Xian Lim, nagsalita kaugnay sa kaniyang past relationship

GMA Integrated News

I don't want to be defined by what happened with my break up.  Sa muling pag-upo sa GMA Integrated News interviews ni Xian Lim kasama ang co-star niya sa pelikulang "Playtime" na si Sanya Lopez, eksklusibong ibinahagi ni Xian ang mga pinagdaanan matapos ang nagdaan niyang relasyon.  Breaking news and stories from the Philippines and abroad: GMA Integrated News Portal: http://www.gmanews.tv Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/gmanews TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gmanews Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/gmanews Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/gmanews   GMA Network Kapuso programs on GMA Pinoy TV: https://gmapinoytv.com/subscribe

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00:00Recently, I would answer this with all respect, when I really started working, and I'm giving

00:21this straight from the heart.

00:25When I started working, I've been really open with my personal life, and I don't hide it.

00:37I'm not someone who would lie on camera, or even to the people who, but I'm still dealing

00:53with so much trauma and stress with all this that's happening right now, with all the made-up

01:10news about me, and I really would like to keep my...

01:21Of course, I'm saying this with all respect.

01:24I would like to keep my personal life, especially in love, private, because it's just so hard.

01:35For 11, 12 years, that was an open book.

01:39I've seen everything. It was open, and now, the reactions, these things, the more you open up, it's painful.

02:00It's a very painful thing that happened, and that is still happening now.

02:07So, I'm taking this question, I'm taking this, whatever we call it, very delicately, because just to share,

02:23and I don't, sorry if I'm not, I'm just sharing.

02:28What you're feeling now is really valid.

02:30Explaining and sharing the best I can.

02:34I'm just giving a little context.

02:37I'm just giving a little on what I'm going through.

02:42Ever since we came out with a statement...

02:47We are talking about Kim.

02:48Yes.

02:49Ever since we came out with a statement, and we really did explain from the bottom of our hearts

02:56what really happened, we don't need to tell each other who was at fault,

03:03it's just like any other relationship, but this is open to the public.

03:09This is, you know, it came from us directly, why we decided to go our separate ways.

03:16And of course, I know the supporters that we've built for the past 12 years.

03:28We became a part of their lives now.

03:30So, I know they're hurting because we separated, because there is that promise of forever.

03:40Of course, who would want to be in a relationship...

03:43That if you think about it, you'll also separate at some point.

03:46No, of course not.

03:49Of course, it's not like that.

03:52My take in relationships is if you go in, you go all in.

03:57Because why else would you...

04:05Yes, it's a long time, but you know, we were working on the relationship.

04:12But it didn't turn out the way we wanted it to be.

04:19So, it's painful for us, and we know it's painful for them.

04:23But of course, for us, where it's coming from, it's also painful.

04:27So, that's a very painful thing.

04:29I understand that they're going through pain, but I do not deserve

04:37the false accusations, the lies being spread.

04:42Okay, I'll be their tenant, but not my family.

04:49Also, just giving a little context, my mother and my grandmother are getting personal messages.

04:58I'm getting death threats.

05:00My mom's getting death threats.

05:01It reached that point?

05:02Yes, it reached that point.

05:04That's why, and I just want everyone to know, if they're watching or they're listening,

05:12that's the gravity of our situation.

05:14Of course, they don't see it.

05:16What they only see, what they only believe is the latest showbiz intriga that's juicy.

05:25But why?

05:28Let's just rewind a bit.

05:31And people are saying, I'm very well aware of what's going on in the net.

05:42Do you read comments?

05:44Of course, I do.

05:45Of course, I do.

05:46Because I need to, I'm very passionate about what I'm doing.

05:54I'm here to, my goal is, I want to be able, the reason why I'm in this medium,

06:00the reason why I'm telling stories, the reason why I'm very serious with my craft,

06:06is I know the power when I'm watching someone.

06:09When I'm watching someone I look up to, I know that power.

06:16So, my goal is to motivate, to change people's lives through this medium,

06:21through the storytelling, through the characters I do.

06:24I know, this is just like a plate, but that's the respect I have.

06:30For this, my family does not deserve that.

06:32All that made up lies.

06:34So, I don't want to get in the way of others.

06:39The personal life, the love life.

06:45But right now, we would just like to be private and enjoy whatever we have.

06:54It's sad, very painful, but life goes on.

06:58I work really hard.

06:59We are all working really hard.

07:01I'm working so hard and I don't want to be defined by what happened with my breakup,

07:07with my previous relationship.

07:08I don't want to be defined by that.

07:10I don't want to be defined by what people are saying about me,

07:14these false headlines or whatever.

07:18It's so easy to make something up these days.

07:22That's true.

07:23Our industry is small.

07:24At some point, you'll bump into each other.

07:28Maybe you'll promote each other during the showtime.

07:32How would you deal with that?

07:33Because we ended in good terms.

07:37Of course, there were tears.

07:42We're people.

07:46We ended in good terms.

07:47And of course, we're in time to give ourselves a chance to work again.

07:55Why not?

07:58Why not?

07:59Why not?

08:00Why not?

08:01Why not?

08:02Why not?

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