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00:20 [Fighting]
00:48 According to the National Center for Mental Health,
00:51 in 2020, the number of suicide rates in the Philippines increased by 57% compared to 2019.
01:01 This means that due to the clinical depression and anxiety that came with the pandemic,
01:08 the number of people who chose to commit suicide increased.
01:13 And among them are many senior citizens, parents of our families.
01:20 That is the sensitive and important topic that we will discuss tonight.
01:27 What are the reasons for a mother to reach this decision?
01:34 What trials and problems did she go through with her children?
01:40 This is what we will discuss in this episode of Pinamagatang, "Ina Ka Ng Anak Mo."
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01:56 [Music]
02:17 [Music]
02:34 I don't want this anymore.
02:36 I can't take this anymore.
02:39 We will both die.
02:44 I'll go first. Don't be our children.
02:48 We won't feel their love for us.
02:53 This pandemic is a disaster to the family.
02:59 Wait a minute, Lida. We can overcome this, your children.
03:05 Just calm down.
03:09 [Music]
03:19 Why did you still order it?
03:23 You know that the man is always there, right?
03:26 Your brother is already 13 years old, Grace.
03:29 Why am I still to blame?
03:31 Do you think you can stop me from leaving?
03:36 Even if I force Jane to do that, if she gets angry, she will also run away from me.
03:41 Why am I always the one to blame?
03:45 Grace, your talk is so stupid.
03:49 The man is already stupid. He won't come back.
03:54 Anyway, there's no more solian.
04:00 No return, no exchange. It's already damaged.
04:05 What's wrong with you?
04:06 Your brother is missing.
04:09 He hasn't returned yet.
04:12 Maybe he's still in school.
04:15 Mom, maybe he's pregnant, so he just joined us.
04:33 If you don't care about me, I will look for my son.
04:38 Vicky, tell us, what are your mother's dreams?
04:57 What do you remember that she always teaches you?
05:01 She said that we need to be like-minded.
05:05 Because it's so hard. She always sees us fighting.
05:10 What are the difficulties that she went through?
05:13 It's so hard, Aunt Mel, because my brother, Jane, was pregnant.
05:23 She was pregnant?
05:25 Yes, when she was still a child.
05:27 How old was she?
05:28 13 years old.
05:29 She was 13 years old when she joined the men.
05:32 What happened to her now?
05:34 She didn't show herself to us for a few months.
05:39 When she came back, she was with the men?
05:42 She introduced them.
05:44 Your other sister, Grace?
05:46 Grace.
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07:13 [sobbing]
07:14 [sobbing]
07:27 [coughing]
07:37 [coughing]
07:38 Chris, I thought you already stopped.
07:46 Let me be.
07:49 This is just for my treatment.
07:51 Treatment?
07:55 You're just getting yourself into a state of anger and pain
08:02 because of your son's father's nonsense.
08:05 If he doesn't want to give you sustenance, then don't.
08:08 We can help your father with his education.
08:12 Do you understand, Mom?
08:19 It hurts.
08:22 It hurts.
08:27 It hurts, Uncle.
08:30 Do you understand, Mom?
08:33 Do you understand, Mom?
08:35 Chris,
08:44 he's with someone else now.
08:48 He has a son there.
08:51 Do you still hope that he'll come back to you?
09:01 Why am I so stupid?
09:03 Why am I so stupid?
09:06 Why am I so stupid?
09:08 Don't, my child.
09:10 I'm not myself anymore.
09:14 [sobbing]
09:16 It's okay, my child. Your mother is here.
09:25 [sobbing]
09:26 Hey, Ale.
09:54 Are you going to sleep?
09:55 It's still early.
09:57 I just finished my budget.
10:00 Where did you get the money from?
10:07 I'm going to buy a house for our two grandchildren.
10:11 Then, Pao will make clothes for us
10:14 because there's a dance in the plaza.
10:18 I'll go there first.
10:21 You're so selfish.
10:22 That's why I'm hoping that you'll give us a lot of money.
10:27 If there's an extra, why not?
10:32 Let's just remember that this is still our role in the family.
10:40 We might be separated.
10:44 But we're still together.
10:48 Who knows, after Pao and Anggie,
10:52 they might be the ones to answer us.
10:55 I hope so.
10:57 Aren't we going to sleep yet?
11:08 You go first.
11:10 No, I'll wait for you. It's cold.
11:13 Oh, I know what you're thinking.
11:17 Why?
11:18 That old tune.
11:20 Why?
11:22 It's just once in a while.
11:24 There are kids.
11:26 Back then,
11:29 Lida was sick because she was too busy with her dreams for her children.
11:35 When it came to love,
11:37 these two became passionate.
11:39 For a while,
11:41 they were almost exchanging relationships.
11:46 But then,
11:47 Oh, what's wrong?
11:49 Love?
11:51 I'm so mad.
11:53 How can we live here?
11:55 Let's just wait.
11:57 Wait?
11:59 We're so mad.
12:01 Vicky!
12:03 Good morning.
12:05 Okay, I'll be right there.
12:14 You're really here?
12:15 In the house?
12:17 Where's my grandson, Buboy?
12:19 They brought Anggie to the square.
12:24 Grace chose you as her daughter,
12:27 and you're just letting any man in?
12:29 Mom, Bong just came to visit.
12:32 That's different.
12:35 What's that, Vicky?
12:37 You've been changing boyfriends for months.
12:40 Wow!
12:42 Wow!
12:43 If you could just question me,
12:45 how many boyfriends have I had?
12:47 I'm so dirty.
12:49 Mom, even if I have a lot of boyfriends,
12:52 I'm not going to be a housewife and raise kids like Jane and Grace.
12:56 Don't get us involved.
12:58 Why?
13:00 I'm not like my siblings.
13:02 They just depend on the men who are forced to give birth to them.
13:05 I have the best job.
13:09 And of all of us, I'm the one you're most dependent on.
13:12 You two have a child.
13:14 He's just depending on you, right?
13:16 [♪♪♪]
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13:23 [♪♪♪]
13:51 Grace's son raised you.
13:53 Because they don't get along with their father.
13:57 Are you the one who's paying for their child?
14:00 Yes, it's me.
14:02 Your brother doesn't provide for you.
14:04 No, because he doesn't have a job.
14:07 How's my baby?
14:16 Are you eating well here?
14:20 And are you taking your vitamins?
14:22 Boboy, how's school?
14:27 Boboy.
14:32 That's mine.
14:37 That's mine, Mom.
14:38 Give that to me, Mom.
14:39 I've been talking to you for a while and you didn't notice me.
14:43 You're just using a tablet.
14:45 Sometimes I'm here and you don't talk to me.
14:48 Mom, Aunt Vicky gave it to me.
14:51 Grace.
14:52 Give it back to your son. Let him have it.
14:55 Why are you letting Vicky buy it?
14:58 It's just a waste of Boboy's education.
15:00 They went to the mall earlier.
15:03 Vicky just got his salary, that's why they bought it.
15:06 What if it's broken?
15:09 It's a waste of money.
15:11 I wish they just bought it for food.
15:12 Is this also from your Aunt Vicky?
15:16 I think you're over-exaggerating, Aunt Vicky.
15:19 I think I'll be famous.
15:22 Why would I make you famous?
15:26 I just don't want the child to be used to all the new things.
15:29 Sister, that's not a problem if there's something to buy.
15:34 You have something.
15:35 I don't.
15:37 Then who's the mother of the two of us?
15:39 You.
15:40 Why? Did I abandon your son?
15:42 Didn't you buy it?
15:45 Didn't you buy it for me?
15:46 Can't you take a break before you give a sermon?
15:50 I'm not giving a sermon.
15:51 I'm just reminding you.
15:53 I don't want my son to be spoiled and materialistic.
15:56 Materialistic?
15:59 Can't you just buy nothing, especially his father who left you?
16:02 What does his father have to do with this?
16:05 Enough.
16:07 What's wrong with you?
16:10 You're fighting with...
16:14 Vicky just has a good heart for your son.
16:18 I'm sorry.
16:19 I'm sorry.
16:48 Are you still going to sleep?
16:49 I'm waiting for Jane and my grandchildren.
16:54 It's hard to ride home.
16:57 If they're coming, they should have come earlier this afternoon.
17:04 She told Angie that she's bringing her children now.
17:09 They haven't been here for a long time. I miss them so much.
17:17 It's already 9 o'clock.
17:18 I'm always waiting for our children and grandchildren, but they're not here.
17:27 Why?
17:31 Why?
17:33 I don't know.
17:41 What about you?
17:42 I'm always waiting for someone who will come without fail.
17:54 Who?
17:56 You.
17:58 Thank you for always taking care of our children.
18:04 You're always there.
18:06 [music]
18:08 [crying]
18:20 Grandma, help me.
18:24 Why didn't you take care of me?
18:27 Do you have what I'm using to buy Jane?
18:33 I'm the one who's paying for your expenses.
18:36 [arguing]
18:37 Hey!
18:39 Mom!
18:42 Aunt, what's wrong?
18:44 I'm fine.
18:45 What about you two?
18:47 It's not over yet?
18:49 I'm embarrassed in front of my neighbors.
18:52 You're drunk early in the morning and you're making fun of me?
19:00 I'm not making fun of you, I'm just reminding my son.
19:03 Reminding? Why are you so arrogant?
19:05 You're saying a lot of things. You're drunk.
19:07 Stop it.
19:08 I'm not drunk.
19:09 Stop it.
19:10 You're the one who's drunk.
19:11 I'm the one who's drunk?
19:12 I'm the one who's drunk?
19:13 You're the one who's drunk?
19:14 Stop it!
19:15 If there's no respect left in your bodies,
19:23 think about your father.
19:25 Me, your mother.
19:27 [sobbing]
19:28 Stop it.
19:34 Mom, let me go.
19:37 What is it?
19:38 The sisters, Vicky and Grace, became more suspicious.
19:53 Sometimes, their children would fight.
19:57 Lida was always the one who interfered with the children.
20:01 And because they were all women,
20:04 the trials that came to them were never-ending.
20:08 Until...
20:10 Pao!
20:11 You have a classmate, right?
20:16 Who is this?
20:22 This is Ronnie.
20:23 I hope that even if you only met him once or twice,
20:35 you showed your true colors to his father in our house.
20:40 You didn't just flirt and make love.
20:44 Right, Ronnie?
20:48 Ronnie?
20:49 Can we talk?
20:53 I hope you treat your children like they have a decent family that they should respect.
21:02 Even if we're poor.
21:04 I have a lot of dreams for my children.
21:09 I didn't leave them in this world.
21:15 I raised them, fed them, educated them,
21:18 so that they would be fooled, used and left by men.
21:23 Is that clear?
21:25 Is that clear?
21:28 Yes.
21:29 Let's go.
21:36 Mom, what is that?
21:43 Why is there such a drama, Mom?
21:45 You should have just let me go home.
21:47 I just want to make sure that that man will take you seriously.
21:51 It's better if he knows where he's going to be.
21:55 What about the O.A.?
21:57 I don't want to go to court now, when my father was still young.
22:02 Pao, you're just telling your mother, she doesn't want to get you in trouble.
22:07 Do you think I'm like your children who were fooled by other men?
22:11 And I'm not like the other women who have an unlimited boyfriend.
22:14 Hey, Pao, can you hear me?
22:19 This is the kitchen. Beep, beep.
22:23 Kitchen, kitchen.
22:25 Mhie!
22:26 What is it? What's your problem?
22:27 Can't you hear me? Do I have a problem?
22:31 [music]
22:45 I saw you there.
22:47 It's a waste if we don't go together.
22:49 Right?
22:50 No.
22:52 Yes.
22:53 Why?
22:55 You're still a kid.
22:57 What is this? Are you trying to fool me?
22:59 What do you mean?
23:01 You're not a kid, right?
23:02 You're not jealous of me?
23:04 Even my boyfriend is a kid?
23:05 Yes.
23:06 Me? I'm the first one.
23:07 Yes.
23:09 Are you sure?
23:10 You're the only one.
23:11 You're the only one.
23:12 You're together.
23:13 You're together.
23:14 You're together.
23:15 You're together.
23:16 You're together.
23:17 You're together.
23:18 You're the only one.
23:19 You're the only one.
23:20 They fell in love with the same man.
23:23 Yes.
23:24 Oh, your mother really got a headache.
23:26 Yes.
23:27 What happened?
23:28 There's peanut butter and cheese for the kids.
23:32 And then,
23:34 this is for you to check up on his son.
23:40 I hope he will be fine.
23:43 And tell him to call Angle
23:46 to tell me if he needs anything.
23:48 Okay.
23:49 What's this?
23:51 Jane is taking refuge.
23:53 Is there any ration from you?
23:55 Your sister Jane doesn't have a job.
23:58 And then, the two kids are so young.
24:00 The husband is out of the construction.
24:03 So,
24:05 if there's no job,
24:06 you're really dependent on them.
24:08 Let it be.
24:10 You're lucky.
24:12 You don't have a family.
24:13 You have a job.
24:14 Your mother is right.
24:16 You should give her a reward.
24:20 No, father.
24:24 You should give your mother a reward.
24:29 Vicky.
24:30 Vicky,
24:31 you'll be a mother someday.
24:34 You'll experience how it feels to be a mother.
24:38 Why aren't you with them?
24:41 I don't know.
24:42 How do you not know?
24:44 I don't know and I don't know.
24:46 How do you not know?
24:47 What's going on?
24:48 What?
24:50 Mom,
24:51 they're also Ronnie's.
24:53 What?
24:54 Don't you understand?
24:55 We saw Ronnie with them earlier.
24:58 I don't understand
25:00 how we ended up together.
25:03 Even Ronnie doesn't know that we're siblings.
25:05 That's nonsense.
25:06 It's a demon.
25:07 That man will kill you.
25:09 You know, I was the first one to meet Ronnie.
25:12 Not you.
25:13 Me.
25:14 And I'm just telling you that I was the first one.
25:15 You're just pretending.
25:16 We're new.
25:17 Don't change your face.
25:18 You know that you're the only one who's changing your face.
25:21 Mom!
25:22 Mom!
25:23 Daughter!
25:24 Mom!
25:25 Daughter!
25:26 Mom!
25:27 Daughter!
25:28 Mom!
25:29 Daughter!
25:30 Mom!
25:31 Give me water.
25:32 Water.
25:33 Mom!
25:34 Daughter!
25:35 Mom!
25:36 Water, sister!
25:37 Mom!
25:38 My brother, Angge,
25:41 just gave me a blessing
25:44 that I'll be with Pao,
25:47 so that he won't cause any more trouble.
25:49 Is that a blessing from your mother?
25:52 From Angge?
25:54 Yes, that's what it is.
25:55 I think Angge is old.
25:56 Yes, she's old.
25:57 Angge is old.
25:58 Your mother gave you that blessing
26:00 that you'll be with Pao.
26:02 Yes, ma'am.
26:03 My whole life,
26:08 in the midst of my hardships,
26:12 I only prayed for one thing.
26:17 I prayed that one day,
26:22 I'll have a good family.
26:26 Even if I won't be able to live,
26:32 as long as I have a family,
26:35 I'll be able to live.
26:37 I'll be able to fill
26:42 whatever I'm lacking.
26:47 I'll be able to feel love
26:51 and to be valued as a wife.
26:56 And, Mom,
26:59 I know that your father
27:05 made us happy
27:08 even though we've been through a lot.
27:14 And then,
27:15 you came into our lives one by one.
27:19 We made dreams for you.
27:26 I swore to myself that
27:31 even if I'll be in trouble,
27:33 I'll just fulfill those dreams
27:36 even if I'll risk my life.
27:40 But it's so sad
27:43 because those things don't happen.
27:48 It hurts so much
27:54 because I always bring you along.
27:57 Because of you,
28:02 I'm always in pain.
28:07 Because of you,
28:08 all of you are selfish.
28:12 All of you
28:16 are selfish in giving us love.
28:22 It hurts.
28:27 It hurts.
28:29 It hurts.
28:30 It hurts.
28:42 It hurts.
28:44 It hurts.
28:57 It hurts.
28:58 What was the effect of the pandemic on your mother?
29:18 It was so hard, Auntie Mel,
29:20 because I didn't have a job.
29:22 Oh, I see.
29:23 The pandemic was about to end.
29:26 Yes, because she lost her livelihood.
29:29 She was also confused.
29:32 She was so depressed.
29:34 She was so quiet.
29:35 She didn't talk to anyone.
29:39 And she was also different.
29:43 She couldn't talk to anyone.
29:47 She was just worried that
29:49 she would die.
29:51 What should she do?
29:53 She should do a lot of things.
29:54 Do a lot of things?
29:55 Auntie.
29:56 It hurts.
30:16 Because of you,
30:17 I'm always in pain.
30:23 Because of you,
30:24 all of you are selfish.
30:28 All of you
30:33 are selfish in giving us love.
30:38 Why do you always blame me?
30:40 You always blame me.
30:41 Grace, your mother is the one you're talking to.
30:43 That guy is so stupid.
30:45 He won't come back.
30:46 My return exchange is damaged.
30:48 Your sister is the one who's missing.
30:50 She's a bad person.
30:52 She's just a high school student.
30:53 Maybe she's a doctor.
30:55 That's why she's with him.
30:56 If you don't have any fear of me,
30:57 I will find my revenge.
31:00 I didn't leave them in this world.
31:02 I raised them.
31:05 I fed them.
31:07 I educated them.
31:08 I made them use and use
31:11 all kinds of men.
31:13 Do you understand?
31:15 I don't want this anymore.
31:17 I can't do this anymore.
31:21 We'll both die.
31:23 I'll go first.
31:25 Don't be our children.
31:28 We won't feel love from them.
31:33 This pandemic
31:37 is bad for the family.
31:39 Wait a minute, Lita.
31:42 We'll put your children aside.
31:45 You just pay for your sins.
31:49 I'm the first one who met Ronnie,
31:51 not you.
31:52 Me?
31:53 I'm just telling you that I'm the first one.
31:54 You're just a scene.
31:55 We're just kids.
31:56 Don't change your attitude.
31:57 I know that you're the only one who can change your attitude.
32:00 Mimi!
32:01 I'm not in the mood to court anymore.
32:03 If you'll take my father,
32:04 he's a bad person.
32:05 I'm just like your children
32:06 who were fooled by other men.
32:08 I'm not just a girl
32:09 who has an unlimited boyfriend.
32:11 Are you listening?
32:12 This is your kitchen.
32:13 Bibb, bibb.
32:14 You know what?
32:16 Your problem is
32:17 that you'll get
32:19 what you deserve.
32:21 I'm always waiting for our children
32:25 but they're always not here.
32:27 What are you saying?
32:28 Are you drunk?
32:29 Stop it.
32:30 I'm not drunk.
32:31 Stop it.
32:32 Stop it.
32:33 I'm not drunk.
32:34 You're the only one who knows.
32:35 Stop it!
32:37 [car screeching]
32:39 Lita?
32:48 Lita!
32:49 Lita!
32:50 Lita!
32:52 What's that?
32:53 Lita!
32:54 Lita!
32:58 What's this?
32:59 You're going to die?
33:02 Why?
33:06 You're going to leave us?
33:08 What about me?
33:12 Lita, why?
33:15 Stop it.
33:17 I'm going to die.
33:20 I want to die.
33:24 Don't.
33:26 Don't, Lita.
33:29 Don't.
33:30 [baby crying]
33:35 Don't.
33:36 Don't, Lita.
33:44 [baby crying]
34:11 Promise me that you won't force me.
34:16 You won't push me.
34:21 We'll overcome this pandemic together.
34:28 Promise me, Lita.
34:33 We won't give up.
34:38 [music]
34:40 My children,
34:59 I hope you understand what we're going through.
35:05 [music]
35:07 Tell me, Father,
35:15 did I become a bad mother?
35:20 No.
35:33 I can't do this.
35:35 No, you can't.
35:36 [music]
35:39 [music]
35:42 [music]
35:45 [music]
35:47 [music]
35:58 [music]
36:01 [music]
36:03 [chatter]
36:18 Hey, boy.
36:25 Grandma, Grandpa.
36:27 Hello.
36:30 Where's Mama?
36:31 Grace is not here.
36:34 Grace?
36:41 Grace?
36:44 Grace?
36:51 Surprise!
36:59 Hi!
37:00 I changed my clothes for a dramatic look.
37:03 Hi!
37:05 We saw your dramatic move,
37:07 so I got nervous, my child.
37:09 Let's just greet each other.
37:12 No more fighting.
37:14 I'm sick of fighting viruses.
37:17 [chatter]
37:19 Jane, what time are you coming?
37:23 I'll just text you.
37:24 I hope you're happy.
37:27 No more fighting.
37:29 Siblings should love each other.
37:33 No more jealousy.
37:35 And most of all,
37:37 no more fighting with boys.
37:41 We're already friends, right?
37:43 Yes, we're already good.
37:45 We're solid, right? Solid.
37:47 Make sure you two are really solid.
37:50 As long as there's no more fighting with boys.
37:53 We're done, Jane.
37:55 Those guys are just boys.
37:58 True.
38:00 They look like girls.
38:02 Wait, wait.
38:04 What's boytoy?
38:06 Boy?
38:07 It's boytoy.
38:09 No, it's not.
38:10 Get out!
38:12 Let's go.
38:15 Oh, it's over.
38:16 I'm sleepy.
38:17 Limited edition.
38:18 I hope we're always happy.
38:22 We'll always have problems.
38:25 But a loving family
38:29 can handle anything.
38:32 So, let's fight!
38:35 Let's fight!
38:37 Happy birthday!
38:40 [chatter]
38:43 [chatter]
38:45 It's hard when there's a fight.
38:55 [laughter]
38:57 Cheers!
38:59 [chatter]
39:01 You know, there are a lot of mothers and children
39:07 who experience and go through
39:10 a lot of trials.
39:13 What can you say to them?
39:16 What happened to your family?
39:19 Maybe God won't give us a problem.
39:24 If we can't handle it,
39:28 we can solve all our problems.
39:38 We're just strong.
39:41 What about your siblings?
39:43 Do they fight?
39:47 What do you do?
39:52 We're still young.
39:56 We can't stop fighting.
40:02 But we understand each other.
40:06 We're still there when we're in trouble.
40:10 Thank you so much, Vicky.
40:14 Thank you very much.
40:16 And how are you and your mom and dad?
40:19 And all your siblings?
40:21 Thank you very much.
40:22 God bless your family.
40:23 God bless you.
40:24 Let's remember this episode
40:27 that we should never let our mothers go.
40:32 Especially when they're getting old.
40:35 When we neglect them,
40:39 it causes them to be sad and saddened.
40:46 And this is the reason why they get sick
40:50 and their lives become miserable.
40:53 I'm just going to say it straight.
40:56 You, children, please.
40:59 Not because you're done
41:01 and you're making your own money
41:03 or you don't have your own family,
41:05 you can't just leave your parents.
41:09 We should give them more importance,
41:14 attention, and love.
41:17 Now, tomorrow, and forever.
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