Aired (June 27, 2024): Bakit hindi na kailangan pang sabihin ni Rafael Rosell ang salitang “I love you” sa kanyang non-showbiz partner? Alamin sa video.
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00:00Okay, I still remember, Rafael, the last time I spoke to you many, many years ago, I asked
00:10you how you were doing because a lot of your friends were getting married, right?
00:13Yeah, that's true.
00:14I mean, everybody was getting married.
00:15So I said, how are you doing?
00:17Is marriage something that you're thinking?
00:19And you actually said yes.
00:20Yeah, yeah, marriage was something I was thinking back then.
00:22During that time.
00:23During that time.
00:24But I ask you today, yes or no, are you married?
00:27Yes.
00:28You are married.
00:30Thank you.
00:31It's a tough job.
00:32It's a tough job.
00:33Tough.
00:34Tough.
00:35It's something we decided in 2020.
00:36We signed the papers just between us in April 2020.
00:39Quiet.
00:40Yeah, very quiet.
00:41And that's our favorite number, really.
00:43Yes, just the two of you.
00:45And then, but you have a different dynamic.
00:48Yeah, we have a different dynamic.
00:50You and your wife, yes.
00:52What I said before was that it used to be so easy for me to just let go of the I love
00:58you, three words, to my partners.
01:01But here, in our relationship now, it's hard to say what you really feel.
01:08Like when you feel something so intense, it's hard to say it in real life because it's so
01:12real.
01:13So between us, we don't usually just say I love you.
01:17It's like I already know without her saying it.
01:20That's interesting.
01:21It's very interesting.
01:22It's a weird dynamic.
01:23She doesn't say I love you either.
01:24Me naman, ang aking pananaw, I encourage my niece and my nephew to be very verbal, to
01:30be very vocal about it.
01:31Dahil sa amin, hindi kami nasanay mag nanay, tatay, I love you.
01:35So I encourage them, mag I love you kayo, e-articulate nyo yan, etc.
01:39But I'm hearing a different story, which is quite interesting.
01:42Yeah, kasi sa amin, nabanggit namin at least once or twice.
01:46Pero alam mo yung nakakahiya.
01:49Talaga?
01:50But are you guys expressive to each other?
01:53We're very expressive.
01:54We're very malambing.
01:55And deep inside, we barely have to express it.
01:58We know na kasi.
01:59So it's weird.
02:00And you were talking about your hashtags?
02:02Yeah, yeah.
02:03Kasi dati nung na-inlove ako, it used to be like, yay, I'm in love.
02:07Such a great feeling.
02:08That's what boys usually do.
02:10That's what we usually feel.
02:11A lot of boys.
02:12I mean, not all.
02:13Yeah.
02:14Pero when I realized I was in love with her, it was like, oh no.
02:17Guys, I think I'm in love.
02:19This is gonna be hassle.
02:20Alam ko na isa sacrifice ko, yung kaligayahan ko para sa kanya.
02:24Yung mga kagustuhan ko, alam ko na mas ibibigay ko sa kanya.
02:27So, mas hassle talaga.
02:29Kasi, wala, love mo na.
02:31So you say hashtag hassle.
02:33Kaya hashtag ko is, hassle ka, leche ka.
02:36Kasi got my heart.
02:37Wala akong magawa.
02:38Love is such a difficult force to fight against.
02:41Alam mo yun.
02:42When you want to give something, when you want to give your whole heart,
02:45it's so tough not to do it when you're in love.
02:47And I somehow understand when you say na, napakahirap, no?
02:51Napakahirap sabihin yung totoo na this time.
02:54Yeah.
02:55What made you decide that I'm gonna get married?
02:59And that was on the onset of COVID.
03:01Yeah, yeah.
03:02It was on the onset of COVID.
03:03We wanted 4-20-2020 since that's a special date and special number for us.
03:08Nagkataon lang talaga na nag-COVID at pandemic yung time nayon.
03:11But we decided to still push through all the way up till April.
03:16Naka-on pa rin yung wedding invitations until we decided mid-April to cancel na talaga.
03:22Kasi naka-mask na lahat.
03:24Extreme lockdown.
03:25Hindi na namin tinalo yung ceremony but the signing of the papers.
03:29Yeah.
03:30But are you still planning to do the ceremony?
03:32Yeah, yeah, eventually.
03:33Kasi narealize din namin na yung ceremony is for everyone.
03:36For us, we're happy the way it is talaga.
03:39So, I think we owe them pakain.
03:42Pero ang sarap lang because of that last conversation.
03:46We're doing this conversation.
03:47It's a different stage of your life.
03:48It's a different stage.
03:49And that you're doing Widow's War.
04:15Thank you.