Hẹn Ăn Trưa #396 _ Cô gái 9x Đồng Tháp thổ lộ từng yêu Anh “Bo” Đan Trường

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00:00 [Music]

00:06 DalatMew, completely natural.

00:09 When I was dating, I didn't know that she had a family.

00:16 [Music]

00:21 When I asked her if she had something to hide from me, it was like I gave her a chance.

00:24 But she lied to me, she lied to me again, I didn't believe her anymore.

00:28 If you don't have that faith, you can never do anything.

00:33 [Music]

00:43 I'm sorry.

00:44 It's okay. All your feelings are accepted unconditionally here.

00:48 Because now I'm afraid of being left alone.

00:53 [Music]

00:55 Actually, who was the one who contacted that guy first?

00:59 I was the one who contacted that guy first.

01:01 Did she know that you and that guy were having an affair?

01:05 I knew it, because she was teasing me and that guy.

01:08 But she said that she was dating another guy.

01:11 So when she cooked food and invited her boyfriend to eat, what did you do for your love?

01:19 [Music]

01:28 Welcome back to Lunch Date.

01:31 The show is broadcast at 6pm every Friday on NTV Media.

01:36 Thank you for your support and love.

01:41 And this week, we are very nervous to see which two young people will come here to find a man for their life.

01:50 And the man is already here.

01:52 Now, let's invite the girl to come in the frame.

01:55 [Music]

01:58 Step forward a little bit, then to my left.

02:01 Okay, sit down.

02:03 Now, I will open the mask so that we can talk to each other easily.

02:09 [Music]

02:15 Hello, young man.

02:16 Hello, sister.

02:17 Are you nervous?

02:18 Yes, I am.

02:19 Now, please introduce yourself.

02:22 My name is Chi Lan.

02:23 I am 32 years old.

02:24 I am from Ca Mau.

02:26 I live and work in Binh Tan, Ho Chi Minh.

02:29 I am a manager of a food store.

02:31 What do you do in your hometown?

02:33 I raise crabs, shrimps and crabs.

02:37 You are from Ca Mau, right?

02:39 Yes.

02:40 Are you a blood crab?

02:41 Yes, I am.

02:42 What is your family name?

02:43 I am from Australia.

02:44 Oh my god, you are so poor.

02:46 You were born in 1992?

02:48 Yes, I was born in 1992.

02:49 How old are you?

02:51 I am a monkey.

02:53 You are a monkey.

02:54 Let's see if the other three have fallen in this side.

02:58 The girl has heard the man clearly, right?

03:01 She is from Ca Mau.

03:03 Where are you from?

03:04 I am from Tô Nghia.

03:07 Hello everyone.

03:08 My name is My Ngân.

03:09 I was born in 1994.

03:10 I am from Đồng Tháp.

03:12 What is your birthplace?

03:13 Tú Tút.

03:14 You are so poor.

03:15 You are a poor person.

03:18 Sometimes, you are lucky.

03:20 You are from Đồng Tháp.

03:22 Yes, I am.

03:23 It is not difficult to go to Đồng Tháp to get married.

03:27 It is not difficult.

03:31 Do you know which way to go to Đồng Tháp?

03:34 If you take me there, I can go one way.

03:36 You can go to Quất Lộ, Quảng Lộ, Phụng Hiệp.

03:39 Do you know that way?

03:40 Yes, I do.

03:41 It is closer.

03:42 She is a construction and interior designer.

03:46 What is your job now?

03:48 I have been in Ho Chi Minh City for 5 years.

03:52 My job is about business and cosmetics.

03:55 Which district are you in now?

03:58 I am in District 8.

03:59 Are you from Bình Tân?

04:00 Which district?

04:01 I am from Bình Tân.

04:02 I am from Bình Tân, Miền Tây.

04:03 Which district are you in?

04:05 I am from Bình Tân, Miền Tây.

04:06 I am from An Như Quân, District 8.

04:09 You are in Phú Định, right?

04:12 I am in Phú Lâm.

04:15 Are you close to each other?

04:17 Yes, we are.

04:18 You are so close.

04:20 How many children do you have?

04:22 I have a son.

04:23 Your son is a bachelor.

04:24 Do you have a daughter?

04:26 I don't have a daughter.

04:29 How many siblings do you have?

04:32 I have 6 siblings.

04:34 How many siblings do you have?

04:36 2 brothers and 2 sisters.

04:38 So you have 5 siblings in total.

04:40 How about your siblings?

04:41 They are also single.

04:43 Some things are quite easy.

04:50 But why haven't you had a girlfriend yet?

04:54 I have had 3 relationships.

04:56 3 relationships.

04:57 The first one was when I was in high school in Can Tho.

05:00 We lost contact when we were in school.

05:03 We haven't contacted each other since then.

05:05 A relationship that you broke up with?

05:07 When I was in school, I came here to work.

05:09 My second relationship was when I worked at a construction company.

05:13 We were together for 3 years.

05:16 We broke up because we couldn't agree on where we would live.

05:22 I wanted my girlfriend to get married.

05:27 I worked here to take care of my parents.

05:31 My girlfriend didn't agree.

05:33 Why didn't she agree?

05:35 She said that I was a bad son.

05:38 So she didn't want to live with me.

05:40 But you are actually a bad son.

05:42 Is the road to your house convenient?

05:45 Yes, it's convenient.

05:46 Do you take a boat or a car?

05:47 A car.

05:48 If you live in Ho Chi Minh City, you have to go to my house.

05:50 People say that the center of the province is in Ca Mau.

05:55 Yes.

05:56 You have to go to other districts.

05:58 Which district are you in?

05:59 I'm in Ngoc Hien District.

06:00 I live at the end of Ca Mau.

06:01 Ngoc Hien is like the end of your hometown.

06:05 Your girlfriend didn't agree.

06:07 Where is your hometown?

06:08 My hometown is also in Ca Mau.

06:09 But she lives in the center of the city.

06:11 So from her house to my house is 125km.

06:18 So from Dong Thap to your house is 125km.

06:21 Yes.

06:22 So if you are working in Ho Chi Minh City,

06:24 it's almost 300km plus 125km.

06:27 Yes.

06:28 You are far away from each other.

06:29 Yes.

06:30 So you have to know where you are far away from each other.

06:33 Is it a kilometer or a distance between you two?

06:37 Do you want to build a family with your third love?

06:41 I broke up with my third love 8 months ago.

06:44 It's just a few months ago.

06:45 When I was dating, I didn't know she had a family.

06:51 Why didn't you know?

06:59 I tried to find out when I was dating.

07:01 But she didn't say she had a family.

07:03 Maybe she did.

07:04 When we tried to find out,

07:06 I found out that she had a family and divorced.

07:10 How long have you been dating?

07:11 About 1.5 years.

07:13 Did you try to find out when you were dating?

07:16 I tried to find out when I was dating.

07:17 I tried to find out when I was dating.

07:19 But I didn't tell her.

07:20 Why?

07:21 She told me on April 30th.

07:23 I found her husband's Facebook page.

07:27 He texted me.

07:28 What did he text you?

07:29 He asked me how I was doing.

07:33 When I found out, I asked her if she was hiding anything from me.

07:37 She told me she was still hiding something from me.

07:39 Did you talk to those two men openly?

07:41 I called them.

07:43 I talked to them.

07:44 I found out that she had a family and divorced.

07:48 What did she text you?

07:51 She asked me if I knew she had a family.

07:55 You were so naive.

07:57 Did she tell you why she didn't tell you about her situation?

08:04 I asked her but she didn't tell me.

08:06 There are many reasons to hide something.

08:08 Of course, it's not right to hide.

08:10 But it's because she's afraid of being hurt.

08:13 For example, she's afraid of being told that she's good.

08:16 She's afraid that she'll lose her relationship.

08:19 It's a hindrance.

08:20 The second reason is that she deliberately cheats on you.

08:22 She deliberately cheats on you.

08:24 The third reason is that she waits for the right time.

08:27 But she waits for the right time.

08:29 There are many reasons.

08:30 How did she react when you proposed to break up?

08:33 She agreed.

08:35 I'll ask you one more question.

08:37 I'll ask Ngan.

08:38 Ngan, please calm down.

08:40 Most couples will divorce.

08:43 Because they both confirmed that they can't continue.

08:47 Why didn't you wait for her?

08:50 Because I didn't believe her anymore.

08:53 When I asked her if she had something to hide from me,

08:56 it was like I gave her a chance.

08:58 But she deliberately cheated on me.

09:00 I didn't believe her anymore.

09:02 When love, husband and wife live together,

09:04 or anything,

09:06 but when you don't believe in it,

09:08 you can never do anything.

09:11 Hi Ngan.

09:17 We've heard all the love stories.

09:19 How about you?

09:21 I have two love stories.

09:23 One is 4 years old.

09:25 The other is 2 years old.

09:27 How old were you when you had your first love?

09:30 It was when I was a student.

09:33 Why did you break up?

09:35 4 years is not a short time.

09:37 Yes, that's right.

09:38 We were in different provinces when we were students.

09:42 I was in Dong Thap, and she was in An Giang.

09:44 We were...

09:46 You were in love from afar?

09:48 Yes, we were in love from afar.

09:50 You were only separated by a ferry.

09:52 From Dong Thap to An Giang.

09:54 You didn't have a bridge,

09:55 so you only had a ferry to the dam.

09:57 Oh my god.

09:59 But you weren't in love from afar.

10:01 Yes, we were in love from afar.

10:03 When we were dating,

10:07 her family knew about it.

10:09 I talked to her family about it.

10:15 In April,

10:17 we had another girl call me.

10:23 She told me that I should break up with her.

10:27 Because I was dating her.

10:29 I called her family to confirm that she was dating a girl.

10:36 But she said no.

10:40 I called her family for a few months.

10:43 When it was my birthday,

10:45 she called me again.

10:48 She sent me messages and photos of us.

10:53 I confirmed that we were over.

10:57 How long have you been dating your boyfriend?

11:01 According to the information I got,

11:10 how long have you been dating your boyfriend?

11:12 About a year.

11:13 You didn't notice any signs of him

11:16 when you started to have a crush on him?

11:19 No.

11:21 We didn't see each other often.

11:24 That's it.

11:25 We talked to each other everyday.

11:28 But we didn't see each other often.

11:31 I think that's part of it.

11:33 You couldn't observe him.

11:35 Yes.

11:36 You should have enough time to care about him.

11:40 But it's not good.

11:42 It's okay.

11:43 The worst thing is that you broke up on your birthday.

11:45 You should use your whole life to have a memory of him.

11:50 But it's okay.

11:51 You can get hurt.

11:53 How long did it take you to get over him?

11:58 2 years.

11:59 I started to have a second relationship.

12:02 It was a one-sided love.

12:05 He worked in the same company as me.

12:08 I didn't know what motivated me to date him.

12:12 I told him that I liked him.

12:15 But he didn't refuse me.

12:19 We had a date on Tet holiday.

12:24 We talked about having a party for the new year.

12:32 That's it.

12:34 After that day,

12:36 the company held a sports day.

12:41 He placed the number of his shirt on the shirt.

12:45 It was the 29th.

12:47 A girl asked me if I knew why he placed the number of his shirt on the shirt.

12:56 I was like...

12:59 I felt like...

13:01 Did the company know that you and he were dating?

13:05 Only that girl knew.

13:07 When you confessed your love to him,

13:09 you realized that he was single.

13:12 Yes.

13:13 Or he had a girlfriend?

13:14 He was single.

13:15 The company knew that he was single.

13:17 The company knew that he was single.

13:19 Yes.

13:20 I only remembered one of my idol singers,

13:26 Mr. Bo Dang Truong.

13:28 I knew that.

13:29 It was on the 29th.

13:31 I was born on the 28th.

13:33 I didn't know what the 29th meant.

13:36 I only remembered that it was my idol's birthday.

13:41 The girl told me that it was her birthday.

13:48 I was like...

13:51 How could he appear in my love story?

13:55 He was like my ex-boyfriend.

13:58 I texted him and confirmed that he placed the number of his shirt on the shirt.

14:03 He said that the company had placed all the numbers.

14:05 But he didn't place the number of his shirt.

14:07 So I placed it.

14:08 It depends on the situation.

14:09 Yes.

14:10 I kept on looking for him.

14:13 But I didn't expect that 2 weeks later,

14:17 the girl cooked for him.

14:22 It happened in the company.

14:25 Who contacted him first?

14:29 I contacted him first.

14:31 The girl was a new employee.

14:34 When she came to the company,

14:36 did she know that you and that guy had a relationship?

14:40 She was just guessing.

14:41 But everyone knew that.

14:42 I knew that.

14:43 Because she was flirting with that guy.

14:46 She said that she had a boyfriend.

14:49 What did you do for your love when she cooked for him?

15:03 I was afraid that he would be unclear about our relationship.

15:08 If he kept on hiding,

15:11 we would end up together.

15:13 How do you feel?

15:21 It's tough.

15:24 I'm telling the truth.

15:26 That's why I agreed to sit here and have lunch with you.

15:29 Because this is a situation that we need to have experience.

15:32 It's right that I broke up with him.

15:34 Because we don't need to keep a bad person.

15:37 It's right.

15:39 But I'm talking about my resistance

15:42 and the ability to fight against a life with too many dangers.

15:48 When people have a clear attack,

15:51 they cook, invite their lovers,

15:54 sit and eat, do everything.

15:56 If you don't do anything,

15:58 your love will be dead.

16:01 Even though he was very clear with her,

16:04 we said that we couldn't invite him if he didn't like her.

16:07 But now, if you want to fight, you have to fight with him.

16:10 If you don't do anything,

16:12 they will attack you too much.

16:14 If you cook and eat with him,

16:16 but he doesn't eat with you,

16:18 you have to eat with that girl.

16:19 You break up right away.

16:22 But you don't do anything.

16:24 Sometimes, the other person is also a boy.

16:27 He is also a person who is looking for love.

16:29 But he doesn't know if his sister is a woman or not.

16:33 People also doubt if that person really loves me.

16:36 If someone takes care of me, I will be happy.

16:39 Of course, you will say that a boy is not a good friend.

16:41 If you want a good friend, you have to be a good person.

16:44 How can a new boy be a good friend?

16:47 Before you break up, you have to take care of him.

16:49 If you take care of him but he doesn't accept it,

16:52 and you don't get respect,

16:54 you can stop.

16:56 3 minutes of silence.

16:57 That's all.

16:59 Let's continue.

17:00 With all the scars you have from previous relationships,

17:04 when you appear here,

17:05 what kind of ideal lover do you want to meet?

17:08 I just want a girl who is easy to look at.

17:11 A little bit round.

17:13 How round?

17:14 My size is big.

17:15 Don't look.

17:16 Half of your size.

17:18 Half of your size?

17:19 What else?

17:21 As I said,

17:23 you have to be with me.

17:25 Right?

17:26 You use the word "right"?

17:27 This is negotiable.

17:29 It depends on the situation.

17:31 What can you negotiate?

17:33 If the girl's parents are old,

17:36 you can negotiate.

17:38 If the parents are old, you can prioritize them first.

17:41 Because you have siblings.

17:42 You don't care about the right to take care of your parents.

17:45 Right.

17:46 I don't care about that.

17:47 How about you?

17:49 I need a boyfriend who is easy to look at,

17:51 who is friendly,

17:52 and has a good personality.

17:54 He is sincere,

17:55 and responsible.

17:56 I think you are sincere.

17:58 How would you rate him?

18:01 11 out of 10.

18:02 Come on.

18:03 You have two 1's next to you.

18:05 10 out of 10.

18:06 You get one point for every relationship.

18:08 I give you 10 out of 10.

18:09 Are you sure?

18:10 Maybe in the future,

18:11 you don't know what your brother will be like.

18:13 Maybe when you don't love him,

18:15 you will definitely love him.

18:16 I have many witnesses today.

18:18 What else?

18:23 I think you are close to him.

18:24 If he is a little bit funny,

18:27 then it's okay.

18:28 Are you funny?

18:29 It depends on each person's feeling.

18:32 If you are strange,

18:33 and you have known me for a long time,

18:34 you won't be funny.

18:36 No, I think you are funny.

18:37 If you have known me for a long time,

18:39 you are funny.

18:40 Funny.

18:41 But you are funny.

18:43 Do you have any talents?

18:45 My strength is that I am easy to be friendly,

18:48 and funny.

18:49 Do you have any talents?

18:50 I can cook if I don't cook.

18:52 I also like singing.

18:55 Do you sing any part?

18:57 Yes, I do.

18:58 Are you ready to sing a short part for your friend?

19:01 Yes, I am.

19:02 Do you hear me?

19:03 I don't hear you.

19:04 I don't hear your voice.

19:05 I don't sing well,

19:07 but I hope you will forgive me.

19:09 You can forgive me.

19:10 I want to know

19:13 how long my heart will remember you.

19:17 Will it bring me a dream of happiness?

19:22 Or is it a faraway place?

19:25 How long will our love last?

19:28 Will it be a day of sunshine?

19:31 Our love is like a flower.

19:33 When the sun shines,

19:35 when the leaves turn green,

19:36 our love is not...

19:39 So cute.

19:40 So clear.

19:41 If you compare the two of them,

19:43 in your hometown, there is a wedding.

19:45 They went to a wedding.

19:46 Now, the easy-to-see thing,

19:48 everyone is in a hurry, right?

19:49 Now I will show you the picture.

19:51 You will receive a picture

19:52 that applies the dating app

19:53 and keeps the love supply for us.

19:55 It's a little bit difficult for you.

19:57 Why?

19:58 Because the picture now also has a editing app.

20:01 [Music]

20:17 Who will be the last one?

20:20 5, 4, 3, 2, 1

20:26 Please give me the answer.

20:28 Yes, I will.

20:29 Now I will let you check your answers.

20:33 Are you ready?

20:34 Yes, I am.

20:35 The first breath of a thousand years of love,

20:38 who forgot?

20:39 [Music]

20:47 Hello.

20:48 Hello.

20:49 I have a gift for you.

20:50 Yes, thank you.

20:52 I give you a lipstick.

20:53 Because I want you to have the most beautiful smile

20:55 when you go out.

20:56 I also have a small gift for you.

20:58 Thank you.

20:59 Please keep it a secret at home.

21:01 Thank you.

21:02 I will keep it a secret at home.

21:04 Now, it's time for you two

21:06 to go to your lunch date.

21:09 [Music]

21:13 Dalat Mew, completely natural.

21:16 If we give each other a chance,

21:19 will you agree with me?

21:20 For me, the distance is not too important.

21:24 The important thing is that after a while,

21:26 we find out about each other,

21:28 we feel compatible with each other.

21:31 Who do you live with now?

21:35 I live and work with my sister,

21:38 my sister.

21:39 I want to ask you,

21:40 what is your personality that you don't like?

21:42 I don't like being rude.

21:43 And the second thing is that I don't like to hide.

21:45 It's like there's something,

21:47 we just talk about it.

21:48 Big or small, we just talk about it.

21:49 Sharing is not sharing to do anything,

21:51 but to understand and solve together.

21:53 I don't want my friends or my wife

21:55 to hold on to something and solve it by themselves.

21:57 What do you want to know?

21:58 For example, can you tell me a few things?

22:01 You can't tell me everything.

22:03 In the past, I would not have this feeling.

22:05 For example, if there was something

22:08 that we argued about,

22:11 would you stay and argue until the end?

22:14 Or would you leave

22:15 until I lessen the heat?

22:17 Then you come back and talk.

22:19 I choose to leave.

22:20 I choose to be silent.

22:21 It means that when we argue,

22:24 you are hot, I am hot,

22:26 we can say things

22:28 that we can't say

22:30 and we can't look at each other.

22:32 How much money do you earn a month before marriage

22:34 and after giving birth?

22:36 How much do you give to your wife?

22:38 Now, my salary is like

22:41 I will give it all to you.

22:42 I think women are in the money-keeping business

22:44 or women who are calculating the house price,

22:46 I think it's the best.

22:47 Men are often very stupid.

22:49 When I need to solve a problem,

22:51 I will tell you.

22:52 When it comes to having children,

22:53 I will focus on them.

22:54 That's the first thing.

22:55 As for parents, it depends.

22:57 For example, this month,

22:59 if I have a little more money,

23:01 I will give my parents 500,000 VND.

23:03 Or next month, if my parents are sick or have a problem,

23:05 I can give them 500,000 VND or 1 million VND.

23:07 Because I am the first one,

23:08 I am not the first one.

23:09 My wife is the first one.

23:10 For me,

23:11 when we are married,

23:13 my parents are together.

23:14 When my parents are sick or something,

23:17 I am ready.

23:19 It's natural for a child to be ready to take care of his parents.

23:23 As for the job,

23:25 I have to consider the time.

23:28 Because at that time,

23:29 my career was developing.

23:32 As for taking care of my parents,

23:34 I will definitely spend about 1-2 months

23:37 to take care of my parents.

23:39 I think when it comes to getting a job,

23:41 wherever I feel I can develop,

23:43 I will do it.

23:44 It's not necessary.

23:45 If I can't develop,

23:47 why should I come here?

23:49 For example,

23:50 I can't develop here.

23:52 But I have a facility at home

23:54 to support you.

23:56 So I will come here.

23:57 Why should I come here?

23:59 Do you support your wife?

24:00 I do.

24:01 You support her,

24:02 but not your wife.

24:03 So I think

24:04 it depends on the situation.

24:06 If I can get a job,

24:07 I will stay here.

24:08 Let me ask you.

24:10 Do you know how to drink?

24:11 Yes.

24:12 How much is your do?

24:13 Normally, I go with my friends

24:15 about 5-6 do.

24:16 This do is almost immortal.

24:17 Do you know how to drink?

24:19 No.

24:20 Do you feel comfortable when your husband drinks?

24:21 I can drink as much as I want.

24:22 I know how to control my drinking.

24:23 I'm not ready to let my husband

24:25 get drunk too much.

24:26 But I don't mind

24:27 how much he can't drink.

24:29 I understand that you had a dispute

24:31 about the story

24:32 that if you had a fight,

24:33 you would decide to keep silent or talk.

24:35 Did you know how Ngan felt

24:37 when you answered that?

24:39 If I left her,

24:40 I think I would feel

24:41 regretful.

24:43 You felt regretful, right?

24:45 What did Ngan think?

24:46 I think she meant

24:49 we should stay

24:51 and talk to each other.

24:53 Because I like to solve the problem

24:55 right away,

24:56 not to make it longer.

24:58 After I finished my silence,

25:00 he came back

25:02 and told me the story again.

25:04 It made me feel better.

25:07 Do you know why

25:08 husband and wife often argue

25:09 without a solution?

25:10 Like this.

25:11 I'm sincere.

25:17 Because I don't share this story

25:19 with just you two.

25:20 Women don't like men

25:22 arguing in silence.

25:23 Women want to solve the problem right away.

25:25 But we forget that

25:27 in all the problems in life,

25:29 we can never solve

25:31 a problem that is good

25:32 if we don't stay calm.

25:34 If we don't stay calm.

25:38 I taught my son

25:40 why his parents

25:42 scolded him badly.

25:44 But he still behaved badly

25:46 because he didn't admit it.

25:47 He didn't admit it because

25:49 his parents were very angry

25:51 and scolded him for being unreasonable.

25:53 He even felt guilty.

25:55 But he felt upset

25:56 when he heard that.

25:58 Because we did it

25:59 in a state of not being calm.

26:00 So what we need to do

26:03 is not to leave him.

26:05 But we can't

26:06 leave him.

26:07 We have to solve the problem

26:08 right away when they are angry.

26:10 The principle is very simple.

26:12 The marriage is only 20 years old.

26:14 It's not a big deal.

26:15 The reason is that

26:16 if one of the two is louder,

26:18 the other has to be calm

26:20 to give a signal

26:21 to stop and

26:23 have a drink.

26:24 Take a deep breath.

26:25 I'm going to dry the clothes.

26:26 You go wash the dishes.

26:27 It means we stop.

26:29 It doesn't mean we let it go.

26:30 What are you afraid of?

26:32 Letting it go?

26:33 I don't want to let it go.

26:34 No. How can you let it go?

26:35 How can you solve the problem

26:36 if you let it go?

26:37 But don't let it go.

26:39 Because letting it go

26:40 will leave a disappointment

26:41 for the other person.

26:42 People usually say

26:43 "You're leaving. You're angry.

26:44 You're leaving.

26:45 You're leaving.

26:46 Then a new problem will come."

26:47 So let's stop together.

26:49 And of course,

26:50 they will say

26:51 "Oh, it's so hard."

26:52 It's hard to make a problem.

26:54 We have to gather in the marriage.

26:55 There's no marriage

26:57 that we can combine

26:58 the joy of life

26:59 and happiness to old age.

27:00 It's a fairy tale.

27:01 And the fairy tale

27:02 always ends

27:03 with the wedding of the princess and the prince.

27:04 There's no more story behind.

27:06 If you're really serious,

27:08 you have to think about it.

27:10 Why do you feel

27:11 you have some regrets in your mind?

27:13 I'm sorry.

27:24 It's okay.

27:25 All your feelings

27:26 are accepted unconditionally.

27:28 Because now

27:30 I'm afraid of hearing

27:32 "Leave me."

27:34 Because

27:39 a close person in my family

27:42 is dead.

27:43 So

27:44 when I ask my boyfriend

27:47 the answer,

27:48 it's like

27:49 I'm a close person in my family.

27:51 Once

27:52 the feeling of

27:54 being left

27:55 and leaving me

27:56 that feeling,

27:57 I'm afraid

27:59 of hearing those words.

28:02 The person

28:03 I love so much

28:05 and I don't want to lose

28:07 is my mom.

28:08 My mom died

28:09 12 years ago.

28:11 My mom died

28:12 12 years ago.

28:14 So I'm comfortable.

28:28 Because exposing myself

28:29 can help people

28:30 understand me more.

28:32 Don't argue

28:33 in love.

28:34 You have to understand yourself.

28:35 Oh my god.

28:36 Only when you're a man

28:37 can you understand yourself.

28:38 You have to expose yourself

28:39 to understand.

28:40 Now we have a test

28:42 to connect

28:44 with the story here.

28:45 This is a challenge

28:46 for you two.

28:48 Chi Lang will sit still.

28:49 Do you remember

28:50 how you felt

28:51 when you were drunk?

28:52 I sat still.

28:53 But I was drunk.

28:55 I felt like

28:56 if I had a lover or wife,

28:57 I would follow.

28:58 To take you home.

28:59 I would take you home.

29:00 I would drink 2 cans of beer

29:01 and I wouldn't dare to get out.

29:02 Okay.

29:03 You have a mission.

29:04 You have to use a towel

29:05 to wipe his face

29:07 when he's drunk.

29:09 And you have to send him

29:11 your sincere words.

29:13 What will you say

29:14 and how will you do it?

29:16 Family.

29:17 He's your husband.

29:19 3, 2, 1.

29:23 Please take part in the challenge.

29:26 [Wipe his face]

29:28 This is to wipe his sweat

29:30 when he's tired.

29:31 Ngan, wipe his face.

29:32 Wipe it for me.

29:33 Wipe it and rub it.

29:35 I don't have to say anything.

29:38 I don't know.

29:39 Now, send him some words

29:41 to show your health.

29:43 If he's drunk,

29:45 I'll wipe it myself.

29:46 But I...

29:48 [Wipe his face]

29:53 She's a oil-absorbing person.

29:55 She doesn't need to wipe his face.

29:57 She's so cute.

29:58 Thank you, Ngan.

29:59 You can go home now.

30:00 How do you feel?

30:02 I feel great.

30:03 I'm not as tired as my wife

30:06 when I'm drunk.

30:08 You have to make your wife and son

30:11 stay together.

30:12 You can't stay together

30:13 when you're drunk.

30:15 I think you two have a lot of advantages

30:17 if you decide to have a future

30:19 together.

30:21 But it's still about

30:23 how much you're honest

30:25 and kind to each other.

30:27 Now, it's the most important part.

30:29 Please put your thumbs

30:31 on the heart button.

30:34 I'll count backwards

30:39 to give you an important decision.

30:41 Five.

30:50 Four.

30:51 Three.

30:54 Two.

30:57 One.

30:58 Please.

31:07 So cute.

31:13 So cute.

31:14 Oh my god.

31:24 So cute.

31:25 We're going to have a western wedding.

31:28 Thank you for your decision.

31:31 I hope that

31:33 you two will have a happy future.

31:36 You'll have more experiences

31:40 to understand each other

31:42 and make a better future.

31:44 This is a gift from

31:46 the 25-figure exercise room

31:48 for each of you.

31:50 It's a 1-month package of

31:52 7.5 million VND EMS technology.

31:54 It's from the 25-figure EMS technology

31:56 exercise room.

31:58 The EMS technology exercise is only 25 minutes

32:00 and 2 sessions per week.

32:02 It's the first and the most professional

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32:06 in Vietnam.

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32:10 this is the end of the show.

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