Come Out #263 _ CEO Bánh mì Má Hải và bản hợp đồng 9 điều YÊU, từng bắt ép ba mẹ chấp nhận giới tính

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00:00 [The story of a boy who broke up with his girlfriend]

00:03 We had a lot of conflicts in our life.

00:06 We even broke up many times.

00:08 I remember one time we broke up.

00:12 He had a new girlfriend and I had a girlfriend too.

00:15 [The story of a boy who broke up with his girlfriend]

00:18 I had to leave my student ID card,

00:21 push the banh mi cart to sell it.

00:23 Sometimes I saw that the people who ate banh mi were very stingy.

00:26 They were my friends.

00:27 I was very upset.

00:28 I was lonely in the first 5 months of my career.

00:31 I didn't see any of his values.

00:35 That was the reason why I decided to end my 5-year relationship.

00:40 I gave up my love life for love.

00:42 [The story of a boy who broke up with his girlfriend]

00:44 There are 9 rules when you want to go to the heaven.

00:46 First, you should always be right.

00:48 If you're wrong, you should apologize first.

00:50 You should be honest, love, and take care of yourself and your family.

00:54 You just need to be beautiful.

00:56 [The story of a boy who broke up with his girlfriend]

00:59 - Bolo. - And Minh Tuan.

01:01 Welcome to Come Out!

01:04 Bolo, I'm jealous of you today.

01:06 But today's guest is a special person.

01:08 Why is that?

01:09 He's a member of our community.

01:10 He's a member of our community for hundreds of episodes.

01:12 He's the CEO of a food brand.

01:16 He's very talented.

01:17 Because the quality of the food of that brand is quite good for me.

01:20 Can you give me more information?

01:22 He's a banh mi seller.

01:25 And he's famous for fish cake banh mi.

01:28 I can guess that it's Ma Hai's banh mi.

01:32 Right.

01:32 And now, let's welcome our guest today.

01:35 [The story of a boy who broke up with his girlfriend]

01:37 First, I'd like to say hello to Minh Tuan, Bolo Nguyen, the editors, and everyone who's watching Come Out.

01:44 I'm Minh Nhat Do, 30 years old.

01:46 I'm the CEO and the founder of Ma Hai's banh mi.

01:48 Before becoming the CEO of a banh mi brand with a lot of branches,

01:54 when you were young, did you have a childhood like other boys?

01:58 I think I did, and I think I didn't.

01:59 I was a member of the first generation of 9ix.

02:02 So at that time, I didn't have a lot of information about the LGBT community.

02:08 I remember that in my second year of high school, I had a crush on a class president.

02:12 He was very special to me.

02:14 He cared a lot about me, like a brother.

02:16 And that care and protection made me feel very precious.

02:19 I didn't dare to think about anything else.

02:22 When you felt a little bit lonely, did you feel like you were special?

02:27 Or when did you realize you were special?

02:30 I think I had the feeling that I was special, but I didn't dare to think about it.

02:34 Actually, at the age when I didn't even wear a shirt,

02:37 I had my own doubts, but I didn't know how to find the information channel to update my knowledge.

02:43 Or I was very worried about what would happen if I was in the community.

02:46 I will face my family, face society.

02:49 I'm always a good boy of my parents and school.

02:52 If everyone knew me like that, what would I do?

02:54 So I didn't dare to think about it.

02:55 I also thought that it was not because of the sun, but just a feeling.

02:59 It was just a beautiful memory.

03:02 Did you try to date another girl to prove yourself straight?

03:05 Aqua Celine, no-smell Lanac from Europe.

03:08 No smell, dry Lanac for a few days.

03:10 Never.

03:11 Never?

03:12 Until college, I had my first love.

03:14 Ah.

03:15 Of course, it was a boy.

03:16 And I knew I was gay.

03:18 When did you discover it?

03:20 At the football field.

03:23 The moment I found out that I had a crush on that girl,

03:26 did I accept myself right away?

03:28 Or I still thought I was a bad boy.

03:32 I had that feeling.

03:33 The moment I discovered that I had a crush on her was a very random time.

03:38 When I was in college, I was quite famous in the street.

03:42 Because I was still thin and young at that time.

03:44 I was known as a boy with a very beautiful face.

03:47 So when I organized a party,

03:50 there was a perfect couple game.

03:53 I had to pretend to be a girl.

03:55 I was the queen of that day.

03:57 At that time, I was noticed by many friends.

04:00 I started to have a little affection for boys.

04:05 Until I was in military school.

04:06 I and my first love were in the same room.

04:09 She was a hot face in the street.

04:12 Her appearance was very pretty and Korean.

04:14 She was noticed by many girls in the street.

04:17 At that time, I was just grateful for her.

04:20 She was very enthusiastic about her career.

04:24 I asked her to go with me.

04:25 When I asked her to have lunch in the military,

04:27 she was very willing and shared a lot with me.

04:31 At that time, I was just grateful.

04:32 Until the end of the military,

04:35 she officially dated a girl.

04:37 I don't know why I felt so guilty.

04:40 I didn't know what kind of feeling it was.

04:43 At first, I was just grateful.

04:47 Why did I feel so painful?

04:49 I always thought about her on the bike.

04:51 When the bike hit the tree,

04:53 I realized that I really liked her.

04:57 How did your relationship with her change?

05:03 In the first 5 months of college,

05:06 my family was very difficult.

05:07 I had to beg for food to have a meal.

05:12 My sister had to work as a maid to support me.

05:15 We were in District 9.

05:17 After the breakup, I tried to forget it

05:20 to continue my studies.

05:21 I was carrying a mission on my shoulder

05:23 which was to improve the family's situation.

05:27 I have a question.

05:28 You and she were quite close before.

05:32 When you decided to break up,

05:34 did she ask you why you did that to her?

05:38 I didn't have time to answer her.

05:39 She replied.

05:40 I told her that I was in District 9.

05:42 I had to catch a bus to go to the university.

05:46 I tried to avoid her.

05:48 But she took a bus with me that day.

05:53 My sister had a plan to go back to Phu Quoc.

05:55 I was looking for a new place in the city center.

05:59 I didn't have time to answer her.

05:59 She told me that she was looking for a new place in the city center.

06:04 When I heard that, I was tired.

06:06 I didn't know who to live with.

06:07 I thought I was okay.

06:10 I was thinking that I was in a good mood.

06:17 I was so confused.

06:19 I didn't know if it was God's plan.

06:21 I was so confused.

06:23 You were so confused.

06:25 It was God's plan.

06:26 When I decided, it was God's plan.

06:30 Don't blame him.

06:32 You and she were living together.

06:35 She was dating another guy.

06:37 Did you feel confused?

06:43 Yes, I did.

06:44 I felt guilty.

06:46 Our story was moving fast.

06:49 From the first night when we moved to the city center.

06:53 It was God's plan.

06:55 I couldn't sleep.

06:56 My heart was beating so fast.

06:58 It was so fast.

07:00 I didn't know if she was sleeping.

07:01 I didn't dare to turn my face.

07:03 I didn't dare to move.

07:04 I didn't even dare to breathe.

07:06 My heart was beating so fast.

07:07 A book fell down on the ground.

07:11 She turned to hug me.

07:13 It was so random.

07:14 Why?

07:16 She was going to hug the book.

07:18 She was afraid of ghosts.

07:20 She was scared of being scared.

07:21 I was so scared.

07:22 I couldn't sleep.

07:24 I just called her name.

07:26 I said "Are you okay?"

07:27 "It's just a book."

07:28 That's it.

07:29 She didn't let go of the book.

07:33 I was a bit sensitive.

07:35 I didn't know why she kept pushing my hand into my pants.

07:40 It was a big deal.

07:43 I didn't know what to do.

07:45 I didn't know what to say.

07:49 When she was about to put her hand in my pants.

07:51 I held her hand.

07:54 And pushed her out.

07:56 I don't know why.

07:57 I was so embarrassed.

07:59 But I felt like she wanted to push me out.

08:03 She pushed me again.

08:04 I pushed her out again.

08:06 I was so embarrassed.

08:07 I put my hand into her pants.

08:09 That night, we were just joking.

08:14 When I was calm, I felt guilty.

08:17 I texted him.

08:19 "We didn't have any problem last night."

08:21 "I'll try to be normal."

08:23 He said "Okay, I know."

08:24 We were so close.

08:26 We were roommates.

08:29 Until a month later.

08:31 He broke up with me.

08:34 That's the fate.

08:39 I think he had to think a lot.

08:42 To make that decision.

08:44 After he broke up, he hugged me and cried a lot.

08:46 And...

08:48 After a month of trying to be normal.

08:54 Nhat told me that he would still have me by his side.

09:00 I think you've known him for a long time.

09:05 Yes.

09:05 5 years.

09:07 I think few people have a first love that long.

09:10 Because first love is usually for testing.

09:12 But how did you and he have a long relationship?

09:17 We were classmates.

09:19 We were roommates.

09:21 We were in love.

09:23 So we were very close.

09:26 We had everything in life.

09:31 We helped each other to understand each other.

09:34 We were together for 5 years.

09:37 5 years has a lot of happy and sad memories.

09:40 We had a lot of disagreements.

09:44 About our career and future.

09:48 I'm a very active and passionate person.

09:53 I have a goal and I'm very focused on it.

09:56 He is very focused on what people say.

10:00 We've known each other for 5 years but we've never held hands.

10:05 I think you're a "pulling me back" type of person.

10:11 He has a negative attitude.

10:14 He's negative about life.

10:16 He just enjoys life.

10:18 I'm a person who has a long-term goal.

10:20 I'm the one who decides our future.

10:22 We had a lot of disagreements.

10:24 Who is the one who will be the one to solve them?

10:28 I'm a strong person.

10:32 I never confess my feelings.

10:35 I never feel like I have to chase anyone.

10:38 I'll decide when they chase me.

10:40 I'm not sorry for my mistakes.

10:45 I was young and I was very stubborn.

10:47 He's the one who has to apologize and beg me.

10:51 He's a very good person.

10:54 He takes care of me when I'm sick.

10:57 He accepts changes from a person who doesn't know how to cook.

11:00 He cooks for me.

11:02 He loves me.

11:04 But it's a different story if he loves me or not.

11:08 We had a lot of disagreements.

11:10 We broke up many times.

11:13 I remember one time we broke up.

11:17 He had a new girlfriend and I had a girlfriend.

11:20 [What?]

11:22 [Surprised]

11:24 I think you'll be shocked if I say this.

11:27 My friends think I'm a very honest person.

11:33 But I regret it.

11:36 I feel guilty for that girl.

11:38 I said we broke up many times in those 5 years.

11:42 There was a moment I decided to end it forever.

11:45 Do you remember that moment?

11:47 It was the last year of Tet holiday.

11:49 I went back to my hometown and I saw a hickey on his chest.

11:56 It was a small finger.

11:58 I called him out and said I'd forgive him if he told me the truth.

12:04 If not, I'd end it.

12:06 He admitted to me that he had a girlfriend.

12:10 He was trying to seduce me.

12:12 I checked his LINE account.

12:14 I found a real one.

12:16 I saw him with her.

12:20 People usually send hearts, right?

12:22 Yes, they do.

12:24 He didn't comment but he told me that maybe she was his third one.

12:30 I texted him.

12:32 He sent me a text that he texted her.

12:36 I decided to break up with him.

12:38 There was another reason.

12:40 We graduated from the same university.

12:44 I graduated from the best university in the country.

12:48 I had a chance to work at Dao Quoc Gia.

12:50 It was one of the biggest accounting companies in the world.

12:52 I was a good student.

12:54 But I didn't like my job.

12:58 I was under pressure and I wanted to quit.

13:04 I decided to stop working at Dao Quoc Gia.

13:08 I wanted to find a new job and start my own business.

13:12 He was arguing with me a lot.

13:14 Why did you quit your job that everyone admires?

13:18 He wanted to be nice to me.

13:20 But I found out that he didn't understand me.

13:24 It was a hard time for me in the first few months.

13:34 I had to leave my student life.

13:36 I had to sell my banh mi cart.

13:38 I was lonely.

13:40 I didn't have any company.

13:42 I was a single man.

13:44 I decided to end my 5-year relationship.

13:46 I gave up my love life.

13:48 I think that he didn't do that for a reason.

13:50 It was a test.

13:52 I could understand how he felt at first.

13:54 I could understand how he felt at first.

13:56 I could understand how he felt at first.

13:58 I could understand how he felt at first.

14:00 I could understand how he felt at first.

14:02 I could understand how he felt at first.

14:04 I could understand how he felt at first.

14:06 I could understand how he felt at first.

14:08 How did he react when you decided to break up?

14:12 He cried a lot.

14:20 He even waited for me to come home.

14:24 After that relationship,

14:26 you changed from a man who loves his heart to a man who loves his mind, right?

14:30 Wow!

14:32 That's right.

14:34 I didn't have any feelings for him.

14:38 But his love and sacrifice for me,

14:42 people say that it's true.

14:44 I was so nervous.

14:46 I thought he was so kind.

14:50 So I decided to move to a house with him.

14:54 We've been dating for 5 years.

14:56 Wow! 5 years!

14:58 I have 2 boyfriends.

15:00 No, no.

15:02 You haven't stopped, right?

15:04 I mean we've been dating for 5 years.

15:06 Okay.

15:08 What made him chase you?

15:10 He was 4 years old when he was born.

15:12 He was a member of a club that I was the head of.

15:18 He had just started school.

15:22 He was like a brother to me.

15:24 He was energetic and willing to share his feelings with other boys.

15:28 I met him at a prom to celebrate the club's founding.

15:32 Wow!

15:34 A man with a strategy can attract a lot of girls.

15:38 After that prom,

15:40 I met him 3 times.

15:42 The first time,

15:44 I was dating my ex-boyfriend.

15:46 He was dating his ex-girlfriend.

15:48 The second time,

15:50 I think it was a year ago,

15:52 I broke up with my ex-girlfriend.

15:54 He was still dating his ex-girlfriend.

15:56 He invited me to a coffee shop to share his experience.

15:58 The third time,

16:00 I broke up with my ex-girlfriend.

16:02 He was single.

16:04 I was watching a movie with my best friend.

16:06 But she gave me a ticket.

16:08 I texted her.

16:10 We were just talking to each other.

16:14 I asked her if the movie was good.

16:18 She usually watches movies.

16:20 She watched almost all of them.

16:22 I asked her if the movie was good.

16:24 She said yes.

16:26 If not, I would give up.

16:28 She said she hadn't watched it yet.

16:30 But she knew I had watched it.

16:32 She asked me if I wanted to watch the movie with her.

16:34 I was confused.

16:36 I was like,

16:38 "You want me to watch it?"

16:40 That's so cool.

16:42 I was a strong girl.

16:44 I couldn't be so aggressive.

16:46 I had to be self-restraint.

16:48 "If you want me to watch it,

16:50 let's pretend to ask me to watch it."

16:52 I was fine with it.

16:54 I didn't feel anything.

16:56 Later, I talked to my friends.

16:58 They asked me if I was sad.

17:00 I was sad because it was our first date.

17:02 I couldn't sleep.

17:04 I had to think about her all night.

17:06 She texted me everyday.

17:08 She wanted to pick me up.

17:10 I was like, "You're too young."

17:12 "Let's see how long you can hold it."

17:14 It was almost Christmas 2018.

17:18 She asked me out to a place.

17:20 It was a fish noodle place.

17:22 She was shy.

17:24 I asked her if she wanted to go out.

17:26 She prepared 2 shirts.

17:28 It was the right theme for Christmas.

17:30 She said,

17:32 "If..."

17:34 I asked her if she wanted to confess her love to me.

17:36 "If you agree,

17:40 can I wear this shirt to go out with you?"

17:42 She was so passionate.

17:44 She said she would go to work

17:46 and pick me up every morning.

17:48 She would come early in the morning

17:50 and wait for me.

17:52 She just wanted to give me a glass of water or a box of milk.

17:54 With such a passion,

17:56 my heart was so dry for 2 years.

17:58 I was so nervous.

18:00 So I gave her a chance.

18:02 On Christmas,

18:04 she confessed her love

18:06 and wanted to kiss me.

18:08 But I refused.

18:10 I gave her 2 months to challenge.

18:12 If she could overcome 2 months

18:14 and we could be together,

18:16 I would agree.

18:18 On Christmas,

18:20 I tried to date her for 2 months.

18:22 I decided to change my way of proposing.

18:24 I asked her to be me

18:26 and she asked me to be her.

18:28 I admit that

18:30 an economist knows how to fake a product.

18:32 A proposal that takes 2 months,

18:34 I think it's not good.

18:36 I was about to ask you

18:38 if you would agree to 2 months challenge.

18:40 2 days is too much for me.

18:42 On the date of the date,

18:44 I said yes.

18:46 It was February 14, 2019.

18:48 Oh, I heard Valentine's Day.

18:50 She was so active and gallant.

18:52 She booked a fancy restaurant

18:54 and gave me a breakfast.

18:56 I was so thoughtful.

18:58 After we finished eating,

19:00 she confessed her love.

19:02 She said

19:04 if she could,

19:06 she would give me a chance

19:08 to accompany her to protect her.

19:10 But I didn't agree at that time.

19:12 Anyway,

19:14 I invested 2 months.

19:16 I had to think of something

19:18 to make a final price.

19:20 Luckily, I was lucky.

19:22 If I made a price too high,

19:24 I would be sued.

19:26 Thank you for taking care of me

19:28 and accompanying me for 2 months.

19:30 I will give you advantages and disadvantages.

19:32 Before I say yes,

19:34 I have to make sure

19:36 that we have to work on our ideas first.

19:38 I think we are suitable for each other.

19:40 I have to say that

19:42 I regret

19:44 that I had to

19:46 break up with her

19:48 because

19:50 I was going to

19:52 have a lover

19:54 like you

19:56 in the next phase.

19:58 She was going to be broken up.

20:00 Before we decided,

20:02 we had to sign

20:04 a contract.

20:06 Who signed the contract?

20:08 I was the one who arranged it.

20:10 I told her that

20:12 I would find a partner

20:14 if she read it carefully

20:16 and sign it.

20:18 Did you sign it as a seal?

20:20 No, I just signed it normally.

20:22 It was not a financial contract.

20:24 But there was a love contract.

20:26 I will follow you today

20:28 to share some details.

20:30 There are 9 rules in this contract.

20:32 If we want to go to the same place,

20:34 we have 9 rules.

20:36 First, you have to apologize.

20:38 You know that

20:40 you are a good person.

20:42 If you don't apologize,

20:44 you will be in a cold war.

20:46 Such a cold war

20:48 will affect many relationships.

20:50 Second, you have to understand and sympathize

20:52 each other's shortcomings.

20:54 Respect each other's privacy,

20:56 habits, and

20:58 harmonize with others' habits.

21:00 Third, be loyal to each other.

21:02 Don't be jealous of each other

21:04 especially

21:06 in gaydom.

21:08 You are allowed to check

21:10 your partner's love.

21:12 And the fourth rule is

21:14 if you don't like each other,

21:16 you will sit down and talk to each other

21:18 to end the relationship.

21:20 The sixth rule is

21:22 you have to be loyal,

21:24 caring, and take care of your family.

21:26 You just need to be beautiful.

21:28 The ninth rule is

21:30 you can't be hit by a flower.

21:32 Those are some cute points

21:34 in a contract.

21:36 Why do people hit by a flower?

21:38 It's lucky that I haven't been hit by a flower for 5 years.

21:40 Wait a minute.

21:42 As an economist,

21:44 when we make a contract,

21:46 we have to have both sides

21:48 to discuss about the terms.

21:50 Here you are.

21:52 You have to be loyal to each other.

21:54 One side is Nguyen Van A,

21:56 the other is Le Thi Me.

21:58 So there is no such thing.

22:00 He has no idea about this contract.

22:02 I'm a loyal person.

22:04 If he had the courage to give me an opinion,

22:06 I would have said no.

22:08 I don't know what to do.

22:10 But being loyal here

22:12 means being a good wife.

22:14 But being loyal here means being a good wife.

22:16 Oh my god.

22:18 After reading it,

22:20 he nodded.

22:22 He held it and read it again.

22:24 When he put his signature in,

22:26 I knew that I had found

22:28 half of my prince charm.

22:30 I feel like

22:32 it's like a strategy.

22:34 It's like a strategy.

22:36 I agree.

22:38 I couldn't sign it.

22:40 I told you that

22:42 in that moment,

22:44 Nhat wrote that

22:46 I called the dog a cat,

22:48 he had to nod.

22:50 He would sign it.

22:52 There is a clause that

22:54 all the property will be mine.

22:56 That's clause 5, right?

22:58 Yes.

23:00 You avoided clause 5.

23:02 I read clause 6.

23:04 People think that I'm a business man.

23:06 But sometimes,

23:08 I know that

23:10 I'm a firm person.

23:12 I will try my best.

23:14 I'm afraid of being hurt.

23:16 When I'm hurt,

23:18 I have to solve the problem.

23:20 I'm tired of sharing property.

23:22 So I put this clause in.

23:24 In the last 5 years,

23:26 has he ever

23:28 made a small mistake in the contract?

23:30 There are arguments.

23:32 We haven't had a big argument.

23:34 He is a wonderful person.

23:36 He is very kind and has high commitment.

23:38 So I feel like

23:40 I'm about to find

23:42 the other 50%.

23:44 You have a good feeling.

23:50 Let's talk about your career.

23:52 Why did you choose Banh Mi and Fish Cake?

23:54 Why did you choose Banh Mi and Fish Cake?

23:56 There are many types of Banh Mi.

23:58 There are Pate, Pork Roll,

24:00 and Fish Cake.

24:02 Fish Cake is one of the specialties

24:04 in Vung Tau.

24:06 It was the last year of

24:08 the Japanese colonial period.

24:10 So he decided to start Banh Mi.

24:12 The first idea was

24:14 that he had a dish in his hometown

24:16 that he thought was popular.

24:18 So he built a company

24:20 to sell Banh Mi.

24:22 At that time,

24:24 he thought that he could earn more money

24:26 and it was the right thing for him.

24:28 He learned a lot from the experience.

24:30 When he decided to leave his job

24:32 and start a business,

24:34 his family didn't allow him to do so.

24:36 He studied hard

24:38 and finally he sold Banh Mi.

24:40 If he sold Banh Mi, he could have studied all the first and second years.

24:42 Why did he sell Banh Mi?

24:44 He built up Banh Mi in less than a year.

24:46 From a few points to more than 40 points.

24:48 But it was a long story.

24:50 He left his job

24:52 and in 6 months, he lost his job.

24:54 Because of his different views.

24:56 And he was in his 20s

24:58 so he was very depressed.

25:00 He had so many advantages.

25:02 He graduated, he was good at studying.

25:04 He was the head of a English club.

25:06 He had experience working for a multinational company.

25:08 Why did he have to listen to him?

25:10 He had to go to Phu Quoc for 6 months.

25:12 He had to manage

25:14 and do all the work himself.

25:16 One day, he told me

25:18 "I have to go to Phu Quoc.

25:20 Can we meet?"

25:22 We went around

25:24 and finally we stopped at a street food stall.

25:26 He said

25:28 "I have many friends in my team

25:30 but I just realized

25:32 how much effort and investment

25:34 I had put into this Banh Mi.

25:36 Can I come back

25:38 as a friend or a co-founder?"

25:40 He was so proud of himself.

25:42 He was so proud of himself.

25:44 I thought

25:46 maybe I should give myself

25:48 a chance

25:50 because I was so desperate when I was young.

25:52 I should come back

25:54 and develop a brand

25:56 that can be known all over the world.

25:58 I have a question.

26:00 You left Banh Mi Ma Hai

26:02 in 6 months.

26:04 Why didn't you start up

26:06 your own brand?

26:08 Actually, my trip to Phu Quoc

26:10 was a coincidence.

26:12 I was assigned to a position

26:14 in a shopping mall.

26:16 The shipper was very kind to me.

26:18 He taught me a lot

26:20 and he was very kind.

26:22 He inspired me

26:24 and gave me a chance to grow.

26:26 That's why I decided

26:28 to bring Banh Mi Ma Hai back

26:30 with a new role

26:32 and new contributions.

26:34 After your comeback,

26:36 have you ever had any failure?

26:38 We have failed 3 times.

26:40 Why did you fail 3 times?

26:42 We opened a shop

26:44 and we trusted the chef

26:46 so we followed the recipe.

26:48 We chose the wrong table

26:50 and we paid a lot of money

26:52 for each failure.

26:54 We even paid billions

26:56 for each failure.

26:58 It doesn't matter how many times we failed.

27:00 What matters is how we learned

27:02 and what lessons we learned

27:04 to come back and succeed.

27:06 How many times we failed is important.

27:08 If we failed too many times,

27:10 we wouldn't need to pay for the next time.

27:12 The problem is

27:14 when I came back,

27:16 I still had money to pay.

27:18 It doesn't matter.

27:20 Nhat was successful with the cart chain.

27:22 He opened a shop.

27:24 At least, he had a cow.

27:26 If we failed, we could do it again.

27:28 Oh my god!

27:30 You are an economist.

27:32 Only an economist has such question.

27:34 What is your love story?

27:38 My love story is fine.

27:40 It's a love story of a farmer.

27:42 It's my love story.

27:44 Actually,

27:46 my love story is

27:48 a bit...

27:50 I think people will think I'm a pervert.

27:52 Actually, my love story is

27:54 a bit perverted.

27:56 I chose to date at the time of COVID-19.

27:58 I was infected with COVID-19.

28:00 I didn't know I had...

28:02 I didn't know I had a vaccine.

28:04 I didn't know I could overcome it.

28:06 You didn't have a vaccine?

28:08 I didn't have a vaccine at that time.

28:10 I didn't have a shot.

28:12 I asked my husband to come.

28:14 I wrote down all the things

28:16 I would wish for.

28:18 Like the insurance contract,

28:20 the car, the property,

28:22 the house.

28:24 I told my family

28:26 if I had any problem,

28:28 I would contact my friend

28:30 or my family.

28:32 I wanted my family to have

28:34 the best conditions even if I had

28:36 some problems in my life.

28:38 My parents cried a lot when I told them.

28:40 The last thing I wanted to tell them

28:42 was that

28:44 my life has never made them

28:46 disappointed or sad.

28:48 I'm so sorry

28:50 because I owe my parents a lot

28:52 and I can't bring it to them.

28:54 But I believe

28:56 the person who has been with me

28:58 for a long time is the right person.

29:00 I'm so happy about that.

29:02 My parents cried a lot

29:04 and I cried too.

29:06 They said that

29:08 nothing is more important than

29:10 my health and my life.

29:12 They will always respect and support

29:14 my decisions.

29:16 I don't know what to say

29:18 but I feel that they are wonderful

29:20 and I love them so much.

29:22 When you were touched,

29:26 you said that you were a bit stupid.

29:28 I think it's true.

29:30 The reason why I didn't come out

29:32 was because I didn't have a plan

29:34 or I was stupid.

29:36 This is my personal opinion.

29:38 LGBT people always ask

29:40 their family to accept them,

29:42 society and others to recognize them.

29:44 But you have to be a valuable person

29:46 to be recognized.

29:48 If you live your life happily

29:50 and you can help your family

29:52 and create values for society,

29:54 not only your family but also

29:56 society will accept you.

29:58 Thank you for sharing.

30:00 I think when people watch this show,

30:02 they will have motivation to develop themselves

30:04 and they will have their own plan

30:06 in everything.

30:08 I wish you all the best

30:10 in your life.

30:12 I wish everything will be better

30:14 and you will get married soon.

30:16 I think marriage is a new beginning

30:18 not the end of a relationship.

30:20 I hope that

30:22 your marriage will be a good start

30:24 for your life.

30:26 Thank you.

30:28 Thank you for coming here today.

30:30 Thank you for watching

30:32 Come Out.

30:34 Don't forget to watch the show

30:36 every Monday at 8pm on MGB Media.

30:38 Goodbye and see you again.

30:40 Goodbye.

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