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00:00 [The most beautiful girl in the world]

00:03 [The most beautiful girl in the world]

00:09 I was so dizzy. I was lying in the rain. I was so dizzy.

00:13 I went to the hospital.

00:15 The doctor told me I had an anemia.

00:18 I took an anemia pill for a week.

00:21 - Oh my god. - Oh my god.

00:22 I went home and I tried it.

00:24 I saw my fetus was moving.

00:27 [The fetus was moving]

00:30 - It didn't move at all. - It didn't move at all.

00:32 I found out that the fetus was 2 years old.

00:34 [The fetus was 2 years old]

00:36 In the first election, I was lucky to have a baby.

00:39 I had my first 20 days.

00:41 I had to take care of my baby for 20 days.

00:43 But after 20 days, I had to do everything by myself.

00:46 I had nightmares.

00:48 Every time I took the milk machine, I cried.

00:50 [I had nightmares]

00:52 [The most beautiful girl in the world]

00:54 [The most beautiful girl in the world]

00:56 Welcome back to the show "Tam Tinh Biem Sua"

00:59 in the "Tap with Mom" version.

01:01 The show is broadcast at 9.15 p.m. on HTV9 and Wednesdays.

01:05 Thank you, Fito Bimbi Omega Junior, Omega Pharmaceuticals,

01:09 for supporting the development of good brain for the eyes.

01:11 The product has been used for the baby since the age of 1.

01:14 The product has been imported from Italy.

01:16 It has been sponsored by the show.

01:18 The person who accompanies Ngoc Lan is the psychologist, To Nhi A.

01:21 - I've been waiting for you. - Hello.

01:24 Today, we will meet a person that I admire.

01:28 I admire her for her body.

01:34 Let's meet the model, Mau Thuy.

01:37 Wow.

01:39 Thank you, Fito Bimbi.

01:41 Goodbye, baby.

01:43 - Hello. - Goodbye, baby.

01:45 I can't believe I have a baby.

01:48 It's nothing different.

01:50 I've been pregnant for 6 months.

01:53 - It's been a long time. - Yes.

01:55 The Queen, Mau Thuy, is the winner of the Vietnam Next Top Model 2013.

02:01 In 2017, she participated in the Queen of Vietnam and won the second prize.

02:07 In addition, the beauty has been on the international stage many times,

02:10 such as New York Fashion Week 2015, New York Culture Fashion Week.

02:15 In October 2022, the Queen, Mau Thuy, suddenly announced that she had a baby.

02:21 In February 2023, she gave birth to a baby boy who was very cute and cute.

02:27 People don't know about this baby.

02:30 If they don't update, they won't think that this is a baby from a mother.

02:35 How long have you been pregnant?

02:37 I've been pregnant for 5 months.

02:39 Oh.

02:40 4 and a half months.

02:42 I don't remember how many months I was pregnant.

02:45 I counted it. 5 months, 6 months.

02:49 But it's been 4 and a half months.

02:51 Wow.

02:52 The baby is 5 months plus 9 months and 10 days.

02:55 It's new.

02:57 Your pregnancy journey has been more than a year.

03:00 More than a year.

03:01 - So this memory is still fresh, right? - Yes.

03:03 Let's start.

03:05 [The story of the pregnancy]

03:07 When I knew that I was pregnant, I asked my friend to tell me.

03:11 - I participated in... - Why is it strange?

03:13 I didn't know anything.

03:15 I participated in a reality show.

03:19 I had 3 minutes to be a live MC.

03:23 I was so nervous.

03:25 At 6 or 7 p.m., I drank a cup of coffee to wake up.

03:30 I was a MC to make it more fun.

03:32 The next day, I was in front of my face.

03:34 I was lying down and I was in front of my face.

03:38 I was lying down and I heard someone saying that I was in front of my face.

03:41 I texted my friend.

03:43 "I'm in front of my face. Let's go to the hospital."

03:47 I went to the hospital.

03:49 The doctor said I had a concussion.

03:51 I had to take medicine for a week.

03:53 Oh my god.

03:54 I didn't hear anything.

03:57 I heard you but I didn't hear anything.

04:00 For example, I went to the hospital.

04:02 - You just looked at your face and waited for the doctor? - Yes.

04:06 I didn't finish it in a week.

04:07 I went to the cafe with my friends.

04:09 I talked to them.

04:10 "Why do you keep looking at my face? You can't finish it."

04:13 In the group, there was a gay girl.

04:16 - She said, "Be careful, you might get pregnant." - Excellent.

04:19 I told you.

04:20 There should be a friend in the LGBTQ+ community.

04:24 She's delicate.

04:25 I was surprised and said, "How do you know?"

04:27 She said, "There was a girl who was pregnant."

04:31 I was pregnant.

04:33 I was like you.

04:36 I was surprised and nervous.

04:39 I didn't have a month.

04:42 I went home and tried it.

04:44 I saw my pregnancy test was white.

04:47 - It didn't show any signs. - No.

04:51 I found out that it was 2 years old.

04:56 I bought it 2 years ago.

04:58 Wait.

04:59 It was white and didn't show any signs.

05:01 - It was out of stock. - It was out of stock for a long time.

05:04 It was a useless test.

05:06 - What happened? - I was nervous.

05:09 I texted my friend.

05:11 "I'm scared."

05:13 He said, "Don't be scared. You're pregnant. Just give birth."

05:16 - That's right. - I tried it.

05:19 I didn't tell him anything.

05:21 I went to online stores.

05:24 I bought it.

05:25 I tried it.

05:26 I bought 2 tubes of acne cream.

05:30 - Wait. - It's strange.

05:32 I think when you're pregnant, you're exposed to skin.

05:37 I bought it.

05:38 I texted my friend. "I'm pregnant."

05:40 Thuy, you're so...

05:42 - I want to calm down. - You're calm in that situation.

05:45 I was scared at first.

05:48 - That's right. - I was scared because I hadn't tried it.

05:52 Because you weren't ready.

05:54 The pregnancy test was 2 years old.

05:56 - That's right. - 2 years ago, we...

05:59 - That's right. - Where was it?

06:01 I bought it and put it there.

06:03 I was nervous when I was pregnant.

06:06 I tried it. I didn't need to buy medicine.

06:09 I put it there.

06:11 I didn't use it.

06:13 I had a chance to use it 2 years later.

06:15 - Your career was good at that time. - That's right.

06:18 Did you have any difficulties at that time?

06:21 For example, some projects that you had to postpone.

06:24 Your job was directly related to your body shape.

06:28 You had to say a lot. For example, actors.

06:30 Sometimes, you had to avoid the role by your clothes or your role.

06:34 For example, I was pregnant and I had to film until Saturday.

06:38 But now, models, except when you were pregnant,

06:42 - the story was... - But I was pregnant.

06:46 So your job was very special.

06:49 It made you immediately think about it.

06:52 Did you have many difficulties at that time?

06:54 I had just opened a model training school.

06:58 My job was just starting.

07:01 I knew that when I started something, I needed time.

07:06 I held on to it. Then, luckily, it developed.

07:09 I hadn't held on to it yet.

07:11 It was only 6-7 months old.

07:13 The students started to register.

07:15 I was a little bit lazy.

07:17 I was pregnant.

07:19 People came to study there because of me.

07:22 I couldn't stand like that.

07:25 So I had to stop going to that school.

07:28 - You were stressed for your own startup. - Yes.

07:32 What was the first thing that came to your mind when you knew you were pregnant?

07:38 A lot.

07:39 It was like...

07:41 "Where should I give birth?"

07:44 "Where should I send my child to study?"

07:46 "What milk should I give her?"

07:48 "What mask should I wear?"

07:49 "What should I wear to university?"

07:51 A thousand ideas came to my mind.

07:53 "Where should I get money?"

07:55 All of those things were about money.

07:58 I'm sure that I have money now.

08:00 But I'm not sure if I'll have enough money in 10 or 20 years

08:04 to take care of my child in the best way.

08:07 That was a big question for me.

08:09 After all the imaginations,

08:11 you finally bought a skin care cream.

08:14 Yes.

08:15 I'm a self-loving person.

08:17 You stopped at a very specific thing.

08:20 But it's interesting.

08:22 As Thuy said, I was confused a lot.

08:24 But all of those confusions were about how my child would grow up with me.

08:32 The interesting and interesting thing was there.

08:35 It was already a ready-made thing.

08:38 So I was basically assured.

08:40 Actually, I was expecting a baby at 24 years old.

08:44 I suspected the fetus test 2 years ago.

08:46 I had a boyfriend at that time.

08:48 I knew that when a girl turns 20,

08:52 I thought I would have a baby at 24.

08:56 But when I turned 24, I thought,

08:58 "Wait a minute. I'm okay. I'm kind of successful."

09:02 I thought I would have a baby at 28.

09:05 Because I basically like babies.

09:07 I couldn't have a baby at 28.

09:09 I just had my postpartum surgery.

09:11 So I couldn't have a baby.

09:12 I didn't have a baby at 30.

09:14 When I didn't expect it,

09:16 I got a gift.

09:18 I felt that even though I had a lot of bad thoughts,

09:21 I felt that the God had told me to have a baby.

09:26 How did you get people's attention at that time?

09:29 From the public, fans, and family?

09:32 How did people receive this news?

09:34 I think they were quite surprised.

09:36 At first, my boyfriend knew it first.

09:39 Then I told my mom.

09:41 My boyfriend told my mother-in-law.

09:43 My mom-in-law talked to me like a tradition.

09:47 My mom-in-law talked to both families.

09:49 Everything was fine.

09:51 The first person I told was my stylist.

09:55 Because...

09:56 That's right.

09:57 I took a big outfit.

09:59 That's reasonable.

10:01 But my stylist didn't keep her mouth shut.

10:03 She told Vo Hoang Yen.

10:05 "You've talked too much. Who is it?"

10:07 Vo Hoang Yen is my best friend.

10:09 She told me at that time.

10:11 She said, "I can't stand it anymore."

10:14 "I have to tell you this."

10:16 "Thuy is pregnant."

10:18 Everyone knew it.

10:20 Only my two best friends didn't know.

10:23 They asked me to come there that day.

10:26 I tried to have a baby right in front of them.

10:28 They believed that I was pregnant.

10:30 Why did they doubt you?

10:32 I was pregnant.

10:34 I didn't say anything.

10:36 I thought she was just joking.

10:38 Who was doubted?

10:40 Yen.

10:42 "Yen, my dear."

10:44 I filmed a video about pregnancy.

10:46 I was happy.

10:48 That's normal.

10:50 Now we come to the pregnancy.

10:54 How was your pregnancy?

10:56 Did you have a lot of constipation?

10:58 How did your work go?

11:00 I stopped working until June.

11:04 I stayed home to keep the baby.

11:07 Actually, there was nothing wrong.

11:09 I was pregnant.

11:11 I didn't have any problem with eating.

11:15 I didn't like to eat much.

11:17 I was very slow.

11:19 I had a family, friends,

11:21 and I sent them oranges and flowers.

11:24 I just walked a lot.

11:27 I walked 5km everyday.

11:30 I was too fat to walk 5km.

11:33 I walked 1 hour everyday.

11:35 To prepare my body.

11:37 How was your school?

11:39 I stopped.

11:41 I think I will be free after giving birth.

11:44 I will work again.

11:46 I was so busy.

11:47 Where did you get the confidence to be free after giving birth?

11:49 I was going to start something else.

11:51 It's not too late.

11:53 The baby is not too late.

11:55 I was going to start a candle.

11:57 I thought I would work for 2 hours,

11:59 sleep for 2 hours,

12:01 and start something else.

12:03 You had to set up.

12:05 I bought a lot of things to take home.

12:07 I have been pregnant for 6 months.

12:09 Your pregnancy was smooth.

12:14 You didn't get bored.

12:16 You worked for 6 months.

12:18 How was your day?

12:20 I was 14 days pregnant.

12:22 It was Valentine's Day.

12:24 My father liked Valentine's Day.

12:26 Why?

12:28 Because the baby would be less pregnant.

12:30 That's right.

12:31 2 gifts for 1 day.

12:33 The baby would be less pregnant.

12:35 But I didn't have a day before Valentine's Day.

12:37 It was almost the day of giving birth.

12:39 The baby was not born yet.

12:41 I heard a lot of friends say

12:43 not to keep the baby in the womb for too long.

12:45 I said

12:47 if I didn't have the sign of giving birth,

12:49 I would take birth control pills.

12:51 But on the 13th,

12:53 I knew

12:55 pregnant women often have a lot of weight.

12:57 I was pregnant before.

12:59 I was heavier.

13:01 I was uncomfortable.

13:03 I couldn't walk for a long time.

13:05 I was uncomfortable.

13:07 I was uncomfortable from the morning to the evening.

13:09 When I got home,

13:11 I asked him if I was okay.

13:13 He said he didn't know if it was a sign of giving birth.

13:15 He said he would go to the hospital.

13:17 He would go to the hospital on the 14th.

13:19 The doctor said it was a sign of giving birth.

13:21 There was no sign of giving birth.

13:23 I was in labor.

13:27 I was in pain from 6 p.m.

13:29 to 3 p.m.

13:31 I thought it was normal.

13:33 There was no sign of giving birth.

13:35 Yes, there was no sign of giving birth.

13:37 Other pregnant women said, "Scream, vomit."

13:39 I was in the private room.

13:41 I didn't scream or vomit.

13:43 I just breathed.

13:45 I was in pain

13:47 and I was sleeping.

13:49 I was in pain and I was sleeping.

13:55 I woke up and I was in pain.

13:57 I was in pain and I was sleeping.

13:59 The doctor gave me a medicine.

14:01 It was a pain-free medicine.

14:03 I was so happy.

14:05 I was in pain and I was sleeping.

14:07 I was in pain and I was sleeping.

14:09 I was in pain and I was sleeping.

14:11 I slept from 3 a.m. to 6 a.m.

14:13 I slept from 3 a.m. to 6 a.m.

14:15 The doctor was waiting outside.

14:17 I was in a hurry.

14:19 I was in a hurry.

14:21 I gave birth at 7 a.m.

14:23 I was in a hurry.

14:25 Did the doctor tell you to wake up?

14:27 Yes.

14:29 I was in pain.

14:31 The doctor gave me a pain-free medicine.

14:33 I was in pain.

14:35 I had to give birth.

14:37 I was in pain.

14:39 I was a person who did too much.

14:41 I did too much.

14:43 I gave birth to 10 babies.

14:45 I gave birth to 10 babies.

14:47 The doctor said, "Give birth to a few babies."

14:49 "If not, you will sleep forever."

14:53 When you give birth, you have to have a pain to match the script.

14:55 If you have a baby, you have to tell the story.

14:57 If you have a baby, you have to tell the story.

14:59 People watched the clip and saw me in pain.

15:01 But at that time, I didn't feel anything.

15:03 So it's because your shape is good.

15:05 What did I do?

15:07 It's the same shape as your mother's birth.

15:09 It's the same shape as your mother's birth.

15:11 But I had a few more.

15:13 But I had a few more.

15:15 How many kilograms was the baby?

15:17 4.1 kilograms.

15:19 Excellent.

15:21 The doctor said,

15:23 "This shape can be a few more times."

15:25 "This shape can be a few more times."

15:27 "So you have to give birth regularly."

15:29 "Don't give birth in a hurry."

15:31 "Don't give birth in a hurry."

15:33 "I want to recover quickly."

15:35 "I don't want to have to wait for a month or two."

15:37 "I don't want to have to wait for a month or two."

15:39 When you gave birth,

15:41 I heard you crying and touched your skin.

15:43 How did you feel?

15:45 I felt very healthy.

15:47 I'm asking with a question.

15:49 You were very emotional.

15:51 You were very emotional.

15:53 But no one knows.

15:55 It's not healthy.

15:57 It's just the beginning of normal days.

15:59 When I was pregnant,

16:01 I told my husband to give birth quickly.

16:03 It was too heavy.

16:05 How many kilograms did you gain?

16:07 20 kilograms.

16:09 I just gave birth.

16:11 I was very healthy.

16:13 I was very healthy.

16:15 The doctor did whatever he wanted.

16:17 I was very cute.

16:19 I didn't have a natural feeling.

16:21 I didn't have a natural feeling.

16:23 I was like other mothers.

16:25 I was like other mothers.

16:27 I was a little baby.

16:29 I was a little scared.

16:31 She was 4 kilograms. She was a little scared.

16:33 I was a little scared.

16:35 I was a little scared.

16:37 I was a little scared.

16:39 I was a little scared.

16:41 I was a little scared.

16:43 I felt like I loved my baby more.

16:45 I was not afraid of falling or hitting my head.

16:47 I was not afraid of falling or hitting my head.

16:49 How was your journey with your baby?

16:59 Did you have any difficulties?

17:01 I told my husband to give birth first.

17:03 I told my husband to give birth first.

17:05 I told my husband to give birth first.

17:07 I told my husband to give birth first.

17:09 I told my husband to give birth first.

17:11 I told my husband to give birth first.

17:13 I told my husband to give birth first.

17:15 I thought I was pregnant.

17:17 I thought I was pregnant.

17:19 I didn't have any milk.

17:21 I didn't have any milk.

17:23 The doctor gave me formula.

17:25 The doctor gave me formula.

17:27 The doctor gave me formula.

17:29 On the third day, I went to the spa.

17:31 On the third day, I went to the spa.

17:33 I went to the spa.

17:35 I went to the spa.

17:37 I started to massage my baby.

17:39 I started to massage my baby.

17:41 I started to massage my baby.

17:43 I couldn't imagine that.

17:45 I thought I was done.

17:47 I thought I was done.

17:49 I thought I was done.

17:51 I thought I was done.

17:53 I thought I was done.

17:55 I thought I was done.

17:57 I thought I was done.

17:59 I thought I was done.

18:01 I thought I was done.

18:03 I thought I was done.

18:05 I thought I was done.

18:07 Did you have a heart attack?

18:09 I just had a big pain in my liver.

18:11 I had to go to the hospital.

18:13 - I had to go to the hospital. - That's right.

18:15 How many days did you have to go to the hospital?

18:17 In the first 1-2 months, I had to go to the hospital and get massage for the whole time.

18:20 I had too many tumors that I couldn't get a massage.

18:24 - I had a terrible pain that I felt like I had a thousand ligaments. I had a headache. - Did you have a fever?

18:30 I had a fever and I had to go to the hospital.

18:32 The doctor gave me antibiotics and at the end, I had a tumor.

18:36 I was lucky.

18:37 Did you stop giving him milk?

18:40 No, I still gave him milk.

18:42 My mom told me to give him milk for at least 6 months.

18:46 I and my husband still want him to drink milk.

18:49 How did your husband feel when you were pregnant?

18:53 He took care of you and he witnessed your pregnancy.

18:57 Did you ever talk about your pain when you stopped giving him milk?

19:03 He was always with me from the time I was pregnant to the time I was pregnant.

19:10 He was with me for 1-2 months.

19:12 I thought I didn't want to sit down and talk about it.

19:17 But everyone can understand the difficulty.

19:20 I didn't ask my grandmother to do much during the pregnancy.

19:24 My husband and I took care of my baby directly.

19:28 So, no matter how bitter or sweet it was, it happened.

19:34 I was lucky to have him with me.

19:39 If not, I couldn't stand it alone.

19:41 You've mentioned a lot about your "luckiness".

19:45 For example, you were lucky to be pregnant and have a baby.

19:48 You were lucky to have a baby and have a startup.

19:51 You had a lot of "luckiness".

19:53 You were used to being able to do this and that after giving birth.

19:57 But you admitted that you thought it wouldn't be like that.

20:01 What made you feel that your plan wasn't as good as you thought?

20:06 You couldn't do it and you were stressed?

20:09 What made you feel that it wasn't as good as you thought?

20:15 In the first election, I was lucky to have someone to give me a bath for the first 20 days.

20:20 And take care of me for 20 days.

20:22 But after 20 days, I had to do everything myself.

20:25 And then nightmares started.

20:28 Every time I took out the milk machine, I cried.

20:30 It was like a mother crying after taking out the milk machine.

20:33 I cried for 3 hours.

20:35 I thought, "Oh my God, if I cry for 3 hours a day,

20:38 1 day 8 times, and every day is the same,

20:42 will my life be meaningful?"

20:45 It was meaningful to my child, but I felt that I had no value.

20:49 I was just wandering around.

20:51 My mom tried to help me, but I was not stable.

20:56 I didn't want anyone to touch anything.

20:58 I couldn't stand the dirty milk bottle.

21:01 When I saw him asking me to eat more,

21:04 I thought that I just wanted to feed my child.

21:09 I was like...

21:11 You thought you were a tool in his eyes.

21:13 I didn't care about myself.

21:15 After my mom helped me,

21:17 I thought that I couldn't do it.

21:20 I thought that my mom had to help me.

21:22 I thought that I could do anything.

21:25 I wanted to make a big deal out of small things.

21:30 My husband sat down and talked to me.

21:34 He said, "Everything is relative.

21:36 Your child wants it, it's relative.

21:38 It's not always what he wants.

21:40 It's relative when he sleeps.

21:42 It's relative when he drinks milk.

21:44 If it's a little dirty, he's fine."

21:47 I just let it go.

21:50 But I was tired.

21:53 He took care of me in the first month.

21:55 He went to work again in the second month.

21:57 I was so tired in the second month.

22:02 I couldn't stand it anymore.

22:05 When I saw my child in the crisis,

22:10 I cried.

22:14 After my child cried, I cried.

22:17 After my husband took care of my child,

22:19 he took care of me.

22:21 I was so sad.

22:25 I couldn't help him.

22:28 I was so busy.

22:32 I was sad.

22:33 I was sad because I couldn't take care of my child.

22:37 I didn't tell him.

22:40 I was sad because I wanted to make a big deal out of small things.

22:43 I wanted to do everything by myself.

22:46 There's nothing better than doing it by yourself.

22:49 I couldn't solve it.

22:54 The doctor told me that I had to go through the first 6 weeks of hormone.

22:59 After the third month, I told my family to call my mother-in-law to help me.

23:05 I could take a day off for 2 days a week.

23:07 I could take a day off for 2 days a week.

23:09 I had to call my mother-in-law to help me or I would hire a helper.

23:13 My mother-in-law helped me for 2 days a week.

23:17 Did you feel better?

23:18 I felt better.

23:19 When my mother-in-law helped me,

23:21 I immediately registered for a yoga class.

23:24 I went to the class from 12 to 1.

23:27 I felt that it was the right time for me.

23:32 You were here.

23:33 Yes.

23:34 Did you understand why you wanted to make a big deal out of small things?

23:39 Did you have an answer for that?

23:41 I think I just changed my hormone.

23:44 The doctor told me to try to overcome that time.

23:48 Because sometimes I was too weak.

23:51 I didn't have good health.

23:53 I was mentally weak.

23:55 I lost too many kilos.

23:58 I felt that everything was not as I imagined.

24:02 People were going to work and back home.

24:06 I was at home.

24:08 I was doing things that were not valuable to me.

24:12 I didn't know when it would end.

24:15 The change of hormone is a physiological change.

24:18 It's about the body.

24:20 From Thuy's experience,

24:22 I want to share with people around her.

24:24 After she gave birth,

24:26 people said, "Why did you make such a big deal?"

24:29 People want to make a big deal

24:33 because they want to expose their emotions

24:36 to push out their inner feelings.

24:38 But they have no reason.

24:40 They can't just curse their children.

24:42 They don't know what they're doing.

24:44 They also gave birth to them.

24:45 It's not reasonable to curse them.

24:46 You can't curse your colleagues.

24:48 You can't text anyone.

24:50 They only need a reason.

24:52 "Why don't you eat?"

24:54 You can use that as a reason to expose

24:57 all the things that are not good for you.

25:00 Maybe in the eyes of people around her,

25:03 she's making a big deal.

25:06 But that's their need.

25:08 To avoid that need,

25:10 we have to help them recover.

25:12 I saw my friend was still performing on the internet.

25:15 She was doing this and that.

25:17 She was a mother.

25:19 She took pictures with her child.

25:21 She was like a goddess.

25:22 She was taking pictures with her child.

25:24 She was checking in places.

25:26 "Am I doing the right thing as a mother?"

25:28 "I can't do this job."

25:30 I felt like I was not doing well.

25:32 That's when I realized

25:34 I didn't have the value.

25:36 I had to recover slowly.

25:38 The most important thing is that

25:40 Thuy gained 20 kg during the pregnancy.

25:42 That was a big blow to her mentality.

25:46 It made her collapse.

25:48 Did you feel bad when you saw her in the mirror?

25:52 It doesn't matter how much I gained.

25:56 It's about my arms and legs.

25:58 I walked a lot during the pregnancy.

26:01 I didn't want my legs or arms to be swollen.

26:04 What happened?

26:05 I kept going.

26:07 I didn't care about that.

26:09 I knew I was eating.

26:11 I ate.

26:12 I ate very carefully.

26:14 I didn't eat anything bad.

26:16 But she was still 20 kg.

26:18 What did you do to lose weight?

26:20 You were 4.1 kg when you were a baby.

26:22 You were 4 kg when you were a baby.

26:24 I lost 6 kg.

26:26 You lost weight because of the baby's water.

26:28 I was 14 kg.

26:30 Parents who give birth to their children

26:32 eat very well.

26:34 I didn't eat well.

26:36 I ate badly.

26:38 I was not in a good mood.

26:40 I was weak.

26:42 I was full of bad things.

26:44 I didn't want to eat.

26:46 I thought if I didn't eat,

26:48 my milk would be white.

26:50 I had to eat a lot

26:52 to make my milk yellow.

26:54 If I didn't eat, I had to drink.

26:56 I drank this milk, that milk,

26:58 I drank the orange juice.

27:00 I did everything.

27:02 To improve your milk quality.

27:04 Yes, to make it better.

27:06 There is a problem.

27:08 A mother who takes care of her child

27:10 will be different from the next generation.

27:12 And that is a mother-in-law.

27:14 It's a contradiction.

27:16 It's a contradiction.

27:18 It's a contradiction.

27:20 Sometimes, my mother was fine.

27:22 I have lived with my mother for 10 years.

27:24 My mother was fine.

27:26 But my mother-in-law was different.

27:28 Because I couldn't be straightforward.

27:30 I was a daughter-in-law.

27:32 I told my mother-in-law

27:34 if she cried,

27:36 let her cry for 3-5 minutes.

27:38 But my mother-in-law was

27:40 very strict.

27:42 She would rub her butt

27:44 and massage her butt

27:46 to make her child sleep.

27:48 But how could she sleep with her butt rubbed?

27:50 She would rub it gently to make her sleep.

27:52 I told my husband

27:54 that I was asking for my mother.

27:56 I was asking for my mother.

27:58 I was asking for my grandmother

28:00 to take care of my child.

28:02 It's their responsibility, not mine.

28:04 I was asking for my mother.

28:06 So I shouldn't have too many attitudes.

28:08 I shouldn't have asked for my mother.

28:10 I thought it was okay.

28:12 I thought it was okay.

28:14 After a month,

28:16 I told my mother-in-law

28:18 that I wouldn't ask for my mother.

28:20 My mother-in-law couldn't drive.

28:22 So I asked for another friend.

28:24 A friend who could help my child

28:26 for 2 days a week

28:28 to relieve stress.

28:30 My mother-in-law could visit me whenever she wanted.

28:32 I like your mindset.

28:34 You are asking for your mother.

28:36 You should stop asking for her.

28:38 If you don't want to ask for her,

28:40 your child will be spoiled.

28:42 The game is very clear.

28:44 Old people have their own mindset.

28:46 Luckily,

28:48 I agreed with my husband.

28:50 Some people don't want to ask for their mother.

28:52 But my child is mine.

28:54 It's not okay to have two standards.

28:56 I have a friend here

28:58 who is my companion.

29:00 She has enough knowledge

29:02 and words

29:04 to make me think like that.

29:06 A companion who was hidden

29:08 before marriage.

29:10 She was hidden in a secret way.

29:12 Have you ever

29:14 taken her to the school?

29:16 I have.

29:18 I have.

29:20 Have you ever hidden your lover

29:22 until now?

29:24 When people see you have a baby,

29:26 they will ask

29:28 about your identity and your dignity.

29:30 Do you have to face that?

29:32 Do you know

29:34 my friends know about this person.

29:36 But the public doesn't know.

29:38 The public doesn't know

29:40 about my thoughts.

29:42 But I have known him for 10 years.

29:44 10 years.

29:46 So my friends

29:48 don't know about him.

29:50 That's it.

29:52 Have people ever asked you

29:54 if you are a single mom?

29:56 In the Internet community.

29:58 Because it's so famous

30:00 that people can't update

30:02 about my family.

30:04 I have a plan.

30:06 I will post a picture of my proposal first.

30:08 "Hey, I have a husband."

30:10 Then I will post

30:12 about my pregnancy.

30:14 People will know

30:16 that I have a baby.

30:18 Then they will ask me about it.

30:20 You have to go to the right way.

30:22 Right way.

30:24 Then I will have a baby.

30:26 You have said what you have to say.

30:28 Now we will come to

30:30 a very important topic.

30:32 It's about marriage.

30:34 Now you have a baby for 5 months.

30:36 How do you treat each other

30:38 to have another baby?

30:40 No, I just finished yesterday.

30:42 I have been in the womb for 3 years.

30:44 So it's back to the story of the room.

30:46 Yes, it's back.

30:48 That's it.

30:50 When did you have the baby?

30:52 In which month?

30:54 The doctor said 1.5 months.

30:56 It's normal.

30:58 No, no, no.

31:00 I don't believe it.

31:02 I have been pregnant for 2 months.

31:04 I mean I was born earlier.

31:06 Some people are born earlier than you.

31:08 No, I was born 2 months earlier.

31:10 I don't want to reduce my desire.

31:12 That's right.

31:14 He doesn't want to force me

31:16 to reduce my desire.

31:18 I have a headache,

31:20 and I have to take care of my baby.

31:22 He is very psychological.

31:24 So, for a man

31:26 who is so psychological and deep beside you,

31:28 do you want to say anything to him?

31:30 Do you want to send a message?

31:32 I can send a message to anyone.

31:34 I want to send a message to my parents.

31:36 If you are lucky,

31:38 you have a family or a person

31:40 who understands your psychology,

31:42 and share your difficulties after giving birth,

31:44 it's good.

31:46 But if you don't have it, it's okay.

31:48 Because the time you change hormones

31:50 will pass very quickly.

31:52 You will take care of your life

31:54 as you want.

31:56 You will go back to your job

31:58 and do what you love.

32:00 You will go back to your job

32:02 and do what you love.

32:04 It just takes time.

32:06 Time will bring you back to your normal life.

32:08 Thank you, Thuy.

32:10 Thank you so much for accepting our invitation.

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