What are Reasons for increasing divorce now a days!

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In today's society, the increasing rates of divorce can be attributed to several key factors. One significant reason is the shift in societal norms and values. As society becomes more accepting of divorce, the stigma that once surrounded it has diminished, making it a more viable option for unhappy couples. Additionally, the rise of individualism means that personal fulfillment and happiness are often prioritized over the commitment to stay in a marriage.

Economic independence, particularly among women, has also played a crucial role. With more women in the workforce and financially self-sufficient, the reliance on marriage for economic stability has decreased, giving individuals the freedom to leave unsatisfying relationships. Furthermore, the increasing awareness and intolerance of abusive or toxic relationships have empowered people to seek healthier environments.

Technology and social media have also impacted relationships, sometimes creating unrealistic expectations and opportunities for infidelity. Communication breakdowns, lack of compatibility, and differences in life goals further contribute to marital dissatisfaction. The fast-paced, stress-filled modern lifestyle can exacerbate these issues, leaving couples with less time and energy to resolve conflicts.

Ultimately, the reasons for the rise in divorce rates are complex and multifaceted, reflecting broader changes in societal attitudes, economic conditions, and personal expectations.

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00:00Why do divorces happen?
00:23Let's see Perfection, a master's student in Gudrunwala divorces her educated, loving
00:27husband in a van driver's chakra.
00:30These are the words of Sessions Court, not mine.
00:33You will be surprised that 75,000 divorce cases have been registered from 2005 to 2008
00:39in this Gudrunwala city alone.
00:42According to a news report, there were 12,913 cases of eviction in just 10 months.
00:48Only in the month of September, 2,385 eviction cases were reported in Gudrunwala city.
00:55You can judge the true love of our life or death generation by the fact that in 2017
01:00there were 5,000 divorce cases out of which 3,000 were love marriages.
01:04An average of 150 divorces are registered daily in the second-largest and most educated
01:09city of Pakistan.
01:11This is just one grain of the pot.
01:14The average rate of divorce in Arab countries has exceeded that of many European countries.
01:19There is no denying that in many of these cases, the attitude of the in-laws towards
01:23the girl and the husband's lack of respect for the wife are also the real reasons, but
01:27you go to any derelicta and there are hundreds of letters on a weekly basis that men, not
01:31women, write and ask that our wife has fallen in love with someone else.
01:35She is asking me for divorce.
01:38I also have small children or children.
01:41Tell me what to do.
01:43The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, Divorce is the most displeasing of all
01:47lawful deeds to Allah.
01:49A religious scholar said well, this nation is ready to die for Islam.
01:53But it is not ready to live for Islam.
01:56You should study the Quran from Surah Al-Baqarah to Walnaz.
02:00You will not get the details of one of the duties of prayer, fasting, hajj, zakat.
02:05You will not even see what is the method of prayer.
02:09You will not even know the praises of these prayers.
02:12But marriage, divorce, separation, marriage, matrimonial affairs, husband and wife relations,
02:17domestic violence, more or less disagreements.
02:21You will find everything in this most holy book of Allah, which we and you they keep
02:25kissing.
02:26You must admit that intolerance is the main reason for divorce and divorce in our society.
02:32Remember that a good and healthy family is not made by a good man but by a good woman.
02:37When the religion comes to the man of the house, it is as if it comes to the threshold
02:40of the house, but if the religion comes to the woman of the house, then the religion
02:44goes to her for seven generations.
02:47Sacrifice, self-sacrifice, kindness, mercy, forgiveness, love and respect are mentioned
02:52in the dictionary of Islam and Quran.
02:55The endless desires of women have also turned the society into a hell.
02:59Electronic media has created an idol like Shah Rukh Khan in the hearts of even girls
03:03living in goth villages and slums.
03:06Love marriages are usually the result of a few dates, a few movies and a few gifts.
03:12Girls and boys think that the rest of our life will also be spent as shown in the movies,
03:16but the story after marriage is never shown in the movies.
03:19It is feared that the film will flop.
03:22Ingratitude is also the biggest factor in the destruction of domestic life.
03:26Be it less or more, get it or not get it or never get less, still be grateful to your
03:31husband in any situation.
03:33The biggest disaster has been caused by this WhatsApp and Facebook social media.
03:38Earlier, when girls were angry or angry, they had no means of access to parents and other
03:43people.
03:44The husband would come home in the evening, hold his wife's hand and say four words of
03:48love, sometimes take her to eat ice cream.
03:51And sometimes on the pretext of taking a walk, they would get together for a while and in
03:55this way the anger and grievances of the whole day would be resolved.
03:59But the anger did not come here and it did not reach all the family members on WhatsApp.
04:04Here Madam Sahiba's moat off happened and the status was uploaded on Facebook.
04:09Here Madam Sahiba's moat off happened and the status was uploaded on Facebook.
04:14And after that, the magic of social media blooms that the whole family is destroyed
04:18or the result is suicide.
04:21Mothers explain to the girls that God.
04:23Don't compare your husband with your fathers.
04:26Your husband may not be able to give you all that you had in your father's house.
04:31But remember that 50, 60 years of your father's life have passed in the tourism of this desert
04:36and your husband has just stepped into this desert.
04:39You will get everything in God willing, you will get better than your mother, even if
04:42you don't get it, make a habit of gratitude and you will surely get peace and satisfaction.
04:48Wives should learn to praise their husbands and husbands should learn to respect their
04:51wives on small things.
04:53Make forgiveness a habit in life.
04:56For the sake of God, make it a habit to prepare and live for your husband more than outsiders.
05:01To show the whole world, make up well, but don't do it shaking your head for your husband.
05:07God also needs your attention five times to express love.
05:10We are human beings, express love as often as possible, sometimes even by giving gifts.
05:16The first thing that will be weighed in the scales on the day of resurrection will be
05:19the behavior of husband to wife and wife to husband.
05:23Remember!
05:25A man has the same position in the house as the head of the government in the state.
05:29If instead of improving the state, you are always willing to rebel against the head,
05:34then it will be difficult for the state to survive.
05:37Learn to give the same respect and status to whomever Allah has given, whether you are
05:41a man or a woman.
05:43An ideal home creates an ideal family and a healthy society comes from an ideal family
05:47and this is the origin of Islam and other religions.
05:51Thanks to watch.

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