To help others suffering, we first need to become stable rather than being sensitive to the suffering of others. Providing the right understanding can only help people.
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00:00She would like to know how she can not overthink and also to suffer too much with the problems
00:09of the people that sometimes people that she doesn't even know or people that she loves
00:16too.
00:17And she also added that sometimes when she's passing next to a hospital and she gets very
00:23sad about what she can do to help those people there.
00:30And she cries a lot because of that.
00:32If you cry, then what will be helpful to them?
00:36They are having problems, so you have not solved their problem and still you are crying
00:44so you are not again supporting them.
00:47So best way, don't cry, first, second thing, just pray inner pure soul of that person,
00:55he should get strength, he should come out from all these difficulties, please give him
01:01strength, inner pure soul, we can pray.
01:05That's what she does, she prays, but she still suffers a lot.
01:09No, if you are in suffering, that suffering person cannot help others.
01:16You know in flight they say, first help yourself, then help others.
01:21If you are sinking, then what you will help others, how can you give help to others?
01:27So first thing, so we will pray that person, inner pure soul, the pure soul has infinite
01:36energy, infinite bliss, infinite happiness, so we will pray inner pure soul, please give
01:42him strength to come out of all these problems and difficulties.
01:48And one more thing, if possible give some understanding, if possible give some Dada
01:57Bhagwan's book or bring him in satsang, so when he gets right understanding, without
02:08changing situations, without changing person, himself can remain happy all the time, by
02:15right understanding.
02:18In this world, any problem arise from person or any situation, never gives unhappiness
02:26to person.
02:27But due to our wrong understanding, we are discomfort with situation and with people.
02:36So by changing our understanding, without changing situation or any person, we can
02:43remain in happiness.
02:46So that is ultimate solution, give right understanding, right knowledge to person, but if we cannot
02:53give that, then bring him here, just like a sick person, we cannot give any medicine,
02:58we will bring that person to doctor.
03:05So he will treat that person, he will give such medicine so he can become cured.
03:11So you can bring here, this is here also, this is not physical medicine, but if we change
03:20right, wrong understanding, that person will be happy.