It's Showtime: ’EXpecial searcher,’ super close pa rin sa kapatid ni EX! (July 23, 2024) (Part 2/4)
Aired (July 23, 2024): Sa tibay ng closeness na nabuo ng searcher na si Joyce at ang kapatid ng kanyang EX na si Jhovy, hanggang ngayon ay magkasama sila sa pagbahagi ng kuwentong hiwalayan at ang pagpili ng bagong makaka-date ng nauna!
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00:00🎵Piano music plays🎵
00:26What is that?
00:28Dante Gulapa
00:30You made me say it again
00:32Dante Gulapa
00:34🎵Piano music plays🎵
00:53He's too young
00:55That's why
00:57Let's talk about it here at
00:59Especially For You
01:01The story of a man
01:03who fell in love
01:05and ended up
01:07separated
01:09One of them
01:11will be able to
01:13date today
01:15We have prepared a happy dinner date
01:17at Blue Bean Cafe in Quezon City
01:19In the long procession
01:21they still
01:23ended their relationship
01:25Oh
01:27Thank you guys
01:29Thank you
01:31We are proud of you
01:33Good job Jackie
01:35Here's our special guest
01:37for today
01:39Oh
01:41She's ready
01:43Jackie
01:45She's ready
01:47What is the meaning of this?
01:49Jackie
01:51Jackie
01:53The couple for today
01:55🎵Piano music plays🎵
01:57Thank you Mel
01:59of XOXO
02:01Thank you
02:03Welcome to Especially For You
02:05Joyce
02:07Remember what she said
02:09It's the lover not the love
02:11who broke your heart
02:13last night
02:15So still believe in love
02:17It's the lover not the
02:19What was the last line?
02:21It's the lover
02:23It's the lover not the love
02:25who deserted you
02:27It's the lover not the love
02:29who deserted you
02:31What does it mean?
02:33Eat something sweet
02:35then deserted
02:37Deserted
02:39It's not the love who deserted you
02:41What does it mean?
02:43Deserted
02:45Dried up
02:47It's a joke
02:49It's the desert
02:51who deserted you
02:53How are you Joyce?
02:55I'm happy
02:57You won the raffle
02:59You won the raffle
03:01What's your name?
03:03I'm from Sampaloc, Manila
03:05I'm happy because you're Joyce
03:07Joyce to the world
03:09Joyce to the world
03:11Are you from Sampaloc?
03:13Where's Jackie? Why aren't you here?
03:15I'm here
03:17You're not allowed to escape
03:19Why?
03:21I know your forbidden techniques
03:27I know that
03:29I just want to be with you
03:31because you're good at giving
03:33opinions
03:35The opinions there
03:37Can you give opinions there?
03:39There's a lot of opinions there
03:41Badlan Pipo should know
03:43I don't know
03:45I don't remember
03:47Do you remember? Do you want to sit down?
03:49It's a joke
03:51It's your style
03:53You're like Halton of the district
03:55You made him the captain
03:57Sorry
03:59Joyce, you're from Sampaloc
04:01What do you do for a living?
04:03I work as an accounting assistant
04:05You're hard to talk to
04:07Change with Jackie
04:09What's your job?
04:11Accounting assistant
04:15Accounting assistant
04:17She's the one who gets the calculator
04:19before the accountant
04:21How about the balance sheet?
04:23Excel?
04:25Yes, more on debit and credit
04:27Debit, credit and balance
04:29Debit and credit
04:31To make her more comfortable, let's call her
04:33her partner
04:35Because her ex is not here
04:37Her ex has a partner
04:39But
04:41were you okay when your ex
04:43is not here anymore?
04:45We don't talk anymore
04:47Did you have a fight?
04:49We talked
04:51nicely
04:53How did you talk nicely?
04:55Did you have a hairdo?
04:57A nice closure?
04:59We really
05:01had a fight
05:03We wanted the same
05:05Mutual breakup
05:07Your ex left you, but you were not okay
05:09Yes
05:11You were not okay with her
05:13We don't talk anymore
05:15We don't talk anymore
05:17Her ex is not here
05:19But her ex's house is nearby
05:21Who's that?
05:23That's Mel
05:25Is she nearby?
05:27We were surprised
05:29Sit down
05:31Thank you, Mel
05:33She has a nice outfit
05:35Graduation ball
05:37Okay, the one we will choose
05:39to talk to is
05:41Jovi
05:45Hi, Jovi
05:47They're twins
05:49Twins
05:51She's so cute
05:53She's the only one who's ordered
05:55Different materials
05:57Inside, they're different
05:59Hello, Jovi
06:01What's your connection with Jovi?
06:03I was adopted by my ex
06:05They're related
06:09We've been together for 9 years
06:11You're really close
06:13Even after the relationship
06:15Yes
06:17I'm still with him in the family outing
06:21It's good that the friendship is not over
06:23Yes
06:25At first, we thought
06:27the friendship will be over
06:29But we're still friends
06:31Her ex is okay
06:33Your sister
06:35She doesn't have a choice
06:37Are you the type of
06:39sister of
06:41sister of
06:43ex or sister of a relationship
06:45who's more comfortable with her boyfriend than her sister?
06:47Because there's something like that
06:49I'm the gossip
06:51Really?
06:53You're the one who's falling for your sister
06:55with Joyce
06:57But it's a secret
06:59You're friends with Joyce
07:01She's really kind
07:03Why did you fall for Joyce?
07:05She's really kind
07:07She's good at being with our family
07:09We can feel her love for our family
07:11So your sister is not kind
07:13and not good at being with her family
07:17Her ex had a lot of girlfriends
07:19before her
07:21Yes
07:23But you weren't close
07:25No
07:27My ex had a lot of girlfriends
07:29before we became close
07:31At first, I thought
07:33he's just a girl
07:35He's not serious
07:37I thought he's just kidding
07:39I was surprised
07:41when he celebrated his birthday
07:43I called him Ate
07:45and he continued
07:47That's beautiful
07:49It's different
07:51Your sister is closer to you
07:53and you're still okay
07:55She's your ex-lover
07:57Not anymore
07:59How long have you been together?
08:01Juvie's brother
08:039 years
08:05That's long
08:07How about you?
08:09Which one?
08:11How long have you been together?
08:13That's long too
08:19It's not more than a decade
08:21No
08:23Was it 5 years?
08:25Yes
08:277 years
08:29Glitch
08:317 years glitch
08:339 years
08:35How did you know each other?
08:37Through a messaging app
08:39Messaging app?
08:41Shake, shake, shake
08:43Shake, shake, shake
08:45What's that?
08:47WeChat
08:49WeChat
08:51That's the app
08:53If you shake it, you'll know
08:55who's close to you
08:57You'll know the people nearby
08:59I didn't know him
09:01He's her friend
09:03She introduced you to her friend
09:05Why did you do that?
09:07I was looking for a chat
09:09I was curious
09:13It's not bad
09:15Some Tinder, some Bumble
09:17That's one of your intentions
09:19Why did you do that?
09:21Maybe you'll have someone
09:23True love
09:25A lot of people follow you on Tinder
09:27That's true
09:29I met a lot of people
09:31You met a lot
09:33That's where you fell
09:35That's how your relationship started
09:37Yes
09:39How's your relationship?
09:41We're happy
09:43Maybe there are people
09:45What's the good effect
09:47on you?
09:49I'm always happy
09:51I'm always happy
09:53I'm open to everything
09:55But
09:57I always want to see him
10:01When I get home from work
10:03I want to see him
10:05We lived in together for 4 years
10:07before we split up
10:11On your 5th year
10:13you were together
10:15Yes
10:17They lived in together for 4 years
10:19and now it's 9 years
10:21You'll have 5 years left
10:23Can you be an accountant?
10:25Assistant
10:27Assistant to the assistant
10:29of the accountant
10:31I competed for her
10:33She didn't reject me
10:35Love has a lot of effects
10:37It's inspiring
10:39It's hard
10:41It's beautiful
10:43It's exciting
10:45It's heartwarming
10:47We lived in together for 2 years
10:49before we split up
10:53She went to Dubai for 2 years
10:55in 2018
10:57We passed
10:59After she came back to the Philippines
11:01She sang
11:03I love you Dubai
11:05We decided
11:07to live in
11:09Were you able to witness
11:11their happy moments?
11:13Yes
11:15I was always there
11:17Where did you go?
11:19Restaurants
11:21Fast food
11:23I took a picture
11:25That's why I was there
11:27That's why you took a picture
11:29I took a picture
11:31of that
11:33What was it?
11:35It was a golden wedding
11:37Thank you
11:39We invited her
11:41We invited them
11:43We fooled them
11:45You don't have a boyfriend
11:47I have a live-in partner
11:49You have a third wheel
11:51You were happy
11:53You went to Dubai
11:55What was the problem?
11:57Why didn't you get along?
11:59It was like
12:01she prioritized
12:03her friend over me
12:05She was more afraid
12:07of her friend's anger
12:09than me
12:11What was their trip like?
12:13It was an online casino
12:15Casino
12:21That's the problem of
12:23many OFWs
12:25When they are there
12:27they can save money
12:29When they come here
12:31and they don't have a job
12:33When you go out
12:35you still have a visa
12:37That's why many OFWs
12:39What happened to them?
12:41They saved money
12:43and had a hard time
12:45You can see that
12:47their money is being wasted
12:49It's painful
12:51because I'm the only one
12:53who works for us
12:55In our company
12:57I'm the only one who lives
12:59for the two of us
13:01Is it her money or your money?
13:03It's my money
13:05How does she ask for money?
13:07Like for gambling?
13:09Because of love
13:11We always believe
13:13Love, I'll just change oil
13:15I'll make a motorcycle
13:17Expenses
13:19I'll just give
13:21Then I'll say
13:23I need a receipt
13:25She'll say
13:27I dropped it
13:29I was tempted
13:31to call her cell phone
13:33That's why I caught her
13:35Are you aware of
13:37what happened, Jovi?
13:39Yes
13:41I call him
13:43I tell him
13:45that my brother is here
13:47When he's here
13:49he knows
13:51How's your relationship with your brother?
13:53You don't fight?
13:55I'm not afraid of him
13:57It's a secret
13:59I told him not to tell
14:01He never found out?
14:03Never
14:05In your opinion, is he still like that?
14:07Not only me
14:09but also my cousins
14:11But your brother never
14:13teased you?
14:15He said
14:17I don't talk anymore
14:19How's your family?
14:21Are they aware?
14:23They're aware
14:25He's my brother
14:27but he's stubborn
14:29But for you
14:31you know what you're doing is wrong
14:33that's why you just say it
14:35to stop
14:37Yes, so that I can reduce
14:39what I'm doing
14:41How about your friends?
14:43What's their priority?
14:45Are they still together?
14:47Yes, they're still together
14:49It's in-between, that's why they're together
14:51Online
14:53It's three
14:55It's in-between
14:57There's an online casino
14:59that you can go to
15:01Yes, e-games
15:03If there's a lot of people, it's fun
15:05Yes, there's a lot
15:07Let's play e-games
15:09The...
15:11Who you are?
15:13We shoot together
15:15I break that
15:17How?
15:19There's a comedy bar
15:21There's an era
15:23where the gays are earning
15:25It's in-between
15:27That's why we bring in
15:29costumers
15:31We have high spenders
15:33We bring them in after a gig
15:35We'll eat
15:37We'll bring them to the casino
15:39We'll give them games
15:41They'll go there
15:43When I found out
15:45I asked the gays
15:47It's like an intervention
15:49Yes, it's necessary
15:51The gays are afraid of me
15:53At that point
15:55I will make sure
15:57that I really get in
15:59There are two main reasons
16:01for
16:03the ugliness of life
16:05gambling
16:07and drugs
16:09I don't know anyone
16:11who gambled and drugged
16:13and after all
16:15life is beautiful
16:17You were addicted
16:19to gambling
16:21because it's beautiful
16:23You grew up
16:25You believed in luck
16:27You followed it
16:29But in the end
16:31nothing happened
16:33You're good as a friend
16:35You can be unfriendly
16:37That's the tough love
16:39Our relationship is deep
16:41We won't be unfriendly
16:43Even if I see them
16:45They won't be unfriendly
16:47but I won't allow it
16:49They won't be unfriendly
16:51but I won't stop them
16:53Even my performers
16:55at the Vice Comedy Club
16:57I said, no, no
16:59You'll know what will happen
17:01when I start gambling
17:03I want the environment
17:05to be clean
17:07Especially you
17:09because you're always together
17:11It will affect your work
17:13I don't know
17:15There's a problem
17:17Aside from work
17:19I want us all to rise
17:21I don't want to leave anyone
17:23It's not a waste
17:25the hard work
17:27We're always afraid
17:29that if you get sick
17:31we won't help you
17:33You had the chance
17:35to earn money
17:37but you wasted the chances
17:39What happened?
17:41They can't support themselves
17:43because some of them
17:45ran out of money
17:47If that happens to our generation
17:49I'm sorry, there's no support
17:51It's clear
17:53Do you get to the point
17:55where you can't give anything
17:57and you start fighting?
17:59Yes, that happens
18:01until he learns to ask my parents
18:03Even your parents?
18:05Yes
18:07When you know
18:09you know
18:11My mom keeps it a secret
18:13because she's afraid
18:15that we might fight
18:17My mom is that kind
18:19If you're really stuck
18:21you can't stop it
18:23Excessive
18:25Anything that is non-excessively
18:27constitutes a vice
18:29Anything that constitutes a vice
18:31constitutes evil
18:33I'm the only vice
18:35that's healthy
18:37I'm the only vice
18:39That's how it is
18:41So
18:43it hurts
18:45It's hard
18:47when you see something wrong
18:49but you don't know how to talk about it
18:51Have you experienced that?
18:53Yes, sometimes
18:55when I love him too much
18:57I let it go even if it hurts
18:59That's the hard part
19:01They call it an enabler
19:03You let it go
19:05But
19:07sometimes it hurts
19:09when you're close to an enabler
19:11When it's an enabler
19:13you don't let it go
19:15It's hard for you
19:17How do you open
19:19that issue?
19:21Because you know the effect
19:23You might fight
19:25He doesn't let it go
19:27He's just not
19:29strong enough
19:31to be ready
19:33No matter what happens
19:35when you start talking about it
19:37it's not that easy
19:39to talk about an issue
19:41I feel like
19:43you have an issue
19:45but you don't know how to start
19:47talking about it
19:49because you're afraid
19:51I don't have the strength
19:53to confront my partner
19:55When you talk about it
19:57you're still gaslighting
19:59You're the one at fault
20:01You don't want to be toxic
20:03You don't want to fight
20:05I'm also afraid of being left
20:07Correct
20:09Correct
20:11That's it
20:13When you talk about it
20:15you might fight and break up
20:17when you can't do it
20:19But it doesn't mean you let it go
20:21Yes
20:23Maybe he repeats it
20:25because he sees
20:27that I always forgive him
20:29Sometimes
20:31there's a point
20:33where I pray to God
20:35that if it's not for me
20:37I should stop
20:39But I'm also the one
20:41who is annoyed
20:43because God gave me so many signs
20:45but I still don't leave him
20:47You're the type of person who
20:49asks for signs
20:51What are the signs?
20:53For example,
20:55when we fight
20:57I pray to God
20:59that if it's not for me
21:01I should stop
21:03because it's been going on for 9 years
21:05Then the next day
21:07he repeats the same problem
21:09but I still forgive him
21:11Joyce,
21:13did you not talk to
21:15his family
21:17about this problem?
21:19I tried
21:21It's not because
21:23of our breakup
21:25It's because
21:27he doesn't have a plan
21:29in life
21:31Since I met him
21:33You said he's in Dubai
21:35Yes, I brought him to Dubai
21:37to change
21:39Because he has a vision
21:41First of all,
21:43I don't want him to go to Dubai
21:45But his parents told me
21:47that it's also for you
21:49to be able to
21:51separate from your family
21:53I'm looking for a job
21:55because ever since
21:57I'm the only one working
21:59At that time,
22:01as his friend,
22:03what did you advise him?
22:05Did you tell him to separate
22:07from his brother?
22:09There's a part like that
22:11but he doesn't want to love his brother
22:13I feel guilty for my brother
22:15because I'm telling him
22:17that he's my brother
22:19and I'm asking him
22:21He's always telling me
22:23to separate
22:25from my brother
22:27because he's ruining my life
22:29I don't want to hurt him
22:31I love my sister
22:33That's why I want to
22:35leave him
22:37because I love my brother
22:39We can only try and do so much
22:41In the beginning,
22:43we can help him
22:45and convince him
22:47I'm helping you
22:49If you feel like you're going up
22:51come with me
22:53because I'm going up
22:55Let's go up together
22:57But if you don't want to
22:59come with me
23:01you can't help me
23:03You can't help me go down
23:05If it's a bad effect,
23:07you'll lose your money
23:09Yes
23:11You'll reach the point
23:13where you'll run out of money
23:15because you're in debt
23:17His parents are here
23:19and they're begging him
23:21I don't know
23:23if it's true
23:25but when he's bleeding
23:27it changes
23:29It's because he had a motor accident
23:31in 2021
23:33After that accident,
23:35he started to change
23:37Maybe
23:39the trauma
23:41from that accident
23:43has an effect on his behavior
23:45Yes
23:47That's why I can't leave him
23:49because
23:51I might change
23:53if I'm with him
23:55I hope
23:57I can save him
23:59I can help him go up
24:01but I can't
24:03The problem with us
24:05is that we always want people to change
24:07We want to help them
24:09to change
24:11In real life,
24:13the process is not like that
24:15You need to understand
24:17why it's like that
24:19The root
24:21Where did it come from?
24:23You need to know
24:25why it's like that
24:27You need to go there and understand
24:29Once you understand
24:31you'll be able to resolve
24:33where the pain came from
24:35It's the same
24:37You can't stop
24:39You don't know what's going on
24:41in their minds
24:43They're going through something
24:45Where did it come from?
24:47We need to start there
24:49Was it a trauma or an accident
24:51that made him feel
24:53life is like that
24:55I can die anytime
24:57If life is like that
24:59there's no guarantee
25:01that I can die anytime
25:03I'll enjoy it all
25:05If I'm happy,
25:07I'll be happy
25:09Where did it come from?
25:11Is it a way to escape
25:13because he doesn't want to be inside the house
25:15Is the house messy
25:17that's why he wants to be in the barricade
25:19What about me?
25:21What?
25:23Where am I?
25:25You need to know
25:27where he is
25:29to know where you are
25:33If you want to be with him
25:35you also need to know
25:37where you are
25:39Unless it's clear to you
25:41that wherever you are
25:43I'm here
25:45It's up to you when you'll come back
25:47I'm here
25:49Or if you're not here
25:51I'm sorry
25:53Maybe when you come back
25:55I'll be gone
25:57Right?
25:59If you want to be with them
26:01you need to know where he is
26:03He also needs to know
26:05where you are
26:07for you two to meet
26:09Because if you two
26:11are in different places
26:13you won't meet
26:15Even if you're next to each other
26:17it's like you're far away
26:21He needs to understand himself
26:23and for all those who want to help
26:25they also need to understand
26:27But you also
26:29need to understand
26:31what you're good at
26:33Right?
26:35You also need to help yourself
26:37But what you're thinking
26:39is right
26:41It has a bad effect on me
26:43If
26:45you'll be gone
26:47or if I'll lose you
26:49It's better
26:51than I lose myself
26:53Yes
26:55But it takes a long time
26:57for me to decide
26:59to leave him
27:01Joyce, did you ask your ex
27:03if you
27:05or his friends
27:07did you choose him?
27:09Yes, but he always
27:11answers me
27:13But you don't feel it?
27:15No
27:17Addiction is a therapy
27:19Yes
27:21Right?
27:23Especially in other countries
27:25because here, it's not discussed
27:27It's not like
27:29you're addicted
27:31and the next day
27:33you don't want it anymore
27:35Addiction is also a disease
27:37It's a condition
27:39It's a part of your mental health
27:41It needs therapy
27:43and it needs time
27:45and understanding
27:47It's a support group
27:49But in the Philippines
27:51it's not discussed
27:53The different kinds of addiction
27:55What kind of condition is that?
27:57They think it's just a visual
27:59You should leave anytime
28:01But because
28:03it's not normal
28:05or it's not discussed
28:07It's not understood
28:09and it's not
28:11common for people
28:13to include
28:15in their wellness
28:17the mental health
28:19The wellness in their general checkup
28:21dental checkup
28:23The wellness
28:25in their mental health
28:27is not included in the Philippines
28:29That's why it should always be discussed
28:31so that it becomes more normal
28:33and gradually understood
28:53Thank you for watching!