Unaccepted Truth

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#UnacceptedTruth
Dear Chixie,
Maayong adlaw nimo ug sa tanang mga viewers sa programa sa SunStar Cebu ug Superbalita Cebu.
I am Gretchen ug kining akong estorya kabahin sa sitwasyon sa among pamilya.
Aduna koy 2 anak sa akong bana Chixie nga itago nato sa pangalan nga Chris.
Usa ko ka kanhi OFW ug ang akong bana nga si Chris driver ni siya og usa ka negosyante.
Midecide ko nga manginabuhi sa gawas aron matabangan siya sa galastuon sa among pamilya ug para usab makatigom aron makatukod og balay.
2 years ago akong nadiskubre nga adunay laing babae akong bana ug kauban kini niya sa trabaho, katabang kini sa iyang amo.
Naglagot kaayo ko sa gibuhat sa akong bana apan wala nako siya biya-e tungod ug alang sa akong mga anak.
Ako usab gisabot nga tingalig tungod usab kini nga layo mi sa usag-usa. Nangayo og chance si Chris ug miingon nga wala na sab daw ang maong babae nagtrabaho sa iyang amo.
Sakit kaayo ang gibuhat sa akong bana apan wala nako siya buwagi kay kahibalo kos akong kaugalingon nga di sab ko malipay kon maguba among pamilya.
After atong panghitaboa midisider ko nga mopuyo nalang sa Pilipinas ug nangapply usab sa amo sa akong bana aron mabantayan kini sa trabaho.
Maayo nalang nadawat ko ug ako usab nakita nga determinado nga mag usab si Chris.
Milabay ang pipila ka tuig adunay na dawat nga tawag si Chris ug gikan kini sa iyang babae kaniadto og miingon nga aduna silay anak ug iya na kining ipakuha kang Chris kay iyang nasayran nga aduna siyay cancer ug gi taningan na iyang kinabuhi.
Sa dihang akong nasayran ang maong sitwasyon walay kabotangan ang akong kalagot ug kasakit.
Nangayo pag balik si Chris ug pasaylo apan mi hangyo sa akoa nga unta sabton ang sitwasyon ug dawaton ang iyahang anak sa laing babae.
Karon mihangyo si Chris nga kung pwede ba nga mo adto siya sa probinsya sa babae ug kuhaon na ang bata.
Unsa may angay nakong buhaton?
Gretchen
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00:45 - Hello, everybody.
00:47 It's another Tuesday today.
00:50 Wow.
00:50 (laughs)
00:52 I'm excited for today's video.
00:54 Wow.
00:55 Hello, everybody.
00:57 I hope that everybody's doing fine today.
01:00 It's Tuesday.
01:01 And of course,
01:02 I'm worried about the weather condition.
01:05 It might rain.
01:06 And so on.
01:07 But of course,
01:08 keep safe.
01:09 Just a reminder to everyone to please hydrate as well.
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01:19 sometimes,
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01:21 So,
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01:25 Welcome.
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01:27 Just a reminder to everybody to always be safe.
01:30 And of course,
01:31 drink your vitamins,
01:32 drink water,
01:33 hydrate,
01:34 and bring your gear such as raincoats,
01:38 and of course,
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01:43 sudden rain,
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01:45 So far,
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01:50 So I can observe that.
01:55 But maybe it's,
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01:58 Okay, that's a blessing from above.
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02:04 But anyway,
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02:08 And I think it's gonna be a little bit special
02:10 because we're gonna do something
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02:23 And of course,
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02:26 Hello everyone.
02:27 It's another Tuesday.
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02:32 Can I say this?
02:33 It's like,
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02:43 Especially if you've sacrificed so much
02:54 and you've,
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02:59 Please do comment.
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03:11 This afternoon,
03:12 your shout outs,
03:12 your greetings,
03:13 your messages,
03:14 everything we are going to read.
03:16 And also,
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03:21 Hello to all our viewers.
03:32 And I'm waiting for all your shout outs.
03:34 I'm going to read that.
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03:40 And I'm going to read the comments and messages
03:42 for our live this afternoon.
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03:49 Moving forward,
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03:58 Very interesting.
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04:16 Good afternoon.
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04:21 Hello everyone.
04:23 Good afternoon.
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04:29 Unaccepted truth.
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04:36 (speaking in foreign language)
04:53 And if you're watching,
04:57 and if you wish,
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05:00 don't forget to share.
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05:04 And interact with us.
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05:07 Live now everyone.
05:09 So hoping for your
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05:13 comments,
05:14 your messages,
05:15 and at the same time,
05:17 your advice for our letter sender today.
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05:23 And that,
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05:28 will you accept it,
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05:34 Go ahead and comment.
05:40 As we share,
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05:45 Hello, hello.
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05:51 Hi Eric.
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05:56 Hello, hello.
05:57 Thank you so much for watching.
05:59 And now,
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06:02 It's 4.06.
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06:07 And I believe,
06:11 since it's a long story,
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06:16 So (speaking in foreign language)
06:18 for this afternoon.
06:21 Everyone, here's our dear Chixi for today.
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06:36 Dear Chixi,
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07:06, at first,
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07:11 At first,
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07:23, okay.
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07:44 Okay.
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07:53 Hello everyone.
07:55 Once again,
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08:00 We are going to read the story once again.
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08:07 Please stay, do not go out.
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08:16 Do not go out.
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08:19 So again, once again,
08:20 and may I repeat the beginning of our story.
08:25 This is dear Chixi, #unacceptedtruth.
08:29 I think we are okay now, no?
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08:33 Okay, here it goes.
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08:54 Dear Chixi,
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09:00 the first.
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24:09 All right, okay, okay, okay.
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24:15 (audience laughing)
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24:37 Hello to Angel, Lilibeth, Batang, Bitang,
24:55 hello, happy Lilibeth.
24:57 June Rivas, a shout out watching
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25:06 Hello.
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25:15 Hello, everybody.
25:16 Gangster, hello.
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25:29 Applejoy, hello.
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25:47 Release, forgiveness, and God will forgive you.
25:50 The child is innocent.
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25:53 Hi to Divine Grace Soko as well.
25:56 (speaking in foreign language)
25:57 In fairness to all the comments,
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26:00 thank you so much for all your comments.
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26:21 Hello to Lilibeth Luzbug, hello.
26:26 Thank you so much.
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26:31 (audience laughing)
26:34 (speaking in foreign language)
26:37 I mean, let's face it.
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26:59 Hello to Edward Gumilao and to June Mark Joseph,
27:03 Ortega, Levski, (speaking in foreign language)
27:08 and to Edward and to JC De Perrine, hello.
27:11 Happy Tuesday, take care always, be jolly every day.
27:14 I miss you.
27:15 Thank you, thank you, Omega JC De Perrine,
27:17 Edward Gumilao and everybody.
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27:44 Now, (speaking in foreign language)
28:07 I think the best thing (speaking in foreign language)
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28:48 Next, (speaking in foreign language)
29:15 Cheers, (speaking in foreign language)
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30:16 To everybody who's watching right now,
30:22 if (speaking in foreign language)
30:26 it will never be easy, like how can you accept?
30:30 First, (speaking in foreign language)
30:36 You think (speaking in foreign language)
30:40 so the wound is still there, (speaking in foreign language)
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31:16 My gosh.
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32:00 Feel free to do so, because Gretchen would really love
32:04 to hear your thoughts about her story.
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32:35 It might sound funny, but (speaking in foreign language)
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33:08 Release forgiveness and God will forgive the child.
33:11 The child is innocent.
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33:29 For now, (speaking in foreign language)
33:35 let's take a little breather from that story.
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35:20 Because of course, we all know that
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35:49 Recently, (speaking in foreign language)
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35:58 But of course, to this day,
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36:21 there's no confirmation about it
36:23 or even answer to the intrigue,
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36:28 Anyways, (speaking in foreign language)
36:49 But you know, as a somebody (speaking in foreign language)
36:54 I don't think it's really fun
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37:05 talk about breakups.
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37:10 Anyways, moving forward to another
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38:47 (audience laughing)
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39:16 Let's proceed to another from that
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39:45 After being quiet and being private
39:55 about their relationship,
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40:01 Imagine, I think it's just earlier this year,
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40:11 out in the open, their 12-year relationship,
40:14 though indirectly, but it's obvious,
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40:20 So, (speaking in foreign language)
40:26 because these photos are being shared
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40:37 I can really see that they're happy, hopefully,
40:48 now that they're making the relationship out in the open,
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41:00 So, real talk, (speaking in foreign language)
41:08 Moving forward, (speaking in foreign language)
41:10 Our time is 4.41, I think I have a few minutes
41:13 to also read some of more comments,
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41:19 And we thank you so much for also giving your opinion
41:23 about this, (speaking in foreign language)
41:28 #unacceptedtruth, the pain of the past,
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42:08 (laughing)
42:10 You know what, this might sound funny,
42:14 but the trust issues of present,
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44:27 So I wish to thank everyone,
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44:34 Hopefully, you will also share your thoughts.
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44:50 Hello to divine, hello.
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45:10 So let's move forward, and I think it's about time
45:16 for me to give my advice.
45:17 We've got 15 minutes left of the show.
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45:24 So hello to Gretchen,
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45:44 is that Gretchen, do not feel guilty
45:47 if you felt the pain again,
45:51 because your feelings are valid.
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46:05 The pain of the past,
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46:15 Every time, (speaking in foreign language)
46:20 it will always be a heavy part.
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46:28 They will consult somebody,
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46:35 to overcome all the pains in the past,
46:38 because this will occur (speaking in foreign language)
46:41 and trust issues (speaking in foreign language)
46:45 and at the same time, (speaking in foreign language)
46:47 because the (speaking in foreign language)
46:48 is innocent.
46:49 If it's true, (speaking in foreign language)
46:53 if it's true, (speaking in foreign language)
46:58 (speaking in foreign language)
47:03 then maybe, (speaking in foreign language)
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47:12 There's that reality.
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47:21 You know why (speaking in foreign language)
47:28 It's because we don't know how to accept
47:31 certain situations in our lives.
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47:39 And it will always be present.
47:57 But once we accept, (speaking in foreign language)
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48:07 It was all in the past.
48:15 It's just that even if the baby is a reminder
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48:21 but you need to overcome.
48:23 No, you need to move on.
48:24 You need to move forward.
48:25 You need to be strong,
48:26 because if we will always stay (speaking in foreign language)
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48:33 But I understand your feelings.
48:44 It will always be valid.
48:45 I'm a woman.
48:47 For sure, I will get, I will really, really,
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48:53 I mean, let's be real about this.
48:55 We're not promoting hate, but it's normal.
48:58 (speaking in foreign language)
48:59 The feelings are valid.
49:00 The pain is valid.
49:02 Very, very much valid.
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49:08 But number one, (speaking in foreign language)
49:15 Or you have a set up with your husband.
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49:29 Chris should also learn.
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49:40 It's very unfair,
49:42 because (speaking in foreign language)
49:47 So you have to make a deal with your husband.
49:54 Here's the thing, here's the thing.
49:56 Here's my deal.
49:57 Here's something that I need you to know.
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50:04 We should heal because (speaking in foreign language)
50:15 which is really unfair.
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50:24 And what will be the reaction of your kids?
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50:53 Because it's not easy to take a very heavy
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51:15 just like anything in life.
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51:21 It's really difficult to process
51:32 and it's never gonna be easy.
51:34 (speaking in foreign language)
51:38 Time and understanding.
51:40 (speaking in foreign language)
51:44 (speaking in foreign language)
51:48 (speaking in foreign language)
51:49 I always believe that there should be balance
51:52 and justice in everything.
51:53 Though it might be sound unfair (speaking in foreign language)
51:58 Gretchen, you let your husband realize
52:02 (speaking in foreign language)
52:04 I'm not saying also (speaking in foreign language)
52:07 That is if (speaking in foreign language)
52:13 (speaking in foreign language)
52:17 Number one, (speaking in foreign language)
52:39 That doesn't mean that you are never
52:42 going to forgive your husband.
52:43 You will, you can, because you were able to do so.
52:47 (speaking in foreign language)
52:51 And who knows that that child (speaking in foreign language)
52:57 (speaking in foreign language)
53:01 Okay, again, it will be very unfair (speaking in foreign language)
53:16 That alone I salute you
53:19 because you have a very forgiving heart.
53:21 (speaking in foreign language)
53:25 (speaking in foreign language)
53:29 You have a very good heart, even if it's in pain right now.
53:36 (speaking in foreign language)
53:42 Because you are, you deep inside you (speaking in foreign language)
53:47 It's just that (speaking in foreign language)
53:48 Logically speaking, it's very painful.
53:52 So, and slowly ask Chris, (speaking in foreign language)
53:57 Because the next problem would be after this,
54:09 (speaking in foreign language)
54:20 The trauma will always be present now.
54:22 (speaking in foreign language)
54:23 It's just from one mistake.
54:24 (speaking in foreign language)
54:28 So it's one of the difficult stories that we've faced.
54:36 (speaking in foreign language)
54:39 Same, same thoughts.
54:49 (speaking in foreign language)
54:50 Good afternoon.
54:52 So thank you, Kaayo.
54:53 I hope that I make sense.
54:55 It's very heavy, it's a very difficult story.
54:58 But (speaking in foreign language)
55:01 Number one, Gretchen, accept your truth first.
55:05 It's hard, but with God, with prayers and understanding
55:09 and interventions (speaking in foreign language)
55:11 and reflection, (speaking in foreign language)
55:15 Remember, Gretchen, (speaking in foreign language)
55:18 (speaking in foreign language)
55:22 Then maybe there's also a lot of things
55:30 (speaking in foreign language)
55:32 I'm not saying God wishes us wrong,
55:34 but what I'm trying to say is that (speaking in foreign language)
55:39 And that's all part of God's plan
55:45 to test our faith towards him.
55:48 (speaking in foreign language)
55:52 To help us understand (speaking in foreign language)
55:57 That's to love, to forgive, and at the same time,
56:02 to be more understanding (speaking in foreign language)
56:04 So I hope that I make great sense this afternoon.
56:09 And I hope (speaking in foreign language)
56:16 I'm having a drama-drama effect, but I hope (speaking in foreign language)
56:19 And until next week, because our time is, it's now 4.56.
56:23 I think I have to say goodbye.
56:25 (speaking in foreign language)
56:27 If you wish to share your stories, please don't forget.
56:30 Please message me, DJChiksy, on Facebook, (speaking in foreign language)
56:34 and DJChiksy Cebu on Instagram.
56:37 Please do follow and message that page.
56:40 And continue to follow and support Sunstar Cebu
56:43 and Super Balita Cebu.
56:44 (speaking in foreign language)
56:48 I will be on air later, so I have 93.9 Cebu.
56:52 This has been your truly, Chiksy.
56:55 Thank you so much, and I'll see you next time.
56:57 Bye!
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