Deen e Fitrat - Topic: Musalman Ke Huqooq - Shaykh Mufti Tauqeer - 10 March 2024 - ARY Qtv

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Deen e Fitrat | Speaker: Shaykh Mufti Tauqeer

Topic: Musalman Ke Huqooq

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Transcript

00:00 As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.

00:07 Alhamdulillah wa kafa wa salamu ala ibadihi allatheena astafa amma ba'itha fawdu billahi

00:14 minash shaitani rajim.

00:16 Bismillahir rahmanir rahim.

00:18 Allahumma salli ala sayyidina Muhammad wa ala aali sayyidina Muhammad wa barik wa sallim.

00:24 Allahumma infa'na bima 'allamtana wa 'allimna ma yinfa'una wa zidna ilmah.

00:29 Har insaan ki hukook hotey hain.

00:33 Agar kisi ko uske hukook nahi diye jayenge, isko zulm kayte hain.

00:37 Aur zulm ek aisi cheez hain jo Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala ne apne haath mein nahi nahi rakhi

00:43 ke wo usko maaf kar deyin.

00:45 Balke jab tak insaan doosre insaan se wo hukook maaf nahi kar aayega,

00:49 tab tak Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala bhi usko maaf nahi karteyin.

00:52 Toh logon ke hukook ata karna itna aahim hain.

00:56 Aur hum ek series kar rahe the pishli kuch hafton se

01:00 aur humne baat shuru ki thi biviyon ke hukook ki.

01:04 Toh pishli section mein baat ki thi humne biviyon ke hukook ke baare mein baat ki thi

01:10 ki biviyon ke hukook hotey hain.

01:12 Isi tariqa se shohron ko bhi hukook hotey hain.

01:16 Shohar biviy ke poore relationship ko samajhne ke liye

01:21 humein ek corporate sector ke poore setup ko samajhna chahiye.

01:27 Dekhein ek corporate sector ke andar ek CEO hota hai,

01:32 uske neeche may be head of departments hote hain, directors hote hain

01:37 aur neeche phir managers hote hain aur managers ki neeche subordinates hote hain.

01:41 Main ek bade corporate sector ki baat kar raho hain.

01:44 Yeh sector, yeh corporate sector usfak kaam karta hai

01:49 jab tak ke saare subordinates hain wo apne manager ki baat sune.

01:54 Managers head of departments ki baat sune, head of departments director ki baat sune

01:58 aur director phir ek board of directors hota hai jisme CEO bhi ek part hota hai

02:03 lekin eventually ek CEO ka final decision hota hai.

02:06 Aur isi tariqa se ek bade corporate chalti hain.

02:09 Agar hum kisi game ki baat karein Pakistan mein cricket bahut dekhi jaati hain.

02:17 Cricket mein ek captain hota hai aur baaki players hota hai

02:21 aur captain ki baat jab players maante hain toh phiri ek team jeetti hain.

02:27 Lekin captain ka role kya hota hai?

02:29 Captain ka role yeh hota hai ki wo saare players ko katha karta hai

02:33 aur ek mushabrat hoti hai, ek open discussion hoti hai

02:37 aur us open discussion ki base ke upar phir captain ek final decision leta hai.

02:42 Aur captain ek bhut bhi player hota hai.

02:44 Captain sirf captain nahi hota hai, captain ek player bhi hota hai.

02:47 Right?

02:48 Isi tariq se koi bhi agar team ne kaam karna hai toh team aise hi kaam karti hai

02:55 ki ek ko head banate hain, ek ko captain banate hain

02:59 aur phir wo baaki team ke saath mushabrat karke, unke saath mashwara karke

03:04 koi decision leta hai aur jab saare log uske decision ko maanenge tabhi

03:09 wo team, tabhi wo jo bhi jamaat hai, wo group hai, wo kaamiaab hota hai.

03:15 Isi tariq se Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala ne zindagi ke is safar me ek captain banaya hai

03:22 aur wo shauhar hai, wo husband hai.

03:25 Yeh, beeviyon ko yeh baat samajhne ki zarurat hai.

03:30 Beeviyon ke hukook mein, I think do episodes kart chuka hu

03:33 toh aisa na ho ke beeviyan kahein ki humare hukook ke baaram mein baat nahi hui

03:38 jo log pehli tafai yeh episode dekh rahe hain, please unko chahiye ke

03:42 pichli episodes ko dekhen jaha maine beeviyon ke hukook pe bahut tafseel se baat ki hain.

03:46 Aaj mera maqsad shoharon ke hukook pe baat karna hai.

03:50 Husband captain hota hai, main dubaara repeat karun ke captain player bhi hota hai.

03:56 Aisa nahi hota ke captain sirf apni hukam chalaye, wo uska ek role hota hai team mein.

04:03 Right, jo CEO hota hai, wo ek us company ka employee bhi hota hai.

04:07 Koi bhi director ho, manager ho, wo us company ka employee bhi hota hai

04:11 aur saath mein manager, director, head of department, CEO bhi hota hai.

04:15 Toh main yeh arz kar raha tha ki jaise ek captain poori team ko bithayega

04:22 for example, jaise humne cricket ki misal liye,

04:25 doosri team ne, opposite team ne, 300 runs bana liye.

04:28 Ab wo captain aa ke player se mashwara karega ki humne chase karna hai,

04:33 hum isko kaise chase karein?

04:35 Koi ho sakta hai mashwara de, ji pehle 10 over ke andar hum tez khelenge,

04:39 10 ki average se khelenge, 10 overs me 100 runs banaayenge

04:43 aur phir taake agle 40 over me hume aasaan ho jayein isko chase karna.

04:48 Koi ho sakta hai, kahe nahi nahi pehle 10 over me agar hum tez khelenge

04:54 toh phir probability hai ki hum jaldi out ho jayein, toh phir humare pe pressure aa jayega

04:58 toh pehle 10 over araam se khelenge, baaki 40 over me gradually usko accelerate karenge.

05:03 Toh har tarah ka mashwara aa sakta hai, captain sab ki baat sunta hai

05:07 aur phir uska ek apna bhi of course point of view hota hai,

05:10 wo bhi discuss karta hai, open discussion hoti hai,

05:12 ek achhe team ki baat karo, hopefully aise hi hota hoga.

05:15 Aur phir captain ek decision leta hai, jab wo decision leta hai,

05:19 misal ke taur pe wo kehega ki nahi pehle 10 over humne aaraam se khelne,

05:23 wickets bachane hai, toh phir wo jo team player tha,

05:28 jo yeh mashwara dera tha, ke pehle 10 over me humne tez khelna chahiye,

05:32 wo bhi uska captain ki baat ko maanega, aur agar wo for example opener hai,

05:36 toh jaake captain ki strategy pe amal karega, tabhi team jeetegi.

05:40 Agar har koi apni manmani karna shuru ho jayega,

05:43 toh kabhi bhi team ke andar ek unity nahi aayegi, aur team kabhi bhi nahi jeet sakti.

05:47 Kabhi kabhi jeetegi, lekin overall unki performance achhi nahi hogi.

05:51 Husband ko Allah ta'ala ne team captain manaaya,

05:55 yeh team hai, husband, wife, bachon ki, yeh team hai.

05:58 Husband, uski wife, aur uski bachay, yeh team hai,

06:03 inka team captain Allah ta'ala ne husband ko manaaya.

06:06 Husband ko bhi yehi kaam karna chahiye, jab bhi koi decision lena ho,

06:10 toh wo apni bivi ko, apni bachon ko bithaye, aur unse mashwara kare.

06:15 Yeh ek ache shohar ki, ek ache baap ki nishani hoti hai.

06:20 Sabse mashwara kare, koi bhi important decision life me lena hai,

06:23 ghar ka kharitna hai, bivi kahe sector A me kharide,

06:28 ek beta kahe sector B me kharide, ek beti kahe sector C me kharide,

06:32 aur iska apna khayal hai sector D me kharide, chaar opinions hai.

06:35 Is sab ke baat sunay, usko way kare, ke kaun kya keh raha hai,

06:42 aur phir ek honest decision, ek unbiased decision le,

06:47 jab usne ek decision le liya, toh baaki jo teen log the,

06:50 wo bhi iski baat maan jaye, isi me barkat hai, isi me barkat hai.

06:55 Nabi Karim A.S. toh firmaaya hai, ke jab tum me se do log safar kare,

07:00 tab bhi tum do me se ek ko ameer banalo.

07:03 Ek ameer ka hona, ek leader ka hona, yeh kisi bhi jamaat me,

07:10 kisi bhi group me, yeh laazim hai.

07:13 Is cheez ko bahut ache tariqat se samayna chahiye.

07:16 Matkismati se, jab is poori hierarchy ko nahi samjha raha tha,

07:20 jab yeh nahi samjha raha tha, ke husband ko Allah Taala ne captain manaaya hai,

07:24 aur biviyan apni baat manwaane ki koshish karte hai,

07:28 ho sakta unki baat me wazan ho, aur jaise mene ka,

07:31 ki husband sunayga uski baat, aur jab baat sunayga,

07:33 aur uski baat me weightage hogi, toh uski ki baat ko,

07:36 ek achha husband us cheez ko apply karega.

07:40 Lekin, agar husband samjha raha hai,

07:42 ki biviyan ki baat me weightage nahi hai, uski baat me wazan nahi hai,

07:46 aur uski baat me zyada wazan hai,

07:48 agar yeh faisla karta hai, ki aapki baat nahi, meri baat me yeh wazan hai,

07:52 isliye hum isko aisa kar lete hain, toh biviyan ko chahiye ki uski baat maan jaye,

07:56 as opposed to ki naaraaz ho jaye,

07:58 as opposed to ki bila waja ka mood off kar le.

08:01 Phir is ghar me barkat nahi hoti hai.

08:03 Barkat tabhi hoti hai, jab shohar ki baat eventually maani jaye.

08:08 Right? Aur shohar ko bhi chahiye ki woh choti choti baaton ke andar,

08:12 zyada masayal create nahi kare.

08:15 Right? Is table ke upar,

08:17 jo table cover hai woh blue ho, ke red ho,

08:21 bivi kehari red ho, main keharon blue ho,

08:23 toh kya farak padta, agar red bhi ho jayega. Right?

08:26 Toh yeh choti choti baaton ke andar,

08:28 shohar ko bhi chahiye ki bila waja ka issue create nahi kare,

08:32 lekin badi baaton me jisme zindagi ke faisle hote hain,

08:35 right? Bade distance hote hain,

08:37 uske andar mushawarat, uske andar paqaida planning,

08:41 aur logical thinking,

08:44 duniya aur akhirat dono ko saamne rakke,

08:47 ilm ki base ke upar isiye le,

08:49 aur phir eventually faisla,

08:51 shohar ka ho, baat ka ho,

08:53 yaani is team ke andar,

08:55 kyaan me shohar, bivi, bachay,

08:57 isme shohar ka faisla ho, isi me barkat hai.

09:00 Allah ta'ala ne Quran ke andar firmaaya,

09:02 ki biviyon ke bhi hukook hai,

09:04 walahun na mislul ladhi aaliihinna bil ma'roof,

09:07 ki biviyon ke bhi hukook hai,

09:10 jaise ke mardon ke hukook hai,

09:13 achhe tariqah se,

09:15 lekin phir Allah ta'ala ne firmaaya,

09:16 walirrijali aaliihinna daraja,

09:19 ki mardon ka biviyon pe,

09:21 shoharon ka biviyon pe,

09:23 ek rank upar hai,

09:25 ek darja upar hai,

09:27 aur ye darja yehi captain ka rank hai,

09:29 wo player bhi hai,

09:31 lekin uska ek rank upar hai,

09:33 aur wo captain ka hai,

09:35 das ranks nahi hai,

09:37 bachas ranks nahi hai,

09:38 ek rank upar hai,

09:39 aur wo ek rank,

09:41 jaise mene arz kiya,

09:42 ki wo captain ka rank hai.

09:44 walahun azeezun hakeem,

09:46 aur Allah ta'ala sari taqat bhi Allah ke paas hai,

09:49 aur Allah ta'ala hi hakeem hai,

09:52 hikmat sari Allah ke paas hai,

09:55 kisi hikmat ke taht Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

09:58 ne ye hierarchy banayi hai.

10:01 Toh chahiye, biviyon ko chahiye,

10:03 ke wo shoharon ki baat eventually maan chahyein,

10:06 jab wo decision making kar lein,

10:07 lekin apni input the, of course,

10:09 aur main baar baar keh rahe hoon,

10:10 shoharon ko bhi chahiye,

10:11 ke mushawraj se ghar ke umoor,

10:13 ghar ke maamla chalaya karein.

10:16 Ek jek Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala ne farmaya,

10:19 ke neyk aurtein kaun hoti hain,

10:21 surat-an-nisaa mein,

10:22 Allah ta'ala ne farmaya,

10:23 at number chaun-tees ke andar,

10:25 ka fas-saliha tu qaan-e-taatun,

10:27 ke neyk aurtein wo hai,

10:29 jo shohar ki baat maan jati hain,

10:32 yaani captain ki baat maan jati hain,

10:34 is pooray, jis tarah main aapko samjhaya,

10:36 captain ki baat maan ti hain,

10:38 achha player wo hi hai,

10:39 jo captain ki baat maan ta hain,

10:41 fas-saliha tu qaan-e-taatun,

10:43 aur doosri cheez,

10:44 Allah ta'ala ne farmayeen,

10:45 haafizat-ul-il-ghaibi bima hafiz-Allah,

10:48 ke wo shohar ki ghar maujood ki ke andar,

10:51 apni paak-daamni ki hifazat karti hain,

10:54 modest rahti hain,

10:56 Allah ta'ala ki dee hui hifazat ke saath,

10:59 toh neyk aurtein,

11:01 shohar ki ghar maujood ki mein,

11:03 apni izzat ki,

11:05 apni paak-daamni ki hifazat karti hain,

11:07 yeh bhi bahut aaham hain,

11:09 toh do baatein Allah ta'ala ne idhar bataayin,

11:11 neyk aurtein ki tarif karte hui,

11:13 unko define karte hui,

11:15 ke wo captain ki baat maan ti hain,

11:17 apni shohar ki baat,

11:18 jab wo eventual decision le le ta hain,

11:20 toh uski baat maan jati hain,

11:22 aur jab shohar ghar ke andar nahi hota,

11:25 ke wo safar pe hota hain,

11:27 toh wo apni izzat ki hifazat karti hain,

11:30 aur bahut saari ahadith-e-mubarakah bhi hain,

11:34 jaha pe Nabi Karim A.S. ne farmaya,

11:38 ke jab shohar ik faisla kar le,

11:40 toh uski baat maan jani chahiyein,

11:42 ek hadith-e-mubarakah mein,

11:44 Nabi Karim A.S. ne farmaya,

11:46 ke ek aurat agar paanch faqee namaz pade,

11:49 al mar'atu idha sallat khamsaha,

11:51 wa saam-achahra,

11:53 ramzan ke roze rakhein,

11:55 wa ahsanat farjaha,

11:57 aur apni paak damni ki hifazat karein,

11:59 wa ata'at ba'ilaha,

12:01 aur apni shohar ki baat maan jahi karein,

12:03 jab wo ke faisla kar le,

12:05 wo jannat ke jis bhi darwaze se chahiye daqil ho jayein,

12:09 ajeeb,

12:10 farais ki pawandi karein,

12:13 namaze pade,

12:14 roze rakhein,

12:15 ramzan ke,

12:16 farais ki pawandi karein,

12:18 apni izzat ki hifazat karein,

12:22 modest ho,

12:23 right,

12:24 aur,

12:25 jab shohar dis-ein le le eventual,

12:27 mushawarat ke baad darsah ki humne baat ki,

12:30 aur uski baat maan jahi,

12:31 uspe bila waja ki mood off na karein,

12:33 bila waja narazgi ka izhar na karein,

12:35 aur kahein ji,

12:36 aapne dis-ein liya hai,

12:37 isi me kher hogi,

12:38 isi me barkat hogi,

12:39 insha'Allah,

12:40 aur uski baat maan jahi,

12:41 Allah ke rasool firma rahein,

12:43 sallallahu alaihi wa sallam,

12:44 ki jannat ke jis bhi darwaze se chahiye daqil ho jayein,

12:48 agar,

12:51 is tarah ka relationship ho,

12:53 beeveon ke taraf se bhi,

12:55 hum beeveon ke hukook ke baarein baat kar chuke hain,

12:58 agar beeveon bhi aise respond karein ghar mein,

13:01 to ghar ka mauhal kitna acha ho jayein,

13:03 koi tension na ho,

13:04 koi problem na ho,

13:05 right,

13:06 shohar beeveon ki izzat kar rahein,

13:08 unke hukook ka khayal kar rahein,

13:10 beeveon shoharon ki hukook ka khayal kar rahein,

13:12 right,

13:13 kitna pyaar,

13:14 mauhabbat,

13:15 tension free mauhal hoga ghar ke andar,

13:17 ek hadith mubawar ka sunan al nisaai ki riwayat hai,

13:20 nabi karim alayhi salatu was salam ne,

13:22 se poocha gaya,

13:23 ki sabse behtreen aurtein kaun hai,

13:25 firmaaya,

13:26 ki jab shohar usko dekhe,

13:28 to wo usko khush kar de,

13:30 yaani usko dekhe,

13:34 beeve ko dekhe,

13:35 shohar ko bhi khushi ho,

13:36 aur jab wo faisla kar le,

13:41 jaise hum baat karte aarein hain,

13:42 to uski baat maan jayein,

13:44 yeh behtreen aurto ki nishani bata rahein,

13:47 Allah ke rasool,

13:49 sallallahu alayhi wasallam,

13:50 ki baat maan jayein karein,

13:53 aur dil ko sukoon de,

13:56 hum ne pehle baat ki thi,

13:58 jab hum beebeon ke hukook ke baarein baat kar rahein the,

14:00 ki Allah ta'ala ne,

14:02 Quran ke andar,

14:03 shadi ka maqsad yeh bataaya hai,

14:05 ki dono ko ek dusar se sukoon mile,

14:07 wa min aayaatihi,

14:08 an khalaqa lakum min anfusikum azwajal li taskoonu ilaiha,

14:12 Allah ke nishaniyon pe sahi,

14:14 ki Allah ne,

14:15 logon ke darmayan sahi,

14:18 unhi ki jins misin,

14:19 unke joday banayin,

14:20 ta ki hun min sukoon hasil karein,

14:22 wa ja'ala bainakum ma waddatum wa rahma,

14:25 aur Allah ta'ala ne,

14:26 unke darmayan muhabbat,

14:27 piyaar aur rahmat rakh diya,

14:29 inna fee thalika la aayaatil yaqoom yi tafakkaroon,

14:32 yeh Allah,

14:33 isme nishaniya hai,

14:34 jo log tafakkur karte hain,

14:36 ghaur aur fikar karte hain,

14:37 to sukoon ki talaash,

14:39 ek shadi ke baad sukoon wala ghar,

14:42 yeh Allah ta'ala chahte hain,

14:45 aur agar sukoon nahin hai ghar ke andar,

14:47 to kahi na kahi problem hai,

14:49 yeh shohar bibi ki hukook nahi de raha,

14:51 yeh bibi shohar ki hukook nahi de rahi,

14:54 shohar ka yeh bhi haq hai,

14:56 ke jab walaad ho jaye us shohar se,

14:58 to us bachche,

14:59 un bachon ki sahi tarbiyat karein,

15:02 uske ghar ka khayal karein,

15:04 uske maal ko soch samajh ke kharj karein,

15:06 yeh saare shohar ki hukook hai,

15:09 humari kai bachiyan,

15:13 khawateen,

15:15 wo bachon ko waqt nahi deti,

15:17 unki tarbiyat sahi nahi karein,

15:19 right?

15:20 waqt zaya ho raha hai,

15:23 social media pe waqt zaya ho raha hai,

15:25 bila waja ki gatherings pe waqt zaya ho raha hai,

15:28 bachon ki tarbiyat nahi ho raha hai,

15:30 yeh un bachon ka bhi haq hai,

15:32 jo aapke apne bachey hain,

15:34 aur us shohar ka bhi haq hai,

15:36 jiske bachey hain,

15:37 please ghar ka khayal karein,

15:39 ghar ki, ghar ki fikar karein,

15:41 ghar ko ek achcha mahal

15:43 banane ki koshish karein,

15:45 Inshallah ta'ala yeh humari

15:47 zimmedaariyon mese hain,

15:49 Inshallah apni zimmedaariyon ko poora karein ge,

15:51 to ghar ka mahal, ghar pe achcha hoga,

15:54 humari zimmedaariyon jinn ke baare mein

15:56 hum se sawal hone wala,

15:57 Inshallah ta'ala,

15:58 wo un zimmedaariyon se bhi hum

16:00 achche tariqah se,

16:01 unko poora karne wale banenge,

16:04 Allah ta'ala hum sab ke gharon ko pur sukoon banaye,

16:07 Inshallah chotiyez break letein,

16:09 aur break ke baad dubar aapke sawalon ke saath hazir hotein,

16:12 aap unne sawalat email bhi kar saktein,

16:14 deenefitrat@arydigital.tv par,

16:18 Inshallah ek chotiyez break ke baad,

16:20 dubara miltein,

16:21 Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu,

16:23 welcome back, break ke baad aapke sawalon ke saath hazir hain,

16:26 kisi ne sawal kiya,

16:29 ke mere shohar aur meri saas,

16:33 mere saath bahot bhat suluki kartein,

16:35 aur meri saas mujhe bahot bura bhala kaithi rehti hain,

16:40 mere shohar bhi unke saath milkar,

16:43 unki baatein sunkar,

16:44 mere saath bhat suluki kartein,

16:46 mai iss situation ke andar kya karoon,

16:48 yeh bahot dil dukhane wali baat hain,

16:54 aur aisee kahaniya bahot nazar aati hain,

16:57 bahot milti hain,

16:58 aise sawalat bahot pooche jaatein,

17:02 pehli baat toh yeh hai,

17:03 ke aise logon ko mai baat karna chahata hun,

17:07 un shoharon se aur un saason se aur baaki logon se,

17:14 ke please hume khuda ka khauf karna chahiye,

17:18 hum sabko Allah ke paas jaana hai,

17:20 ek din aayega,

17:22 ke mai bhi Allah ke paas jaaunga,

17:23 aap bhi Allah ke paas jaayenge,

17:25 baat ka farishta hum sabko ek din aake le jaayega,

17:29 aur ek din hai,

17:31 jo qiyamat ka din hai,

17:32 insaaf ka din hai,

17:34 aur hum ye baatein pehli episodes mein kar chuke hain,

17:37 ke agar humne kisi ke upar zulm kiya hoga,

17:40 is zindagi mein,

17:41 wo shaks aakar humse apne hukook ka mutalba karega,

17:46 aur humare paas koi bhi choice nahi hoga,

17:49 koi ikhtiyar nahi hoga,

17:52 magar yeh ke hume unke hukook unko wapas dene padege,

17:56 aur uz din hukook maal paisa nahi hoga,

17:59 agar thodi bahot nekiyan humse hui hain zindagi mein,

18:03 wo nekiyan unko deni padege,

18:05 aur jaise hadith-e-mubarakah mein aata hai,

18:07 ke jab log apne hukook ka mutalba karenge,

18:10 ek ek karke,

18:11 to is banday ke saari ibadat khatam ho jaayenge,

18:14 aur uske baad log apne guna is banday ke upar daalna shuru kar denge,

18:18 aur bawajood iske,

18:19 ke isne bahot namaze padhi hongi,

18:21 roze rakhiye hongi,

18:23 tasbihat ki hongi,

18:25 askar kiye hongi,

18:26 tabligh pe gaya hoga,

18:27 ya jo kuch bhi,

18:28 lekin chuke isne logon ke hukook maare the,

18:31 iske paas yeh sab ibadat chali jaayenge,

18:34 aur yeh bil aakhir jahannam mein pheng diya jaayega,

18:37 Allah ta'ala hum sab ko,

18:38 is ghari se,

18:40 aisi situation se mahfooz rakhe hain,

18:43 Ameen.

18:44 To sochne ki baat hai,

18:46 ke agar hum kisi pe zulm kar rahe hain,

18:50 to humara qiyamat ke din kya banega,

18:52 hum kaise Allah ko jawab de honge,

18:56 please.

18:58 Doosri baat,

18:59 ke Quran ke andar bohot sakht waeed hain,

19:03 tatfeef karne walon ke liye,

19:05 waaylul lil mutaffifeen,

19:07 tatfeef hota hain ki hum kisi se apne hukook ka mutalwa karein,

19:10 to poora poora karein,

19:11 aur jab doosron ke hukook dene ki baat aaye,

19:13 to poore naa den,

19:14 isko kahte hain tatfeef.

19:16 Allah ta'ala firmaane hain,

19:17 tabahi hain,

19:18 barbadi hain,

19:19 tatfeef karne walon ke liye,

19:22 hum chahte hain ki humari bahu,

19:24 meri bivi,

19:25 mere saath bohot achi ho,

19:27 poore haq den,

19:29 aur jab me uske hukook den,

19:31 to me poore naa den,

19:32 uske beghzati karon,

19:33 uske saath batsuluki karon,

19:35 to Allah ta'ala firmaane hain,

19:37 Quran ke andar in logon ke liye,

19:38 tabahi hain,

19:39 barbadi hain.

19:40 Isi tariqah se,

19:42 agar meri apni beti ho,

19:44 aur meri apni beti ke liye chahun,

19:47 uska shohar,

19:48 uski saath uske saath,

19:50 bohot acha suluk karein,

19:51 lekin meri apni bahu,

19:53 ya apni bivi ke liye,

19:55 wo nahi chahara,

19:56 yeh bhi toh tatweef hain.

19:58 Please sochein,

20:00 apne aapko uski jagah pe rakke sochein.

20:03 Nabi Kani (A.S) ne firmaaya,

20:05 ke tumme se wo shaks momin ho hi nahi sakta,

20:08 jab tak ke wo apne bhai ke liye,

20:10 wo pasand na kare,

20:11 jo apne liye pasand karta hai.

20:13 Right?

20:15 Main uski jagah,

20:16 apne aapko rakke sochoon,

20:17 ke agar mere se ye baatein,

20:19 aise ki ja rahi ho,

20:20 wo karvi baatein,

20:23 wo bitter,

20:25 wo bahut hi dil ko dukhane wali baatein,

20:28 toh mere upar kya guzrein,

20:29 thodi der ke liye socha toh karein.

20:31 Toh yeh bohot, bohot, bohot,

20:33 khatarnaag baat hai.

20:35 Jahan tak humari yeh bachi,

20:37 humari bhen ka talok hai,

20:38 ke unke saath is tarah ki mistreatment ho rahi hai,

20:40 dekhein,

20:41 uske liye toh poori situation ko samjhna padhega,

20:43 abbal ta aakhir.

20:45 Aur dekhna padhega,

20:47 ke ho kya raha hai moaamla.

20:50 Right?

20:51 Toh yeh bhi sakta hai ke ghalati thodi si,

20:53 aapki bhi ho,

20:54 ghalati unki bhi ho,

20:55 dono milke complex situation ban rahi ho.

20:58 Toh poori situation ko handle karna padhega.

21:00 Toh mera bahut bashwara yeh hai,

21:03 ke pehli baat toh yeh yakeen hai,

21:05 ke aapne apne shohar se baat ki hogi.

21:07 Aur by the way,

21:08 yeh shohar hai,

21:10 inka aapki bohot double zimmedaari hai.

21:12 Aapki zimmedaari,

21:14 aapki maa ki taraf se bhi hai,

21:15 aur aapki bhiwi ki taraf se bhi hai.

21:17 Aapki dohri zimmedaari hai.

21:19 Ek taraf maa hai,

21:20 ek taraf bhiwi hai,

21:21 aapko unbiased rahna padhega beech mein.

21:23 Aap yeh nahi kar sakte,

21:25 ke apni maa ki mohabbat me

21:26 apni bhiwi ke hukook na de.

21:28 Aur yeh bhi nahi kar sakte,

21:29 ke bhiwi ki mohabbat me

21:30 maa ke hukook na de.

21:31 Dono ke hukook hai.

21:33 Bahut double zimmedaari hai aapne upar.

21:35 Right?

21:36 Toh yeh nahi kar sakte,

21:37 ke chunke maa kuch keh rahi hai,

21:39 toh main maa ki mohabbat me

21:40 bhiwi ke saath batsalooki karoon.

21:42 Yeh bilkul jaayiz hi nahi hai.

21:44 Toh aap aapki zimmedaari hai.

21:47 Please aap situation ko samjhein.

21:49 Agar aap situation ko sambhal lenge,

21:52 toh yeh situation kahin bahar nahi jaayegi.

21:54 Ghar ka maamla hai, ghar mein rahega.

21:56 Aur zahiri baat hai,

21:58 aap bhi surakh rooh honge.

21:59 Aapko bhi qiyamat ke din

22:00 Allah ke saamne pesh hona hai.

22:02 Aap sabko kabar mein jaana hai,

22:03 sabko Allah ke saamne pesh hona hai.

22:05 Toh aap please is maamle ko

22:06 sabse behtar sambhalne wale hai.

22:08 Aur mujhe yaqeen hai,

22:10 ke amari is bachi ne,

22:11 pehne ne apne shaur se baat ki hoki.

22:14 Lekin lag raha hai is poori situation,

22:16 ki shaur ko samjh nahi aa rahi hai.

22:17 Toh main in shaur se mukhatib hoke kehtao,

22:19 ke please aap samjh jaaye,

22:21 aap hi situation handle kar lenge,

22:23 toh maamla theek ho jaayega.

22:25 Right?

22:26 Lekin uske liye unbiased hoke,

22:28 waalda galti kar sakti hai,

22:30 wo bhi toh insaan hai.

22:31 Bibi bhi galti kar sakti hai,

22:32 waalda bhi galti kar sakti hai,

22:34 main bhi galti kar sakta hai,

22:35 hum sab galti kar sakte hai.

22:36 Right?

22:37 Apni galtiyon ko pehchanne ki koshish karni chahiye,

22:39 aur usko rectify karne ki zarurat hai.

22:41 Apni galti pe parda dalne se koi faida nahi hota hai.

22:45 Apni galti ko galti maanne wala,

22:46 ek achha insaan hota hai.

22:48 Nabi Karim A.S. ne firmaaya,

22:50 ke kullu bani aadama khatta'un,

22:52 wa khairul khatta'eena at-tawabun.

22:55 Ke tamaam insaan,

22:56 bohot ghalatiyon karne wale hai,

22:58 lekin sabse behtreen shaks,

23:00 in ghalti karne walo me wo hai,

23:02 jo ke tawbah kar leta hai.

23:05 Yani apni galti ka issaas karke,

23:07 uspe nadamat karke,

23:09 apni galti ko rectify kar leta hai,

23:11 Allah se maafi maang leta hai,

23:13 logon ke saath bhi mo'amla thik kar leta hai.

23:15 Isko tawbah kehte hain.

23:16 Allah ke rasool firmaare,

23:17 ghalatiyon karta hai insaan,

23:19 lekin ghalatiyon ko ghalati samajhna yeh ahim baat hai.

23:22 Please, apna hum sab muhasba karein,

23:26 aur apne gharwaan me jhankeyin,

23:28 aur apni galtiyon ko bohot dhyanaddari ke saath,

23:31 uska issaas karein,

23:33 usko manein,

23:35 aur usko theek karein.

23:37 Yeh bohot ehm hai.

23:39 To please, agar bivi kuch keh rahi hai,

23:43 to uski baat sunay,

23:45 aur usko samajhne ki koshish karein,

23:48 unbiased hoke.

23:50 Ar-rijal-u-qawwamuna 'al-an-nisa

23:52 Mard aurton ke qawwam hai,

23:54 unke caretaker hai,

23:55 har tara se caretaker hai.

23:57 Wo unke financial needs ke bhi caretaker hai,

24:00 lekin unke moral needs ke bhi caretaker hai,

24:02 unke psychological needs ke bhi caretaker hai,

24:04 unke intellectual needs ke bhi caretaker hai.

24:06 Aap, shohar, main, aap, sab log,

24:10 hum log zimmedaar hai,

24:11 apni biviyon ke unke upar koi zulm na hona paaye.

24:14 To please unki baat ko sunay,

24:16 aur please usko samajhne ki koshish karein,

24:19 aur agar meri mehin hai, bachi hai,

24:22 jin ka saath yeh zulm ho raha hai,

24:24 ek defa phir baat karke dekhiye,

24:26 right?

24:28 Sabse betar yeh hi hai,

24:29 ke maamla yeh hi bhi theek ho jaye.

24:31 Quran bhi issi cheez ki taaleem deta hai,

24:33 ke shohar aur bivi apne maamlaat ko khudi theek karni ki koshish karein.

24:38 Even so much so Quran kehta hai,

24:40 agar apne kisi haq ko bhi jaane de,

24:42 to haq ko bhi jaane de.

24:45 Lekin maamlaat theek kar lein,

24:47 khudi shohar bivi aapas se milke,

24:49 lekin agar shohar bivi ke maamlaat

24:51 aapas se baat karke bhi theek nahi ho rahe hai,

24:53 to phir kisi bade ko involve karna padega.

24:55 Aur kisi aise bade ko involve karein,

24:58 achcha hai ke ghar mein sahi ho,

25:01 ya phir koi bauti deendar, nek insaan ho,

25:03 jiski neki pe aapko ehtemaad ho.

25:06 Jo paat ko apne tak medood rakhe,

25:08 usko amanat sanje,

25:10 wo aapki baat ko kahin baahar na kar de,

25:12 aur aap sanje,

25:13 waqehi mein deendar hai,

25:15 jo buniyat hai aamane deen ki,

25:19 faraiz ki pawandi karta ho,

25:21 shariat ka itmam karta ho,

25:23 waqehi mein uski neki taqwa pe,

25:25 ko shak, aamaami shak na ho kisi ke upar,

25:28 ki waqehi nek insaan hai,

25:30 uske paas phir maamla leke jayein,

25:32 jaise maine ka behtareen hoga,

25:34 ki ghar ke andar hi ka koi sharfardh ho,

25:36 toh baut achcha hai,

25:37 toh us tak maamla leke jayein,

25:39 wo poori situation ko sanjhega,

25:41 sanjhengi koshish karega,

25:43 aur phir inshaAllah ul-azeez,

25:45 jo bhi wo sanjhega,

25:47 ki us kis tariqat se tackle kiya jaye maamle ko,

25:50 toh us tariqat se hopefully wo tackle karega,

25:52 sabse behtareen toh ye hai,

25:54 koi har cheez, ye maamla situational hote hain,

25:56 uske dee baut saari cheezon ki input chahiye hoti hain,

26:00 baut saari cheezon samjhne ki zarurat hoti hain,

26:03 koi generic solution mere khal mein ki,

26:06 nahi de na chahiye,

26:09 sawaay iske ki maamlaat ko aapas mein hal karni ki koshish karein,

26:14 aur yaad deha nahi karaye jayein sab ko,

26:17 right,

26:18 shohar ko bhi,

26:19 shohar ki waalda ko bhi,

26:21 aur bhi bhi ko bhi,

26:24 sab ko isaas dilaya jayein is cheez ka,

26:27 ki qudah ka khauf karein,

26:30 doon ke hukook de,

26:31 sab ke hukook hain,

26:33 Allah taala ke saamne khare hone ka istezaar rakhein,

26:37 Allah taala sab ke kharon ko sukoon se bhar de,

26:40 sab ke maamlaat Allah karein ki theek hon,

26:42 shohar bhi bhi ke maamlaat bhot bhot bhot aahim hain,

26:46 Allah taala aapko khushiyan de,

26:48 Allah taala aapke masaail hal karein,

26:49 meree duaa aapke saath hain,

26:51 Allah karein ki aapke maamlaat bilkul theek ho jayein,

26:54 toh InshaAllah taala aap sawaal karte rahi aapnein,

26:57 aapke sawalat ke jawab bhi dete rahein ge,

26:59 email hai deenefitrat@arydigital.tv,

27:04 InshaAllah agli hafte, agli episode,

27:06 me aapke saath dubara malakaat hogi,

27:08 duaa me yaad rakheen gaa,

27:10 Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu,

27:12 Wa Akhrur Da'awana Anil Hamdulillahi Rabbil Alameen.

27:15 Al Fatiha.

27:17 .

Deen e Fitrat - Topic: Musalman Ke Huqooq - Shaykh Mufti Tauqeer - 10 March 2024 - ARY Qtv

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