Depression Ka ilaj - Mufti Tariq Masood
Depression Ka ilaj - Mufti Tariq Masood
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00:17Do you know what is the greatest quality of Islam?
00:19Right now, the biggest problem of the world is depression.
00:22No one has a cure for it.
00:25Islam is not even treating it.
00:27Islam says, I have a solution for it.
00:29If I start making a list, listening to people's phone calls,
00:32how many people, after listening to my statements,
00:35have been taking medicines for depression for 5-6 years,
00:38and they have stopped taking them.
00:40You will be surprised.
00:41You can say, Mufti Sahab, you are making jokes, that is why.
00:43No, no, no, no, no.
00:45After listening to those statements,
00:46which are about my statements, especially about stress and depression.
00:50Today, after Maghrib, a person called from Islamabad.
00:53I picked it up by coincidence.
00:54Oh, Mufti Sahab, I have been looking for you for a long time.
00:56I said, what happened, brother?
00:58He said, brother, I have been taking medicines for depression for many years.
01:02My depression was not getting over.
01:04I heard your statement against depression.
01:07How to get rid of depression?
01:08It was this or I don't know what it was.
01:10He said, I am surprised that my depression is over.
01:14And he is saying, I am fighting psychiatric doctors,
01:16that by listening to this cleric's statement, I got cured.
01:21Who is neither a psychiatrist, nor has he done a course on depression.
01:25And by taking your medicines, I am not getting cured.
01:29So I said to him, my brother, this is the miracle of a cleric.
01:32Say, no.
01:34We are also happy.
01:36So Islam, we do not say that we are true Muslims.
01:39We are very useless.
01:40There is a relationship towards Islam.
01:43It keeps giving us consolation.
01:45What does it keep doing?
01:47It keeps giving us consolation.
01:48Brother, everything is set, there is no problem.
01:50It will be done, it will be done.
01:51Be patient.
01:52Okay?
01:55What does it mean?
01:56It means, my problem will be solved.
01:58This is what it means.
01:59You are taking something else.
02:00By the way, I am also saying the same thing.
02:02Okay, anyway.
02:04I will give you an example of this.
02:05An example.
02:06You will understand later.
02:09Sometimes I get excited, so I pick up the phone.
02:11After a long time, I have started listening to the phone.
02:13But that is also because it gets so full,
02:17that after listening to people's tensions, a person also gets tired.
02:20Then I turn it off.
02:21Now I am completely mobile-less.
02:23My mobile has left my life.
02:25So I have become exactly like when a new mobile was invented.
02:30Right?
02:31Now I have again,
02:32I will turn it off again.
02:34So I listened to the phone.
02:36Someone called me and told me.
02:38A woman said that one of my children was born sick.
02:42Innocent.
02:43The other too.
02:44Now I am going to be orphaned again.
02:46I am in so much tension that a third innocent child was born.
02:51And because of tension, my condition became like this.
02:53I am taking pills.
02:54I am doing like this.
02:56And I am reading Wazifa.
02:58And then she said to me.
03:00I read such a long Wazifa at night that when I slept, I had a dream.
03:04I said.
03:05I listened a lot.
03:06Now you keep quiet.
03:08She said that I slept at night.
03:09I read this Wazifa.
03:10An Amil told me.
03:11An old man told me.
03:12This has happened.
03:13So I read this Wazifa.
03:14I had a dream.
03:15So as soon as I reached the dream, I said stop.
03:19I said don't tell me dreams.
03:21Don't come out of the world of dreams.
03:23I said.
03:25She said tell me a Wazifa.
03:27I said I will not tell you Wazifa at all.
03:31Because you are getting this dream by reading this Wazifa.
03:34And the other dream by reading another Wazifa.
03:36The man who gets tired of reading.
03:38Then strange dreams come.
03:40I said.
03:41Madam.
03:42Your treatment is only one thing.
03:46Why did you assume that I do not want an orphaned child at any cost?
03:50This thinking is wrong.
03:51You are fighting with God.
03:54Do you understand?
03:55Your will in this world.
03:57Say.
03:58No.
03:58Why should God be involved in this?
04:00Be content with God's will.
04:02Pray.
04:02Don't read any Wazifa.
04:03Are you out of your mind?
04:04Are you having dreams?
04:05Then leave them.
04:07Come to the world of truth.
04:08Pray.
04:08O Allah, give me a good and pious child.
04:10Bow before Allah.
04:12And O Allah, give me a healthy child.
04:14Don't put me in a test.
04:17Pray and ask.
04:18But keep in your heart.
04:19It was my job to ask.
04:21Whatever will happen to him.
04:23Say.
04:24As you wish.
04:24And whatever will happen to me.
04:26Will be better.
04:29My God is wrong with me.
04:32I said.
04:33Be mentally prepared.
04:34The third one can also be accepted.
04:38What is this?
04:38My life is like this.
04:39I said.
04:40We are not born for this life.
04:43What is our real?
04:46The Quran says.
04:48This world is a guest house.
04:50You are going to Landi.
04:51You are hanging and traveling.
04:52You are not getting that place.
04:54He is calling.
04:55You are hanging and traveling in WGARA.
04:57Do you go to Landi in WGARA?
05:00Where are you going these days?
05:02You go to the tower.
05:03You are not going beyond that.
05:04What is the use of WGARA?
05:07You are sitting in WGARA.
05:09You did not get a place.
05:10You are hanging and traveling.
05:11The sound of songs is coming to you from the window.
05:14People sit in WGARA to listen to songs.
05:17You are not enjoying it.
05:18You are standing on your feet.
05:20You are calling here and there.
05:22Mufti Sahab, tell me a way to get a seat.
05:24What will I say?
05:25The car will get down at the tower.
05:26Be patient.
05:28Those who are sitting will also get down at the tower.
05:30Your father will also get down at the tower.
05:33I will say this if you do not understand with respect.
05:36He will get down at the tower.
05:37Be patient.
05:38He is saying.
05:38No.
05:39He is sitting in that window.
05:40He is enjoying it.
05:41He is seeing everything.
05:43The wind is also coming in the window.
05:46I also paid the rent.
05:47What injustice is God doing?
05:49He made him sit with the driver in the window.
05:51And made me hang.
05:53God will say.
05:54Brother, the one who is sitting there.
05:57You will still get down in two minutes and go.
05:59The one who is sitting there.
06:00He will get hit twice on the way out.
06:08So, bear this tension.
06:11What is the world?
06:12It is a guest house.
06:15So, I said.
06:16Because this is the tension.
06:17Some other tension will arise.
06:19Then I said to that woman.
06:20I said.
06:21Your disabled child is born.
06:23And that disability was also not unbearable.
06:26So, you think.
06:28There are many people in the world.
06:30Who are in more tension than this.
06:32I said.
06:33Your husband is good.
06:34He is feeding you.
06:34He is feeding you.
06:35He is supporting the in-laws.
06:37A fault is being born in the children.
06:38There are bigger tensions than this.
06:40Such and such husbands are found.
06:42They beat and beat.
06:44Life is made of torment.
06:45If you ask those women.
06:47They will say.
06:47May Allah save the life from this husband.
06:49No doubt the disabled child is born.
06:50Save the life from this mother-in-law.
06:52I said.
06:53There are such people.
06:53They are lying on the footpath.
06:54There are such women too.
06:56There is no food to eat.
06:57They are saying.
06:58The disabled child is born.
06:59But.
07:00You get a roof of respect.
07:01You have a roof of respect.
07:03Respect in the in-laws.
07:04Husband is good.
07:05Husband is feeding.
07:06He is feeding.
07:06There is a tension.
07:07And this tension too.
07:08What is Allah saying?
07:10I told them the hadith.
07:13The Prophet said.
07:14When Allah puts someone in trouble.
07:17The one who is upset with Allah.
07:19Allah is also upset with him.
07:20And the one who was pleased with Allah.
07:22Allah will also be pleased with him.
07:23You will get Allah's approval.
07:25A companion came to the Prophet.
07:27He said.
07:28O Messenger of Allah.
07:29I have a fever.
07:30Some chicken or some apple fever.
07:32What was it?
07:33I tear the clothes of the body.
07:35It becomes like this.
07:36And I get very sick.
07:38You pray to Allah.
07:39My disease will be cured.
07:43So what did the Prophet say?
07:44He said.
07:45Okay, I will pray to Allah.
07:47Your disease will be cured.
07:48But there is no guarantee of heaven.
07:52There is no guarantee of heaven.
07:53It is a deed.
07:54If it is a good deed, then heaven.
07:56The scale of the scale is heavy.
07:57If it is not, then what is the reward?
07:59But if you have patience on this disease.
08:03And be pleased with the fate of Allah.
08:05Guarantee of heaven.
08:06Because the reward you will get on this patience.
08:09It will be so heavy.
08:11Even if there are some sins in life.
08:13So what will this good deed do to those sins?
08:16Then there is a guarantee of heaven.
08:18Those companions said.
08:20O Messenger of Allah.
08:21There is a guarantee of heaven.
08:22No doubt this disease will be cured.
08:24No.
08:26Do you understand?
08:28Now what happened to that woman's depression?
08:30That is, the companions who were there.
08:31Their depression is over.
08:32Endure this disease.
08:33You have to live in this.
08:36You have to live in this.
08:37And when a person decides to be patient.
08:39Then the Qur'an says.
08:40That you get consolation from Allah.
08:42You keep getting consolation.
08:43Allah also holds his hand.
08:45Like it comes in the Qur'an.
08:55When Moses' mother.
08:57When her son.
08:58I will finish the statement by saying this last thing.
09:00When she put her son in the box.
09:01On the command of Allah.
09:03So the Qur'an says.
09:04Moses' mother's heart was empty of patience.
09:06But it was Allah's command to put him in the box.
09:09Now how did the mother put it with her own hands?
09:11And that too in reference to the river.
09:13And the Qur'an says.
09:14Where did that box go?
09:15In Pharaoh's house.
09:16Moses' mother was informed.
09:18His daughter.
09:19Pharaoh picked it up.
09:20The Qur'an says.
09:21Because now everything is happening on the command of Allah.
09:23The Qur'an says.
09:24We held Moses' mother's heart.
09:27Tied it with ropes.
09:28Which will be a literal translation.
09:30Tied it up.
09:31So that this impatience does not happen.
09:38The Qur'an says.
09:39Moses' mother was so impatient.
09:41That she was close.
09:42She would go and tell Pharaoh.
09:44She would tell him that it is my child.
09:45Give it back to me.
09:46She would come in emotions.
09:47But the Qur'an says.
09:48We held Moses' mother's heart.
09:52Why?
09:53Because we acted on the command of Allah.
09:54So Moses' mother did something.
09:56Which was not possible.
09:57Who did it?
09:58Allah did.
10:00So when you try to be patient in difficulties.
10:03Try as much as you can.
10:04Who will give the rest of the courage?
10:06Allah.
10:06We should all pray to Allah.
10:08Allah save us from difficulties.
10:09We are not patient people.
10:11We are useless.
10:12We ask Allah for happiness.
10:13We ask for well-being.
10:14But Allah should not do it.
10:15If there is any difficulty.
10:18Don't be impatient.
10:19This is better.
10:21This will be beneficial.
10:23So I said to that woman.
10:25Allah says.
10:26Be patient in this tension.
10:27So what will happen?
10:30Allah will be pleased.
10:31He will give a lot of reward.
10:33I said.
10:33You will die when you get old tomorrow.
10:35If your three children were born healthy.
10:41Will they go to the grave with you after death?
10:44The child will not go to the grave.
10:45The patience you had on the disabled children.
10:47Where will this patience go?
10:49It will go to the grave.
10:50If the children are healthy.
10:52You don't get a chance to be patient.
10:54So the children will not go with you to the grave.
10:56But if the children are disabled.
10:57You were patient.
10:59So that patience will go with you to the grave.
11:03So then he asked another question.
11:05Which I want to tell you.
11:07He said.
11:07People say to me.
11:08That you are a cursed person.
11:10There is a sin in you.
11:12For which you are being punished.
11:14Disabled children are being born.
11:16These people give a lot of taunts.
11:17If there are no children.
11:18Then there is a sin.
11:20Someone got sick.
11:21Got paralyzed.
11:22See, we used to say.
11:23The man is not right.
11:24I told them.
11:25I said.
11:25This is the mistake of people.
11:26Don't listen to this.
11:28Yes, everyone should repent.
11:30If there is a sin.
11:31Then repent to Allah.
11:32He will forgive you.
11:35But I said.
11:35What does the Quran say?
11:43In comparison to the Prophet.
11:44The great disbelievers.
11:46Who did not believe in one Prophet.
11:48The Quran said to them.
11:49Do you think.
11:51That we have given them wealth and many healthy sons.
11:55So are we happy with them?
11:57He said.
11:57No, no, no.
11:57We are not happy with this.
11:59They don't know.
12:00We want to bless them in the world.
12:03So that in the hereafter.
12:04We don't have any share of them.
12:07And they used to taunt the Prophet.
12:08That you are not your son.
12:10Yes, brother.
12:12They used to taunt the Prophet.
12:13Your son.
12:14There is no one.
12:15And he himself used to travel with 10-11 sons.
12:18I said.
12:19If this son is with a lot.
12:21And being healthy.
12:23This is the proof.
12:24That Allah is happy.
12:25This means.
12:26Allah was much happier than Abu Jahl.
12:28Is it right?
12:29Allah was much happier than Utbah Ibn Waleed.
12:32This is not a proof of happiness.
12:33This means.
12:34Allah was our former president.
12:38Our former president.
12:39Has ruled successfully for 5 years.
12:42Which Ayub Khan could not do.
12:44And no other politician in history.
12:47Who reached the top after so much hard work.
12:49He can't do that either.
12:50He was successful for 5 years.
12:51So is it a sign that he is a saint of Allah?
12:54If he is not, then Allah knows better.
12:55But this is not a sign of it.
12:58So.
13:00This is a test.
13:01You have to be patient.
13:02This is what Islam is telling.
13:03Other than Islam.
13:05Psychiatric doctors have a cure for this.
13:07If there is a good doctor.
13:08Then he will also.
13:09Give you a reference of the Quran and Sunnah.
13:11This is a mental illness.
13:13A little bit of pills will cover it.
13:15The sorrow of a separated lover.
13:16Lighter than pills.
13:19It will be light.
13:20A man is not married.
13:21Where he wanted.
13:22He ran away.
13:22The doctor will give him pills of tension.
13:24He will put him to sleep.
13:24When he wakes up.
13:25He will be set for a few days.
13:26Then he will remember.
13:28What does the pill know?
13:29What is the real problem with it?
13:33What does the pill know?
13:34What is the real problem with it?
13:37The pill does not know.
13:39That tension pill.
13:40It will put him to sleep.
13:40A little.
13:41Chemical.
13:41It will make it up and down.
13:42You will be a little relaxed with it.
13:44Then when you remember.
13:45Man.
13:46She will come again.
13:47Then the doctor will put him to sleep again.
13:49He will give you a cure.
13:49The poor doctor.
13:50He is doing the right thing in his own way.
13:51He is saying.
13:52I have this option.
13:53When I ran away.
13:54I did the same thing.
13:55This is it.
13:57This is not the solution.
13:59The disease that has arisen from the tension in the brain.
14:01So what is the cure for it?
14:03Get out of the tension first.
14:05You.
14:07The throat was damaged by eating pickles.
14:09So now the throat will not be fine.
14:11Until you stop eating pickles first.
14:14You are eating that.
14:15And then you are making noise too.
14:17The throat will be confused.
14:18What is happening to me?
14:20This is the solution to that tension.
14:22Now either the solution to the tension is that.
14:23Bring that fate back.
14:25It is not in the control of the doctor.
14:27Or if his father agrees.
14:29It is not in anyone's control.
14:31So this is it.
14:32The world is a connoisseur.
14:33Let the old people grow old.
14:35Look at the old people.
14:36Their old ones.
14:37Who have become old.
14:40Think about Laila Majnu.
14:42Which grave is Laila sleeping in?
14:43And Majnu.
14:44Which grave is he sleeping in?
14:45Now there is a relation between the two.
14:47No one should hit my lover with a stone.
14:50It is the time of the bomb.
14:51Blow the rascal.
14:51Is there such a relation between the two?
14:55There is nothing.
14:55Everything is finished.
14:57The solution to depression.
14:58No one has it except Islam.
15:00This is the hereafter.
15:01The concept of this hereafter.
15:05Was it Hazrat Jabir Bin Abdullah?
15:07Or was it Muaz Ibn Jabal?
15:08At the time of death.
15:09Tears were shed from their eyes.
15:12People said they are dying.
15:13That is why the sorrow of leaving the world.
15:15I said no, no, no, no, no.
15:17The tensions that used to be raised for Allah in the world.
15:20The sorrow of the end of those tensions.
15:22Look, a person commits suicide in tension.
15:25And he is happy that the tensions are over.
15:26At the time of death, the companions are sad that the tensions are over.
15:31Isn't it strange?
15:34Why?
15:35They are saying that now it is time for revenge.
15:36Now it is heaven.
15:37Those tensions that will not be found in heaven for Allah.
15:39Someone asked what tension?
15:41He said that he used to fast in extreme heat.
15:44He used to tolerate hunger and thirst for Allah.
15:48The peace that was found in the tension of that hunger and thirst.
15:51That my Lord is watching me.
15:54When there is extreme hunger and thirst in Iftari.
15:57I feel very good when it is summer.
15:59Now it is less hot.
16:00When I was a child, I used to fast in extreme heat.
16:03Now there is AC in the house.
16:05There is convenience.
16:05At that time it was very less.
16:07We started fasting at a very young age.
16:11I remember that time in extreme heat.
16:13We used to come to school with June fasts of Karachi.
16:17So there was extreme thirst.
16:20There was a time of one or two o'clock.
16:22Then we used to go to the neighborhood.
16:23There were no mats.
16:24There was a tree of peepal and there was a mat under it.
16:27There were two or four trees.
16:28All the fasting people used to come and lie down on the mat.
16:30Someone is lying down like this.
16:31Someone is lying down like this.
16:33The imam of our mosque used to come and lie down.
16:35He used to tell the boys to bring cold water and put it on my head.
16:38So the boys were serving the imam of the mosque.
16:40They had cold water on their heads.
16:41Whatever was left was on them.
16:42We used to walk with wet pants.
16:44We used to feel so thirsty.
16:45Our school was also very far.
16:47We were walking and walking.
16:49Now there was no work in the mat.
16:51But Allah will not like this attitude.
16:53That they do not believe in the hereafter only with words.
16:56They are telling us with their actions that we should believe in the hereafter.
16:59Then we used to go to take a bath.
17:02We had an idea how cold water used to fall on us.
17:05Not a single drop is melting in the throat.
17:08Although if it melts now, no one will see it.
17:10But no brother.
17:11It was told by father and mother to appreciate many people.
17:15I think it is the right thing.
17:17And let me tell you first that there will be many shortcomings in our life.
17:20I will not tell you and you should not tell either.
17:23So do not think that there are many saints like you.
17:28Okay?
17:29And maybe you are better than us.
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