90 Day Fiancé_ Jasmine BEGS Gino’s Family for Acceptance
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00:00 I want to know what it's gonna take to be loved and accepted by you.
00:05 Wow, what a question.
00:08 How do you answer something like that?
00:10 Jasmine begs Gino's family for acceptance.
00:13 I need...
00:15 I need you.
00:16 After she reveals moving to America and leaving her family behind has been the hardest thing
00:21 she's ever had to do.
00:24 But what's not hard for Jasmine is spending Gino's money.
00:27 Yep, these two go shopping for a wedding dress.
00:30 And things get awkward after Jasmine doesn't stick to the budget.
00:34 Baby, I want it.
00:36 Baby, I want it.
00:38 Baby, please.
00:39 Baby, baby.
00:40 Please.
00:41 I'm sorry, I'm so broke, you know?
00:47 What do y'all think is going through Gino's head in this moment?
00:50 Ass bitch.
00:52 Let's talk about it.
00:57 Hey Money Day fans fam, it's Melysia.
01:00 Let's kick things off with Jasmine and Gino going wedding dress shopping.
01:04 It's very unusual to bring your fiancé to dress shopping, but how am I gonna get to
01:11 the store to begin with?
01:14 How am I gonna pay if he has the credit card?
01:17 Speaking of the money, remember Gino gave Jasmine almost $10,000 for her wedding dress
01:23 and she spent it on a BBL.
01:25 Gino, no sabe que me parece tracero.
01:28 No, no se lo deja.
01:32 Eventually Jasmine came clean about it.
01:34 How could you do something like that?
01:36 And just like I imagined it would happen, Gino was about to give her some more money
01:41 to spend on an actual wedding dress this time.
01:44 But he did quit his job to help her get settled in the US.
01:48 So he makes it clear, he has a tight budget, especially for someone with Jasmine's taste.
01:54 Also side note, I'm assuming they get paid from the show, but the way Gino is acting,
01:58 it doesn't seem like that much.
02:00 It's very expensive to have a wedding.
02:01 You gotta buy rings, wedding dress.
02:04 So I'm hoping that we can stay somewhere around $1,000 for a dress.
02:09 That doesn't even exist.
02:13 Not when it comes to wedding dresses.
02:16 We can work something out, so don't worry about that.
02:18 Let's just enjoy the day.
02:19 Yeah, yeah, I agree.
02:20 I love her attitude.
02:21 That's what I need in my life.
02:22 That's what I need in my life.
02:25 Jasmine knows her man.
02:27 She knows she is going to get what she wants.
02:30 Meanwhile, Gino is probably clenching in all the wrong places right now.
02:33 Hop over the champagne, get comfortable, get drunk.
02:38 She told him to get drunk.
02:40 Jasmine acts like she knows Gino's pockets and what he can actually afford.
02:44 I hope Gino really does have the money Jasmine acts like he has.
02:49 And he's just frugal.
02:50 I would rather that be the case than it be a situation where he doesn't have it.
02:55 And Jasmine is not considering that.
02:57 She just wants what she wants.
02:59 I've been married before once, but I never had a wedding.
03:04 No dress, no venue, no nothing.
03:09 This is my last chance.
03:11 Jasmine opens up about the significance of this moment for her and shares how she would
03:16 like to look on her special day.
03:18 She sounds like a kid in a candy shop.
03:21 I haven't decided between a princess kind of dress because you know I am a princess
03:27 or a mermaid because I am a mermaid too.
03:30 It's so hard.
03:33 After she said princess and mermaid, I thought to myself, what about queen?
03:38 I don't know if it's just me, but lately Jasmine has been giving off more wifey vibes.
03:45 I'm no longer seeing the hot and spicy girlfriend turn fiancé.
03:50 She's now looking more like a hot and spicy wife.
03:53 Maybe her haircut has something to do with it or her recent life changes or the fact
03:57 that her wedding day is around the corner.
03:59 I don't know.
04:00 But I am definitely seeing some, some maturity.
04:05 Wow that's beautiful.
04:08 Jasmine comes out in her first dress and while Gino admits it's stunning, he also wants
04:12 to know what is the price.
04:14 This one's going to be a little over $3,000.
04:16 Yes.
04:17 Come on baby, it's just a few thousand.
04:21 You're not going to go bankruptcy.
04:23 Potentially, yes I could.
04:25 I mean.
04:26 Baby, invest it in my happiness.
04:29 Since I just gave her props on her maturity level, I have to say this.
04:33 This is an area where I feel like she might still have some work to do.
04:37 I don't understand why you would want the man who is providing for you, considering
04:42 neither of you are working right now, to spend money outside of his budget.
04:47 And not just a little out of his budget, but a lot.
04:49 Especially after you spent the money he originally gave you on a BBL behind his back.
04:55 It comes off as immature and irresponsible.
04:58 Because at the end of the day, if his bank account is negatively affected, it's also
05:03 going to affect you.
05:05 $3,000.
05:06 That's a lot.
05:09 I want Jasmine to buy the wedding dress that she really wants, but we have a budget for
05:14 the wedding and I can't spend a million dollars on this wedding, okay?
05:18 Jasmine comes out in another dress, which is absolutely gorgeous.
05:22 Man, get out of town.
05:25 But she tries it, once again.
05:27 Baby, I want this dress.
05:29 I don't even want to try other dresses.
05:31 This is what I dream of ever since I was a little girl.
05:37 Do you know how much this costs?
05:39 Yeah, this one is close to $5,000.
05:41 $5,000?
05:42 At this point, if I was Gino, I would also get frustrated with the consultant.
05:48 Didn't he tell you $1,000?
05:50 I'm innocent.
05:51 I didn't know the price.
05:52 Jasmine goes on to beg Gino for the dress.
05:55 Baby, I want it.
05:57 Baby, I want it.
05:59 Baby, please.
06:00 Baby, baby.
06:01 She is so spoiled.
06:04 It sounds like the combination of "baby" and "please" has gotten her what she wanted
06:08 in the past.
06:09 Baby, I want it.
06:10 Baby, I want it.
06:11 Baby, I want it.
06:12 Baby, please.
06:13 Baby, baby.
06:14 Dang, how many times is she going to say "baby" and "please"?
06:21 I am all for Gino spoiling her.
06:23 I want my man to spoil me, but in or around his budget.
06:27 Because hey, responsibility is sexy.
06:31 Please be responsible.
06:32 I'm sorry I'm so broke, you know?
06:35 Gino sticks to his "no" for the $5,000 dress, but you can tell it's so uncomfortable for
06:41 him.
06:46 Look at his body language.
06:48 It's like he's trying to hide the fact that he's mad and annoyed so Jasmine can have a
06:52 good dress shopping experience.
06:55 So there's definitely some friction with financials.
06:57 Yeah, speak up.
06:59 Clear your name.
07:00 It's a little uncomfortable.
07:01 I don't want to interject or get too involved, but it's hard to make both parties happy.
07:07 Well, this next dress Jasmine walks out in accomplishes just that.
07:12 You look stunning like a queen.
07:16 Yes, Gino.
07:18 Looking like a princess and a mermaid is nice, but in my opinion, queen vibes are worth it.
07:26 You look stunning like a queen.
07:29 I look so, so good that I look like I'm not real.
07:32 I've watched many episodes of Say Yes to the Dress, and out of all the women I've seen
07:37 try on dresses, I have never heard that reaction.
07:41 I look so, so good that I look like I'm not real.
07:45 But I love it.
07:46 She looks damn good and she knows it.
07:49 I look so, so good that I look like I'm not real.
07:52 Right?
07:53 Like a painting.
07:54 Like a Barbie doll.
07:56 This feeling I wish like every woman get to experience one day in their life.
08:03 I feel so beautiful.
08:05 I look so good.
08:07 It really pops out my attributes.
08:09 Okay, okay, Jasmine.
08:12 Okay.
08:13 Good news is that the dress is also at a price Gino is willing to work with.
08:17 I asked her something more friendly to your budget.
08:21 Yeah, this is our floor sample.
08:24 Fits her like a glove.
08:26 So we could do about $2,000 for you and I think everyone can, yeah, be happy today.
08:32 Wow.
08:33 Yeah.
08:34 I like that.
08:35 Do you like the dress?
08:36 Yes.
08:37 Oh, she loves it.
08:39 I want to make sure you're happy with the dress.
08:42 I feel beautiful.
08:43 That's all that matters.
08:44 You look gorgeous.
08:45 I like the dress.
08:49 I feel like I found my dress.
08:51 I feel gorgeous.
08:52 Gino loved the dress.
08:54 He didn't complain about the budget.
08:58 And even though I spent all the money on my butt implants, something that I joke about
09:03 being super necessary, it wasn't.
09:05 He was willing to pull out $2,000 extra for my wedding dress.
09:11 I am happy.
09:12 I love it.
09:13 Might I say it again?
09:15 Jasmine is going to get what she wants.
09:18 That girl.
09:20 She's slick a hustler.
09:21 Fast forward while looking at a wedding venue, Jasmine raises concerns about Gino's family
09:27 being at the ceremony.
09:28 I'm just concerned about your family ruining my special day, our special day.
09:33 What if they say something mean or they don't like something or they come with their questions.
09:40 I mean, it's just a lot of things I'm trying to process.
09:46 Put yourself in their shoes.
09:47 I want this experience to be beautiful and I don't want anyone to say anything that they
09:52 or make me feel bad.
09:54 I can understand where she's coming from when she explains it that way.
09:57 And doesn't just leave it at, "I don't want your family there because they don't like
10:01 me.
10:02 They think I'm a gold digger.
10:03 They want me to sign a prenup."
10:04 Jasmine then opens up about how homesick she is.
10:07 I feel okay.
10:12 I'm so far away from home.
10:14 And it really made me feel for her.
10:16 I think because Jasmine has such a big personality, she's on this reality show.
10:22 She knows how to entertain.
10:25 It's easy at times to lose sight of her humanness because of her behavior at times.
10:32 I'm tempted to think she's just being dramatic during moments like this, but no, once I think
10:37 about it, what she's doing isn't easy.
10:41 She just moved to another country.
10:43 She's far away from her loved ones that she saw often and her kids, and she's about to
10:48 get married.
10:49 That's a lot of change.
10:52 Her situation reminds me of another cast member, Manuel, who was from Ecuador.
11:00 He was crying on a recent episode because he was having a great time at his bachelor
11:04 party and then it hit him that he's not celebrating with people who love him the most that are
11:12 back in his home country.
11:14 His soon-to-be wife, Ashley, sat there and comforted him.
11:18 Jasmine and Manuel both have plans to bring their children to the States.
11:21 I hope the sacrifices they're making turn out to be worth it for them.
11:26 I know Jasmine wishes her family was here, and I know she misses them, but I want Jasmine
11:33 to feel loved.
11:34 I want her to feel that my family is her family.
11:38 This is super important.
11:39 I really want them to get along.
11:41 It's not going to be easy, but it's very important to me.
11:45 Speaking of sacrifices, Gino is not willing to sacrifice his family for love or love for
11:52 his family.
11:53 It's 21 days before their wedding, and Gino brings Jasmine and his family together.
11:58 After the last dinner they had went south.
12:00 I have a question.
12:03 How will you contribute and be a productive American?
12:08 They are attacking me.
12:09 Right now, this is a personal attack.
12:13 Why would you think that Gino would need a prenup?
12:16 I think it would just be like a security blanket for him.
12:20 This time around, he's hoping they can finally accept each other and get along.
12:25 And to my surprise, Jasmine is the one who humbles herself and extends the olive branch.
12:32 And I was telling Gino that I don't want to feel this nervous and this anxious every
12:37 time we are having a family gathering.
12:39 I understand you having, you know, like this fear of, oh, is she going to hurt him?
12:48 What is she looking, you know?
12:50 And you have valid reasons to fear that.
12:53 But I can tell you guys that that's not the case.
12:58 That's not the case.
13:00 I want to know what it's going to take to be loved and accepted by you.
13:05 That was so vulnerable of her.
13:08 Jasmine goes on to open her heart even more.
13:11 I need you.
13:16 Look, she has Gino's cousin Dana sitting up in his seat.
13:23 I miss my family as you have no idea.
13:28 I also want to open my heart and think like, but I have an American family now.
13:33 It's very important for me to feel like I belong and that I'm welcome because I'm not
13:40 having it easy.
13:41 Gino is probably so proud of Jasmine in this moment.
13:45 This is one of the hardest things that I have done in my life.
13:51 Dana don't start eating yet.
13:53 She's still crying.
13:59 What we're doing right now is probably the start and I'm really glad that you are
14:05 straightforward with your feelings.
14:08 Look at Gino, he probably told him to say that.
14:10 Yeah man, just tell her you accept how passionate she is.
14:14 Everyone had their concerns.
14:15 It's like, she's beautiful.
14:17 Why can't a woman like that find a man in Panama?
14:19 Why does she got to come all the way here to Michigan and steal our Gino away?
14:23 Because look at him.
14:25 I mean, he's a babe.
14:28 Gino is so loved.
14:30 They're making amends because of him.
14:33 Like this is not normal.
14:34 You know, we didn't know you.
14:35 We saw some pictures of you in bikinis and on the beach and you know, so we really just
14:41 got to know you, you know, like I just got to know you too and you're smart and funny
14:47 and you know, I love you.
14:49 Jasmine goes to tell Gino's family that she wants to start seeing them as her family and
14:54 then she apologizes for her behavior in the past.
14:58 In front of your family, I'm sorry for being so bitchy to you and for being rude.
15:03 I am so sorry.
15:04 Dude, you have given me nothing but love and support.
15:10 Thank you.
15:11 I told y'all something is going on with Jasmine.
15:14 Michigan and marriage?
15:17 I'm maturing her.
15:18 I wasn't really open-minded to everything when you first got here.
15:21 Yeah, I guess everybody at the table has to say something.
15:24 I didn't want you to get here and then just turn around and leave again and break his
15:27 heart.
15:28 You know, that's just another thing that I was worried about for him.
15:31 I see the twinkle in his eye every time he looks at you.
15:33 You know how much he really loves you, you know.
15:36 And you're coming to my awkward uncle, you know, we all know he's awkward at some time.
15:40 He's not awkward.
15:42 He's super awkward.
15:44 Super awkward.
15:45 Awkward and accepted.
15:48 I love that.
15:49 Gino's nephew finishes with telling Jasmine that after seeing her and Gino together, it
15:53 clicked to him that they truly have a connection.
15:57 So I just want to toast to Jasmine and Gino and just welcoming Jasmine into the family.
16:01 Cheers!
16:02 Salute!
16:03 Salute in Italian.
16:04 Back to the whole family thing, I mean, you're stuck with us now.
16:14 Aw, that makes me happy.
16:17 I'm sure everyone walked away feeling good that night.
16:21 And next week is Jasmine and Gino's wedding day.
16:24 The ceremony is about to begin.
16:27 Kind of nervous right now.
16:38 This wedding is incomplete because my other half, my family, is not here to marry.
16:45 You're not outside of your country, you're not having your family or anything.
16:49 That's where he's from.
16:51 Yeah, there are a number of cast members getting married next week.
16:55 Out of all of them, I'm really looking forward to seeing what goes down with Clayton and
17:00 Anna Lee.
17:01 I haven't covered them because in my opinion, they can be a little boring and they have
17:06 no chemistry.
17:08 But the drama between them has been heating up lately.
17:10 It's looking like she might be a runaway bride.
17:15 Have you heard from Anna Lee?
17:17 No, she's not here.
17:19 I'm ready, everyone in the audience is ready, and my bride is still not here.
17:24 I think it's better to leave and not talk to him anymore.
17:30 I'd rather not get married and keep him away from me.
17:34 I feel you, man.
17:41 Don't worry if you don't know much about their storyline.
17:43 I'll catch you up on it next week.
17:45 All right, 90 Day Fans fam, make sure you stick with ET because we are covering it all.
17:50 I will see you next time.
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