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Chuyện Chưa Kể là nơi mà các khách mời chia sẻ những câu chuyện tình, những chuyện chưa được kể, những lời khó nói và mong muốn được tư vấn, giải tỏa tâm lí. Bạn có thể chia sẻ về cuộc sống hôn nhân (trước và sau khi kết hôn), câu chuyện hành trình tìm con của các bà mẹ bỉm sữa, các nạn nhân bị miệt thì, bạo lực gia đình, học đường, bị bạo lực mạng xã hội. Hoặc những câu chuyện để lại cho bạn một ấn tượng và rút ra được bài học cho mình. Đến với chương trình khi mình chia sẻ câu chuyện mình có thể chọn lộ diện mặt hoặc không đều được. Với sự dẫn dắt của tiến sĩ tâm lý Tô Nhi A, hy vọng "Chuyện Chưa Kể" có thể mang những câu chuyện 'Đặc biệt' tiếp cận gần đến quí vị khán giả.
Câu chuyện được Jacky - khách mời giấu mặt của chương trình mang đến khi sự việc đã diễn ra hơn 1 năm về trước. Khi Jacky và bạn trai quen nhau và Jacky đánh giá bạn trai mình cực "nice", cảm thấy được real love. Cho tới khi, bạn trai mời đi Vũng Tàu xả stress cùng 1 đám bạn của anh ta. Đêm đó bạn của bạn trai đề nghị "ngủ tập thể" và đó cũng là mục đích của chuyến đi này. Jacky ngỡ ngàng và khóc lóc từ chối. Vùng chạy khỏi căn phòng đó, cũng như bỏ chạy khỏi cuộc tình này dù còn nhiều tiếc nuối...
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00:00We were eating out in Vung Tau, buying seafood from the hotel to grill BBQ.
00:15When we were grilling BBQ, we also bought beer to drink in the hotel room.
00:20When we were full, there was a guy in the group, and his lover,
00:25he said, let's have a party.
00:37From my hotel to the beach, it's about 1.5 km.
00:40I was sitting there, and I cried.
00:43I cried so much, why there was such a perfect lover,
00:47who acted like that.
00:50I was very sad, I cried until almost dawn,
00:52I didn't go back to the hotel.
00:53He didn't contact me at that time.
00:56He was still in the group, he couldn't leave.
01:00He was more important than his lover.
01:08Welcome back to Ai Cung Co Chuyen.
01:12Now, let's talk about this week's story.
01:14Hello.
01:15Hello.
01:16How old are you?
01:18I'm 33 years old.
01:20Right now, the audience can't see your face.
01:23Why?
01:25Because this is a sensitive issue.
01:28I want to keep it confidential, just a story.
01:32Because I work in business,
01:34after this story, the customers will look at me with different eyes,
01:38I'm afraid of that.
01:39I don't know what story you will tell,
01:41but it has a fear.
01:44Yes.
01:45Does it?
01:46Yes, it does.
01:47Here, everyone's will is always respected.
01:50Now that you've covered your face,
01:52I don't think you dare to say your name.
01:54So now, what will you call your name
01:58to make it easier to talk to each other?
02:00I think I'll use a nickname that my friends often call me.
02:02Is it hide-and-seek?
02:04My friends often call me.
02:07It means that if I say this nickname,
02:09they will know.
02:11I think it's okay,
02:13because there are many people with this name.
02:14Because this name is popular,
02:15the English name is popular.
02:16I don't know.
02:17This is voluntary.
02:18So what's your name?
02:20My name is Jackie,
02:21because my friends often call me Jackie.
02:24Jackie.
02:25Okay, now,
02:26your story,
02:27if you have to say it openly,
02:30what keyword will you use to talk about your story?
02:34It's about my boyfriend.
02:38Is he your boyfriend?
02:39Yes, that's right.
02:40When you use the word boyfriend,
02:41it means that everyone will understand
02:43that you belong to the LGBT community.
02:46Yes.
02:47So how long ago did your story start?
02:50I told my story a year ago.
02:54A year ago.
02:55It means that this story is very new.
02:57Yes, about a year to a year and a half.
02:58But it happened at the end of 2022.
03:02At the beginning of 2023,
03:03it was around Christmas 2022.
03:07How long have you been dating him?
03:08I've been dating him for more than a year.
03:11In more than a year of dating,
03:12do you feel that your relationship with him is safe and polite?
03:20Yes, because when I dated him,
03:21I felt a sense of trust, safety,
03:24and it made me feel happy.
03:26So I decided to date him from then on.
03:29How did you two date?
03:31Did you know each other from a friend,
03:34a co-worker, a classmate,
03:36or from a dating app?
03:39I met him on the birthday of a co-worker.
03:44So you two started to contact and get to know each other.
03:48In the process of contacting and getting to know each other,
03:51how long did it take for you to meet each other?
03:58We usually meet each other in the evening
04:01or on weekends
04:03or on weekends,
04:04he can text me about 1-2 hours in advance.
04:07If I'm free, I'll go.
04:09Does it mean that you meet each other very often?
04:11About 2-3 times a week.
04:13That's normal.
04:14In a year, as I described,
04:17the intimacy of the two of you is quite a lot.
04:22It's not a long-distance love,
04:25regret,
04:27or sometimes you meet each other
04:29to say that you don't know anything about the other person, right?
04:32If you don't have a job, what do you do?
04:34He also works in the business sector.
04:37Why do I feel like a future mother-in-law?
04:41Let's continue.
04:42How did you feel about your friend at that time?
04:51When I met him,
04:53I found him to be a very perfect,
04:56complete and polite person.
04:58In terms of words and speech,
05:00he was also very polite.
05:02What did you like about him at that time?
05:05He understood me,
05:07took care of me,
05:08and made me happy.
05:10I like the example that
05:11when I say a sentence,
05:12they repeat it in their own way.
05:14It's not like when I say this story,
05:16they can say another story
05:18to make it more interesting.
05:20In general, I like that kind of person.
05:23It means that the person who understands you
05:25can catch the beat.
05:26That's right.
05:27It makes you feel like you are understood.
05:29Yes, that's right.
05:30When I say a sentence,
05:31that person will understand
05:32and say more.
05:34What do you think about his lifestyle
05:36and social interaction
05:38at that time?
05:40I only know about his life.
05:44His family is also quite fake.
05:47His parents also work in the business sector.
05:51I asked about his family, friends,
05:53and brothers and sisters.
05:55I didn't know much about his life.
05:58You mean you didn't know
06:00the details of his life.
06:02Yes, that's right.
06:03And this love lasted for more than a year.
06:06It only focused on the empathy
06:08of two people.
06:10Yes, that's right.
06:11But you were very satisfied.
06:12Yes, I was very satisfied.
06:13And then?
06:14We got to know each other
06:16at the end of the year.
06:18At Christmas,
06:19he asked me to go to Vung Tau.
06:23At that time, I thought
06:25it was just a normal trip.
06:27He told me that
06:28there would be a group of 5 girls
06:30who would go to Vung Tau with him.
06:33I thought it was normal
06:35to meet friends in Vung Tau.
06:37I didn't think about
06:38APC or anything else.
06:41Actually, I went to Vung Tau
06:42with him several times
06:43and it was the same.
06:45I didn't think about it.
06:47But this time it was different.
06:48He asked a group of friends
06:50to go to Vung Tau.
06:51We met and introduced each other.
06:52It was very fun and normal.
06:54These 8 friends
06:55have nothing to doubt.
06:58I didn't think about anything else.
07:00So when did it start
07:03to get out of hand?
07:07And what was that?
07:09It just appeared.
07:15We ate out in Vung Tau
07:17and bought seafood
07:18at the BBQ hotel.
07:20I thought it was normal.
07:21I didn't have anything to say.
07:22We also bought beer
07:24at the BBQ hotel.
07:25When we were full,
07:27there was a guy in the group
07:29and his girlfriend
07:30said that
07:31we should hold a party
07:33to get out of the house.
07:34A party to get out of the house.
07:35A party to get out of the house.
07:39I heard that
07:40and I thought what was that?
07:41I asked my girlfriend
07:43what was that
07:45and why did my friend
07:46ask me to do that?
07:49I told her that
07:50it was a group party.
07:51I was so confused.
07:52I didn't know what to do.
07:53I had never thought about it.
07:55It was so weird
07:57and I didn't know
07:59how I felt at that time.
08:00Let's stop here for a while.
08:02Let's talk about
08:03how you told your story.
08:05I want to ask you about
08:06your father first.
08:07How old were you at that time?
08:09I was about 29 years old.
08:1229 years old.
08:13Yes.
08:1429 years of your life
08:17with your knowledge
08:18about health,
08:19birth,
08:20and sex
08:21and your practical experience.
08:23Did you have that experience?
08:24Yes, I did.
08:25Yes, you did.
08:26Yes, I did.
08:27Except for this friend.
08:28I had that experience before.
08:29Yes, you did.
08:30Yes, I did.
08:31But it was
08:32normal.
08:33It was a simple story.
08:34Yes, it was.
08:35It was simple.
08:36Yes, it was.
08:37So you couldn't imagine
08:38what a group party
08:39was like.
08:40Yes, I couldn't.
08:41So you couldn't imagine
08:42what a group party was like.
08:43Yes, I couldn't.
08:44But have you ever heard about it?
08:46I haven't heard about it before.
08:47It's just a one-on-one.
08:48I haven't thought about it.
08:49Because I don't understand
08:50what other people need
08:51a lot about that.
08:52what other people need
08:53a lot about that.
08:54I'm not saying I need it.
08:55I'm not saying I need it.
08:56What I mean is
08:57I've heard about it before.
08:58Have you heard about it?
09:00I've never heard about it.
09:01That's the truth.
09:02When I was your age,
09:04I honestly
09:05never heard about it.
09:06So,
09:07you didn't understand
09:08anything that day?
09:09That's right.
09:10That's right.
09:11So, she asked me
09:13and suggested me
09:15about that issue, so I found it very strange.
09:19So I asked that friend again,
09:22what's wrong with you?
09:23What do you think about what your friend said?
09:25He just whispered in my ear,
09:28that we like to play together,
09:31so I want to join.
09:32The purpose of inviting me today
09:34is to let me play with your group.
09:36Oh my God, I was confused at that time.
09:38Why did you invite me to play like that
09:40without saying a word?
09:42I was angry.
09:43So I left without saying a word.
09:45I invited a group of friends,
09:47but I didn't know their age.
09:49And you were put in a situation,
09:51a situation,
09:53something almost happened.
09:55What time was that?
09:56At that time, we finished eating,
09:57it was about 11 o'clock.
09:59Night.
10:0011 o'clock, right.
10:01At that time,
10:03how many people were in your group?
10:05Including me.
10:07That group included you,
10:09including that brother and me.
10:11About 10 people.
10:13Because we rented a room,
10:15two bedrooms,
10:16one apartment, two bedrooms.
10:1710 people.
10:18So I thought that
10:20in the crowd,
10:21we would divide the money.
10:23That's right.
10:24But I didn't think of such a far-reaching purpose.
10:2710 people of your group
10:29are almost
10:31the same gender,
10:33biological gender,
10:34or both male and female,
10:36biological form.
10:37There are also female friends
10:39who participated.
10:41But during that time,
10:43these female friends
10:45returned to their rooms.
10:47Only the male friends
10:49stayed here.
10:50Because in the group,
10:51there were only two female friends,
10:53and 10 people,
10:54there were only two female friends
10:55and eight male friends,
10:56including me and that friend.
10:57Two female friends are the girlfriends
10:59of two male friends
11:01among these eight male friends.
11:03Or are those two female friends
11:05just two normal female friends
11:07who hang out with these eight male friends?
11:09As far as I know,
11:10I met them when I was eating.
11:12They were just friends.
11:14Because I didn't go into
11:16their private life.
11:17Because I just met them.
11:18After these two female friends
11:20returned to their rooms,
11:22something happened.
11:24A male friend suggested
11:26that he loved me,
11:28and asked me
11:30if I wanted to hang out like that.
11:32So he loved me,
11:34because when he dated me,
11:36he hid that problem very well.
11:38I didn't think that
11:40he was such a person.
11:42Who would have thought that
11:44he was such a person.
11:46I was very shocked and shocked
11:48about this love.
11:49What was the next step?
11:51He asked me to join.
11:53At that time, I said,
11:54I don't know
11:56how to deal with this problem.
11:58I don't hang out with these friends,
12:00why did he ask me to hang out like that?
12:02Now he gave me an explanation.
12:04He explained that
12:05he wanted to play a surprise game.
12:07And there was a new member
12:09of that group.
12:10So I was the new member of that group.
12:12Because I had never met
12:14anyone from that group.
12:15I said I didn't join.
12:17I said I didn't join.
12:18I just needed him.
12:19I didn't need to join that group.
12:21He didn't let me
12:23ask about that story.
12:25About that fight.
12:27I cried at that time.
12:29I just gave birth.
12:30I had never played this problem.
12:32I didn't want to play this problem.
12:34So I asked him
12:36not to let me join.
12:38At that time, everyone had
12:40a bottle of wine.
12:42I couldn't control myself.
12:44I pushed the door open.
12:46I ran out.
12:48At that time, you know what?
12:49I cried a lot.
12:50From my hotel to the beach,
12:52it was about 1.5 km.
12:54I sat there and cried.
12:56I cried so much.
12:58Why did such a perfect lover
13:00act like that?
13:02I was so sad.
13:04I cried until the morning.
13:05I didn't go back to the hotel.
13:06At that time, he didn't look for me
13:08and didn't contact me.
13:09Because he still joined his group.
13:11He couldn't leave.
13:13He valued his friend more than his lover.
13:16I didn't contact him.
13:18I wanted him to contact me.
13:20I rented a car outside.
13:22I went back to Saigon.
13:23In the morning that day.
13:24In the evening,
13:25he called me
13:28to ask why
13:30I didn't show up that day.
13:32Your stuff was still in the hotel.
13:34Yes.
13:35You went back to Ho Chi Minh City.
13:37What time did he call you
13:40for the first time?
13:41There was a car coming to Saigon at 7.
13:43I got there at 8.
13:47The car was close to Saigon.
13:48He didn't call me.
13:49I woke up in the morning.
13:51When he called you,
13:52was he apologizing
13:56or was he asking
13:58where you were
14:00and what you were doing?
14:02He wasn't apologizing.
14:04He was asking where I was
14:06and what I was doing.
14:07He was in a circle.
14:10When he was drinking beer,
14:12he liked it.
14:13He liked it at that time.
14:14If he cared about me,
14:15I would open the door
14:16and he would stop me
14:18and wouldn't let me go.
14:20He told his friend
14:21that he didn't care about me.
14:23He told me that
14:24I was sadder and angrier
14:26when I went to the beach.
14:28I don't think that
14:29he said that
14:30and I could get out of the door
14:32was my luck.
14:33The next morning,
14:35the effect of the stimulant
14:37was basically gone.
14:38He called me
14:40thinking
14:41where I was
14:43and why I wasn't back yet.
14:44It wasn't about the stimulant.
14:47It was about life.
14:49For him,
14:51being together,
14:53living together,
14:55playing the guitar
14:57was a normal experience.
14:59It wasn't about
15:00being in love
15:01or losing control.
15:03For him,
15:05it was normal.
15:07For me,
15:08it was not normal.
15:10For me,
15:11it was the reason
15:12why when we love someone,
15:14we have to find
15:15the similarity
15:16and value of both sides.
15:18We shouldn't leave
15:19the saying
15:20of the couple
15:21behind.
15:22When we understand
15:23the meaning of the saying,
15:24we can truly
15:25understand it.
15:26We don't understand
15:27the saying
15:28of the couple
15:29in the sense that
15:30the rich marry the rich
15:31and the rich
15:32marry the rich
15:33only for money.
15:34The couple
15:35has to understand
15:36the level of thinking,
15:37the family,
15:38the way of life,
15:39the values
15:40that both sides
15:41respect
15:42in raising children
15:44and in
15:45keeping them
15:46to build
15:47the life
15:48of the two families.
15:49For him,
15:50it was normal
15:51for him
15:52to lose control
15:53and lose himself.
15:54Yes.
15:55For me,
15:56it was not normal.
15:57Why did you two
15:58get together?
15:59I didn't know
16:00he was like that.
16:01It was normal
16:02for us
16:03to date.
16:04But he hid
16:05that issue
16:06very well.
16:07If I knew
16:08we broke up
16:09early,
16:10I wouldn't have
16:11dated him.
16:12I don't think
16:13he hid it.
16:14He didn't ask you
16:15to go to Vung Tau.
16:16To be honest,
16:17he knew
16:18he hated it.
16:19But why did he
16:20ask you
16:21to date him
16:22at that time?
16:23Before it happened,
16:24did you tell him
16:25you hated it?
16:26No,
16:27I didn't tell him.
16:28I just told him
16:29I dated him
16:30once.
16:31I didn't
16:32ask him out twice.
16:33You dated him
16:34once.
16:35Yes.
16:36You didn't like
16:37flirting.
16:38Yes.
16:39The concept of flirting
16:40is like this.
16:41You asked him out
16:42many times.
16:432, 4, 6
16:44you went with him.
16:45On Sunday,
16:46you went with him.
16:47Maybe he was
16:48the same.
16:49He didn't like
16:502, 4, 6
16:51you went with him.
16:523, 5, 7
16:53you went with him.
16:54On Sunday,
16:55you went with him.
16:56But he was
16:57the one
16:58you went with
16:59many times
17:00like the day
17:01you went to Vung Tau.
17:04Maybe
17:05with him
17:06all together,
17:07it didn't mean
17:08he loved
17:09many girls
17:10at the same time.
17:11So he didn't
17:12hide anything from you.
17:13He didn't hide
17:14anything from you.
17:15That's why
17:16he asked you
17:17to go to Vung Tau.
17:18He asked you
17:19to go to Vung Tau
17:20to do what?
17:21To be public
17:22with you.
17:23Thank you
17:24for getting out
17:25of that room
17:26that night.
17:27Thank you too.
17:28After that call,
17:29how was your relationship?
17:30Continue.
17:31I wanted to
17:32be alone.
17:33I wanted to
17:34be alone
17:35to think about
17:36this relationship.
17:37I told him
17:38like that.
17:39He came down
17:40and said
17:41I know you don't like
17:42that room.
17:43I was wrong.
17:44I thought
17:45you wanted
17:46that strange thing
17:47like that.
17:48I'm sorry
17:49and I hope
17:50you forgive me.
17:51And maybe
17:52we can
17:53continue our relationship.
17:54He told me
17:55like that.
17:56I didn't answer him.
17:57In the afternoon,
17:58I answered him
17:59to see
18:00if he loved me
18:01and cared about me
18:02and if he could
18:03text me all the time.
18:04He only texted
18:05one sentence.
18:06I didn't answer
18:07and he didn't answer.
18:08For many people
18:09when
18:10they have to
18:11text
18:12all the time
18:13to let
18:14other people
18:15answer
18:16one sentence.
18:17But this time
18:18I didn't answer
18:19and he didn't answer.
18:20I couldn't
18:21accept that.
18:22I said
18:23one sentence
18:24to give me
18:25time
18:26to think
18:27and think
18:28that it's not
18:29over yet.
18:30We still keep
18:31in touch
18:32but
18:33a little bit less.
18:34Like
18:35we became
18:36friends
18:37before we
18:38dated.
18:39To let him
18:40know his mistake
18:41he should
18:42keep
18:43this relationship.
18:44Everyday
18:45he texted me
18:46good night
18:47or
18:48wish me good luck.
18:49That's why
18:50I said that.
18:51Until now
18:52I don't
18:53date anyone
18:54because
18:55after that
18:56I don't
18:57trust anyone.
18:58So
18:59I consider him
19:00as a normal friend
19:01not a lover.
19:02If he offers
19:03to date again
19:04do you agree?
19:05If he offers
19:06to date again
19:07I have to
19:08think again.
19:09It's not
19:10that easy
19:11but
19:12I think
19:13I can
19:14accept it.
19:15What do you think?
19:16It's hard to
19:17deny
19:18because
19:19I know
19:20what he means.
19:21He will
19:22do something
19:23more shocking
19:24or more
19:25horrible
19:26so I can't
19:27accept that.
19:28So I think
19:29I should
19:30keep in touch
19:31with my friends
19:32to let
19:33time
19:34answer
19:35whether
19:36I can
19:37come back or not.
19:38Time
19:39is the most
19:40important thing.
19:41I have to
19:42answer
19:43the difference
19:44between me
19:45and him.
19:46I have to
19:47answer
19:48what I am
19:49afraid of
19:50and where
19:51my weakness
19:52is.
19:53Do you believe
19:54if
19:55I text you
19:56for 3 days
19:57with
19:58sweet words
19:59and
20:00asking questions
20:01more than
20:02usual
20:03on Wednesday
20:04and he
20:05asks me
20:06to help
20:07him
20:08with
20:09his
20:10illness
20:11I think
20:12if
20:13that
20:14case
20:15happens
20:16within
20:173 seconds
20:18it will
20:19happen.
20:20Do you
20:21know
20:22where
20:23your
20:24weakness
20:25is?
20:26That
20:27he will
20:28be
20:29honest
20:30and
20:31care
20:32about
20:33his
20:34illness
20:35when
20:36he
20:37asks
20:38you
20:39to
20:40help
20:41him
20:42with
20:43his
20:44illness.
20:45Do
20:46you
20:47know
20:48where
20:49your
20:50weakness
20:51is?
20:52That
20:53he will
20:54be
20:55honest
20:56and
20:57care
20:58about
20:59his
21:00illness
21:01when
21:02he
21:03asks
21:04you
21:05to
21:06help
21:07him
21:08with
21:09his
21:10illness.
21:11Do
21:12you
21:13know
21:14where
21:15your
21:16weakness
21:17is?
21:18That
21:19he
21:20will
21:21be
21:22honest
21:23and
21:24care
21:25about
21:26his
21:27illness
21:28when
21:29he
21:30asks
21:31you
21:32to
21:33help
21:34him
21:35with
21:36his
21:37illness.
21:38Do
21:39you
21:40know
21:41where
21:42your
21:43weakness
21:44is?
21:45That
21:46he
21:47will
21:48be
21:49honest
21:50and
21:51care
21:52about
21:53his
21:54illness
21:55when
21:56he
21:57asks
21:58you
21:59to
22:00help
22:01him
22:02with
22:03his
22:04first
22:05birthday.
22:06Do
22:07you
22:08know
22:09where
22:10your
22:11weakness
22:12is?
22:13That
22:14he
22:15will
22:16be
22:17honest
22:18and
22:19care
22:20about
22:21his
22:22illness
22:23when
22:24he
22:25asks
22:26you to
22:27help
22:28him with
22:29his
22:30first
22:31birthday.
22:32When you don't have self-confidence, you always depend on other people.
22:37You always have to rely on other people to feel at ease.
22:42And that makes you unable to break away from a toxic relationship.
22:45Maybe now you don't feel proud of yourself.
22:49Maybe you think you're not talented enough.
22:53Maybe you don't think you're beautiful enough.
22:56Maybe you don't think you make a lot of money.
22:59Sitting in front of you now is not a bad Jacky.
23:02You don't look bad, you don't look good.
23:06Do you have to ask someone for money to live?
23:08No, I don't.
23:09Because you're independent now.
23:11Did your parents do anything wrong to them?
23:14No, they didn't.
23:15You're self-reliant now.
23:16Then why don't you have self-confidence?
23:20Understand?
23:20Yes, I do.
23:22Besides this person,
23:23you have a lot of other people who are stronger mentally to connect with you.
23:29Besides love,
23:30I have a lot of things to do in this life.
23:33Suddenly, I feel like I don't have to rely on other people to feel at ease.
23:38I just need to rely on other people to feel at ease.
23:41After today, you try to limit that relationship.
23:46And focus on yourself more.
23:51Actually, I'm very grateful to you.
23:52When I was very clear in choosing a way to live,
23:57I said no to such an experience of love.
24:02Such a loss.
24:04First, the feeling of self-restraint was reduced.
24:08And the wonder of love in people is different from other things.
24:15In that place, people experience it.
24:18People feel that people love this life more.
24:21People love themselves more.
24:23People don't feel ashamed.
24:26Or feel that they are bad.
24:29And the second is infection.
24:31The infection factor comes from many reasons that medicine can prove.
24:35In the story, it is the activity of sex that leads to infertility.
24:39Only those two reasons are enough to tell us why we should say no.
24:45And I really support your determination in this matter.
24:49Why did you decide to share your story today?
24:52I want to share it to let everyone know that
24:55when we get to know a lover,
25:00we have to find out if they have that kind of personality or not.
25:05That is, the personality of a guitarist is to know right from the start.
25:08You need to be like me to establish a relationship.
25:12I have been in love for 1-2 years.
25:14I completely trust that person.
25:16And that person gave me such a life.
25:19I want to share this story to let everyone know.
25:24I want to share that I haven't had a relationship with my family yet.
25:28So I chose to hide my face to keep it a secret.
25:32I support you.
25:33We have the right to choose how we feel.
25:36When I'm not ready, I don't play big.
25:38Because there are many people behind me,
25:40and I'm the only one who's afraid.
25:42So we choose what's safe.
25:44It's not just the side.
25:46When I escaped that night,
25:48there were still signs of confidence.
25:52It was a little bit of my friend.
25:55The fact that he left me
25:57was also an image that showed that he had compassion.
26:03Because those 8 people, except for me, were 7 people.
26:07I couldn't escape.
26:08Well, it's like my destiny still has a bright spot.
26:13And not everyone is as lucky as you, young people.
26:17So I hope you will be very careful with your journey,
26:22with your relationships.
26:23Jackie shared this story.
26:25I don't know if you've been listening.
26:28We hope that we will not immediately
26:31fall into the prejudice that everyone will leave comments.
26:36LGBT is like that.
26:39We still want to say that
26:41this is a path that no matter what,
26:44you can still take.
26:46And I hope you understand that this is not the right thing.
26:49It is not an experience of youth.
26:53And the consequences can be with you for the rest of your life.
26:57Because it can be preserved by images.
27:00It can be past shadows.
27:03It comes back and appears.
27:06It destroys your future at some point
27:11that you can't get back in time.
27:13Not to mention the story of the destruction of honor,
27:17but it is also a danger to health at that time.
27:21And there are diseases that we can only talk about,
27:26but there is no other way to prevent it.
27:29So I hope you will be careful.
27:32And I hope that you will have certain feelings
27:36to guide your children.
27:38And now the time of the show is over.
27:41We say goodbye to each other.
27:43I wish you all a good night.
27:45See you next week.
28:01© transcript Emily Beynon
28:31© transcript Emily Beynon