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Irrigation canal sa Ilocos Norte na ginawang paliguan, binansagang 'Killer Canal' dahil sa dami ng naaaksidente rito?! Tikman ang mga pagkaing simot sarap gaya ng chicken feet, giant lamang-loob, at tumbong sa Cebu! Mga magsasaka sa Davao del Sur, buwis buhay na tinatahak ang napakaputik na daan maibaba lang ang kanilang mga pananim at maibenta ang kanilang mga produkto. Kumustahin natin si Igan Arnold Clavio matapos siyang magkaroon ng hemorrahagic stroke. Paano nga ba maiiwasan ang ganitong banta sa kalusugan? Pilikmata ng isang gasoline boy sa Quezon City… on fleek! Misis, Finacebook live ang nabuking niyang
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00:00:00The water is clear and clean in this half-kilometer-long irrigation canal in Dingras, Ilocos Norte.
00:00:20So even if it's raining, there are still some who are brave enough to swim here.
00:00:36But because the water in the canal comes from the nearby Madongan Dam,
00:00:41there are times when the water in this canal suddenly gets polluted.
00:00:50This is because of the strong water that falls there.
00:00:54That's why a lot of people were swept away and drowned here.
00:00:58My mother was drowned here. She's old now.
00:01:01My uncle used to work in a timber mill. He got stuck, but he's alive now.
00:01:06I'm going to give up here.
00:01:08The water, the timber, got stuck, and I also fell.
00:01:12The water is really strong.
00:01:14Francis is the last one to get stuck in the canal.
00:01:20The rescue team held their breath.
00:01:25When we saw him, his clothes were gone. His braids were gone.
00:01:33We couldn't see him because the water was cloudy, like coffee.
00:01:39I felt like I wanted to jump, like I wanted to go there.
00:01:50Thank you very much.
00:01:53In Ilocos Norte, there is an irrigation canal that has also been turned into a swimming pool.
00:01:59But it's also known as a killer canal because of the number of accidents here.
00:02:09This afternoon, May 14, it was discovered that the 14-year-old Francis got stuck in the canal.
00:02:16When we saw him, his clothes were gone.
00:02:20I was so scared. I didn't know what to do.
00:02:28But after a while,
00:02:30I saw him again.
00:02:32I was so scared. I didn't know what to do.
00:02:38He was thrown into the canal.
00:02:41We tried to save him, but we couldn't.
00:02:45We were so scared.
00:02:48They immediately informed Francis' mother, Emy, of what had happened.
00:02:52We all ran there. We looked for Francis.
00:02:59Others were looking down. I looked for him, but he wasn't there.
00:03:06Until…
00:03:07Oh, my God!
00:03:11He was a kid and he was looking for something.
00:03:14He saw a hand moving like this.
00:03:20Francis was blind and didn't know what to do.
00:03:24I wanted to jump, like I wanted to go there.
00:03:28But I couldn't because they said,
00:03:31You can't jump because you'll get in trouble down there.
00:03:38The neighbors rallied to rescue Francis.
00:03:48We couldn't see him because the water was murky, like coffee.
00:03:51The water was so murky.
00:03:54Oh, my God!
00:03:58And because they couldn't jump because of the water,
00:04:03they used ropes and sticks.
00:04:06I tied the rope and went to Francis.
00:04:10I couldn't hold it because the water was so murky.
00:04:13I let go of the rope.
00:04:15I fell like this.
00:04:18That's why Denver's rescue team escaped the murky water.
00:04:23Oh, my God!
00:04:25He was holding the rope with him on the other side of the canal.
00:04:30I fell on the canal.
00:04:32I was holding the rope.
00:04:35While one hand was holding the rope,
00:04:38the other was trying to lift Francis, who was blind.
00:04:45But they couldn't lift Francis because of his leg.
00:04:51When the water in the canal calmed down,
00:04:54that's when they rescued Francis.
00:05:01I thought it was a miracle.
00:05:03But it turned black.
00:05:05His leg turned black.
00:05:07Here, it's black.
00:05:09And here, on his neck.
00:05:12They tried to revive his son.
00:05:15I tried to push him down so the water would come out.
00:05:20But there was no water.
00:05:22There was only water and blood.
00:05:29I forced them to ride an ambulance to get to the hospital.
00:05:33They said,
00:05:35I forced them to ride an ambulance to get to the hospital.
00:05:39They said,
00:05:57Francis was declared dead on arrival.
00:06:02One month after the tragic tragedy,
00:06:05Emy still can't believe what happened to her son.
00:06:19Emy's only son, Francis, is the second son of her British husband.
00:06:23She said she supported Francis because of his love.
00:06:31I thought that maybe he would get mad at me.
00:06:33I thought he would break my head.
00:06:36The woman who did the make-up set him up.
00:06:39When Francis' dream of becoming a fashion designer came true,
00:06:42he was still able to keep his life from his lost dolls.
00:06:46Francis' favorite toy.
00:06:48He would wear it and tie his clothes.
00:06:52And he would put on make-up.
00:06:54He would hide in the room and talk to his dolls.
00:06:57It was like a way of life.
00:07:00I'm crying.
00:07:02It's a good thing that Manika is still here.
00:07:05She's gone.
00:07:11It's like a dream.
00:07:14Emi blames the drowning of her daughter
00:07:19and the wood used by the residents to make a water barrier.
00:07:24They're swimming here, sir.
00:07:26If there's a water barrier, the water won't be like this.
00:07:30It's good.
00:07:31Why didn't they go straight?
00:07:32If they went straight, there wouldn't be any water in the way.
00:07:37If you go to the dam, there's a water barrier there.
00:07:39So, if the wood is broken, you can't go in there because there's a water barrier.
00:07:44There's a gate.
00:07:45It's like there's a barbed wire.
00:07:47Maybe.
00:07:48But bathing or swimming in the canal
00:07:51is strictly prohibited.
00:07:53The first time I heard about it, it was strictly prohibited
00:07:56because of the strength of the canal.
00:07:58But then, more and more people went there.
00:08:01They didn't say anything, sir.
00:08:03That it's prohibited to swim there or that you can swim.
00:08:07To be honest, the NIA and the barangay didn't lack in reminding
00:08:13that it's prohibited to swim there because they know how big the water is.
00:08:17The NIA or National Irrigation Administration
00:08:22started installing steel grills in the canal
00:08:26to make sure that no one can swim here.
00:08:29Our office sent people there to make a trash rack cover
00:08:35so that people or animals won't be able to go in there.
00:08:42It's safer for them.
00:08:43To the residents there, please be extra careful.
00:08:47Don't swim there.
00:08:49There's a lot of water coming out there.
00:08:51Keep safe.
00:08:52If we're talking about the liability of the NIA or the local government
00:08:57or even the operator of the irrigation system,
00:09:01we can't give a conclusion that they're liable here
00:09:05because usually, by nature, the irrigation canals are open.
00:09:09We can't control who goes there.
00:09:12All the canals were cleaned up to the bottom.
00:09:14Then, the residents there were tied up.
00:09:17I'm sorry if I'm not safe
00:09:20because I don't know.
00:09:22I don't know that that's what will happen.
00:09:26Agus is still alive, just like Emy.
00:09:30But her son's memories will never be forgotten.
00:09:46Chicken feet in Manila.
00:09:48Giant inside meat in Quezon City.
00:09:52And in Cebu, delicious food because there's no waste.
00:10:01If your cravings tonight is chicken feet,
00:10:08run to Tondo.
00:10:11Where Adidas is famous for
00:10:17frying
00:10:21and dipping it in a sweet, sweet special sauce.
00:10:26That's why it tastes so good.
00:10:33It's sweet and tender.
00:10:34If you eat it, you'll only have bones left.
00:10:38Oh, this is it?
00:10:39Yes, that's it.
00:10:40Emy loves to buy chicken feet from the market.
00:10:45The feet needs to be freshly cut.
00:10:47It should be white.
00:10:48There shouldn't be any hair on the back of the feet.
00:10:53She cleans them thoroughly.
00:10:56She cuts the nails one by one.
00:11:00After we cut the nails, we blanch it.
00:11:08And then, we fry it.
00:11:13And to make it more tender, we put it in a pressure cooker.
00:11:25Next, Irma prepares their special secret sauce.
00:11:31What we do is Asado style.
00:11:40When we eat, we just ask for rice and soup.
00:11:50It tastes like Asado.
00:11:51It's a perfect dish for lunch.
00:11:53It's a perfect dish for dinner.
00:11:57It tastes like Asado.
00:11:59It's a perfect dish for dinner.
00:12:04Irma used to work as a waitress in a restaurant in Binondo.
00:12:07I make a living as a waitress of P55 per day.
00:12:12And we make ends meet.
00:12:14My husband is a waiter.
00:12:17She learned her chicken feet recipe from a good story.
00:12:23One time, Irma's husband, Ronaldo, and one of her friends drank together.
00:12:29We were asked to buy a kilo of chicken feet to make it as a partner of my husband's Happy Happy.
00:12:36Our friend said that we should hide it because one day, we will use it.
00:12:42In 2008, she started her business.
00:12:46I will cook.
00:12:47I will put it in a styrofoam.
00:12:49I will throw it away.
00:12:50I will bring it home.
00:12:52Until it explodes.
00:12:55In the past, Irma used to cook just one piece of chicken feet.
00:12:59But now, they make a lot of money.
00:13:03I make five dishes a day.
00:13:05And her feet don't get tired anymore.
00:13:10They can now afford five rolling food carts.
00:13:15We are very thankful to the person who gave us a livelihood.
00:13:20And she gave it to us because she knows that one day, she can help us.
00:13:25So, we will never forget it.
00:13:29Here in Tinaguriang, Lechon, capital of the Philippines, in La Loma, Quezon City,
00:13:35hundreds of pigs are slaughtered every day.
00:13:38And because the meat of the pigs is not slaughtered together,
00:13:44the lechoneros here discard their own meat so that it won't be wasted.
00:13:51If they don't make chicharon, they put it in a pot.
00:13:56But Ramon's discard is different.
00:13:58He makes atay, lomo, litip, baga, and even batok of pork.
00:14:03He makes a giant barbecue.
00:14:06Maybe it's twice as big as the normal barbecue that is sold.
00:14:11The collected meat of the native pigs are cleaned first.
00:14:16A continuous flow of water is needed to remove the inside of the pig's intestines.
00:14:21Soon after our pigs are slaughtered and the intestines are removed,
00:14:25we have to take care of it right away.
00:14:27Because we want to maintain the freshness of the meat.
00:14:31It is then boiled in a large pot.
00:14:36The boiled intestines are mixed with a secret sauce that has different flavors.
00:14:45And then, it is steamed.
00:14:47We use a portion of an electric pan because it is very durable.
00:14:53It is skewered on a stick.
00:14:56And then, it is grilled.
00:15:02Three to four pieces cost P50.
00:15:05Meanwhile, if you buy this on the market now, it will cost you more than P100.
00:15:10And to make it more delicious, Ramon uses a special sauce.
00:15:15He uses a special sauce that has a special flavor.
00:15:18He uses a special sauce that has a special flavor.
00:15:24And to make it more delicious, he uses a mixture of oil, tomato sauce, and soy sauce.
00:15:32He sells it for P50 per stick.
00:15:38Of course, it's delicious and tasty.
00:15:40Three people can eat this.
00:15:42How can you not come back? It's delicious, it's cheap, and you're full.
00:15:46I just started barbecuing.
00:15:48It's normal that it's big.
00:15:49And we can save a lot.
00:15:51You can put it on a stick and make it bigger.
00:15:56Mandawi Cebuano are fried.
00:16:00They love to eat this.
00:16:04They eat this in Mandawi City.
00:16:07They say that it has a special flavor.
00:16:09This is a pork cutlet.
00:16:15The pork cutlet that the chefs often skewer
00:16:21is delicious and has a good smell.
00:16:23Just like Tumbol in Tagalog.
00:16:27Tumbong, Bituka, and Chanito of pork.
00:16:31It's a bit juicy on the inside and fat on the outside.
00:16:43Every day, 100 kilos of Tumbong are brought to the processing center in Delfa.
00:16:50To remove the smell and odor, she soaks it in coffee.
00:16:56Leave it for five minutes so that the coffee can be absorbed.
00:17:00Delfa rinses it three times again to make sure that it's clean.
00:17:08After boiling for 10 minutes,
00:17:11she removes the foam.
00:17:13After boiling for 10 minutes,
00:17:16she removes the foam again to make sure that it's clean.
00:17:29The onion leaves are not fishy on the inside.
00:17:33It's more delicious.
00:17:36Then, season it with seasonings.
00:17:43Season with salt and pepper.
00:18:04Pesos 70 to 80.
00:18:06Your pork cutlet is now full.
00:18:14It's delicious and juicy.
00:18:16Before her fried Tumbong became famous,
00:18:19Delfa entered various markets.
00:18:22I borrowed money from Alahas.
00:18:24I also borrowed money from RTW.
00:18:30But her Tumbong didn't last long.
00:18:32When she borrowed money,
00:18:34she had a hard time in Sinilan.
00:18:36I borrowed money here in Cebu.
00:18:38I thought I wouldn't be able to get up.
00:18:41Later, in selling fried Tumbong,
00:18:44she became very strict.
00:18:52Now, Delfa has two branches,
00:18:55Tunggolan and Kainan ni Delfa.
00:18:57She also has a car and properties.
00:19:02My business is really a big help
00:19:04because I was able to give my nieces a job.
00:19:08There are fats in the intestines.
00:19:10Once we overeat,
00:19:11our body can have problems.
00:19:14We can have high BP or blood pressure.
00:19:17We can get an attack and eventually throw up.
00:19:20It still depends on the body of the person.
00:19:22It still depends on the age group.
00:19:24We can also eat it two to three times a week.
00:19:28The taste and story behind our food
00:19:32is really delicious.
00:19:42For us farmers,
00:19:44planting is a joke.
00:19:47For the farmers of Davao del Sur,
00:19:51Calvary is double
00:19:54because there is no proper road,
00:19:57rain or sunshine.
00:20:00They only need to sell their products.
00:20:10Planting in Mount Apo, Davao del Sur,
00:20:16is not a joke.
00:20:19Except that in the afternoons,
00:20:21the seeds are sown,
00:20:23the farmers sell their crops.
00:20:31Oops!
00:20:33Another Calvary!
00:20:39This is a three-kilometer road
00:20:42that leads to the vegetable market in town.
00:20:50This is the situation.
00:21:01Are you okay?
00:21:08It's raining heavily.
00:21:15And whenever it rains, it's always flooded.
00:21:24The motorcycles where the farmers load their goods
00:21:27are almost destroyed.
00:21:31Get up!
00:21:32That's the hardest part,
00:21:34loading the goods every day
00:21:36when it rains, floods, and floods.
00:21:42Even their horses
00:21:46are about to give up.
00:21:48They are about to give up.
00:21:51What's wrong with you?
00:21:52Oh my God!
00:21:53It's raining heavily.
00:21:59That's how it is.
00:22:00The farmers are like gambling.
00:22:02I hope our roads will be better
00:22:04so that it won't be difficult anymore.
00:22:06Until when will our countrymen
00:22:09be drowned in such a white road?
00:22:14The road is wide.
00:22:16The road is narrow.
00:22:18The road is narrow.
00:22:25This Wednesday,
00:22:26our team traveled
00:22:28to the vegetable farm
00:22:30in Purok Saturn,
00:22:32in Bungad.
00:22:34Oh, it's raining.
00:22:36Let's go.
00:22:37It's getting harder because of the white roads.
00:22:41It's also raining heavily.
00:22:44But our team members
00:22:46who are farmers
00:22:48did not ignore it.
00:22:54This long road
00:22:55is not only full of vegetables,
00:22:57but also full of children.
00:23:03There's a harvest
00:23:04that no one can do.
00:23:06I'm the only one loading.
00:23:08It's raining heavily.
00:23:09It's really hard.
00:23:11This motorcycle
00:23:12got stuck.
00:23:17Be careful.
00:23:23When they arrived at Toktok,
00:23:26the heavy rain poured,
00:23:29so they were stranded
00:23:31for almost two hours.
00:23:37When the rain stopped,
00:23:38they decided to go down
00:23:40and open the coverage
00:23:43for the safety of our team.
00:23:46But the journey down was not easy.
00:23:54One member of our team
00:23:56slipped.
00:24:04The next day,
00:24:05they were not given
00:24:07by the sun.
00:24:09In this field of cabbage,
00:24:11in Purok Saturn,
00:24:12they were able to catch Edgar.
00:24:15What he will earn
00:24:16if he manages to sell his cabbages,
00:24:19it's his payment
00:24:20for the loan he received.
00:24:22I have 30 plus.
00:24:24On the way down,
00:24:25I borrow money.
00:24:26What's left of me,
00:24:28it's just a little.
00:24:30Our farm is also happy.
00:24:31But what we are going through,
00:24:34we are not happy.
00:24:36Last year,
00:24:37Edgar lost money.
00:24:40When he was able to sell
00:24:418 to 11 pesos per kilo,
00:24:44he was supposed to earn
00:24:4535 pesos per kilo of cabbages.
00:24:49It's really hard to farm
00:24:50while the price is going down.
00:24:52We don't have money to spend.
00:24:54We also have to borrow money
00:24:55for financing.
00:24:57He will also earn
00:25:00the payment for the land
00:25:02and daily expenses
00:25:04of his 8 children.
00:25:10The 6 cabbages,
00:25:12which are 110 kilos in total,
00:25:15he will wear
00:25:16on his shoulders.
00:25:22It's really hard
00:25:23on Edgar's face.
00:25:25Especially,
00:25:26he has a scar.
00:25:29Sometimes,
00:25:30he will be hospitalized
00:25:31after being attacked
00:25:32by a horse
00:25:33down the mountain.
00:25:37I'm the only one left.
00:25:38My companions are up there.
00:25:40I thought
00:25:41I won't live there anymore.
00:25:45And his calvary has already started.
00:26:00Because of the weight of the load,
00:26:01Edgar lost his balance.
00:26:07This is where it falls
00:26:09because it's deep there.
00:26:11It won't break your load, right?
00:26:14No,
00:26:15because it's just close.
00:26:17If you roll it too high,
00:26:20it might break.
00:26:22This is where it rises.
00:26:32But even if it falls,
00:26:34Edgar is still able to walk
00:26:36because it's not raining.
00:26:39That's the hardest part.
00:26:41Every day,
00:26:42the load is heavy
00:26:43while it's raining,
00:26:44it's snowing,
00:26:45and it's raining.
00:26:49He walked for almost an hour.
00:27:02It's already past four in the afternoon
00:27:04when Edgar arrived
00:27:05to harvest vegetables.
00:27:16I have two bags of cabbage.
00:27:18I'm looking for a buyer.
00:27:20It's getting late.
00:27:22The price is going down.
00:27:23There are vendors here,
00:27:25but the price is going down.
00:27:27I'm looking for a vendor.
00:27:30Edgar bought two bags of cabbage
00:27:33for Php 2,105.
00:27:39The planters are lucky
00:27:40because the vegetables are expensive.
00:27:42But he still needs to earn more.
00:27:46That's why he still needs to
00:27:48go to the sidelines.
00:27:50For the past six years,
00:27:52my life has been like this.
00:27:55I can't survive without my family.
00:28:08Flor,
00:28:09because she doesn't have time
00:28:11to plant carrots,
00:28:12she goes to the sidelines
00:28:14to earn money for her family.
00:28:18I do this
00:28:19for our family's extra income.
00:28:25Can I help you?
00:28:31But because she doesn't have time,
00:28:33she has to ride her horse.
00:28:38It's only Php 99 per bag.
00:28:40It's Php 50 per bag.
00:28:50Whoa!
00:28:51Stop!
00:28:55Whoa!
00:28:57Flor is the one who guides her son.
00:29:00Sometimes, the horse slides,
00:29:03and it hits my foot.
00:29:05My foot hurts.
00:29:10In one day,
00:29:11Flor earned Php 4,000 to Php 6,000.
00:29:14It's okay.
00:29:15Even if it's hard,
00:29:17I can do it because it's hard.
00:29:20And what she earns here
00:29:22from Php 100 to Php 300.
00:29:25Sometimes, it's not enough.
00:29:27Sometimes, it's just right.
00:29:29When it's not enough,
00:29:30I get hungry.
00:29:38I just put it here.
00:29:39Then, I get it from the buyer.
00:29:41I'll pay later.
00:29:46This is what she adds
00:29:48to her husband's savings,
00:29:50Luciano,
00:29:51in order to pay their debts.
00:29:54Farmers are like gambling.
00:29:56Sometimes, the price of vegetables is low.
00:29:59Sometimes, it's high.
00:30:01We just want to save money
00:30:03because our children are big.
00:30:06They need to study.
00:30:08We don't have a lot of income.
00:30:14That's why Flor prays.
00:30:16I hope our path will be beautiful
00:30:19so that it won't be hard
00:30:21for us to work
00:30:23and sell our stocks.
00:30:31This is the calvary of the Filipinos.
00:30:33We put it in their local government unit.
00:30:37There are plans to build roads
00:30:40but it's not easy,
00:30:42especially their protected area.
00:30:45DNR and PAMBI,
00:30:48they are supportive of community-based livelihood
00:30:51and even farming activities
00:30:53for as long as they are within
00:30:55the multiple-use zone.
00:30:57Only in strict protection zones
00:30:59are developmental activities
00:31:01prohibited in the strict protection zone.
00:31:03If they want to propose
00:31:05farm-to-market roads,
00:31:07I think it's within the mandate of the DPWH.
00:31:10They can also ask for support
00:31:12from their barangay LGU.
00:31:14Right now, we are conducting
00:31:16a surveying capacity study
00:31:18to check what other developmental activities
00:31:21can be done within our protected area.
00:31:25The role of agriculture is very important
00:31:28in our country.
00:31:30In this case, if the farmers
00:31:32really need roads
00:31:34to go to their places,
00:31:36then there would be a very good chance
00:31:38for the proposals to be funded.
00:31:40I have a process of going through
00:31:42those under-protected areas.
00:31:44The DPWH will make sure
00:31:46that we will get the necessary
00:31:48clearances to implement the project.
00:31:51Maybe some trees will be cut,
00:31:53but the DPWH will replace them
00:31:56through the DNR.
00:32:08It's dangerous, not only in terms of
00:32:10physical difficulties
00:32:12when transporting their goods.
00:32:14Let's remember,
00:32:16many farmers are in the mountains.
00:32:18Two-thirds of our 30-million-hectare land area
00:32:21is in the mountains.
00:32:23In the farm-to-market road of Pamalaan,
00:32:25the current budget
00:32:27is P17 billion this year.
00:32:29Out of P5 trillion budget,
00:32:31that's a lot.
00:32:33No farmer, no food, no future.
00:32:36Our country has no future
00:32:38if the farmers are not given priority.
00:32:41The farm-to-market road
00:32:43is an important part
00:32:45of their livelihood.
00:32:50The call for the implementation of the project
00:32:52will come from the farmer groups,
00:32:54cooperatives and associations
00:32:56and local government units.
00:32:58The Department of Agriculture
00:33:00shall coordinate with the LGU residents
00:33:02and farmers in the implementation
00:33:04of the FMR projects.
00:33:06The Department of Agriculture 11
00:33:08is open to give appropriate
00:33:10and timely interventions like the FMR.
00:33:13More than the farm-to-market road,
00:33:15we also have our Kadiwa ng Pangulo
00:33:17or Kadiwa Market Outlet program
00:33:19just to connect our farmers
00:33:21directly to the market.
00:33:24For 2020 to 2024,
00:33:26the Department of Agriculture Davao Region
00:33:29has allocated P3.68 billion
00:33:33for the establishment of 215 farm-to-market roads.
00:33:38When I call,
00:33:40that's what I really want
00:33:42for our roads to improve.
00:33:45Because even for the youth,
00:33:47it's really hard to walk,
00:33:49especially when it rains.
00:33:51I hope you can help us
00:33:53with our roads
00:33:55to reduce the expenses
00:33:57of our stocks.
00:34:00A proper road
00:34:02is a big help
00:34:04for the farmers
00:34:06with a better price
00:34:08for their crops.
00:34:10I also hope that their products
00:34:12won't be damaged easily.
00:34:14I hope that when we bring the story
00:34:17to this neighborhood
00:34:19of the three countries,
00:34:24a road will be built
00:34:26for their farmers
00:34:28to listen and take action.
00:34:36IGAN
00:34:43This is Igan, Arnold Clavio.
00:34:46He faced a challenge
00:34:48after a hemorrhagic stroke.
00:34:52Let's greet him.
00:34:54Good morning, Igan!
00:34:56Good morning, UH Barcada!
00:34:58Good morning, UH Barcada!
00:35:00Good morning!
00:35:01His words
00:35:03are the first thing
00:35:05that wakes us up in the morning.
00:35:06Here's what you need to watch out for
00:35:08in the first episode of Mga Balita.
00:35:10In bringing the news,
00:35:12he's also our witness
00:35:14until late at night.
00:35:15Together, we will be
00:35:17a witness!
00:35:18No one else
00:35:19but Batikang Host.
00:35:21No one else but the fight
00:35:22for life and salvation.
00:35:23Not a victim,
00:35:24but a witness.
00:35:26A broadcaster
00:35:27who leads a low-priced area
00:35:29in the east of Mindanao.
00:35:31The Igan of the town.
00:35:33Good morning, Igan!
00:35:34Good morning, Igan!
00:35:37Arnold Clavio.
00:35:38Good evening, I'm Arnold Clavio.
00:35:44At the back of the camera.
00:35:49In his social media posts,
00:35:51we can see his mischief.
00:35:53What happened to you, Ate Sue?
00:35:57And he also shares
00:35:59his active lifestyle.
00:36:03That's why many were surprised
00:36:05when Igan shared his story
00:36:07online.
00:36:11Seriously,
00:36:12he shared
00:36:14that he had a stroke.
00:36:17While on the trip,
00:36:18I felt a strong
00:36:20tingling in my right arm and temple.
00:36:22I said,
00:36:23I will stop at the first hospital
00:36:24that I can see.
00:36:25After several tests,
00:36:26I found that my blood pressure
00:36:27was at 220 over 120.
00:36:30And my blood sugar reached 270.
00:36:33I was recommended
00:36:34to go under the CT scan.
00:36:36That's when I saw
00:36:37that I had a hemorrhagic stroke.
00:36:40In a country
00:36:41where stroke cases are high,
00:36:44listen to what happened
00:36:46to Igan Arnold Clavio.
00:36:49This Thursday,
00:36:50after one of his therapy sessions,
00:36:53I visited Igan.
00:37:01He still finds it difficult to move.
00:37:08He can't stretch
00:37:09his right foot for a long time.
00:37:12He can't stretch
00:37:13his right foot for a long time.
00:37:26That's why he used a wheelchair
00:37:28and a stool in our interview.
00:37:30No, where's my stool?
00:37:33Ina drove.
00:37:35Yeah.
00:37:37Okay.
00:37:39Thank you.
00:37:41Thank you.
00:37:42I want to tell you
00:37:43what's in your heart, Jessica.
00:37:45I hope I don't have to interview you
00:37:47about your illness.
00:37:49Right?
00:37:50I just want to talk to you
00:37:52about happy things.
00:37:54Be careful with your questions
00:37:55because your blood pressure might rise.
00:37:58It's simple.
00:37:59It's simple?
00:38:00Our last interview
00:38:01is about your love story.
00:38:03It's not aired yet.
00:38:05Sorry, I bumped into you.
00:38:07No, it's on the left.
00:38:08Go ahead and abuse it.
00:38:09Because whenever we see each other,
00:38:11it's always a mess.
00:38:13She's guilty
00:38:14because in our last picture,
00:38:15I bumped into her.
00:38:19See?
00:38:20I didn't forgive her
00:38:21until this happened to me.
00:38:23I didn't bump into you.
00:38:24That's how we are.
00:38:25Karine, you're brutal.
00:38:26Tough love.
00:38:27But how are you, Igan?
00:38:29The prayer that I received
00:38:31is what gives me strength.
00:38:32It's really fun.
00:38:34I declared that this is my second life.
00:38:37I didn't know what would happen to me.
00:38:39But I said,
00:38:40slowly,
00:38:41little by little,
00:38:42I'll be able to greet
00:38:43good morning again, Igan.
00:38:45Good morning, Igan!
00:38:48What happened to you?
00:38:50What is this?
00:38:51A model of fitness
00:38:53because you're a golfer.
00:38:55You're so thin.
00:38:56Just a while ago,
00:38:57you posted that
00:38:58your T-shirt size is extra small.
00:38:59That's why I wore it.
00:39:00I just wanted to show off.
00:39:01This is extra small.
00:39:02Yes.
00:39:03What happened?
00:39:04I thought you were okay.
00:39:05You were on your way
00:39:06to getting healthier.
00:39:08Yes.
00:39:09Because I told myself
00:39:10that I'm not a kid anymore.
00:39:11I was also inspired by my weight loss.
00:39:13I lost 40 pounds.
00:39:15After losing weight,
00:39:16and feeling good,
00:39:17I thought I was healthy.
00:39:18I didn't expect that
00:39:20I would be in a situation like this.
00:39:22I was hoping that I could catch up
00:39:24and watch him.
00:39:26On the night of June 11,
00:39:28while driving home
00:39:30from a golf game,
00:39:32Igan noticed something different.
00:39:34Suddenly, my right arm got cold.
00:39:37It was cold and heavy.
00:39:39My drive was erratic.
00:39:41I was like,
00:39:42what's this?
00:39:43I couldn't step on the brake and gas.
00:39:45My feet were shaking.
00:39:46I said,
00:39:47I don't want this to happen.
00:39:48So, I texted my mom.
00:39:50Oh no,
00:39:51the letters were on my cell phone.
00:39:53I couldn't complete the sentence.
00:39:56Then I saw my speedometer.
00:39:58It was so fast.
00:39:59I wasn't even stepping on it.
00:40:00I was actually stepping on it fast.
00:40:02I couldn't feel my right arm.
00:40:03I was forcing myself to brake.
00:40:05Why can't I brake?
00:40:06I had to brake.
00:40:07Because I was really unfortunate.
00:40:09Then I saw the gas station I always go to.
00:40:12I stopped.
00:40:13When I got off,
00:40:14I couldn't walk anymore.
00:40:17I was shivering.
00:40:18I was paralyzed.
00:40:20So, to get to the restroom,
00:40:22I held on to the door.
00:40:23There were railings there.
00:40:25I held on to them.
00:40:26But you still didn't ask for help.
00:40:28No.
00:40:29I said,
00:40:30maybe if I pee,
00:40:31something will be released from my body.
00:40:33It will be reduced.
00:40:34I will be able to pee.
00:40:36The next thing I did was
00:40:37I looked at myself in the mirror.
00:40:39I looked at the side of my face.
00:40:43Because what was on my mind
00:40:44was either a stroke
00:40:46or a heart attack.
00:40:48At that point,
00:40:49his right arm and left foot
00:40:51were even more paralyzed.
00:40:53However,
00:40:54he was still able to drive
00:40:57and was able to get himself to the hospital.
00:41:00I just parked my car.
00:41:02Then he went to the police station.
00:41:03I saw the doctor outside.
00:41:04I said,
00:41:05Doc,
00:41:06please help me.
00:41:07He said, lie down.
00:41:08I said, my right arm is paralyzed.
00:41:09They put me on a stretcher
00:41:10so that I could lie down.
00:41:12They put me on a stretcher
00:41:13so that I could get blood.
00:41:15Then,
00:41:16I just had a blank stare.
00:41:19I said,
00:41:20what's going to happen to me?
00:41:21I said,
00:41:22I hope nothing bad will happen to me.
00:41:23Later,
00:41:24the resident nurse
00:41:26and the ER doctor arrived.
00:41:28He said,
00:41:29Sir,
00:41:30your BP is 220 over 120.
00:41:32That's too high.
00:41:33It's too high.
00:41:34My mind was stuck
00:41:35on 120 over 80
00:41:36because this is what I'm going to get checked.
00:41:38That's what I remember.
00:41:39So,
00:41:40I trusted that this is my BP.
00:41:41This is too high.
00:41:42My blood sugar
00:41:44is 270.
00:41:46He said,
00:41:48we'll do a CT scan on you.
00:41:49He showed me the CT scan.
00:41:51He said,
00:41:52you have bleeding in your brain.
00:41:54You have hemorrhagic stroke.
00:41:56When I said stroke,
00:41:57I already said it.
00:41:59Stroke
00:42:00is a serious medical condition
00:42:03that occurs
00:42:04when the blood flow
00:42:05in a part of the brain
00:42:07is affected
00:42:08or reduced
00:42:09due to
00:42:10the loss of oxygen supply
00:42:12in our brain.
00:42:14There are different reasons
00:42:15for stroke
00:42:16or brain attack
00:42:17such as
00:42:18high blood pressure,
00:42:20head injury,
00:42:21blood formation
00:42:22in the brain
00:42:23or blood clot,
00:42:25bone damage
00:42:26in the roots,
00:42:27and the explosion
00:42:28of the roots
00:42:29or small blood vessels.
00:42:32He has an intracerebral hemorrhage.
00:42:34So, there's an artery
00:42:35that exploded
00:42:36in his brain.
00:42:38It was added
00:42:39to his condition
00:42:40that his blood sugar level
00:42:41is high.
00:42:43Arnold
00:42:44is also diabetic.
00:42:45So,
00:42:46it's not purely
00:42:47a stroke effect
00:42:48but
00:42:49he can have
00:42:50a complication
00:42:51of diabetes
00:42:52which is
00:42:53diabetic neuropathy.
00:42:54That's why
00:42:55he has pins and needles
00:42:56in his hands and feet.
00:42:57Because you
00:42:58are focused
00:42:59on your blood sugar level.
00:43:00That's what you monitor
00:43:01because you're diabetic.
00:43:02You can see
00:43:03your blood pressure.
00:43:04Is that so, Arnold?
00:43:05Now,
00:43:06when I read about it,
00:43:07both of them
00:43:08are contrapellation.
00:43:09When you become
00:43:10diabetic,
00:43:11you have to monitor
00:43:12your blood pressure.
00:43:14I really don't know.
00:43:15That's why
00:43:16my blood pressure
00:43:17is maintained.
00:43:18I've been diabetic
00:43:19until now.
00:43:20I've been taking insulin
00:43:21because
00:43:22I've been taking
00:43:23oral medication.
00:43:24You were blindsided,
00:43:25Igan.
00:43:26You were focused
00:43:27on your blood sugar monitoring.
00:43:29You were blindsided
00:43:30by the tridor
00:43:31of your blood pressure
00:43:32that almost
00:43:33left you.
00:43:34You have to hide
00:43:35your face
00:43:36so that
00:43:37you can know
00:43:38and monitor it.
00:43:39So, when I left,
00:43:40I looked at my cell phone
00:43:41and googled
00:43:42hemorrhagic stroke.
00:43:43Oh, my!
00:43:44Two days to live.
00:43:46My mother was there.
00:43:47She said,
00:43:48Mom,
00:43:49you're ready.
00:43:50She said,
00:43:51why?
00:43:52I'm two days to live.
00:43:53Who said that?
00:43:54Google.
00:43:55How can you google?
00:43:56That's the worst-case scenario
00:43:57in Google.
00:43:58Oh, that's the worst-case scenario.
00:43:59There are stages.
00:44:00At that time,
00:44:01it's like
00:44:02I prepared myself.
00:44:03Igan
00:44:04was told
00:44:05that what happened
00:44:06to his stroke
00:44:07was not serious.
00:44:08She called me
00:44:09a lucky man
00:44:10because
00:44:11I was out of danger.
00:44:12That's a miracle.
00:44:13Yes, really.
00:44:14But, you know,
00:44:15at that time,
00:44:16you know,
00:44:17yes,
00:44:18I didn't think about it.
00:44:19Because I was focused
00:44:20on getting to the hospital.
00:44:21But when
00:44:22it was getting closer,
00:44:23you were lucky
00:44:24that you were saved.
00:44:25It immediately
00:44:26entered my mind
00:44:27that God
00:44:28really exists.
00:44:29He won't
00:44:30let you go.
00:44:31Lucky for Arnold,
00:44:32his hemorrhage
00:44:33was just small.
00:44:34So, it's a small part
00:44:35on the left side
00:44:36of his thalamus.
00:44:37It was a small part
00:44:38of his thalamus.
00:44:39It was a small part
00:44:40of his thalamus.
00:44:41Its effect
00:44:42is usually
00:44:43on the other side,
00:44:44the contralateral.
00:44:45The right side
00:44:46is affected.
00:44:47It has a small weakness.
00:44:48It has numbness
00:44:49and balance,
00:44:50instability.
00:44:51Arnold did a good job.
00:44:52Presence of mind,
00:44:53he immediately
00:44:54went to the nearest hospital.
00:44:55If he didn't do that,
00:44:56his hemorrhage
00:44:57could have increased.
00:44:58It's usually there,
00:44:59on that side.
00:45:00It's true, sir.
00:45:01It's there.
00:45:02Your movement
00:45:03was affected.
00:45:04Yes,
00:45:05I walk slowly now.
00:45:06That's why
00:45:07I have support.
00:45:08I was wrong
00:45:09to even touch it.
00:45:10I was holding it
00:45:11because I said
00:45:12this is my weak point,
00:45:13right?
00:45:14I was going to put it
00:45:15on the right side.
00:45:16I was wrong
00:45:17because it's weak.
00:45:18I should have held
00:45:19the left side.
00:45:20The stronger.
00:45:21I said,
00:45:22I'm sorry,
00:45:23I just need to hold this.
00:45:24I was holding a putter.
00:45:25It's different now.
00:45:26There's a lot of direction.
00:45:27You're making fun
00:45:28of your experiences.
00:45:29That's my secret.
00:45:30Because you're
00:45:31a natural comedian.
00:45:32It's my way
00:45:33to get attention.
00:45:34It's easier
00:45:35to make people laugh.
00:45:36I believe
00:45:37when you touch it,
00:45:38the toxins
00:45:39will go away.
00:45:40That's why I said
00:45:41when you come back,
00:45:42get ready for my gold.
00:45:44Igan was observed
00:45:45in the hospital
00:45:46for three days.
00:45:48While you're lying
00:45:49in the hospital bed,
00:45:50you don't have
00:45:51any thoughts.
00:45:53You don't have
00:45:54any struggles.
00:45:56I really don't know
00:45:57how this happened.
00:45:59Because
00:46:01I told you
00:46:02I'm not a drunkard.
00:46:03I don't smoke.
00:46:05That's why I said
00:46:06I'm a trader.
00:46:07I don't choose.
00:46:08You're stressed, right?
00:46:10I enjoy life.
00:46:11I even won that day.
00:46:12So I'm happy.
00:46:13So what's your formula?
00:46:14Sometimes,
00:46:15you don't have
00:46:16anything to think about.
00:46:17The formula is
00:46:18to continue to love
00:46:20and forgive.
00:46:21Even if it happens
00:46:22suddenly,
00:46:23you're ready.
00:46:24Life is a blessing.
00:46:25I felt that more.
00:46:28So let's not waste it.
00:46:29Make it worth
00:46:30this life.
00:46:31It's safe now.
00:46:38Have you ever had
00:46:39a near-death experience
00:46:40in the past?
00:46:41No.
00:46:42And you've covered
00:46:43Abu Sayyaf and stuff.
00:46:45I'm not afraid
00:46:46of those things.
00:46:47When it comes to coverings,
00:46:48it's really a job.
00:46:53You need to
00:46:54tell the story.
00:46:56This is the real
00:46:57close call.
00:46:58Yes.
00:46:59And you'll see
00:47:00behind me
00:47:01one of the two
00:47:02Chinese vessels.
00:47:04We'll show you
00:47:05the standing.
00:47:06Because our lives,
00:47:07Arnold,
00:47:08are just like
00:47:09quick events.
00:47:10It's beautiful.
00:47:11The fleeting
00:47:12of what we do.
00:47:13What's beautiful about it?
00:47:14The death,
00:47:15the pain.
00:47:16We can see that
00:47:17in our work
00:47:18later on,
00:47:19especially when
00:47:20there are incidents
00:47:21that need to be covered.
00:47:27It came to the point
00:47:28that I was content.
00:47:30But no matter
00:47:31how good your life is,
00:47:34in an instant,
00:47:35it will really change.
00:47:36That is uncertain.
00:47:37You need to be prepared.
00:47:39But how can we
00:47:40say
00:47:41if what we're feeling
00:47:43is a possible symptom
00:47:44or a sign
00:47:45of a stroke?
00:47:47We have a mnemonic
00:47:48or acronym,
00:47:49BFAST.
00:47:50If you have that BFAST,
00:47:52signs of a stroke,
00:47:53you need to go
00:47:54to the nearest hospital
00:47:56that can treat
00:47:57stroke patients.
00:47:59Letter B,
00:48:00this is what we call
00:48:01sudden headaches
00:48:02or dizziness.
00:48:04Then I,
00:48:05eye signs.
00:48:06Sudden blurry vision
00:48:07or double vision.
00:48:09F stands for
00:48:10facial asymmetry.
00:48:12What happened to you?
00:48:14A, arm.
00:48:15Arm drift.
00:48:16The hand is falling.
00:48:17S, speech.
00:48:18Sudden speech
00:48:19difficulty.
00:48:20If there is dizziness
00:48:21or worse,
00:48:22you can't speak.
00:48:23And letter T,
00:48:24very crucial is time.
00:48:25Stroke,
00:48:26time is very important.
00:48:27And nobody knows
00:48:28who will be hit
00:48:29by another stroke.
00:48:30The more risk factors,
00:48:31the higher the risk
00:48:32for another stroke.
00:48:33That's why
00:48:34we need to reduce stress.
00:48:36It can be stress mentally
00:48:37or stress physically.
00:48:42Igan is now
00:48:43going deeper
00:48:44in rehabilitation
00:48:45and therapy.
00:48:47It's like you're
00:48:48teaching yourself
00:48:49how to move again.
00:48:50Right?
00:48:51Actually, yes.
00:48:52It's like I saw you
00:48:53in therapy.
00:48:54It's like you need to
00:48:55learn how to walk again.
00:48:56You know,
00:48:57when a baby
00:48:58starts walking,
00:48:59it's like that.
00:49:00I let it go down
00:49:01and it's not like before.
00:49:03It's damaged.
00:49:05But,
00:49:06it gave me hope
00:49:07that it will come back
00:49:08depending on your discipline
00:49:09and perseverance.
00:49:10So, I just kept going.
00:49:12He's also now
00:49:13focused on his
00:49:14blood pressure
00:49:15and sugar level.
00:49:16So, we need to get
00:49:17a BP.
00:49:18Yes.
00:49:19Everything that
00:49:20bothers me,
00:49:21our exchanges
00:49:22cannot not end.
00:49:24Check your BP.
00:49:25Is that your
00:49:26new advocacy,
00:49:27Igan?
00:49:28Yes.
00:49:29It's usually safer.
00:49:30What's that?
00:49:31BP.
00:49:32For blood pressure.
00:49:33You won't die
00:49:34if you do it often.
00:49:35If you say,
00:49:36I'm okay,
00:49:37I'll feel better.
00:49:38It's like a freighter.
00:49:40Bad news.
00:49:41Why?
00:49:42Igan,
00:49:43there are a lot of
00:49:44high bloods there.
00:49:45Drink your
00:49:46maintenance.
00:49:47I'll just drink it.
00:49:48You're good.
00:49:49Did your perspective
00:49:50change in life,
00:49:51Arno?
00:49:52Because of what happened?
00:49:53How?
00:49:54It's a lot.
00:49:55Because,
00:49:56actually,
00:49:57when it came to
00:49:58the point where
00:49:59we were fulfilled,
00:50:00we were successful
00:50:01in GMA,
00:50:02I was already there
00:50:03at the point
00:50:04where I could
00:50:05just enjoy it.
00:50:06But this happened.
00:50:07So,
00:50:08it changed even more.
00:50:09My dispositions
00:50:10in life,
00:50:11in health,
00:50:12and in
00:50:13discipline,
00:50:14helped a lot.
00:50:15Especially,
00:50:16your perspective
00:50:17on life.
00:50:18You know,
00:50:19Ma'am Jess,
00:50:20three of my rivals
00:50:21texted me
00:50:22asking
00:50:23how I was doing.
00:50:24Really?
00:50:25That's a big deal.
00:50:26You're kidding.
00:50:27I thought that
00:50:28while we were alive,
00:50:29we had no communication.
00:50:30So, you're fine now?
00:50:31I just said thank you.
00:50:32Forgiveness
00:50:33will be easier.
00:50:34Especially,
00:50:35love
00:50:36will be easier.
00:50:37Because you're
00:50:38ahead of others
00:50:39compared to yourself.
00:50:40Of course,
00:50:41what happened to you,
00:50:42you experienced it.
00:50:43You don't want
00:50:44to put them in danger.
00:50:45So,
00:50:46that will be
00:50:47my role
00:50:48in this world.
00:50:51Arnold,
00:50:52you said
00:50:53what you want to say
00:50:54to people
00:50:55is not because
00:50:56you're okay.
00:50:57It's okay.
00:50:58Can you explain that?
00:50:59I said,
00:51:00feeling okay
00:51:01doesn't mean you're okay.
00:51:02Feeling good
00:51:03doesn't mean you're good.
00:51:04So,
00:51:05listen to your body.
00:51:06That's what I did.
00:51:07Because I thought
00:51:08I was really okay.
00:51:09I didn't know
00:51:10that,
00:51:11oh my God.
00:51:12Because Iga
00:51:13was taking a break
00:51:14from his programs
00:51:15for a few weeks,
00:51:16and his colleagues
00:51:17were missing him,
00:51:18they sent him
00:51:19a message.
00:51:21I don't have
00:51:22other friends
00:51:23that I've seen
00:51:24who are strong-willed,
00:51:25but Iga.
00:51:26You can overcome this,
00:51:27Iga.
00:51:28It's all in the mind.
00:51:29Just be strong.
00:51:30I told my mom,
00:51:32I'll drink
00:51:33at her son's wedding.
00:51:34We miss you here.
00:51:37Next.
00:51:38You see,
00:51:39the plastic changed his face
00:51:40after the message.
00:51:45Hi, Iga.
00:51:46How are you?
00:51:47I'm good.
00:51:48I hope you can come back.
00:51:49I hope to
00:51:50see you soon.
00:51:51We'll be with you
00:51:52in the first episode.
00:51:54Who is crazy?
00:51:56You know a lot.
00:51:58Hi, partner.
00:51:59I miss you so much
00:52:00in our program,
00:52:01in one-on-one,
00:52:02no personality.
00:52:04I told you,
00:52:05you know,
00:52:06he did my urine,
00:52:07Dr. Diary.
00:52:08I thought
00:52:09he's their personal friend.
00:52:10He called here
00:52:11to look for urine.
00:52:12Love you, partner.
00:52:13Take care always.
00:52:15You see?
00:52:17Who's Iga?
00:52:18I'll look for it
00:52:19at the wedding.
00:52:20This is morning sunshine.
00:52:22How are you?
00:52:23I hope
00:52:25you're doing well.
00:52:26We really miss
00:52:27your free coffee.
00:52:29No more.
00:52:30Coffee is prohibited.
00:52:31The first line is not complete
00:52:32when you're not there.
00:52:33So, do your best.
00:52:34Be stronger.
00:52:36And we are praying for you,
00:52:37Ninong.
00:52:39ID.
00:52:41Where are you going,
00:52:42Daddy Iga?
00:52:43We'll follow you
00:52:44in the next episode.
00:52:46I hope to see you soon.
00:52:47Get well soon
00:52:48and God bless you.
00:52:49Thank you.
00:52:50Thank you, thank you.
00:52:51It's a good thing
00:52:52that you agreed
00:52:53without paying.
00:52:54When you wake up in the morning,
00:52:55what do you think
00:52:56about your life now?
00:52:57It's good.
00:52:59It's really good.
00:53:00They gave me
00:53:01a new life.
00:53:02What's the new day?
00:53:04That will be done.
00:53:05I have nothing to ask for.
00:53:07So,
00:53:08no matter what happens,
00:53:09I'm ready.
00:53:11You never asked
00:53:12why me?
00:53:14Because usually
00:53:15when we hear
00:53:16those stories,
00:53:17those who go through
00:53:18that kind of thing,
00:53:19I never asked him.
00:53:20Nothing?
00:53:21Nothing.
00:53:22He gave me a new life.
00:53:23So, you're more accepting?
00:53:25Yes.
00:53:26My question
00:53:27is not about my child.
00:53:28My question is
00:53:29what else
00:53:30can I do
00:53:31for your glory?
00:53:33They say,
00:53:34doctor,
00:53:35be careful
00:53:36of the second attack.
00:53:37Of course,
00:53:38we're there
00:53:39to be careful.
00:53:40But,
00:53:42if it's a new trial,
00:53:43I'm still thankful
00:53:44for the blessings
00:53:45that he gave me.
00:53:46At least,
00:53:47I experienced
00:53:48his love
00:53:49when I was pregnant.
00:53:51He really didn't
00:53:52let me down.
00:53:53When I was pregnant,
00:53:54he was still there
00:53:55when I was about to give birth.
00:53:56He didn't ask anything.
00:53:58He hugged me.
00:54:00He saved me.
00:54:02I have nothing to ask for.
00:54:03I'm okay with that.
00:54:05Praise God.
00:54:06Yes.
00:54:07I'm really proud of him.
00:54:08Congratulations.
00:54:09There are other reasons
00:54:10why I'm happy.
00:54:11In your new life,
00:54:12Arnold.
00:54:13Yes.
00:54:14Yes.
00:54:19Stroke
00:54:20is not a choice.
00:54:22So,
00:54:23let's take care
00:54:24of our health
00:54:26for our family,
00:54:27for our loved ones,
00:54:30and for our
00:54:32children.
00:54:33Thank you.
00:54:34Thank you, Ma'am Jel.
00:54:35Thank you.
00:54:36Thank you, Ma'am Jel.
00:54:37Thank you.
00:54:38Thank you, Ma'am Jel.
00:54:39Thank you, Ma'am Jel.
00:54:40Thank you, Ma'am Jel.
00:54:41Yes, thank you.
00:54:42Thank you.
00:54:48For those
00:54:49with small
00:54:50eyelashes,
00:54:52this is an eyelash extension.
00:54:54You can add this
00:54:56to make your eyes look bigger.
00:54:58But,
00:54:59change this
00:55:00to the Gasoline Boy
00:55:01by Bernard
00:55:02which has
00:55:03eyelashes
00:55:04on fleek.
00:55:07All eyes
00:55:08are the ones
00:55:09It's not. They're just pretending to be blind.
00:55:14For this gasoline boy, he's just a gasoline boy.
00:55:18But his eyelashes are very long.
00:55:23I was a bit shocked because it's my first time.
00:55:26I saw him carrying gas and wearing long eyelashes.
00:55:31Let's meet him eye to eye.
00:55:34This is Inad.
00:55:36Since his eyelashes went viral, he became an instant celebrity.
00:55:41When people take pictures of me, they say,
00:55:43Bro, you have beautiful eyelashes.
00:55:44We're happy because of his amazing eyelashes.
00:55:47That's why our customers are happy with him.
00:55:51When I go home, people look at me.
00:55:58And whenever he plays basketball,
00:56:00the Eagles have nothing to do with the ball,
00:56:06but with his eyelashes.
00:56:08I hope we win.
00:56:14I hope you guys become rich when you play basketball.
00:56:21But to make it clear,
00:56:22even though his eyelashes are very long,
00:56:26Let's do business.
00:56:27He said he's gay.
00:56:28Let's just eat.
00:56:29Maybe he practiced it.
00:56:32His wife tripped him.
00:56:35His wife practiced it.
00:56:37Supportive husband.
00:56:42But do they have doubts?
00:56:44Why?
00:56:47Inad didn't practice it.
00:56:50His wife tripped him.
00:56:53Now, I don't have a boyfriend or wife.
00:56:56When it comes to putting on eyelash extensions,
00:56:59he said,
00:57:00Self-care.
00:57:01It's up to me.
00:57:02This is what I want.
00:57:04Inad's story is,
00:57:05in the past few months,
00:57:07he was stressed when he noticed
00:57:09that I don't have eyelashes.
00:57:12It's a hassle,
00:57:13especially in his job.
00:57:15It's easy to go home.
00:57:16When it rains,
00:57:17when it gets wet,
00:57:18it gets stuck in the eyes.
00:57:19Now, let's rate Self.
00:57:22Why did you rate Self?
00:57:24Until one day,
00:57:25I saw a female costumer.
00:57:27Her style was like a barbie.
00:57:28That's why I fell in love with her.
00:57:33She tricked me,
00:57:34but I didn't believe her.
00:57:36That's why he ran away
00:57:38to his salon.
00:57:40Why did you put it like that?
00:57:41I said, I tried it again,
00:57:42if it suits me or not.
00:57:44They asked me,
00:57:45if it's a natural look or whatever.
00:57:47Let's try the volume.
00:57:48300 pesos only.
00:57:49When I lie down,
00:57:50it hurts because
00:57:51it's poked.
00:57:52When he saw the finished product,
00:57:54I asked myself,
00:57:55where is it?
00:57:56I look like a gay.
00:57:57I was happy
00:57:58when I put it on.
00:58:03I was happy.
00:58:04Why do I have beautiful eyelashes?
00:58:05I didn't do anything.
00:58:07It's beautiful.
00:58:08I was surprised.
00:58:09It really suits you.
00:58:10But,
00:58:11there are also those
00:58:12who raised their eyebrows at him.
00:58:14I look like a bald gay
00:58:15who lost his hair
00:58:16and put it on his eyelashes.
00:58:19If only his bashers knew
00:58:21that it's hard
00:58:23to maintain.
00:58:25Pepper, bacon, bashers,
00:58:26bashers, don't know.
00:58:27Pepper, bacon, bashers,
00:58:28bashers, don't know.
00:58:29Pepper, bacon, bashers,
00:58:30bashers, don't know.
00:58:32It's easy to remove.
00:58:33I just put it here
00:58:34on the bottom.
00:58:35Just four.
00:58:36If the water is enough,
00:58:37it won't be cut.
00:58:38He said,
00:58:39he changes it every month.
00:58:41When it's fixed,
00:58:42I remove it all
00:58:43and put it back.
00:58:44Inad said,
00:58:45this is also a way
00:58:46for his self-love.
00:58:48In 2019,
00:58:50Inad left his girlfriend.
00:58:52I have a girlfriend
00:58:53within six months.
00:58:54She suddenly left
00:58:55and I didn't notice.
00:58:56Your honor,
00:58:57I don't remember
00:58:58why she left me in the farm.
00:59:00Because of their separation,
00:59:02he lost confidence
00:59:03to find
00:59:04a new partner.
00:59:06And when he
00:59:07tried to look at her again,
00:59:10he gradually regained
00:59:12his lost confidence.
00:59:14You know,
00:59:15it's good to try.
00:59:16Maybe we can take a picture.
00:59:17Okay, no problem.
00:59:18It's just a picture.
00:59:20So this Friday,
00:59:21we answered
00:59:22Inad's eyelash extension
00:59:23this month.
00:59:26The first procedure
00:59:27that I did
00:59:28was to put
00:59:29a glue remover
00:59:30to remove
00:59:31his last eyelash extension.
00:59:34What I chose
00:59:35to put on him
00:59:36is Dramatic Volume.
00:59:38With Dramatic Volume,
00:59:39he can cover
00:59:40all the spaces
00:59:42and it's not a cluster.
00:59:44It's one-to-one
00:59:45that I put on him
00:59:46with wide eyelashes.
00:59:49How do you feel?
00:59:50I feel good.
00:59:51I'm excited
00:59:52to finish the product.
01:00:03I'm so happy
01:00:04that my new eyelashes
01:00:05will look better
01:00:07because it will look
01:00:08more natural.
01:00:10Generally,
01:00:11it's safe
01:00:12to put on
01:00:13eyelash extensions.
01:00:14But you should know
01:00:16the right technique
01:00:18to take care
01:00:19of your own eyes.
01:00:20Because,
01:00:21for example,
01:00:22if you do it
01:00:23in the wrong salon
01:00:24or the wrong facility,
01:00:25you can endanger
01:00:26your eyes.
01:00:28Number one,
01:00:29what we should do
01:00:30is to wash the lash.
01:00:31Because there are
01:00:32a lot of dust,
01:00:33dirt,
01:00:34and debris
01:00:35that goes there.
01:00:36If it gets dirty
01:00:37and the oil gets stuck,
01:00:38it's prone
01:00:39to come off.
01:00:40Our second
01:00:41is the sleeping position.
01:00:43I advise my clients
01:00:44to sleep
01:00:45while lying down.
01:00:47And like,
01:00:48avoid lying down
01:00:49and especially
01:00:50lying down.
01:00:51I think nowadays,
01:00:52a lot of people
01:00:53put on nails.
01:00:54Men too,
01:00:55even straight men.
01:00:56So like,
01:00:57why not for lashes too?
01:00:58We can do that too.
01:01:00It's not right
01:01:01to say that
01:01:02except that
01:01:03she likes
01:01:04masculine or feminine things,
01:01:05it's connected
01:01:06to her identity.
01:01:07Sexual orientation
01:01:08is different
01:01:09from your gender identity.
01:01:10Those are things
01:01:11that we do
01:01:12to ourselves
01:01:13because it makes us
01:01:14feel good.
01:01:15That's what makes us
01:01:16handsome and beautiful.
01:01:17That's why
01:01:18we're able to
01:01:19have a good life.
01:01:20Putting on
01:01:21eyelashes
01:01:22is for a long life
01:01:23up until
01:01:24we grow old.
01:01:25Ina is a dead man
01:01:26in front of the eyes.
01:01:27But
01:01:28as long as
01:01:29she has
01:01:30eyelashes,
01:01:31always
01:01:32on fleek.
01:01:33Ayos!
01:01:41Mister
01:01:42and his
01:01:43enemy
01:01:44is stuck
01:01:45and caught
01:01:46by his
01:01:47wife.
01:01:48And what happened
01:01:49was caught
01:01:50on
01:01:51Facebook Live.
01:02:00In this video,
01:02:01we can see
01:02:02a woman
01:02:03who is
01:02:04strongly
01:02:05against
01:02:06a delivery
01:02:07truck.
01:02:10But she has
01:02:11no plans
01:02:12to hurt
01:02:13herself.
01:02:14She just did it
01:02:15to force
01:02:16the truck drivers
01:02:17to get off.
01:02:18Hey, what are you doing?
01:02:19What are you doing there?
01:02:20No one else
01:02:21but her
01:02:22mister
01:02:23and his
01:02:24enemy.
01:02:25His enemy.
01:02:46Oh my God.
01:02:47Oh my God.
01:02:49Hey, wait up.
01:02:50Come to my life.
01:02:51His enemy is there.
01:02:53Until his wife
01:02:54finished
01:02:55the following
01:02:56scenes
01:02:57on Facebook Live.
01:02:58His enemy.
01:02:59That's why
01:03:00you have a strong
01:03:01heart.
01:03:02Now, let's see
01:03:03if his heart is not shy.
01:03:04Look at me.
01:03:05Why?
01:03:06Do you want me to slap you?
01:03:07No.
01:03:09It's my turn.
01:03:10No.
01:03:11Why?
01:03:12Let's see.
01:03:13A wife
01:03:14who is silent
01:03:15in front of her husband
01:03:16to deceive
01:03:17her mister.
01:03:18I'll really hit
01:03:19your wife.
01:03:20Ouch.
01:03:21Ouch.
01:03:24Let's go live
01:03:25so they can see.
01:03:26The woman
01:03:27who went live
01:03:28after catching
01:03:29her mister
01:03:30who was with
01:03:31someone else,
01:03:32Stella.
01:03:35She's crying.
01:03:36This is my wound.
01:03:37It's a bit...
01:03:38It's from
01:03:39the time
01:03:40I had a car accident.
01:03:41This is it.
01:03:42Stella's
01:03:43wound is
01:03:44very deep.
01:03:45It's slowly
01:03:46healing.
01:03:47But
01:03:48her heart
01:03:49is not.
01:03:50They were
01:03:51attacked
01:03:52by her mister
01:03:53whose name
01:03:54is Marvin.
01:03:55Remember,
01:03:56it still hurts.
01:03:57The trauma
01:03:58is still there.
01:04:01On the night
01:04:02of June 9,
01:04:03Stella was arrested
01:04:04when she didn't
01:04:05feel that
01:04:06her mister
01:04:07was on duty
01:04:08who was a
01:04:09truck driver.
01:04:10I said,
01:04:11there's no chat
01:04:12and I opened
01:04:13her account.
01:04:14At that point,
01:04:15Stella's investigation
01:04:16was in a hurry
01:04:17because
01:04:18they were sending
01:04:19a GC
01:04:20to check
01:04:21if she was being
01:04:22loaded or taken away.
01:04:24Stella
01:04:25was noticed
01:04:26in the picture.
01:04:29I was wondering
01:04:30why there was
01:04:31only one cellphone
01:04:32and she was
01:04:33the only one
01:04:34traveling alone.
01:04:35I was wondering
01:04:36why she was
01:04:37in the passenger seat.
01:04:38I went there
01:04:39and she was
01:04:40really with someone.
01:04:41She was with a truck
01:04:42with a black bag
01:04:43on her back
01:04:44with a pink strap.
01:04:46That's when I got nervous.
01:04:47I thought
01:04:48she was with
01:04:49another woman.
01:04:50Stella
01:04:51was immediately
01:04:52called by her mister.
01:04:53Is your woman
01:04:54with you?
01:04:55She said,
01:04:56no,
01:04:57you're right.
01:04:58Okay,
01:04:59show me the side
01:05:00of the truck.
01:05:01She said,
01:05:02I'm not with anyone.
01:05:03But because
01:05:04she wasn't
01:05:05convinced
01:05:06in her explanation,
01:05:07she decided
01:05:08to go to Marvin
01:05:09in his
01:05:10house.
01:05:11She said,
01:05:12she was really
01:05:13sure that
01:05:14she was with
01:05:15her husband
01:05:16and her husband.
01:05:18Stella
01:05:19was getting
01:05:20more and more nervous.
01:05:21I was getting
01:05:22nervous.
01:05:23I was getting
01:05:24nervous.
01:05:25The woman
01:05:26was waiting
01:05:27outside
01:05:28for three hours.
01:05:30I saw them
01:05:31going outside.
01:05:32There,
01:05:33she asked
01:05:34the rider
01:05:35to record
01:05:36the next
01:05:37things that
01:05:38will happen
01:05:39until
01:05:40nothing happens.
01:05:44Stella
01:05:45stopped
01:05:46the truck
01:05:47that her mister
01:05:48was driving.
01:05:52She was surprised
01:05:53when I jumped
01:05:54and passed the truck.
01:05:55I said,
01:05:56stop it.
01:06:04Of course,
01:06:05she was really scared.
01:06:06She's my wife.
01:06:08And Stella
01:06:09was right.
01:06:10Confirmed.
01:06:11There was a woman
01:06:12lying down.
01:06:13We couldn't do anything
01:06:14to that woman.
01:06:15She told me,
01:06:16let's catch her.
01:06:23She ran to my side
01:06:24so I jumped
01:06:25to the side mirror.
01:06:30I jumped there.
01:06:34My husband
01:06:35didn't have a plan
01:06:36to do that.
01:06:37When I shouted
01:06:38for help,
01:06:39he heard me
01:06:40and stopped.
01:06:42I said,
01:06:43get up
01:06:44and get in.
01:06:45I was driving.
01:06:46I didn't say anything.
01:06:48The woman
01:06:49opened the door
01:06:50and I got in.
01:06:51We're live, guys.
01:06:53Look at her face.
01:06:54That's why
01:06:55you're strong-willed.
01:06:57I thought
01:06:58I'll do a live.
01:06:59I have evidence
01:07:00that they're my last partner.
01:07:01Look at your face.
01:07:02Oh my God.
01:07:03You're embarrassed.
01:07:04You look angry.
01:07:05She's hiding her face
01:07:06from me.
01:07:07You look angry.
01:07:08You have a thick face.
01:07:09You have a thick face.
01:07:10That's why she's angry.
01:07:11I'm embarrassed.
01:07:12You think
01:07:13I don't have the instinct
01:07:14to be with you?
01:07:15Let's see
01:07:16where you can hide
01:07:17your anger.
01:07:18Because she wants
01:07:19to steal your car.
01:07:20Get out.
01:07:21Get out.
01:07:22Shut up.
01:07:23We're not stupid.
01:07:24Get out.
01:07:25Get out.
01:07:26Get out of there.
01:07:27Get out.
01:07:28Get out.
01:07:29Get out.
01:07:30Give me the phone.
01:07:31No.
01:07:32Give it to me.
01:07:33Give it to me.
01:07:34Until the middle of their relationship,
01:07:36the couple
01:07:37even stole
01:07:38the cellphone
01:07:39that Stella was holding.
01:07:40Is that my cellphone?
01:07:41No.
01:07:42You're a jerk.
01:07:43I'll hit you.
01:07:44I'll hit you in your face.
01:07:45I'll hit you.
01:07:46You're so annoying.
01:07:47Ouch.
01:07:48Get out of there.
01:07:49Get out of there.
01:07:50Don't hurt me.
01:07:51Yes.
01:07:52You're a jerk.
01:07:53You're a jerk.
01:07:54You're a jerk.
01:07:55How did their relationship
01:07:56end up like this?
01:07:59Relationship.
01:08:03In 2006,
01:08:04when Stella and Marvin got married,
01:08:06they had three children.
01:08:08She's really kind.
01:08:09When she doesn't have to go to school,
01:08:10she helps her children.
01:08:11When she wakes up,
01:08:12she says,
01:08:13you're going to eat.
01:08:14She tries to feed our children.
01:08:16But just this past March,
01:08:17Stella
01:08:18had a discovery.
01:08:20Marvin
01:08:21has a different relationship.
01:08:24The woman texted me.
01:08:25She said,
01:08:26I replied,
01:08:27why?
01:08:28I called her.
01:08:29I called my number,
01:08:30not her number.
01:08:31The woman answered.
01:08:32Who's this?
01:08:33Why are you texting my husband's number?
01:08:34The woman didn't answer.
01:08:35The woman texted.
01:08:36Oh, it's just a wrong send.
01:08:37I'm already hungry.
01:08:38That's why Stella
01:08:39secretly installed an app
01:08:41on her husband's cell phone
01:08:43that automatically records
01:08:46whenever Marvin calls.
01:08:49The next day,
01:08:50when she got home,
01:08:51I saw
01:08:52that the woman
01:08:53wasn't just a wrong send.
01:08:55The woman
01:08:56who texted Marvin
01:08:57was hidden
01:08:58under the name
01:08:59Cherry.
01:09:00Marvin's co-worker.
01:09:01I'm from Mexico.
01:09:03Pampanga.
01:09:04She asked me
01:09:05if I could come home
01:09:06with her
01:09:07because my teeth hurt.
01:09:08I said,
01:09:09no problem.
01:09:10We have the same job.
01:09:11She told me
01:09:12to get her number
01:09:13so that
01:09:14when I get home,
01:09:15I can come home with her.
01:09:16That's it.
01:09:17Our relationship
01:09:18continued.
01:09:19She would buy me shoes,
01:09:20beads,
01:09:21things like that.
01:09:22I was happy in the beginning.
01:09:23But in the end,
01:09:24I became conscious.
01:09:25That's why Stella
01:09:26confronted
01:09:27Cherry
01:09:28and her husband.
01:09:29The three of us talked.
01:09:30She said,
01:09:31let's stop this
01:09:32because my husband knows.
01:09:33The woman said,
01:09:34fine,
01:09:35I'll avoid it.
01:09:36Even so,
01:09:37it still didn't
01:09:38go through the talk.
01:09:39That's my husband's necklace.
01:09:40Until Stella
01:09:41caught
01:09:42her husband
01:09:43with her
01:09:44in the truck,
01:09:45Cherry.
01:09:46What's this?
01:09:47You're wearing a mask.
01:09:48You have a thick face.
01:09:49That's his necklace.
01:09:50Their
01:09:51forbidden love
01:09:52still continued.
01:09:53Hi, Mars.
01:09:54I'll catch them
01:09:55with his necklace.
01:09:56I'll just
01:09:57put him in jail.
01:09:58Hey!
01:09:59He has a big nail.
01:10:00His nail is bigger than mine.
01:10:01It's wrinkled here.
01:10:02His walk
01:10:03is like mine.
01:10:04I'll put him in jail.
01:10:05You think?
01:10:06When we got off
01:10:07from Skyway
01:10:08to Nubaliches,
01:10:09the woman
01:10:10was waiting for me
01:10:11to go to the hospital.
01:10:12She really
01:10:13can't forgive me.
01:10:14I want to put her in jail
01:10:15at that time.
01:10:18The case
01:10:19that can be
01:10:20investigated
01:10:21by the husband
01:10:22and his necklace
01:10:23is the Concubinage case.
01:10:24In this case,
01:10:25the man
01:10:26was sentenced
01:10:27to 4 years
01:10:28in prison.
01:10:29The woman
01:10:30was sentenced
01:10:31to
01:10:32discero
01:10:33or
01:10:34banishment
01:10:35for her
01:10:36to live
01:10:37in a particular
01:10:38place.
01:10:39Aside from this,
01:10:40the husband
01:10:41can also
01:10:42file a case
01:10:43against the woman
01:10:44where the prison
01:10:45can last
01:10:46up to 12 years.
01:10:47If they were not
01:10:48caught in the act
01:10:49like in this video,
01:10:50violence
01:10:51against women
01:10:52and children
01:10:53can also be
01:10:54punished
01:10:55because
01:10:56marital infidelity
01:10:57is considered
01:10:58as psychological
01:10:59violence
01:11:00under our
01:11:01violence against
01:11:02women and children.
01:11:05Next,
01:11:06Stella,
01:11:07who has a
01:11:08miserable life,
01:11:09is driving
01:11:10her husband's truck.
01:11:14We're live, guys.
01:11:16She's stuck.
01:11:17Where is
01:11:18this woman
01:11:19driving?
01:11:20She's in Calaguyo.
01:11:21You really thought
01:11:22that I don't have
01:11:23a strong instinct
01:11:24to be with you?
01:11:26Where is Cherry?
01:11:28Our team
01:11:29asked her
01:11:31to leave.
01:11:33That's not
01:11:34up to us.
01:11:35She's a good daughter.
01:11:38Cherry said
01:11:39that she's ready
01:11:40to hold an interview
01:11:41about the time
01:11:42and place
01:11:43where she was
01:11:44banished.
01:11:46But
01:11:47will she be able
01:11:48to make it?
01:11:49We're here
01:11:50in May Park.
01:11:53Just come here.
01:11:59There's nothing
01:12:00that can stop
01:12:01these passionate
01:12:02races
01:12:07in our
01:12:09return.
01:12:15Stella,
01:12:16who has a
01:12:17miserable life,
01:12:18is driving
01:12:19her husband's truck.
01:12:23We're live, guys.
01:12:25She's stuck.
01:12:26Where is
01:12:27this woman
01:12:28driving?
01:12:29She's in Calaguyo.
01:12:30You really thought
01:12:31that I don't have
01:12:32a strong instinct
01:12:33to be with you?
01:12:34Let's see where
01:12:35you'll be able
01:12:36to make it.
01:12:41Our team
01:12:42talked to
01:12:43Cherry on the phone.
01:12:44The woman
01:12:45is a third party
01:12:46in the relationship
01:12:47of Stella
01:12:48and Marvin.
01:12:49You're beautiful.
01:12:50You have a nice face.
01:12:51Oh my God!
01:12:52You're so shy.
01:12:53You look like an Englishman.
01:12:54She will be interviewed
01:12:55about the time
01:12:56and place
01:12:57where she was banished.
01:12:58We're here
01:12:59in May Park.
01:13:02Just come here.
01:13:06But she didn't
01:13:07run away.
01:13:15Our team went to
01:13:16the address
01:13:17where her family
01:13:18lives.
01:13:20And there,
01:13:21she met
01:13:22her mother.
01:13:24Mirna.
01:13:25She doesn't have
01:13:26a real name.
01:13:27She's angry,
01:13:28she's hurt,
01:13:29she's pitiful.
01:13:30I saw my daughter
01:13:31while she was
01:13:32driving.
01:13:33Get out of there!
01:13:34Get out of there!
01:13:35Don't hurt her!
01:13:36I don't hurt
01:13:37my daughter.
01:13:38Cherry doesn't
01:13:39want to go home
01:13:40yet.
01:13:41And she doesn't
01:13:42know where
01:13:43she is right now.
01:13:44She said,
01:13:45you take care
01:13:46of my children.
01:13:47But you know,
01:13:48I'm strong.
01:13:49Of course,
01:13:50we're just humans.
01:13:51We're not
01:13:52perfect.
01:13:53I'm sorry
01:13:54for my wife.
01:13:55I'm the one
01:13:56who's asking for
01:13:57your forgiveness.
01:13:58I didn't do anything
01:13:59to my daughter.
01:14:00It's not our fault.
01:14:01She's my wife.
01:14:03She's my good daughter.
01:14:04You really think
01:14:05I don't have
01:14:06the instinct
01:14:07to be with you?
01:14:08Let's see
01:14:09where you can
01:14:10hide your classism.
01:14:11Meanwhile,
01:14:12after the
01:14:13online scandal,
01:14:16Marvin and Stella
01:14:17had a serious talk.
01:14:20I told her,
01:14:21I'll forgive you
01:14:22and your family.
01:14:24I really want to
01:14:25put her in jail.
01:14:27But my children
01:14:28said that
01:14:29their father
01:14:30should forgive them
01:14:31because
01:14:32it's not just
01:14:33a mistake.
01:14:34They're already
01:14:35bad fathers.
01:14:36Now,
01:14:37they're still
01:14:38together.
01:14:39It still hurts
01:14:40even though
01:14:41your wound is still
01:14:42not healed.
01:14:43The trauma
01:14:44is still there.
01:14:46Even though
01:14:47I sleep next to her,
01:14:48I still ask for
01:14:49her forgiveness
01:14:50before I sleep
01:14:51so that she can
01:14:52forgive me.
01:14:53He keeps saying
01:14:54that he'll apologize
01:14:55every day.
01:14:56He'll make up for it.
01:14:57I can't forgive him
01:14:58right away.
01:15:02To help
01:15:03Stella and Marvin,
01:15:04we brought them
01:15:05to marriage counseling.
01:15:07If you have
01:15:08something that
01:15:09you don't understand,
01:15:10you should talk to them.
01:15:11If not,
01:15:12consult with
01:15:13professionals
01:15:14who can help
01:15:15with therapy.
01:15:16Honestly,
01:15:17there's no
01:15:18right or wrong
01:15:19confrontation.
01:15:20If you're going to
01:15:21give in,
01:15:22make sure that
01:15:23it's really,
01:15:24really,
01:15:25real.
01:15:26If you think
01:15:27that you have
01:15:28evidence.
01:15:32Infidelity
01:15:33is 21.4 percent.
01:15:34The latest
01:15:35stats
01:15:36from the
01:15:37National Demographic
01:15:38and Health Survey
01:15:39are statistics
01:15:40of 2003.
01:15:41However,
01:15:42at the same time,
01:15:43they're saying
01:15:44that the rise
01:15:45is just because
01:15:46of the reportage
01:15:47rather than
01:15:48the actual rise.
01:15:49A woman has the right
01:15:50to be a bridge
01:15:51between her relationship
01:15:52and her family life.
01:15:53A woman doesn't
01:15:54need a man
01:15:55to be whole.
01:15:56She can be whole
01:15:57on herself.
01:15:58And even if she has
01:15:59a child,
01:16:00she can be whole
01:16:01if she has a child
01:16:02that she supports.
01:16:03A woman also
01:16:04needs emotional
01:16:05support from friends.
01:16:06Their social network
01:16:07will be their
01:16:08means
01:16:09for them
01:16:10to feel
01:16:11emotionally
01:16:12or otherwise
01:16:13that there's
01:16:14help for them.
01:16:24Be a lesson
01:16:25to everyone
01:16:26that it's not right
01:16:27to deceive your husband.
01:16:28Don't try
01:16:29to make your family
01:16:30stronger.
01:16:31I'll do my best
01:16:32to show my family,
01:16:33my wife,
01:16:34my children,
01:16:35that I'll change.
01:16:36When it comes to my life,
01:16:37there's the power.
01:16:39Trust.
01:16:40Be very careful
01:16:41because
01:16:42if it's broken,
01:16:44it's very hard
01:16:45to fix.
01:16:47Don't block
01:16:48the road
01:16:49or even
01:16:51the truck.
01:16:55Thank you
01:16:56for watching,
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