Why Don't My Tinder Matches Ever Message Me?

So you’re bored on the couch, browsing tinder. But then he catches your eye. A guy who is hot, cool, and just what you’re looking for. No selfie in his underwear, no pictures of just a truck. So you take the plunge and swipe right. And guess what, you match! It’s a great feeling. But then… nothing. No message. It’s been an hour, then two, then three weeks and he hasn’t even given you a “hey”.

So why did he swipe right and then not message you? And more importantly, what do you do about it?

Hi, I’m Amy North. I’ve been studying love and relationships practically my whole life and while Tinder isn’t the only way to find a man, it’s definitely a great place to start.