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We all love our children but at times due to busy lifestyle we are unable to give or take their love. Here in this video Rita Iyer is helping you to "Understand Your Kid's 5 Love Languages". This video will enable you to know your child's requirement more better and make him feel loved and wanted.
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We all love our children but at times due to busy lifestyle we are unable to give or take their love. Here in this video Rita Iyer is helping you to "Understand Your Kid's 5 Love Languages". This video will enable you to know your child's requirement more better and make him feel loved and wanted.
U Me & Parenting is a complete solution for your all the parenting challenges and promises you to bring you more closer and having an easier relationship with your child.
Hope this video is helpful to you to understand your child more and in better way. So what are you waiting for like and share this video. Post your valuable comments & don't forget to subscribe our channel.
You can also view our other videos with different categories like'- fitness, diet, health, motivation, diy, cooking recipes and much much more to get all the information under one link.
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00:00 Hello friends, I am back with another video on parenting
00:11 In today's video we are going to talk about love language
00:14 A language which our child wants us to talk about
00:17 A language which our child will easily understand
00:20 which will make him feel secured, wanted & loved
00:23 So, basically there are 5 kinds of love languages
00:26 First is physical touch, quality time, words of affirmation, gifts & acts of service
00:33 Now how do I understand as a parent what is my child's love language
00:38 So, I will give you some clues which might help you to find out which is your child's love language
00:44 A child can have a primary love language or there could be combination of these love languages
00:49 So, the first one, physical touch
00:52 It's a very strong love language
00:55 Infact it is the strongest of the love languages because it communicates I love you
01:00 Most of the children like to be touched by their mom, dad, grandparent & sometimes teachers
01:07 For children who understand this love language, physical touch can communicate love
01:12 more better than gifts, acts of service or words of affirmation
01:16 So, regularly hug your child, kiss your child, give him a high five, pat on his back
01:22 or may be you can make your child sit on your lap & read a book
01:25 This will communicate love very strongly to your child if physical touch is your child's love language
01:32 Words of affirmation can communicate love because words are very powerful
01:38 A child can reap the benefits of affirming words for a lifetime
01:43 Conversely, negative words can hurt a child's self-esteem & cast doubt about his abilities
01:51 So, please use words of endearment, praise, encouragement
01:55 because these words communicate I love you to him
01:59 Moving on to the third love language which is quality time
02:02 Quality time means spending time with our child minus our gadgets
02:07 because today is a busy life & at times it is difficult to give undivided attention to our child
02:12 Let us try to give quality time to our child if this is his primary love language
02:17 Let's try to have more eye contact with our child, share our thoughts & feelings, read book with our child
02:25 Ask him how does he feel when he reads a book
02:28 because in today's time children really don't know how to express themselves
02:32 If on a regular basis we are spending quality time with our child
02:36 we will be able to fill his love time
02:38 Gifts, if this is the love language of your child, they can become symbols of love
02:44 We should try to combine the other love languages with the language of gifts
02:50 because it can emotionally fill the love tank
02:53 There is a very thin line between gifting & bribing about which we will talk in another video
03:00 Gifting is an expression of love
03:02 When we are on a tour, we can buy some gifts for our child or maybe a theme collector
03:07 or favorite cartoon character
03:09 These are the different ways through which we can fill their emotional love tank
03:13 And coming to the last one which is acts of service
03:16 Acts of service show love by helping the child with almost everything like cooking their meals
03:23 providing clothing, working on a project together
03:25 It could be emotionally & physically demanding
03:28 But if this is your child's love language, please try to fill his love language
03:33 so that he feels secure & connected with you
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03:47 Thank you