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00:00At that time, in your story, it's like you were the one who was followed in your life.

00:04Yes.

00:04It's like you had no guard there.

00:06At 15 years.

00:06Because you're a minor and you're already a dead man, even if they offered you to join them, you didn't want to.

00:13Yes, I'm also the one who really didn't want to.

00:17I want to be with that family, I want to be with them all the time.

00:21That's it.

00:22Okay, so your partner, did you reach, you're not a minor anymore, you're already 28?

00:27Yes.

00:28What are your plans for that?

00:30A lot, especially when we were already working, we wanted to achieve a lot.

00:36But when, of course, when we were just starting, we prioritized saving.

00:44Because when we were young, we didn't have money yet, just allowance.

00:49When we eat out, that's a big thing for us.

00:53When we go to other places.

00:56Okay, here's a question.

00:58At that time, of course, you're a minor, right?

01:00I was thinking about that earlier.

01:02What was running through your mind at that time?

01:04That you're a minor and you're going to be with the guy, your first boyfriend.

01:09What was running through your mind?

01:10What was your concept of the relationship at that time?

01:15What were your expectations of the relationship?

01:17What were your fears as a young woman entering that situation?

01:23Actually, when we got divorced, I talked to her mother before everything was settled.

01:32She told me that it's okay that we have a relationship,

01:36as long as I love my woman.

01:39It should be my priority.

01:44It shouldn't be just pure love.

01:47That's why I stayed there.

01:49What's in my mind is that I'm happy with them.

01:52I'm happy that I have someone to be with.

01:55Someone to take care of me.

01:58Someone to cook for me.

02:00Someone to teach me how to do the housework.

02:03I learned a lot.

02:05But at that time, weren't you aware that it's too early for you to be together?

02:15No, I wasn't aware of it.

02:18I don't know why.

02:21We just wanted to be together.

02:24Even if we're not doing anything, even if we're just lying down,

02:28even if we're just watching TV.

02:29As long as we're together, that's what's important to us.

02:32So at that time, you just thought that you love each other.

02:34Yes.

02:35For example, Cheng, you're getting old, right?

02:37You already have your own child.

02:39He's already 15 years old.

02:41Then he told you that he wants to live with you.

02:46Will you allow him?

02:47He's with his boyfriend.

02:48He's with his boyfriend.

02:49To be honest, of course not.

02:52Not really.

02:53Actually, I thought about it.

02:55But I was already old when I thought about it.

02:57But there's a reason why.

03:00I feel like there's a reason why we're so eager to be together at that age.

03:07I know there's a reason.

03:08So you won't allow him?

03:10No.

03:11But if he told you,

03:12Why did you do it before?

03:15Why can't I do it?

03:18I can't explain because I'm not in that situation.

03:22But I will try my best.

03:24Even if I can't allow it,

03:27I can find a way to make him feel better.

03:31So that he won't think about it.

03:33That's it.

03:34I feel like at that point,

03:40he's looking for a family.

03:43You're not with him at home.

03:45You don't have a mother.

03:47And your boyfriend's mother gave birth to you.

03:50Right?

03:51She's also your mother.

03:52She's his daughter.

03:53You saw her.

03:54Oh, your mother.

03:55Your siblings are not with you.

03:57He has siblings who are okay with you.

04:00And they consider you as their family.

04:03That's why I feel like he has a sense of family.

04:07Right?

04:08Even if he's not entertaining you.

04:12This is just based on my opinion on your story.

04:16He doesn't think if I'm still a kid or not.

04:21This is my home.

04:22Right?

04:23Yes.

04:24This is my home.

04:25This is like my family.

04:26That's why I want to be with them.

04:28Yes.

04:29It's not solely,

04:31or the main reason is the boyfriend, girlfriend.

04:35No.

04:36He wants to stay there,

04:37not just because of his boyfriend.

04:39He wants to stay there because of his mother,

04:41his siblings,

04:42his family,

04:43the love that I feel,

04:45the care that they give me.

04:48Aside from that,

04:49there are a lot of bonuses.

04:50He started the relationship as a boyfriend-girlfriend.

04:53There are a lot of bonuses.

04:54You have a mother,

04:55you have a sibling,

04:56you have a house,

04:57you have a companion in life.

04:58Yes.

05:00And based on what he explained,

05:01he's happy there.

05:02Yes, he's happy.

05:03He's really happy.

05:04He knows the feeling that

05:06he's happy to hear that you're being scolded.

05:10There.

05:11He's looking for his family.

05:12Right?

05:13That's why maybe,

05:14because of course,

05:15the viewers might say,

05:16there,

05:17you're romanticizing the child

05:19who's already living in.

05:20No.

05:21We do not encourage that.

05:23We don't encourage and tell the children

05:25that it's okay.

05:26You can live in.

05:27You can join your boyfriends.

05:29You can follow your parents.

05:30We don't give that kind of message to the viewers.

05:33But in that case,

05:34when we hear the story,

05:35we're trying to understand

05:37where the people are coming from.

05:39We're trying to listen with them.

05:41We will try to listen to them with empathy.

05:44Right?

05:45And compassion.

05:46For example,

05:47you went through a situation like that,

05:49where you don't have a family.

05:51You don't feel like you have a family.

05:54There's a family that supports you

05:55and makes you feel this way.

05:57Don't you think about it

06:01or consider the idea that

06:03I should make them my family too.

06:06Because all of us,

06:07aside from our real family,

06:09we're looking for a family in another person,

06:12in another house,

06:13in another place.

06:16In the farthest place.

06:19Even if we're not blood relatives,

06:20we're not neighbors.

06:21Because sometimes,

06:22our real family members

06:23we don't feel like a family.

06:25Our neighbors,

06:27we don't feel like we're close to each other.

06:30But the people who are far away,

06:32whatever the distance,

06:33they connect with us.

06:35And it gives us that strong sense of family.

06:38I feel that's what happened to you.

06:40Yes.

06:41Maybe you got the words

06:44that I wanted to say.

06:46That's why you said earlier

06:47that you want to be open to other people.

06:49Yes.

06:50Like that.

06:51Because she's not with us

06:52that we can open ourselves.

06:54Yes.

06:56So, get it.

06:57Okay.

06:58Let the sparks fly,

07:00higher!

07:01This is the best summer

07:03we're ever gonna have.

07:04This is the talk show for the Bisaya,

07:06and the Bisaya at heart.

07:28You

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