90 Day Fiancé Tell-All_ Kimberly SHOCKS Cast by Calling Jenny an Offensive Name
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00:00 You are very entitled.
00:01 Little spoiled brat is what you are.
00:03 You're a c***.
00:04 Come to India, honey.
00:07 Come to Jaipur.
00:08 I'd love to meet you.
00:09 Come on, baby.
00:10 I'll give you my address.
00:12 What is she gonna do?
00:13 Fight an elderly woman?
00:14 No shade, Jenny.
00:16 Oh, okay.
00:16 Okay.
00:17 Jenny gets a little gangster on Kimberly
00:20 after she calls her the C-word
00:22 during part one of the 90 Day Fiance,
00:25 The Other Way Tell All.
00:26 If you don't know what the C-word is,
00:28 look it up.
00:29 It's looked at as one of the most offensive words
00:32 you can call someone,
00:33 especially a woman.
00:34 Kimberly, I think, I mean,
00:36 you're being disrespectful to them.
00:37 I don't feel like I was being disrespectful.
00:39 Uh, yeah.
00:41 You are horrible.
00:42 Let's get into it.
00:43 Hey, 90 Day Fiance fam.
00:49 It's Malicia.
00:50 I hope you're doing well.
00:52 The Other Way Season 5 Tell All is here.
00:54 It came pretty fast and I am not complaining.
00:58 All right, before we get into Jenny and Kimberly,
01:01 let's get into one of my favorite parts of the Tell All.
01:04 When the cast sees each other for the first time
01:07 in the green room before heading to the stage.
01:09 I was excited to meet you guys,
01:11 so we can all trauma bond.
01:12 The first standout moment was seeing Julio
01:16 rocking his burnt orange suit.
01:18 I forgot he was on this season.
01:19 Him and Kirsten.
01:21 They broke up and just disappeared off the show.
01:23 And the wild part is that
01:25 I didn't even notice they were missing.
01:27 Damn.
01:28 It is hard to be in New York alone.
01:30 I miss Turkey and I miss Starburst.
01:32 So my heart is there.
01:34 In comes Shekinah looking like a Barbie.
01:37 But during this moment, Shekinah's a little salty
01:41 because Danielle didn't say hi back to her.
01:44 Well, I said hello to Danielle
01:46 and she didn't say hi back, so.
01:47 - She didn't? - No.
01:48 She just kind of seems like she's superior to everyone.
01:51 Like she's on another level and like she's too good.
01:54 I'm not gonna lie.
01:55 That's something that would have made me feel
01:57 some type of way too.
01:59 But then Shekinah goes on to say
02:01 she never really liked Danielle in the first place.
02:04 - I never really cared for Danielle.
02:07 - So it makes you wonder, is that true?
02:09 Or does she not like Danielle now because she ignored her?
02:11 Which by the way, is not surprising.
02:15 I would not put that past Danielle.
02:16 - Hi. - Hi.
02:17 - Hi. - Hi, Danielle.
02:18 - Hi, everyone.
02:19 (laughing)
02:21 - Look at Shekinah.
02:22 - Are you still in the DR?
02:23 - I am still in the DR.
02:24 - Are you still in the DR? - I am.
02:25 - Oh, wow.
02:26 (laughing)
02:27 - Kenny.
02:27 - Oh, wow.
02:29 - That oh, wow was loaded.
02:30 It said a lot without saying much.
02:33 - Oh, wow.
02:34 - I never really cared for Danielle.
02:37 I don't know, something about her rubbed me the wrong way.
02:40 I felt like she had very specific reasons
02:42 to choose Johan as a partner.
02:44 I think she liked the way he looked.
02:46 She liked the size of his (beep)
02:48 but I think she went into that relationship
02:51 looking to change him
02:52 and I felt like she kind of manhandled him.
02:54 - Shekinah, I wanna back you up in this moment, girl
02:58 because you are making some valid points
03:01 but aren't you doing the same thing
03:04 with Ken from the dark side over here?
03:06 You like the way he looks.
03:08 Sarper is a model and a personal trainer.
03:12 He's just the most stunning man I've ever seen.
03:15 You said you love the way he puts it down in the bedroom.
03:19 Our sex life is just like out of this world.
03:21 It's insane.
03:22 You're also trying to change him
03:23 from a man who has slept with 2,500 women
03:27 to a one woman man.
03:29 - Oh, she got a job.
03:30 - Push the loop.
03:31 - We've talked about him having female clients
03:35 and kissing women on the cheek
03:37 and we agreed that he's not gonna do that
03:40 and he's doing both.
03:41 So basically what's bothering her about Danielle
03:44 is what she needs to take a look at in her own life.
03:46 Okay.
03:48 - Getting married to TJ has been a definite adjustment.
03:51 Kimberly arrives at the tell-all
03:53 and admits she hates married life.
03:56 - Nobody told me how much marriage sucks
03:58 and it does.
04:01 - Did she think the marriage papers
04:02 were just gonna magically erase their problems?
04:05 Also, what happened to her being psychic?
04:09 - I am clairvoyant.
04:10 I am able to see energies, figures.
04:13 I am claircognizant,
04:15 which is having this overall knowing feeling.
04:18 I am clairaudient.
04:21 I can hear messages from my spirit guides,
04:25 from other people's spirit guides
04:27 and there's so many different clairs.
04:32 - What happened to that part of her storyline?
04:36 We haven't seen her tap into any of her abilities
04:39 or even talk about them since the beginning of the season.
04:42 The question that needs to be raised is, Kimberly,
04:44 what do you say to viewers who are confused
04:47 about why you are not able to foresee
04:50 an unhappy marriage with TJ?
04:53 I'm genuinely curious.
04:54 - Welcome to 90 Day Fiancee,
04:56 the other way the couples tell all.
04:59 - Fast forward to the actual tell-all
05:01 where we see Brandon and Mary on video chat
05:03 from the Philippines
05:04 and they reveal the name of their daughter.
05:06 - Midnight. - Midnight.
05:07 - Midnight. - It's a unique name.
05:10 - Kenny and his subtle reactions.
05:14 - Yeah, the creativity is getting real out here.
05:18 And I love unique names too,
05:20 but I've never heard or thought of Midnight.
05:23 I would like to know, why Midnight?
05:26 I believe names are powerful.
05:28 You're speaking something over someone constantly
05:31 and Midnight, honestly, in my opinion,
05:34 seems like a heavy name to give someone.
05:36 I hope Mary and Brandon share their inspiration
05:39 at some point.
05:40 But what we do know is that Midnight was born
05:42 on August 15th via C-section.
05:45 And Mary tells ET,
05:47 "When I heard our baby crying for the first time,
05:49 I got teary-eyed and was so happy to realize
05:52 I have a baby."
05:54 Adding, "I've never been this happy in my whole life."
05:57 Oh, that statement just made my baby fever worse.
06:00 All right, moving along.
06:03 Johan and Danielle are still separated.
06:06 - Yes. - After we found out
06:08 in the last episode that he's allegedly been cheating
06:11 on Danielle throughout their entire marriage
06:14 and before they tied the knot.
06:16 The other day, a woman wrote to me on social media
06:19 and told me that she has been in a relationship
06:22 with my husband for two years,
06:23 since the month before we got married.
06:25 Yeah, it's looking like that will be discussed
06:28 more next week in part two of the tell-all.
06:31 They all have some connection to these couples.
06:34 Please welcome Tim, Kalani, Andre, and Tanya.
06:40 In a surprising twist, some 90 Day OGs joined the conversation
06:44 to share their opinions on the couple's relationships,
06:47 including Jenny and Sumit, who joined in from India.
06:51 Of course, their connection is with TJ and Kimberly,
06:54 also an American woman and Indian man living in India.
06:59 And yes, Kimberly is still living in India
07:02 in the apartment on top of TJ's family's home.
07:05 She's just in the States for the tell-all.
07:07 So I'd love to get your take on Kimberly and TJ's relationship.
07:13 Post Sean Robinson asked Jenny and Sumit
07:16 what are some of the things that stood out to them?
07:19 And Jenny doesn't hold back.
07:21 Kimberly, to me, seemed very unappreciative of everything.
07:25 What she got was amazing to me, and she appreciated nothing.
07:31 Yeah, Jenny is a prime example of when you start complaining,
07:37 you might want to remember that there is somebody
07:39 who would love to be in your position.
07:42 Sumit's parents did not want anything to do with Jenny,
07:45 let alone let her live in close quarters with him
07:47 and throw her an elaborate wedding.
07:50 Her saying, "I hate India," it broke my heart.
07:56 Like, that broke my heart.
07:58 I can't believe she said that.
08:00 Your opinion doesn't matter to me, Jenny.
08:02 Well, your opinion doesn't matter to me either.
08:04 First of all, respect India.
08:06 Respect India or don't be here.
08:08 I don't want to, darling.
08:10 I don't want to.
08:11 Don't call me darling.
08:12 I am not your darling, okay?
08:14 Keep your (beep) in America.
08:16 Julio's facial expression is mine right now.
08:22 Why is Kimberly laughing?
08:24 Darling, okay?
08:25 Aside from it being a little creepy,
08:28 does she really think this is funny?
08:30 Or is she doing that childish thing
08:32 where you laugh when someone's upset to make them angrier?
08:36 Keep your (beep) in America.
08:38 Okay, wow.
08:41 You can laugh all you want, but you know what?
08:43 You are very entitled.
08:45 Those spoiled brat is what you are.
08:47 You're a (beep)
08:50 Oh.
08:50 Oh, she called you the C-word, girl.
08:56 Come to India, honey.
08:58 Come to Jaipur.
08:59 I'd love to meet you.
09:01 Come on, baby.
09:01 I'll give you my address.
09:02 Oh, okay.
09:03 Okay.
09:05 Julio's reaction is mine once again.
09:07 First of all, it is always a shock
09:11 when that gangsta side of Jenny comes out.
09:13 Come to India, honey.
09:14 Come to Jaipur.
09:15 I'd love to meet you.
09:17 Y'all remember when she went off
09:18 after Samit put their marriage license on hold behind her back?
09:21 Are you embarrassing the (beep) out of me?
09:24 Yeah.
09:25 Jenny can go there.
09:27 She basically told Kimberly,
09:28 "Come outside."
09:29 And then you have Samit over there rolling up his sleeves.
09:34 But really, what is Jenny gonna do?
09:36 Give Kimberly a spanking?
09:38 Kimberly is 30 and Jenny is 65.
09:41 This little back and forth just feels
09:43 inappropriate and unnecessary.
09:47 Kimberly, I think, I mean, you're being disrespectful to them.
09:50 I don't feel like I was being disrespectful.
09:51 TJ, what the hell, man?
09:56 Oh, she is, she is quite enough to disown everybody.
10:01 Yeah.
10:02 As we've seen this season, when Kimberly feels like there's a threat,
10:06 she tends to take things to the extreme.
10:09 I think it's a defense mechanism because that response felt like not warranted by--
10:14 That's what part of your problem is, like with him,
10:16 is 'cause you elevate it.
10:18 Like, you don't try to bring it down.
10:19 You keep bringing it up.
10:20 Yep.
10:21 Look, the moment you realize that you don't have to be right
10:25 or get the last word in every argument
10:30 is such a freeing experience.
10:32 That's actually where the real power lies.
10:36 It's when you accept that you have nothing to prove
10:38 and not winning the argument doesn't take away from your value.
10:43 Rather than winning, peace and the solution becomes more important.
10:49 I think it's a defense mechanism.
10:51 And when it comes to Kimberly's behavior seemingly being a defense mechanism,
10:55 it's one she should consider letting go of.
10:58 It might have served her at some point in her life,
11:01 but now it's getting in the way of her truly connecting with people.
11:04 Yeah, I know.
11:06 Jenny kind of came at her first.
11:07 But to Kenny's point, instead of escalating it and making enemies with Jenny,
11:12 You're a c**.
11:14 Kimberly could have calmly stood up for herself and then used Jenny as a resource.
11:19 As of now, it appears that Kimberly plans to stay married to TJ and live in India.
11:24 And you have Jenny, who's been living in the country for years as an American.
11:28 Kimberly should get advice from her.
11:30 Kimberly, do you feel that you have been disrespectful to the Indian culture?
11:35 No, I do not.
11:37 Yes. Yes!
11:39 Kimberly, stay out of India. Please don't come back.
11:43 Speaking of Kimberly escalating arguments,
11:45 host Sean Robinson calls for the producers to pull up a clip
11:49 of one of Kimberly and TJ's most recent fights.
11:52 And just take a look at the cast's reactions as they watch.
11:56 Kirsten looks so uncomfortable.
12:10 Because I'm a c**.
12:12 No, I said I don't!
12:14 You said 7 times.
12:16 No!
12:18 Shut up!
12:22 Yikes.
12:24 But you know what?
12:25 I'm not even gonna leave Kimberly on an island by herself
12:28 and act like I've never had a moment where I've lost it due to frustration.
12:33 Now granted, it might not have been that intense, but I can relate.
12:39 Just a little bit.
12:40 The way that she comes at him and the way she speaks to him
12:44 is with 100% disrespect.
12:47 And screaming like that?
12:49 Oh, what? Why?
12:51 TJ, have you seen this side of Kimberly before?
12:56 Or just when she moved to India?
12:57 Good question.
12:59 I never saw that tension, that aggression, and that voice ever before that.
13:05 It was also new for me.
13:06 TJ and I, we're still learning each other with the communication gaps we have.
13:10 So I don't think that we're going to learn unless we have these bumps in the road.
13:15 Kimberly, like everything was handed to her on a silver platter.
13:20 Me, I had to fight for all of it.
13:22 I was respectful to his parents the whole way through.
13:27 I was always respectful to India.
13:31 I never complained.
13:33 But you are horrible.
13:36 Something else that's horrible?
13:37 Kimberly revealing that when she and TJ would get into an argument,
13:41 he would go downstairs and not talk to her for days.
13:44 The longest they've gone?
13:46 Three days.
13:48 And these are newlyweds.
13:50 Whoa.
13:52 Look at how she acts.
13:54 I would go downstairs for days too.
13:55 She kinda.
13:57 She put herself in the situation and then she's playing a victim.
14:01 She have a frustration.
14:03 Makes sense.
14:04 But you can't communicate with the wrong words.
14:06 She brought her American attitude with her to India.
14:11 You can't do that.
14:12 So right now, if I could do it over again, I would do things differently.
14:15 There you go.
14:16 But I like that I was able to learn from saying those things the way I said them.
14:22 Well, let's hope that she actually learned.
14:26 And hey, her husband is still with her, so maybe they really are figuring things out.
14:31 Well, Jenny and Samit, it is always a pleasure speaking with you.
14:34 Any final words on how to make a marriage work between an American and an Indian?
14:40 You need to lose that attitude a little bit.
14:42 It's really out of control.
14:44 Whew.
14:46 All right.
14:47 Next week on part two of the tell-all, Danielle opens up about catching Johan cheating.
14:53 When I came home from New York, I walked in to a very unfortunate situation in my apartment.
15:00 You've been bringing women there the whole time.
15:02 That was your horror hotel.
15:03 Are you serious?
15:09 I'm curious about why she's still living in the Dominican Republic and they aren't together.
15:16 Does she plan to leave?
15:18 That's what I want to know.
15:20 All right, 90 Day Fans fam, thanks for hanging with me.
15:24 Make sure you stick with ET because we are covering it all.
15:26 I will see you next time.
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