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00:00 If you're not making friends, it's very likely that you're dating.
00:03 I'm doing a part-time job.
00:06 Are you interested in the service industry?
00:08 Love is 200 dollars per hour.
00:10 300 dollars for 2 hours.
00:12 400 dollars for 3 hours.
00:13 Wow, that's so exaggerated.
00:15 This is just a small amount.
00:16 She used her face to verify.
00:19 But the person she was talking to wasn't the anchor.
00:21 Not the anchor.
00:21 I hung up the phone.
00:24 The same call would come again.
00:26 I saw you and I broke your leg.
00:27 [The most important thing is to be a good friend.]
00:30 [The most important thing is to be a good friend.]
00:32 Before we start, I want to tell you that
00:34 this is a show that all the younger brothers and sisters
00:37 must watch.
00:38 And it's a very necessary sex education show.
00:41 I want to discuss with you
00:43 about the traps and traps in the world of love.
00:48 It's a advanced version.
00:50 The more you play, the more we talk to you.
00:52 That's it.
00:54 The first episode of "Driving with a Lover",
00:55 I think it's a very simple and ordinary love story.
01:00 It's beyond my knowledge.
01:01 Too much.
01:03 So, let's welcome our first guest.
01:05 Let's welcome Barton and Michelle.
01:07 Yeah.
01:08 Welcome to the show.
01:12 Of course, our show is very, very
01:14 respectful of everyone's own wishes.
01:16 If you think wearing a mask is difficult to breathe,
01:19 you can take it off.
01:20 It's okay to take it off right away.
01:21 I want to take it off.
01:22 Oh.
01:25 Okay, so Michelle chose to take it off.
01:27 Yes.
01:28 Okay, so Bernard thinks it's easy to breathe.
01:30 So he can continue to...
01:32 But Bernard, we will post it on your Instagram.
01:35 Then he doesn't need to wear a mask.
01:36 He doesn't have a mask.
01:38 I think more people now choose to use
01:43 dating apps to
01:44 expand their circle of friends.
01:46 If you don't make friends,
01:47 it's very likely that you will
01:49 break up.
01:50 Okay, so the two drivers we invited today
01:53 can share with us
01:55 how far they have developed
01:58 in the world of dating apps.
02:00 How old were you when you started using dating apps?
02:02 Actually, I broke up with my boyfriend last year.
02:06 My colleague suggested that I try this dating app.
02:10 But if you really meet someone who asks you out,
02:14 how do you realize this
02:16 and how do you refuse?
02:18 Actually, when we talk,
02:19 we know each other's intentions very well.
02:21 If you know each other's intentions,
02:22 he will start chatting with you about sexual things.
02:25 Then he will ask,
02:27 "Can we video call now?"
02:30 How to start?
02:31 What do you talk about?
02:32 Suddenly, you can say something.
02:33 He will ask,
02:34 "I heard that women use sex toys to have fun."
02:38 He directly asked?
02:39 He didn't post it and say,
02:40 "BJ, I miss you."
02:41 "Did you use a sex toy?"
02:42 He directly asked.
02:43 Maybe you only know each other for less than an hour.
02:45 Actually, the day I met him on the app,
02:47 we exchanged phone numbers.
02:48 Then we talked on the phone at night.
02:51 Oh, you guys still talked on the phone.
02:52 We talked on the phone and met the next day.
02:53 Because I know his intentions,
02:54 I didn't resist.
02:56 I also asked him to go to my house.
02:58 Of course, as a girl,
02:59 I also asked a boy to go to my house.
03:00 I also know that the consequences will be like this.
03:03 Okay.
03:03 So you tried to have someone
03:05 start a new topic to chat with you.
03:08 Then you also tried to respond.
03:10 Actually, there was another person
03:11 who talked to me about sexual topics
03:12 during the meeting.
03:14 For example, he said,
03:15 "Do you know why girls want to get married?
03:17 Because they want to be happy."
03:19 Oh, okay.
03:20 Then he would continue.
03:22 "Do you know why boys
03:23 want to get married?
03:25 Because they want to be happy."
03:26 Oh, I see.
03:28 You would test him
03:30 to see if he would accept it.
03:31 Then you would see if there would be a follow-up.
03:33 Old world.
03:35 So after you guys matched,
03:37 you guys dated and met.
03:38 Then you decided whether to have a follow-up.
03:41 I think it's also a way to protect yourself.
03:42 I remember that the next day,
03:44 I told this boy
03:46 that we should stop seeing each other.
03:47 I don't think we are suitable.
03:48 I thought we had our third date.
03:50 I wanted to come to your house to play games.
03:51 I thought we had our third date.
03:52 I thought we had our third date.
03:54 It's actually very obvious.
03:55 I remember that when we were messaging,
03:57 he would also hint that
03:58 he would still go out with a guy.
04:00 He said that he kept the first precious thing
04:02 that he wanted to give you.
04:04 He wanted to see if you would dare to talk to him about this topic.
04:06 So there are a lot of test-based topics.
04:08 So everyone should
04:09 be more alert.
04:11 If your purpose is not to do this,
04:13 there is another way
04:15 that I think can be provided to everyone
04:16 to protect yourself.
04:17 It's when you decide to meet someone
04:19 that you can tell your family
04:22 or friends around you
04:23 that you will meet a stranger.
04:25 Where will you meet?
04:26 It's to let everyone know that
04:27 if something happens,
04:29 if you need help,
04:30 they can rush to that place
04:32 to help you and save you.
04:34 When we think that women are dangerous,
04:36 I think the women I have met so far
04:40 are all scammers.
04:42 You have to verify if she is a real person.
04:43 Actually, the best way is to ask her out to meet.
04:45 But you have to prove your identity, right?
04:47 I just want to ask this.
04:48 Aren't there a lot of
04:49 things that are like verified?
04:52 Actually, there are some things that
04:52 if she verifies,
04:53 it's not her real identity.
04:54 Can she give you money
04:56 to settle things?
04:57 I don't think so.
04:58 This is actually
04:59 a kind of transaction with that person.
05:01 So there are still such traps.
05:03 Maybe the profile you see
05:05 on the dating app is this person.
05:06 But actually, it could be this
05:08 "sly uncle"
05:09 "thirsty aunt"
05:10 or maybe...
05:11 I remember one time,
05:12 she was my hairdresser.
05:13 She was very handsome.
05:14 She had been hit by something like this.
05:16 The photo was taken by a girl.
05:17 But actually, the other person was a boy.
05:19 And then she was hit by a car.
05:20 Wow, that's a big thunder.
05:22 That was the first time I met her.
05:23 Although she didn't stop me,
05:25 as long as I asked you out,
05:26 and I saw you were a real person,
05:27 I could verify that you were a real person.
05:28 You weren't an idiot.
05:29 At first, she said
05:30 "We are meeting at a nearby place."
05:33 "Because I don't want to be too far from my home."
05:35 This is the key sentence.
05:36 As long as someone says this sentence,
05:38 it means that she is a liar.
05:39 It means that she is a liar.
05:40 It's not that she wants to hint that you are going to her house
05:41 because you are close to her.
05:42 I think so.
05:43 No.
05:44 I mean,
05:45 because my house is very close to mine,
05:47 You thought it was like this?
05:48 No.
05:48 Because other people would say this.
05:50 If it's the same way of saying a liar,
05:53 she will ask you to go to a bar to drink.
05:55 You can chat and drink.
05:56 She will open the first bottle of red wine.
05:57 I think there's no problem.
05:59 I know I have to pay.
06:00 We drink and chat.
06:01 But I found that
06:03 the speed of drinking was a bit fast.
06:05 After I finished drinking,
06:06 she would fall.
06:07 After drinking the first bottle,
06:08 she would open the second bottle.
06:09 After drinking the second bottle,
06:10 the waiter would come.
06:11 Then she would open the third bottle.
06:12 At this time, the third bottle,
06:13 she would choose a more expensive one.
06:15 It's thousands of dollars.
06:16 When you didn't know the situation,
06:17 I was still thinking
06:19 whether to buy it or not.
06:20 The waiter would open the wine bottle directly.
06:22 They dared to buy it?
06:24 Yes.
06:24 They just...
06:25 So it's one of the ways to get people to buy.
06:27 You are her sales.
06:29 There are some people who have verified it.
06:30 Yes.
06:31 But I told you that
06:32 she might not be the one.
06:34 I met her.
06:35 Actually, she is a broadcaster.
06:37 But she must be a real person, right?
06:39 Yes, she is a real person.
06:40 But I think she has a cooperation with a company.
06:43 She used her face to verify things.
06:47 But the person she talked to wasn't the broadcaster.
06:49 Not the broadcaster.
06:50 And the broadcaster,
06:51 you can find her on Instagram.
06:53 She has a lot of followers,
06:54 like micro-KOL.
06:56 The whole industry chain is like this.
06:58 I give you money today.
06:59 You give me your identity.
07:00 I will talk to her.
07:00 I will cheat her.
07:01 I will use this money to hire more people
07:02 and cheat more people.
07:03 I also tried to test them.
07:06 Are you a police?
07:07 Why do you want to be a broadcaster?
07:09 I talked to her on Instagram.
07:10 I said I will talk to you on Instagram.
07:12 See if you can reply to me.
07:14 That girl has a lot of followers,
07:15 more than 200K.
07:15 She can reply to me.
07:17 Then she told me,
07:18 "You can believe me, right?
07:18 I'm not a liar."
07:19 So she might have to
07:20 send a reply to you.
07:22 She will say, "You believe me, right?"
07:25 Broadcasting platforms are also
07:26 very rare.
07:28 Those who are not in the App Store
07:28 have to download APK.
07:30 So this is actually very dangerous.
07:31 Because there are some
07:32 social media apps,
07:33 besides Hong Kong,
07:33 even if there is a verification,
07:35 it is also possible to be fake.
07:35 Yes.
07:36 Not to mention some third-party apps
07:38 that may not be verified at all
07:39 and no one checks it.
07:41 There are more cases of fraud
07:43 happening online.
07:44 This KSA is completely unrecognizable.
07:47 But it can cheat you of your money.
07:48 It will directly tell you
07:49 that I am currently working part-time.
07:50 Do you want to
07:52 earn how much money in an hour?
07:52 How much money do you earn in two hours?
07:53 How much money do you earn in three hours?
07:53 Wow, so direct.
07:55 Just like we usually do jobs
07:57 like sending cards, you know?
07:58 Before I talk to her about these things,
08:00 I will try to avoid
08:02 giving deposits first.
08:04 But in the end, when you get there,
08:06 she will say,
08:06 "Oh, before I go down
08:08 to find you,
08:09 I will call you first."
08:11 Soon after, you will receive a call.
08:12 When did you ask our lady out today?
08:15 She is very gentle.
08:16 Like customer service.
08:17 But you have to buy that
08:19 Like the SMS we used to use.
08:21 You have to charge 100 SMS
08:22 to pay 10 dollars.
08:24 I will hang up the phone directly.
08:26 The same call will be called again.
08:27 She will become a
08:28 rude uncle.
08:29 What was she like originally?
08:32 Hello, I heard that you guys
08:33 asked my lady out tonight, right?
08:34 But I am in the vegetable market, right?
08:36 The Chinese wall has come out.
08:37 Oh, so she is not a local.
08:39 So she does have
08:40 a group of people behind her
08:41 to control everything.
08:43 She will threaten you.
08:44 She will say, "When I see you,
08:46 I will break your legs."
08:47 What about the photos you used?
08:49 I will hang up again.
08:50 Then I will block this number.
08:52 If you block this number,
08:52 she will call you with another number.
08:54 But
08:55 there will really be people who will be hooked.
08:57 They will say, "I will break your phone."
08:58 She will say, "Okay, I will pay you now."
09:00 There were one or two times when I was on duty.
09:01 The second time, I really lost money.
09:03 Her requirement is not high.
09:05 The last time's requirement was too high.
09:06 How much did she charge last time?
09:07 She changed it to 200 dollars.
09:09 This time, it was 100 dollars.
09:10 I thought, "Hey,
09:11 she is a scammer."
09:12 I will just throw it in.
09:13 If there is, there is.
09:13 If there isn't, there isn't.
09:15 Actually,
09:15 I am listening to you
09:17 sharing your story.
09:18 Actually, you are quite wronged.
09:19 Your entire relationship
09:20 and the process of dating.
09:21 You spent a lot of money
09:22 but you didn't get anything.
09:23 You didn't have love.
09:24 In the end, you didn't reach the last step.
09:26 We just talked about
09:28 wanting to see
09:29 the situation of your dating
09:30 that was scammed.
09:31 We want to see those conversations.
09:33 This is quite direct.
09:36 She said that she was on duty.
09:38 She was studying here.
09:39 What time did you usually get off work?
09:40 These are all daily activities.
09:42 After asking you how old you were,
09:44 she said,
09:45 "I am working in a part-time job.
09:47 Are you interested in the service industry?"
09:49 She said,
09:50 "My love, 200 dollars for an hour,
09:52 300 dollars for two hours,
09:54 400 dollars for three hours."
09:55 Wow, that's too much.
09:56 Then, she took a bunch of
09:58 beautiful selfies.
09:59 This is just a small amount.
10:01 This is the most direct
10:02 you have encountered so far.
10:03 Yes, the most direct.
10:04 Then, the internet celebrity I mentioned earlier
10:07 was verified.
10:08 I saw her Instagram.
10:09 I asked her what her Instagram was.
10:11 She said she was looking for her account.
10:12 I looked for her account.
10:14 She had an account.
10:15 I texted her.
10:16 The result was a reply.
10:17 I believe this is her.
10:19 Are you scared now?
10:21 If your purpose is
10:22 to make friends
10:24 and find love,
10:25 when you use dating apps,
10:26 you have to be careful
10:28 and take precautions.
10:30 Especially, the keywords like this.
10:32 Yes, because I think we can't
10:33 persuade everyone
10:34 not to use dating apps.
10:36 Because this is also
10:37 a social media channel.
10:40 After every match,
10:42 is it true love or a trap?
10:44 You have to take the first step
10:45 to prevent it.
10:47 So, everyone,
10:48 please follow us.
10:49 We will take you to avoid
10:50 the pit of this world of sex.
10:52 I wish all the drivers
10:54 safe and healthy.
10:56 [Music]