JADE and Dimetrius have been together for a year. Jade is a furry and content creator which Dimetrius helps out with, alongside his full-time job. She has been a furry for over five years and it has become a major part of her lifestyle. She’s spent over $25,000 on fursuits and has travelled for multiple conventions. The couple recently started living together and have decided to venture out from her usual posts to support themselves: "We make adult content with fur suits," Jade said. They are harshly criticised on social media for their decision to do so. Comments include: "all furries should be burned at the stake", "he's a dog f*****", and claims that they are attracted to animals. But for Jade, "the most important thing is when the support comes in from [Dimetrius] and he helps me, he's there for me, he supports me through everything." Dimetrius had a message for those casting doubts around their new income stream: "I'd say to anybody judging us, look at yourself first, because you see two people that are happy." He has lost some of his support network because of his girlfriend's alter ego. "Friends? I don't really have any left from them finding out," he explained. In this episode of Love Don't Judge they will be sitting down with one of his remaining allies, Cade, to reveal to him for the first time the kind of content they are putting out online.
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00:00This is Demetrius. He fell in love with Jade, a furry.
00:05But Demetrius wasn't too fond on being with a furry.
00:08I know that the furry fandom is something new to him.
00:10It's kind of like looking at a dog.
00:13And we're judged online because we make adult content with fursuits.
00:16He's a dog. He's attracted to animals.
00:19They use litter boxes, bark, eat out of a dog bowl.
00:22And since Jade introduced him to the furry world, he has dealt with some consequences.
00:26Friends, I don't really have any left from them finding out.
00:32Today they're breaking some news to his last friend.
00:36Furry is paying our bills because we're doing only things.
00:43This is our room. I call it the dungeon.
00:46It's where we film all of our adult content in here.
00:48Should we call it the kennel?
00:50No. And usually I let my subscribers pick what kind of content we do for the week.
00:56I'm Jade and this is my partner Demetrius.
00:58And we're judged online because we make adult content with fursuits.
01:02I was in high school and I used to draw a bunch of like characters with hair
01:07and like human characteristics.
01:09So I got my first fursuit, I think it was 2020 when I graduated.
01:13Furries are just cosplayers. This is Velvet. She's a wolf dog.
01:17I was really shy in high school growing up and
01:20these characters give me a different personality and it makes me put myself out there more.
01:24I see myself as an extension when I have my fursuit on.
01:28I'm about to tell my boyfriend I'm a furry so we're gonna see his reaction.
01:34A fursuit? What the hell is a fursuit?
01:35On a furry?
01:36Yep. And you're just now telling me.
01:39Yeah, I thought you wouldn't care.
01:41I lived with a furry so destiny is kind of how we met.
01:45My roommate, I was having a furry party at my first apartment about a year ago.
01:51And I'm not very keen on the whole furry phantom thing, at least I wasn't.
01:56I didn't want to go out. I was stuck in my room.
01:58There was a bunch of furries in my apartment.
02:00People are just odd that I don't want to hang out with very much.
02:03And she kind of forced her way into my room, but in a nice way.
02:06Like, you know, she didn't take no for an answer in the best way possible.
02:10Had a couple drinks, talked for a few hours,
02:12and then I think it was the next week we went on our first date.
02:15Demetrius is very patient with me.
02:18I know that the furry phantom is something new to him.
02:21I mean, it's kind of like looking at a dog,
02:23but getting used to awkward moments for sure.
02:27But it's like a version of her, but it's still Jade. She's in there.
02:32When we moved into our first apartment, we realized how expensive rent was
02:35and how expensive just living in general was.
02:38One of the nice things in life, you want to be able to be unemployed,
02:42have nice clothes, have your rent paid for.
02:46Come here, come here.
02:47So I told him about how there is a couple other furry creators that do adult content.
02:52And I was like, because I've already spent so much money on it.
02:54I would say, I think over, what do you think?
02:58Over $25,000.
02:58$25,000.
03:00And I was like, why not make money off of the items that I own now?
03:03And we kind of slowly got into it.
03:05And it took him a while to like really understand what it was
03:09and accept that we would be doing adult content online.
03:12I'd say it doesn't really change our intimate life that much.
03:15I mean, of course, during content, she might be wearing a fursuit.
03:19Always wearing one, yeah.
03:20I just gotta remember it's her behind it and not the mascot.
03:23And that doesn't mean I act like a dog, all right?
03:26Pretty normal. It's not weird, guys. It's really not weird.
03:30Sometimes when we're not filming, it still is fun.
03:33Yeah.
03:33Yeah. And we like to play around with it.
03:36I'd say what I was most unsure about at first was just response.
03:40How people would react, family, friends, you know, work.
03:45Things get around nowadays. Everyone talks about everything online.
03:48You're posing.
03:50Everything that social media paints them to be, a lot of it's not true.
03:55Weird. They use litter boxes.
03:57They bark. They eat out of a dog bowl.
04:00The majority, at least Jade, the people I've introduced or been introduced to,
04:03have been pretty good.
04:05I think it's harmless. I have fun with it.
04:07I like making sure she's got content for her social media platforms and taking pictures.
04:11I'll even throw the fursuit on for a couple videos just because, you know, people liked it.
04:16I'm absolutely still attracted to Jade when she's in the fursuit,
04:18but I'm not attracted to the mask she's wearing.
04:20I'm attracted to the woman inside of the mask because that's who I fell in love with.
04:25But it kind of adds like a interesting second persona.
04:30How we deal with the judgment from our dynamic is we capitalize from it.
04:34It's just boosting it more for us and it benefits us greatly.
04:37So I'm like, keep going. Keep commenting. I love it.
04:40It's literally paying our rent.
04:42All furries should be burned at the stake.
04:44I'd be mad too if my girlfriend was only worth $6 a month.
04:47Well, actually, it's $12.
04:48So we get comments like, he's a dog.
04:51I'm attracted to animals. I am not.
04:54Or he's attracted to animals because I wear my fursuit and obviously we do adult content in it.
04:59Not true.
05:00Dating a furry who's an OnlyFans girl has to be a fate worse than death.
05:03So at first, when I started posting on social media,
05:06I had a few breakdowns from the comments.
05:07People calling me names, people body shaming me.
05:10But what really matters is when the support comes in from him and he helps me.
05:15He's there for me. You support me through everything.
05:18I'd say anybody that judges our relationship, look at yourself first.
05:21Because you see two people that are happy.
05:23People react to me in a very negative way in public.
05:26When teenagers come up to me, they'll be barking at me from across the street
05:29or yelling something very negative across the street.
05:32But when you see like a little kid with their parents,
05:34usually the parents will smile at me and the kid will want a picture.
05:37So it can go either or sometimes.
05:39You made that kid what?
05:41Cry.
05:43What did you do?
05:46Friends, I don't really have any left from them finding out.
05:51The concern they had it mostly was just immaturity.
05:54Not wanting to do their own research.
05:55Just listening to what they've been brainwashed into believing is true.
05:59But I realized is that the people that are no longer in my life because of our life,
06:03I don't want my life anyways.
06:05My friend Kate's coming over and we're going to talk to him about our relationship.
06:08See how he feels.
06:09He actually stuck around through everything after a lot of other people didn't.
06:14I had some questions.
06:15I mean, obviously, because I don't know why I'm just like I'm on the outside of this.
06:20Yeah.
06:20Stuff like what is it like?
06:21What is it?
06:22Do you think it might be different than being in a regular relationship?
06:25Yeah, I mean, it is different because, you know, he obviously wasn't afraid before.
06:30He still isn't.
06:31But I include him in a lot of my content.
06:34Obviously, you enjoy it, right?
06:36Yeah, it's fun.
06:38At first, I was like, yeah, but it's just day to day now.
06:43Made it work.
06:44Yeah.
06:44Fantastic.
06:45So how long do you plan on like being a furry or not really just being a furry,
06:49but actually actively dressing?
06:50I want to save and invest and hopefully quit in 10, 20 years, maybe, you know, I never know.
06:57Furry is paying our bills and then some because we're doing OnlyFans with it.
07:04Yeah.
07:04Together.
07:06And it makes good money?
07:09It does really good, surprisingly.
07:12So we turn it into at least my full time job.
07:15I honestly think it would be like dumb of us to not do the OnlyFans for,
07:20you know, at least another year or two,
07:22because like what it's making just in the first few months is absurd.
07:25Yeah.
07:25It's like more than most people make in a year.
07:27At this point, you're convincing me.
07:29Yeah.
07:30You know, if it's making money, you got to do it sometimes.
07:33You got to do what you got to do.
07:34You're just moving up and all you're doing is going up.
07:36You guys are working together.
07:38You guys are growing together.
07:39It's an amazing thing to see.
07:40It's really cool.
07:41She's always supporting me and I like that.
07:43What the future holds for us too is hopefully just more success.
07:46Honestly, it's just helping us grow together.
07:48We work together.
07:49We learn together.
07:50We create together.
07:51It's great.
07:51We're both very patient with each other and very accepting no matter what.
07:55And I do eventually want to buy you a fursuit.
07:57Yes.
07:58I'm like excited.
07:59I'm going to make him dress up with me.
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