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00:00Siddiq Akbar R.A. said that women should trust their daughters, especially girls.
00:06Because, I am sorry to say, our daughters and women are also listening to this.
00:09Women have very light stomachs.
00:11If there is any issue, they don't stop in their stomachs.
00:14As soon as they find out a secret, or if they get any information about someone,
00:18they get up from their stomach with a ball, and until that ball doesn't come out,
00:22they don't get peace.
00:23So, that's why, they are so innocent.
00:26They say, look sister, don't tell anyone.
00:28Someone said to me, don't tell anyone, I am only telling you.
00:31So, she says, don't worry, I will also follow your Sunnah,
00:35I will preach in such a way that, look, she said, don't tell anyone,
00:38I am only telling you, don't tell anyone else.
00:40And this keeps going on, and it becomes known in the whole family.
00:43That's why, not all sisters are like this, but most of them are like this.
00:47So, that's why some people say, if you want to spread something in the whole neighborhood,
00:50or in the whole family, then tell that secret to one woman,
00:54and tell her not to tell anyone.
00:56That's it.
00:57So, see, how it is found out immediately.
00:59But, many women are very good, they keep the secret in their hearts,
01:04and no matter how much anyone teases them, they can't get the secret out of them.
01:09This is a good description, that if someone has told you a secret,
01:13has told you a weak point,
01:15if that thing becomes obvious, there will be misunderstandings,
01:19there will be misunderstandings, someone's house will break,
01:22then just keep it in your heart.
01:25Then, without her permission, it will be forbidden to tell.
01:29Yes, if, suppose, there can be a lot of mischief and disorder in not telling,
01:33then it is a different matter, then there is no harm in revealing the secret.
01:37But, to decide whether it is obligatory to hide it here,
01:40or its expression is required by the Shariah at this time,
01:43I mean, not everyone has the ability to do this.
01:46So, should you consult, or should you sharpen your mind?
01:50And if this is not the case, then don't fall into this test.
01:53Don't tell, don't fall into this test.
01:56Don't get the secret, but what should we do?
01:59If someone tells you something, and you don't want to tell anyone,
02:03then after that, eating and drinking will be put aside.
02:06First, tell that thing.
02:08And if she says, leave it, then women get angry.
02:11This is often the case.
02:13They say, why did you tease her?
02:15Now tell me, now tell me.
02:17Why did you say this?
02:19She will get angry, she will get worried,
02:21what did she want to say, what did she want to say?
02:23Then the peace of the house is over,
02:25the inner peace is over, then she will know.
02:28So, if a woman, MashaAllah, keeps it a secret,
02:31then she should definitely protect that secret.