cake.

00:01:00 I think this story needs a lot of spices.

00:01:03 Yes.

00:01:04 [Eat cake and talk about love]

00:01:06 But let's talk about your main spice.

00:01:09 You came here as a mother with a child.

00:01:12 How did you know that you had a baby in your belly?

00:01:20 I heard that my daughter's menstruation was not even.

00:01:25 That day, it was not even every month.

00:01:29 I knew that day was not even.

00:01:32 But it was longer than normal months.

00:01:36 I felt a little bit of pain in my body.

00:01:40 Then I went to FAPNCT and saw a new baby test tube.

00:01:47 I didn't know it was new or electronic.

00:01:50 I bought it and tried it.

00:01:52 It was on two tubes.

00:01:56 I thought it was broken or I didn't know how to use it.

00:01:59 Why didn't you believe the manufacturer?

00:02:02 This story is heard a lot.

00:02:04 I am a manufacturer who has tested many types of baby products.

00:02:08 I was so confused.

00:02:10 I had to doubt my team.

00:02:12 What kind of work do you do?

00:02:14 70% of the users always doubt at the beginning.

00:02:18 What did you do?

00:02:22 I said it was broken.

00:02:24 I didn't know how to use it.

00:02:28 You thought it was broken?

00:02:29 Yes, I thought it was broken.

00:02:30 I was so confused.

00:02:36 It was different from normal products.

00:02:38 I went to FAPNCT again but I bought a normal test tube.

00:02:42 You bought a normal test tube.

00:02:43 You bought a normal test tube.

00:02:45 I bought three test tubes at once.

00:02:47 I tried it and it was on two tubes.

00:02:50 You said it was broken.

00:02:52 I didn't believe it.

00:02:54 You said it was broken.

00:02:56 I just used one type.

00:02:58 When you believed that you had a baby, how did you feel?

00:03:04 I was so confused when I tried the first tube.

00:03:07 I didn't know how to describe it.

00:03:09 I was thinking if it was right or not.

00:03:13 I was so confused.

00:03:15 I thought for a while and I didn't know what to do.

00:03:18 Then I told my dad.

00:03:20 I was confused like you.

00:03:24 I was confused and he was confused.

00:03:26 We were both confused.

00:03:28 I want to ask you.

00:03:30 Did the confusion of the three partners

00:03:32 appear in your description before you shared it with him?

00:03:36 You knew there were two tubes and you had to inform the other party.

00:03:40 Did you imagine that he would be confused when you didn't inform him?

00:03:47 Or did you think he would be happy and you shared it with him so you could feel safe?

00:03:53 At first, I thought he would be confused but not that much.

00:03:58 When you received that reaction,

00:04:02 how did you deal with it?

00:04:04 How did you take care of the baby?

00:04:06 How did you examine it?

00:04:08 My case was a sensitive case.

00:04:10 I was responsible and I was responsible for my decision.

00:04:17 I was completely alone during the pregnancy.

00:04:21 You didn't have a family? Did you inform your family?

00:04:24 I dared to inform my mom in April.

00:04:27 They were shocked.

00:04:31 I didn't know what to say.

00:04:33 I was brave enough to tell my family in April.

00:04:40 You told your family in April because you were afraid of them.

00:04:44 Did they force you to abort the baby?

00:04:47 I was afraid of them.

00:04:51 I wanted to give the baby to my older brother so it would be more stable.

00:04:56 You were a famous model at that time.

00:05:00 Many people in your career knew that you were doing well.

00:05:06 You could choose to abort the baby to continue your career.

00:05:15 Why did you decide to keep the baby?

00:05:17 For me,

00:05:19 every child is in this life and every year is fun.

00:05:25 I don't think too much about whether to keep the baby or not.

00:05:29 I just think that I have to do something to continue my life.

00:05:35 You are mature.

00:05:37 I admit that I was young at that time.

00:05:40 I found that this is the first time we heard that

00:05:48 at that time, we didn't want it to happen.

00:05:51 But we didn't hesitate to keep the baby.

00:05:57 We just wanted to solve the question of how to keep the baby.

00:06:00 To make it stable in the current situation.

00:06:02 There were many things that forced us to keep the baby.

00:06:06 We couldn't hide the pregnancy.

00:06:08 We couldn't hide it.

00:06:10 We just wanted to tell my family in April.

00:06:13 What was your first reaction?

00:06:15 My mom was shocked.

00:06:17 I was developing.

00:06:21 It would affect my future.

00:06:24 My mom was very considerate and loved me.

00:06:28 During the process of giving birth,

00:06:30 if my mom wasn't there,

00:06:32 I wouldn't have the courage to keep the baby.

00:06:36 Before you told your family,

00:06:38 how did you feel about your psychological change?

00:06:44 Before I told my family,

00:06:46 I was completely alone.

00:06:48 I didn't know anything about the pregnancy.

00:06:52 I was stressed.

00:06:56 I was stressed when I was alone.

00:06:58 I couldn't tell anyone.

00:07:00 I was getting worse.

00:07:02 I couldn't tell my mom.

00:07:04 I was afraid that she would be shocked.

00:07:06 She would be sad.

00:07:08 I couldn't tell anyone.

00:07:10 I was alone.

00:07:12 I didn't contact anyone.

00:07:14 My friends didn't dare to tell anyone.

00:07:16 You didn't tell anyone for 4 months?

00:07:18 Yes.

00:07:20 How did you take care of the baby?

00:07:22 I ate and drank regularly.

00:07:24 I didn't drink coffee.

00:07:28 I was normal.

00:07:30 During those 4 months,

00:07:32 I tried to find a way to tell my mom.

00:07:36 I wanted her to feel less shocked.

00:07:40 I wanted her to feel less shocked.

00:07:42 Did you still go to work?

00:07:44 Yes.

00:07:46 Were you bored?

00:07:48 I was bored.

00:07:50 You were stressed.

00:07:52 You couldn't tell anyone.

00:07:54 You had to face another problem.

00:07:56 You had to face another problem.

00:07:58 You had to go to the doctor.

00:08:00 You had to go to the doctor.

00:08:02 How was your situation?

00:08:04 I was still working.

00:08:06 I didn't have a high salary.

00:08:10 I was still working.

00:08:12 I ate and drank regularly.

00:08:14 I didn't go out to eat or drink coffee.

00:08:16 I didn't go out to eat or drink coffee.

00:08:18 I saved money to buy medicines for my baby.

00:08:24 I was still working during the internship.

00:08:28 I was still working during the internship.

00:08:30 I was still working during the internship.

00:08:32 I was still working during the internship.

00:08:34 I was still working during the internship.

00:08:36 I was still working during the internship.

00:08:38 I was still working during the internship.

00:08:40 I was still working during the internship.

00:08:42 I was still working during the internship.

00:08:44 I was still working during the internship.

00:08:46 What happened after you talked to your grandma?

00:08:48 What happened after you talked to your grandma?

00:08:50 After I talked to her, she cried a lot.

00:08:52 After I talked to her, she cried a lot.

00:08:54 I felt that I was alone.

00:08:56 I felt that I was alone.

00:08:58 I needed to be with my family.

00:09:00 My mom was afraid that I would be depressed during the pregnancy.

00:09:02 My mom was afraid that I would be depressed during the pregnancy.

00:09:04 So she decided to abort the baby.

00:09:06 She decided to abort the baby.

00:09:08 She decided to abort the baby.

00:09:10 I loved my grandma.

00:09:12 There is a classic sentence of my grandma.

00:09:14 There is a classic sentence of my grandma.

00:09:16 Of course, I didn't blame her.

00:09:18 But we would hear a lot.

00:09:20 "What did you do? How could you look at your neighbor?"

00:09:22 "What did you do? How could you look at your neighbor?"

00:09:24 That sentence was not intended to hurt our child.

00:09:26 That sentence was not intended to hurt our child.

00:09:28 But that made us afraid and didn't dare to share it.

00:09:30 But that made us afraid and didn't dare to share it.

00:09:32 So my grandma was afraid that I would be depressed during the pregnancy.

00:09:34 So my grandma was afraid that I would be depressed during the pregnancy.

00:09:36 Obviously, she was the best.

00:09:38 At that time, I was still alone.

00:09:40 Did you feel lonely?

00:09:42 Did you feel lonely?

00:09:44 I didn't feel lonely.

00:09:46 But I didn't want to be a burden to my mom.

00:09:48 But I didn't want to be a burden to my mom.

00:09:50 I was isolated since I was a child.

00:09:52 I didn't want to be a burden to anyone.

00:09:54 So I went to the hospital alone.

00:09:56 So I went to the hospital alone.

00:09:58 I didn't want my mom to follow me.

00:10:00 I didn't want my mom to follow me.

00:10:02 When your child grew up in your belly,

00:10:04 When your child grew up in your belly,

00:10:06 you raised and loved your child.

00:10:08 What do you think about the relationship between your child and her father?

00:10:10 What do you think about the relationship between your child and her father?

00:10:12 What do you think about the relationship between your child and her father?

00:10:14 What do you think about the relationship between your child and her father?

00:10:16 I think my child is my child.

00:10:18 I think my child is my child.

00:10:20 I think my child is my child.

00:10:22 I think my child is my child.

00:10:24 I read and refer to the book.

00:10:26 I read and refer to the book.

00:10:28 If I was too sad, it would affect the baby.

00:10:30 If I was too sad, it would affect the baby.

00:10:32 If I was too sad, it would affect the baby.

00:10:34 If I was too sad, it would affect the baby.

00:10:36 I don't know why I could overcome it so calmly.

00:10:38 I don't know why I could overcome it so calmly.

00:10:40 I don't know why I could overcome it so calmly.

00:10:42 I don't know why I could overcome it so calmly.

00:10:44 I don't know why I could overcome it so calmly.

00:10:46 I don't know why I could overcome it so calmly.

00:10:48 You were so self-respecting.

00:10:50 Yes, I was.

00:10:52 I don't mean to be sarcastic.

00:10:54 I don't mean to be sarcastic.

00:10:56 But trying not to think about it is still trying.

00:10:58 But trying not to think about it is still trying.

00:11:00 When your thoughts are scattered,

00:11:02 what did you do to move on?

00:11:04 What did you do to move on?

00:11:06 I thought I was alone.

00:11:08 I had to find a way to make money.

00:11:10 I had to find a way to make money.

00:11:12 I had to find a way to make money.

00:11:14 I was busy thinking about it.

00:11:16 I was busy thinking about it.

00:11:18 Making money?

00:11:20 Money is a power.

00:11:22 You see?

00:11:24 Instead of thinking about it,

00:11:26 you should move on.

00:11:28 You should move on.

00:11:30 You should move on.

00:11:32 When you are busy,

00:11:34 you don't have time to think about it.

00:11:36 you don't have time to think about it.

00:11:38 You can't solve it.

00:11:40 It's negative.

00:11:42 You can't decide.

00:11:44 Thank you so much.

00:11:46 Thank you so much.

00:11:48 She cooperated with her mother so well.

00:11:52 She cooperated with her mother so well.

00:11:54 When you give birth,

00:11:56 what will you tell her?

00:11:58 What will you tell her?

00:12:00 I told her that I would be with her during the whole process.

00:12:02 I told her that I would be with her during the whole process.

00:12:04 Why?

00:12:06 When I went to have a check-up,

00:12:08 the doctor said that it was April 1st.

00:12:10 It was my due date.

00:12:12 Oh my god!

00:12:14 You chose a lie date.

00:12:16 Oh my god!

00:12:18 I downloaded a phone app

00:12:20 to follow the process of giving birth.

00:12:22 I also set April 1st as my due date.

00:12:24 I watched all the episodes

00:12:26 I watched all the episodes

00:12:28 because I was alone and I was too busy.

00:12:30 I didn't dare to ask my mom

00:12:32 because she was my previous generation.

00:12:34 Now I'm more advanced.

00:12:36 Sometimes, my mom didn't have a baby.

00:12:38 I saw that my program had a lot of stories

00:12:40 about the birth date.

00:12:42 It was usually August 30th or August 30th.

00:12:44 I was born on August 30th.

00:12:46 I was born on August 30th.

00:12:48 I said, "It's fine. It's August 30th."

00:12:50 I said, "It's fine. It's August 30th."

00:12:52 I waited for the whole week.

00:12:54 I didn't see anything.

00:12:56 I was not ready.

00:12:58 I said, "Let's wait until the 39th."

00:13:00 I was about to give birth.

00:13:02 It was the last day of the 39th.

00:13:04 I was about to give birth on the 40th.

00:13:06 I didn't see anything.

00:13:08 My mom bought me 5 roses.

00:13:10 My mom bought me 5 roses.

00:13:12 I drank 5 roses when I came home.

00:13:14 I drank 5 roses when I came home.

00:13:16 I was 40 weeks pregnant on April 1st.

00:13:18 I was 40 weeks pregnant on April 1st.

00:13:20 The phone app said, "Congratulations!"

00:13:22 The phone app said, "Congratulations!"

00:13:24 The app said, "Congratulations!"

00:13:26 The app said, "Congratulations!"

00:13:28 The app said, "Congratulations!"

00:13:30 The app said, "Congratulations!"

00:13:32 The app said, "Congratulations!"

00:13:34 The app said, "Congratulations!"

00:13:36 The app said, "Congratulations!"

00:13:38 The app said, "Congratulations!"

00:13:40 The app said, "Congratulations!"

00:13:42 The app said, "Congratulations!"

00:13:44 The app said, "Congratulations!"

00:13:46 The app said, "Congratulations!"

00:13:48 The app said, "Congratulations!"

00:13:50 The app said, "Congratulations!"

00:13:52 I was scared and anxious.

00:13:54 I was scared and anxious.

00:13:56 I told myself to try to sleep until morning

00:13:58 I told myself to try to sleep until morning

00:14:00 to see if I could go to the doctor.

00:14:02 At 4 a.m.,

00:14:04 At 4 a.m.,

00:14:06 I started to feel a little pain.

00:14:08 I started to feel a little pain.

00:14:10 I watched the show.

00:14:12 I saw the ladies having a stomachache.

00:14:14 I saw the ladies having a stomachache.

00:14:16 I thought, "What should I do?"

00:14:18 I thought, "What should I do?"

00:14:20 I thought, "What should I do?"

00:14:22 But it was a little painful.

00:14:24 But it was a little painful.

00:14:26 But it was a little painful.

00:14:28 It usually takes a day or two to heal.

00:14:30 It usually takes a day or two to heal.

00:14:32 It usually takes a day or two to heal.

00:14:34 I slept for about half an hour.

00:14:36 I slept for about half an hour.

00:14:38 I felt a little pain.

00:14:40 I went down and said, "Mom, I have a stomachache."

00:14:42 I went down and said, "Mom, I have a stomachache."

00:14:44 I said, "What should I do now?"

00:14:46 I said, "You should stay a little longer."

00:14:48 I said, "What should I do now?"

00:14:50 I said, "You should stay a little longer."

00:14:52 She asked me if I was okay.

00:14:54 I said, "I'm fine. I'm going to the hospital."

00:14:56 I said, "You should go to the hospital."

00:14:58 I said, "You should go to the hospital."

00:15:00 I said, "You should go to the hospital."

00:15:02 I said, "You should go to the hospital."

00:15:04 I said, "You should go to the hospital."

00:15:06 I said, "You should go to the hospital."

00:15:08 I said, "You should go to the hospital."

00:15:10 I said, "You should go to the hospital."

00:15:12 I said, "You should go to the hospital."

00:15:14 I said, "You should go to the hospital."

00:15:16 I went to the hospital with my mom.

00:15:18 We were very relaxed.

00:15:20 We were very relaxed.

00:15:22 We had to change our clothes every episode.

00:15:24 We had to put on lipstick.

00:15:26 We had to put on lipstick.

00:15:28 We had to put on lipstick.

00:15:30 She confirmed that she was a fan of the show.

00:15:32 I was a fan of the show.

00:15:34 I put on lipstick and thought,

00:15:36 "What? It's the pandemic.

00:15:38 I have to wear a mask."

00:15:40 I was so shocked.

00:15:42 I was so shocked.

00:15:44 I was so shocked.

00:15:46 I had to put on lipstick.

00:15:48 I had to put on lipstick.

00:15:50 I was afraid that my lips would be bad.

00:15:52 I was afraid that my lips would be bad.

00:15:54 I was afraid that my lips would be bad.

00:15:56 I was afraid that my lips would be bad.

00:15:58 We went to the hospital.

00:16:00 I thought I was not pregnant.

00:16:02 The doctor said that I was 1-2cm pregnant.

00:16:04 The doctor said that I was 1-2cm pregnant.

00:16:06 I had to wait.

00:16:08 I had to wait.

00:16:10 The doctor asked me if I had a hard heart.

00:16:12 I said yes.

00:16:14 I sat there for 5 hours.

00:16:16 I said, "Mom,

00:16:18 you have to wait.

00:16:20 I think I will be pregnant tomorrow morning."

00:16:22 I think I will be pregnant tomorrow morning."

00:16:24 "I can't be pregnant right away."

00:16:26 I said, "I will go home."

00:16:28 I said, "I will go home."

00:16:30 I was worried about my house.

00:16:32 I was worried about my house.

00:16:34 I was worried about my house.

00:16:36 The doctor asked me to stay in the room.

00:16:38 The doctor asked me to stay in the room.

00:16:40 The doctor asked me to stay in the room.

00:16:42 I went to the room.

00:16:44 I had a chair like a painter.

00:16:46 I had a chair like a painter.

00:16:48 I thought that I would move to another room

00:16:50 I thought that I would move to another room

00:16:52 after I had a hard heart.

00:16:54 But no.

00:16:56 I was pregnant.

00:16:58 You were pregnant?

00:17:00 I thought that I would move to another room.

00:17:02 I thought that I would move to another room.

00:17:04 I thought that I would move to another room.

00:17:06 I thought that I would move to another room.

00:17:08 You had a blue room.

00:17:10 You imagined it.

00:17:12 I imagined it.

00:17:14 You imagined it.

00:17:16 You imagined it.

00:17:18 When you had a hard heart,

00:17:20 did you move to another room?

00:17:22 I didn't know that it was a blue room.

00:17:24 I didn't know that it was a blue room.

00:17:26 I didn't know that it was a blue room.

00:17:28 How did you move to another room?

00:17:30 I had a hard heart.

00:17:32 The doctor told me to stay in the room.

00:17:34 The doctor told me to stay in the room.

00:17:36 You didn't dare to ask the doctor?

00:17:38 I didn't dare to ask the doctor.

00:17:40 I was afraid that the doctor would scold me.

00:17:42 I was afraid that the doctor would scold me.

00:17:44 You were afraid.

00:17:46 I was afraid.

00:17:48 I was afraid.

00:17:50 I was pregnant.

00:17:52 The doctor told me to stay in the room.

00:17:54 I had a hard heart.

00:17:56 I had a hard heart.

00:17:58 I was so afraid.

00:18:00 I was so afraid.

00:18:02 I was afraid that I would not be able to get the medicine.

00:18:04 The doctor said that I was not in pain anymore.

00:18:06 The doctor gave me a blue pill.

00:18:08 The doctor gave me a blue pill.

00:18:10 I was so scared that I was going to the hospital.

00:18:12 You were not afraid of being a Buddha.

00:18:14 You were not afraid of being a Buddha.

00:18:16 You thought that you were the Buddha.

00:18:18 You thought that you were the Buddha.

00:18:20 How did you feel when you saw your baby

00:18:22 How did you feel when you saw your baby

00:18:24 when you saw your baby

00:18:26 when you saw your baby

00:18:28 I felt light.

00:18:30 I felt light.

00:18:32 The doctor gave me a baby.

00:18:36 I felt normal.

00:18:38 I felt normal.

00:18:40 Did you observe your baby?

00:18:42 Did you observe your baby?

00:18:44 I saw a blue pill.

00:18:46 I saw a blue pill.

00:18:48 It was not like what you imagined.

00:18:50 It was not like what you imagined.

00:18:52 You are a fan of this show.

00:18:54 You must not be surprised by your feelings.

00:18:56 You must not be surprised by your feelings.

00:18:58 There were many ladies in blue and black.

00:19:00 There were many ladies in blue and black.

00:19:02 Many mothers were like "Why is my baby so ugly?"

00:19:04 Many mothers were like "Why is my baby so ugly?"

00:19:06 "Why is my baby so ugly?"

00:19:08 I prepared a lot for this show.

00:19:10 I prepared a lot for this show.

00:19:12 I felt normal.

00:19:14 I felt normal.

00:19:16 When I gave my baby to my husband for the first time,

00:19:18 When I gave my baby to my husband for the first time,

00:19:20 "Is this your baby? Is this your baby?"

00:19:22 I started to feel the love of my baby.

00:19:24 I started to feel the love of my baby.

00:19:26 I started to feel the love of my baby.

00:19:28 I started to feel the love of my baby.

00:19:30 I started to feel the love of my baby.

00:19:32 I started to feel the love of my baby.

00:19:34 I started to feel the love of my baby.

00:19:36 I started to feel the love of my baby.

00:19:38 I started to feel the love of my baby.

00:19:40 I started to feel the love of my baby.

00:19:42 I started to feel the love of my baby.

00:19:44 I started to feel the love of my baby.

00:19:46 I started to feel the love of my baby.

00:19:48 I started to feel the love of my baby.

00:19:50 I started to feel the love of my baby.

00:19:52 I started to feel the love of my baby.

00:19:54 Sometimes we think we are strong enough

00:19:56 before we have a baby.

00:19:58 We think we can do everything.

00:20:00 We think we can do everything.

00:20:02 But when you have a baby,

00:20:04 you will understand how important the help is.

00:20:06 you will understand how important the help is.

00:20:08 How did you take care of your baby?

00:20:10 When I was just born,

00:20:12 I went to the hospital right away.

00:20:14 I practiced and went to the hospital right away.

00:20:16 I did what I could do right away.

00:20:18 During the process of giving birth,

00:20:20 I was the one who took the initiative to take care of my baby.

00:20:22 I was the one who took the initiative to take care of my baby.

00:20:24 Before I gave birth,

00:20:26 I took care of my baby at home.

00:20:28 I took care of my baby at home.

00:20:30 I already had the basic knowledge.

00:20:32 I did everything I could do.

00:20:34 I only did the housework for my mom.

00:20:36 I only did the housework for my mom.

00:20:38 She helped me clean the house.

00:20:40 I did everything for my baby.

00:20:42 You took care of your baby,

00:20:44 you did everything for your baby.

00:20:46 I was still weak at first.

00:20:48 My mom supported me a little bit.

00:20:50 I did everything for my baby.

00:20:52 Now, let's go back to the story.

00:20:54 After giving birth,

00:20:56 you have already prepared the money

00:20:58 for your baby.

00:21:00 Did you have to worry about

00:21:02 the money again?

00:21:04 Yes, I did.

00:21:06 Because

00:21:08 I was independent.

00:21:10 I also helped my family.

00:21:12 I also helped my family.

00:21:14 I was like a main pillar in my family.

00:21:16 Now, I have a baby.

00:21:18 I started to work again

00:21:20 about 2 months ago.

00:21:22 I was stressed a lot.

00:21:24 I closed all social media accounts.

00:21:26 I closed all social media accounts.

00:21:28 I didn't use anything.

00:21:30 I didn't use anything.

00:21:32 I know that my job

00:21:34 is already over.

00:21:36 It's hard to start again.

00:21:38 I lost all my connections.

00:21:40 I can't

00:21:42 contact them.

00:21:44 I had to do social media again.

00:21:46 I had to do social media again.

00:21:48 I had to take photos

00:21:50 to have a profile

00:21:52 to let them know

00:21:54 that I'm back.

00:21:56 I also sold online clothes.

00:21:58 I also sold online clothes.

00:22:00 I know that I'm healthy

00:22:02 but I have to be strong.

00:22:04 I sold my clothes

00:22:06 at home.

00:22:08 I opened a bay,

00:22:10 I sold my clothes.

00:22:12 It was enough for me to be independent.

00:22:14 When you were stressed

00:22:16 about money,

00:22:18 did you use the word "assumption"?

00:22:20 "Assumption" means "don't let it happen".

00:22:22 Did you?

00:22:24 No, I didn't have time

00:22:26 to think about it.

00:22:28 You just went for it.

00:22:30 I always had to find a way

00:22:32 to solve the problem.

00:22:34 I didn't look back at the past.

00:22:36 It's not like it won't come back.

00:22:38 How old were you

00:22:40 when you started to become

00:22:42 a social media influencer?

00:22:44 I was 4-5 months old.

00:22:46 You just went through

00:22:48 a period of life

00:22:50 and you stabilized

00:22:52 your life.

00:22:54 Everything was going well

00:22:56 and you had to face

00:22:58 many problems.

00:23:00 How did you

00:23:02 express your stress?

00:23:04 I don't know

00:23:06 how to describe it.

00:23:08 I just knew

00:23:10 that I was just born.

00:23:12 I was feeling

00:23:14 not good about

00:23:16 the stress of money,

00:23:18 and everything around.

00:23:20 I was thinking

00:23:22 "What should I do?"

00:23:24 "How can I solve this?"

00:23:26 "It's good for me

00:23:28 and for both of us."

00:23:30 How did you

00:23:32 overcome that period?

00:23:34 I don't know how to describe it.

00:23:36 I just felt guilty.

00:23:38 Why did you feel guilty?

00:23:40 Why did you feel guilty?

00:23:42 Why did you feel guilty?

00:23:44 It's not worth it.

00:23:46 It's not worth it.

00:23:48 Children don't need

00:23:50 to be treated like that.

00:23:52 I was thinking

00:23:54 "Why my child?"

00:23:56 "Why my child?"

00:23:58 That's why I felt guilty.

00:24:00 I was thinking

00:24:02 "If they say anything,

00:24:04 they won't raise me."

00:24:06 If I was down,

00:24:08 my mom

00:24:10 wouldn't be there.

00:24:12 Because we raised each other.

00:24:14 I raised my mom, she raised me.

00:24:16 Why did I have to try alone?

00:24:18 I had to try everything.

00:24:20 I wanted to make her feel

00:24:22 that I was fine and I could overcome it.

00:24:24 So she would believe in me.

00:24:26 So she would

00:24:28 take the step.

00:24:30 My mom lost her step.

00:24:32 If I lost my step again,

00:24:34 I would have nothing

00:24:36 to resist.

00:24:38 What did you focus on

00:24:40 to overcome

00:24:42 such a difficult time?

00:24:44 I was used to

00:24:46 those things.

00:24:48 At first,

00:24:50 I was stressed.

00:24:52 I read comments.

00:24:54 I read what they said

00:24:56 about my child.

00:24:58 I was thinking

00:25:00 "I don't care anymore."

00:25:02 "I have to raise my child."

00:25:04 "When my child likes it,

00:25:06 I have to buy it for her."

00:25:08 That's important.

00:25:10 If I read those comments,

00:25:12 I would read them all.

00:25:14 I just know that

00:25:16 I respect her so much.

00:25:18 In all of her stories,

00:25:20 she gave us a valuable information.

00:25:22 "Don't care about your life."

00:25:24 "You should care about yourself."

00:25:26 We should go back to who we are,

00:25:28 what we need,

00:25:30 and keep our consciousness.

00:25:32 We should stop worrying

00:25:34 and worrying

00:25:36 to solve what we are facing.

00:25:38 We have met today

00:25:40 at that point.

00:25:42 I think that's a valuable information

00:25:44 that I want to share

00:25:46 with the audience.

00:25:48 I know that you have a lot to say.

00:25:54 This is your time.

00:25:56 Actually,

00:25:58 I want to thank

00:26:00 my mom

00:26:02 as her grandmother.

00:26:04 She has been

00:26:06 through a lot

00:26:08 but

00:26:10 she never gave up.

00:26:12 She always protects us.

00:26:14 I also

00:26:16 love her so much.

00:26:18 An,

00:26:22 before we say goodbye,

00:26:24 do you want to

00:26:26 say something to your daughter?

00:26:28 Maybe she will watch this show again.

00:26:30 She is 2 years old

00:26:32 and she has watched this show

00:26:34 and she has understood.

00:26:36 After watching this show,

00:26:38 I know how hard

00:26:40 she has been through.

00:26:42 I have to be good and love her more.

00:26:44 I will be a big support for her.

00:26:46 Hello, everyone.

00:26:48 Hello, Ngoc Lan and Nga.

00:26:50 My name is Phuong Thao.

00:26:52 I'm 29 years old.

00:26:54 I have a daughter who is 15 years old.

00:26:56 Oh,

00:26:58 15 years old is not a new age.

00:27:00 So you must remember her very well.

00:27:02 Yes.

00:27:04 Even though you have been together for 20-30 years,

00:27:06 you still remember her.

00:27:08 There are many reasons

00:27:10 why we cannot forget our mom.

00:27:12 Now, you are 15 years old

00:27:14 and your journey with your mom

00:27:16 always starts with

00:27:18 the moment

00:27:20 when you receive the news

00:27:22 about your daughter.

00:27:24 You have to go back 15 years

00:27:26 and 9 years,

00:27:28 which is 2 years ago.

00:27:30 How did it happen?

00:27:32 When you knew your daughter was coming to you?

00:27:34 Before I tell you,

00:27:36 I would like to invite you.

00:27:38 My beautiful daughter.

00:27:40 Speak louder.

00:27:48 Oh my God.

00:27:50 Oh my God.

00:27:52 Do you have enough money to buy a TV?

00:28:00 Oh my God.

00:28:02 I will bring it to you.

00:28:04 Do you need to pay me back?

00:28:06 No, it's okay.

00:28:08 This looks like a water of a watercress.

00:28:12 It's a watercress.

00:28:18 The watercress is so greasy.

00:28:20 I thought you guys would give me a fresh watercress.

00:28:22 It's really good.

00:28:24 No, it's a watercress.

00:28:26 It's a watercress.

00:28:30 Yes.

00:28:32 3, 2, 1.

00:28:34 My dear audience,

00:28:36 my daughter is getting prettier every day.

00:28:38 She is a very stable girl.

00:28:40 I would like to invite you to drink a watercress juice.

00:28:42 It will cool you down.

00:28:44 I think you should put a water bottle

00:28:46 in the watercress juice.

00:28:48 I hope I can put a water bottle in the watercress juice.

00:28:50 The reason I invite you to drink a watercress juice

00:28:52 is because the story will be very long

00:28:54 and you will spend a lot of energy.

00:28:56 Thank you.

00:28:58 After drinking a watercress juice,

00:29:00 I would like to invite you to

00:29:02 recall your memories of 2 years ago.

00:29:04 Let's start.

00:29:06 It was a morning.

00:29:08 I remember that

00:29:10 I was diagnosed with

00:29:12 a 4-day period of preterm birth.

00:29:14 I was a little worried

00:29:16 because before I had this baby,

00:29:18 I had another baby.

00:29:20 But my first pregnancy

00:29:22 was not very lucky.

00:29:24 I had to stop the pregnancy

00:29:26 for 24-25 weeks.

00:29:28 It was a big period.

00:29:30 How many months was it?

00:29:32 It was about 5-6 months.

00:29:34 What was the reason?

00:29:36 Because at that time,

00:29:38 I was pregnant

00:29:40 for 6 months.

00:29:42 After about 1-2 days,

00:29:44 I didn't see the baby

00:29:46 moving and stepping on my belly.

00:29:48 I told my husband.

00:29:50 He also comforted me

00:29:52 that maybe the baby was sleeping.

00:29:54 But at that time,

00:29:56 I had a bad feeling.

00:29:58 So my husband and I

00:30:00 went to the hospital.

00:30:02 After the doctor visited the hospital

00:30:04 and asked some questions,

00:30:06 he concluded that

00:30:08 my baby was not dead.

00:30:10 So you were pregnant?

00:30:12 Yes, I was.

00:30:14 He said I was pregnant.

00:30:16 I asked him

00:30:18 the first question.

00:30:20 Why?

00:30:22 What did I do?

00:30:24 He said he didn't know

00:30:26 the reason why.

00:30:28 Because the baby

00:30:30 had some changes in the belly

00:30:32 that could be

00:30:34 out of his control.

00:30:36 At that time,

00:30:38 I was so confused.

00:30:40 I didn't know what to say.

00:30:42 I didn't know

00:30:44 what was going on in my head.

00:30:46 I just talked to him.

00:30:48 I told him

00:30:50 that he didn't accept

00:30:52 the result.

00:30:54 We were going to

00:30:56 another hospital.

00:30:58 I still had a small hope

00:31:00 that I should continue

00:31:02 to hope.

00:31:04 But we went to another hospital

00:31:06 that night.

00:31:08 We had to accept

00:31:10 the result

00:31:12 that we didn't want to hear again.

00:31:14 That night,

00:31:16 I came back home.

00:31:18 I couldn't

00:31:20 express

00:31:22 my disappointment

00:31:24 and pain.

00:31:26 I was afraid

00:31:28 of my calmness.

00:31:30 I couldn't cry.

00:31:32 I couldn't scream.

00:31:34 I just knew

00:31:36 that I could imagine

00:31:38 what would happen tomorrow

00:31:40 when I was hospitalized.

00:31:42 I just hugged my baby

00:31:44 in my arms and came back home.

00:31:46 I knew

00:31:48 that we were going to be separated.

00:31:50 So,

00:31:52 it was painful.

00:31:54 But after that,

00:31:56 I was calm

00:31:58 and calm

00:32:00 to the point that I was afraid of my calmness.

00:32:02 I couldn't scream.

00:32:04 I couldn't cry.

00:32:06 The next day,

00:32:08 we were hospitalized.

00:32:10 When we were hospitalized,

00:32:12 I felt the pain

00:32:14 because

00:32:16 when I was hospitalized,

00:32:18 I knew that I had to take my baby away.

00:32:20 Yes.

00:32:22 When

00:32:24 I was filling in the hospital's form,

00:32:26 tears started to fall

00:32:28 from my eyes.

00:32:30 Because there were

00:32:32 many pregnant women and babies around me.

00:32:34 I felt

00:32:36 that I was unlucky

00:32:38 and unfortunate.

00:32:40 They were my first babies.

00:32:42 So,

00:32:44 I was hospitalized.

00:32:46 But

00:32:48 I could imagine

00:32:50 what would happen to me.

00:32:52 I had

00:32:54 a questionnaire

00:32:56 on the internet.

00:32:58 The doctor told me

00:33:00 that I had

00:33:02 a congenital heart disease.

00:33:04 To take my baby out,

00:33:06 I had to

00:33:08 have a surgery.

00:33:10 Oh my God!

00:33:12 A surgery?

00:33:14 Yes. I couldn't have a normal birth.

00:33:16 So,

00:33:18 my husband and I...

00:33:20 He had told me

00:33:22 that it was okay.

00:33:24 We were still young.

00:33:26 We could have a baby

00:33:28 in a few months.

00:33:30 But when I heard

00:33:32 the doctor's words,

00:33:34 I was shocked.

00:33:36 Did your husband listen to you?

00:33:38 Or were you alone in the surgery room?

00:33:40 No. He came to the clinic

00:33:42 and he was there.

00:33:44 He explained to him

00:33:46 that

00:33:48 we were

00:33:50 confused.

00:33:52 He was a very

00:33:54 young man.

00:33:56 I was young too.

00:33:58 I didn't know

00:34:00 if I could wait

00:34:02 for another baby.

00:34:04 I didn't know

00:34:06 if I could wait for another baby.

00:34:08 I lost everything.

00:34:10 I lost everything.

00:34:12 The surgery

00:34:14 was done.

00:34:16 The surgery was done.

00:34:18 But the doctor said

00:34:20 that there was a document

00:34:22 that said

00:34:24 the surgery was very dangerous.

00:34:26 I could lose blood.

00:34:28 I could be blood-related.

00:34:30 There were risks

00:34:32 around the surgery

00:34:34 that could be dangerous to my mother's life.

00:34:36 If the doctor

00:34:38 couldn't hold the blood,

00:34:40 he could have to cut off my uterus.

00:34:42 When I heard that,

00:34:44 I was very scared.

00:34:46 I was afraid that

00:34:48 if it had to be like that,

00:34:50 I might not

00:34:52 have a baby.

00:34:54 I was very scared.

00:34:56 I was afraid of having to cut off my uterus.

00:34:58 That was my biggest fear.

00:35:00 When the doctor said that,

00:35:02 I thought

00:35:04 if I had to

00:35:06 cut off my uterus,

00:35:08 I would

00:35:10 just follow my baby.

00:35:12 Because

00:35:14 if I couldn't

00:35:16 give birth to a baby for my husband and me,

00:35:18 I was very scared.

00:35:20 But

00:35:22 I didn't dare

00:35:24 to tell my parents

00:35:26 about my biggest fear.

00:35:28 I kept it to myself.

00:35:30 When I was in the hospital

00:35:32 waiting for the surgery,

00:35:34 I didn't cry.

00:35:36 I didn't know why.

00:35:38 I couldn't cry.

00:35:40 I understand

00:35:42 how you felt.

00:35:44 There was a reason.

00:35:46 When we are in a relationship,

00:35:48 we all have different reactions.

00:35:50 When we don't

00:35:52 scream,

00:35:54 cry, or get angry,

00:35:56 it doesn't mean that we are stubborn.

00:35:58 We have misunderstood

00:36:00 this reaction.

00:36:02 We think that people who

00:36:04 receive bad news

00:36:06 are very tolerant.

00:36:08 It's okay.

00:36:10 It's just a reaction.

00:36:12 Our brain can

00:36:14 react to many things.

00:36:16 Some people are very rational

00:36:18 and cry a lot.

00:36:20 They cry a lot.

00:36:22 They react

00:36:24 in a very closed way.

00:36:26 When they block their body,

00:36:28 they just stand there and watch.

00:36:30 But the others

00:36:32 think that they are okay.

00:36:34 I want people to understand

00:36:36 that there are many stars.

00:36:38 I think that

00:36:40 with Thao's mentality,

00:36:42 it's more difficult

00:36:44 than others can cry.

00:36:46 Because I can't express my feelings.

00:36:48 At that time,

00:36:50 no one can understand

00:36:52 my feeling of loss and pain.

00:36:54 I understand your feeling.

00:36:56 With that kind of mentality,

00:36:58 it's very difficult

00:37:00 for me to accept

00:37:02 and overcome.

00:37:04 But whatever happens, it has to happen.

00:37:06 We have to fight to get our child back.

00:37:08 Yes, that's right.

00:37:10 I was lucky

00:37:12 to wake up after that surgery.

00:37:14 I knew that I was still alive.

00:37:16 But

00:37:18 the question is

00:37:20 if I was still able

00:37:22 to have a child.

00:37:24 During the hospital days,

00:37:26 I didn't dare to ask anyone.

00:37:28 I didn't dare to ask my mom or my husband.

00:37:30 Because you were afraid of the result.

00:37:32 Yes, I was afraid.

00:37:34 I was afraid of the result.

00:37:36 I couldn't stand it.

00:37:38 Until the day

00:37:40 I left the hospital,

00:37:42 I took my paper and

00:37:44 read my medical report.

00:37:46 I had an answer.

00:37:48 I was relieved.

00:37:50 In the hospital,

00:37:52 my husband told me to go home.

00:37:54 Because there were

00:37:56 crying babies around me.

00:37:58 There were also mothers around me.

00:38:00 He was afraid that

00:38:02 my mental state would get worse.

00:38:04 So he told me to go home.

00:38:06 The doctor said no.

00:38:08 I had to stay in the hospital.

00:38:10 I had to stay there for a few more days.

00:38:12 Then I could go home.

00:38:14 Before I left, the doctor told me

00:38:16 that I had to stay in the hospital

00:38:18 for 2 years to have a baby.

00:38:20 So,

00:38:22 the time you expected

00:38:24 to have a baby

00:38:26 was 2 years ago?

00:38:28 No, because I was also afraid.

00:38:30 I wanted to prepare

00:38:32 for my second child.

00:38:34 But I had to prepare

00:38:36 for my second child first.

00:38:38 I had many plans.

00:38:40 I wanted to go to school,

00:38:42 I wanted to work.

00:38:44 I also had a plan

00:38:46 to take care of my husband.

00:38:48 At that time,

00:38:50 my husband and I had not done anything.

00:38:52 I was expecting to have a second child.

00:38:54 How many months did you wait?

00:38:56 I had a surgery

00:38:58 to recover my health in November.

00:39:00 Then,

00:39:02 in mid-February,

00:39:04 I was told that I was pregnant.

00:39:06 So, it was 3-4 months.

00:39:08 It was very dangerous.

00:39:10 Actually, with many trips,

00:39:12 we always have the first question

00:39:14 about how to receive the news

00:39:16 that the baby was born.

00:39:18 But actually, there are stories in life

00:39:20 that are not the beginning,

00:39:22 but the connection.

00:39:24 We are not always waiting

00:39:26 and happy.

00:39:28 Like today,

00:39:30 we haven't been able to get over the pain

00:39:32 and we haven't been able to feel at ease.

00:39:34 So,

00:39:36 when you saw the news,

00:39:38 you started to worry.

00:39:40 You decided to try the surgery.

00:39:42 It was a double surgery.

00:39:44 What did you do

00:39:46 and how did you talk to your husband?

00:39:48 We were both

00:39:50 happy and scared.

00:39:52 When I tried the surgery,

00:39:54 tears came out.

00:39:56 I was happy

00:39:58 because I had a baby.

00:40:00 But I was scared

00:40:02 and I didn't know

00:40:04 if I had done anything

00:40:06 or prepared for my health.

00:40:08 I didn't know

00:40:10 if the baby would stay

00:40:12 or come back to me.

00:40:14 We went to the hospital

00:40:18 to check

00:40:20 if the baby was real.

00:40:22 When I arrived at the hospital,

00:40:24 the doctor said

00:40:26 I had just seen

00:40:28 the baby's formation

00:40:30 in the uterus.

00:40:32 I hadn't seen the baby's

00:40:34 full-time.

00:40:36 But when I tested the blood,

00:40:38 the BCR,

00:40:40 BCR is the test for COVID.

00:40:42 BCR is the test for COVID.

00:40:44 We should be less aggressive.

00:40:46 The doctor tested

00:40:48 the level of blood

00:40:50 and the hormone

00:40:52 to see if the baby was real.

00:40:54 The result was very high.

00:40:56 But I still hadn't seen the baby's full-time.

00:40:58 I was worried.

00:41:00 The doctor told me

00:41:02 there was a risk of having a miscarriage.

00:41:04 But if

00:41:06 I had a real baby,

00:41:08 would I keep the baby?

00:41:10 I told him I would.

00:41:12 The risk of having a miscarriage is high.

00:41:14 Because we just had the surgery

00:41:16 a few months ago.

00:41:18 The surgery directly affected the uterus.

00:41:20 So the mechanism

00:41:22 of the uterus

00:41:24 was not fully recovered.

00:41:26 There were many risks

00:41:28 of having a miscarriage.

00:41:30 I was very worried

00:41:32 that the baby would have a miscarriage.

00:41:34 I had a miscarriage too.

00:41:36 It was dangerous.

00:41:38 It was only a few months.

00:41:40 But I received many

00:41:42 messages and information

00:41:44 that made me confused.

00:41:46 The doctor explained

00:41:48 the risks to me.

00:41:50 He drew my uterus.

00:41:52 He said

00:41:54 the baby was only 24-25 weeks old.

00:41:56 The uterus was still very high.

00:41:58 For a mother

00:42:00 who is a month old,

00:42:02 the uterus is low.

00:42:04 If I kept the baby,

00:42:06 the risk of having a miscarriage

00:42:08 would be very high.

00:42:10 It would be dangerous for me

00:42:12 if I couldn't keep the baby.

00:42:14 I asked him if he wanted to keep the baby.

00:42:16 He said yes.

00:42:18 I thought

00:42:20 the doctor had to explain

00:42:22 to me about the medical side.

00:42:24 But he said

00:42:26 I should go home and observe.

00:42:28 If I had a stomachache,

00:42:30 I should go to the hospital

00:42:32 to observe the uterus.

00:42:34 If not,

00:42:36 he would give me a date

00:42:38 and he would do a surgery

00:42:40 to take the baby out of my womb.

00:42:42 I was very angry.

00:42:44 You were angry.

00:42:46 Yes, I was.

00:42:48 I knew it was a medical thing.

00:42:50 But I was angry.

00:42:52 I love both sides.

00:42:54 I believe that doctors can't do anything wrong

00:42:56 to the health of the baby.

00:42:58 I prayed to the doctor

00:43:00 to take care of the pregnant women.

00:43:02 The pregnant women

00:43:04 had to keep the baby

00:43:06 even if they died.

00:43:08 I was so angry.

00:43:10 I don't know how to explain

00:43:12 to both sides.

00:43:14 How long did you stay angry?

00:43:16 I went home to find another doctor.

00:43:18 You went to another doctor.

00:43:20 I went to find two more doctors.

00:43:22 I wanted to find

00:43:24 a doctor

00:43:26 who could give me the answer I wanted.

00:43:28 You were so eager.

00:43:30 It's like you want to listen to advice

00:43:32 but you have to listen to your own advice.

00:43:34 If you listen to someone else's advice,

00:43:36 you feel like you're being persuaded.

00:43:38 How did you find the doctor?

00:43:40 I had to find the fourth doctor.

00:43:42 I went to the fourth doctor

00:43:44 and he understood my situation.

00:43:46 He said that

00:43:48 he would take care of the baby.

00:43:50 He would take care of the baby.

00:43:52 The third doctors

00:43:54 I met

00:43:56 explained to my husband

00:43:58 that the situation was like that

00:44:00 and there were risks

00:44:02 during the pregnancy.

00:44:04 The doctor couldn't

00:44:06 promise

00:44:08 to protect the baby and the mother

00:44:10 so he said that

00:44:12 if he wanted to protect the baby,

00:44:14 he would do it.

00:44:16 But if there was a risk,

00:44:18 my husband had to take responsibility.

00:44:20 The baby was 5 weeks old.

00:44:22 When the doctor said that

00:44:24 the baby was 5 weeks old

00:44:26 and the heart was already in the womb,

00:44:28 I saw that the heart was beating very fast.

00:44:30 It was only 5 weeks old

00:44:32 and the heart was already in the womb.

00:44:34 I was still confused

00:44:36 and didn't know

00:44:38 what to do.

00:44:40 I told my husband

00:44:42 that I had already had the surgery

00:44:44 and I was not afraid anymore.

00:44:46 I told my husband that

00:44:48 I had already had the surgery

00:44:50 and I was not afraid anymore.

00:44:52 I told my husband that

00:44:54 I would protect the baby.

00:44:56 My husband said that

00:44:58 it was up to me

00:45:00 because it was my body.

00:45:02 He would respect my decision.

00:45:04 But if I protected the baby,

00:45:06 we would try to protect the baby.

00:45:08 Luckily,

00:45:10 I was introduced to a fourth doctor.

00:45:12 I told him that

00:45:14 I was glad to have him.

00:45:16 I told him that

00:45:18 he said what I wanted to hear.

00:45:20 For people like me,

00:45:22 the psychological side is very important.

00:45:24 The psychological side is very important.

00:45:26 But the doctor gave me

00:45:28 a sense of security.

00:45:30 I didn't know

00:45:32 how the medical care

00:45:34 would be.

00:45:36 But I was reassured

00:45:38 because the doctor gave me

00:45:40 a sense of security.

00:45:42 The show is a bit long,

00:45:44 but the doctor has a lot of

00:45:46 feelings.

00:45:48 First, there is a lot of pressure.

00:45:50 In the medical field,

00:45:52 doctors have to work very hard.

00:45:54 It's like a romantic movie.

00:45:56 The overload of work

00:45:58 doesn't allow them

00:46:00 to stop for too long.

00:46:02 It's also related to

00:46:04 the characteristics of the profession.

00:46:06 Sometimes, they have to be clear.

00:46:08 Secondly,

00:46:10 we only have one pain.

00:46:12 But the doctor can witness

00:46:14 dozens of pains a day.

00:46:16 There are pains that we can't imagine.

00:46:18 So they don't just

00:46:20 give the right answer.

00:46:22 The right answer is 1+1=2.

00:46:24 I tell you 1+1=2.

00:46:26 You can use 1.5

00:46:28 or 2.

00:46:30 I calculated it.

00:46:32 There are more patients

00:46:34 with this disease than doctors in Vietnam.

00:46:36 That's right.

00:46:38 When I was filling out the form,

00:46:40 I cried and wet the paper.

00:46:42 The doctor said,

00:46:44 "It's nothing."

00:46:46 "It's nothing."

00:46:48 The doctor was shaking his shoulder

00:46:50 and hugged me.

00:46:52 It was so painful.

00:46:54 I thought,

00:46:56 "This must happen

00:46:58 every day."

00:47:00 For doctors,

00:47:02 it's not a big deal.

00:47:04 It's not a big deal.

00:47:06 But they don't have time.

00:47:08 They don't have property.

00:47:10 I still believe in doctors.

00:47:12 The films you made

00:47:14 are not realistic.

00:47:16 Every time I receive a news,

00:47:18 the doctors are angry.

00:47:20 Films don't have the right

00:47:22 to convey our wishes.

00:47:24 So let's move on.

00:47:26 Who knows what will happen next?

00:47:28 But you have a heart.

00:47:30 Your baby is here.

00:47:32 During the process of breastfeeding,

00:47:34 did you have any worries

00:47:36 during the period

00:47:38 of breastfeeding?

00:47:40 When I first started,

00:47:42 the journey was still long.

00:47:44 So I was very worried

00:47:46 at first.

00:47:48 Because

00:47:50 the baby was already in my belly.

00:47:52 I decided to keep it.

00:47:54 I just followed the instructions.

00:47:56 If there were any risks,

00:47:58 I wouldn't be able to intervene.

00:48:00 Because I had decided.

00:48:02 I cried a lot in the first few months.

00:48:04 I was so scared.

00:48:06 I was afraid

00:48:08 I wouldn't know

00:48:10 how it would go.

00:48:12 When I met this doctor,

00:48:14 I did a lot of tests

00:48:16 to assess

00:48:18 the situation of my two babies.

00:48:20 When I got the results,

00:48:22 there were a lot of risks.

00:48:24 But the doctor didn't tell me.

00:48:26 I didn't know until later.

00:48:28 But the doctor didn't tell me.

00:48:30 He would silently treat me.

00:48:32 But there was a big risk

00:48:34 that I had to tell him.

00:48:36 He said that

00:48:38 there was a virus in my blood

00:48:40 called B19.

00:48:42 How did he explain

00:48:44 to you about B19?

00:48:46 He explained that

00:48:48 this virus is usually found

00:48:50 in small children.

00:48:52 It will spread to

00:48:54 the children on the cheeks.

00:48:56 For adults like me,

00:48:58 it's also there.

00:49:00 But it's okay.

00:49:02 But for pregnant women,

00:49:04 it's very dangerous.

00:49:06 Because it will attack the baby

00:49:08 and cause infertility.

00:49:10 It will take away all the nutrients.

00:49:12 It will cause infertility.

00:49:14 The doctor said

00:49:16 that this virus couldn't be treated.

00:49:18 He said that he couldn't intervene.

00:49:20 He could only monitor

00:49:22 the baby's condition

00:49:24 and see if it was safe

00:49:26 or not.

00:49:28 He said that

00:49:30 I had to tell him.

00:49:32 It's like

00:49:34 having a trap in your house.

00:49:36 But you don't know when

00:49:38 they will set a trap.

00:49:40 You only know to be careful.

00:49:42 I was very scared.

00:49:44 I asked him

00:49:46 if the virus

00:49:48 would attack the baby

00:49:50 and cause any symptoms.

00:49:52 He said no.

00:49:54 It's just a trap.

00:49:56 People eat and steal.

00:49:58 They don't steal.

00:50:00 You only know when you lose it.

00:50:02 Poor him.

00:50:04 He was in a very unstable state.

00:50:06 He couldn't control anything.

00:50:08 We hear a lot about

00:50:10 the symptoms of the disease.

00:50:12 When mothers read books,

00:50:14 they know about the symptoms.

00:50:16 They know about the symptoms of the disease.

00:50:18 They know about the symptoms of the disease.

00:50:20 They know about the symptoms of the disease.

00:50:22 They know about the symptoms of the disease.

00:50:24 They know about the symptoms of the disease.

00:50:26 They know about the symptoms of the disease.

00:50:28 They know about the symptoms of the disease.

00:50:30 They know about the symptoms of the disease.

00:50:32 How long did it take you

00:50:34 to get a check-up?

00:50:36 I remember

00:50:38 it took about 2 weeks.

00:50:40 Sometimes, it took a month.

00:50:42 At first,

00:50:44 I had to go to the doctor every 2 weeks

00:50:46 to get a check-up.

00:50:48 I was still a kid.

00:50:50 When the doctor checked me,

00:50:52 I was fine.

00:50:54 I went to the doctor once a month.

00:50:56 The doctor told me

00:50:58 to live my life.

00:51:00 I was not afraid of anything.

00:51:02 I had a doctor.

00:51:04 I didn't have to search

00:51:06 on Google.

00:51:08 I was at home and I was free.

00:51:10 I searched for information

00:51:12 on Google.

00:51:14 I found out that it was dangerous.

00:51:16 There were mothers

00:51:18 who had the virus

00:51:20 in their body.

00:51:22 They lost their babies

00:51:24 because of the virus.

00:51:26 The doctor told me

00:51:28 that there was a mother

00:51:30 who came to him every 32 weeks.

00:51:32 She also had the virus

00:51:34 in her body.

00:51:36 But it was too late.

00:51:38 The doctor said

00:51:40 that it was too fast.

00:51:42 I couldn't do anything.

00:51:44 I had to follow the baby closely.

00:51:46 Every time I went to the doctor,

00:51:48 my heart was beating

00:51:50 because I was scared.

00:51:52 I was scared.

00:51:54 I was scared.

00:51:56 I had to measure

00:51:58 many things.

00:52:00 I had to measure the pulse

00:52:02 and the thickness of the baby

00:52:04 to see if it was normal.

00:52:06 If it was normal,

00:52:08 I could breathe easily.

00:52:10 You were very nervous

00:52:12 and anxious

00:52:14 until the day

00:52:16 you gave birth.

00:52:18 Yes.

00:52:20 I tried not to make

00:52:22 the anxiety

00:52:24 and negative feelings

00:52:26 too big.

00:52:28 I was afraid it would affect the baby.

00:52:30 How was your day?

00:52:32 I was 38 weeks pregnant.

00:52:34 I was 38 weeks pregnant.

00:52:36 The doctor said

00:52:38 that I was fine.

00:52:40 I had to wait a few more days

00:52:42 to have the surgery.

00:52:44 I was scared.

00:52:46 I didn't know what would happen.

00:52:48 The doctor told me

00:52:50 that the surgery would be on Friday.

00:52:52 I said that Saturday would be fine.

00:52:54 I was supposed to have the surgery on October 10, 2020.

00:52:56 I was supposed to have the surgery on October 10, 2020.

00:52:58 The doctor asked me

00:53:00 when I would have the surgery.

00:53:02 I said that I didn't dare to argue.

00:53:04 On Friday, my husband and I

00:53:06 packed our luggage.

00:53:08 The doctor checked my body again.

00:53:10 He said that the surgery would be on Saturday.

00:53:12 I said that Saturday would be fine.

00:53:14 I was happy.

00:53:16 I went home.

00:53:18 I went home.

00:53:20 I was hospitalized that night.

00:53:22 The surgery would be the earliest

00:53:24 in the morning.

00:53:26 I was hospitalized that night.

00:53:28 There was a bed in the room

00:53:30 for my parents.

00:53:32 My husband had a bed

00:53:34 for his relatives.

00:53:36 He was a bit scared

00:53:38 of the bed.

00:53:40 He was afraid that it would be dirty.

00:53:42 He slept on the sofa.

00:53:44 He was big.

00:53:46 He slept on the sofa.

00:53:48 He couldn't sleep.

00:53:50 He asked me to sleep on the bed

00:53:52 that was for us.

00:53:54 I said that I would have him sleep on the bed

00:53:56 for me.

00:53:58 He said that he couldn't sleep on the bed.

00:54:00 That time,

00:54:02 I trusted the doctor

00:54:04 and his surgery team.

00:54:06 The surgery

00:54:08 was safe

00:54:10 and smooth.

00:54:12 At that time,

00:54:14 I was scared.

00:54:16 The doctor said that

00:54:18 I was a worried person.

00:54:20 I didn't have to worry.

00:54:22 That time,

00:54:24 my husband came

00:54:26 to the green room with me.

00:54:28 When I saw him

00:54:30 wearing a protective suit

00:54:32 in the green room,

00:54:34 he looked like a hero.

00:54:36 I have never seen

00:54:38 my husband being so

00:54:40 great in my life.

00:54:42 I was lying down.

00:54:44 I was in surgery.

00:54:46 There was a part

00:54:48 that I was afraid of the doctor.

00:54:50 I was afraid that he would be angry

00:54:52 and I would have to have a stroke.

00:54:54 I didn't know why

00:54:56 I couldn't hold him back.

00:54:58 The doctor had to put a needle in my nose.

00:55:00 I couldn't follow

00:55:02 the doctor's instructions.

00:55:04 Was it because your stomach was hard?

00:55:06 I think so.

00:55:08 I couldn't hold him back.

00:55:10 I had to swing for 10 minutes.

00:55:12 You had to get the right joint.

00:55:14 It was not painful.

00:55:16 It was not only painful,

00:55:18 but also very dangerous.

00:55:20 For 10 minutes,

00:55:22 the doctor had to do a surgery

00:55:24 and a nurse

00:55:26 came to help.

00:55:28 I couldn't

00:55:30 hold him back.

00:55:32 When the surgery was done,

00:55:34 the light was shining down.

00:55:36 I was lying down.

00:55:38 I couldn't see clearly

00:55:40 but I could see the red light.

00:55:42 I was afraid.

00:55:44 I closed my eyes.

00:55:46 My husband was next to me.

00:55:48 He said, "Please hold the knife."

00:55:50 I said, "I'm a surgeon."

00:55:52 "I can smell it."

00:55:54 Why did he decide

00:55:56 to do a surgery for you?

00:55:58 I don't know.

00:56:00 I was afraid that I would close my eyes.

00:56:02 He said, "I'm a surgeon."

00:56:04 He was afraid that you would close your eyes.

00:56:06 He said, "I have to give you a sound."

00:56:08 He was very enthusiastic.

00:56:10 I couldn't smell it.

00:56:12 What smell?

00:56:14 The smell of the knife

00:56:16 was coming to my body.

00:56:18 I couldn't hold it back.

00:56:20 He said, "Be quiet."

00:56:22 He was a foreigner.

00:56:24 He said, "BBQ?"

00:56:26 "BBQ?"

00:56:28 "Be quiet."

00:56:30 I was very afraid.

00:56:32 He said, "Be quiet."

00:56:34 About 20 minutes later,

00:56:36 I think it was about 20 minutes,

00:56:38 the doctor took my son out.

00:56:40 I heard my son crying.

00:56:42 My tears came out.

00:56:44 My husband was crying.

00:56:46 He said, "Don't cry anymore."

00:56:48 "I'll be there."

00:56:50 "My son has two arms."

00:56:52 "My son has two legs."

00:56:54 "Ten fingers."

00:56:56 "Ten legs."

00:56:58 He was a top student.

00:57:00 He was like, "This one has two arms and two legs."

00:57:02 "This one has two arms and two legs."

00:57:04 He was like, "This one has two arms and two legs."

00:57:06 He had a happy feeling.

00:57:08 He had been in love for a long time.

00:57:10 He was in love for a long time.

00:57:12 I cried.

00:57:14 I tried to hold back my tears.

00:57:16 I tried to hold back my tears.

00:57:18 I was afraid that the oxygen

00:57:20 would be in my nose.

00:57:22 I was afraid that my blood pressure

00:57:24 would be unstable.

00:57:26 Luckily,

00:57:28 after 38 weeks and 5 days,

00:57:30 all the fear

00:57:32 and difficulties

00:57:34 were over.

00:57:36 I was relieved.

00:57:38 I was relieved.

00:57:40 I was very nervous.

00:57:42 I was afraid that

00:57:44 something would happen

00:57:46 and I would be worried.

00:57:48 Luckily, it ended peacefully.

00:57:50 After that,

00:57:52 the doctor visited me again.

00:57:54 He said,

00:57:56 "Your son has many risks."

00:57:58 "Your son has many risks."

00:58:00 "But he is still alive."

00:58:02 "But he is still alive."

00:58:04 "I was happy to know how dangerous it was."

00:58:06 "I was happy to know how dangerous it was."

00:58:08 "I was happy to know how dangerous it was."

00:58:10 "I was afraid."

00:58:12 "I was afraid."

00:58:14 I think with your experience,

00:58:16 you know what to say

00:58:18 and what not to say.

00:58:20 If you don't know what to say,

00:58:22 you should have a signal

00:58:24 to tell him not to tell anyone.

00:58:26 to tell him not to tell anyone.

00:58:28 It doesn't mean that

00:58:30 you can hide everything.

00:58:32 It doesn't mean that you can hide everything.

00:58:34 It depends on the person.

00:58:36 It's hard to be a doctor.

00:58:38 How do you take care of your son?

00:58:40 How do you stop

00:58:42 when he is still alive?

00:58:44 when he is still alive?

00:58:46 Or is it still a problem?

00:58:48 Or is it still a problem?

00:58:50 Or is it still a problem?

00:58:52 Or is it still a problem?

00:58:54 I pay attention to the diet.

00:58:56 I pay attention to the diet.

00:58:58 My son,

00:59:00 the doctor told me not to let him grow up too much.

00:59:02 the doctor told me not to let him grow up too much.

00:59:04 Because it will be dangerous.

00:59:06 He should have enough weight.

00:59:08 Once, I gained a lot of weight.

00:59:10 The doctor was very angry.

00:59:12 He said he was afraid that

00:59:14 I would gain weight and my son would gain weight.

00:59:16 It would affect my old surgery.

00:59:18 My son was 3.2 kg when he was born.

00:59:20 My son was 3.2 kg when he was born.

00:59:22 Luckily, he was strong

00:59:24 Luckily, he was strong

00:59:26 and well taken care of.

00:59:28 and well taken care of.

00:59:30 So, in terms of his health,

00:59:32 I didn't have to worry about anything.

00:59:34 I didn't have to worry about anything.

00:59:36 I didn't have to worry about anything.

00:59:38 I was less worried.

00:59:40 The doctor was very careful.

00:59:42 When I knew there was a risk,

00:59:44 When I knew there was a risk,

00:59:46 my team had Dr. Nhi Truong.

00:59:48 my team had Dr. Nhi Truong.

00:59:50 She told me that if there was anything urgent,

00:59:52 She told me that if there was anything urgent,

00:59:54 she would help me.

00:59:56 she would help me.

00:59:58 My son was very healthy.

01:00:00 My son was very healthy.

01:00:02 My journey to take care of my son

01:00:04 My journey to take care of my son

01:00:06 My journey to take care of my son

01:00:08 was very difficult.

01:00:10 was very difficult.

01:00:12 There were many people in the hospital.

01:00:14 There were many people in the hospital.

01:00:16 Please tell us about your journey to take care of your son.

01:00:18 Please tell us about your journey to take care of your son.

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01:08:26 At that time, I was very scared.

01:08:28 At that time, I was very scared.

01:08:30 But when I saw my daughter crying,

01:08:32 I cried along.

01:08:34 I was afraid. I didn't know why I had such a thought.

01:08:36 I was afraid. I didn't know why I had such a thought.

01:08:38 When I looked at my daughter,

01:08:40 I thought that

01:08:42 when I look at my daughter,

01:08:44 I should have thoughts,

01:08:46 words, and actions

01:08:48 to be alert.

01:08:50 I didn't share that story

01:08:52 with my relatives,

01:08:54 my parents,

01:08:56 because I was afraid that my mother would worry

01:08:58 about my life.

01:09:00 I only have two children.

01:09:02 But

01:09:04 my husband has accompanied me

01:09:06 more on my journey.

01:09:08 But I understand

01:09:10 that problem from my side.

01:09:12 Now I let him

01:09:14 step into the lives of my two children

01:09:16 more.

01:09:18 He is not irresponsible.

01:09:20 He doesn't take care of his wife

01:09:22 or his children.

01:09:24 That's my psychological problem.

01:09:26 I have talked to my husband

01:09:28 and my friends.

01:09:30 I can gradually balance it.

01:09:32 Now I have

01:09:34 been released.

01:09:36 Finally,

01:09:38 each journey can be different.

01:09:40 But the key

01:09:42 to get out of stress,

01:09:44 depression, and postpartum,

01:09:46 is still very basic.

01:09:48 First, there must be sharing,

01:09:50 sharing information.

01:09:52 Sharing information with others

01:09:54 will affect each person's relationship.

01:09:56 But if you keep it in your heart,

01:09:58 it's not good.

01:10:00 Second, you must have your own activity

01:10:02 and life.

01:10:04 A woman's life,

01:10:06 not a mother's.

01:10:08 We often forget ourselves when we are a mother.

01:10:10 That makes us feel trapped.

01:10:12 Why do I have to wear pants like this?

01:10:14 People leave themselves.

01:10:16 Find yourself.

01:10:18 Find your balance.

01:10:20 Third,

01:10:22 being a mother

01:10:24 is not only about love,

01:10:26 but also responsibility.

01:10:28 There are many other problems.

01:10:30 We will calm down.

01:10:32 So, there is no quiet person

01:10:34 who can handle depression.

01:10:36 I see many people

01:10:38 handle it well.

01:10:40 When you are too depressed,

01:10:42 you feel tired,

01:10:44 you can't share it with anyone.

01:10:46 If you can find your key,

01:10:48 it's because you don't share it.

01:10:50 You can solve it by sending your child

01:10:52 to go out.

01:10:54 Go for 2 days.

01:10:56 Go to the beach,

01:10:58 go to the forest, go to the mountains.

01:11:00 You go to release

01:11:02 the positive energy

01:11:04 in your body.

01:11:06 When you go,

01:11:08 you feel very comfortable.

01:11:10 You can accept

01:11:12 a more positive situation.

01:11:14 You can share it

01:11:16 with others.

01:11:18 It's like

01:11:20 the negative energy

01:11:22 in a pregnant woman's body

01:11:24 is like a button.

01:11:26 It's like a button.

01:11:28 When you release it,

01:11:30 you feel very comfortable.

01:11:32 Or you can send your child

01:11:34 and your husband to go together.

01:11:36 When I sit here,

01:11:38 I hear such sharing.

01:11:40 I think it's very good.

01:11:42 I hope that in the future,

01:11:44 besides finding your key,

01:11:46 you will have more ways

01:11:48 to deal with it.

01:11:50 It will bring you more positive energy.

01:11:52 Yes.

01:11:54 Now,

01:11:56 you are 15 months old.

01:11:58 You have solved

01:12:00 many difficult psychological problems.

01:12:02 When you come back,

01:12:04 do you feel comfortable

01:12:06 with your husband and wife?

01:12:10 Because

01:12:12 I have a tumor.

01:12:14 The doctor said that I should

01:12:16 wait for the time

01:12:18 to recover.

01:12:20 My husband and I

01:12:24 have

01:12:26 started to get together.

01:12:28 Do you feel comfortable?

01:12:30 Actually,

01:12:34 I don't feel

01:12:36 comfortable like before having a child.

01:12:38 Because I'm too tired.

01:12:40 And my brain is always

01:12:42 a child.

01:12:44 But I want to ask you this.

01:12:46 Do you feel like

01:12:48 when you are too tired

01:12:50 and stressful,

01:12:52 connecting with your husband

01:12:54 through the relationship

01:12:56 will bring you freedom

01:12:58 to get back the feeling

01:13:00 of being shared,

01:13:02 close, and having someone to accompany you?

01:13:04 The element of

01:13:06 the relationship

01:13:08 is one of the factors

01:13:10 to gradually recover the connection

01:13:12 between you and your husband?

01:13:14 I think so.

01:13:16 Because my husband and I

01:13:22 have been sleeping separately

01:13:24 since I had a baby.

01:13:26 My two children sleep in one room

01:13:28 and my father sleeps in another room.

01:13:30 So I can feel

01:13:32 the loss of the connection.

01:13:34 And gradually,

01:13:36 we have more space

01:13:38 between us.

01:13:40 So I'm more active

01:13:42 in that.

01:13:44 Because I think

01:13:46 maybe

01:13:48 because we are so far apart,

01:13:50 the connection

01:13:52 is not there anymore.

01:13:54 And the stress of raising a child

01:13:56 and I'm afraid that the love

01:13:58 will be lost.

01:14:00 That's it, everyone.

01:14:02 The relationship between husband and wife

01:14:04 is not just about physical contact.

01:14:06 It's a whole story.

01:14:08 It's art.

01:14:10 Now,

01:14:12 we have gone through

01:14:14 two very difficult

01:14:16 and worrying pregnancies.

01:14:18 We have gone through

01:14:20 many emotions.

01:14:22 And we thought that

01:14:24 the pregnancy would be happy

01:14:26 but it was not.

01:14:28 Now we have gone through

01:14:30 a dark period.

01:14:32 Now we have a new journey

01:14:34 which is brighter, more comfortable

01:14:36 and we can connect more with our husband.

01:14:38 So now, do you have any message

01:14:40 for anyone?

01:14:42 For parents, husband

01:14:44 or other people who have children?

01:14:46 This is

01:14:48 your 5 minutes of light.

01:14:50 Well,

01:14:52 I want to encourage

01:14:54 mothers

01:14:56 who have gone through

01:14:58 a hard time like me.

01:15:00 I hope that

01:15:02 you will always be strong

01:15:04 and keep the belief

01:15:06 that your child will come to you.

01:15:08 Because

01:15:10 all the good things

01:15:12 are worth waiting for.

01:15:14 I also want to thank

01:15:16 my mother

01:15:18 and my husband's mother

01:15:20 for taking care of me

01:15:22 and my child.

01:15:24 I also want to thank

01:15:26 my friends and family

01:15:28 for giving me energy

01:15:30 and love

01:15:32 and care for me and my child.

01:15:34 in 2 weeks.

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