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00:00 You shared this story on your social media,

00:03 the one where you were depressed.

00:06 During the pandemic, what was the change that you noticed in him?

00:11 There was a time when he was sleeping for 20 hours a day.

00:19 He would wake up to eat,

00:23 then he would sleep again.

00:28 He's shutting down everything.

00:32 It's his way of coping.

00:34 When the time came

00:37 that he was very alarming,

00:39 I really had to talk to him.

00:41 You have to be there, you have to validate their feelings.

00:45 They have their own time of knowing when they're ready to talk about it.

00:51 But you need to help them.

00:53 For me, it's about love. Open the light at 1pm.

01:00 It has to be open.

01:02 Even that is hard.

01:04 Even that, the room is dark.

01:07 I don't want to intrude.

01:10 We have a habit of

01:14 "Oh, just let the sun shine."

01:17 "Look at the other side of things, look at the positive side of things."

01:21 Does he know that he's going through that?

01:24 Yes, he's very aware.

01:27 He's clinically depressed, actually.

01:30 He's been going through this since 2003.

01:33 We know that when he has episodes.

01:36 When you have depression,

01:38 you really have it.

01:40 It's just knowing how to manage it.

01:42 But as long as you're able to understand yourself and know that

01:46 "Okay, love, I feel agitated today."

01:49 You have to be there for him.

01:51 You have to make sure that you're talking about it.

01:54 What are you feeling now?

01:56 What triggered that?

01:57 What happened this morning?

01:59 So as he goes through it, he realizes that

02:02 "What are you thinking?"

02:03 Sometimes, they know, but their mind is so confused.

02:07 So they have to be able to make sense of things.

02:09 And you have to be there to listen.

02:11 I just want to ask, when Yidrek Ice was going through that,

02:15 and you really wanted to help him,

02:17 did he ever get mad at you?

02:20 I don't know, did you help him?

02:23 - Things like that. - Oh, yes.

02:24 - It's a journey. - Did he get mad at you?

02:26 Because for me, we're really the opposite.

02:29 I'm such an extrovert.

02:31 I feed off from people,

02:35 other people's validation.

02:38 I'm always outgoing.

02:40 I want to talk to people.

02:41 He really keeps to himself.

02:44 So it's hard for him to make sense of what he wants to say.

02:48 So we have to go through a process where

02:52 I also have to learn what I'm going to say to him.

02:57 Like, what I was telling you before,

03:01 sometimes, toxic positivity,

03:03 "Oh, it's just that..."

03:06 You just have to change your mindset.

03:09 Sometimes, they feel invalidated because of that.

03:12 You're not willing to talk about it.

03:18 So there are ways and there are things that you can say

03:21 in order for them to feel that you are with them.

03:25 It's good that we heard from the point of view of support.

03:29 The support system that they're talking about.

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