20-year-old influencer Pheveya has detailed the shocking repercussions of being involuntarily placed on a toxic list created by male students that ranked female students at her school, similar to a recent incident at private school Yarra Valley Grammar in Melbourne.
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00:00I literally can't and I won't stay silent about this for any longer. If you haven't heard, a group
00:06of boys that went to a school in Melbourne got suspended for making a misogynistic and degrading
00:11list towards women. It kills me to say it but I went through the exact same thing when I was in
00:16high school. My school did nothing about it even though they knew about it. So I'm going to share
00:21my story about it in hopes that it helps other young teenagers out there going through high
00:27school whilst being degraded and devalued by boys. It's actually disgusting how many schools have
00:33lists like this, my school included. Suspension is not a big enough punishment for this type of
00:39behavior. So when I was in year 11, I was put on a list very similar to the one that was published
00:43in the news today. The one in the news today ranked women at their school wifey, material, hot,
00:50mid and at the bottom it said unrapeable. For my experience, I was put on a list and I was under
00:56the category slots. I was a virgin, I was a child, I was a baby and I was tormented, humiliated, bullied,
01:04harassed, emotionally abused by a group of boys for three years. My school knew about it the whole
01:10time and did absolutely nothing about it. Three ambulances were called to my school for me between
01:15year 11 and 12 due to people finding me unconscious in the school bathroom because of the effects of
01:20these boys. I would pass out due to stress, anxiety, depression, not eating, not sleeping,
01:26being forced to go to class even though they knew I was unstable too, being told boys will be boys,
01:31being told it'll pass and being told that there is nothing that they can do.