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00:01:00She said that she needed to solve the problem between the two of them, was there any pressure at that time?
00:01:04There was pressure, there was pressure.
00:01:05This really requires a lot of courage.
00:01:08Everyone knows our marriage and love from my period.
00:01:12In fact, at the earliest time, I was more of a complaint to Liu.
00:01:15He said that he took my son to eat junk food.
00:01:17What's wrong, what's wrong, it's not reliable.
00:01:19But I don't know why everyone said after listening, wow, it's so sweet.
00:01:22I just think it's so sweet.
00:01:24Yes.
00:01:25I think I humorously talked about some of the anxieties in my life.
00:01:27But everyone, maybe everyone's focus is on humor, not anxiety.
00:01:31So everyone will think, wow, you two are so sweet.
00:01:34This is the truth.
00:01:35So I think everyone may have been from the public platform,
00:01:38that is, what I dare to know from my own external experience,
00:01:42is our marriage beautified with my language and art.
00:01:48Liu is so cute.
00:01:49He has a sentence that I think is particularly good.
00:01:51It's used in our show, including watching this show.
00:01:54That is to say, when you are envious of a couple,
00:01:56you don't know him at all.
00:02:06I like Liu very much when I watch the show,
00:02:10the talk show, the debate.
00:02:12I just think I want to hear you talk.
00:02:15What do you think is the problem?
00:02:17The biggest problem is that there is no enthusiasm for life.
00:02:21I feel that I have a lack of reaction to many things in the outside world.
00:02:27What is your mental state when you see your wife getting more and more popular?
00:02:30Very straightforward.
00:02:36To be honest, my overall feeling is that it has nothing to do with me.
00:02:51It hurts me very much.
00:02:53How can my success have nothing to do with him?
00:03:09It's just that the space we keep is a bit too big for ourselves.
00:03:15As a result, it is very difficult for us to have a real interaction in love and life.
00:03:23What I said is that it has nothing to do with me.
00:03:26It won't affect my relationship with him.
00:03:33So it doesn't mean that I don't care about his development.
00:03:40He might have discussed a lot with me before.
00:03:43But now he might discuss more things with his colleagues.
00:03:50From my personal emotion,
00:03:52the feeling of being needed is indeed weak.
00:04:01To be honest, I have a sense of frustration in my heart.
00:04:03I don't know why he will slowly become a person who has lost interest in everything and has no enthusiasm for life.
00:04:11I tried my best to influence him.
00:04:14You know, my team and all the people around me are full of energy.
00:04:20Many people are influenced by me.
00:04:22But I really can't change the person around me.
00:04:25I encourage him to write a script.
00:04:26Because I really know he is talented.
00:04:29I said you wrote very well.
00:04:31Sometimes I have time to talk to him about the framework.
00:04:35But he can't keep going.
00:04:37If you do half of this thing, it's over.
00:04:39It's always like this.
00:04:44I think we are so different.
00:04:46I like one thing.
00:04:47I like to write.
00:04:49Then I will think I want to write a script.
00:04:51When can I finish this script?
00:04:53Then I think I can shoot it by myself.
00:04:55I can be a director.
00:04:56Do you understand?
00:04:57I will turn it into a practical thing and do it.
00:04:59Then I feel happy after realizing it.
00:05:02But he seems to say I like to sing.
00:05:04I just like to sing.
00:05:07Good.
00:05:15I care about my own rhythm.
00:05:19Maybe I won't be influenced by others.
00:05:23My so-called sense of achievement is
00:05:26I can make myself feel
00:05:30I am very happy about what I do.
00:05:33It doesn't matter.
00:05:35Is Liu a person who is not very progressive?
00:05:39I can understand Shouer's sense of helplessness.
00:05:42But a good friend of mine
00:05:45We are both
00:05:47He writes very well.
00:05:48I think he has a writer's mentality.
00:05:50But you don't have any work.
00:05:52As your friend
00:05:54I should go to script you.
00:05:57Encourage you
00:05:58Then one day he told me
00:06:00You can fight to start a business.
00:06:02That's the life you want.
00:06:03And the life I want
00:06:05Just want to have a love
00:06:14I told Liu about this.
00:06:16I think I know you
00:06:18There are many thoughts in my heart.
00:06:20You must not be a person
00:06:22No one in the world said
00:06:23I am not interested in anything.
00:06:25Maybe I will
00:06:28It's not about what happened to me.
00:06:30There will be some feelings
00:06:31But for the things around me
00:06:32More and more feelingless
00:06:36These years
00:06:37The state of the whole person is not good.
00:06:43More and more closed
00:06:44Just
00:06:47Except for the kids
00:06:48Basically at home
00:06:49Will not go out
00:06:50For me every day
00:06:52Basically it is a constant loop
00:06:55So I have a lack of enthusiasm for life.
00:06:58Just really
00:06:59Very few things can make me feel
00:07:05Is
00:07:12I will accompany him to go to every class.
00:07:14But I can't love this
00:07:16Just this activity
00:07:17I know you just said that sentence.
00:07:19I am thinking in my mind
00:07:20What kind of idiom do I use to describe my life?
00:07:22I can only think of a word
00:07:24Mind
00:07:28Mind
00:07:33The saddest thing for me is
00:07:35Only five years later
00:07:36I went to see him again.
00:07:37I think he has changed too much.
00:07:39You know that I love him.
00:07:41Because of him
00:07:43His singing
00:07:44He likes to sing very much.
00:07:47He is in our unit
00:07:48Singing competition
00:07:50He went to sing for me.
00:07:52I feel so romantic.
00:07:54Just
00:07:56I admire him very much.
00:07:57What was the song called at that time?
00:07:59Do you remember?
00:08:01Batman
00:08:02Correct
00:08:04To be a Batman
00:08:05Right
00:08:08You were singing for him at that time.
00:08:10Old Liu
00:08:12Yes
00:08:27I think I think the biggest thing.
00:08:31Most importantly
00:08:32I am thinking about it.
00:08:35No matter what he has done
00:08:37Most important
00:08:38I think he has never done it before.
00:08:41In order to do something
00:08:44I think he has done a good job at the very beginning.
00:08:46For example
00:08:48For example
00:08:49Work hard
00:08:53to make money
00:08:54I found that this change should take place
00:08:56and we don't have to fight for our lives anymore.
00:09:05I suddenly felt that what I could do for my family
00:09:14was becoming more and more insignificant.
00:09:18So I don't know if it's an escape or...
00:09:26a kind of self-relaxation.
00:09:28Anyway, that's what happened.
00:09:41When I was young, I felt that he was full of hope,
00:09:44full of confidence and energy.
00:09:46Let's work together to become better.
00:09:48Whether it's a better man or a better family.
00:09:50I gave up later.
00:09:52I think I always give up my own expectations and aspirations.
00:09:57I give up my requirements for him
00:09:59to continue this relationship that I care about and cherish.
00:10:11I think the so-called interest is not the problem between you two.
00:10:16Actually, there is a big problem between us.
00:10:20There is no love between the two of us.
00:10:30Did you have it when you got married?
00:10:31Yes, I had it when I got married.
00:10:32But now, in fact,
00:10:34I still do a lot of things.
00:10:37But I do these things because I'm used to it.
00:10:42I don't think it's because of love anymore.
00:10:45It's so sad to hear that.
00:11:05I've never heard him say that before.
00:11:14Do you still have feelings and love between you two?
00:11:17I think so.
00:11:18There must be feelings and love.
00:11:21But the problem between us is that
00:11:22there is no love between us,
00:11:24but there is a deep feeling.
00:11:26Of course it's me.
00:11:28I think he thinks so.
00:11:30Although he never said that to me,
00:11:32I think so.
00:11:35I heard it myself.
00:11:44I guessed it.
00:11:45I think maybe he doesn't love me anymore.
00:11:49But it's still shocking to hear it.
00:12:02I think what Liu said
00:12:04is that many couples actually know
00:12:06that they may not have love.
00:12:08Let's recall
00:12:09the moment when you two fell in love at first sight.
00:12:15I'd like to know
00:12:17how you fell in love at first sight when you were young.
00:12:20We met in 2008.
00:12:27She had just returned to Hefei for work.
00:12:30Because my colleague and she are from the same hometown.
00:12:34They introduced us to each other.
00:12:35Do you remember what she was wearing?
00:12:38It should be a gray coat and a dress.
00:12:42No.
00:12:44It's not a gray coat and a dress.
00:12:48It's a black coat and a dress.
00:12:50It's a black coat and a dress.
00:12:57It looks like a black coat and a dress.
00:13:05Did you fall in love at first sight
00:13:06or did you fall in love with her later?
00:13:09Actually,
00:13:12I fell in love with her as soon as I met her.
00:13:17We had dinner together that night.
00:13:19After dinner,
00:13:24I hurried back home.
00:13:29She thought I didn't like her.
00:13:32Because I was in a hurry at that time.
00:13:40Why?
00:13:42Because I was nervous.
00:13:45Did you use this scene?
00:13:46No.
00:13:48Now I know why I was in a hurry.
00:13:50Yes, I know.
00:13:51I thought she didn't like me at that time.
00:13:53Because she was in a hurry.
00:13:55After dinner,
00:13:56she said goodbye to me.
00:13:58Then my brother asked me
00:14:00how I felt.
00:14:01I said she must have no feelings for me.
00:14:04After dinner,
00:14:05I went to the bathroom in a hurry.
00:14:10When I came back,
00:14:15I found she was young.
00:14:16She dressed in a fashionable way.
00:14:20She wore a colorful coat and a pair of pants.
00:14:24She looked like a school girl.
00:14:28So I thought I had to love her.
00:14:30This is the first time I've seen this kind of hair.
00:14:35It's very beautiful.
00:14:37It's very mature.
00:14:39It has a kind of natural temperament.
00:14:42It's not too hard, not too soft, not too soft.
00:14:46And it's a little bit more...
00:14:48It's a little bit more solid.
00:14:50I still think it's very solid.
00:14:52And I don't really like people with a lot of hair.
00:14:55I'm afraid of getting bald.
00:14:57I can't blow myself up.
00:14:59I can't get out of it.
00:15:01So I think it looks good on me.
00:15:05I went out with her a few times.
00:15:09She asked me on QQ.
00:15:13Do you want to play?
00:15:15If you want to play, play. If you don't want to play, pull down.
00:15:17Then I said, play.
00:15:20It's so young.
00:15:28Once we went shopping and saw a hat.
00:15:30I like that hat very much.
00:15:32I'm going to buy it, but she won't let me buy it.
00:15:34She said, you spend your salary every month.
00:15:40What if you get married in the future?
00:15:43But I wasn't very mature at the time.
00:15:46I really wanted that hat.
00:15:48I still bought it.
00:15:50After I bought it, she wanted to break up with me.
00:15:54I feel like she's really...
00:16:00I'll think about the future of the two of you.
00:16:04Change your habits little by little.
00:16:09And then you'll have a better future.
00:16:24When I first met you, I was so attracted to you that I wanted to change myself.
00:16:28Because love is too abstract.
00:16:30My greatest characteristic of falling in love with a person is that I'm willing to change for her.
00:16:36So you're not willing to change because you don't love her anymore.
00:16:41So I'm willing to change for her.
00:16:42I'm willing to change for her.
00:16:44I'm not willing to change because I don't love her.
00:16:47I'm willing to change for her.
00:16:49I'm willing to change for her.
00:16:51Oh, I know, it's not that he doesn't love her, he doesn't want to make a change now, it's because he loves himself more, he puts his hands and ears in the second place.
00:17:03He loves himself more, he puts his hands and ears in the second place.
00:17:07Oh.
00:17:37Oh.
00:18:07Oh.
00:18:37Oh.
00:19:07Oh.
00:19:08Oh.
00:19:10Oh.
00:19:11Oh.
00:19:12Oh.
00:19:13Oh.
00:19:14Oh.
00:19:15Oh.
00:19:16I don't know how to say this, but I'm so sad.
00:19:26What's wrong?
00:19:29I can't stop crying.
00:19:39Don't cry.
00:19:40Jingjie is right. I really didn't think about it.
00:19:44That's right. What's wrong with loving yourself?
00:19:54You love yourself. I'm happy for you. Don't cry.
00:19:57It's okay.
00:20:07People live for themselves.
00:20:14I'm happy for you.
00:20:20I'm happy for you, too.
00:20:25I'm happy for you, too.
00:20:29I'm happy for you, too.
00:20:36I'll take care of you.
00:20:43I think what he said just now is very reasonable.
00:20:56I have always lived in my comfort zone.
00:21:03I don't want to make any changes for others or for myself.
00:21:08I don't want to.
00:21:10As I just said, I have never thought about it.
00:21:14Because I always feel that I am also paying for my family.
00:21:19But I have never thought about it.
00:21:21Jingjie just reminded me of a sentence.
00:21:24In fact, I love myself more.
00:21:29I don't want to make too many changes for others.
00:21:35I may find all kinds of excuses for myself.
00:21:44Instead, living by his side is actually a negative energy for him.
00:21:54There is very little positive energy.
00:22:05Maybe there will be some changes after divorce.
00:22:12Or there won't be too many changes.
00:22:17But I don't want to be around him again.
00:22:31I don't want to bring negative energy to him or the child.
00:22:47This is the key to the problem.
00:22:50I used to think I paid a lot.
00:22:55But in fact, until Jingjie pointed out this point,
00:23:01I found that those contributions were just an expression.
00:23:07There is no change in the deep level of my heart.
00:23:15I finally understand why he wants to adjust.
00:23:19I can't do it in marriage.
00:23:22Maybe it's because I love myself more.
00:23:27I put myself in a comfortable circle.
00:23:32I don't want to change myself.
00:23:38In fact, when I heard this question,
00:23:40I could feel that he was very disappointed.
00:23:45In fact, he also gave me a lot of opportunities to change.
00:23:52But I can't stick to it.
00:23:59I've been selfish for so many years, but I don't know.
00:24:01I think it's pretty bad.
00:24:04I also know that my problem can't be solved.
00:24:14Because he was actually worried about me before.
00:24:18Because after I was addicted, he thought
00:24:20Leaving this meeting will have a great impact on me.
00:24:24In fact, I know that he has been under a lot of psychological burden in recent years.
00:24:30Every word I say, every thing I do,
00:24:34He's afraid of affecting me.
00:24:38So this time, I was brave enough to let him know
00:24:41If it's better for us to be apart,
00:24:43I can face all the pressure and doubts.
00:24:45It doesn't mean anything to me.
00:24:47I think people should pursue happiness.
00:24:51Because since I became famous,
00:24:53Our marriage is also widely followed by the outside world.
00:24:55He was also concerned about me.
00:24:57After being concerned about the relationship between husband and wife,
00:24:59It's hard for women to get along with each other.
00:25:01I think public opinion will still create some pressure.
00:25:04And he's a very good man.
00:25:06He'll think about how to be nice to me.
00:25:08He'll also be careful to protect me.
00:25:10Under such pressure for a long time,
00:25:12I'm afraid I can't get along with him.
00:25:15I'm afraid I can't get along with him.
00:25:17I'm afraid I can't get along with him.
00:25:19I'm afraid I can't get along with him.
00:25:21I'm afraid I can't get along with him.
00:25:23Will you feel depressed?
00:25:25Of course.
00:25:27I feel very sad when I think about it.
00:25:29After all, I have an influence on another person.
00:25:31He's a very close person to you.
00:25:33You know he's a good man.
00:25:35You know he's a good man.
00:25:41But I can't help it.
00:25:43What can I do?
00:25:46He should find his passion for life.
00:26:03Shall we sing that song?
00:26:05Liu sings very well.
00:26:07When you first met Shouer,
00:26:09you sang that song on the stage.
00:26:15Liu sings very well.
00:26:45Liu sings very well.
00:27:15Liu sings very well.
00:27:17Liu sings very well.
00:27:19Liu sings very well.
00:27:21Liu sings very well.
00:27:23Liu sings very well.
00:27:25Liu sings very well.
00:27:27Liu sings very well.
00:27:29Liu sings very well.
00:27:31Liu sings very well.
00:27:33Liu sings very well.
00:27:35Liu sings very well.
00:27:37Liu sings very well.
00:27:39Liu sings very well.
00:27:41Liu sings very well.
00:27:43Liu sings very well.
00:27:45Liu sings very well.
00:27:47Liu sings very well.
00:27:49Liu sings very well.
00:27:51Liu sings very well.
00:27:53Liu sings very well.
00:27:55Liu sings very well.
00:27:57Liu sings very well.
00:27:59Liu sings very well.
00:28:01Liu sings very well.
00:28:03Liu sings very well.
00:28:05Liu sings very well.
00:28:07Liu sings very well.
00:28:09Liu sings very well.
00:28:11Liu sings very well.
00:28:13Liu sings very well.
00:28:15Liu sings very well.
00:28:17Liu sings very well.
00:28:19Liu sings very well.
00:28:21Liu sings very well.
00:28:23Liu sings very well.
00:28:25Liu sings very well.
00:28:27Liu sings very well.
00:28:29Liu sings very well.
00:28:31Liu sings very well.
00:28:33Liu sings very well.
00:28:35Liu sings very well.
00:28:37Liu sings very well.
00:28:39Liu sings very well.
00:28:41Liu sings very well.
00:28:43Liu sings very well.
00:28:45Liu sings very well.
00:28:47Liu sings very well.
00:28:49Liu sings very well.
00:28:51Liu sings very well.
00:28:53Liu sings very well.
00:28:55Liu sings very well.
00:28:57Liu sings very well.
00:28:59Liu sings very well.
00:29:01Liu sings very well.
00:29:03Liu sings very well.
00:29:05Liu sings very well.
00:29:07Liu sings very well.
00:29:27Even if we're not together,
00:29:29I will still be there for her.
00:29:31I will still be there for her.
00:29:33I will still be there for her.
00:29:37I will still be there for her.
00:29:47I'm sure she won't love me today.
00:29:49I'm sure she won't love me today.
00:29:51She said she love herself even more.
00:29:53She said she love herself even more.
00:29:55But I'm sure I got it.
00:30:07I think it's blissful to be loved by someone in the world.
00:30:21Even if we're apart in the future,
00:30:23when I think of it,
00:30:24I'll still feel warm.
00:30:27Because when I met him,
00:30:29I wasn't Fu Shouer.
00:30:31I was just an ordinary person.
00:30:34An optimistic
00:30:37girl.
00:30:40A very ordinary person.
00:31:03That's why I think I'm the most sincere person in the world.
00:31:07I don't care about
00:31:10anything else.
00:31:11I love him.
00:31:12I'm pure.
00:31:25The love we had before
00:31:26is individual.
00:31:27And
00:31:28these people
00:31:30mean a lot to us.
00:31:31It's just that when we're apart,
00:31:33what should we do?
00:31:35I still don't have an answer.
00:31:38In a few days,
00:31:39I want to
00:31:40find an answer.
00:31:43I want to go through this journey
00:31:44and see if
00:31:45there are still
00:31:46any problems
00:31:47between us.
00:32:02After crying,
00:32:03Lao Yue's expression changed.
00:32:05He became much softer.
00:32:32The love we had before
00:32:33is individual.
00:32:34And
00:32:35these people
00:32:36mean a lot to us.
00:32:37It's just that when we're apart,
00:32:38what should we do?
00:32:39I still don't have an answer.
00:32:40In a few days,
00:32:41I want to
00:32:42find an answer.
00:32:43After crying,
00:32:44Lao Yue's expression changed.
00:32:45He became much softer.
00:32:46After crying,
00:32:47Lao Yue's expression changed.
00:32:48After crying,
00:32:49Lao Yue's expression changed.
00:32:50After crying,
00:32:51Lao Yue's expression changed.
00:32:52After crying,
00:32:53Lao Yue's expression changed.
00:32:54After crying,
00:32:55Lao Yue's expression changed.
00:32:56After crying,
00:32:57Lao Yue's expression changed.
00:32:58After crying,
00:32:59Lao Yue's expression changed.
00:33:00After crying,
00:33:01Lao Yue's expression changed.
00:33:02After crying,
00:33:03Lao Yue's expression changed.
00:33:04After crying,
00:33:05Lao Yue's expression changed.
00:33:06He chose no.
00:33:07He chose no.
00:33:09Oh my god.
00:33:12He chose
00:33:13NO for the first time.
00:33:17Oh my god.
00:33:18Oh my god.
00:33:19He chose NO for the first time.
00:33:21He said he insisted on divorcing.
00:33:23Yes,
00:33:25he said he would become
00:33:26a happy person.
00:33:28It's not good enough.
00:33:28It's not good enough for Sister Shou'er before.
00:33:29Yeah.
00:33:30She's looking for her own problems again.
00:33:32And then she thinks
00:33:34I'm going to make it up to her.
00:33:35Liu is so interesting.
00:33:37It's because Sister Jing said something
00:33:39that she didn't know
00:33:41in her heart.
00:33:42And then after she finished talking,
00:33:44after she finished crying,
00:33:45she was released.
00:33:50I thought she was black or something.
00:33:52She's crying.
00:33:53I'm a little scared of myself.
00:33:58What?
00:33:59What?
00:34:00I'm black or something.
00:34:02I'm talking about myself.
00:34:06I'm black or something.
00:34:07Yeah.
00:34:11Liu, why did you choose not to divorce?
00:34:12I'm digesting this.
00:34:14I'm shocked.
00:34:15Did she cry and then she was released?
00:34:17I think she may have been in this marriage
00:34:19and she couldn't find her own existence and value.
00:34:22She even gave up on herself for a while.
00:34:24She felt very confused.
00:34:25Yeah.
00:34:25She thought she didn't know
00:34:27how hard she had to work
00:34:28to save this relationship.
00:34:30Yeah, because she didn't know before.
00:34:31Yeah, once she had a direction,
00:34:32she knew that
00:34:33she could save this relationship
00:34:34with her own efforts.
00:34:37A person
00:34:38often changes because of his or her goal.
00:34:41And because of the change,
00:34:43he or she gets the benefit and persists.
00:34:45Yeah.
00:34:46I think in fact,
00:34:48Liu, in today's matter,
00:34:50he at least caught a catcher.
00:34:51But what is his catcher?
00:34:53His catcher is...
00:34:54I want to put the words in the first place.
00:34:56Yeah.
00:34:57Then I will love him more in the future.
00:34:58Yeah.
00:35:00I think it's so sad.
00:35:01I think when he admits himself now
00:35:03or when he is considered
00:35:05a selfish person,
00:35:07I think he chooses to deny
00:35:08because he chooses for himself.
00:35:09I won't consider for you.
00:35:10I will
00:35:12catch up.
00:35:14This is my interpretation.
00:35:15I think Liu
00:35:16really put himself in the first place.
00:35:18He said that
00:35:19his change
00:35:20started from the fact that they no longer need to fight for survival.
00:35:23He started to become like this.
00:35:24Because he doesn't pay much attention to others.
00:35:27He only focuses on himself.
00:35:30Isn't that he loves himself more?
00:35:32And he said something very pitiful.
00:35:33He said, I've been selfish for so many years,
00:35:35but I'm not selfish.
00:35:36Yeah.
00:35:36He understood this as selfish.
00:35:38Yeah.
00:35:38I'm too selfish.
00:35:39But I think what Liu means is
00:35:41that at this stage,
00:35:42you put yourself in the second place.
00:35:44It doesn't mean that he is selfish.
00:35:46A couple is originally a transition.
00:35:48Now you are at a point
00:35:50where you can't put yourself in the front.
00:35:52You put yourself in the front.
00:35:53So you love yourself more.
00:35:54Maybe it's a relief for him.
00:35:56He finally...
00:35:57At least he can
00:35:59stand on this point and say,
00:36:01maybe our marriage can be saved.
00:36:04I want to explain this to you.
00:36:06From my understanding,
00:36:08what does he mean by loving himself more?
00:36:10I believe we saw a part of it
00:36:12in the beginning.
00:36:13The guest asked directly,
00:36:15you see that your wife has become very popular.
00:36:18Step by step, it's going up.
00:36:20How do you feel?
00:36:21At that time, he said he didn't feel anything.
00:36:23Instead of saying he didn't feel anything,
00:36:25he said
00:36:27he thought he shouldn't feel anything
00:36:29in his role.
00:36:31Yes.
00:36:31If Liu is really a selfish person,
00:36:34he can actually feel a lot.
00:36:36But just because he is not selfish,
00:36:38think about it.
00:36:39Because my wife...
00:36:39I don't have a burden in my life now.
00:36:41No need to struggle.
00:36:42No need to struggle, right?
00:36:43I haven't struggled for many years.
00:36:44Or I should feel that my life is comfortable.
00:36:47Because my wife works outside,
00:36:49she can't make herself feel that way.
00:36:51She can't be happy.
00:36:53She can't be comfortable.
00:36:54She can't resent.
00:36:56She can't resent.
00:36:57She shouldn't resent.
00:36:58Yes.
00:36:58Even if she said she should be proud of herself,
00:37:01she would think
00:37:02if she is qualified to say that.
00:37:04If I say that, is it too much?
00:37:06You see 10,000 men who eat soft rice
00:37:08can eat soft rice.
00:37:09They are all strong.
00:37:11But she thinks she shouldn't do that.
00:37:13Liu, in this part,
00:37:14he took a more old-fashioned script.
00:37:17It's what a man should do.
00:37:19This is a great source of pain for him.
00:37:23And there is a solution to such pain.
00:37:26I completely throw away
00:37:28my man's requirements for me.
00:37:31He can't do it.
00:37:32How can he...
00:37:33Liu can't do it.
00:37:34But if I can do it,
00:37:36if I really can do it,
00:37:37it's comfortable.
00:37:38Then I think Fu Shouer
00:37:40still affects Liu.
00:37:42Because all of this happened after Fu Shouer became famous.
00:37:44Liu is the one who started to change.
00:37:46And in this way,
00:37:47Liu is a man with a big ego.
00:37:49He should have a big man.
00:37:51A big man in his bones.
00:37:52On the one hand, I sympathize with Liu.
00:37:54On the other hand, I want to scold him a little.
00:37:57In fact, Liu's situation
00:37:59is the situation of
00:38:00a full-time wife.
00:38:03A full-time wife measures the floor.
00:38:04It's definitely better than him.
00:38:05Yes.
00:38:06But for Liu,
00:38:07this is a very painful thing.
00:38:08Liu may also be afraid of becoming a pregnant woman.
00:38:12The language in our society
00:38:14actually hurts both sides.
00:38:15Yes.
00:38:16Think about it.
00:38:16We talked about pregnant women earlier.
00:38:18It seems that this is a word designed for women.
00:38:20Yes.
00:38:21Eating soft rice
00:38:23is a word designed for men.
00:38:25So I said that this part
00:38:26should be able to jump out of the old script.
00:38:29Everyone will be more relaxed.
00:38:32I also want to add a point here.
00:38:34When Liu first met Fu Shouer,
00:38:36he was a long-haired,
00:38:38romantic, passionate young man.
00:38:41He has changed.
00:38:42Yes, he has changed.
00:38:42But I'm thinking now,
00:38:43where is the origin of his change?
00:38:45I feel that he has given up.
00:38:47I want to use a more proactive statement.
00:38:49I think Liu is actively
00:38:50cutting off a lot of his feelings.
00:38:52Why?
00:38:53He is doing something very important for Shouer.
00:38:56You see, he said,
00:38:57he said, I think Shouer's success
00:38:58has nothing to do with me.
00:39:00What he expressed was
00:39:02that I don't think this matter
00:39:03has anything to do with me.
00:39:05It's the best thing I can do for him.
00:39:07Yes.
00:39:08I have to stay in my position.
00:39:10And it's not a day,
00:39:12not a month,
00:39:12but more than ten years.
00:39:14He thinks that his sense of dance
00:39:15makes Shouer less stressed.
00:39:16It doesn't drag him down.
00:39:17Yes, it causes Shouer more pressure.
00:39:19And another side effect of his sense of dance,
00:39:21which I just mentioned, is called dissociation.
00:39:23When he pushes away all his feelings,
00:39:24all his negative feelings,
00:39:26his positive feelings will also be pushed away.
00:39:28Yes.
00:39:30Hu also said that.
00:39:31I said, look, I'm getting more and more popular now.
00:39:32How do you feel?
00:39:34He said, I must be happy for you.
00:39:35But I don't think this matter
00:39:36has anything to do with me.
00:39:37Yes.
00:39:38He said, because you rely on yourself to succeed,
00:39:40so this matter has nothing to do with me.
00:39:42I didn't do anything for you.
00:39:45I think the relationship between you and Hu
00:39:46can tolerate some fluctuations.
00:39:50If Hu has some small emotional fluctuations,
00:39:53I think you can
00:39:53completely handle this matter.
00:39:55And I don't know if Shouer
00:39:57can tolerate it.
00:39:58But I think in Liu's heart,
00:40:00he doesn't allow himself
00:40:02to have any feelings
00:40:04in their relationship.
00:40:05So Liu is
00:40:06doing a strict torture.
00:40:08Yes, he is practicing his own practice.
00:40:11Yes.
00:40:12I think if Liu
00:40:13hears someone say to him,
00:40:15I think it's not easy for you.
00:40:17You've done a lot of things.
00:40:19As long as he has a little bit of recognition,
00:40:21he may feel better.
00:40:23You have to give him affirmation.
00:40:24Yes.
00:40:25So why is the middle stage
00:40:28the most difficult?
00:40:30Yes.
00:40:30Because your old tricks don't work.
00:40:33It's hard to have a middle-age marriage.
00:40:35Middle-age marriage is so hard.
00:40:38So it's a bit like the phoenix and the earth.
00:40:39You have to burn it once in the middle.
00:40:40Yes.
00:40:40Then he will recognize you.
00:40:41You don't even know if you're a phoenix or an earth.
00:40:44So if they can get through this hurdle,
00:40:46maybe they will go on.
00:40:48After getting along in a different way,
00:40:50I believe we will hear a lot of new lines.
00:40:53Yes.
00:40:55Liu, come on.
00:40:56To be a better man.
00:40:58Come on.
00:40:59I think the best thing about being a better man
00:41:01is that it's better,
00:41:02not the best.
00:41:03There is hope.
00:41:05Will it really be a goodbye lover?
00:41:06Let them find their marriage again.
00:41:09That kind of enthusiasm.
00:41:10I really want to know what's going on behind them.
00:41:11Let's see.
00:41:29Is it that serious?
00:41:34Look.
00:41:35You said you didn't want to fall.
00:41:37Look.
00:41:38Dad always says he's good for you.
00:41:39Now you're doing this.
00:41:40Do I need to wash it?
00:41:41No, just apply it.
00:41:44Four masks.
00:41:44He'll apply it for her after he's done.
00:41:46Yes.
00:41:47And it's very natural.
00:41:57It's definitely not the first time for Liu.
00:42:01Is it still wet?
00:42:02Yes.
00:42:03It's all dry.
00:42:05Hurry up, I can't hold it anymore.
00:42:08I can't hold it anymore.
00:42:10It's so funny.
00:42:12Who doesn't have anything to say?
00:42:15Who doesn't know how to communicate?
00:42:17What did I hear?
00:42:20They're fighting again.
00:42:22Where is he?
00:42:23They're fighting again.
00:42:25Go get some water.
00:42:26I'll go upstairs and downstairs
00:42:27to pay the bill for you.
00:42:30What are you doing when I'm hanging water?
00:42:32What are you doing?
00:42:34Tell me.
00:42:35Why did you pretend to be wronged?
00:42:36What were you doing?
00:42:38What were you doing when I was angry?
00:42:39What were you doing when I was sick?
00:42:41Oh, my God.
00:42:42It's going to be a big fire.
00:42:46What's wrong?
00:42:47What?
00:42:48What's wrong with you?
00:42:49I saw you crying.
00:42:50What's the matter with you?
00:42:51I just saw you crying.
00:42:52I'll ask you. I'm fine.
00:42:53I'll ask you.
00:42:54Why are you curious about this?
00:42:55Because what happened again?
00:42:57I just saw you crying.
00:42:58I just came over to ask.
00:42:59There's no reason.
00:43:00Are you curious?
00:43:02Are you curious that I cried?
00:43:04He should say I care about you.
00:43:06I care about you.
00:43:07I'm not curious.
00:43:08What's that?
00:43:09I just saw you crying.
00:43:10I'll ask you.
00:43:11Are you curious?
00:43:12You can't just say I care about you.
00:43:14Did you cry?
00:43:18I just came over to care about you.
00:43:20Didn't I just say I care about you?
00:43:21I came over to care about you.
00:43:22It's so hard for the two of them.
00:43:23Where did you say care about you?
00:43:25It's not a language system.
00:43:27Yeah.
00:43:28Have you ever said care about you?
00:43:31I'm here to care about you.
00:43:32Did you just say it?
00:43:33If you haven't said it, just tell me.
00:43:34Did you just say it?
00:43:35Why are you confused about this?
00:43:36I didn't say it just now.
00:43:39Who of us doesn't have anything to say?
00:43:43Who of us doesn't communicate well?
00:43:45Who doesn't know how to communicate?
00:43:48Don't point at me.
00:43:53Okay, I won't point at you.
00:43:54No.
00:43:55What's wrong with you?
00:44:00What's wrong with me?
00:44:01It's none of your business.
00:44:04If you care about me,
00:44:05you just care about me.
00:44:06You just care about me.
00:44:07I care about you.
00:44:08I just care about you.
00:44:09What's wrong with you?
00:44:10I saw you crying.
00:44:11I came over to care about you.
00:44:12I came over to ask you.
00:44:13Does my crying affect you?
00:44:16Of course it affects me.
00:44:17Why?
00:44:18Because I'll think about it.
00:44:19I'll think about why you cried.
00:44:21Why did you cry?
00:44:25His eyes are sincere.
00:44:31Why are you thinking about this?
00:44:32What will you think of?
00:44:36I don't have that many reasons.
00:44:37I just care about you.
00:44:39He's anxious.
00:44:41Really.
00:44:42He still has a lot of expectations.
00:44:44He has expectations.
00:44:45Yes.
00:44:46No, you care about me now.
00:44:47I think some people will be very confused.
00:44:48Do you know that?
00:44:49Why did you cry just now?
00:44:51He wants him to say that he cares about him.
00:44:53I'll try to change the way of expression.
00:44:55Can I just say it?
00:44:57I just care about you.
00:44:58I just want to ask you.
00:44:59I just want to ask you.
00:45:04What did you talk about last night?
00:45:08You said I didn't let you talk.
00:45:10What didn't you let me talk about?
00:45:12I'm here with...
00:45:13About the gift, right?
00:45:16Am I right?
00:45:20What did you say?
00:45:21Am I right?
00:45:22You took something and asked me if I wanted it.
00:45:23I said I didn't want it, so I didn't give it to you.
00:45:24You passed by the flower shop and asked me if I wanted flowers.
00:45:27I said I didn't want it, so I didn't give it to you.
00:45:29Then why didn't you say you wanted it?
00:45:31When it was your birthday,
00:45:32when you needed a gift,
00:45:34when I gave you a gift,
00:45:35did I ask you?
00:45:36I didn't say that.
00:45:37Did I just give it to you?
00:45:38It's not about asking or not.
00:45:39Is it?
00:45:40It's because of what you gave me.
00:45:41Have I ever refused it?
00:45:42Or did I say I didn't like it,
00:45:43and you turned it down?
00:45:44Or did I say no to what you gave me?
00:45:46I was envious of their state.
00:45:48Because they still have physical strength.
00:45:50They quarreled with the manager.
00:45:51When did I give you something you didn't like?
00:45:53Yes, you think I like everything.
00:46:00How can you be so confident
00:46:02that I like everything you give me?
00:46:06I'm telling you,
00:46:07the point of what you gave me
00:46:08is not that thing at all.
00:46:10It's your behavior when you gave me a gift.
00:46:12Which thing did I give you these two days?
00:46:13You don't like it?
00:46:14I like it.
00:46:15Then what did you say just now?
00:46:16It can't be a condition
00:46:18that you compare with me here.
00:46:20You have to be so biased
00:46:22to deal with it like this.
00:46:26Okay, go back and smash your heart.
00:46:27It turns out that being in love is a physical activity.
00:46:29Physical strength, really.
00:46:31It's a little biased to quarrel with each other at night.
00:46:33Yes, it's biased to quarrel with each other.
00:46:34Don't talk about this.
00:46:35Yes, it's biased to quarrel with each other.
00:46:43I like what you gave me.
00:46:44I think...
00:46:45No, you didn't say that just now.
00:46:46Say it again.
00:46:47I won't say it.
00:46:48No, I was angry just now.
00:46:49I don't want to hear it.
00:46:51What did you say just now?
00:46:52Say it again.
00:46:53You were so loud just now.
00:46:55Say it.
00:46:57You were so loud just now.
00:46:58I was so tired.
00:46:59I have to eat some vitamins.
00:47:03I said, why do you think
00:47:04you are so confident
00:47:06that I like every gift you give me?
00:47:09I'm sorry.
00:47:10I'm sorry.
00:47:12It's totally a provocative look.
00:47:14Yes.
00:47:15I'm sorry.
00:47:16But he still loves you.
00:47:17Jiang Shu is really angry.
00:47:18No, how to communicate this matter?
00:47:20I'm sorry.
00:47:21I won't say it again.
00:47:24I won't say it again, okay?
00:47:27You have to communicate with me.
00:47:28You have to tell me everything.
00:47:30I can't stand this girl.
00:47:32Brother, don't make it seem like
00:47:34you are very wronged.
00:47:36Then everything is me.
00:47:37It's all my problem.
00:47:40Isn't that what you just said?
00:47:42I apologize for what I just said.
00:47:43I shouldn't have said that.
00:47:44You were so loud just now.
00:47:45Say it to me.
00:47:46Apologize to me first.
00:47:47You were so loud just now.
00:47:48You were so loud.
00:47:49Say it to me again.
00:47:50Because of what you just said,
00:47:51you have to apologize to me.
00:47:53I'm willing to apologize to you.
00:47:54Are you happy?
00:47:56Hit me.
00:47:59Are you fighting with a primary school student?
00:48:01Isn't that what you said?
00:48:04I'm so tired.
00:48:06We young people fight like this.
00:48:09When I was 20 years old,
00:48:10I also cried like this when I quarreled.
00:48:11I can't even cry now.
00:48:26I can't communicate.
00:48:27But you can.
00:48:30Is this the communication you want?
00:48:31No.
00:48:32This is the result of your communication.
00:48:34Congratulations.
00:48:36It's hard to judge.
00:48:37I don't care about giving gifts
00:48:38or accepting gifts.
00:48:40I don't have
00:48:41such a strong interest in consciousness.
00:48:43It's purely because Zhang Shou said
00:48:44he was a conscious person.
00:48:47It's purely because
00:48:48I found out later that he was selfish.
00:48:49It's not that he was conscious.
00:48:50It's that he needed
00:48:51others to give him consciousness.
00:48:53I didn't feel satisfied
00:48:54until I realized this.
00:48:56She's so smart.
00:48:58I've been with you for ten years.
00:48:59You don't even talk to me.
00:49:00I think you're wronged.
00:49:03Who's wronged?
00:49:04Zhang Shou.
00:49:05You're wronged.
00:49:10When you want to give someone a gift,
00:49:11you don't ask the other person
00:49:12if you want this or that.
00:49:13You give it directly.
00:49:14Yes.
00:49:17I don't know why
00:49:18we can't talk normally now.
00:49:21I feel very uncomfortable
00:49:22in this state.
00:49:24Because I'm trying to
00:49:25make friends with you
00:49:26or communicate with you.
00:49:27What do you mean by making friends with me?
00:49:28You didn't stay with me
00:49:29when I had a fever.
00:49:31And then?
00:49:32You came to me
00:49:33after I recovered.
00:49:38When I was in the hospital in Beijing,
00:49:41did I let you follow your wife?
00:49:43No.
00:49:45You stayed in a five-star hotel
00:49:46and ate braised pork.
00:49:47You didn't even let me
00:49:48go to the toilet.
00:49:49You stayed in a five-star hotel
00:49:50and ate braised pork.
00:49:51You went everywhere.
00:49:53What were you doing in the hospital?
00:49:55I had to go back to the company to shoot.
00:49:59After the shoot,
00:50:00I had to go to the hospital to find you.
00:50:01I got you a takeout.
00:50:03I went downstairs to see you.
00:50:06I went back and forth from home to the hospital.
00:50:09You went to the bathroom.
00:50:10I went upstairs and downstairs
00:50:11to pay the bill for you.
00:50:13What were you doing
00:50:14when I was in the bathroom?
00:50:16What were you doing?
00:50:17Tell me.
00:50:18What were you doing
00:50:19when I was in the bathroom?
00:50:21What were you doing
00:50:22when I was in the bathroom?
00:50:23What were you doing when I was sick?
00:50:24Oh, my God.
00:50:25Did Zhang Shuo save Shui Shui
00:50:26in his last life?
00:50:27Shui Shui was very upset.
00:50:34I went to find you in the morning.
00:50:35I went to find you in the morning.
00:50:36I went back at nine o'clock in the evening.
00:50:37You couldn't see me, could you?
00:50:38She just couldn't admit it.
00:50:39She couldn't admit it.
00:50:40She couldn't admit it.
00:50:41Yeah.
00:50:42I didn't stay with you.
00:50:43You stayed with me all day.
00:50:44No.
00:50:45When I said that,
00:50:46you said
00:50:47you paid for me, too.
00:50:48We're even.
00:50:49We're even.
00:50:50I still owe you.
00:50:51I still owe you.
00:50:52I don't know how to
00:50:53put the two of us together.
00:50:54put the two of us together.
00:50:57Whether it's a gift
00:51:00or a sick care,
00:51:02you don't have much trust.
00:51:03you don't have much trust.
00:51:05You don't know
00:51:06what I really need.
00:51:07You don't know what I really need.
00:51:08Is that right?
00:51:09Is that right?
00:51:10Tell me.
00:51:11Tell me.
00:51:17When we were not married,
00:51:19I wasn't the one in front of your friend.
00:51:22You said you'd talk to me.
00:51:23You said you'd talk to me.
00:51:24You came to me.
00:51:25What about now?
00:51:36I don't think it's
00:51:37a marriage status progress bar.
00:51:38I don't think it's a marriage status progress bar.
00:51:39It's a promotion of half
00:51:40What i've been working on
00:51:41I've been working on
00:51:42I'm sorry.
00:51:43I'm not going to let you go.
00:51:44I'm sorry.
00:51:45I'm not going to let you go.
00:51:46I'm leaving.
00:51:47It'll be fine.
00:51:48I'm sorry.
00:51:49I'm leaving.
00:51:50I'll be back.
00:51:51I'm sorry.
00:51:52I'm sorry.
00:51:53I'll be back.
00:51:54But I'm leaving.
00:51:55I'll be back.
00:51:56All right.
00:51:57You know,
00:51:59I was wondering
00:52:00how you really feel
00:52:03Is it mental,
00:52:05It's not mentally.
00:52:06It's not.
00:52:08It's just
00:52:09He had his mother before he got married.
00:52:11I've been helping him to fix his clothes and fill in the gaps.
00:52:15After he got married, he became me.
00:52:17His subconsciousness didn't change,
00:52:20and he didn't feel like he was adding anything.
00:52:23There was no change.
00:52:24This man is so happy.
00:52:26Yes.
00:52:27He's always living in secret.
00:52:28What you're asking for is what you've done.
00:52:31I want to repay you.
00:52:33Yes.
00:52:34He really can't hear me.
00:52:36I don't know if I can do it.
00:52:38I don't know if I can do it.
00:52:40What do you mean you don't know if you can do it?
00:52:42You're so heartless.
00:52:43Okay, forget it.
00:52:44I'll tell you what this sentence means.
00:52:46I can have this behavior,
00:52:47but I don't know if this value is the same as what you think your value is.
00:52:51I don't know.
00:52:52I can't judge.
00:52:53I've never heard a man say that.
00:52:55Then you just didn't grow up.
00:52:57You haven't grown up at all for so many years.
00:52:59What you want is the right value, right?
00:53:01I'm not saying I want the right value.
00:53:02I said this.
00:53:03I'm nice to you.
00:53:04Can you be nice to me?
00:53:05It's that simple.
00:53:06I can be nice to you.
00:53:07I'm not nice to you.
00:53:08I really don't understand.
00:53:09Where is it?
00:53:10I don't know.
00:53:11I don't know.
00:53:12I'm not talking to you.
00:53:19You want me.
00:53:24What can I do for you?
00:53:28I don't trust you anymore.
00:53:29I only look at the wrong one.
00:53:30There are more than ten days left.
00:53:32You don't believe me now anyway.
00:53:34I'll prove it to you with the wrong one.
00:53:39All right?
00:53:40I won't say it.
00:53:41Don't say it.
00:53:42I don't want to hear it.
00:53:43Didn't he say that a couple of episodes ago?
00:53:44Yeah.
00:53:49He's still upset.
00:53:50I feel wronged.
00:53:54Why are you guys fighting again?
00:53:55What's going on?
00:53:58The biggest problem between the two of us now
00:54:00is that we can't match.
00:54:02Why?
00:54:03Why are you guys fighting again?
00:54:05You were very loud just now.
00:54:06I'm very angry.
00:54:07Why is he angry?
00:54:08I don't know what's wrong.
00:54:09It's just...
00:54:10We were talking about gifts.
00:54:12My daughter.
00:54:13You're so annoying.
00:54:14He said you didn't give me a gift.
00:54:15Then you said I'd give it to you later.
00:54:17Buy a gift tomorrow.
00:54:18It's such a simple thing.
00:54:19I have to teach you.
00:54:21Yeah.
00:54:22I...
00:54:23I'm telling you, if I were a boy.
00:54:27I'm sure I'll give it to you.
00:54:28I'm sure I'll give you a gift.
00:54:29You...
00:54:30He...
00:54:31You give him.
00:54:32You give him.
00:54:34What's up?
00:54:35I heard my sister scolding you on the spot.
00:54:37I'm criticizing him now.
00:54:38You hear that?
00:54:39I hear it.
00:54:40I'm criticizing him.
00:54:41Scared me to death.
00:54:43I'm criticizing him.
00:54:44I like to hear people scold you.
00:54:46You have to fight with me like this.
00:54:48You were loud with me first, weren't you?
00:54:53You see, I just wanted to give you a trick.
00:54:54I don't know why you
00:54:55I don't know why you
00:54:56I don't know why you
00:54:57I don't know why you
00:54:58I don't know why you
00:54:59I don't know why you
00:55:00I don't know why you
00:55:01I don't know why you
00:55:03Lao Lei have to go.
00:55:07All of a sudden, she pushed me aside.
00:55:09You continued to hug me if she pushed.
00:55:10No.
00:55:11This is what I wanted by cooking.
00:55:13Hold him until he pushes you away.
00:55:14You don't know how to do it.
00:55:15You can't do it.
00:55:16Otherwise, I would do it.
00:55:17Maybe he needs this.
00:55:18Yeah.
00:55:19But I was probably
00:55:22It's not too much to add.
00:55:23You go.
00:55:24Come on, let's go to my room.
00:55:27Ji doesn't like to face conflicts.
00:55:29别吵了,吵啥呀,你俩又在掰扯啥呀,他说你不送礼物,他说你不送礼物是不是事实吗,我刚才问你了,是事实,对呀,是因为他那次你送的东西他不喜欢,我觉得你不能成为你以后再也不送礼物的理由了,所以是现场观察式,我之后送,我会问他,我说这个你要不要,我就送给他,但是这个礼物你说还有惊喜吗,没有惊喜,那你继续尝试嘛,你去尝试了解他,去摸索,如果有一次,
00:55:59你自己准备了一个礼物,他喜欢了,你们的关系不就进一步了吗,我面对的那个态度那个点我受不了,我那种回应我接受不了,我理解你,所以还是我说的那个问题,
00:56:10其实这样,我们今天在车上说了,你做不到不求回报,但是我也说了,你得到的回报并不一定在这个点上,在别的点上你也得到回报,就是嘛,对呀,那昨天晚上你也说了,
00:56:23你生病的事情,有几个女孩能做到呢,那你想想他就好了嘛,嗯,是的,他说,他说我住院的时候,我求他过去陪我聊三天,他觉得那就是他的付出,就抵消了,这话咋从你嘴里咋又变味了呢,是你觉得,是我觉得吗,刚才不是你先跟我提说我住院那两天你过去找我的吗,不是你先提的,对呀,所以我说我说我说哪次去去做手术的时候,张叔,来来来来,
00:56:51你你这样说,你对我好,我知道,这话不会说吗,手把手教训,不会,从来没说过,你说你说来,就是我先一句就教你,你对我好,我知道,是不是你说,这话你说过吗,不想讲,你说呀,我都教你了,不说呢,你对我好,我知道。
00:57:21对,我以前有做了很多不好的地方,嗯,我以前有做了很多不好的地方,但我仍然爱着你,我仍然很爱你,我仍然很爱你,我愿意改变,我愿意改变并且付诸于行动,可以啊,
00:57:52就这么简单,为什么一定要杠起来呀,他杠了吗,我觉得你刚才说这段话,他流泪了,他就是要肯定被看见他的付出。
00:58:07在我的对他的认知里,他是不会因为这种话哭的,因为这个话我没说过,他没听到,中间产生了很多的争执,可能在那一刻他很长时间的委屈,终于得到了释放。
00:58:25对吧,就这些话,咱们后面的旅行,来一来行不行啊,行,我去拿纸,慢慢的,你能是不是听他嚷嚷,对,我知道,我会跟他好好沟通的,你让他慢慢学习,他沟通有问题,你知道吗,但是我觉得他能好,
00:58:50因为你看刚才我说,我让他说我还爱着你,他还改成我还很爱你,他还改成并付诸行动,因为我跟他说了,我不听他说,我只听他做,我知道,你像这个旅行中,反正咱们就是18天的行程,我们几个人,如果说真是无能为力,再说,哪怕他能做点什么让你开心,也行,行吗,别哭了,妹妹,别哭了,别哭了,睡水是清醒的。
00:59:20那样说话不行吗,非得说上次那你怎么样,那你怎么样,不从这个不用这样的语句开头不可以吗,可以,对吧,就这么简单,有时候你们就老不愿意,我不懂,为什么你跟姐夫他们能说睡水对我很好,为什么你到他那边不能说呢,为什么呢,我不知道原因,但是我愿意改变表达方式,他还不知道原因啊,行,所以原因还重要吗?
00:59:50我真的说不出来原因。
01:00:21你稍微的给他对吧,你稍微改变一下你的沟通呀,你看刚才你一说,我知道你对我好,他马上就哭了。
01:00:29他俩这么天天做折腾,还挺爱对方,也挺好,我不理解。
01:00:35你吃吗,我给你弄一份,你看你就别问他,你就直接给他办嘛,我给你办一份吧,不要说,直接做,倒完了放在他面前,咱们就是一个吃起来,你说呢,他好怕自己浪费力气,对,对。
01:00:50你看你看是不是,姐夫可没有问我说要不要我给你弄一份,直接就做呀是吧,老刘真好,做出了一个非常好的表率,而且简直就是在教学,你下次要问他需不需要的时候直接干就得了。
01:01:07挺好吃的,别哭了,别哭了啊,挺好,这一顿教育挺好的,上课,这份办得好。
01:01:16吃吧,看看他下期表现吧,取决于他的成长速度,成长速度取决于身边的朋友,我觉得张硕需要经受一些很大的创机。
01:01:27哎。
01:01:34咱前面看有没有喝的,我给你拿个喝的呗,我这有,都没喝,我主要是想给他拿,你们爱喝不喝,那拿去呗,赶紧吧,你看你,你这个人也真的很好笑,你那个脸变了吗,你什么都快,刚刚还在那,是吧。
01:01:52这会就打卸殷勤了,他现在做这个样子是大家在看他是的。
01:02:00他现在就是一个一年级的小朋友,他在学一加一等于二,如果张硕他愿意改变,他改变了以后你鼓励他一点点行不行?
01:02:11就是你不要再说以前什么的,如果这次比如说他对你是好了,那你稍微就是领情一下,妹妹你得领情啊。
01:02:20比如他现在给你送饮料,你一会儿说一下谢谢。
01:02:30谢谢。
01:02:32太可爱了。
01:02:33你的首尔在这里面还是挺好的,有他在。
01:02:35不客气。
01:02:36哎呦,给他高兴坏了。
01:02:37我是开心的。
01:02:39这不不吵也挺简单的吗?我没觉得说必须要吵啊,是不是?多好啊。
01:02:49感谢观看
01:03:19感谢观看
01:03:49感谢观看
01:04:19感谢观看
01:04:34感谢观看
01:04:39感谢观看
01:05:09感谢观看
01:05:14感谢观看
01:05:19感谢观看
01:05:24感谢观看
01:05:29感谢观看
01:05:34Hahaha
01:05:36But what Shuixue taught Zhang Shuo
01:05:38is about the meaning of the hidden words
01:05:41Then Shuixue helped him
01:05:43think it out
01:05:43Teach Zhang Shuo to say it
01:05:45Yes, you have to believe in the power of education
01:05:47I'm looking forward to the next episode
01:05:48Will Zhang Shuo change a little
01:05:51because of this?
01:05:52I think Zhang Shuo wants to change
01:05:55But he really doesn't know how to change
01:05:56You let him do this
01:05:58He knows
01:05:58But he doesn't know the bottom line
01:06:01But no
01:06:02Shuixue said
01:06:03When we were in a relationship just now,
01:06:04you put me in the first place.
01:06:06Because she wants to have him.
01:06:08Yes.
01:06:09She has the motivation.
01:06:09Now that she has him,
01:06:10she thinks it's okay.
01:06:11Yes.
01:06:11It's...
01:06:12Zhang Shuo gives me a feeling that
01:06:14no matter how angry Sui Sui is,
01:06:16she won't leave me.
01:06:17Does she have this confidence?
01:06:18Right?
01:06:19I think if Sui Sui is very calm now,
01:06:22then don't...
01:06:23Because Sui Sui is always like this.
01:06:24We're friends, right?
01:06:25Don't be lovers anymore.
01:06:26But she quarrels like lovers.
01:06:27Yes.
01:06:28So Sui Sui can't handle herself.
01:06:30If Sui Sui really makes up her mind,
01:06:32she will be like this.
01:06:33Then Zhang Shuo will...
01:06:34He will really be afraid.
01:06:36Zhang Shuo said that
01:06:38you asked me to treat you like you treat me.
01:06:41I don't think I can do it.
01:06:42I'm not sure I can do it.
01:06:43If there's a man
01:06:45who dares to talk to me like this,
01:06:50I'll be so angry.
01:06:53Really.
01:06:55Zhang Shuo has 3 typical modes.
01:06:573 states that correspond to Sui Sui.
01:06:59One is what Sun Yi just said.
01:07:01He knows how to treat people well.
01:07:02But when will he use this mode?
01:07:05When Sui Sui is about to belong to me.
01:07:08Right.
01:07:08She's about to belong to me.
01:07:09At this time, he will know how to make up for it.
01:07:11How to make up for it.
01:07:12How to get her back.
01:07:14What's the second mode?
01:07:15I'm sure she's with me now.
01:07:19So now I'm slowly not interested in her.
01:07:21This is a cold mode.
01:07:23I'm going to play with myself.
01:07:24I'm going to be with my friends.
01:07:26The third mode is
01:07:26when Sui Sui is blaming me.
01:07:28At this time, she will only do one thing.
01:07:30It's called self-defense.
01:07:32I will try my best to prove that I'm not wrong.
01:07:35Why am I not wrong?
01:07:36Because you have a bad temper.
01:07:37Right.
01:07:37Because you have a bad attitude.
01:07:39You don't know how to communicate.
01:07:40This is the most
01:07:41popular mode for us.
01:07:42Yes.
01:07:42I know when we were watching,
01:07:44there must be countless people talking about
01:07:46why they didn't break up quickly
01:07:47and why they still want to be together.
01:07:48Of course, there is a possibility
01:07:49that we have guessed before.
01:07:51Many times, you can't forget your first love.
01:07:53But I just saw their quarrel.
01:07:56There is one characteristic that is very clear.
01:07:58That is unwilling.
01:07:59Yes, unwilling.
01:08:00If we break up,
01:08:02I don't even have the reputation of asking for this debt.
01:08:04Yes.
01:08:05I know that sometimes girls will think that
01:08:07you treat me like this,
01:08:08I must pull you over.
01:08:09Yes, at least when we are still in a relationship,
01:08:12I can still scold you.
01:08:14If we are not in a relationship,
01:08:15I don't even have the condition to scold you.
01:08:17I'm too bad, right?
01:08:18I'm too bad.
01:08:19I want to settle the bill.
01:08:21I know you can't pay me back
01:08:23for my previous efforts.
01:08:24You always have to set a point of settlement.
01:08:27Yes.
01:08:27Otherwise, if you keep doing this,
01:08:28how long will it take?
01:08:30Yes, I think the system of conversation between two people
01:08:32is not the same.
01:08:33Yes.
01:08:34I think both of them
01:08:34are responding in this emotional way.
01:08:37In fact, they lack thinking.
01:08:39It should be solved in a rational way.
01:08:40Yes.
01:08:41For example, at home,
01:08:42you help me bring that over.
01:08:44Which one do you talk about?
01:08:46Yes.
01:08:47The one you think
01:08:48may be different from mine.
01:08:50So I think the biggest problem between the two of them
01:08:51is that they don't understand each other's words.
01:08:55Invalid communication.
01:08:56Completely invalid communication.
01:08:57Because I sometimes think
01:08:58Shui Shui can't talk to Zhang Shuo well.
01:09:01He is easily irritated by Zhang Shuo.
01:09:03He is very angry.
01:09:04For example,
01:09:05have you eaten?
01:09:06It's none of your business.
01:09:07It's none of your business.
01:09:08Why do you ask me?
01:09:09This kind of continuous
01:09:12beating him.
01:09:13I think Shui Shui wants to vent his anger.
01:09:15He wants to stimulate him.
01:09:16Yes.
01:09:17You make me uncomfortable.
01:09:18I don't want you to be uncomfortable.
01:09:18But in this case,
01:09:19it's hard to have a conversation.
01:09:21It's all because the problems in his heart
01:09:22haven't been solved.
01:09:23If you solve them one by one,
01:09:25he won't remember
01:09:26what happened in the past.
01:09:28It's because Zhang Shuo has never
01:09:29really wanted to solve the things that Shui Shui cares about.
01:09:31He just wants to solve the emotions of Shui Shui at this moment.
01:09:34Yes.
01:09:35But in fact, Shui Shui also said that
01:09:36Shui Shui said that
01:09:37I want you to treat me with a heart-to-heart.
01:09:39He doesn't understand.
01:09:40Yes, he doesn't understand.
01:09:41In addition to not understanding,
01:09:42I think Zhang Shuo has another characteristic.
01:09:44He is afraid of losing all his efforts.
01:09:48If he wants to mix the noodles,
01:09:48he has to ask if you want to eat first.
01:09:50If you don't want to eat, I'll mix it.
01:09:51If you don't eat, I'll mix it for nothing.
01:09:53I'll stop mixing.
01:09:54If you want to buy flowers,
01:09:54ask if you want to buy them first.
01:09:55If you want to buy them,
01:09:56if you don't want to buy them,
01:09:57I won't waste this money.
01:09:58Yes.
01:09:59He just wants to make sure
01:09:59if he has gained anything.
01:10:01Yes.
01:10:01He can't lose anything.
01:10:03So speaking is the lowest cost.
01:10:05Action is the second cost.
01:10:07Yes.
01:10:07Putting it in the pocket is the third cost.
01:10:11So he has to do it step by step.
01:10:13Yes.
01:10:14And compared to Shui Shui helping him wipe his butt,
01:10:17he didn't ask first
01:10:18if he wanted to wipe his butt.
01:10:19He said that if he was sick,
01:10:20he would take care of him.
01:10:21So Shui Shui wrote that
01:10:22it's too hard to wait for a boy to grow up.
01:10:24I don't want to wait.
01:10:25It's true that we shouldn't wait.
01:10:26I don't think anyone should wait
01:10:28for another person to grow up.
01:10:29Why?
01:10:30Why should we waste our time?
01:10:31Everyone has to be responsible for themselves.
01:10:33Actually, I think this sentence
01:10:34more confirms
01:10:36the silence I mentioned before.
01:10:37Yes.
01:10:38He thinks he can teach.
01:10:40He proudly believes that love
01:10:42can change a person.
01:10:43It's true.
01:10:44But he found that
01:10:46the more he found, the more he found that he couldn't teach.
01:10:50So every time Shui Shui
01:10:52faces Zhang Shuo,
01:10:53he cries,
01:10:53his emotions are moved,
01:10:55maybe he cries for himself.
01:10:56Yes.
01:10:57He feels wronged.
01:10:58Actually, the relationship here
01:10:59is already broken.
01:11:01Yes.
01:11:01It's just that OKBONE
01:11:02is on top of this.
01:11:03There is no straight line here.
01:11:04There is a hole here and there is a line.
01:11:06Every day, they stick it.
01:11:07You stick it, I stick it.
01:11:07You can't stick it.
01:11:09Yes.
01:11:10This episode is wonderful.
01:11:12Wonderful.
01:11:13It's worth looking forward to
01:11:15what kind of changes will happen next.
01:11:17What kind of surprise will the next episode bring us?
01:11:21So here, we have to tell everyone
01:11:23it's easy to say goodbye
01:11:26but it's hard to say goodbye.
01:11:28See you next time.
01:11:31Bye bye.
01:11:54Yu Hewei.
01:11:55These three look completely different.
01:11:56It's the thin version of Du Haitao.
01:11:58The thin version of Du Haitao.
01:12:00What does his eyebrows look like?
01:12:01Normal.
01:12:02What does his eyes look like?
01:12:03Also normal.
01:12:04Is his forehead high?
01:12:06It's normal.
01:12:07Is his eyelashes long?
01:12:09It's normal.
01:12:11I want to use this painting
01:12:12to verify how much I know about him.
01:12:15I don't think you know him very well.
01:12:16The distance between the eyes and the eyebrows
01:12:18is 2.5 cm.
01:12:20The width of his mouth
01:12:22and his nose
01:12:23are a little bit parallel.
01:12:24A little bit out of line.
01:12:26The lower lip is a little bit thicker than the upper one.
01:12:28He has a lot of mole on his face.
01:12:30There is also a mole next to his nose.
01:12:31It's amazing, really.
01:12:33It's like a camera.
01:12:34Did you draw your eyes?
01:12:37This is very similar.
01:12:38Exactly the same.
01:12:39It's so similar.
01:12:40Why are there three Old Liu?
01:12:42Three Old Liu.
01:12:48Old Liu, how did you describe your eyes at that time?
01:12:53It's okay to take a look at it now, actually.
01:12:59I haven't seen him seriously for a long time.
01:13:03Old Liu is smiling.
01:13:05Old Liu's eyes have completely changed.
01:13:06There is a sense of love.
01:13:09It's so touching.
01:13:11It's really touching.
01:13:12I got my clothes dirty.
01:13:13It's also something he can't accept.
01:13:15We were separated at the airport.
01:13:16I went home alone
01:13:17for three or four times.
01:13:18Old Ji has a very good point.
01:13:20It's his...
01:13:21What?
01:13:22He said that?
01:13:23He's not just...
01:13:25Come on, say it.
01:13:27He has a stomachache.
01:13:29He has a habit.
01:13:31When there are a lot of people,
01:13:33he often steps on me to say something.
01:13:36This is not good.
01:13:38This is really not supposed to be said.
01:13:40Why do you mention it?
01:13:41He still has to say it.
01:13:43My ego
01:13:45has fallen to the ground.
01:13:47I have to say it to him.
01:13:48It's over.
01:13:50He knocked on the table.
01:13:52Liu left again.
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