Fast Talk with Boy Abunda: Gaano kalala mag-away sina Billy Crawford at Coleen Garcia? (Full Episode 158)
Aired (September 4, 2023): Hindi naman laging perpekto ang buhay mag-asawa, dahil siguradong may away pa rin ‘yan! Ang tanong, gaano ba ito katindi? Pakinggan ang kwentuhan sa ‘Fast Talk with Boy Abunda’ ng power couple na sina Billy Crawford at Coleen Garcia sa kanilang buhay showbiz at kung papaano nila ito hina-handle kasabay ng pagpapalaki ng kanilang anak.
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00:00 (upbeat music)
00:03 (upbeat music)
00:06 (crowd cheering)
00:12 (speaking in foreign language)
00:24 - And welcome to Fast Talk with Boy Abunda.
00:29 (crowd cheering)
00:32 Thank you.
00:33 Merry Christmas.
00:36 (speaking in foreign language)
00:40 Thank you for being with us.
00:49 (crowd cheering)
00:52 Night eye, please welcome.
00:55 (speaking in foreign language)
00:57 Beautiful power couple, Billy and Colleen.
01:01 (crowd cheering)
01:03 - Hello.
01:07 - Hello.
01:08 (laughing)
01:09 - Hi.
01:10 - Hi.
01:11 - Hello.
01:12 - Hi guys.
01:12 - Again, thank you for being here.
01:14 - It's the first time you have us both together.
01:16 - Yes.
01:17 - I know.
01:18 - Yeah, it's usually like one of us is in the audience.
01:21 - That's right.
01:21 - Yeah.
01:22 - Mr. Support.
01:23 (speaking in foreign language)
01:24 (laughing)
01:25 - Wow, thank you.
01:28 Why are you so beautiful?
01:31 - Ah, hello.
01:32 - Why are you so beautiful though, love?
01:34 - Well, you know.
01:34 (laughing)
01:37 I don't know, I think I've had a bit of rest lately.
01:40 - That's good.
01:41 - And I think just being happy.
01:42 - Hydration?
01:43 - No, I think just being happy.
01:44 (speaking in foreign language)
01:48 - Yeah, I think just being happy.
01:51 And healthy with our family.
01:53 (speaking in foreign language)
01:57 - But it was not easy to get there.
01:59 - Yeah, no, definitely.
02:00 (speaking in foreign language)
02:03 - In an interview, correct me if I'm wrong, Mr. Crawford.
02:06 - Yes, sir.
02:07 - Because I read somewhere, some time ago,
02:10 you were talking about Kalina as an actor.
02:13 And you said something like, when you do your love scenes,
02:15 don't think about me.
02:17 (speaking in foreign language)
02:18 - Yeah, yeah.
02:19 - You said that?
02:20 - I do.
02:20 (speaking in foreign language)
02:22 (laughing)
02:28 - You know, I didn't expect that, to be very honest.
02:30 - No, I think she has to understand
02:34 (speaking in foreign language)
02:35 She really has to take me away from the equation.
02:38 (speaking in foreign language)
02:39 She has to look at me as someone who just fully supports.
02:42 (speaking in foreign language)
02:45 (speaking in foreign language)
02:45 Don't think about me.
02:46 (speaking in foreign language)
02:48 Or anything.
02:49 Just concentrate on the role that she's actually doing.
02:52 - It's actually an expression of respect
02:54 for what she does as an actor.
02:56 (speaking in foreign language)
03:00 - 'Cause it's so selfless.
03:01 It's like, you know, the assurance.
03:04 Because the job itself is really difficult.
03:07 You know, there are certain things
03:09 that I'm not comfortable doing,
03:11 but I have to do it because it's my job.
03:13 And it's part of it.
03:14 And he knows that.
03:15 He knows that it's not like it's something
03:18 I look forward to, right?
03:19 So he knows.
03:20 He knows exactly how I feel about everything that I do.
03:24 And it's just great not having to think about that.
03:28 - Yeah.
03:29 - You know, it's one less thing that I have to think about.
03:32 So I find it so selfless
03:34 because I know that it still bothers him.
03:36 And he told me, you know,
03:37 it's not like it doesn't bother me.
03:39 - It's not easy.
03:39 - Yeah.
03:40 (speaking in foreign language)
03:43 - But I think expressing that helps.
03:45 - Yeah, talking about it.
03:46 - Talking about it helps.
03:47 - And understanding and knowing the fact
03:49 (speaking in foreign language)
03:52 You have to understand the job then, Kasi.
03:54 (speaking in foreign language)
03:56 - That's true.
03:56 (speaking in foreign language)
03:59 - Yeah, definitely.
04:00 (speaking in foreign language)
04:01 - Most definitely.
04:02 (speaking in foreign language)
04:05 - Even like frustrations with work or--
04:07 - Life.
04:08 - Not because of our job,
04:09 but because we feel like we underperform sometimes.
04:12 (speaking in foreign language)
04:13 frustrations with ourselves,
04:16 we express it to each other and we process it together.
04:19 - Okay.
04:20 (speaking in foreign language)
04:21 That I'm doing with the both of you.
04:23 (speaking in foreign language)
04:24 Every time I do an interview with Crawford,
04:26 you'd be in the audience or vice versa.
04:29 Do you keep secrets?
04:31 What I was trying to say is, this better be worth it.
04:33 This is the first thing I'm doing with you.
04:35 - Before.
04:36 (speaking in foreign language)
04:36 - No, no, no.
04:38 There's no need, no filters, no nothing.
04:40 - Billy's my best friend.
04:42 I tell him everything.
04:44 (speaking in foreign language)
04:47 - There shouldn't be anything being--
04:49 - Even if it hurts the other?
04:50 - Well, all the more, you have to,
04:53 if there's something and then you're keeping,
04:55 that's gonna hurt the person.
04:57 All the more you have to talk about it.
04:58 If not, that's gonna fester.
05:01 - Yeah, it's gonna boil up into something bigger.
05:03 - Is it a kind of relationship where,
05:05 Billy, you can say, how do you call, Colleen, I'm sorry,
05:09 your terms of--
05:10 - Love.
05:11 - Love.
05:11 (speaking in foreign language)
05:15 (speaking in foreign language)
05:19 - It's been a very long time.
05:20 - I think, Tito Boy, I think we can all say now,
05:22 once you have a child,
05:24 (speaking in foreign language)
05:27 completely changes.
05:28 So it's like, there's no discussion
05:30 of those petty things anymore.
05:32 (speaking in foreign language)
05:33 I don't see her looking at other men.
05:35 She doesn't see me looking at other women.
05:38 - It's not automatic now.
05:39 You have a child and then you change.
05:41 It's more like,
05:42 (speaking in foreign language)
05:46 It's not like that.
05:47 It's really a conscious effort.
05:50 (speaking in foreign language)
05:51 It has to be a conscious effort.
05:52 - A baby like Amari,
05:53 I cannot imagine you guys not doing anything.
05:56 Come on.
05:57 - Exactly, exactly.
05:58 (speaking in foreign language)
06:02 (laughing)
06:02 - I'm wearing gray, why?
06:03 (speaking in foreign language)
06:05 - I'm an affectionate person,
06:06 (speaking in foreign language)
06:08 I like to touch and feel.
06:09 That's my way and means of communicating
06:13 (speaking in foreign language)
06:16 We kiss each other.
06:17 What's up, how you doing?
06:18 We hug each other.
06:19 (speaking in foreign language)
06:20 - There is a certain line.
06:22 - Boundaries.
06:23 - The boundaries then that when you are in a relationship,
06:25 may certain aspects,
06:27 (speaking in foreign language)
06:28 it's an opposite sex.
06:29 We can't be too touchy feely
06:32 because it's disrespectful.
06:33 - It's not even the intention,
06:34 (speaking in foreign language)
06:37 - But did it bother you,
06:38 (speaking in foreign language)
06:42 - At the start of the relationship.
06:44 - But you would make him know.
06:45 - Yeah.
06:46 - You would articulate it.
06:47 (speaking in foreign language)
06:50 - It's just like, you know,
06:51 - Be more conscious.
06:52 - Yeah, we just express.
06:53 (speaking in foreign language)
06:54 - Don't ever do that.
06:54 (laughing)
06:55 Let's do fast talk.
06:57 - Okay.
06:57 (speaking in foreign language)
07:00 - This is where both,
07:01 (speaking in foreign language)
07:05 (laughing)
07:19 (speaking in foreign language)
07:23 - Sweet?
07:24 (speaking in foreign language)
07:28 - Both?
07:36 (speaking in foreign language)
07:40 - Both.
07:41 - Rough, gentle.
07:43 - Gentle.
07:43 (speaking in foreign language)
07:47 - Or small family?
07:49 - Small.
07:50 (laughing)
07:51 (speaking in foreign language)
07:54 - Cat or dog?
07:55 - Dog.
07:56 - Cat.
07:57 (laughing)
07:58 (speaking in foreign language)
08:02 - Sexy time, me time?
08:05 - Sexy time.
08:07 (laughing)
08:08 - Colleen, Billy is?
08:10 - Amazing.
08:12 - Colleen, (speaking in foreign language)
08:13 that makes you feel sexy?
08:15 (laughing)
08:18 - Compliment.
08:19 (speaking in foreign language)
08:22 - Stubbornness.
08:24 - Billy, Colleen is?
08:25 - Everything.
08:26 - Billy, (speaking in foreign language)
08:27 that makes you feel hot?
08:29 (laughing)
08:32 (speaking in foreign language)
08:35 - Schedule.
08:41 (laughing)
08:41 (speaking in foreign language)
08:49 (speaking in foreign language)
08:50 - Best decision you made as a married couple?
08:52 - Better communication.
08:55 - And fight for it.
08:56 - Open communication.
08:57 - Lights on or lights off?
08:59 - Lights off.
09:00 - Light dim.
09:01 - Dim, dim, semi.
09:02 - Happiness or chocolates?
09:04 - Happiness.
09:05 - You better not say chocolates.
09:06 - Best time for happiness?
09:08 - All the time.
09:09 - Complete this statement.
09:11 A happy marriage is?
09:13 - A happy marriage.
09:18 - A lot of effort.
09:19 (speaking in foreign language)
09:21 (applauding)
09:24 - A whole lot of effort.
09:26 - Doesn't happen by accident.
09:27 - Yeah, I know.
09:28 - But you have a movie right now.
09:30 - Yeah, actually it's a short series, six parts.
09:33 - It's a series, not a movie.
09:33 - I mean if you watch it,
09:34 it's kind of like a long movie.
09:36 - Okay.
09:37 - But yeah, it's a Viva One.
09:38 So it's this new platform that Viva has
09:41 and they share a lot of exclusive content
09:43 that you can only watch on Viva One.
09:45 (speaking in foreign language)
09:49 - Karl Aquino is in every movie and every show right now.
09:52 - Right.
09:53 (speaking in foreign language)
09:55 - Yes, Riza, Kiko, and Ren.
09:58 (speaking in foreign language)
09:59 So it's a six part series and--
10:02 (speaking in foreign language)
10:04 - And so it's about three couples
10:07 and then there are different stories
10:08 and then we kind of just all tie together.
10:11 Like we're all connected in some way.
10:12 But it focuses, like the last episode
10:15 we had focused on Ren and Jerome.
10:18 (speaking in foreign language)
10:22 - Yes, it's already streaming.
10:24 So our third episode is going to come out on Monday.
10:27 - Love the title.
10:28 (speaking in foreign language)
10:32 - Can you hear we were starting to talk about him?
10:34 How cute, right?
10:35 How he upstaged the both of you.
10:37 (laughing)
10:38 - Upon entrance.
10:39 - He does that all the time.
10:41 (speaking in foreign language)
10:42 - How much life, I mean how much of your life has changed?
10:45 - Oh, everything has changed.
10:46 (speaking in foreign language)
10:47 - Everything, time.
10:48 - Even individually and as a couple
10:51 and as a unit, all of us as a family.
10:53 - The dynamics have completely changed.
10:55 - Even my parents and everything,
10:57 like just our entire family has changed.
11:00 - Yeah.
11:01 (speaking in foreign language)
11:02 - Yeah.
11:03 - He's a star, I'm sorry.
11:04 - He is, he is a star.
11:06 (speaking in foreign language)
11:10 (laughing)
11:12 (speaking in foreign language)
11:16 - Small or big family, small.
11:17 - It doesn't matter, small for now.
11:19 (speaking in foreign language)
11:20 - No, 'cause before we thought that,
11:21 oh, we wanted like four kids and everything,
11:24 but then now, (speaking in foreign language)
11:29 - And you have The Voice Generations.
11:30 - The Voice Generations, yes, it's ongoing right now.
11:34 - Congratulations.
11:35 - Thank you so much.
11:35 - Doing very well.
11:36 - Thank you.
11:37 (speaking in foreign language)
11:39 - Yes.
11:39 (speaking in foreign language)
11:43 - It's Team Bilib.
11:44 - Yes, Team Bilib.
11:46 (speaking in foreign language)
11:48 - Let's bring them in.
11:49 (speaking in foreign language)
11:53 (applauding)
11:56 (speaking in foreign language)
12:00 (laughing)
12:02 (speaking in foreign language)
12:06 (speaking in foreign language)
12:11 - See, this is Jason and Arjan.
12:14 (speaking in foreign language)
12:18 (laughing)
12:28 (drumming)
12:30 (speaking in foreign language)
12:41 (speaking in foreign language)
12:45 - Lahat, the judges, how do you call that?
12:50 - The coaches and the chair.
12:51 - The coaches, chair.
12:52 - The blind auditions.
12:53 - During the blind auditions.
12:55 (speaking in foreign language)
12:59 (speaking in foreign language)
13:06 (speaking in foreign language)
13:10 - What made you turn your chair?
13:16 (speaking in foreign language)
13:21 - You have to look for authenticity.
13:29 - That's true.
13:30 (speaking in foreign language)
13:34 (speaking in foreign language)
13:38 - I totally agree with you.
13:43 (speaking in foreign language)
13:44 I think we can only globalize.
13:47 - Yes.
13:47 (speaking in foreign language)
13:51 - Exactly.
13:51 - And version of ourselves.
13:52 - And we don't see and we don't hear
13:55 about the ITAS very often.
13:56 - That's true.
13:57 (speaking in foreign language)
14:00 - Okay.
14:00 (upbeat music)
14:02 (speaking in foreign language)
14:06 - Let's talk.
14:07 (laughing)
14:08 (speaking in foreign language)
14:12 - I mean, I play basketball with Vong.
14:17 I see--
14:18 - You went to his house.
14:19 - Yeah, I went to his house, visited him.
14:22 We hardly actually have time to communicate
14:25 with every single person we know.
14:27 It's hard enough with our own family.
14:29 So the relationship has changed,
14:31 to be honest with you, Tito Boy,
14:33 it's not like it used to be.
14:35 (speaking in foreign language)
14:39 - Yeah, I guess when we started the family
14:43 and everything completely changed.
14:44 - Do you wish it can be better?
14:46 And I'm talking about relationship with Chang Ami, Vice--
14:50 (speaking in foreign language)
14:54 - I just guessed it on, it was via Zoom,
14:56 but I just guessed it on her show.
14:58 So when they're there,
15:00 (speaking in foreign language)
15:01 but it's like we know so many people,
15:03 we don't even keep up with our friends
15:05 that we've known for so long.
15:06 - But I like what you said, Tito Boy.
15:07 I think all relationships can be better.
15:09 - Yeah, yeah.
15:10 - Through communication and through actually
15:12 understandings and somehow,
15:14 'cause a lot has changed, Tito Boy, in three years.
15:17 (speaking in foreign language)
15:21 - Definitely.
15:26 - Whatever went through,
15:27 and we don't have to go into the details,
15:29 because a lot of them were partly,
15:33 not just you guys, but you are public.
15:36 (speaking in foreign language)
15:37 that are affected by many things,
15:41 like social media, for example.
15:42 - Oh, yeah.
15:43 - I wanted to talk to you guys about social media,
15:45 which has so much pressure to look good,
15:49 to be rich, to be relevant, to be flawless.
15:52 - To keep up.
15:53 - To keep up, right?
15:54 Have you fallen into the trap
15:57 of wanting to be there?
15:59 - It's tricky, Tito Boy, because, to be very honest,
16:04 a lot of my work comes from social media,
16:06 so I have to be active.
16:07 I have to keep up, you know, whatever I'm doing.
16:12 Honestly, I don't get to post so much nowadays
16:15 because of that pressure.
16:16 Like, I don't know.
16:17 I feel it also.
16:18 I think everybody does feel it.
16:20 Like, is what you're gonna post going to be dissected?
16:24 Is it going to be, because it means that, right?
16:26 - Or is it good enough?
16:27 - Or is something harmless,
16:27 and then, when you look at the comments,
16:29 people have so many things to say.
16:31 You know, for me, it's more of that.
16:32 It's like, I keep my life a little bit,
16:35 I mean, we're not super private.
16:37 We're practically an open book
16:39 when it comes to things that we go through.
16:41 But with our daily lives, I guess,
16:42 we don't really share so much of it.
16:44 - But it's tough, right?
16:46 - But it's tough because it's part of our work.
16:48 So we really have to keep--
16:50 - And keeping the balance also.
16:52 - Yeah, yeah.
16:52 - Keeping the balance,
16:53 you know, a harmless post,
16:55 (speaking in foreign language)
16:57 - Yeah, yeah.
16:58 - And that, it's an entirely different universe.
17:01 - Everyone translates everything differently.
17:04 - Yeah, but no--
17:05 (speaking in foreign language)
17:09 - Everyone has their own tastes.
17:14 And everyone,
17:15 (speaking in foreign language)
17:16 patience for sensitivity, for certain topics.
17:20 You know, (speaking in foreign language)
17:23 (speaking in foreign language)
17:26 - Yeah, yeah.
17:26 - So it's a balance.
17:27 - Do you read comments?
17:28 (speaking in foreign language)
17:29 - I mean, if we didn't read comments,
17:30 I mean, if we didn't read comments, we'd be lying.
17:33 Of course, we read comments, you know what I mean?
17:34 But I guess we are not emotionally attached to it as much--
17:39 - Not as much as before.
17:40 - Or look up for affirmations.
17:41 - 'Cause I'll tell you something, I totally don't.
17:43 - Ah.
17:44 - Mm-hmm, I totally don't.
17:44 - It's hard because a lot of people
17:46 will deliberately attack other people
17:49 just to see people in pain,
17:51 just to see others suffer.
17:53 (speaking in foreign language)
17:56 - Also, try to look at it in a more positive light.
17:58 - Yeah.
17:59 - I have learned so much also from,
18:02 sometimes from people who mean well
18:04 and who tell us,
18:05 (speaking in foreign language)
18:07 You know, I've learned a lot that way also,
18:09 and I've grown,
18:10 and I've learned to be more considerate also
18:12 for different types of people around me then.
18:14 So it helps also to hear them out sometimes, you know,
18:17 when they're not just straight up bashers,
18:19 they're not haters.
18:20 Sometimes they mean well
18:21 and they want, you need to be open also to correction.
18:23 - Have you taken social media breaks?
18:26 - I have.
18:27 - You have?
18:28 - I lost my phone.
18:29 (laughing)
18:30 I left my phone for a few days in France.
18:33 - You're both beautiful, you're very artistic.
18:36 (speaking in foreign language)
18:37 How bad are your fights?
18:39 Are there times in your life
18:42 that you just can't stand each other?
18:44 - Tito Boy, I will be honest,
18:45 they used to be so bad.
18:47 Like, (speaking in foreign language)
18:49 - Guys, thanks.
18:50 (speaking in foreign language)
18:54 - It's the daily, like, frustrations,
18:58 or emotions, moodiness,
19:00 or (speaking in foreign language)
19:02 A lot of things that contribute to a bad mood.
19:04 - If I may,
19:05 the technique there is,
19:09 is you have to understand your partner
19:12 a lot more than you used to.
19:14 'Cause when we used to date,
19:15 obviously I was more of the,
19:18 yeah, yeah, I know what I'm doing,
19:19 blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
19:20 But once you have a family,
19:21 once you have a partner,
19:22 like I'm married to Colleen,
19:24 there's something else that,
19:25 every time, she's younger than me.
19:27 - Yeah, 10 years.
19:28 - She's 10 years younger than me,
19:30 but I learned so much more
19:32 by listening to her.
19:33 - Okay.
19:34 - So I understand
19:36 (speaking in foreign language)
19:39 'cause she's gone through so much.
19:41 She's sacrificed so much more than us men.
19:45 - And your love will always be bigger than anything.
19:48 - Oh yeah.
19:49 - That's the bottom line, right?
19:50 I'm talking about listening.
19:52 You know, I've sat down with you as a judge in a contest.
19:55 I've been watching you.
19:57 What is the best way to vocalize?
19:59 I wanna listen.
20:00 (laughing)
20:01 (speaking in foreign language)
20:02 - Be honest, don't vocalize.
20:04 - He doesn't.
20:05 - No, you know what?
20:05 I'm gonna be honest with you.
20:06 I'm one of the few singers that never vocalizes.
20:10 Like, Ate Reg, for example,
20:12 eats ice cream before she sings.
20:13 - I know that.
20:14 - Or she likes something cold.
20:15 - Or drinks water with ice.
20:16 - Water with ice.
20:17 - Or if not, Miss Lani, she likes sugar.
20:20 - Iba naman.
20:21 - Before having, you know, a lot of people like hot or warm.
20:23 - Ikaw, why?
20:24 - I never vocalize.
20:25 All I do is talk all day and I laugh.
20:28 It opens up.
20:28 - And he does talk so much.
20:29 - Or when I used to be an alcoholic.
20:31 - He does.
20:31 - I used to drink whiskey before I go out.
20:33 Pero, this is what I learned.
20:35 So you guys have to join me.
20:36 It's the brrr.
20:37 It's brrr.
20:38 Okay.
20:39 - Colleen, you have to join us.
20:40 - Okay.
20:41 - So you have notes.
20:41 - Okay, one, two, three, go.
20:42 - It starts, goes brrr.
20:43 (imitating drum roll)
20:46 (imitating drum roll)
20:50 - Now that's hot.
20:51 Believe, Colleen, maraming salamat.
20:52 (laughing)
20:54 Thank you very much.
20:55 (imitating drum roll)
20:56 (speaking in foreign language)
21:00 Make your nana proud.
21:02 Let's talk again tomorrow.
21:03 Goodbye for now and God bless.
21:04 (upbeat music)