Married at First Sight AU Episode 25
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00:00:00 Oh, yeah, this is a pretty crazy first day
00:00:03 When 24 singles took the biggest leap of faith
00:00:08 He is very nice to look at some found an instant connection at the end of the aisle. I think that's gonna be an
00:00:16 extraordinary
00:00:18 adventure
00:00:20 But when Steven was caught flirting with a hairdresser, there was a sexual spark for me that I've not felt with you
00:00:26 Michael was left feeling blindsided. I'm upset. I'm hurt. I'm angry. I honestly don't know if I care to salvage it
00:00:33 The annual couples retreat is gonna be an opportunity for us to get closer together
00:00:39 So Lucinda and Timothy reach new emotional heights. I feel like Tim and I are really in the beautiful place
00:00:46 Hey pools. Hey taking my shirt off. You've rocked out being like all look at all the whales here. It's a joke
00:00:53 Jack was at the center of yet another storm when he compared Tristan to a whale. I can't support that Jack
00:01:00 I did not support that
00:01:02 But it was at the dinner party tell Tim what you did last weekend. Otherwise, we will do it where Sarah was exposed
00:01:10 It's Gina on me is on the weekend after it was revealed that she had been catching up with her ex behind Tim's back
00:01:20 How many of you at this table have cheated on a partner?
00:01:23 Tonight the first time I'm sitting here thinking maybe these two could actually have something more than a friendship
00:01:33 Romantic breakthroughs will be celebrated. There's some kind of possible future for us progress as our couples reach
00:01:42 exciting new milestones
00:01:44 I introduced rich to my daughter and makes me really happy seeing the way he is with her
00:01:50 I was like, oh I'm falling in love with you
00:01:52 But not everyone will be feeling the love you look a little bit uncomfortable
00:01:57 I've thought about this so much
00:02:03 Expert John holds Jack to account
00:02:10 They looked like whales coming from the personal trainer who should know better has Tori finally reached her limits
00:02:18 Do you trust Jack?
00:02:21 And
00:02:23 Then this is a pattern that I have to call out the experts apply the pressure
00:02:30 Why were you meeting up with your ex as they ask Sarah?
00:02:34 What kind of relationship do you have with your ex the hard?
00:02:37 Questions I thought you mentioned that you did hook up with him a month before coming on to the experiment
00:02:42 Do you still have feelings for your ex?
00:02:45 Um
00:02:47 Following a massive week on the experiment where our couples gained important perspective at the retreat
00:03:04 the fifth commitment ceremony is almost here and
00:03:09 Some of our couples are stronger than ever
00:03:12 I
00:03:14 Feeling I feel great. I'm the same just another day. I guess just another day bridge and I are good
00:03:20 I feel like we're going into the commitment ceremony strong. I feel like the retreat made us closer and I
00:03:27 introduced bridge to my daughter
00:03:30 Everything was perfect. They got along well, which was really important to me. So I feel a lot more comfortable now
00:03:37 I think you're lucky. I'm such a blessing
00:03:39 No
00:03:41 Real lucky right now going into tonight. I feel like we're connected on a deeper level
00:03:50 I feel good about it and I feel like we are good
00:03:52 Down the corridor
00:03:56 Lucinda and Timothy are also on a high
00:03:58 Basking in the afterglow of Timothy's emotional breakthrough at the retreat. You are the epitome of the snow burn
00:04:07 You weren't lying
00:04:09 But we're making lovely progress
00:04:11 It may take us into
00:04:14 2026 but I'm holding in there
00:04:17 After an emotional few days
00:04:21 Timothy finally trusted Lucinda enough to lower his guard and
00:04:26 reveal his true vulnerabilities
00:04:29 I've never seen that side of Tim
00:04:35 There's a real turnaround and I just want to like being in devotion to that
00:04:40 It's been a really beautiful journey with Tim since the retreat actually there's been some very lovely
00:04:49 Openings and some walls that have come down. I feel a more of a softness and a receptivity to me
00:04:56 There is a little bit of flirting. There's something in the air
00:05:01 I do feel a deep respect and regard and a reciprocal
00:05:06 Like love like a song love with him. What are they gonna talk to us about?
00:05:11 Well, I don't know but I know what I'm gonna tell them and that is just like how
00:05:17 Brave I think you are and how awesome that's it's been to feel your vulnerability and some walls come crumbling down
00:05:26 you know, I
00:05:28 Had an emotional moment
00:05:31 which I don't do and
00:05:33 Lucinda was very thoughtful and caring
00:05:38 She didn't sort of cut and run. She genuinely was worried about me
00:05:43 Lucinda was very good about it
00:05:46 Yeah
00:05:49 You know, I've loved watching everybody just really see you and accept you
00:05:53 Just being you know the team that I see which is just a bloody great bloke
00:06:00 Yeah
00:06:02 Thank you, but yeah
00:06:05 Overall I'm a bit nervous to unpack some stuff
00:06:10 But we had a good time at the retreat
00:06:13 Everything's been good
00:06:16 But too much of the group Byron Bay already feels worlds away
00:06:28 Overshadowed by last night's wild dinner party and
00:06:31 The revelation that Sarah has been visiting an ex-boyfriend
00:06:36 You mr. Cracker. I'm just the dinner party. It sounds like a blessing in disguise
00:06:42 Like I did feel really bad for tea. Yes. I did. I I did for about for Tim not not good
00:06:49 Relational cheating physical cheating. It's all the same to me. Go back to your ex. Yeah
00:06:54 When I asked I was like what you just said that you were dog-sitting, but then you told Eden it was a lie
00:06:59 He's like well, I wasn't actually I was like, why did you tell us that you were?
00:07:02 Maybe something happened. Maybe it didn't
00:07:05 But even if they didn't like they're still texting and planning. It's not a lying. Yeah, it's like lying
00:07:12 Why would she lie about it?
00:07:15 Sarah and Tim spent the night apart
00:07:21 And
00:07:23 In his solitude
00:07:26 Tim has been reeling from last night's bombshell revelation
00:07:30 I'm just feeling
00:07:33 trained
00:07:36 The trust has been broken and those growing feelings for him
00:07:39 you know and
00:07:42 then this news kind of came out of nowhere and
00:07:46 You know
00:07:50 Exploded my face really
00:07:52 It's crushing it's devastating to me to hear that got my heart broken again and
00:07:58 I'm just trying to process everything, you know
00:08:01 Feels like it's been a struggle of a relationship this whole way through and
00:08:07 There was a lot of red flags from the very beginning
00:08:12 I just feel like I know what it's like to not be over next
00:08:18 I
00:08:20 Feel like I should have just trusted my guy early on like I feel like a fool she paid me for a fool
00:08:25 You must reveal your latest correspondence on the device you use most your phone. I'm happy to share everything. I
00:08:32 Haven't given you a reason not to trust me. So what's the point?
00:08:36 So you feel strongly about not doing it? Yeah, I do
00:08:41 The concern of mine would be if you're talking to other guys, I'm not
00:08:46 I
00:08:48 Felt like something she had something to hide. Did you have anything to hide? No, no
00:08:52 So just lies she made me doubt myself
00:08:59 Going along with her crap. I knew you're gonna cancel our date for the third week in a row
00:09:05 Don't take things so personally
00:09:08 So what's the genuine reason that you cancelled on him three times
00:09:16 I
00:09:18 Went out with my girlfriends on Saturday, and I wasn't feeling great on Sunday. I
00:09:21 Was hungover
00:09:25 Now that I'm looking at it this whole time has just been
00:09:30 Smoking mirrors, you know waste of time. I've been let on
00:09:35 We will tell him if you don't tell him Sarah
00:09:40 Well, I ran into my ex it was a planned premeditated
00:09:44 Are you good team
00:10:08 I
00:10:10 Feel like I tried so hard to meet her needs and expectations
00:10:18 But now it's pretty obvious like she definitely doesn't care about me
00:10:22 She didn't apologize to me. She didn't even check up on me
00:10:26 She didn't even text me last night to see if I was okay
00:10:30 Shit, it shouldn't care how I felt about this. She's just worried about how she's gonna look
00:10:36 Also
00:10:38 At a loss after last night's dinner party
00:10:41 Tori is once again being confronted by Jack's behavior
00:10:45 After Jack referred to Tristan as a whale on the retreat the latest in a long line of indiscretions
00:10:53 Whoever I've offended 100% I do apologize. It isn't who I am
00:11:00 I've made mistakes. It's a mistake and I've apologized. We've got to move on Tori
00:11:04 What will it take for you to say to him like it's enough. I'm probably like
00:11:09 Like halfway
00:11:13 And while last night Tori only had 50% tolerance for Jack
00:11:21 The reality of her husband's actions have begun to sink in
00:11:27 You know, I did sit there and I did have Jack's back at the dinner party
00:11:32 But I kind of like reflected on the night and I really am not okay with the comment that Jack made
00:11:39 Around the pool to Tristan like it was so disrespectful
00:11:43 and I think
00:11:45 Realizing that I don't really like what's happened at all
00:11:49 I
00:11:51 Just feel like I
00:12:04 Think when I really think about these things and I kind of reflect back like it's just been one thing after the other
00:12:15 But I want you to be pissed with me obviously last night was shit and it's a big thing though you get that right
00:12:20 I trust it's you just like in the top three of my values like trust and respect
00:12:24 If you do not have trust you have nothing
00:12:27 So I get it
00:12:30 But - I am I make mistakes do you make mistakes but you do that's real life I
00:12:40 Know he says he's sorry, but at this point they are words and I need like hardcore
00:12:45 Actions. I need him to show me that the things that he's saying he actually means
00:12:52 Because right now it does have me questioning my trust for him
00:12:57 Despite being called a whale on the retreat
00:13:02 Tristan is feeling positive going into tonight's commitment ceremony having made a surprising declaration
00:13:10 to Cassandra
00:13:11 The whale thing sucked, you know
00:13:13 But gas was amazing throughout the whole thing
00:13:17 She made me feel better about myself and feel a lot more closer to her
00:13:21 So this morning
00:13:24 Well, I told her I was falling in love
00:13:30 This is the girl that has took by me has been patient has waited for me
00:13:36 And I've never said I love you to anyone which is obviously a very very big set, but I'm feeling great
00:13:42 Commitment say five five we've done five which is good five more times in that couch. Yeah
00:13:50 How do you feel? How are you feeling? Great?
00:13:53 We've had a great day today I reckon I think this is the most I guess feeling like we're a team if that makes sense
00:14:02 Yeah, it's going really well. Like it's just we're at that point, you know when it comes to tonight's commitment ceremony
00:14:09 I'm not nervous about it
00:14:10 I'm just happy to be around it to be honest as we always do honey
00:14:14 We go in together as a team and then we leave together as a team
00:14:16 Yeah
00:14:19 What's going on in your relationship at the moment?
00:14:21 Yeah, so Tristan has
00:14:25 Confessed that he has feelings of love for me
00:14:31 Anyway, I spent the time
00:14:33 Right your truth I'll see you there will be a pain
00:14:39 So do you feel the same
00:14:44 Yeah, um, so
00:14:46 When Tristan told me that he loves me enjoy a true beautiful. Thank you
00:14:55 Very handsome yourself
00:14:59 Bye
00:15:01 Tristan doesn't know this
00:15:03 but I
00:15:05 Do not love him
00:15:07 And
00:15:11 If I don't love him then I should I leave
00:15:15 It's a huge decision because when you're writing the word leave it's it's a like a clear message that you're giving up but I
00:15:29 Have to do what's best for my heart. I
00:15:32 Had strong feelings for Tristan earlier on I
00:15:36 Tried so hard and I've been so patient and I've waited and waited and I never ever want to hurt Tristan
00:15:45 I always want to make him happy
00:15:47 but I feel very strongly that I know for certain that I do not love this man and
00:15:52 I always come back to the same answer
00:15:56 As
00:15:58 Our couples complete the final touches before tonight's commitment ceremony
00:16:06 There is an unexpected knock on Tim's door
00:16:12 Hi Cagman
00:16:22 When Sarah entered the experiment
00:16:24 She did so struggling to exit the toxic hold of her previous relationship
00:16:30 Having gone back and forth for six years
00:16:33 When I was with my ex
00:16:36 He ended up cheating on me
00:16:39 multiple times with multiple women
00:16:42 But I just kept going back to him for like four or five years
00:16:51 Even though it was toxic and childish and
00:16:53 manipulative
00:16:56 He had an emotional pull over me and I couldn't help myself
00:17:00 It was one of the reasons I wanted to do this experiment because I wanted to get out of those
00:17:05 Yeah, those
00:17:08 Toxic patterns with my ex. I want to be better. I
00:17:12 Want to do everything that I can to show Tim that I
00:17:17 Just want you to know that I know that what I did was wrong and I'm taking full ownership for it I am
00:17:24 I don't really know what to say to be honest
00:17:38 You know
00:17:45 You do something like this like you want to wear a cute dress for your ex like come on I
00:17:49 Didn't wear a cute dress
00:17:52 That's not even the point like that it's part of the point
00:17:57 It's like you asking Eden for a cute dress cuz they're gonna see X amount. I asked I asked her for a shirt
00:18:04 I asked her for a shirt. I didn't say a cute dress
00:18:07 She's trying to apologize and then she's bringing up excuses instead of being like I look I'm sorry is the wrong thing
00:18:14 To me it just seems like she's upset. She got caught. She's just deflecting
00:18:19 It was pretty disappointed the way that you acted last night
00:18:23 You obviously didn't care about how I felt you didn't care about
00:18:30 My feelings you just left you didn't check up on me
00:18:34 But that's not the point like I don't like I
00:18:40 Am NOT getting into the details Tim
00:18:43 Today's not about like what happened last night. I don't want to defend myself. That's why I'm saying it's not a point
00:18:49 Stop saying oh, that's not the point. I did I am admitting it to you
00:18:54 I will stop saying that those little things aren't the point you just want to have your result that you want
00:18:59 Okay, I can't do this
00:19:01 Because I feel like I'm trying to I'm saying I'm owning it
00:19:06 I'm saying that I'm sorry apologies if you want to apologize to someone don't defend yourself just apologize and take it
00:19:12 I'm happy and you're doing it again. You're running away Tim
00:19:16 Really behaving yelling at me yelling at you. I'm telling you you're cowardly behavior because I'm just running away. You don't want to own it
00:19:23 You
00:19:25 Hello greetings Janes evening hello, hi
00:19:52 I'm grab a seat settle in
00:19:54 Evening ladies hello ladies
00:20:20 Well welcome everybody to the fifth commitment ceremony
00:20:23 we are well and truly getting into the heart of the experiment now and
00:20:28 last night at the dinner party
00:20:31 It was explosive to say the least
00:20:35 Now we'll get into all of that and more
00:20:38 But also you're coming off the back of a couple's retreat where you've got to spend time with different couples
00:20:48 You got to see yourself in a new setting
00:20:50 and tonight
00:20:54 we're going to hear how your relationships have been put to the test and
00:20:57 What the future is going to hold?
00:21:01 So let's get our first couple up on the couch
00:21:06 Lucinda and Timothy
00:21:14 Papa
00:21:16 Hello hello you two welcome
00:21:22 Well you're looking very cute and fun together tonight, oh, thank you
00:21:28 Tell us about the retreat
00:21:32 You start now you know you don't want you stuff. It was tough. Yeah, it was tough for me
00:21:38 What was tough about it
00:21:43 I
00:21:45 Sort of I sort of had a bit of a breakdown like just as just a bit of a break right through a break through
00:21:53 Yeah, I call it a breakdown. Yeah
00:21:55 What happened
00:22:00 It was just we were playing a card game
00:22:04 And there was a couple of questions in there that that sort of triggered something inside me
00:22:11 What did it trigger inside you
00:22:13 Just incredible like sadness yeah, yeah
00:22:21 And what was the sadness about
00:22:29 Family yeah family yeah
00:22:36 I felt
00:22:41 Like I was the most lonely person there
00:22:44 Because I've got no family left so I left and took me a while to sort of
00:22:53 Compose myself and and and come back to the to the retreat, but the cinder was really good
00:23:02 How did it feel knowing that she was there by your side
00:23:09 It was it was really nice because
00:23:12 It was it was really nice because
00:23:16 All he's making me cry
00:23:36 I
00:23:38 Really appreciated that she was really there for me
00:23:50 She had my back
00:23:53 It's everything because I
00:23:58 Haven't had that feeling in a really long time
00:24:02 Yeah
00:24:06 This is a big deal for you, yeah
00:24:08 The cinder what was it like for you being by his side during all of this
00:24:14 Yeah, I'm just so proud of Tim
00:24:17 Yeah, it's it's it's just been amazing to watch some of the walls come down
00:24:23 I suppose they didn't tell you about the big hug they had a melted
00:24:26 It was one of my favorite hugs of my life really
00:24:34 We
00:24:36 Kind of came to this
00:24:38 crescendo and
00:24:40 Vulnerability to me is the bravest thing
00:24:42 You know, so I've just felt like a more softness and a more opening in just Tim's energy and presence
00:24:51 It's really lovely the kindness that's just in the field. There's a lot of respect regard no defenses
00:24:58 We're just sort of flowing very easily together. Aren't we Tim?
00:25:03 We we actually just get on like a house on fire. It's we do
00:25:07 We do get along really really well
00:25:09 It's just a laughs isn't it? Yeah, we just actually live to crack each other up at this point
00:25:15 You know, I
00:25:19 Think the first time I've seen the two of you with a chance of it actually going romantic is right now
00:25:29 Because you come in angry with the pointy finger yelling and bellowing at everybody but that's just you being scared
00:25:36 And
00:25:40 This couple's retreat actually you got vulnerable
00:25:43 You opened up
00:25:46 You let Lucinda get close to you. Yeah, she's very patient woman Lucinda very patient
00:25:52 Yeah, and for the first time I'm sitting here thinking
00:25:56 Maybe these two could actually have something more than a friendship
00:26:00 Let's get to the decision Lucinda first
00:26:08 So Tim, yes, I've enjoyed you so much the last week
00:26:13 so precious and
00:26:15 I have said stay and
00:26:19 I've got some more brick walls exploding and
00:26:24 And a request for you know, just a hug of a yeah
00:26:28 Yeah
00:26:32 Since the retreat we we haven't had one hiccup. It's been yeah, it's been good. So I've heard stay
00:26:40 Wonderful and Tim
00:26:45 Definition of courage. Yes
00:26:49 Thanks, but we're gonna need you to be even more courageous. Yeah, you're gonna need to give her minimum one hug a day
00:26:56 Now that's what she said she wants it she certainly deserves it and
00:27:03 That is a very practical way to get this going. You can go back to the group. Well done. Well done you guys
00:27:10 *Cheering*
00:27:12 Tonight was a tough but with Lucinda next to me I do feel stronger
00:27:25 Coming up Tristan is hit with Cassandra's true feelings
00:27:31 So I decided to put it all on the line and I was like, oh I'm falling in love with you
00:27:35 I have to say Cassandra. You look a little bit uncomfortable
00:27:38 *Music*
00:27:40 Um
00:27:42 *Music*
00:27:44 *Music*
00:27:46 And Sarah goes head-to-head with the experts what kind of relationship do you have with your ex?
00:27:52 It's a friendship
00:27:55 Friends don't get naked
00:27:57 You did that a month before the experiment started
00:28:01 What was your question?
00:28:04 *Music*
00:28:06 *Music*
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00:28:14 Can we have our next couple tonight?
00:28:16 *Music*
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00:28:22 Eden and Jayden
00:28:24 *Cheering*
00:28:26 *Music*
00:28:28 *Music*
00:28:30 *Music*
00:28:32 Hello you two. Hello
00:28:34 How are you guys?
00:28:36 We're very well but we're more interested in how you guys are doing
00:28:40 *Music*
00:28:42 To be honest we've had a very rough week
00:28:44 *Music*
00:28:46 *Music*
00:28:48 It sounds like it
00:28:50 Um yeah it's probably been the hardest week for me in the experiment so far
00:28:54 What made it so difficult for you Eden?
00:28:56 *Music*
00:28:58 *Music*
00:29:00 Obviously the whole messages from Sarah situation
00:29:02 Sarah sent me a message and asked for an outfit to borrow
00:29:06 She wanted something to wear
00:29:08 I'd asked her where she was going
00:29:10 I sat with Jayden he saw my phone and she said I'm going to see my ex-boyfriend
00:29:16 *Music*
00:29:18 What we learnt was that Jayden and my morals and principles align exactly
00:29:22 However the way we would go about things was quite different
00:29:28 Jayden wanted Tim to know immediately after it happened
00:29:34 I didn't want to stop him from doing what he would want to do in this situation
00:29:40 But then I also just felt so uncomfortable doing it
00:29:42 I felt like if I didn't bring it up I would lose Jayden
00:29:46 I get a little bit of anxiety as it is and it just snowballed it to be worse and worse
00:29:52 Like I kind of thought anyone should know like straight away
00:29:57 I've been in that position so many times before and I don't know how I felt
00:30:03 I didn't want Tim to feel that
00:30:05 So the longer you wait the worse it's going to get
00:30:10 *Music*
00:30:15 I just felt like in any whatever I decided to do I was never going to win out of it
00:30:20 It was a lose-lose situation in every possible way
00:30:23 I honestly truly thought that everyone in the room would be like you're so untrustworthy for doing this
00:30:30 I really appreciate you guys coming to me with the information
00:30:33 *Music*
00:30:37 Yeah
00:30:38 It was hard for you to step out Eden but it was just bringing, doing the right thing
00:30:43 So I appreciate both of you for doing it
00:30:46 Thanks Tim
00:30:48 So what did that angst do for the two of you in terms of conflict?
00:30:53 What happened there for you?
00:30:55 We were fighting a lot
00:30:58 And my anxiety was as worse as it's been in a long, long, long time
00:31:05 Coming out of it on the other side having chosen to be up front and clear to Tim
00:31:13 What does this do to the relationship now? Where do you guys stand now?
00:31:17 I personally feel like we're stronger than ever now
00:31:22 I think that there's a lot of trust built
00:31:26 We know our morals are the same
00:31:30 And I know that even though maybe he didn't help in the moment
00:31:35 Jayden really, really, really wants to help
00:31:38 And I don't think I've ever had someone that wants to help that
00:31:41 So it was very nice
00:31:42 Wow
00:31:43 You ain't ever been with the big dog, eh?
00:31:45 But you are now
00:31:47 We're going to hear your decisions guys
00:31:51 This is not a hard one, let's just go, come on
00:31:53 Very easy one, we're ready
00:31:54 Let's start with Jayden
00:31:56 We already know who it's going to be
00:31:57 Oh, there it is
00:31:58 Five hearts
00:31:59 Oh, and all the love
00:32:00 Two, three, four, five
00:32:01 Five hearts
00:32:02 Okay
00:32:03 And I've got to stay as well, also with five hearts
00:32:08 Matching five hearts
00:32:09 Five hearts for the fifth one
00:32:12 Well done guys, yes
00:32:14 Thank you, well done
00:32:16 Next up, on the couch
00:32:27 Tristan and Cassandra
00:32:33 I'm not at it
00:32:39 Come on honey
00:32:40 Don't leave Cass behind, Tristan
00:32:43 Oh, come on honey, we're over here
00:32:47 Very eager
00:32:49 You're so enthusiastic about reaching the couch, Tristan
00:32:54 How have you guys been?
00:33:02 Big week
00:33:04 The retreat, it was like really tough for me mentally
00:33:08 But I feel like we're doing really well
00:33:12 Like we actually had a massive breakthrough
00:33:14 Okay
00:33:17 Yeah, so for a while I've been like
00:33:20 I've got weird special feelings
00:33:22 This is the first time I've had with a girl
00:33:24 Because all I need is someone to kind of accept me who I am
00:33:27 And that's what she's done the whole time
00:33:29 So I decided to put it all on the line
00:33:31 I was really nervous, I was shitting balls actually
00:33:34 And I was like, oh I'm falling in love with you
00:33:37 That's what I feel like it is
00:33:44 And then I was really scared that she was going to run away
00:33:48 And then she didn't run away, which is awesome
00:33:52 So did you say I'm falling in love with you
00:33:58 Because you feel like you are falling in love
00:34:00 Or because you want to express how much you really like her?
00:34:04 No, because I'm falling in love
00:34:06 Oh, buddy
00:34:08 You are falling in love
00:34:11 Yeah, it's the first time I've ever fallen in love
00:34:14 I was so nervous, I was scared
00:34:18 Like, great first, you know, like fantastic first
00:34:23 [Phone ringing]
00:34:26 So I don't regret it at all
00:34:36 Because she's a special one and you guys did well
00:34:41 So thank you for that
00:34:43 I have to say, Cassandra, you look a little bit uncomfortable
00:34:50 [Music]
00:34:53 Tristan, you are falling in love
00:35:17 Yeah, it's the first time I've ever fallen in love
00:35:20 Because she's a special one and you guys did well
00:35:24 I have to say, Cassandra, you look a little bit uncomfortable
00:35:29 Yeah
00:35:44 I really wish that I felt the same way back
00:35:48 That's probably why I feel uncomfortable
00:35:53 Okay
00:35:57 But it's not there
00:36:13 Do you see that as a possibility in this relationship
00:36:16 For you to grow that kind of feelings at this point?
00:36:18 Do you see it or not?
00:36:20 Right now, I'm not sure
00:36:26 I've thought about it a lot
00:36:32 But the relationships that I've been in
00:36:36 When there's love there
00:36:38 You just want to be around that person
00:36:40 You want to message them, you want to call them
00:36:42 You want to talk to them, you want to be in their space
00:36:44 You want to eat with them
00:36:46 And I was like, we don't, we rarely kiss
00:36:50 And it's hard
00:36:52 And I just, I don't understand
00:36:54 It can be very confusing
00:36:56 So you're not convinced of the type of love he's expressing
00:36:59 It's, yeah, I feel like his version of love is different to
00:37:05 Mine, maybe
00:37:10 Okay
00:37:12 Alright
00:37:14 Let's go to the decision
00:37:16 Tristan
00:37:18 Well
00:37:22 You can't say you've fallen in love with someone
00:37:24 And not actually say, stay
00:37:26 So I have said stay
00:37:28 I, um, do I do my turn now?
00:37:34 Please, yes
00:37:36 Um, what do I want to say?
00:37:40 I'm so, I'm just frozen
00:37:42 I've thought about this so much
00:37:54 And I
00:37:59 I feel like you've just, you have pushed me away quite a bit
00:38:04 Like, emotionally, mentally and physically
00:38:07 Um
00:38:09 And I've, I've tried
00:38:11 And I just don't have the same feelings for you
00:38:15 Maybe I think we are better as friends
00:38:23 And I could leave
00:38:25 Leave?
00:38:27 Mm
00:38:30 Ah
00:38:32 Ah
00:38:41 It's alright honey, we'll have a great seven days
00:38:49 You know, see what can happen in seven days
00:38:51 And then, um, we'll go from there
00:38:53 You guys look great
00:38:55 Um, you look stunning
00:38:57 Hold on, hold on
00:38:59 I see Cassandra slipping through your fingers
00:39:07 And we know she's great
00:39:11 But you're going to lose her
00:39:13 But there's no, I'm also just like
00:39:17 I do try
00:39:19 Like, every, every
00:39:21 I know you try
00:39:23 I just don't know, at this point, I just don't know how I can do anymore
00:39:25 Like, you know, I'm, I'm, I'm like, leaning in
00:39:27 I'm trying to lean in and do this, I'm trying to
00:39:29 That's what you guys have got to figure out
00:39:31 You've had us for six weeks, seven weeks
00:39:33 Telling you exactly what to do
00:39:35 Now it's on you guys
00:39:39 To pull it together
00:39:41 Or get out
00:39:43 Copy that
00:39:45 For now, you can go back to the group
00:39:47 Thanks for having us, thanks guys
00:39:49 Thank you
00:39:51 Love you guys
00:39:53 Well done guys
00:39:55 I feel a bit blindsided
00:39:57 That's the first time I've ever said I love someone
00:39:59 And she won't leave
00:40:01 Oh Jesus
00:40:09 I thought we were making progress
00:40:11 I guess I was off, I guess they say off on the wrong page
00:40:13 I'll still give it 110%
00:40:15 For the week, because
00:40:17 I don't want to lose her
00:40:19 But I'm just a bit more confused than ever, to be honest
00:40:21 Our next couple up on the couch
00:40:23 Is Andrea and Richie
00:40:35 Grandpa, your auntie
00:40:37 Grandpa, yes
00:40:39 They clap, I have to
00:40:43 Hello
00:40:45 Hello
00:40:47 Richie, you were unwell on the retreat
00:40:49 I understand
00:40:51 I was unwell on the retreat, I've been unwell for a week
00:40:53 You know, it's the old, in sickness and in health
00:40:55 You know, that kind of part of the marriage vow
00:40:57 Right
00:40:59 Getting it all
00:41:01 That's the bit that we've been challenged with
00:41:03 You've been putting it to the test
00:41:05 I actually really like sick Richie
00:41:07 And why is that?
00:41:09 He was quieter and cute
00:41:11 And I got to look after him
00:41:17 He is cute all the time
00:41:19 But he was just this little baby cute
00:41:21 And I could nurture a little bit
00:41:23 And it was kind of nice
00:41:25 Not quite sure how that lands for you, Richie
00:41:27 Yeah, no
00:41:29 It doesn't look good
00:41:31 Yeah, well it's interesting
00:41:33 Because there's
00:41:35 I mean, I take that, great
00:41:37 Very nice, but
00:41:39 You know, when I'm sick, I'm half myself
00:41:41 You know, I'm not my boisterous
00:41:43 Energetic, usual self
00:41:45 So if that's what Andy prefers
00:41:47 Then
00:41:49 What does that mean?
00:41:51 I didn't say I prefer
00:41:53 I just said I like him
00:41:55 Like that
00:41:57 And whilst I take the joke about
00:41:59 I like him better when he's sick
00:42:01 But perhaps the message there is
00:42:03 Andy's more nurturing, softer side
00:42:05 Is able to come out
00:42:07 When you are perhaps a little bit
00:42:09 Less Richie
00:42:11 And that's fine, yeah
00:42:13 Our relationship, though
00:42:15 As I see it
00:42:17 Like we're far into the experiment now
00:42:19 We haven't kissed
00:42:21 For over six weeks
00:42:23 Like we haven't had an intimate kiss
00:42:29 For over six weeks
00:42:31 So is all of this getting in the way of that?
00:42:33 I don't know, that connection hasn't been made to me
00:42:37 I'm not really sure what's going on
00:42:41 Andy, from your position
00:42:43 Was it that moment
00:42:45 On the couch
00:42:47 When Richie was very open about your sex life
00:42:49 Was that the turning point for you?
00:42:51 That was pretty horrible for me, yeah
00:42:55 But
00:42:59 I have tried to
00:43:01 Get past that
00:43:03 And we've had a few other little things
00:43:05 That sort of make me pull back
00:43:09 So yeah, I haven't felt like that
00:43:11 Can you put your finger on why?
00:43:17 Yeah
00:43:19 The mood, the tone
00:43:21 Not the softness
00:43:27 And that sort of thing
00:43:29 You hearing that, Richie?
00:43:31 I've sat on this couch and I've been told by Andy
00:43:37 A number of times how nice a person I am
00:43:39 And how supportive I've been for her
00:43:41 And how patient
00:43:43 And how, I mean, he's used all those words
00:43:45 Isn't that soft
00:43:47 And kind and nice?
00:43:49 And then it's been turned on me
00:43:53 And now suddenly I'm this bombastic guy
00:43:55 And, okay
00:43:57 Guys, I've got to say
00:44:05 There's a real
00:44:07 Disconnect between the two of you
00:44:09 And
00:44:11 I don't think you're listening
00:44:13 To each other at the moment
00:44:15 You know, this seems like a really pivotal
00:44:19 Point for the two of you
00:44:21 We've seen the energy between the two of you
00:44:25 We know that you like each other
00:44:27 You can't continue
00:44:29 In this way
00:44:33 We're going to go to the decision
00:44:35 I'm choosing to stay
00:44:41 Good
00:44:43 Well, also in the same way
00:44:45 I'm also going to try to stay as well
00:44:47 A big strong stay
00:44:49 Alright, you two
00:44:53 Well, this is about coming back together
00:44:55 And giving each other that feedback
00:44:57 About what's working and what's not working
00:44:59 Really listening to each other
00:45:01 Noticing how that dynamic
00:45:03 Changes
00:45:05 Hopefully there might be some more kissing this week
00:45:07 Let's hope
00:45:09 Thank you guys
00:45:11 Good luck guys
00:45:13 I'm a bit frustrated by that, to be honest
00:45:21 I don't really know where I stand with Andy
00:45:25 But all I want to do is get our relationship back
00:45:29 And get back together
00:45:31 Still to come
00:45:33 Jack, I'm at a point now
00:45:35 Where I'm almost lost for words
00:45:37 A fed up expert John
00:45:39 Holds Jack to account
00:45:41 It's not good enough
00:45:43 Coming from the personal trainer
00:45:45 Who should know better
00:45:47 And Sarah tries to make amends
00:45:49 I'm going to do everything in my power
00:45:51 To make Tim my priority
00:45:53 I don't care what you guys think
00:45:55 There's still a lot to unpack
00:45:57 I was just getting to a point
00:45:59 Alright, next up on the couch
00:46:09 Jonathan and Lauren
00:46:17 Hey guys
00:46:23 Hey guys
00:46:25 So, how was the couples retreat for you both?
00:46:29 I'd say the last days of the retreat
00:46:33 Were really good for us
00:46:35 We sat by the pool
00:46:37 And had some of the best, longest chats we've had
00:46:39 We just sat there
00:46:41 And we literally just laughed
00:46:43 The whole time
00:46:45 We started talking like
00:46:47 There's some kind of possible future for us
00:46:49 Which we've never really done
00:46:51 In the last few days
00:46:53 We've sort of been holding hands
00:46:55 And actually sitting close to each other
00:46:57 When we turn, instead of being like
00:46:59 I love it, progress
00:47:03 Always happy with progress
00:47:05 Let's go to the decision
00:47:07 Lauren
00:47:09 Okay, um
00:47:11 I wrote stay with an exclamation mark
00:47:13 Oh wow, enthusiastic stay
00:47:15 I like it, I like it
00:47:17 Jonathan
00:47:19 I had the best three days
00:47:21 So I think it's going well
00:47:23 I'm the like to stay
00:47:25 Thanks guys
00:47:27 Thank you so much
00:47:29 Jade and Ridge
00:47:31 Well let's get straight into it
00:47:37 Couples retreat
00:47:39 I feel like the couples retreat was great
00:47:41 We had the best time
00:47:43 Literally the best time, I don't look at anyone the way I look at Jade
00:47:47 I'm going to get the next girl who comes along
00:47:49 Who has everything I want in a partner
00:47:51 I'm going to give everything that I have
00:47:53 And that's Jade
00:47:55 I mean these are big feelings
00:47:57 Definitely, I'm like an 8.2, she's only 6.5
00:47:59 And she thinks she likes me more, can you believe that
00:48:01 Ridge and I are definitely in a good place
00:48:05 And I introduced Ridge to my daughter
00:48:07 We went to the zoo
00:48:11 Obviously I was flattered
00:48:13 That she even wanted me to go meet her daughter
00:48:15 But I was always ready for it
00:48:17 It made me really happy seeing the way he is with her
00:48:19 Well it's just wonderful to hear
00:48:25 Let's go to the decision
00:48:29 Stay or leave, let's go with you first
00:48:31 Ridge
00:48:33 Stay
00:48:35 Good
00:48:37 Jade what have you got, stay or leave
00:48:39 I have stayed
00:48:43 And with that you can go back to the group
00:48:45 Thanks guys
00:48:47 Let's get our next couple up
00:48:55 Michael and Stephen
00:48:59 Go boys
00:49:01 Hey hey
00:49:05 Hello, hi
00:49:07 Well you two, last time we saw you on the couch
00:49:11 It was clear that Stephen
00:49:13 You were going to step up
00:49:15 And we're very keen to know
00:49:17 How it all went
00:49:19 Um
00:49:21 Yeah that kind of went downhill
00:49:23 Quickly
00:49:25 We had a publicity shoot
00:49:27 And
00:49:29 There was a little spark
00:49:31 That Stephen had with the hairdresser
00:49:33 And on the way home I was like
00:49:37 Was there any feelings there, was there any attraction
00:49:39 And I was told no
00:49:41 Only to fast forward a few hours later
00:49:43 To find out that there was a spark there
00:49:45 And that he'll never see anything here
00:49:47 So it was basically
00:49:49 Like a hard no
00:49:51 What made you decide
00:49:57 I'm going to tell him about this spark
00:49:59 Come clean
00:50:01 For me when I felt that spark it was like a
00:50:03 Light bulb moment
00:50:05 I was like that's what's missing
00:50:07 And I felt
00:50:09 Like it was just a lie for me
00:50:11 To go on another minute
00:50:13 Without voicing that
00:50:15 I was
00:50:17 Blown away because I'm trying to grow something
00:50:19 Deeper than just a spark
00:50:21 But you didn't give me a chance to build
00:50:23 Anything deeper because you
00:50:25 Got distracted in a heartbeat
00:50:27 I think that I
00:50:29 Have always been honest
00:50:31 I have never felt
00:50:33 A spark and
00:50:35 I don't want to lead you on
00:50:37 And there have been many times where we are
00:50:39 Getting along really well and
00:50:41 That misleads you
00:50:43 Michael what's it been like for you on the receiving end of it
00:50:45 Throughout this experiment
00:50:47 Look it really crushed me
00:50:49 You're like running
00:50:51 Like I've come into
00:50:53 This with an open heart, open mind
00:50:55 Wanting to give it my all
00:50:57 I'm absolutely defeated, I'm deflated
00:50:59 And I'm exhausted now
00:51:01 [Music]
00:51:03 We've got to go to the decision
00:51:07 Stephen
00:51:09 Let's go with you first
00:51:11 Stay or leave, what do you reckon
00:51:13 Yeah look I
00:51:15 [Music]
00:51:17 I think
00:51:19 You know it's time to
00:51:21 Call it
00:51:23 [Music]
00:51:25 Michael
00:51:27 Stay or leave
00:51:29 [Music]
00:51:31 I don't feel like you ever
00:51:33 Tried, I don't feel like you ever showed up
00:51:35 Here to try
00:51:37 I feel like you got here immediately
00:51:39 Was like I don't like you, I'm ready to go
00:51:41 You kept your foot at the exit the entire time
00:51:43 [Music]
00:51:45 I've
00:51:47 Always been a fighter and I've given everything my all
00:51:49 [Music]
00:51:51 But sometimes you have to keep your head
00:51:53 Held high so
00:51:55 No
00:51:57 [Music]
00:51:59 Yeah
00:52:01 I decided it's time to go
00:52:03 Michael I know how much
00:52:05 You wanted this
00:52:07 So we are absolutely
00:52:09 Devastated that it hasn't worked out
00:52:11 But in saying that
00:52:13 Even the way you've handled this situation
00:52:15 Tonight has just shown everybody
00:52:17 Your integrity, we've loved
00:52:19 Having you as part of the experiment
00:52:21 We wish you all the very best
00:52:23 You can go back to the group
00:52:25 Thank you so much
00:52:27 [Music]
00:52:29 I came into this wanting to give up my all
00:52:31 And I did
00:52:33 I felt extreme highs, I felt extreme lows
00:52:35 But I'm grateful
00:52:37 For the experiment, it feels good to
00:52:39 Go back home knowing I'm a stronger person
00:52:41 Our next couple
00:52:43 Up on the couch
00:52:45 [Music]
00:52:47 [Music]
00:52:49 Tori and Jack
00:52:51 [Applause]
00:52:53 Hello
00:52:55 Hello
00:52:57 [Music]
00:52:59 Had a chance to observe you guys last night
00:53:01 And a lot was going on
00:53:03 I'd like to hear
00:53:05 From you
00:53:07 How do you sum it all up
00:53:09 Couples retreat and everything that's gone down
00:53:11 Yeah look it's
00:53:13 Been a tough one
00:53:15 We've um
00:53:17 Definitely had our issues
00:53:19 We were hoping couples retreat would be
00:53:21 A good time and a jolly time but
00:53:23 Come under fire again
00:53:25 Um yeah Tori's pretty
00:53:29 Pissed with me
00:53:31 It shows
00:53:33 Yeah
00:53:35 [Music]
00:53:37 I just feel like
00:53:39 It's just been one thing after the other
00:53:41 Good job
00:53:43 Last night
00:53:45 At the dinner party
00:53:47 The whole thing regarding the whale comment
00:53:49 It was just really
00:53:51 Off putting
00:53:53 And I think
00:53:55 Jack said sorry quite a bit
00:53:57 But I'm at a point where I need like
00:53:59 Firm action
00:54:01 It's interesting because what we saw
00:54:03 At the dinner party was a
00:54:05 Very united front again
00:54:07 I feel like last night we were
00:54:09 Very united and then
00:54:11 When we got home
00:54:13 I did have a moment of like
00:54:15 Hold up
00:54:17 I don't
00:54:19 Condone this behaviour
00:54:21 Like I don't stand for any of this
00:54:23 Yeah exactly
00:54:25 Jack I'm at a point now
00:54:29 Where I'm almost lost for words
00:54:31 Cause let's
00:54:33 Just reflect
00:54:35 We've got you coming in
00:54:39 To this experiment
00:54:41 In a cloud of
00:54:43 Suspicion that you've got
00:54:45 An ex girlfriend on the outside
00:54:47 You then use a muzzle comment
00:54:51 During the dinner party
00:54:53 You then
00:54:57 Mention
00:54:59 And it's hard for me to say
00:55:01 That if there's a partner swap
00:55:03 They're going to get to have sex with your partner
00:55:07 And when you think I might be done
00:55:13 I'm going to have to
00:55:15 Go on
00:55:17 And I'm going to have to
00:55:19 Go on
00:55:21 And I'm going to have to
00:55:23 Go on
00:55:25 And I'm going to have to
00:55:27 Go on
00:55:29 And I'm going to have to
00:55:31 Go on
00:55:33 And I'm going to have to
00:55:35 Go on
00:55:37 And I'm going to have to
00:55:39 Go on
00:55:41 I don't want to go on but I will go on
00:55:43 You then
00:55:47 Mention
00:55:49 That if there's a partner swap
00:55:51 They're going to get to have sex
00:55:53 With your partner
00:55:55 And when you think I might be done I'm not
00:55:59 Because there's other things here
00:56:03 Here's more
00:56:05 You top it off with
00:56:09 A comment
00:56:11 When you were at a pool
00:56:13 That they looked like whales
00:56:15 And this frankly
00:56:17 Is coming from a personal trainer
00:56:19 Who should know better
00:56:21 It's not good enough
00:56:25 What I do see tonight that's different
00:56:29 Is that Tory
00:56:31 Has cottoned on to you
00:56:33 Your body language says
00:56:37 We're in deep trouble
00:56:39 And I'm at a point now
00:56:41 Where I'm almost lost for words
00:56:43 I've got to clean my act up
00:56:47 And I can only, moving forward from here
00:56:51 I know you're distant from me
00:56:53 Last night was shit
00:56:55 And I want to make it up to you
00:56:57 And everyone else as well
00:56:59 No more shady comments
00:57:01 No more shitty acts
00:57:03 And I want to get through this
00:57:05 And focus on us
00:57:07 And show you what I think the real me is
00:57:09 Tory
00:57:13 Do you trust Jack?
00:57:15 Do you trust me?
00:57:33 That element of trust is
00:57:35 Like, in question, yeah
00:57:37 Okay
00:57:41 I think that's
00:57:43 Basically my biggest concern
00:57:45 Pay attention to what you're seeing
00:57:47 People will show you who they are
00:57:51 And they can be very intelligent
00:57:53 And know better
00:57:55 But it's how they act
00:57:57 You're seeing behaviours
00:58:01 So let's find out your decision
00:58:03 This week, starting with you, Jack
00:58:05 I'm staying
00:58:09 Tory?
00:58:17 Um
00:58:19 Like I said before
00:58:29 I don't need to hear
00:58:31 Anymore, I need to see
00:58:33 And in order to see that
00:58:39 I need to stay
00:58:57 Tory
00:58:59 I insist
00:59:01 You just have to observe people
00:59:05 They will show you
00:59:07 Pay attention to what you're seeing
00:59:09 Sure
00:59:13 Have a good week
00:59:15 Thank you
00:59:17 It's going to be
00:59:21 A pivotal week
00:59:23 Because the trust has been shaken
00:59:25 Like I know you're sorry
00:59:27 You've said it, that's great
00:59:29 Love that for you
00:59:31 No, I need to see it
00:59:33 Let's get our next couple up
00:59:37 Sarah and Tim
00:59:53 Well let's get straight into it
00:59:55 Shall we?
00:59:57 That dinner party
01:00:03 Ah, Sarah
01:00:09 What happened?
01:00:13 Basically, yeah we came in
01:00:15 Pretty good
01:00:17 From the retreat, very good
01:00:19 Um, yeah probably the best we've ever been
01:00:21 And um
01:00:23 Then Jaden and Eden pulled us aside
01:00:25 And said
01:00:27 Is there something you want to tell Tim
01:00:29 About what you did on the weekend
01:00:31 I told Tim that I met up with my ex-boyfriend
01:00:33 Um
01:00:35 Yeah
01:00:37 That was
01:00:39 That was what happened
01:00:41 So help me understand this
01:00:49 Why were you meeting up with your ex?
01:00:51 There was no
01:00:55 Specific reason behind it
01:00:57 What kind of relationship do you have with your ex?
01:01:03 It's a friendship
01:01:05 That is bullshit
01:01:07 That is actual bullshit
01:01:09 So how long have you been
01:01:11 Not going out with him for?
01:01:13 Six years
01:01:15 But throughout those six years
01:01:17 You've been seeing him on and off?
01:01:19 Yes
01:01:21 So you've kind of been going out with him
01:01:23 But not in a
01:01:25 Classic, stereotypical way
01:01:27 For the first four years after
01:01:31 Yes
01:01:33 After that
01:01:35 No, we didn't hook up after that
01:01:37 I thought you mentioned that you did
01:01:39 Hook up with him a month before
01:01:41 Coming onto the experiment
01:01:45 Yes, yes I did
01:01:47 So it hasn't been two years
01:01:51 Just to clarify
01:01:53 Yes, yes, correct
01:01:55 We didn't hook up after that
01:02:09 I thought you mentioned that you did
01:02:11 Hook up with him a month before
01:02:13 Coming onto the experiment
01:02:15 Yes, yes I did
01:02:19 So it hasn't been two years
01:02:25 Just to clarify
01:02:27 Yes, yes, correct
01:02:29 Sarah
01:02:33 A very important point
01:02:35 Friends don't get naked and have sex
01:02:39 Yes
01:02:41 You did that a month before the experiment started
01:02:45 What was your question
01:02:51 Eden, what were the texts that made you feel suspicious
01:03:01 Well she said
01:03:05 I'm going to see my ex and then she wrote
01:03:07 She was asking for a dress
01:03:09 She said she wanted to look good
01:03:11 Sarah if you're just friends
01:03:13 Why would you want to borrow a dress to meet your ex
01:03:15 That's a good question
01:03:17 Because he's not just a friend
01:03:19 Um
01:03:23 I actually wanted him to know that I was doing well
01:03:25 And that's the confusing part
01:03:27 It's like you know if you
01:03:29 Wanted to show that you're doing good
01:03:31 You would have been proud to bring me there
01:03:35 So the question has to be asked
01:03:37 Do you still have feelings for your ex
01:03:39 No and I told him that
01:03:41 Because your behaviour says otherwise
01:03:45 I mean you guys can keep saying that
01:03:47 But I know how I feel
01:03:49 She's taking this whole
01:03:51 In for a ride
01:03:53 Him, the experiment, all of it
01:03:55 So if he's just a friend
01:03:57 Why didn't you tell him about it
01:03:59 Did you think you'd get away with it
01:04:03 Yes
01:04:05 If he didn't say anything
01:04:07 There's no way you would have said anything, no chance
01:04:09 Mm-hmm
01:04:11 This is my time on the couch
01:04:13 This isn't a dinner party, thank you
01:04:15 Sarah I'm looking at your body language
01:04:19 Right now
01:04:21 You seem very reserved, guarded
01:04:23 Almost like um
01:04:25 You don't want to be answering these questions
01:04:29 Just about that
01:04:31 Well personally I don't
01:04:33 Understand why everyone is having
01:04:35 An opinion right now
01:04:37 You're just sorry that you got caught
01:04:39 Not actually sorry for what you did
01:04:41 Sorry guys, my turn, thanks
01:04:43 Tim, what impact did it have on you
01:04:47 Take us there
01:04:49 Um, yeah it was devastating
01:04:51 We went through some turmoil
01:04:53 At the retreat and we came back out
01:04:55 In a really good place
01:04:57 And to hear that
01:04:59 I was really hurt
01:05:01 But to me it's been a bigger picture
01:05:03 Sort of thing
01:05:05 The whole experiment
01:05:07 I just haven't felt like
01:05:09 Sarah's wanted to be here
01:05:11 With me
01:05:13 I don't think she really likes me
01:05:15 She doesn't even like value me
01:05:19 As a person in her life
01:05:21 Do you think anything physically happened
01:05:25 Between Sarah and her ex
01:05:27 I'm not too sure
01:05:29 Like initially I thought for sure
01:05:31 Definitely she did
01:05:33 Um, but you know
01:05:35 The problem is I'll never actually know
01:05:37 I've danced this dance before
01:05:39 And I'm very patient
01:05:41 And I'm forgiving
01:05:43 But like I've done it before
01:05:45 And I just get hurt
01:05:47 You know this is just
01:05:49 Just pushed me further down
01:05:51 And just killed my self esteem
01:05:55 One of the big issues
01:05:57 That we saw as experts
01:05:59 At the dinner party Sarah
01:06:01 Was that you didn't relate to Tim
01:06:03 She didn't say sorry
01:06:05 She hasn't said sorry
01:06:07 You didn't talk to him
01:06:09 You didn't really get his
01:06:11 Point of view or a sense of where he was coming from
01:06:13 I actually, I tried to pull Tim aside once
01:06:15 And he didn't want to come speak to me
01:06:17 Sarah, this is a pattern
01:06:19 That I have to call off
01:06:21 I'm not going to let you go
01:06:23 This is a pattern that I have to call out
01:06:25 You deceived and betrayed Tim
01:06:29 You're the one storming out
01:06:33 And not saying sorry
01:06:35 There is a problem with that
01:06:37 I didn't know what to do
01:06:39 I honestly didn't know what to do
01:06:41 What about say sorry
01:06:43 Yeah, absolutely
01:06:47 Why didn't you?
01:06:51 I don't know
01:06:53 You just left me
01:06:57 You just
01:06:59 I heard this news, you're just defending yourself
01:07:01 And you just left me
01:07:03 Yeah I get it, everyone wanted answers, the group wanted to hold you accountable
01:07:05 But you left
01:07:07 And then you didn't even follow up with me
01:07:09 You didn't even text me to see
01:07:11 Are you okay, you know
01:07:13 And so for me
01:07:15 What do you think that shows me
01:07:17 It's kind of just drilling in the fact that I feel like
01:07:19 Like what are we even here for
01:07:21 You know what I mean
01:07:23 Like
01:07:25 I want to be with someone who wants to be with me
01:07:29 One of the things that we've complained about
01:07:35 Throughout this experiment is that
01:07:37 The communication doesn't work
01:07:39 You say that Tim needs to step up
01:07:43 And what I saw last night
01:07:45 At the dinner party
01:07:47 Gave me the answer
01:07:49 To why he doesn't step up
01:07:51 Because your fight style
01:07:53 Is combative
01:07:55 And it's aggressive
01:07:57 And Tim
01:07:59 Is too scared
01:08:01 To mention anything
01:08:03 And when an issue does come up Sarah
01:08:05 We saw what happened
01:08:07 There's not an apology
01:08:09 There's not a sense of remorse or accountability
01:08:11 If that doesn't change
01:08:15 It's going to make it
01:08:17 Very hard for someone to date you
01:08:19 I see that
01:08:23 I don't know if you do
01:08:25 I do
01:08:27 Yep
01:08:29 Sarah I think what we're seeing now is not how you're always like
01:08:33 Behind closed doors I feel like
01:08:37 You're a lot more on Tim
01:08:39 I think if you were like that more often
01:08:41 Can I just say something on that
01:08:43 I get it
01:08:45 Because for a lot of this experiment
01:08:47 I saw a lot of things that I felt I didn't want
01:08:49 But obviously there was a lot that I need to work on as well
01:08:51 I'm worrying about Tim and I right now
01:08:53 And about how I feel about Tim
01:08:55 But I'm going to deal with it with Tim
01:08:57 Yeah I feel like there's still a lot to unpack
01:08:59 About like this
01:09:01 Sorry can I just finish what I was saying
01:09:03 I'm not sure
01:09:05 I'm not sure
01:09:07 I'm not sure
01:09:09 I'm not sure
01:09:11 Can I just finish what I was saying
01:09:13 I was just getting to a point
01:09:19 And now I don't know where I was at
01:09:21 Um
01:09:27 What was I saying
01:09:39 about Tim and I right now and about how I feel about Tim.
01:09:43 But I'm gonna deal with it with Tim.
01:09:46 - Yeah, I feel like there's still a lot to unpack
01:09:49 about, like, this--
01:09:50 - Sorry, can I just finish what I was saying?
01:09:52 [dramatic music]
01:09:56 āŖ āŖ
01:09:56 I was just getting to a point,
01:09:58 and now I don't know where I was at.
01:10:00 āŖ āŖ
01:10:03 Um, what was I saying? Um...
01:10:06 āŖ āŖ
01:10:08 So, yes, I know what it looks like to everybody.
01:10:11 I get that.
01:10:12 And I know you guys aren't gonna believe me.
01:10:14 I'm gonna do everything in my power
01:10:16 to make Tim my priority.
01:10:17 I don't care what you guys think.
01:10:19 I just want to focus on him.
01:10:21 - Can I make a quick observation
01:10:23 with what I just saw you do?
01:10:26 So you just gave this big spill to us all
01:10:29 about how your priority's Tim,
01:10:31 and you are gonna put him first.
01:10:33 But when he tried to speak, you shut him down.
01:10:36 - Thank you, Steven.
01:10:38 - When? - Just--just now.
01:10:40 - Just then? - Just now.
01:10:41 - Yeah, you did. - Yeah.
01:10:42 - Oh, when he--when he started talking?
01:10:44 - Yeah. - But I was speaking.
01:10:46 - I know, but I think what the experts have just said
01:10:49 is that you're so worried about being in the right
01:10:52 and getting your point across
01:10:54 that when your partner, who's your priority
01:10:56 that you've just said, tried to speak,
01:10:58 you shut him down
01:10:59 so you could get your point across.
01:11:03 - Your first initial reaction should have been, like,
01:11:05 "I'm so sorry."
01:11:06 Like, at this point, if you stay,
01:11:08 it feels like you're staying for yourself,
01:11:10 because if you respected and cared for him,
01:11:13 you wouldn't drag him along for the ride.
01:11:15 - 100%. - Yeah.
01:11:17 - Thank you, everybody.
01:11:19 [somber music]
01:11:22 āŖ
01:11:23 - All right, well, this has been raw and emotional,
01:11:27 but it was always gonna be.
01:11:29 Now we've got to find out your decisions,
01:11:31 stay or leave, you first, Tim.
01:11:34 āŖ
01:11:36 - I mean, I feel like an idiot,
01:11:38 and I feel like I'm being taken for a ride,
01:11:40 and I feel like, you know,
01:11:43 I want to be respected and loved and liked,
01:11:46 and I deserve to have my self-esteem
01:11:50 pulled up in a relationship as opposed to pushed down.
01:11:53 So there's a lot of things that I left unsaid,
01:11:55 but anyway, obviously the trust has been broken,
01:11:59 and, yeah, I have to leave.
01:12:02 [applause]
01:12:05 - Sarah, over to you. Stay or leave?
01:12:07 What have you got?
01:12:09 āŖ
01:12:11 - Well, I frankly don't care what everybody else says.
01:12:16 āŖ
01:12:18 I know what I want to do.
01:12:20 āŖ
01:12:26 So I'm staying.
01:12:28 āŖ
01:12:34 āŖ
01:12:36 It's cool.
01:12:38 āŖ
01:12:45 āŖ
01:12:47 - Okay, as you know, if someone says stay
01:12:49 and the other person says leave,
01:12:51 then they have a week to turn it around.
01:12:53 A betrayal has occurred.
01:12:55 āŖ
01:12:57 You, Sarah, have to win him back.
01:12:59 That is your mindset.
01:13:01 That is your attitude.
01:13:03 That is your priority.
01:13:06 Turn to him and tell him what you were gonna do
01:13:10 and how you're gonna do it
01:13:12 to repair what you smashed apart.
01:13:15 āŖ
01:13:20 - [sighs]
01:13:21 Put me on the spot.
01:13:23 Um...
01:13:25 āŖ
01:13:27 Tim...
01:13:28 āŖ
01:13:30 I hope you can give me the chance to show you
01:13:33 that I really do want to be here.
01:13:35 āŖ
01:13:41 - Okay. - I'm sorry.
01:13:43 - Yeah, I know.
01:13:45 āŖ
01:13:52 [phone buzzing]
01:13:54 [clears throat]
01:13:55 - Hello.
01:13:57 āŖ
01:14:00 āŖ
01:14:07 [phone ringing]
01:14:10 āŖ
01:14:12 - So sorry.
01:14:14 āŖ
01:14:19 - You've only got one week to turn it around,
01:14:21 and I believe you can,
01:14:23 but you've got to walk a very different walk.
01:14:26 We'll see you next time.
01:14:28 You can go back to the group. Good luck.
01:14:30 [applause]
01:14:33 āŖ
01:14:34 - Right now, I feel disappointed.
01:14:37 I feel guilt.
01:14:39 āŖ
01:14:41 But I don't care what the group thinks of me.
01:14:44 I don't care if they like me or not,
01:14:46 because I'm here for Tim.
01:14:49 āŖ
01:14:53 - Tomorrow night...
01:14:55 - Here we go.
01:14:56 - No way!
01:14:58 - It's feedback week.
01:15:00 - This week is all about feedback
01:15:02 from those within the bubble of the experiment.
01:15:04 - It's gonna be explosive.
01:15:06 - Where over two big nights,
01:15:08 our couples will devise tasks for each other...
01:15:11 - Write five questions to ask Sarah and Tim.
01:15:15 - And give advice on each other's marriages.
01:15:18 - The task has to be...
01:15:19 - Just share a sleep in the same bed.
01:15:20 - To sleep together. - Yes!
01:15:21 - Come on, big fella.
01:15:23 āŖ
01:15:25 - Cory, does Jack's outfit embarrass you?
01:15:27 - Can you not figure out what size pants you wear?
01:15:30 Jack, is your hair a toupee?
01:15:32 Do you realize you look purple?
01:15:35 - And Lauren is ready to come face to face with Jack.
01:15:38 - I'm gonna push his buttons until he pops.
01:15:40 If he goes low in his questions for us,
01:15:43 I'll go lower.
01:15:44 - What she's done is disgusting behavior.
01:15:46 It's wrong.
01:15:47 There's more to the story than meets the eye.
01:15:49 And I'm gonna get to the bottom of it.
01:15:51 - But Jaden and Eden's hard-hitting questions...
01:15:54 - I need you to back off.
01:15:55 - No, I'm not backing off.
01:15:56 - Push Sarah to breaking point.
01:15:58 - If Tim did that to you, would you be able to trust him again?
01:16:00 Are the messages to your ex still on your phone?
01:16:02 And if they are, can Tim see them?
01:16:04 And if they aren't, why aren't they?
01:16:06 Have you sent a message to your ex in the last two or three weeks?
01:16:09 Can Tim see your phone?
01:16:11 āŖ
01:16:12 - You'd be alone!
01:16:13 - Stop!
01:16:14 āŖ
01:16:16 āŖ
01:16:18 āŖ
01:16:20 āŖ
01:16:25 [BLANK_AUDIO]