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Paano nga ba ang tamang pag-alaga sa mga anak? Alamin ang sagot nina Melanie Marquez, Gelli, at Janice de Belen dito sa video!
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00:00What do you hold on to the most?
00:04The Lord God.
00:05That's my faith.
00:07Never fear, never doubt.
00:09That's why I'm this strong.
00:12I have a lot of faith in the Lord God.
00:14I feel like, just like you,
00:16that long time from your first relationship,
00:19each failure in your relationship,
00:21all of that was a trial for you.
00:22He repaired you.
00:24This is it.
00:25This is your prize.
00:28Are you in good terms with your exes?
00:32Yes, I have no problem with them.
00:34It's just hard for others.
00:36They're the ones who cling to me.
00:39But who's the one,
00:40who's the one you're okay with?
00:45My best friend.
00:46Who's the one you're okay with?
00:47Gov.
00:48Gov is my best friend.
00:49Really?
00:50Yes.
00:51We have a good relationship.
00:55But that's just how it is.
00:57Sometimes,
00:58some people are just lucky.
01:00But even Derek...
01:03How's your son?
01:04How's your son, Manuelito?
01:05Manuel is...
01:06Before I came here,
01:07I brought him to Las Vegas.
01:09He already has a job,
01:10and he's going to study there.
01:12Oh, he's already there.
01:14Does he feel there?
01:15Yes, he feels there.
01:16So how are the fathers?
01:17Do they give support financially?
01:20Yes, here,
01:22in his studies.
01:24That's why I said,
01:25we need to make Manuel independent.
01:28How old is he?
01:29Nineteen.
01:30Ninety.
01:31I told Manuel,
01:32if he lives with me in Utah,
01:33free board and lodging.
01:34But if he wants to be independent,
01:36you have to work
01:37and support yourself.
01:39But when it comes to your education,
01:41we'll support you there.
01:43You have to force them.
01:45You really have to force them
01:46so they can learn.
01:47Because that's the only way.
01:48That's in preparation
01:49for them to be independent.
01:52You know,
01:53kids are more pitiful.
01:54That's why,
01:55one thing I learned from my husband,
01:57is to motivate your kids
01:59while they're young.
02:01Because it's hard.
02:02I have a tendency,
02:04aside from not growing rich,
02:06I have a tendency
02:08to pamper them.
02:12Shelter.
02:13Baby.
02:14Yes, baby.
02:15I thought that's what love is.
02:16Of course, that's what you want.
02:18Yes, that's why my husband
02:20helped me.
02:21That's why he said,
02:22look at your kids,
02:23they're fighting for you.
02:25Because they don't value your love.
02:28Because I always give them.
02:30All the time.
02:31They're always there.
02:32That's why,
02:33that's what I'm saying,
02:34push and pull.
02:35Once in a while,
02:36you really have to pamper them.
02:37Because if you push and pull,
02:38you'll get tired.
02:39Your head will get hot.
02:41That's why, look at my son
02:43and my daughters.
02:44You'll see,
02:45nine and six,
02:46they're independent.
02:48They're independent.
02:49So, here it is.
02:50Melanie has been telling this for a long time.
02:52She's a single mom for a long time.
02:54So, here it is.
02:55She brought you to Utah.
02:56You really lived on a farm?
02:57Yes.
02:58So, how did you adjust?
03:00You're a city girl.
03:01That's what people thought.
03:03Because everybody thought
03:04I'm a glamorous person.
03:06I'm a city girl.
03:07But most of my profession
03:09is either Milan,
03:11big city,
03:12all over the world.
03:13Yes, my God.
03:14That's just a job,
03:15not personal.
03:16You don't enjoy that.
03:18Other people doesn't really know me.
03:20Only my close friend knows me,
03:21that I'm a nature lover.
03:23I'm actually practically love nature,
03:25mountain climbing.
03:27You know, I'm a loner actually.
03:29I love playing my guitar.
03:31Melanie plays guitar?
03:33Yes, and I love riding horses.
03:35I love horses.
03:36So, when I was in Utah,