Sakripisyo, the greatest form of love nga ba? | It's Showtime (May 20, 2024)
Aired (May 20, 2024): Ayon kay Dorothy, hiniwalayan niya si Dominic dahil sa napapansin niyang nauubos na ang oras nila sa isa’t-isa. Kaya naman nagpadesisyunan niyang hiwalayan ito dahil sa natitirang pagmamahal niya para kay Dominic at para hindi na sila magkasakitan pa. Panoorin ang video #GMANetwork
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00:00 Why did you split up?
00:02 Since he's a med student and I'm an architecture student,
00:06 both courses are very demanding with the time.
00:10 Although at first, it wasn't a problem.
00:12 We were able to do it.
00:14 That was our bonding before,
00:16 studying together, coffee shop dates, and stuff like that.
00:20 But he started working,
00:22 and he even joined OJT.
00:24 As my schedule progressed, it became tighter.
00:29 And then, until it became less,
00:31 we stopped talking.
00:33 If we talk, he might let us sleep.
00:35 The message was just "Goodnight".
00:37 Until we both felt that...
00:41 You're being pushed.
00:43 Symptoms.
00:45 We felt that the courses and our priorities
00:52 are getting into our relationship.
00:55 We felt that time is decreasing with each other.
01:00 And then, it led to the breakup.
01:03 Love.
01:05 Because there are times when it's not the top of your priorities,
01:10 but you're still in love with the person.
01:12 That's why you're so eager to see each other.
01:14 You want to finish all the work you're doing
01:16 so you can see each other.
01:18 You want to go to Bulacan, right, Alex?
01:20 Let's finish this storybook.
01:22 It's not the number one priority.
01:25 Because you're taking your time,
01:27 you're eating a lot, but you want to go home.
01:29 Let's hurry up.
01:31 Let's get out of here.
01:33 But if love is dying,
01:36 after you're stuck in your number one priority,
01:42 you feel tired.
01:44 You're tired of work.
01:47 Because if you're really in love,
01:49 you'll lose your motivation.
01:51 You're tired of thinking about how you'll see each other.
01:53 You're thinking about whether you're late,
01:55 whether he's eating,
01:57 what you're watching,
01:59 what you're doing.
02:00 You're thinking about whether you'll continue.
02:01 You're not thinking about the tired effect of your relationship.
02:04 So, the loss of love.
02:08 How did you talk about stopping this?
02:11 Just through DM.
02:12 Try it.
02:14 No, we talked about it in person.
02:17 He went to Intramuros,
02:20 and we were talking on the walls.
02:23 We didn't talk much.
02:26 The scene was so bad.
02:29 It was in Intramuros.
02:31 On the walls.
02:32 It was very historical.
02:35 The vibe was like,
02:39 you can feel that he's letting go.
02:42 What?
02:43 He's letting go.
02:44 Because the setting was romantic.
02:46 It was like a date, but it's over.
02:49 He's letting go.
02:50 Me?
02:51 Do you remember that February of this year,
02:55 do you remember the line you said to him when you let him go?
02:59 Yes.
03:00 I said to him,
03:02 "Can we still do this?"
03:04 Because,
03:07 it's true, if you really love someone,
03:09 you can do it.
03:11 But we're both very career-driven.
03:14 We have our priorities set straight.
03:18 The love is there.
03:20 It never went away.
03:22 It's just that we had to set it aside.
03:25 And then, he agreed with me.
03:28 He knows it.
03:29 He feels it.
03:30 That it's okay.
03:32 The love, but it's a different love.
03:34 It's not the same love anymore.
03:36 One of the greatest forms of love for me is that
03:40 love is sacrificial.
03:42 You really have to let go of some things.
03:48 You have to order.
03:50 You have to fix it.
03:51 Because if the person is really the one for you,
03:55 eventually, he'll come back.
03:57 He'll come back.
03:59 Do you believe so?
04:00 That the greatest form of love is sacrificing the love?
04:03 Is what you said true?
04:06 Did I quote you correctly?
04:08 What's the greatest form of love that you said?
04:10 Sacrificial in a way that...
04:12 There are many.
04:14 When you love someone...
04:16 You really have to sacrifice.
04:18 You have a lot of sacrifices in love.
04:20 But that means sacrificing the one you love.
04:23 I am sacrificing is different.
04:26 What I'm sacrificing is the person and our relationship.
04:30 And that's the greatest form of love.
04:32 Letting go even if you love him or her.
04:34 That's what happened to us.
04:36 No, no. What you said is the greatest form of love.
04:39 Sacrificial because...
04:41 When you love, you adjust.
04:43 The ones you've been believing for a long time.
04:46 Sometimes you have to change just to get in sync with your partner.
04:50 Or sacrifice, for example...
04:53 Like my mom.
04:58 She's working overseas.
05:00 So she sacrificed the time being with us in order to provide for us.
05:06 Those types of sacrifices.
05:08 I get that.
05:10 You sacrifice a lot of things.
05:12 But I will not sacrifice the person.
05:16 Even if you love him or her.
05:18 Even if it's hard.
05:19 But I will not sacrifice you.
05:21 That's the last thing I can think of.
05:23 I will sacrifice you.
05:25 But you won't let go.
05:26 And our relationship.
05:28 For me, the greatest form of love is fighting for it to the last moment.
05:37 Until the end.
05:39 Even if it's painful and hard.
05:43 Like in the Philippines, even if it's hard to fight, I will still choose and love you.
05:49 I think the adjustment that you need or the handling of the relationship.
06:00 Because at first, you were inspired.
06:04 Your love is an inspiration.
06:06 In your studies, you reached a point where you're toxic because you're busy.
06:11 Actually, it's not toxic.
06:12 It's not toxic.
06:13 It just grew.
06:15 Yes.
06:16 I mean, you don't have time.
06:18 You don't have time.
06:21 But of course, it's still up to you.
06:24 Maybe we'll just wait for it to end.
06:26 And after that, it's up to us again.
06:29 It's just a matter of talking.
06:30 And it takes a lot of courage.
06:33 Especially in court, for me.
06:35 You were tempted by someone.
06:38 And then you were tempted.
06:39 You need to be strong to say that you were tempted and you took it inside.
06:44 "Oh, I can't do it anymore."
06:46 Because if you were tempted, you're sure that you're tempted.
06:49 You fight for it to the end.
06:50 But if you were tempted, then...
06:52 It's like LDR.
06:54 Because you can't see each other anymore.
06:56 But if there's still understanding, maybe it's still safe.
07:00 But there's nothing wrong with your decision.
07:03 Because if you feel that it's healthy for the both of you.
07:06 And you're still studying.
07:07 Because that's right.
07:08 For me, if you're studying, that should be your priority.
07:11 If you're a child, your number one priority is to have a child.
07:15 With that, you should study well.
07:17 And that's after that.
07:19 Yeah.
07:20 Correct.
07:21 I'm proud of your decision.
07:22 I'm proud of it.
07:23 Thank you.
07:24 Thank you.
07:25 Thank you.
07:26 [Applause]
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