‘90 Day Fiancé Happily Ever After’ Kobe’s Friends CONCERNED About Emily

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00:00 When African men get to meet Western women,

00:03 I always think they are unhappy in their relationships

00:05 because their cultures are really different from our own cultures.

00:08 Because in Africa, the women have to be submissive to us,

00:11 but I know over there, it's not the same.

00:14 Everybody has equal rights, and when you can't maybe express your rights

00:18 as being a man, as an African, I think you are not happy.

00:21 In Cameroon, when you know that a man is the king of his house,

00:26 what a man sees stands. A woman has nothing to say.

00:30 And you getting married to an American citizen,

00:33 I think it will be very difficult together as husband and wife.

00:36 Is Emeline Nagy?

00:39 Yeah, she always wants to take the lead.

00:42 And I understand that this is who she is.

00:44 There's some negativity in our relationship,

00:47 but I choose not to focus on that.

00:50 So how are you going to cope with that?

00:54 I'm already coping with that. We've been together for a couple of years already.

00:57 I'm the kind of man that I don't restrict my wife from doing something.

01:01 It's a partnership, so we're into this together.

01:05 It's not like I and Alusios were trying to discourage you,

01:09 but it's just because we just want your wedding.

01:11 Me in Cameroon, I know that each time that I come back from work,

01:15 my wife will put my food, my traditional meal,

01:18 and put me water to bath, and that is fine.

01:21 If it's working, that's good for you. Keep going.

01:25 But I focus on what is going to push us to the next level,

01:28 make our relationship better.

01:30 Emeline, sometimes she's stubborn. She's being bossy and stuff like that.

01:35 But I wish that my friends can understand that I'm not living in Africa.

01:40 I'm living in America where the culture is different from what we have

01:43 back home here in Cameroon.

01:45 I love Emeline, and I don't expect her to change.

01:49 But I'm really hoping that during this trip,

01:52 Emeline will give a good impression in front of my friends.

01:55 [Music]