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00:00 I told you guys to show up, and you guys show up
00:02 looking really good.
00:03 Yeah, girl, haven't seen you in a long time.
00:05 Oh my god.
00:06 I love this.
00:06 What's going on with you guys?
00:07 You know, I've just been living my best life.
00:09 We love that.
00:10 Doing the best that I can.
00:11 I'm living the soft life.
00:12 I'm not going to lie to you.
00:13 It's feeling real plush over here.
00:14 It's feeling very plush.
00:16 Well, y'all already know who I am.
00:17 So that means you know that I brought a game today for us
00:20 to play.
00:21 Of course you do.
00:23 It's called Sip or Spill.
00:25 Juicy.
00:26 And it is exactly what it sounds like.
00:29 Y'all ready to get into this?
00:30 Yeah.
00:32 Are we sipping, or are we spilling?
00:34 Like, what combination?
00:35 Oh, we're doing all of the things.
00:36 So can you go ahead?
00:37 Let's grab our drinks.
00:38 What do you have set up for us here today?
00:40 I got you guys some Flemixology, and each flavor
00:42 match everyone's lifestyle.
00:45 Ooh.
00:46 Guava mojito for you, and lime margarita for me.
00:51 Let's get into it.
00:52 All right.
00:52 Should I go first?
00:53 Go ahead.
00:54 OK.
00:54 You guys ready?
00:56 Yes.
00:56 I'm not.
00:57 [LAUGHTER]
00:59 Take a sip of your drink.
01:02 You?
01:03 Me?
01:03 All of us?
01:04 It's for her.
01:04 Oh.
01:05 Whatever it is, it's for her.
01:06 All right.
01:06 Well, mine's just going straight down.
01:08 And it did that.
01:09 It's going to go second.
01:12 Ooh.
01:13 Spill.
01:14 What is on your list?
01:17 We're talking about dating this day and age.
01:20 I'll give you one thing.
01:21 OK.
01:21 I'll say consistency.
01:23 Ooh.
01:23 Peri-kit.
01:24 That's it.
01:25 Tell me more.
01:26 You see how green my shirt is, how green these cords is?
01:28 Uh-huh.
01:29 You see it's consistent?
01:30 Yes.
01:30 My margarita is consistent.
01:32 Yes.
01:33 It's just that simple.
01:34 Yeah.
01:34 No, period.
01:35 What'd you get?
01:37 All right.
01:37 You just hit the lottery, and you can do
01:39 whatever you want for a year.
01:42 What are you going to do?
01:44 You know what?
01:45 I've been wanting to take a sabbatical
01:47 and just be in the middle of the ocean with nobody.
01:50 I'm the only one in the world just for six months.
01:52 Yes.
01:53 Look at you sweat.
01:54 I don't know yet, but I'm going to find out.
01:57 Traditional marriage, open marriage,
02:00 or are you down to go 50/50?
02:03 I'm team 50/50 all day.
02:06 What about you?
02:07 Well, I feel like I could go 50/50, too.
02:10 OK.
02:10 It's a partnership.
02:11 Yeah.
02:12 I mean, traditional marriage is kind of like old school now.
02:14 So--
02:15 So--
02:15 Beautiful.
02:16 --let's spice it up a little bit.
02:17 You want the traditional vibe?
02:19 Perhaps.
02:20 Mm-hmm.
02:21 Somebody can take this little load off of me.
02:23 OK.
02:24 Let's--
02:24 We love it.
02:25 --do it all.
02:25 OK.
02:26 I got to wipe the counter.
02:27 [LAUGHTER]
02:28 She said, I don't need to do everything.
02:30 I know.
02:30 And I hear you there.
02:31 I'm not mad at all.
02:32 Like, why are we carrying all this weight on our shoulders
02:35 as Black women, as women?
02:37 Ooh.
02:38 What is one thing you can do to simplify your life?
02:42 Delegation, asking for help.
02:43 Yeah, asking for help.
02:45 And maybe starting to say no.
02:47 You know, I hear you.
02:47 But saying no can be real difficult.
02:49 It takes a strong person to say no.
02:52 - Yeah, but saying "no" can be simple.
02:54 - With a period on the end, just say "no."
02:56 - Not a comma.
02:57 - It's just that simple.
02:58 - Love!
03:00 - Oi, oi, oi, oi, oi...
03:01 [laughing]