Charlotte Stokely interview / Podcast
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00:00Welcome back everybody to the show. Today I have the absolutely gorgeous Charlotte Stoke-Leon
00:28who's looking as fabulous as ever. How are you?
00:32Hi, Holly. Thanks for having me on your wonderful podcast.
00:35Thank you.
00:36I listen to it all the time. I think you're amazing.
00:39Really?
00:40Yes. You're fantastic.
00:41Thank you.
00:42You know, I got to say, I loved how you, I love, first of all, I loved all the PR that
00:48came out about the show and your PR guy, whoever wrote the article, that he said it was the
00:56number one adult industry podcast. I was like, hmm. I'm like, okay, I'll take that.
01:01I was like, thank you very much. And then he said something else really like flattering
01:06about me and I was like, hmm, I should have this guy write stuff for me too.
01:09Yeah, you totally should.
01:10It was awesome. I also love to, like I can always kind of tell how popular a guest is
01:17just by the anticipation about them coming on the show. Like so many of your, you know,
01:21so many of your fans and everybody on Twitter was just like so excited that you were coming
01:24on the show. Like, oh my God, I can't believe Charlotte's gonna be on. I can't wait. I can't
01:28wait. So there's like been a lot of buzz about you coming on, which is, which is great.
01:32That's fantastic. Yeah. Without the fans, I'm no one, so. Thanks guys and girls.
01:37Do you interact with your fans like a lot, do you feel?
01:4024-7.
01:41Yeah.
01:42I'm always constantly in contact with fans, whether it's through social media, DMs, emails.
01:48So you actually answer your DMs?
01:51Oh yeah. Oh yeah. And every time someone tweets at me or posts on my Instagram, I be sure
01:57to like it. I don't always respond, but I let them know like, I've seen it. I appreciate
02:02you taking the time. I acknowledge you. I see you and I love you. And I love that it's
02:07like a little heart when you favorite it too. So it's just like you're spreading love around
02:11everywhere you go and it's just great.
02:14You're always a very positive person. That's what I like about you. You know, you don't,
02:17you know, cause you see some people get on social media and they complain a lot or they,
02:22they bitch about this, they bitch about that. They call this person out and it just, I don't
02:25know. Sometimes like Twitter can just be a very negative place. And I feel like that
02:30like negativity begets negativity. And I feel like a lot of those people that complain about
02:35their haters and the trolls online are the kinds of people that spew a lot of negativity
02:39in the first place. Do you find that you, do you get a lot of trolls or do you find
02:43that most people are pretty positive towards you on social media?
02:46I don't react to negativity unless I feel like someone's going to hurt themselves. Then
02:51I'll go cross the boundaries and do everything I can to talk to them. But I really don't,
02:57I don't react to the trolls because if you ignore them, they will go away. They really
03:01will. You know, you just block, delete, block, delete. Sometimes I don't even block them.
03:05I just, cause that alone is paying attention to them. They're like, Ooh, she blocked me.
03:09Now I'm going to make 12 more accounts and I'm going to harass the shit out of her. So
03:13I just don't respond to it. And also I'm given the chance to pick the ladies I want
03:18to have sex with in a lot of my scenes. And before I put them on the list, I actually
03:23have a list in my phone and notes. It's titled bitches I'd love to fuck. I don't call them
03:29bitches, but you know, it's just like a little internal pimp, you know, toot my horn. And
03:36if I see negativity on their Twitter, I won't request them.
03:41I feel like a lot of girls don't recognize that. Like, especially like for me as a producer,
03:46because you know, obviously I'm looking at girls as well and I'm looking at, you know,
03:51what they might post or what they might say. And I feel like girls don't really realize
03:55that when they're going on social media and they're complaining a lot and they're being
03:58really negative or they're calling this person out or that person out, that reflects badly
04:03on you professionally as well. And that makes people consider whether or not they want to
04:06hire you for something or work with you. Because if I see you on Twitter, like constantly complaining,
04:12what are you going to be like on set? You know, what are you going to be like when the
04:16day goes longer than expected? We run into production issues. I mean, like stuff like
04:21that kind of happens. Like, am I going to have this sour faced person on set being like,
04:26when are we going to go home? When is this shoot going to be over? When are we going
04:29to be out of here? I have a party to go to. I have a concert to go to.
04:33My dad owns a dealership.
04:35Yeah, those kinds of things. Like I think about those kinds of things. And I think a
04:40lot of like younger people today like don't recognize how much social media reflects on
04:45you in all aspects.
04:47Yeah, it is an interesting thing to perceive how, you know, young people have so much access
04:55to being online and, you know, just documenting everything they do online where, you know,
05:01when we were growing up, you know, we learned and we eased into it slowly as it developed
05:06and it's just a different time, I think. But as for, you know, back to the negativity,
05:12being positive, I'd rather say I'm positive rather than say I'm not negative. Again, just
05:17saying the word, it just makes me like, I don't like it. But we have to do everything
05:24we do with love. Like we have to. We have to love ourselves. We have to love other people.
05:29We have to love strangers. We have to love the plants, you know, like be thankful and
05:34grateful for everything. And if your heart is open, everything will just be so much clearer
05:39to you and you'll have less struggles and you'll conquer things you never thought imaginable
05:46if you just like love everything. Like to know is to love and you want to be wise, right?
05:54Yeah. Is this something that you like, is this something that you've always felt or
05:58did you go on some kind of like personal journey to reach that thought process? Because
06:03I feel like that's something that I've kind of come into recently. Like I went through
06:07some really hard times and even like last year, I went through some like just total
06:13bullshit and coming like, and I'm starting to recognize, like I started getting a lot
06:18more into meditation and stuff like that. And that's really opened my eyes to a lot
06:23more things. And I've been working really hard on even like little things like replacing
06:28negative words and thoughts with positive thoughts. Like what you were just saying,
06:32like something simple as not saying, you know, as saying positive as opposed to saying not
06:37negative. Just like little like tiny things that you can change in what you say and the
06:42stories that you tell yourself every day can make such a difference in how you interact
06:48with the world and therefore like what happens to you in life. Like I feel like what you
06:52project out into the world is what you get back.
06:54You manifest it. If you're constantly afraid and afraid and afraid, everything's going
06:59to go wrong because all you see is what's happening the wrong way. So we really do need
07:07to change. It's a lifestyle. And it seems silly, but like I do this too. If I'm having
07:15kind of a stressful day, I'll talk to myself and I'll say, you know what, Charlotte, I
07:21almost said my real name. You know what, Charlotte, you're successful. You're amazing.
07:27You're loved. You're appreciated. You've got this. And it really does like make a difference.
07:33Yeah. I have a friend who I actually do a gratitude list with. We text each other a
07:38gratitude list back and forth every night. So she'll send me a long gratitude list. And
07:43just little things from her day. She'll be like, I'm grateful that I got to sleep in
07:49this morning. You know, I'm grateful that my friend took me to the airport. Like just
07:52little, little things. And then I'll text her back my gratitude list. And it sounds
07:57like kind of so silly, but it really makes a difference because I feel like we forget
08:02how privileged we are and how much we have. And it's so easy to get caught up in that
08:07whole like, I don't have this, I don't have that, as opposed to recognizing like what
08:11you do have.
08:12Oh, absolutely. Absolutely. We are definitely blessed. We have a lot of privileges, especially
08:21here in the United States. And we need to be smart and keep those rights. Because I
08:27feel like a lot of people, I don't want to get into politics because it's something new
08:32every day and it's hard to keep up with. And honestly, I find it a bit overwhelming. But
08:37you know, we just really do need to stand up for ourselves and appreciate what we have.
08:44Yeah.
08:45Yeah.
08:46Yeah.
08:47Fuck yeah.
08:48Fuck yeah.
08:49Fuck yeah. You want to eat that pussy for dinner, you eat pussy for dinner.
08:52I love like how you can go from being like this sweet, you know, and sometimes when I
08:56talk to you, I forget that you work in the adult industry because you just, I don't know,
09:00you seem like you have this side of you which seems like so sweet and innocent, but then
09:04you say stuff like that. And I'm like, oh yeah, she's actually got this like wild side
09:07to her. Which is why I feel like that one scene that we shot together for Twisties with
09:12Lily LeBeau was so perfect.
09:14Oh, that was fun.
09:15The Good Book. Oh my God, that was so great.
09:16Stroke the Good Book.
09:17Oh God, you were hilarious.
09:18Finger the Good Book.
09:20So we shot the scene for Twisties where Charlotte played this kind of like door to door missionary.
09:28And she came with the Good Book, you know, I guess, AKA the Bible, but we can't really
09:32say that in a porn scene because they're very careful about that kind of thing.
09:36Trademarked, patented.
09:37Yeah, I don't know. I was just trying not to offend anybody, I guess. And she was trying
09:42to convince Lily to, you know, convert and be a religious person, I suppose. And just
09:48you played that part so incredibly well.
09:51She only needs one man in her life.
09:55She needs one man to fill all those holes.
09:59And just like your little, like all those little like jokes that you made and everything
10:03and just the way that you played that character so perfectly was just, I remember just sitting
10:08behind the camera trying so hard not to laugh. I was like, this is so fucking funny.
10:12I'm pretty sure at one point in time I did hear you and the lighting crew just like.
10:17Yeah, it was very difficult for me to like suppress my giggles. And the way that like
10:22you were able to keep such a straight face throughout the whole thing, I could just never
10:24do it.
10:26That was so fun for me because Lily LeBeau was super hot.
10:29Yeah.
10:30Super hot. And that was such a fun sex scene.
10:31Yes.
10:32Like we really connected.
10:33Yeah.
10:34And oh yeah, it was super fun.
10:36Yeah, that was a great pairing.
10:37It was a great pairing, yeah. And it's funny too because I'm wearing like a baggy pencil
10:42skirt that goes below my knees. I now have, so I have like my regular clothes and then
10:48I have my work clothes, you know. Like I don't wear a lot of bohemian things, but I need
10:53them for certain scenes.
10:54Right.
10:56And I now have like a row of Amish looking like very preserved skirts specifically because
11:03I keep playing these religious roles.
11:06Yeah.
11:07Like the go-getter, do-gooder.
11:09Why do you think that you get cast that way?
11:11Maybe because I look innocent, you know, because I don't have like any plastic surgery and
11:18I have freckles. And maybe because of my background growing up in Utah, you know, with the LDS
11:25maybe that's why.
11:26Yeah.
11:27I'm, those are three good reasons.
11:29Yeah, you do play the role really well. So you grew up Mormon and-
11:3550-50.
11:3650-50?
11:37Yeah.
11:38So how do you mean?
11:39So like my mom's side of the family was like DGAF from the get-go.
11:43Okay.
11:44And then my dad's side of the family, if you said fart, you would have to sit in the corner.
11:50Wow.
11:51So very different world.
11:52Wow.
11:53And when I go to grandma's house, I actually have wardrobes specifically for when I go
11:58to my grandma's. She thinks I'm a perfect angel.
12:01Wow.
12:02Okay. I have like, I have special jewelry I wear. I have my like choose the right necklace.
12:07Oh my God.
12:09And I wear those things when I go to grandma's, you know, but when I leave grandma's, oh,
12:13it's off.
12:14Wow. And she has no idea, huh?
12:16I don't think so. No.
12:18Let's keep it that way.
12:20Yeah.
12:21So how do you feel? So you grew up in a religious home.
12:27Only at grandma's.
12:28Only at grandma's. How did you like deal with that dichotomy? And how did your parents meet?
12:32Like they sound like kind of different people, but at home they weren't that strict about
12:38that. It was just like when you were going to like your grandparents.
12:41Yeah. Yeah. I mean, my mom would be like, fuck this and fuck that. And we would be at
12:46the 4th of July parade and I was like, fire, fuck, because I couldn't say a truck and she's
12:50just laughing and everyone's like, oh, your daughter is saying fuck repeatedly over and
12:55over again. And she's three. It's adorable. Put a tube top on her. She loves it. Yeah.
13:03But no, recently as an adult, I went to visit my grandma and grandpa in Utah. And if I'm
13:12there visiting and it's a Sunday, I'll go to church with them. And I haven't been to
13:16church in years. Yeah. Okay. I always avoid seeing them on Sundays to specifically avoid
13:22this because it's like, what do you wear? Yeah. Nothing's right. Right. And so I'm wearing,
13:27you know, like some knee high flat boots. I'm thinking they're equestrian boots. These will
13:31be fine. Right. And of course I already look like a floozy. So I'm sitting between my grandma
13:40and grandpa and I'm going to like the special class that the older adults go to. And it's
13:45that one time of the month where both sexes are in the same room. Because otherwise it's
13:50the women's ward and the men's ward, the priesthood. It's like the women and then the
13:55priesthood, the men that want to be priests. So this is the time everyone comes together.
14:00And the woman running the class, because they take turns who's going to run the class,
14:06says we have a last minute change to announce for today. The bishop has just five minutes ago
14:14asked me if we could change today's topic to porn. Oh my God. Pornography. Oh my God. I swear
14:21every single like cell in my body was like, they're looking at me. But of course nobody knew.
14:29Well, actually you don't know if they knew. Yeah. There you go. So like my grandma,
14:35my family does know I do porn. Right. But it very quickly was wiped away with I don't do it anymore.
14:42And then, you know, so I don't even know if she remembers. Wow. Because it was like so long ago
14:48that I started. But I feel like, I don't know. I just I felt very singled out. But it was very
14:53awkward because one, I felt like they changed it because I was there. And then two, they were
15:00having an open group discussion about what's appropriate and how to talk to your children
15:05about sex. And I so badly wanted to say so many educational things. Yeah. They're like, well,
15:11tell them about handholding and this and that. And I'm like, why don't you teach them the
15:16difference between, you know, molestation and love? Yeah. Why don't you teach them those things? Like
15:22if they don't know what those things are, how do they know if they're happening or not? Right,
15:26right, right. You need to explain the terminology, the vocabulary to these kids. Right. And I think
15:33kids are not stupid. Yeah. And I think you should be honest with everyone so they truly can learn.
15:38So anyway, I'm just sitting in church between my grandma and grandpa wearing my whore boots,
15:43just listening to the dangers of handholding and pornography. Oh, my God. So yeah.
15:51So how did you get into the industry? I've always been a very sexual person.
15:59Just I've always wanted to be in front of a camera. I've always been comfortable with myself.
16:04Just very like, I don't care. As long as I'm not hurting anyone, I'm going to do what I want. And
16:09what I want to do is fuck. Yeah. So I'm just like, okay. And I mean, I met someone that was in the
16:16industry and she was like, if you want to do it, you can. And I was like, oh, I don't know. Am I
16:24pretty enough? And she's like, girl, you're going to be great. Yeah. And then, you know, she
16:29introduced me to one person and it just kind of evolved from there. What do you think is some of
16:34like your favorite scenes that you've done? Well, one of the things I love about porn is that I'm
16:40always able to be a new person. I'm always constantly reinventing myself or continuing
16:47an ongoing character. I love scenes where I'm a teacher because they don't give me a script. Like
16:55certain companies I work for, they now don't give her a dialogue. Just tell her the premise and let
17:00her run with it. And so I just, I love being a teacher because then I get to just babble about
17:06all these random things that I know. And that's super fun. You know, it's funny. I did a scene
17:13for Naughty America the other day and they don't give me a script. They just, they give me like a
17:18premise or something or they'll be like, do us a teacher thing or do a MILF thing or do an office
17:25thing. And then I get to come up with it, which is great because almost every single client now
17:28like doesn't do that. I get micromanaged a lot. And I totally use my senior thesis from UCLA as
17:35like the topic. And it was about female sexuality and romantic literature. And so it was like kind
17:42of fun. I was like, wow, I get to use something from my college education. And I was like,
17:46it was mainly, I made the topic about lesbianism in Coleridge's poem Christabel. And so that was
17:53really fun. And that was really fun to be able to like use that. And then I was like, I wonder if
17:57anyone watching this scene is actually going to know what I'm talking about, what the performers
18:02are talking about or like notice. And I was like, probably not. But it was still fun.
18:07That's hilarious. I have a lot of thoughts going on in my head right now.
18:12Just about like romantic literature and yeah, anyways.
18:17You know, I know what you mean about the whole letting you kind of do ad-libbing because when
18:23you did that scene with Louis LeBeau, you were great. Like you just kind of went on. And I feel
18:28like some performers definitely work a lot better if you don't give them a script.
18:31I don't like to be micromanaged at all. Like I live alone.
18:36Yeah, I hear you.
18:37You hear that, stalkers? I live alone.
18:40Like I live alone. I just I'm just I don't like people to like tell me what to do or expect
18:46certain things for me. I like hope that I understand the situation well enough to do
18:52what pleases everyone. But I don't know if that makes sense.
18:55No, I understand.
18:57How is it? Now, I know you've done a lot. This actually is a good segue to
19:02ask you about all. I know you've done a lot of movies with Axel Vraun.
19:05Yeah.
19:06And so you did Batwoman, right? Or you played Batwoman in Justice League. Is that correct?
19:11Correct. I played Batwoman in Justice League, the number one selling movie of the year.
19:17How was that?
19:18Amazing. It's funny because no one really knows it's me because I have a red wig and a face cowl.
19:24Yeah.
19:25Which by the way, wearing a cowl during a sex scene is very difficult.
19:28Yes.
19:29I can't open my mouth. So all my dialogue and sex was through
19:33teeth. So I'm like, what do you mean? What's going on? It's like this. Everything's like this
19:39because I can't open my mouth. So when we film Batwoman in fall, we're going to make a new cowl
19:44for me so that I can like actually open my mouth. Yeah.
19:48That's good.
19:49Yeah. And then I played in The Possession of Mrs. Hyde.
19:54Yeah. He came on the show to talk about that. And that was like his first kind of
19:57feature movie that wasn't a parody.
19:59Correct. In 15 years.
20:01Yes. So who are you playing in that? How much can you tell us about that movie?
20:08I wouldn't want to give any of the twists away.
20:11Okay. Can you say who you're playing?
20:13I work for the doctor.
20:15Okay.
20:15Yes.
20:16Okay. Got it.
20:17I work for him.
20:17How much of it have you filmed?
20:21I'm done. I'm wrapped unless he needs a voiceover or anything. I'm wrapped now.
20:26Axl's shoot days are notoriously long.
20:32Oh, yeah. He's famous for that.
20:34You know, you like show up at 8 in the morning and you're literally done having sex at 4 a.m.
20:39Yeah. Yeah.
20:41So you can get a lot done in a day.
20:43Yeah.
20:43Yeah.
20:44Yeah. How is that working for him?
20:48Apparently, it's great because he's a fantastic director and he has great cells and
20:53everyone loves his products.
20:54So does he kind of let you do your thing? He doesn't like micromanage you too much?
20:59Oh, he does not micromanage me at all.
21:01Okay. That's great.
21:02He told me, he said you have, he's very specific. He's like, Stokely. Stokely.
21:09You have free range to do whatever you want to do in this girl girl scene for Hyde. He's like,
21:15I want you to unleash Stokely.
21:17Nice.
21:17Unleash the beast, like just let it out and you do whatever you want to do.
21:22Yeah.
21:23And everyone else is micromanaged, really.
21:25Interesting.
21:26Which is so interesting. It's flattering, but at the same time, I'm just like, but why?
21:33Am I really that great? Because I'm just like, there's so many great people on set with me.
21:36This is silly. I guess it's kind of like a modesty thing. I don't take compliments very
21:42well sometimes. I'm like, oh, shucks. You're silly. But yeah, when we did the Batwoman
21:51scenes in Justice League, they were one takes.
21:54And he's known for doing 30. And I was flattered by it. I was like, oh yes, I did all that dialogue
22:04in one take. That was amazing. But on the other hand, I'm like, I kind of want to play around
22:09with it some more. Can we keep filming so I could try another edge or something?
22:13Yeah, yeah, yeah.
22:17It blows my mind how far my career has come and all the things I've accomplished. It really does.
22:23A lot of things still haven't even hit me yet. I was American Apparel's main model for seven years.
22:31Yeah, I remember that.
22:32You know, I was on billboards and magazine covers and storefronts. And
22:37I mean, my face was all over the world for that. And that still blows my mind,
22:42because I was on my bucket list. I was like, this is what I want to do in my life.
22:46You're asking how I get into porn. I'm like, I want to be in front of a camera,
22:49and I want everyone to adore me.
22:51I feel like you've accomplished that.
22:53Yay.
22:57Is there anything else that you want to do that's on your bucket list that you haven't achieved yet?
23:01There are. There are things that matter to me that I want to do that aren't necessarily career moves.
23:06Okay.
23:08I'd really like to change the RDA, the Recommended Daily Allowance for Food. It's
23:16completely asinine and very outdated. And it's giving people the wrong ideas of the things
23:22they're eating that it's okay, and people are getting sick because of it. And most diseases
23:27are from the food you eat.
23:28It's so interesting that you bring that up, because I remember when you were,
23:31I think when you were getting into nutrition, we were shooting you. I think it was the day
23:36we did that cheerleader scene with you and Faye Reagan at my mom's studio, like forever ago.
23:43I had abs then. I was doing sit-ups on set.
23:47And I remember, and you were telling me about nutrition and how you were really studying it
23:53and really getting into it. And obviously, it's something that you've stuck with.
23:56So I'm always up for being educated. I feel like I am not good about, I mean,
24:02I eat healthy for the most part, but then I also recognize that I'm not even really sure
24:08if I know what eating healthy is, because isn't it different for different people?
24:13Yeah, it definitely can be.
24:14And how could I find out what works for me?
24:19Well, the best place to start, if you were to only do one thing different in your life,
24:25I would say the eat right for your blood type, because we do have different enzymes in our blood
24:31than other people. And so some people can digest meat and thrive off of it and others
24:36can't digest it and literally it sticks in their gut and it makes them tired and sick.
24:42And so really learning what foods are beneficial for you will change everything.
24:48It changed my life when I learned about it. And seeing the evidence, the proof that it really
24:54worked really just snowballed into this obsession with learning everything I possibly could about
25:01health and the human body. And not just food, but also mental health, energy health,
25:09the environments you're around, the people you hang around. I just constantly love to learn.
25:17And the more I learn, the more I realize like, wow, the world is amazing.
25:22And it really all comes down to vibrations. It's those good vibrations and love, seriously.
25:30Tell me, I want to kind of go back to what you said about the daily recommended intake
25:33and how it's wrong.
25:34The RDA.
25:35Yeah. So can you elaborate on that a little bit?
25:38Yeah, absolutely. Right now, I don't specifically remember the allowed numbers,
25:44milligrams and stuff, but they're saying you can have up to so many milligrams of sodium a day.
25:49Well, that's a horribly high amount. Horribly high. So people are getting high blood pressure
25:56from that. It causes water weight gain, edema, like the swollen ankles. Fats, they don't list
26:07separate fats. You have omega-3, omega-6, omega-9, monosaturated fats, transglycerides.
26:15They're all different fats. And fat's actually really good for you, depending on your needs.
26:22But they just say total fat, this much. And it's a horrible number.
26:26Yeah. Remember the food pyramid?
26:28Yeah. The food pyramid. It's great. And it's just like fiber is so important. And
26:38fiber really just will keep you alive more than anything else will. And then it's like salt. It's
26:43fake salt. Everything has fake salt. And the thing that pisses me off is that salt, the fake salt
26:50causes high blood pressure, but real salt, true salt, full of minerals, actually lowers blood
26:56pressure. So there's this whole confusion going on. And then people say, if you have high cholesterol,
27:02that's bad. Well, that's not true. And then you start taking statins to lower your cholesterol,
27:07which causes all sorts of problems in your body. But cholesterol is a hormone, not a fat.
27:14And when your veins and arteries are constant, like a rubber band, stretching and flexing,
27:19and they start to tear and get little holes, well, you're losing that elasticity because
27:23you're deficient on vitamin C. Vitamin C is the precursor to all the collagen and
27:28bendy flexible things in our body. So we start getting holes in our veins. And the cholesterol
27:34is used like mortar to fill those holes. It's literally a Band-Aid. Cholesterol is a Band-Aid
27:41for you to live. And then when you start taking lots amounts of vitamin C, your arteries will heal,
27:49the holes will close up, and then the cholesterol will flush out your body.
27:52But cholesterol is your friend. If you have high cholesterol, it's likely because you're deficient
27:59in vitamin C. And we're the only animals on the whole planet that don't manufacture their own.
28:05Dogs make vitamin C. Birds make vitamin C. Polar bears make vitamin C. We don't make it.
28:10We're the only creature on the planet that does not make our own vitamin C. We have to eat it.
28:15Wow, interesting. I'm sure you've heard about pirates and people at sea getting scurvy from
28:22lack of vitamin C. So obviously it's something that's very important for human beings. What
28:31kind of things do you eat? Can you kind of give me a basic breakdown of your meals?
28:36Yeah. I eat a lot of the same foods. I'm kind of a creature of habit. I find something that
28:42works and I stick with it. But I love hemp milk. So I have honey, raw honey and hemp milk in my
28:49coffee. And then I'll make a plant protein smoothie with blueberries and pineapple and,
28:55you know, pineapple for the pussy and bee pollen. And I try to start my day with that.
29:03And I do little greens packets just to stay alkaline that are a blend of herbs and things.
29:12Yeah, I try to eat a rainbow. I try to eat something purple, something blue, something
29:16green, something yellow every day. And yeah, and then I make sure that I switch it up so it's not
29:22salmon every single day. It's like, yeah, I try to vary it. But I really would just say look into
29:29eatrightfreerbloodtype.com, seriously. Download the app. I already have the app so I can just
29:34send you screenshots of yours. And we've been talking about this for years.
29:38Yeah. And I have like not been following your advice for years. Maybe it's time that I should.
29:43Well, maybe you should come over to my house for some private lessons on what to put in your mouth.
29:51Oh, Charlotte, you dirty girl.
29:54I know. I'm so fucking horny. I was literally like rubbing on my seat while driving here. I was like,
30:00I'm just like, you know, listening to Cardi B. And then I'm like,
30:03oh no, she got in a fight with Nicki. And then I'm like, oh, I'm horny.
30:09All these thoughts.
30:10So many thoughts. Being horny is dangerous. I seriously almost wrecked my car three times
30:15because I was horny while driving.
30:17Wow.
30:18Yeah.
30:18How do you, how do you release that? You just take care of yourself?
30:21I'm a compulsive masturbator.
30:24Really?
30:25Lately, I masturbate all the time. Like, I don't stop.
30:29Wow.
30:30I was tempted to do it here today, but you know,
30:34I'm not gonna, you know, we got to keep it so you can put it on YouTube.
30:37Yeah, I gotta keep it safe. YouTube already won't monetize my channel. So
30:42I can't get them to kick me off again. They've already kicked me off before.
30:49What was I gonna say? Oh, yeah. So you are also on in your free time. I know you're,
30:53you're kind of a nerd. You're kind of a self-proclaimed geek.
30:56You're into earth science, health science. You play Dungeons and Dragons.
31:01Tell me a little bit about that side of Charlotte Stokely,
31:03because I feel like a lot of people don't know about that.
31:06Okay. Hi, I'm a nerd. I'm also a weirdo, which I find that complimentary.
31:13You're unique.
31:14I'm unique. A word recently I find quite funny is oddball. It's just like the letters,
31:21it's just an interesting word because you have O and then DD and it's like circle,
31:24high mark, high mark, you know, for the D, it's like a D and then a long slash.
31:29I'm trying to explain.
31:30No, I know what you're talking about.
31:31I'm talking in cuneiform.
31:33I know. I never thought about it in that way.
31:35And then ball, you also have like the circle shape, like O and A are very similar, but then it's LL.
31:41So oddball, like when I think of that word, I think of,
31:45what are those things that are the same frontwards and backwards?
31:48Oh God. I know exactly what you're talking about.
31:51Like race car, taco cat is taco cat backwards.
31:55Yes. Ernie, what is it?
31:58It's not a conundrum.
32:01Panundrum.
32:02Panundrum.
32:03Palindrome.
32:04Palindrome.
32:05Palindrome.
32:06Yay.
32:06Yes, we are smart.
32:08We know things.
32:09We know things.
32:11So anyways, I just, the word oddball recently, it just seems really like funny to me.
32:17Anyways, I see weird shapes and patterns and things, always have, always will.
32:22Dungeons and Dragons.
32:24It's my one day a week that I get to not be me and I get to fuck shit up.
32:29Um, every Sunday I get together with my team and we've been playing for years.
32:35Yeah.
32:36Like seven years now, I think.
32:37Wow.
32:38And um, my dungeon master is like a world famous dungeon master.
32:42Like he wins awards annually for all of his like tabletop RPG books and Zach Smith.
32:49He's very well known and I'm very lucky that he's my DM.
32:54Yeah.
32:55Um, yeah, super fun because we get to play test all the games before he makes them,
33:00like releases them.
33:01And then we go to Gen Con for the Ennies and that's when people vote on the new products.
33:07And he always gets nominated and he always wins.
33:11So it's a card game, right?
33:13Or is it a board game?
33:14Neither.
33:15Oh, I don't know anything about Dungeons and Dragons.
33:18Like literally zero.
33:20I have dice in my purse.
33:21So it's a dice game?
33:22I have a 20-sided die in my purse.
33:25It's a dice game.
33:26Yeah.
33:27So you have miniatures that are you, similar to like a Monopoly.
33:33Like I'm a thimble, except you're like a dwarf or a barbarian or a wizard.
33:37Right, okay.
33:38And you would do everything on a table.
33:41So you don't need like a board, but you can have like hexagon tiles that you play on.
33:48Some people are really anal about the rules.
33:50Like you can only cast a fireball so many feet.
33:54And some people will actually measure out one inch is three feet
33:58and measure it out on the table.
33:59And then other people are like more relaxed about it.
34:01So some people use the hex maps and some people don't.
34:05Anyways, it's so interesting trying to explain to people Dungeons and Dragons.
34:10I feel like other people have tried to explain it to me too
34:12and it just completely went over my head.
34:16Well, you're welcome to play with us anytime.
34:19We have a very eclectic group of people.
34:22It's beautiful.
34:24You know, it's a very diverse group.
34:26It's quite lovely.
34:28And we have human rights activists.
34:30We have animators, porn stars.
34:33You know, Ella Darling plays with us and she like did TED Talks.
34:36And she used to be a librarian.
34:37She's like the queen of VR.
34:39Yeah, I know she is.
34:40You know, I got to plug my girl.
34:42You know, I got to give her some love.
34:45But yeah, so like Sam, I'm a wizard and I'm with my team and we work as a group.
34:52And then we go on these imaginary missions to go and reclaim a stolen item
34:57or like find a kidnapped girl.
34:59And then, you know, and then we find her and then we have to fight the beast.
35:03And then we have a list of weapons that we pick before we start playing.
35:07And then you roll it.
35:08You say, okay, Zach, I'm going to throw my dagger.
35:11You know, and a dagger is not a very powerful weapon.
35:13It's just a dagger.
35:14So it's like D4.
35:16So you roll a D20 to hit.
35:17And if you roll a certain number high enough,
35:20then you've successfully hit your opponent.
35:23And then you roll a die depending on the strength of the weapon.
35:27So a dagger, a D4, and you roll a D4 and it does one to four points of damage.
35:31And then it's the next person's turn.
35:33Okay.
35:34So yeah.
35:36I sort of get it.
35:37I mean, I played those like role-playing games before.
35:39So like I get you have.
35:41I get that.
35:42I get that.
35:42Yeah, I used to get like really hammered and like play those and it was bad.
35:46I gave up alcohol and video games because both of them were like huge time wasters for me.
35:52Oh, yeah.
35:53I love alcohol.
35:56Yeah.
35:57Well, it's, you know, it's fine when you can manage it in a responsible manner.
36:03But remember how like when you got here and you saw that whiskey and you're like,
36:08oh, yeah, that whiskey.
36:09And I was like, do you want some?
36:11And you were like, no, no, no, I got to drive home.
36:13See, I would not have been like, oh, I have to drive home.
36:16I would have been like, yes.
36:17You're very responsible.
36:19Well, I am now.
36:21And you grew.
36:22Thank you.
36:23Yeah.
36:24Well, I did a lot of damage before that happened.
36:27Life had to like beat me down.
36:30But that's a whole other story.
36:32Now I'm thinking of beating off.
36:35You really are like, yeah, you really are bad.
36:38I'm so horny.
36:40I'm sweating bullets too.
36:43Are you?
36:44I feel like I am.
36:45I promise you have no sweat marks.
36:47That's, I'm gonna have like sweat mark in my cooch.
36:50Okay, well, we can't see that on camera and I can't see it either.
36:53So you're safe.
36:54Nobody will know but you.
36:57In another life, what do you think that you would be doing?
37:03You know, I feel like we, I didn't even really answer your one question.
37:08What's your question with that?
37:09It was like, what would you be doing?
37:17Anyways, okay.
37:18So I used to want to be an astronaut.
37:24Wow.
37:25Oh, right.
37:25Okay, so we did start with this.
37:27So I said I would change the RDA if I could.
37:29Okay.
37:30Like a bucket list thing.
37:31Right, right, right.
37:31Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
37:32Yeah.
37:33I forgot about that.
37:34We went off on a complete and total tangent.
37:36Yeah.
37:36Okay, bucket list.
37:38Go ahead.
37:39Okay.
37:43Right, things I want to do that I haven't done yet.
37:45So that's a really hard thing to think of.
37:48Nevermind.
37:49So I see what you're saying though.
37:50You're not thinking of it in a way in where you're like, well, if I was a different person,
37:54I could do these things.
37:55You're thinking of it in a way of like, I could still achieve these things.
37:58Yeah.
37:59Like I still have the time.
38:00Like who says that I can't do this or that as opposed to like, I have to be somebody else to
38:05do those things.
38:05Yeah.
38:06Okay, cool.
38:07I like that.
38:07Yeah.
38:08I also kind of want to like, it's a personal mission to like destroy Monsanto, now known
38:15as Bayer.
38:16The people that make your grandma's medicine now owns Monsanto.
38:21So keep that in mind, people.
38:22For people that don't really know about Monsanto, do you want to just give them a quick summary?
38:29Yes.
38:29Monsanto is the creator of Raid and Agent Orange that the government sprayed on thousands
38:38of millions of people, killing them, giving them cancer.
38:41The soldiers got sick and a lot of them-
38:43We're talking about Vietnam.
38:44Sorry.
38:45Yeah.
38:46And one of the reasons why they sprayed those chemicals in war was because they didn't want
38:52them to be able to grow crops.
38:54They wanted to destroy the land so if the land's not fertile, then the people can't
38:59survive.
38:59Right.
39:00So they were killing the land.
39:02And then after the war, they started putting it in cute little bottles and selling it to
39:06Americans to use in their homes.
39:10Use this for cockroaches and use this spray so you don't get dandelions in your grass,
39:15which is so stupid because dandelions are so healthy for you.
39:18They're not a weed.
39:19They're a food.
39:20And then they made it so everything has to be pretty or it's bad.
39:25You can't have weeds in your lawn.
39:26So then they start putting the chemicals in your lawn and then your kids are playing in
39:29it, your dog's rolling in it, and then everyone else is getting sick and just cancer, cancer,
39:33cancer.
39:36And then they started genetically modifying foods.
39:39So a tomato bruises really easily.
39:42It's a fucking tomato.
39:43Yeah.
39:44Of course it is.
39:45And so they started genetically changing it using the scales of fish, putting it into
39:52the tomato seeds so that when the tomato grows, the skin is thicker and can ship easier.
39:58And then you spray it with wax so it looks pretty and sell it to the people.
40:02Have you heard about that Ugly Vegetables Company?
40:09Imperfect Box or something?
40:11Something like that.
40:11Yeah.
40:12And they sell and they send you...
40:13Because there's a big problem with people not buying fruits or vegetables that don't
40:19look perfect and it's a lot of waste of food.
40:21And so there's a company that started something.
40:23I forget what it's called, but it's Ugly Vegetables or something like that.
40:27And they'll send you a box cheaper than you would buy it in the store of ugly vegetables
40:32and fruit, but they're perfectly fine.
40:34Yeah.
40:34And it's farm to table too.
40:36Right.
40:36Exactly.
40:37So it's not genetically modified.
40:38Yeah.
40:39So the problem with genetically modified foods is that...
40:42So like say corn, for example.
40:44Corn is like my biggest enemy.
40:45Like, fuck you corn, but not Jonathan Davis corn because I love him.
40:50Who's that?
40:50The band, Korn.
40:51Oh, okay.
40:52I was like, what?
40:53I love you, David.
40:54Korn with a K.
40:55Yeah, Korn with a K.
40:56Okay.
40:57So Korn, they started genetically modifying putting pesticide in the seed so that they
41:03wouldn't have to spray the plant later and then it could still be organic.
41:09But what happens is that when you eat that Korn, now it has that systemic pesticide in
41:15it.
41:15So when you eat it, you have a pesticide now in your intestines.
41:19And that pesticide is killing all your good bacteria.
41:23So every time you eat Korn, you're literally destroying your immune system.
41:28You're eating something that can't properly be digested anyways.
41:31Right.
41:32We all know.
41:34And also your neurotransmitters are made in your gut.
41:38So if you're constantly destroying all the bacteria in your gut, you're going to be grumpy,
41:42foggy headed, confused.
41:48Yeah, fuck Korn.
41:49You know, it's interesting.
41:51I was talking, I had dinner, I was with my brother and my boyfriend the other night,
41:55and we were talking about Monsanto and we were talking about genetically modified foods.
41:59And I guess that they patented their genetically modified Korn.
42:03And there was a case, because my brother's a lawyer, and they were talking about this
42:07case when the seed blew into another farmer's plot, and they were able to test his Korn
42:17and see that it had the Monsanto seed in it.
42:23And they ended up suing him, and they won.
42:26Yeah, the seed blew over into this organic farm.
42:32And I mean, a lot of farmers, this is kind of heavy, but a lot of farmers have committed
42:36suicide because their crops are getting destroyed because they're surrounded by GMO fields,
42:42and it's getting into their fields.
42:43And it's becoming impossible for farmers.
42:46Yeah.
42:47I think that might be partly why Trump did something recently where he was giving farmers
42:53more money.
42:55Yeah.
42:55I didn't look into it.
42:56So I can't really, like, I can't say much on that.
42:59I think it has to do with the trade wars that we're doing.
43:04Grow more food here instead of importing it?
43:06Yeah, the high tariffs that he's put on.
43:09So a lot of other countries are not buying food from farmers in America anymore.
43:16So then they have to, basically, they're losing money.
43:19And so Trump is kind of essentially putting them on welfare to help with that.
43:25That's nice, I guess.
43:26Yeah.
43:27I mean, but these farmers are like, we don't want to be on welfare.
43:31Like, we want to sell our product like we were before you came along.
43:36Yeah.
43:37Yeah.
43:37So it's funny how we thought we weren't going to get into politics and somehow that came up.
43:42Yeah.
43:42It's, like, impossible to, like, not have that guy's, like, name pop up and fucking everything.
43:47Yeah.
43:47Holly was like, is there anything you don't want to talk about before we start?
43:51And I was like, I don't want to talk about politics.
43:52Yeah, I know.
43:53Here we are.
43:54Yeah.
43:54So we'll change our line of questioning then.
43:58But yeah, grow your own food, start community gardens.
44:01It's not too late until it is.
44:03Learn how to grow food.
44:04Is there anywhere in particular that you like to shop that you feel that you are getting
44:08responsibly farmed food from?
44:10I am the worst person.
44:12I Grubhub almost every single day.
44:15I literally work to buy Grubhub and Uber.
44:19But I try to focus on vegan or organic-minded places and then, again, order from those places
44:26over and over again.
44:27Yeah.
44:27Like the places that have, like, ginger shots, like squeezed ginger.
44:31I love ginger.
44:33Yeah.
44:33Especially, like, if I'm not feeling well, I, like, OD on ginger.
44:36It's really good for you.
44:37Yeah.
44:38Yeah, I love that stuff.
44:40Yeah.
44:40No, I spend a – I get – it's called Farm Fresh to you.
44:46And you can choose how often you receive it.
44:49But I get – it's straight from farm to table.
44:52Local farms send me fruits and vegetables in a box every two weeks.
44:58And you can choose what you get or you can just let them give you whatever.
45:01And if you're out of town, you can say, skip my delivery today,
45:05but donate it to the nearest shelter.
45:07Oh, that's nice.
45:08So it's a really cool organization.
45:11So I kind of just eat what they send me.
45:13Like, I had the best cantaloupe of my life the other day.
45:16I must have a cantaloupe.
45:17It was so good.
45:18I don't really like it either, but girl, this cantaloupe was good.
45:21That is the one fruit in a fruit salad that I avoid.
45:23Really?
45:23Yeah.
45:24I avoid the strawberries.
45:25Really?
45:25I'll eat your cantaloupe and you can have my strawberries.
45:28We'll have a fruit salad together because clearly we are – we'll eat it.
45:32We'll actually finish the whole thing.
45:33Because I don't like the melon.
45:34I don't like the cantaloupe.
45:35I always eat like the grapes and the strawberries but everything else.
45:37I'm like, ew.
45:38I feel like it's just a filler fruit that people just throw in there to like make it
45:42like give it sustenance.
45:44But like no one ever eats that shit.
45:45Well, cantaloupe is one of the most alkalining things you can eat.
45:50I know.
45:51Of course it is.
45:52Ew, gross.
45:53I know.
45:53The things I don't want are the things that I should be eating.
45:56Isn't that just what life is about?
45:59I eat a lot of pussy.
46:02Well, see, I'm not into girls so I don't do that either.
46:06That's okay.
46:07I know.
46:07You have a boyfriend.
46:08I do have a boyfriend.
46:09He gives you that dick.
46:10Yeah, I like penis a lot.
46:12That stuff's my favorite.
46:13It's the best.
46:14It's the best.
46:17What scares you?
46:20Fear.
46:21Fear scares you?
46:22Fear scares me.
46:23Interesting.
46:24The older I get, the more I realize when JFK said,
46:27you have nothing to fear but fear itself.
46:30Those are some of the most powerful words ever.
46:33And it kind of goes back to when we first started this conversation.
46:35If you're constantly afraid of something,
46:38whether it's happening or not, it's happening in your head
46:41and you're creating these problems.
46:43Like I always get afraid that before an award show or something that I'm going to faint.
46:48It's a constant fear.
46:49I'm always afraid that I'm going to get overwhelmed
46:51and I'm going to faint in front of everybody.
46:53Wow.
46:54So then I start getting like sweaty.
46:56Yeah.
46:56And then I can't breathe.
46:58Yeah.
46:58And then I feel like, oops, I keep kicking it.
47:01And then I keep feeling like dizzy and I'm like, oh my God, I'm going to faint.
47:03Yeah, yeah.
47:04But it's like if I didn't put that thought in my head, it wouldn't happen at all.
47:08So really the only thing you have to fear is fear itself.
47:11Seriously, like go do things.
47:14And if it doesn't work out, it doesn't try again.
47:16Have you ever heard the acronym of fear that it's false evidence appearing real?
47:21Oh, I like that.
47:22I heard something yesterday about how we're all trying to navigate through the illusion.
47:30I thought that was interesting.
47:31Oh, it is interesting.
47:33I think you're really right about that because I'm in like a 12-step program.
47:37So what I'll do is, and I find that fear is basically the basic thing behind
47:44every single thing that stresses us out, that causes us problems.
47:49It's always fear.
47:50It's always at the bottom of everything.
47:53If something's stressing me out, I'll do like this writing exercise on it.
47:57And I'll put down, or like say if I have resentment, I'll put down the resentment
48:01and then I'll write down like why I resent it and what I feel that person or whatever did to me.
48:08And then I have to fill in what does it affect in my life that's making me feel this way.
48:13And there's like four columns.
48:15It's self-esteem, personal relations, sex relations, ambitions, like pocket book, right?
48:21And then I do this whole, and then I look into like, okay, like for example,
48:27say a client criticizes me for something that I shot.
48:32They don't like it, right?
48:33And I'm like personally offended by that.
48:35You know, I'm resentful about that.
48:36So then I kind of do this digging deeper.
48:38Okay, well, why am I resentful at that?
48:40Well, they questioned my abilities.
48:43Okay, why am I resentful about that?
48:45Well, that brings up the fear that maybe like I'm not actually capable of doing this.
48:49Okay, why is that a fear?
48:51Because if I'm not capable of doing this, then who am I?
48:53Why is that a fear?
48:54Well, my identity is my work.
48:56Okay, why is that a fear?
48:57Well, if I'm not good at my job, then I'm nobody.
49:03And then everybody hates me.
49:04And then I'm alone.
49:05You know what I mean?
49:05Like it kind of spirals down into this whole thing.
49:08But that seems depressing.
49:10No, but it's good because then it really uncovers like, because everything,
49:13all these conflicts that we have, there's so many layers to it.
49:18And there's something underneath all of it that we almost never see,
49:20because we're so caught up in like, you know, the surface stuff.
49:23And it just shows you like what it really is that's motivating you,
49:29that's creating that resentment, that's creating, you know, that stress in your life.
49:33And then once you can recognize what it actually is, once you uncover it,
49:37I think then that's much easier to deal with it.
49:40Yeah, once you know the face of your enemy, you know how to attack it.
49:44Right.
49:44But when it's just this invisible fear,
49:47there's nothing you can do unless you're willing to not be lazy and actually do the work.
49:53Yes.
49:53Writing these lists down or however people want to do it.
49:57Right.
49:58And also taking responsibility for your part in something.
50:02I think what a lot of people do is they like to point your finger and blame other people
50:08and play the victim.
50:09But like you have a part in everything.
50:12And once you can recognize that, it just, I don't know,
50:15once you can, and then, you know, then you can accept the situation for what it is.
50:19It just brings, you're a lot happier.
50:21Yeah.
50:22More peaceful.
50:23Yeah.
50:23You know?
50:24Yeah.
50:25I just, I want inner peace, man.
50:27Yeah.
50:27And I want everyone else to have it too.
50:29It's not just about me being peaceful.
50:31Because you can be at peace, but if people around you aren't at peace, it can be exhausting.
50:36Yes.
50:37And I'm an empath.
50:39I have unique abilities to feel and understand people's thoughts and pain
50:46without it being digressed to me.
50:48And that can become really exhausting.
50:51Yeah.
50:52You know?
50:53So.
50:54Are you very careful about the kind of people that you allow in your life and who you become
50:57close to?
50:58Like, are you very much about like cutting toxic people out of your life?
51:01Yes.
51:02Absolutely.
51:03Absolutely.
51:04I have, I'll give everyone the benefit of, you know, growing and learning.
51:11But, you know, I just, I know to avoid certain places and people and things now.
51:16And I mean, very few people have ever even been to my home.
51:20You know, home is my sanctuary.
51:21Yeah.
51:22And if I don't want to be around a crowded room, then I'll just stay home.
51:25Or go to the beach or go hiking or something, you know?
51:28I've just, I'm, I can recognize it really quickly, but I'm also really good at helping
51:36to deter people's negative emotions.
51:41And so I, I'll be around those people, but I'll do everything I can to like raise them
51:47up or help them see themselves in a better light, you know?
51:51And I'll say, if you want to talk, I'm here.
51:53And it doesn't even have to be like, if you want to talk, like there's a lot of people
51:57if you want to talk, like there's a problem, just like, hey, you know, let me know if there's
52:00anything.
52:01You ever want to talk about this subject or that one, let me know.
52:04Yeah.
52:04Because sometimes people just need a connection with another human being.
52:07Of course.
52:08Well, we're all connected.
52:09Right.
52:10We're literally, like you can scientifically prove it.
52:13Yeah.
52:13We're all connected by this living, breathing spider web of actions and feelings and thoughts.
52:20And I think that's why they have like World Prayer Day.
52:23I'm doing quotation marks for the people listening on iTunes or whatever.
52:26Yeah.
52:27You know, because it's like that massive power of positive intent.
52:32The world does feel that.
52:34Yeah.
52:34The world does sense that because it's a vibration.
52:37A thought is a vibration and everything is a vibration.
52:41Like seeds are vibrations, music's vibration, love is a vibration.
52:44So if you just constantly feel love, I think things around you will feel it too without
52:51hounding them.
52:52Be happy.
52:52You need to be happy.
52:53Yeah.
52:54But I think that like, yeah.
52:59Yeah, man.
52:59There's definitely like another plane that I think that we can't see or hear or feel
53:07or smell or anything like that.
53:08Like that kind of like that other dimension.
53:11Yeah.
53:11Where everybody is connected.
53:12All those dimensions.
53:13Because you can see it, you know, like that feeling that you're being watched, you know?
53:17Like everyone has that.
53:18Like they know when they're being watched or someone's staring at them, but like you
53:21can't explain like, how do you know that you're not seeing that person?
53:24But you feel it or you feel someone's like negative, negativity, even though they haven't
53:29said anything to you, you know?
53:30Oh, yeah.
53:31Those kinds of things.
53:31You sense it.
53:32Yeah.
53:33You sense it in your gut.
53:34Yeah.
53:34Your gut's your antenna.
53:36Yeah, exactly.
53:37And like when you know something's a bad idea, but you don't know why or like, you
53:41know, that kind of thing.
53:42Better listen to yourself.
53:43Better watch it now.
53:44You'll be chasing your own tail.
53:45I know that's the hardest thing is to like trust your own instincts.
53:48You have to learn how to say no.
53:50Yeah.
53:51I find that's really hard for a lot of people.
53:53Like they're in a relationship and like their partner's being mean to them.
53:57And I'm like, why would you want to be with someone that doesn't love you?
54:00Yeah.
54:01Like, I don't understand.
54:02Let it go.
54:03That's so weird to me.
54:04Yeah.
54:05Because I think so many people see their value only in how other people see them.
54:11But if you love yourself first, you'll be capable of receiving so much more love.
54:16Right.
54:17Because people will be attracted to that positivity and they'll want to be around
54:21that and that, yeah, I mean, that's just like, I mean, that just goes back to the
54:24whole like what you put out in the world is what you give back.
54:27Yeah.
54:27You got to put out.
54:30I was like, oh, wait, I get it.
54:35Horny girl.
54:36Well, thank you so much for coming on, Charlotte.
54:38It was so lovely to have you.
54:40It's always fun coming on to you.
54:42I mean, your show.
54:43Yeah.
54:44Okay.
54:47I feel like we could talk about all of these things for hours.
54:49We could.
54:50Yeah, like multi-dimensions and aliens and the pyramids.
54:55Oh, my God.
54:56All right.
54:57Well, we're just gonna have to come back home.
54:58We're gonna have to do that.
54:59Hey, yeah, if you guys want to have another time when I come on Holly's podcast and you
55:05want to hear us talk about things that are non-sex related and have nothing to do except
55:09with energy and multi-dimensions and aliens, let her know.
55:14Let me know.
55:15I'll come back.
55:16And then we're also right after this gonna do that extra fan question, little 10 minute
55:22thing for my Patreon members.
55:23So I do have some more questions.
55:24Oh, good.
55:25We're not done yet.
55:25Okay.
55:26I was getting sad.
55:27I was like, oh, I don't want to leave.
55:28So for those of you who are listening, if you're a member of my Patreon, then you can
55:34actually listen to Charlotte answer some fan questions, which we're gonna do right after
55:39this.
55:39Who wouldn't be a part of your Patreon?
55:41I know.
55:41It's $5, right?
55:43It's $5 to watch the podcast live.
55:46And there's different tiers.
55:47So if you just go onto my website, patreon.com slash hollyrandunfiltered, you'll see every
55:53tier you get different things for different prices, but it's all pretty cool.
55:57And I really appreciate everybody's support because this podcast cost me money, but everyone's
56:05been amazing.
56:06And all my supporters, you guys have no idea how grateful I am.
56:09So thank you so much.
56:10Yay.
56:11Also, I feel I need to plug some social media before we go into the special area that only
56:17certain people get to hear.
56:19Yes.
56:19Please, please plug your social media.
56:21As you know, my name is Charlotte Stokely.
56:24It's S-T-O-K-E-L-Y.
56:27My name's not Stockley.
56:29It's, you know, O-K-E-L-Y.
56:31It's funny.
56:31Every time I spell your last name, I do doubt myself for a minute.
56:34I've gotten it right every time, but there's been a couple of times I'm like, is that
56:37right?
56:37Sorry.
56:38Yeah.
56:38So it's good that you spell it.
56:40It's spelled just like Stokely Carmichael.
56:44So my Twitter is Char underscore Stokely.
56:47You'll know it's me because I'll have over 100,000 followers.
56:50Please don't follow an account that has less than a couple hundred followers.
56:55They're an imposter, and they're trying to get money from you, and it's not me.
56:59And also, you don't live in Ghana.
57:01I don't live in Ghana.
57:03Exactly.
57:04I don't know where that is.
57:06It's a small, impoverished African country, but for some reason-
57:09Oh, Ghana has an H.
57:10Yeah, with an H. For some reason, whoever is running that catfish scam out there is
57:15in Ghana.
57:16And every single person who's been catfished by a porn star is always like, it's always
57:21from Ghana.
57:22I mean, just yesterday, I had a guy email me who said that he's been talking to Danny
57:26Daniels for a year.
57:27And I was like, no, you haven't.
57:28He's like, she doesn't live in Ghana.
57:29I'm like, no, she doesn't live in Ghana.
57:32Wow.
57:32So Charlotte does not live in Ghana.
57:34Come on, people.
57:36I know, right?
57:37Um, I'm also on Instagram at Charlotte Stokely, the full word.
57:42So-
57:43Awesome.
57:44But you know, if you Google me, it'll pop up and you'll find it that way.
57:47And you can go to Holly's Twitter.
57:48I'm sure it'll be posted there.
57:51You'll see us talking to each other on her timeline.
57:53I just want to let all my fans know that I truly love you.
57:56And I genuinely do love you.
57:59You've helped make my life what it is today.
58:01And I feel love for you.
58:04And I feel your love for me.
58:06And I really appreciate it.
58:07And thank you.
58:08See, this is why all your fans love you so much.
58:10I love everyone.
58:13And you can find me at Holly Randall on Twitter and on Instagram.
58:17Thank you guys so much for tuning in.