MEGAN is a single mom to daughters, Allie, 10, and Ariana, 2, but the way that she makes money has been met with mixed reactions. The OnlyFans creator explained: "I've had scenarios at the school where the moms weren't very nice to me. I'm mom-shamed and they make me feel as if I'm doing something wrong and I'm a bad parent." Online, things are just as bad, with Megan explaining: "This comment says 'sad, no self-respect'. I think when I'm not having a great day then sometimes it can get to me." Megan's spicy career also caused a stir among loved-ones and today, she'll be speaking with her stepdad, William, to see what he thinks about her job. Despite the judgement, Megan remains unfazed by it all. She concluded: "I can be at home and with my kids all the time. I can pretty much make quadruple the amount of money that I would make working nine to five. I feel like I'm the best mom I could possibly be due to all of this."
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00:00I'm Megan and I'm a proud single mum who makes spicy content for a living.
00:07I've had kind of scenarios at school where the mums weren't very nice to me,
00:12make me feel as if I'm doing something wrong and that I'm a bad parent.
00:15So this comment says,
00:17I feel sorry for your kids.
00:19Desperate attention seeker.
00:21What did you think when I first told you about my job?
00:24Were you shocked?
00:25Ah!
00:27I have two beautiful daughters.
00:31Ariana is two years old and Ali is ten years old.
00:35So I was already an exotic dancer in the clubs
00:39and when lockdown happened,
00:41it just kind of made sense to move my profession online.
00:45I can be at home, I can be flexible,
00:48I can be with my kids all the time.
00:50Woohoo!
00:52You okay?
00:54And I can make pretty much quadruple the amount of money
00:57that I would make working a nine-to-five.
00:59Whoa!
01:01That's good, Ariana!
01:02Like, more.
01:03More?
01:05So it was just a no-brainer for me.
01:07Yeah, we can make cupcakes once we've had a snack, okay?
01:10Right, I'll make you something to eat, girls.
01:12When people find out what I do for a living,
01:15I usually get mixed reactions.
01:17I've had kind of scenarios at school where the mums weren't very nice to me,
01:23they were really, really mean, actually.
01:25Kind of mum-shamed me and made me feel as if I'm doing something wrong
01:29and that I'm a bad parent when I know I'm not a bad parent.
01:33These look really good, Ali.
01:35These look really juicy.
01:37That's your favourite, isn't it?
01:39Yeah.
01:40I'm an excellent mother and I'm just doing what everyone else is doing,
01:44to put food on the table and provide for their families.
01:48Mummy.
01:49You want to come and help mummy?
01:50Yeah?
01:51And then I've had other people who have been so supportive.
01:54They understand the reasons why I'm doing what I'm doing.
01:58Oh!
02:02Are you sticking your fingers in there already?
02:04People have got to eat out there.
02:05I worked in retail when I left school and it was just absolute pennies,
02:11whereas now I've been on amazing holidays,
02:15I've done amazing things with my kids.
02:17If it wasn't for this job,
02:18I would never have had the life experiences that I have now.
02:22So I'm just making the girls a snack just now,
02:25so they can go and play with their toys
02:27and then I can go upstairs and do some work, do some adult content.
02:32Ali, my oldest daughter, she knows what I do.
02:35I feel like she's at an age just now where I can be honest
02:39and tell her what's going on.
02:40She asked me the question herself,
02:42would I be okay with her doing that,
02:45if that's a decision she wanted to make when she was older?
02:48And absolutely, I know for a fact that what I do for a living,
02:52I'm safe, it's legal, it's a good way of earning money.
02:57Girls, are yous hungry?
03:03Thank you, darling.
03:04Right, darling, you go and have some fun with Ali
03:06and mummy's going to head upstairs, okay?
03:11Okay, so now I'm going to show you where the magic really happens.
03:16Come and step up in my office.
03:19I've got here some role play.
03:22Got my police outfit here with my little handcuffs.
03:27Little kink, love this.
03:28My subscribers definitely love this too.
03:30And then I have more typical glamour, colourful lingerie.
03:34Some cosplay stuff for my little geeks and nerds, which I love.
03:41And my favourite, the dom.
03:44I am a little bossy b**** in real life as well as my online stuff.
03:49A couple of years ago, when I was obviously making a lot of money
03:53and it was all new to me, I definitely did splash out on myself.
03:57So I wore this beautiful gown.
04:01I took this to Dubai.
04:02It's just absolutely stunning, elegant.
04:04Yeah, I bought these beautiful heels that I actually have only worn twice,
04:09which cost me a lot of money.
04:11I definitely have cut back on all this kind of stuff
04:14and I would rather spend the money on life experiences.
04:17Why would I pay £500-£600 on a pair of shoes
04:19when I could take my kids on holiday for that amount of money?
04:22So yeah, definitely not materialistic now,
04:26but that was my toxic trait when I first started.
04:33The real reason why I do it is for the time of my kids.
04:36You can always make money, but you can't always get time.
04:39And that time is so precious for your kids,
04:41especially when they're so young.
04:43I don't want to miss when it comes to them.
04:47So subscribers can change all the time.
04:49Right now, I'm sitting at maybe about 2,000.
04:52Yeah, it just fluctuates all the time.
04:54You can have better weeks than others, so...
04:58So comments that I have received online, which are not very nice,
05:04have been,
05:05I feel sorry for your kids.
05:07Desperate attention seeker.
05:10Yikes.
05:12Sad. No self-respect.
05:14Do you know what's funny?
05:15Because see the people that comment stuff like this?
05:18They're actually the ones who subscribe to you.
05:20Majority of the time, I do laugh it off and it just goes over my head.
05:24But when I'm not having a great day, then sometimes it can get to me.
05:28I have daddy issues.
05:31And imagine that was your mum.
05:34When, do you know what?
05:35Ironically, my kids love the bones of me
05:39and they are so proud of their mum
05:41and they're so happy that I am their mum.
05:44My oldest girl, Ally, she has had
05:47kind of like sly comments to her at school
05:50and some of the kids have been quite mean to her
05:53and obviously trying to make her feel rubbish that I do what I do.
05:58But now, again, it goes over her head.
06:00She doesn't care.
06:00She tells me she loves me.
06:02She says I'm beautiful and she says she's proud of me.
06:04So, that's all that matters.
06:09Hi.
06:09Hi, Dana. How are you?
06:10Good, good to see you.
06:12Hi.
06:13So good to see you. Are you saying hi?
06:15My name is Willie.
06:16I've been friends with Megan for about 10 years
06:18and she's kind of like a daughter to me.
06:21I was really nervous to tell my family
06:23that I'm now obviously doing adult content.
06:26They were kind of concerned that, you know, it's online.
06:29It might not go away.
06:31So, what did you think when I first told you about my job?
06:34Were you shocked?
06:35Aye.
06:36When I told you?
06:38A wee bit, because you can be quite shy at times.
06:41So, I was a bit shocked that you'd put yourself out there,
06:43but not morally shocked that you were doing something like that.
06:46To be honest, first of all, I wasn't 100% sure what it was,
06:50being an IT dinosaur.
06:52But do you know what? I thought, good on you.
06:55And I know you'll make a success of it,
06:57because I know you're a hand worker.
06:59So, I was just proud of going out
07:01and trying to make a better life for you and the girls.
07:04Has anyone you know reacted negatively to what I do?
07:10Actually, no.
07:12I have to be honest.
07:13Once I kind of spoke to them and said,
07:15look, this is what I want to do.
07:16I'm a grown adult.
07:18They came round and it was fine, it was fine.
07:20How do you deal with your judgement?
07:22To begin with, I used to feel a little bit upset.
07:25But now, realising that obviously in this industry,
07:28you need to have a thick skin,
07:30it just kind of goes over my head now.
07:32Do you know, I think when people are so opinionated,
07:35it just kind of reflects on them
07:37and what's going on in their life.
07:39Like, at the end of the day, I'm safe.
07:40My kids are safe.
07:41My job is, it's legal.
07:44I'm not doing anything wrong.
07:46Yeah.
07:49I have been worried that potentially
07:51when the girls are older, that they might see things
07:54that obviously they wouldn't want to see
07:55and I wouldn't want them to see either.
07:57Ah, smart.
08:00This is just a conversation I need to have
08:02with my children.
08:03I don't think they'd have any problems.
08:04If that did happen, obviously, fingers crossed it doesn't.
08:10What I love about this job is the flexibility
08:13that it gives you, the financial freedom that it gives you.
08:17We are very, very proud of her.
08:18She's found a way to make money
08:20that gives her the flexibility to still be a very,
08:23very full-time mum with those two.
08:25She's got her hands full and she works very hard.
08:27My whole life and income has changed dramatically.
08:31I feel like I'm the best mum I could possibly be
08:34due to all of this.