Sex 101: Talks on Sex problems, Sex positions, Intimacy & Couple Problems. Ft ‪@SexedwithKhushboo‬

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00:00:00For men, physical touch is very important

00:00:03If it's happening again and again

00:00:06Then they will be able to connect with you emotionally

00:00:09But for girls, emotions come first

00:00:12Then they will be able to connect with you physically

00:00:15Then how will this problem be solved?

00:00:17So this is for first timers and everyone

00:00:19Sex is not perfect

00:00:22It's messy

00:00:24And it's awkward

00:00:25What happens is when we are in a relationship with a partner

00:00:28For a long time

00:00:30We stop giving each other space

00:00:32Basically this is a honeymoon phase here

00:00:34Okay yeah I know that phase

00:00:36This is the first 6 months

00:00:38Wherein your eyes are blindfolded

00:00:41And you are drowning in his love

00:00:43A lot of people think that men only want sex

00:00:52Yeah my first kiss has been the most memorable one

00:00:54I felt so good that I wanted to do more

00:00:57And I was doing it straight for the next few days

00:01:00Same spot, same place, same timing

00:01:03Oh my god

00:01:05I have seen relationships Khushboo

00:01:07Where people say that they are in a relationship

00:01:09But they are hurting each other

00:01:11Either they are physically hitting each other

00:01:14Or physically abusing each other

00:01:16And then at the end of the day they will say

00:01:18No no I love you

00:01:19You don't love me

00:01:20You have an attachment for no reason

00:01:22Is period sex bad?

00:01:28So welcome to yet another episode of

00:01:31Unset Feelings with Shanky

00:01:33Today's podcast is going to be very beautiful

00:01:37All the couples out there

00:01:39All the people in relationships

00:01:41This podcast is for you

00:01:43So don't move till the end

00:01:45Keep sitting here and keep listening to this podcast

00:01:48Because our guest today is Khushboo

00:01:51And she is an intimacy coach

00:01:54And she has explained everything to us so well

00:01:58So if you are in a relationship

00:02:00If you are having problems

00:02:02In your sex life

00:02:03In your bedroom

00:02:04Or if you want to explore something new

00:02:06This podcast is for you

00:02:24Thank you so much for calling me here

00:02:26Thank you so much for coming

00:02:28Because the idea of this podcast is

00:02:30A lot of people do these things everyday

00:02:34And they want to learn about it

00:02:36But no one wants to talk about it

00:02:38Right

00:02:39And that is why I think

00:02:41I would have not had anyone better than you

00:02:43Talking about this

00:02:44Thank you for saying that again

00:02:45Because I really

00:02:46The idea is

00:02:47Because I am sure you also started the content

00:02:49According to this

00:02:50You want to teach people

00:02:51Because everyone wants to learn

00:02:52Yes

00:02:53Thank you so much

00:02:54Very much

00:02:55I mean

00:02:56If I create a content

00:02:57Even if it makes a difference to one person

00:02:59It makes a huge difference to me

00:03:01I just love that feeling

00:03:02That it is making a difference to one person

00:03:03Forget the rest

00:03:04Who all are criticizing

00:03:05But if it is helping one person

00:03:06I am like

00:03:07I have done my job

00:03:08And definitely more than one person

00:03:09Yes

00:03:10So I want to understand Khushboo

00:03:12First of all

00:03:13Who are you?

00:03:14See everyone knows you

00:03:15Who you are on Instagram

00:03:17But who is Khushboo?

00:03:19And what is your back story?

00:03:21So

00:03:22I am a sex educator

00:03:23I am also an intimacy coach

00:03:25I help people understand

00:03:27Their bodies

00:03:29What are their pleasure points

00:03:31I help couples

00:03:33Improve their sexual life

00:03:35And intimacy

00:03:37And I also talk a lot about sex

00:03:39Right

00:03:40Yes

00:03:41And the back story is

00:03:42Why I started this

00:03:44Because when I was in school

00:03:47No one talked about this

00:03:49Even now a lot of people talk about sex

00:03:51But back then

00:03:52Nobody was really talking about it

00:03:54And I used to think

00:03:56That there are hot scenes in movies

00:03:59But family members are changing

00:04:01People around are loving

00:04:03But doing it secretly

00:04:04So what is this?

00:04:05People are watching porn

00:04:07But they want to watch it alone

00:04:09So I had a curiosity

00:04:11At that time

00:04:12And I started reading

00:04:14And I also started watching a lot of porn

00:04:16Because there was no other source

00:04:18Exactly

00:04:19And in Bombay Mirror

00:04:21And Pune Mirror

00:04:22There is a particular section

00:04:24Where a sexologist

00:04:26Is

00:04:28Answering to all the queries

00:04:30I used to read that everyday

00:04:32Yes

00:04:33And I started learning a lot of things

00:04:35Because I started understanding the basics

00:04:37And

00:04:38I started advising my friends

00:04:40Even though I was a virgin back then

00:04:42Oh wow

00:04:44How does that make you feel?

00:04:46So I was like

00:04:47I know it

00:04:48But I don't even know it

00:04:51So my friends used to come to me

00:04:53That this is what happened

00:04:54I used to advise them

00:04:55But they didn't know

00:04:56That I was reading

00:04:57That you have a lot of knowledge about it

00:04:59Yes

00:05:00So I understood the basics

00:05:02That this is something very fun

00:05:04And people are not talking about it

00:05:06And I have that boldness in me

00:05:08That I can advise people

00:05:11So at that time

00:05:12I thought

00:05:13If I can't do anything else in life

00:05:15Then I have to do this

00:05:16But this was never a motive?

00:05:18Never

00:05:19It just started out of curiosity

00:05:21And today it is full time

00:05:23Yes

00:05:24And I am absolutely loving it

00:05:25So otherwise

00:05:26What did you want to be?

00:05:27If you weren't a sex educator

00:05:29If you couldn't become one

00:05:31Or if you never was a sex educator

00:05:33What would have you been?

00:05:35So I am a very creative person

00:05:37And I feel

00:05:38That I should know everything

00:05:39This is a very bad thing

00:05:40Is what I feel

00:05:41I want to be into everything

00:05:43Sometimes I have thought

00:05:44That I should become an RJ

00:05:47Sometimes I have thought

00:05:48That I should become a dancer

00:05:50Sometimes I have thought

00:05:51That I should become an actor

00:05:54I have always had a switch

00:05:56That I should do this

00:05:57I should do that

00:05:58I want everything

00:05:59But

00:06:00When I started advising

00:06:02Even to my friends

00:06:03That change which I saw

00:06:05That they are getting a change

00:06:06It just gave me a sense of peace

00:06:09You know

00:06:10I am able to change their perspective

00:06:13And yes

00:06:14Then I was like

00:06:15I am sticking to this

00:06:16Wow

00:06:17So when did you decide

00:06:18To take this full time?

00:06:19So

00:06:20The thing is

00:06:21I have done a lot of small jobs

00:06:23What was the job?

00:06:24Like

00:06:25I have also been a sales girl

00:06:26In a mall

00:06:27Wow

00:06:28You were crazy

00:06:29That is crazy

00:06:30Yeah

00:06:31And hats off to them

00:06:32Because

00:06:33You have to stand all day

00:06:35You can only sit

00:06:36When you get a break

00:06:37And that is for half an hour

00:06:38Otherwise

00:06:39You have to stand

00:06:40All day in the mall

00:06:41You just cannot sit

00:06:43And that was not the problem

00:06:45The problem was

00:06:46That

00:06:47There was a set pattern

00:06:49Not just this

00:06:50All the small jobs I have done

00:06:52While I was studying

00:06:53There was a set pattern

00:06:55That was not giving me

00:06:56Some sort of kick

00:06:57Like

00:06:58I have to get up

00:06:59Do the same work

00:07:00And go home

00:07:01And the next day

00:07:02I have to do the same

00:07:03Meet them

00:07:04Go home at night

00:07:05And sleep

00:07:06And do the same thing in the morning

00:07:07So

00:07:08I thought

00:07:09That is it

00:07:10I am going to shoot

00:07:11I am going to shoot one video

00:07:12And I am going to upload that

00:07:13On YouTube

00:07:15I started with YouTube

00:07:16Okay

00:07:17And the first topic was

00:07:18Types of boobs

00:07:20Wow

00:07:21And how did it perform on YouTube?

00:07:22It went very well

00:07:23Was it in Hindi or English?

00:07:24It was in Hindi

00:07:25And I thought about it in Hindi

00:07:26Because

00:07:27I thought

00:07:28If I talk in English

00:07:29Then people who do not understand

00:07:31Who will tell them?

00:07:32Absolutely

00:07:33A lot of people are already

00:07:34Talking in English

00:07:35If you see on YouTube

00:07:36Its content is available

00:07:38But it was not in Hindi

00:07:39So I thought

00:07:40I will talk in Hindi

00:07:41And I uploaded my first video

00:07:43And after doing that

00:07:45I felt very good

00:07:47It just gave me a kick

00:07:48That

00:07:49Wow

00:07:50Which year was this?

00:07:51This was

00:07:52Two and a half years back

00:07:53Wow

00:07:54Yes

00:07:55During the lockdown time?

00:07:56Lockdown was completely over

00:07:58During that time

00:07:59Now its over

00:08:00Now you are doing this

00:08:01Like I self-talk a lot

00:08:03To make myself understand

00:08:04To motivate

00:08:05I do this a lot

00:08:06So I thought

00:08:07I have to do this

00:08:08So I did that

00:08:09So I thought

00:08:10People will criticize me a lot

00:08:11I started with that mindset

00:08:13But I saw

00:08:14That

00:08:15A lot of negative things

00:08:16Were happening

00:08:17But some people

00:08:18Were praising me

00:08:19That

00:08:20It was good

00:08:21That you talked about it

00:08:22And that too in Hindi

00:08:23In Hindi

00:08:24So I was like

00:08:25I want to do this

00:08:26And I am absolutely loving it

00:08:27And plus

00:08:28If its helping people

00:08:29I like it

00:08:30I like it

00:08:31And that was your calling

00:08:32At that time

00:08:33You understood

00:08:34That this is what you want to do

00:08:35Yes

00:08:36Forever

00:08:37So people

00:08:38They are very supportive

00:08:39Wow

00:08:40But they were like

00:08:41How will you manage

00:08:42People are going to come

00:08:43And you know

00:08:44They are going to

00:08:45Criticize you

00:08:46They might think

00:08:47Otherwise about you

00:08:48So I told them

00:08:49Whatever you want

00:08:50I will do it

00:08:51Just give me one year

00:08:52If I am not able to do it

00:08:53In a year

00:08:54Then I will do

00:08:55Whatever you say

00:08:56And I worked very hard

00:08:57For one year

00:08:58Uploaded videos

00:08:59On YouTube

00:09:00Back to back topics

00:09:01I started reading

00:09:02And I

00:09:03Eventually

00:09:04I started

00:09:05Reading a lot

00:09:06And I completed

00:09:07A lot of

00:09:08Sexual health

00:09:09Certifications

00:09:10Wow

00:09:11Yes

00:09:12And right now

00:09:13I am doing

00:09:14My Masters in Psychology

00:09:15That is amazing

00:09:16Yeah

00:09:17And

00:09:18I am also studying

00:09:19To become a

00:09:20Certified sex coach

00:09:21Wow

00:09:22That is

00:09:23Too good

00:09:24Yeah

00:09:25So I think

00:09:26What was in

00:09:27A kid's mind

00:09:28When you were a kid

00:09:29At that point

00:09:30That I have to

00:09:31Teach someone

00:09:32Today you are doing it

00:09:33Yes

00:09:34Yes

00:18:06Right

00:18:07Now first

00:18:08Anyone who is a couple

00:18:09Who

00:18:10Are in relationships

00:18:11There are a lot of couples

00:18:12If they want to

00:18:13Because

00:18:14Right now

00:18:15Everyone is understanding

00:18:16There is a difference between

00:18:17Intimacy and sex

00:18:18Okay

00:18:19Now everyone used to think

00:18:20Sex is everything

00:18:21That they are

00:18:22Sex is intimacy

00:18:23Yes

00:18:24Exactly

00:18:25So

00:18:26If you want to be

00:18:27Intimate with your partner

00:18:28How can you be

00:18:29Intimate with your partner

00:18:30Like

00:18:31If you tell me

00:18:32Some things

00:18:33This is

00:18:34This can be

00:18:35Very different for everyone

00:18:36Got it

00:18:37When you want to

00:18:38Become intimate

00:18:39With your partner

00:18:40Now there are

00:18:41Certain things

00:18:42First is

00:18:43Start communicating

00:18:44Communication is

00:18:45Just like

00:18:46Lubrication

00:18:47If you see

00:18:48Communication is

00:18:49Everything

00:18:50But people don't do that

00:18:51Don't do that

00:18:52Yes

00:18:53For intimacy

00:18:54First of all

00:18:55You talk

00:18:56Try to know

00:18:57Each other

00:18:58You know

00:18:59Ask open-ended questions

00:19:00Like

00:19:01How can we

00:19:02Increase our intimacy

00:19:03You should talk

00:19:04Directly to your partner

00:19:05Yes

00:19:06And

00:19:07This is a very important thing

00:19:08That

00:19:09You should understand

00:19:10Your partner's

00:19:11Love language

00:19:12What is love language?

00:19:13Love language

00:19:14Now everyone

00:19:15Has different love languages

00:19:16But

00:19:17There are five

00:19:18Most prominent ones

00:19:19Five most prominent ones

00:19:20Are

00:19:21Number one is

00:19:22This is my love language

00:19:23Act of service

00:19:24Suppose I am

00:19:25Very tired

00:19:26And my partner

00:19:27Comes and helps me

00:19:28In my work

00:19:29And makes my life

00:19:30Easy

00:19:31Or I

00:19:32Am a

00:19:33Career oriented person

00:19:34And he helps me

00:19:35In that

00:19:36I will like that

00:19:37That's my love language

00:19:38Right

00:19:39Second one is

00:19:40Receiving gifts

00:19:41Some people

00:19:42Like it a lot

00:19:43He loves me

00:19:44So he gave me

00:19:45A gift

00:19:46Now that doesn't

00:19:47Have to be expensive

00:19:48It can be a flower as well

00:19:49Yeah

00:19:50It can be a simple flower

00:19:51Yeah

00:19:52It can also be

00:19:53A handmade card

00:19:54Exactly

00:19:55A written card

00:19:56Yeah

00:19:57That's all

00:19:58Yeah

00:19:59And third one is

00:20:00Physical touch

00:20:01Sit close to me

00:20:02I know what you're talking about

00:20:03Or sit quietly with me

00:20:05That's my love language

00:20:06That could also include

00:20:07Cuddling

00:20:08Kissing

00:20:09Again

00:20:10Right

00:20:11And fourth one is

00:20:13Words of affirmation

00:20:15Okay

00:20:16So basically

00:20:17Motivating you

00:20:18Or telling you

00:20:19You know

00:20:20That you're special to me

00:20:21Or when you look good

00:20:23Praising you

00:20:24That's for them

00:20:25I think this is

00:20:26One of my

00:20:27Love language

00:20:28That's yours

00:20:29Now you've explored

00:20:30Now I'm realising that

00:20:31Right now

00:20:32When you're saying

00:20:33Yeah

00:20:34Words of affirmation

00:20:35Is your love language

00:20:36Oh wow

00:20:37Praising you

00:20:38Motivating you

00:20:39Talking to you

00:20:40And fifth one is

00:20:41Spending quality time

00:20:42Right

00:20:43If you're so busy

00:20:44In your life

00:20:45Take some time

00:20:46And sit with them

00:20:47Talk to them

00:20:48Or do activities

00:20:49Together

00:20:50Go out

00:20:51So everyone's

00:20:52Love languages are different

00:20:53So it's important to know

00:20:54What's your partner's

00:20:55Love language

00:20:56Because

00:20:57At times

00:20:58We don't even know

00:20:59What our love language is

00:21:00You didn't know

00:21:01See

00:21:02Yes

00:21:03Absolutely

00:21:04Now you know

00:21:05Now I know

00:21:06Now you might

00:21:07Try to figure it out

00:21:08With your partner also

00:21:09What's his love language

00:21:10No but

00:21:11You're absolutely right

00:21:12Khusboo

00:21:13That we never

00:21:14Tried to understand

00:21:15Our partner

00:21:16That much

00:21:17In today's world

00:21:18In today's generation

00:21:19Basically what happened

00:21:20As far as I've seen

00:21:21Everyone is like

00:21:22Why should I understand you

00:21:23You should automatically

00:21:24Understand what I want

00:21:25This is wrong

00:21:26Right

00:21:27Absolutely

00:21:28It's very difficult

00:21:29Because if you

00:21:30Don't talk

00:21:31There will be

00:21:32Misunderstanding

00:21:33And you will

00:21:34Do everything

00:21:35Based on assumptions

00:21:36You won't even know

00:21:37What it is

00:21:38So this is important

00:21:39At the same time

00:21:40When you

00:21:41Identify the love language

00:21:42Talk about fantasies

00:21:44Talk about desires

00:21:46What are your

00:21:47Pleasure zones

00:21:48You know

00:21:49Talk about that

00:21:50Pleasure zones

00:21:51What are pleasure zones

00:21:52Erogenous zones

00:21:53Basically

00:21:54So this too

00:21:55Like

00:21:56Different people

00:21:57Different people

00:21:58Have different zones

00:21:59It could be

00:22:00Maybe

00:22:01Kissing here

00:22:02Correct

00:22:03Or

00:22:04Massaging the back

00:22:05Right

00:22:06Or massaging the feet

00:22:07Right

00:22:08Or

00:22:09You know

00:22:10Here on the side

00:22:11Tickling

00:22:12Right

00:22:13Everyone has

00:22:14Different zones

00:22:15Yeah

00:22:16Those are all

00:22:17Erogenous zones

00:22:18So you can always

00:22:19Check with your partner

00:22:20What is your

00:22:21Erogenous zone

00:22:22If you don't know

00:22:23Explore

00:22:24Yes

00:22:25If you don't know

00:22:26Explore

00:22:27It is okay to not know as well

00:22:28Exactly

00:22:29Exactly

00:22:30If you don't

00:22:31Explore

00:22:32How will you know

00:22:33It is absolutely okay

00:22:34If you don't know

00:22:35Just be ready

00:22:36For exploration

00:22:37Absolutely

00:22:38And so

00:22:39You were continuing

00:22:40That

00:22:41If you want to

00:22:42Be intimate with someone

00:22:43First of all

00:22:44You said

00:22:45Communication

00:22:46Communication is very important

00:22:47Knowing their love language

00:22:48Ask open-ended questions

00:22:49Ask open-ended questions

00:22:50Talk about your

00:22:51Desires

00:22:52Your fantasies

00:22:53Your erogenous zones

00:22:54Right

00:22:56So I think

00:22:57It is very important

00:22:58To talk about

00:22:59Sex positions as well

00:23:00Beforehand itself

00:23:01Yeah

00:23:02Before you are

00:23:03Going to have sex

00:23:04Talk about

00:23:05What you like

00:23:06What I like

00:23:07These are the things

00:23:08I like

00:23:09Yeah

00:23:10Very much

00:23:11And also try to

00:23:12Understand each other

00:23:13Emotionally

00:23:14Because we all

00:23:15Are different

00:23:16What will happen

00:23:17For me

00:23:18Can't happen for you

00:23:19Right

00:23:20So understanding

00:23:21Emotionally

00:23:22Is very important

00:23:23And let me tell you

00:23:24For a girl

00:23:25This is a very

00:23:26Important thing

00:23:27Before going to the bedroom

00:23:28I should be

00:23:29Emotionally connected

00:23:30With this person

00:23:31Otherwise

00:23:32I am not gonna do it

00:23:33Absolutely

00:23:34I think this is

00:23:35With every relationship

00:23:36You have to make sure

00:23:37That you are

00:23:38Emotionally connected

00:23:39Before taking that

00:23:40Next step

00:23:41And for men

00:23:42It works otherwise

00:23:43To be very honest with you

00:23:44That

00:23:45For men

00:23:46Physical touch is

00:23:47Very important

00:23:48Okay

00:23:49If it happens

00:23:50Again and again

00:23:51Then they will be able

00:23:52To connect with you

00:23:53Emotionally

00:23:54But for girls

00:23:55Emotions

00:23:56Comes first

00:23:57Then they will be able

00:23:58To connect with you

00:23:59Physically

00:24:00Then how will

00:24:01This problem be solved?

00:24:04I think

00:24:05First thing first is

00:24:06That you know

00:24:07You

00:24:08Get to know each other

00:24:09And

00:24:10Before getting

00:24:11Indulged physically

00:24:12Do small acts

00:24:13You know

00:24:14Be together

00:24:15Be little touchy

00:24:16Clingy

00:24:17Hold hands

00:24:18Yeah

00:24:19Be romantic

00:24:20But not in a way

00:24:21Where you

00:24:22Are getting sexual

00:24:23Immediately

00:24:24Take some time

00:24:25Take some good time

00:24:26Do not rush into it

00:24:27Because

00:24:28The sooner you

00:24:29Get into it

00:24:31It will be

00:24:32Very intense

00:24:34But it won't be

00:24:35Long lasting

00:24:36Absolutely

00:24:37So take time

00:24:38So to all the partners

00:24:39Who are watching this

00:24:41Please

00:24:43Before sex

00:24:44Build an intimacy

00:24:45Yes

00:24:46Outside the bedroom

00:24:47Outside the bedroom

00:24:48Talk to them

00:24:49Okay

00:24:50Not that

00:24:51It is just because

00:24:52You want to have sex

00:24:53That is your end goal

00:24:54You start with those

00:24:55Intimate talks

00:24:56Just to lead it to sex

00:24:57Don't do that

00:24:58First talk outside

00:24:59Try to understand your partner

00:25:01And then you

00:25:02Accordingly take the next step

00:25:03Yes

00:25:04Right

00:25:05Now

00:25:06A lot of people

00:25:07Have problems in bedrooms

00:25:09Okay

00:25:10Now it could be

00:25:11First of all

00:25:12First timers

00:25:13Let's start with them

00:25:14Okay

00:25:15First timers

00:25:16When they are

00:25:17If both the people

00:25:18Are first timers

00:25:19How do they

00:25:20Be in that situation

00:25:21Because both

00:25:22Don't have the knowledge

00:25:23Both don't have the knowledge

00:25:24Okay

00:25:25So this is for

00:25:26First timers and everyone

00:25:28Sex is not

00:25:29Perfect

00:25:30It's messy

00:25:32And it's awkward

00:25:34You know

00:25:35You will do such things

00:25:36That you will laugh

00:25:37That what are we doing

00:25:41And when we see

00:25:42In movies

00:25:43We think

00:25:44It should be like this

00:25:45This is the right way

00:25:46To do sex

00:25:47Or you know

00:25:48To be romantic

00:25:49It's not like that

00:25:50First time

00:25:51It will be more awkward

00:25:52You will feel more stupid

00:25:53And that's okay

00:25:54Because you are

00:25:55Only going to be

00:25:56Good in sex

00:25:57With practice

00:25:59Without practice

00:26:00You can't think

00:26:01Overnight

00:26:02That now

00:26:03I have become

00:26:04Very good

00:26:05Now

00:26:06I am going to do

00:26:07Everything

00:26:08That is not going to happen

00:26:09Practice

00:26:10And for first timers

00:26:11If you don't understand

00:26:12Then whatever

00:26:13Things you understand

00:26:14Go with that

00:26:15Go with the flow

00:26:16Be easy on each other

00:26:18And be slow

00:26:19And

00:26:20Eventually

00:26:21When you practice more

00:26:22You will understand

00:26:23How to do it

00:26:24And what not to do

00:26:26Exactly

00:26:27Do not consider it as

00:26:29A thing which is

00:26:30Perfect

00:26:31No

00:26:32This question

00:26:33Was very important

00:26:34Because a lot of people

00:26:35After the first time

00:26:36They think

00:26:37They start doubting themselves

00:26:38That I am not good

00:26:39So maybe

00:26:40They came fast

00:26:42Or maybe

00:26:43They were not

00:26:44It can happen like this

00:26:45Exactly

00:26:46As a first timer

00:26:47It happens like this

00:26:48Either you can come

00:26:49Very fast

00:26:50Because

00:26:51This is the first time

00:26:52For you

00:26:53Everything seems

00:26:54Heightened to you

00:26:55Exactly

00:26:56And secondly

00:26:57You are not able to understand

00:26:58How to try

00:26:59Sex position

00:27:00Because you

00:27:01Are trying right now

00:27:02You know

00:27:03You are not able to understand

00:27:04What to do next

00:27:05What not to do

00:27:06So don't keep

00:27:07That technicality

00:27:08In your mind

00:27:09The more you think

00:27:10The more

00:27:11It will get ruined

00:27:12And

00:27:13The more you

00:27:14Think

00:27:15The more

00:27:16It will get ruined

00:27:17And in first timers

00:27:18It also happens

00:27:19That

00:27:20Boys feel

00:27:21Like

00:27:22You know

00:27:23They feel stress

00:27:24And eventually

00:27:25They are not able to

00:27:26Have erection

00:27:27In the first time

00:27:28This also happens

00:27:29Because of stress

00:27:30They can't have erection

00:27:31Yeah because

00:27:32This is their first time

00:27:33So stress and anxiety

00:27:34Build up so much

00:27:35That it doesn't

00:27:36Lead to erection

00:27:37So just be calm

00:27:38And be okay

00:27:39Breathe

00:27:40And just go

00:27:41With the flow

00:27:42And in the first time

00:27:43Even if you don't have

00:27:44Erection

00:27:45It's still there

00:27:46Exactly

00:27:47So it's okay

00:27:48And don't judge yourself

00:27:49And your partner

00:27:50That's the biggest problem

00:27:51I have

00:27:52I have a lot of friends

00:27:53With whom I have heard

00:27:54That they

00:27:55What do you say

00:27:56They go into a zone

00:27:57Am I not good?

00:27:58And they start doubting

00:27:59And to be honest

00:28:00Then

00:28:01In having

00:28:02Sex for the second time

00:28:03Or

00:28:04Being intimate

00:28:05It's very difficult

00:28:06And it takes a lot of time

00:28:07Because they

00:28:08Start doubting themselves

00:28:09So everyone

00:28:10Who is having

00:28:11An erection

00:28:12For the first time

00:28:13Who is not able

00:28:14To have sex

00:28:15For the first time

00:28:16Someone's first time

00:28:17Is not good

00:28:18Everyone thinks

00:28:19That

00:28:20After watching porn

00:28:21Or anything

00:28:22First time has to be

00:28:23Very good

00:28:24Very romantic

00:28:25And all of it

00:28:26It's messy

00:28:27It's messy

00:28:28It's not good

00:28:29It's fine

00:28:30It's awkward

00:28:31It's messy

00:28:32It can be funny

00:28:33It can be stupid

00:28:34Don't judge yourself

00:28:35And be okay with it

00:28:36Absolutely

00:28:37Absolutely

00:28:38Now

00:28:39Coming from the first timers

00:28:40Let's move to the

00:28:41Second stage of it

00:28:42That

00:28:43Where

00:28:44Partners are in a relationship

00:28:45Okay

00:28:46They have been

00:28:47They have been together

00:28:48For a little longer time

00:28:49One year

00:28:50Few months

00:28:51Or whatever

00:28:52Now

00:28:53With time

00:28:54In their bedroom

00:28:55Intimacy

00:28:56Yes

00:28:57Or the drive for sex

00:28:58Is decreasing

00:28:59Okay

00:29:00So

00:29:01How do

00:29:02They solve this problem?

00:29:03So

00:29:04What happens is

00:29:05When we

00:29:06Are in a relationship

00:29:07With a partner

00:29:08For a long time

00:29:09We

00:29:10Stop giving space

00:29:11To each other

00:29:12We are together

00:29:13All the time

00:29:14We do all the activities

00:29:15Together all the time

00:29:16So it's very important

00:29:17That

00:29:18First of all

00:29:19You create space

00:29:20Between each other

00:29:21And what does space mean?

00:29:22When I say that

00:29:23You know

00:29:24Meet your friends

00:29:25Go out

00:29:26With your friends

00:29:27Do some activities

00:29:28In sports

00:29:29You can do something

00:29:30You can do your hobbies

00:29:31I mean

00:29:32You

00:29:33Find time for yourself

00:29:34Because

00:29:35You are together

00:29:36All the time

00:29:37You have to do everything together

00:29:38Family gathering

00:29:39You have to do it together

00:29:40You know

00:29:41You have to

00:29:42Do something there

00:29:43You have to eat

00:29:44So you have to do it together

00:29:45Other than that

00:29:46It won't happen

00:29:47So it's very important

00:29:48For that spiciness

00:29:49To happen

00:29:50First thing is that

00:29:51Create some space

00:29:52Between you and your partner

00:29:53Very important

00:29:54Because

00:29:55We think

00:29:56When I want to live with her

00:29:57I have to do everything with her

00:29:58Obviously

00:29:59You do that

00:30:00But it's also important

00:30:01That you create

00:30:02A gap between you two

00:30:03So true

00:30:04So true

00:30:05Nobody thinks about it like that

00:30:06I mean

00:30:07You are sleeping together

00:30:08All night

00:30:09So

00:30:10Go to your friends

00:30:11One day

00:30:12Or go somewhere else

00:30:13And travel with your friends also

00:30:15What I have seen in couples

00:30:16Is that

00:30:17They travel

00:30:18With their partner

00:30:19Why aren't you going

00:30:20With your friend?

00:30:21Thank you for mentioning this

00:30:23What is wrong with that?

00:30:24Exactly

00:30:25Yeah

00:30:26Oh my god

00:30:27So I think

00:30:28Everyone in the bedroom

00:30:29As you mentioned

00:30:30If your

00:30:31Sex drive is decreasing

00:30:32Or you are not able to have that

00:30:33Start giving

00:30:34Some space

00:30:35In your relationship

00:30:36Spend some time

00:30:37With your friends

00:30:39And spend time with them

00:30:40But I think

00:30:41That will help you

00:30:42Yeah

00:30:43That helps

00:30:44Because of that

00:30:45When there is a gap

00:30:46You would want to know

00:30:47More about your partner

00:30:48And whenever

00:30:49You are meeting

00:30:50There will be a gap

00:30:51In between you two

00:30:52Right

00:30:53Absolutely

00:30:54And second thing is

00:30:55Also explore together

00:30:56What happens is

00:30:57Many times

00:30:58When we are together

00:30:59We follow

00:31:00A set pattern

00:31:01Here

00:31:02So don't follow that

00:31:03Do something else

00:31:04Your set pattern

00:31:05Means

00:31:06That

00:31:38You can do that as well

00:31:39Right

00:31:40Right

00:31:41So explore

00:31:42Don't stick to one

00:31:43Set routine

00:31:44That's very important

00:31:45And along with that

00:31:46There are many couples

00:31:47Who are together

00:31:48For a long time

00:31:49And they are just

00:31:50Trying one position

00:31:51In bedroom

00:31:52For example

00:31:53Just missionary

00:31:54Missionary

00:31:55Missionary

00:31:56It happens a lot

00:31:57So maybe

00:31:58Try exploring

00:31:59A different position

00:32:00Yes

00:32:01And I think

00:32:02That will also help you

00:32:03Try exploring

00:32:04Different position

00:32:05And at different places

00:32:06Yes

00:32:07Not just your bedroom

00:32:08Absolutely

00:32:09Yeah

00:32:10It could be your sofa as well

00:32:11Kitchen as well

00:32:12Bathroom as well

00:32:13Or if you are

00:32:14Travelling somewhere

00:32:15If there is a new place

00:32:16You can explore things

00:32:17There itself

00:32:18Just be adventurous

00:32:19Adventurous

00:32:20So I think you have to be

00:32:21Little out of

00:32:22Whatever you have been

00:32:23Doing for so long

00:32:24Which has become

00:32:25Your routine

00:32:26Get out of that

00:32:27And start maybe

00:32:28Sex toys

00:32:29Introduce in your bedroom

00:32:30Absolutely

00:32:31I think you already know

00:32:32See you are talking so much

00:32:33Exactly

00:32:34Because I really want

00:32:35Because people don't know

00:32:36All of these things

00:32:37So introduce sex toys

00:32:38In your bedroom

00:32:39And maybe

00:32:40It could be anything

00:32:41Say BDSM again

00:32:42That is just one

00:32:43That depends

00:32:44Exactly

00:32:45That depends

00:32:46That is again one of the parts

00:32:47But you can simply tie

00:32:48Tie

00:32:49Exactly

00:32:50It doesn't have to be

00:32:51That it is very rough

00:32:52Simply tie your hands

00:32:53So explore new things

00:32:54Explore new things

00:32:55You are absolutely right

00:32:56That you can introduce

00:32:57Sex toys as well

00:32:58Absolutely

00:32:59A lot of people also think

00:33:00That being a sex toy

00:33:02Indicates that

00:33:03I am not enough

00:33:04Yes

00:33:05A man is not enough

00:33:06Yes

00:33:07They think like this

00:33:08But it is not like that

00:33:09You can explore sex toys

00:33:10Together as well

00:33:11And couples also have

00:33:12Sex toys which

00:33:13You can do

00:33:14In fact there is also

00:33:15Something called as

00:33:16Mutual masturbation

00:33:17Right

00:33:18Yeah

00:33:19When you are together

00:33:20You are masturbating

00:33:21But you are not touching

00:33:22Each other

00:33:23Oh wow

00:33:24That is so hot

00:33:25Right

00:33:26You just think about it

00:33:27Absolutely

00:33:28You can do that as well

00:33:29Your expressions

00:33:30Your hands

00:33:31Your body

00:33:32Your gestures

00:33:33You are watching that

00:33:34It is so hot

00:33:35You can try that as well

00:33:36In the bedroom

00:33:37The point is

00:33:38Everyone thinks

00:33:39That we will disrespect

00:33:40Each other

00:33:41If we do all of these things

00:33:42For example

00:33:43Using a sex toy

00:33:44It could be a disrespect

00:33:45To the guy

00:33:46A lot of men think like that

00:33:47Yes

00:33:48Second

00:33:49As you mentioned

00:33:50You do separate masturbation

00:33:51Mutual masturbation

00:33:52Together

00:33:53Mutual masturbation

00:33:54Together

00:33:55But in this

00:33:56People will think

00:33:57That

00:33:58Am I disrespecting

00:33:59The other person

00:34:00But that is not the case

00:34:01Then you need

00:34:02The communication

00:34:03Which I told you about

00:34:04Exactly

00:34:05Communicate and see

00:34:06What fits well

00:34:07And do that

00:34:08Absolutely

00:34:09If you don't know

00:34:10Each other that well

00:34:11And do it suddenly

00:34:12You never know

00:34:13What will trigger

00:34:14Someone

00:34:15Absolutely

00:34:16So now

00:34:17Moving from this part

00:34:18To our

00:34:19Last part of this

00:34:20Okay

00:34:21Which is like

00:34:22A couple

00:34:23There are a lot of couples

00:34:24Who are in a long distance

00:34:25Relationship

00:34:26Hmm

00:34:27Okay

00:34:28Now

00:34:29After meeting

00:34:30It is all happy

00:34:31Yes

00:34:32But a lot of

00:34:33Long distance relationship

00:34:34Ends because

00:34:35Intimacy

00:34:36Ends

00:34:37Because you are

00:34:38So far away

00:34:39I think

00:34:40Because

00:34:41As humans

00:34:42Physical touch is also

00:34:43Very important

00:34:44In any relationship

00:34:45I agree

00:34:46So

00:34:47What would you like to say

00:34:48To them

00:34:49Who are in a long distance

00:34:50Relationship

00:34:51And they need to

00:34:52Keep their intimacy

00:34:53Their love

00:34:54Their sex life

00:34:55Active

00:34:56So

00:34:57Long distance relationship

00:34:58Is challenging

00:34:59I have met people

00:35:00Who are not

00:35:01In a long distance

00:35:02Relationship

00:35:03Now when

00:35:04It is going to be

00:35:05Long distance

00:35:06Then you are not

00:35:07Being together

00:35:08They break up

00:35:09You mean to say

00:35:10If it is going to be

00:35:11Long distance

00:35:12They break up

00:35:13Yes

00:35:14I have met such people

00:35:15And I have also seen

00:35:16People who have been

00:35:17Into it

00:35:18Even after being

00:35:19In a long distance

00:35:20Relationship

00:35:21From 7 to 10 years

00:35:22So it absolutely

00:35:23Depends on your thinking

00:35:24Number one

00:35:25Number two

00:35:26It's

00:35:27My general

00:35:28Advice for everyone

00:35:29First focus on

00:35:30Your self growth

00:35:31Instead of thinking

00:35:32That something negative

00:35:33Is going on

00:35:34That you will meet

00:35:35Someone there

00:35:36Or something like that

00:35:37Instead of that

00:35:38You focus on yourself

00:35:39And focus on

00:35:40Your growth

00:35:41Second thing

00:35:42About intimacy

00:35:43Which you are saying

00:35:44See

00:35:45Keep your distance

00:35:46Temporary

00:35:47Give surprises

00:35:48Come to meet them

00:35:49Suddenly

00:35:50Have that sense

00:35:51Of physical touch

00:35:52It's very important

00:35:53Intimacy

00:35:54And physical touch

00:35:55Is very important

00:35:56But you can't

00:35:57Pull it too much

00:35:58Whenever possible

00:35:59Come and meet

00:36:00Your person

00:36:01Second thing is

00:36:02You can always

00:36:03Send flowers

00:36:04Or you can always

00:36:05Send

00:36:06If you like to eat

00:36:07Something

00:36:08And if I

00:36:09Send it

00:36:10It's such a sweet gesture

00:36:11It's so simple

00:36:12But so sweet

00:36:13I feel so good

00:36:14Here

00:36:15I will feel good

00:36:16In my heart

00:36:17If someone is doing

00:36:18That for me

00:36:19You can do that

00:36:20Third is

00:36:21You can also

00:36:22Go into sexting

00:36:23Okay

00:36:24Yes

00:36:25But that comes

00:36:26With trust

00:36:27Yes

00:36:28You can do sexting

00:36:29Then

00:36:30On call

00:36:31You can do dirty talking

00:36:32As well

00:36:33Right

00:36:34And in long distance

00:36:35One thing you have to do

00:36:36Be in touch

00:36:37You have to

00:36:38Keep communication

00:36:39Do video call

00:36:40Because if you

00:36:41Don't talk

00:36:42It will start from there

00:36:43That your relationship

00:36:44Is fading away

00:36:45Fading away

00:36:46Yes

00:36:47And what you said

00:36:48Use sex toys as well

00:36:49Because

00:36:50Now

00:36:51There are such sex toys

00:36:52In the market

00:36:53Wherein people can use it

00:36:54For long distance relationship

00:36:55Also

00:36:56Because

00:36:57There is a

00:36:58Top

00:36:59There is a toy

00:37:00Okay

00:37:01Yeah

00:37:02You can

00:37:03I will control it from here

00:37:04And it will vibrate there

00:37:05Oh yeah

00:37:06I think I have

00:37:07I have come across that one

00:37:08That here

00:37:09If you make any gesture

00:37:10Like

00:37:11You made an 8

00:37:12So there

00:37:13There will be a vibration

00:37:14Like an 8

00:37:15There are vibrating patterns

00:37:16And then you know

00:37:17If you are on the call

00:37:18Audio call

00:37:19Or video call

00:37:20You can use that

00:37:21Yes

00:37:22I think that is also

00:37:23Very important

00:37:24So maybe

00:37:25Quickly

00:37:26So

00:37:27It comes that

00:37:28First of all

00:37:29You keep giving them

00:37:30Small surprises

00:37:31That matters

00:37:32Yeah

00:37:33That matters a lot

00:37:34And that could be anything

00:37:35You don't have to give them

00:37:36Something very big

00:37:37Or something

00:37:38Just make them feel special

00:37:39Like send them a cake

00:37:40Right

00:37:41Right

00:37:42That is the first thing

00:37:43The second thing is

00:37:44That you

00:37:45Whenever you get a chance

00:37:46You go to meet them

00:37:47Yes

00:37:48Giving surprises

00:37:49Keep this distance

00:37:50Temporary

00:37:51Keep it temporary

00:37:52Third thing

00:37:53Again as you mentioned

00:37:54Sexting

00:37:55Or video calls

00:37:56Or dirty talks

00:37:57Keeping in mind

00:37:58That how much

00:37:59You trust each other

00:38:00If you have built

00:38:01That kind of a trust

00:38:02You can go ahead

00:38:03Or always audio call

00:38:04Is an option

00:38:05Alternative option

00:38:06Exactly

00:38:07So you can go ahead

00:38:08With that

00:38:09The fourth one

00:38:10Is using sex toys

00:38:11With your own

00:38:12With your own partners

00:38:13Because there are

00:38:14A lot of sex toys

00:38:15In the market

00:38:16Which will help

00:38:17Both the partners

00:38:18Use at the same time

00:38:19And fifth is

00:38:20Be in touch

00:38:21Normally also

00:38:22What is going on in life

00:38:23What is happening

00:38:24What was today's day

00:38:25Just be in touch

00:38:26Everyday

00:38:27Talk a little

00:38:28In long distance

00:38:29This is very important

00:38:30So Khushbu

00:38:31Because we have spoken

00:38:32About all of these things

00:38:33And you have explained it

00:38:34So well

00:38:35Along with that

00:38:36I also wanted to know

00:38:37That

00:38:38We want to know

00:38:39About the phases of love

00:38:40That

00:38:41There are phases of love

00:38:42Yes

00:38:43So

00:38:44I wanted to know

00:38:45What are the phases of love

00:38:46And what is that

00:38:47So

00:38:48In every relationship

00:38:50There are certain

00:38:51Phases of love

00:38:52Which we follow

00:38:53We follow it

00:38:54For example

00:38:55If I am in someone's love

00:38:56And the number one

00:38:57Phase here would be

00:38:58Which is called

00:38:59The moon landing phase

00:39:00Basically this is

00:39:01A honeymoon phase here

00:39:02Okay, yeah

00:39:03I know that phase

00:39:04Yeah

00:39:05This is the first six months

00:39:06Wherein

00:39:07There is a bandage

00:39:08On your eyes

00:39:09And you are

00:39:10Drowning in his love

00:39:11All his goodness

00:39:12All his badness

00:39:13You can't see it

00:39:14You always

00:39:15Want to meet him

00:39:16Want to text him

00:39:17Want to go out everyday

00:39:18Want to drink

00:39:19Want to eat

00:39:20Want to sleep

00:39:21Want to go out everyday

00:39:22Want to go on a date

00:39:23These are the first

00:39:24Six months

00:39:25The second

00:39:26Phase is

00:39:27After six months

00:39:28Which comes

00:39:29That is

00:39:30Your exploration phase

00:39:31Means

00:39:32Here

00:39:33The bandage

00:39:34Gradually

00:39:35Starts to come off

00:39:36And

00:39:37You start to see

00:39:38Yes

00:39:39You start to see

00:39:40That there are

00:39:41Differences

00:39:42Between the two

00:39:43In some things

00:39:44Here

00:39:45It is unbund

00:39:46You don't understand

00:39:47That what you thought

00:39:48Is not like that

00:39:49It is something else

00:39:50In the exploration phase

00:39:51Many people

00:39:52Decide to

00:39:53Break up

00:39:54This is after six months

00:39:56And in between

00:39:57One year

00:39:58So that is a very hard phase

00:39:59You mean to say

00:40:00It can be

00:40:01I mean

00:40:02Here you understand

00:40:03Whether you want to

00:40:04Stay with this person

00:40:05Or not

00:40:06Whether you should

00:40:07Continue here

00:40:08Or not

00:40:09Got it

00:40:10After that

00:40:11The third phase

00:40:12That is

00:40:13Adaptation phase

00:40:14Now it can be

00:40:15One to two years

00:40:16So here

00:40:17Now

00:40:18Whatever

00:40:19The flaws are

00:40:20Or

00:40:21Whatever your

00:40:22Actions are

00:40:23Which are matching

00:40:24Or not

00:40:25You start to adapt

00:40:26You are now

00:40:27Settling into it

00:40:28You are like

00:40:29Okay

00:40:30This is what it is

00:40:31And yes

00:40:32I want to work out

00:40:33With you

00:40:34I would like to

00:40:35You know

00:40:36Be with you

00:40:37And you be okay

00:40:38With that

00:40:39Here

00:40:40There is a time

00:40:41Wherein

00:40:42You start

00:40:43Meeting a lot

00:40:44Of your

00:40:45Other friends also

00:40:46From small circle

00:40:47And outside

00:40:48You start going

00:40:49Along with them

00:40:50In this adaptation phase

00:40:51Adaptation phase

00:40:52Basically

00:40:53Is also

00:40:54Where

00:40:55If I

00:40:56Don't like

00:40:57Something about you

00:40:58But still

00:40:59I am okay

00:41:00You are okay with that

00:41:01And you

00:41:02Find a middle ground

00:41:03How to fix it

00:41:04Okay

00:41:05Got it

00:41:06Then

00:41:07There is

00:41:08Commitment phase

00:41:09This is

00:41:10After two years

00:41:11Okay

00:41:12Now

00:41:13You

00:41:14Their

00:41:15Flaws

00:41:16Or

00:41:17You

00:41:18Accept it

00:41:19And

00:41:20You

00:41:21Commit to each other

00:41:22That

00:41:23I want to be with you now

00:41:24And your

00:41:25Goals

00:41:26Short term

00:41:27Becomes long term

00:41:28Long term

00:41:29And in this phase

00:41:30A lot of people

00:41:31Marry

00:41:32Because now

00:41:33They know

00:41:34This is a partner

00:41:35With whom

00:41:36I want to live

00:41:37And then

00:41:38After two years

00:41:39Then you can

00:41:40Assume

00:41:41That

00:41:42I am talking about

00:41:43Five years

00:41:44The next phase

00:41:45Is acceptance phase

00:41:46Now

00:41:47Whatever

00:41:48Partner

00:41:49Is with you

00:41:50Whatever

00:41:51You

00:41:52Accept it

00:41:53And you are

00:41:54Absolutely

00:41:55Okay with it

00:41:56Okay with that

00:41:57Yes

00:41:58Got it

00:41:59With all the

00:42:00Problems

00:42:01Fights

00:42:02But you know

00:42:03I want to live

00:42:04With her

00:42:05And she is my

00:42:06Partner

00:42:07So this is

00:42:08Acceptance phase

00:42:09There are

00:42:10Five phases

00:42:11Of love

00:42:12Which people

00:42:13Go through

00:42:14In every relationship

00:42:15And this couple

00:42:16Goes through

00:42:17These five phases

00:42:18Yes

00:42:19They go through

00:42:20But a lot of people

00:42:21Get separated

00:42:22In the exploration phase

00:42:23Exploration

00:42:24Where they are like

00:42:25No it's not working out

00:42:26And then they just

00:42:27Break up

00:42:28And the most

00:42:29Exciting phase

00:42:30I think

00:42:31Is the first

00:42:32Six months

00:42:33Yes

00:42:34Blindly in love

00:42:35That is the

00:42:36Honeymoon phase

00:42:37And the most

00:42:38Difficult phase

00:42:39Which one is it?

00:42:40The most difficult

00:42:41I think

00:42:42Acceptance phase

00:42:43Is also very difficult

00:42:44Because you are

00:42:45Attached to this person

00:42:46The last stage

00:42:47You know

00:42:48Everything about her

00:42:49Now you

00:42:50You might feel

00:42:51That I want to live

00:42:52And I don't want to live

00:42:53With this person

00:42:54You know

00:42:55Got it

00:42:56But things are

00:42:57Easier because

00:42:58You have seen her

00:42:59For the past five years

00:43:00That is

00:43:01And also

00:43:02Exploration phase

00:43:03Is a little difficult

00:43:04Got it

00:43:05Now with that

00:43:06Khushbu

00:43:07Because we are

00:43:08Talking about

00:43:09Five phases of love

00:43:10We want to know

00:43:11Have you fallen in love?

00:43:12Who has fallen in love?

00:43:13Who has fallen in love?

00:43:15Everyone has fallen in love

00:43:16Everyone has pushed me

00:43:17I think literally

00:43:19So how has your

00:43:20Love life been?

00:43:22So

00:43:24It's been good

00:43:27Obviously

00:43:28It's been tough as well

00:43:30And

00:43:31When I was in a relationship

00:43:32I also did

00:43:33Very stupid things

00:43:34And it has only

00:43:35Made me better

00:43:36To be very honest

00:43:37And

00:43:38I have made peace

00:43:39With it now

00:43:40Because

00:43:41When I was growing up

00:43:42There were some things

00:43:43And some things

00:43:44I didn't know

00:43:45I was exploring

00:43:46There were fights

00:43:47And stuff like that

00:43:48But

00:43:49If you ask me

00:43:50Now to be in love

00:43:51With someone

00:43:52I will be a conscious lover

00:43:53And I would be

00:43:54Much much better

00:43:55Lover now

00:43:56Whatever happened

00:43:57Before this

00:43:58I have been stupid

00:43:59Extremely stupid

00:44:00And I think

00:44:01Along with me

00:44:02My partner was also stupid

00:44:03Literally

00:44:04Very good way

00:44:05To put it out

00:44:07Yeah

00:44:08I don't know anything

00:44:09You know

00:44:10I didn't even know

00:44:11That

00:44:12You can

00:44:14Work things out together

00:44:15If you really want to

00:44:17It is possible

00:44:18There is no such thing

00:44:19That

00:44:20You can't work on

00:44:21The motive should be

00:44:22That you have to be together

00:44:24Yes

00:44:25So I have been in love

00:44:27My heart has also broken

00:44:29And it has only

00:44:30Made me a better person

00:44:31And along with my heart breaking

00:44:34I have also become

00:44:35Very ambitious

00:44:36Wow

00:44:37It has helped me like that

00:44:38I mean

00:44:39I have seen people

00:44:40Who don't do anything

00:44:41They give up

00:44:42They give up hope

00:44:43They don't want to work

00:44:44They do everything

00:44:45With a broken heart

00:44:47But I

00:44:48Fall into a category

00:44:49Wherein

00:44:50If I feel bad

00:44:51Then I would be

00:44:52A better person now

00:44:54Be it work wise

00:44:55Or even

00:44:57Being

00:44:58A lover

00:44:59I think we are on

00:45:00The same page

00:45:01We are the same

00:45:02I have been so

00:45:03All this that you see

00:45:05As soon as you entered

00:45:06You asked

00:45:07You make content on

00:45:08Heartbreaks

00:45:09Why is that?

00:45:10Because

00:45:11I have gone through

00:45:12All of that

00:45:13And

00:45:14That maybe

00:45:15Heartbreak

00:45:16I have used it

00:45:17In a good way

00:45:18That's so important

00:45:19I have created this

00:45:20Side of me

00:45:21So important

00:45:22See otherwise

00:45:23You would have never known

00:45:24Exactly

00:45:25That there is something like this

00:45:26Exactly

00:45:27So now with that

00:45:28Khushbu

00:45:29Love has happened

00:45:30Heart has broken

00:45:31But what are those

00:45:32Three things

00:45:33You have learnt so far

00:45:34From your love so

00:45:35What I have learnt

00:45:36Is that

00:45:37Number one

00:45:38You be there

00:45:39For each other

00:45:41You know

00:45:42No matter what

00:45:43If you want to

00:45:44Work together

00:45:46If you want to

00:45:47Grow together

00:45:48Be there for each other

00:45:49It makes a difference

00:45:51Because many times

00:45:52You will feel

00:45:53That I can't do it

00:45:54Let's leave it

00:45:55Let's just break up

00:45:56That's very easy

00:45:57Why don't you do

00:45:58Something that's difficult

00:45:59Because this is about

00:46:00Love

00:46:01And love

00:46:02Is not jazzy

00:46:03All the time

00:46:04You will see

00:46:05Dark clouds and

00:46:06Dark clouds as well

00:46:07Absolutely

00:46:08Yes

00:46:09So be there for that person

00:46:10Because

00:46:11No one is perfect

00:46:12I am not perfect

00:46:13I am still not perfect

00:46:14I think if I still

00:46:15Fall in love

00:46:16I will do some stupid shit

00:46:17We all do

00:46:18Yes

00:46:19Yes

00:46:20And my partner will also do

00:46:21But I know

00:46:22No matter how he is

00:46:23I will be with him

00:46:24Will you be with me

00:46:25That matters

00:46:26This is what I have learnt

00:46:27So far

00:46:28That be there for each other

00:46:29Because now

00:46:30There are many options

00:46:31There are many people

00:46:32If I look here

00:46:33I will get ten guys

00:46:34If I look there

00:46:35This person

00:46:36I want to be with this person

00:46:37This kind of person

00:46:38So this is one thing

00:46:39What are two other things

00:46:40That you have learnt in love

00:46:41Second would be

00:46:42That

00:46:44Again I would say

00:46:45It's the same thing

00:46:46Which I haven't done in the past

00:46:48Communicate

00:46:50Very important

00:46:51Now I understand

00:46:52The importance of it

00:46:53That communicate

00:46:54And try to know each other

00:46:56Don't make assumptions

00:46:57At all

00:46:59Because

00:47:00The whole game

00:47:01Will spoil that

00:47:02Because everything will be here

00:47:03And you will just

00:47:04Assume all the actions

00:47:06If you do something like this

00:47:07It means this

00:47:08If you do something like this

00:47:09It means this

00:47:10Ask and talk

00:47:11And third would be

00:47:12Trust your person

00:47:14Trust is so important

00:47:16If we don't trust

00:47:18Then

00:47:19We start doubting everything

00:47:21Absolutely

00:47:22So trust

00:47:23In any relationship

00:47:24I think it's very important

00:47:25It's very important

00:47:26And

00:47:27Respect each other

00:47:29This is also one thing

00:47:30Just because

00:47:31That person is your person

00:47:33And you are dating

00:47:34Someone

00:47:35Doesn't mean that

00:47:36You got the liberty

00:47:37To treat that person

00:47:38In any way

00:47:39Respect that person

00:47:40I have seen

00:47:41Relationships

00:47:42Khushboo

00:47:43Where people say

00:47:44They are in a relationship

00:47:45But they are

00:47:46Hurting each other

00:47:47Either

00:47:48They are physically

00:47:49Hitting each other

00:47:50Or physically

00:47:51Abusing each other

00:47:52And then

00:47:53At the end of the day

00:47:54They will say

00:47:55I love you

00:47:56You don't love me

00:47:57You are attached to me

00:47:58Exactly

00:47:59Exactly

00:48:00So I think

00:48:01That is not love

00:48:02There is no respect

00:48:03Where

00:48:04You can never call it love

00:48:05Yes

00:48:06Respect is so important

00:48:07And

00:48:08After doing anything

00:48:09Then you can

00:48:10You come back

00:48:11And you say

00:48:12No no love

00:48:13What you are saying

00:48:14Even I have seen this

00:48:15In one of my friends

00:48:16Basically

00:48:17That guy

00:48:18Used to beat her up

00:48:19And then

00:48:20Later

00:48:21He used to say sorry

00:48:22That does not make sense

00:48:23And that girl

00:48:24Was so attached

00:48:25She was like

00:48:26Okay no no

00:48:27This guy loves me

00:48:28This is how he feels

00:48:29At that time

00:48:30He used to say

00:48:31I will tell you

00:48:32What happens

00:48:33Psychologically also

00:48:34If somebody is hurting you

00:48:35Again and again

00:48:36And

00:48:37Suddenly one day

00:48:38He starts loving you

00:48:39Then

00:48:40What you like

00:48:41It just boosts up

00:48:42You will like it so much

00:48:43Exactly

00:48:44And you are like

00:48:45No no this is love

00:48:46Exactly

00:48:47Don't deal with this shit

00:48:48Just come out of it

00:48:49Exactly

00:48:50Thank you for saying that again

00:48:51Because it is so important

00:48:52What people think

00:48:53We are in love

00:48:54That is not love again

00:48:55At the end of the day

00:48:56It is attachment

00:48:57It is attachment

00:48:58That is called

00:48:59A toxic attachment

00:49:00And you are in that

00:49:01Kind of a situation right now

00:49:02Yes

00:49:03So with that

00:49:04There is one more thing

00:49:05I would like to add

00:49:06I am so sorry

00:49:07Please please

00:49:08So

00:49:09Also

00:49:10I would like to say

00:49:11I understand that

00:49:12You are being insecure

00:49:13And possessive

00:49:14But

00:49:15Don't do that

00:49:16It is too much

00:49:17If you are

00:49:18Being insecure and possessive

00:49:19Again and again

00:49:20Then

00:49:21The relationship

00:49:22Is going to be toxic

00:49:23Exactly

00:49:24I think that comes under

00:49:25Trust

00:49:26Yes

00:49:27When you trust that person

00:49:28Let him flow

00:49:29And let her flow

00:49:30You know

00:49:31If you feel that

00:49:32Something is wrong

00:49:33Sit and talk to that person

00:49:34Ask

00:49:35And ask

00:49:36If you feel that

00:49:37Then what should you do

00:49:38What should happen

00:49:39But don't restrict

00:49:40Because

00:49:41If you are doing that

00:49:42You are killing half

00:49:43Of the relationship

00:49:44Being possessive

00:49:45And being insecure

00:49:46Is way too much

00:49:47It may seem

00:49:48A little sweet

00:49:49And cute

00:49:50But beyond a point

00:49:51It is toxic

00:49:52So don't do that

00:49:53Exactly

00:49:54Now with that

00:49:55Khushboo

00:49:56What are

00:49:57Few myths

00:49:59About love

00:50:00First

00:50:01About love?

00:50:02Yes

00:50:03Myths about love

00:50:04Is that

00:50:07A lot of people

00:50:08Think that

00:50:09Love is what they see

00:50:10In movies

00:50:11Exactly

00:50:12The biggest myth

00:50:13Is this

00:50:14The biggest myth

00:50:15Is that

00:50:16Love is what

00:50:17They see in movies

00:50:18I am also very romantic

00:50:19I think that

00:50:20Shah Rukh Khan

00:50:21Is playing the violin

00:50:22Behind you

00:50:23I also think that

00:50:24When I listen to music

00:50:25To be very honest

00:50:26But I know

00:50:27What I think

00:50:28Which will make me feel good

00:50:29But when I am with that person

00:50:30I know

00:50:31That nothing like this

00:50:32Is going to happen

00:50:33Neither the wind is going to blow

00:50:34Nor the violin

00:50:35Nor Shah Rukh Khan

00:50:38Nor I am Kajol

00:50:43What you see in movies

00:50:44Is not like that

00:50:46This is the biggest myth

00:50:48This is the biggest myth

00:50:49About love

00:50:50Yes

00:50:51What you see in movies

00:50:52Is not like that

00:50:53If you are in love

00:50:54Difficulties are going to come

00:50:55They are going to come

00:50:56They are going to come

00:50:57There are two people

00:50:58We are humans

00:51:00Somehow we are meant

00:51:01To create ruckus

00:51:04And that will happen

00:51:05In a relationship

00:51:06So be okay and work on it

00:51:08Now

00:51:09From love

00:51:10What are three myths

00:51:11About sex

00:51:12That people have

00:51:13Okay

00:51:14Number one

00:51:15A lot of people think

00:51:17That men only want sex

00:51:21This is a very big myth

00:51:23I experiment this

00:51:25With my male friends

00:51:27I always end up asking

00:51:29If you are given two options

00:51:31What will you choose?

00:51:33Number one

00:51:35Cuddling a person

00:51:36And sleeping

00:51:37And number two is

00:51:38Sex

00:51:39Having sex

00:51:40What will you choose?

00:51:41And what are the answers

00:51:42That I get?

00:51:43Cuddling

00:51:44Cuddling

00:51:45Sleeping and cuddling

00:51:46With that person

00:51:47For the whole night

00:51:48I know

00:51:49That's beautiful

00:51:50That's just so beautiful

00:51:51And people always think

00:51:52That men only want sex

00:51:54Men also want

00:51:55Emotional attachment

00:51:56Yes

00:51:57They are a little stupid

00:51:58It takes a little time

00:52:01I get that

00:52:02That it takes a little time

00:52:04But they are also seeking

00:52:05For some emotional connection

00:52:07Sex is not what they want

00:52:09This is one

00:52:10Number two is

00:52:12Because people always think

00:52:13That men always want sex

00:52:15So people also think

00:52:17That females are not

00:52:21Happy

00:52:23Or she doesn't want to have

00:52:24Enough sex

00:52:26Right

00:52:27They also think this

00:52:28Right

00:52:29They also think this

00:52:30But this is also not true

00:52:33The sex drive of a female

00:52:35Or the sexual high of a female

00:52:37Not sex drive

00:52:38The sexual high of a female

00:52:40It's just like boiling water

00:52:43So once you start doing it

00:52:45It will be a little hot

00:52:47Then it will increase

00:52:48Then it will increase

00:52:49Then it will reach the peak

00:52:50It will boil

00:52:52And when you turn off the gas

00:52:54Then it will take time

00:52:55To come down

00:52:56It will take time

00:52:57Yeah

00:52:58And when a female

00:52:59Is sexually high

00:53:00She feels extremely good

00:53:03I mean

00:53:04The more a man

00:53:05Doesn't like something

00:53:06The more his sensations

00:53:07Work at that time

00:53:08They get heightened

00:53:09Wow

00:53:10So this is a big myth

00:53:12That girls don't enjoy sex

00:53:14Not at all

00:53:15And here

00:53:16The sexual high of a male

00:53:18Is just like a

00:53:19Kapoor

00:53:20Camphor

00:53:21If you set it on fire

00:53:23It will burn like this

00:53:24It will have such intensity

00:53:26But when the kapoor goes off

00:53:28It will go off immediately

00:53:29Then you don't feel anything after that

00:53:31You just want to

00:53:32You know

00:53:33Rest

00:53:34Exactly

00:53:35So that is the second one

00:53:36And third is that

00:53:38A lot of people think that

00:53:41Having a big penis

00:53:44Is everything

00:53:45The bigger the better

00:53:46Right

00:53:47Which is not true

00:53:48It's not true at all

00:53:50I mean yes

00:53:51There are many girls

00:53:53For whom penetration is important

00:53:5510-11% of girls

00:53:57And I have met few of them

00:53:59They absolutely love penetration

00:54:01But

00:54:02There is another thing

00:54:04Which also matters

00:54:05That is

00:54:06Clitoral stimulation

00:54:07Right

00:54:08Yes

00:54:09And when they

00:54:11Stimulate the clitoris

00:54:13Then it gives a different

00:54:15Sense of experience altogether

00:54:17Because it has a lot of nerve endings

00:54:19A lot

00:54:20And that is why

00:54:21It is also said that

00:54:22Women

00:54:23They feel more sexual

00:54:25Through clitoris

00:54:26Yes

00:54:27Clitoral stimulation

00:54:28Makes them feel sexual

00:54:29And if both are stimulated

00:54:30Then nothing like it

00:54:31Nothing like it

00:54:32Yes

00:54:33So the bigger the better

00:54:35There are so many men

00:54:36Who are very stressed

00:54:37About their penis size

00:54:39They are stressed out

00:54:40All the time

00:54:41Is my size better?

00:54:42Is it okay?

00:54:43No, something is wrong

00:54:44Even after being normal

00:54:45They will think that

00:54:46It is normal

00:54:47And which is very bad

00:54:48So the bigger the better

00:54:49There is nothing like that

00:54:50Use your

00:54:51Use your hands

00:54:52Fingers

00:54:53You know

00:54:54Just use your fingers

00:54:55Or

00:54:56There is something also called as

00:54:57Oral sex

00:54:58Exactly

00:54:59Which people love a lot

00:55:00Exactly

00:55:01Yes, now there are

00:55:02Sex toys as well

00:55:03What you are talking about

00:55:04Yes

00:55:05Yes

00:55:06And thank you for mentioning this

00:55:07Because

00:55:08Again

00:55:09As I mentioned

00:55:10First of all

00:55:11These things

00:55:12Are not taught in school

00:55:13Right

00:55:14That

01:03:15So

01:03:16It can be that as well

01:03:17Yes

01:03:18So slangs

01:03:19Are used

01:03:20One

01:03:21So that it sounds cooler

01:03:22Second

01:03:23Sex slangs

01:03:24Are used

01:03:25Because

01:03:26You want to say something

01:03:27Publicly

01:03:28But you don't want

01:03:29People to understand

01:03:30Third

01:03:31It is there because

01:03:32No activity

01:03:33Is defined

01:03:34So now

01:03:35What do we call it?

01:03:36We convert it into slang

01:03:37Like

01:03:38Next three

01:03:39Which I am going to tell you

01:03:40Exactly

01:03:41So what are those three slangs?

01:03:42Number one

01:03:43There is something called as

01:03:44Pearl necklace

01:03:45Okay

01:03:46Okay

01:03:47I like your expression

01:03:48I am interested

01:03:49I love your expression

01:03:50So what is

01:03:51Pearl necklace?

01:03:52Basically

01:03:53A penis owner

01:03:54Ejaculates

01:03:55His semen

01:03:56On his partner's

01:03:57Neck

01:03:58Or on his chest

01:03:59Oh

01:04:00And then

01:04:01What he sees

01:04:02Is called

01:04:03Pearl necklace

01:04:04Now

01:04:05Is there a name

01:04:06For this term?

01:04:07Nothing

01:04:08There is no name to this

01:04:09Exactly

01:04:10That's what is

01:04:11Slang

01:04:12Got it

01:04:13I am learning

01:04:14What is the second one?

01:04:15So the second one

01:04:16Is

01:04:17Tea bagging

01:04:18Tea

01:04:19Bagging

01:04:20Tea bagging

01:04:21Tea bagging

01:04:22What is this?

01:04:23So basically

01:04:24A male

01:04:25In his female's mouth

01:04:26Drips out

01:04:27Scrotum

01:04:28Again and again

01:04:29Got it

01:04:30Just like a tea bag

01:04:31Right

01:04:32So it is called

01:04:33Tea bagging

01:04:34Tea bagging

01:04:35Wow

01:04:36I am fascinated

01:04:37Okay

01:04:38So what is

01:04:39Tea bagging?

01:04:40Tea bagging

01:04:41Tea bagging

01:04:42I am fascinated

01:04:45This is the second one

01:04:46Yes

01:04:47Third one is

01:04:48There is something called as

01:04:50Snowballing

01:04:51Snowballing

01:04:52Okay

01:04:53What is snowballing?

01:04:54So basically

01:04:55You have put your partner's

01:04:56Semen

01:04:57In your mouth

01:04:58And now

01:04:59This is going to sound

01:05:00Dirty to a lot of them

01:05:01But

01:05:02It means

01:05:03You have put your partner's

01:05:04Semen in your mouth

01:05:05And now

01:05:06You want to

01:05:07Give that semen

01:05:08In your partner's mouth

01:05:09Right

01:05:10It's like a way of

01:05:11Kissing and

01:05:12Transferring that saliva

01:05:13With semen

01:05:14In each other's mouth

01:05:15Aha

01:05:16That's snowballing

01:05:17Wow

01:05:18And

01:05:19Technically speaking

01:05:20There are no terms for it

01:05:21I don't think so

01:05:22There are no terms for it

01:05:23That is why

01:05:24These are called

01:05:25Sex slags

01:05:26And this helps you

01:05:27In the bedroom

01:05:28Or outside the bedroom

01:05:29If you are having

01:05:30A problem in

01:05:31Explaining that

01:05:32Then basically

01:05:33Let's do snowballing today

01:05:34Yes

01:05:35This helps

01:05:36Exactly

01:05:37So this is how you

01:05:38Communicate with your partner

01:05:39Using these sex slags

01:05:40It's a good way

01:05:41To communicate

01:05:42It is a very good way

01:05:43If in case you are awkward

01:05:44You can always use

01:05:45Sex slags

01:05:46Or you can create

01:05:47Your own sex slags

01:05:48Absolutely

01:05:49Great

01:05:50I am glad you learnt something

01:05:51Yay

01:05:52I am very happy

01:05:53Learning these

01:05:54Three sex slags by the way

01:05:55And obviously

01:05:56The whole podcast

01:05:57I am learning so much

01:05:58But especially

01:05:59These three things

01:06:00Because I had never

01:06:01Thought about it

01:06:02And I never knew about

01:06:03The word sex slags

01:06:04To be very honest

01:06:05What is sex slags?

01:06:06I never knew about that

01:06:07So

01:06:08Thank you

01:06:09I enjoyed

01:06:10Telling you this

01:06:11Now moving forward

01:06:12Now we have

01:06:13A very special round

01:06:14Kushbu

01:06:15Okay

01:06:16We have a very

01:06:17Very special round

01:06:18Which is called

01:06:19The rapid fire round

01:06:20Sponsored by

01:06:21The Backstory store

01:06:22Okay

01:06:23Right

01:06:24So

01:06:25End of the rapid fire round

01:06:26You get a small

01:06:27Cute hamper

01:06:28From Aranya

01:06:29Yay

01:06:30Okay

01:06:31I love hampers

01:06:32Yes

01:06:33Are you excited

01:06:34And I love free gifts

01:06:35Yes

01:06:36I think it's a free gift

01:06:37It's basically

01:06:38My brand

01:06:39The Backstory

01:06:40It has a Backstory store

01:06:41So

01:06:42The hamper is from my store

01:06:43Lovely

01:06:44Great

01:06:45So with that Kushbu

01:06:46What is the best

01:06:47Sex position

01:06:48That couples

01:06:49Should try

01:06:50Okay

01:06:51So one of the

01:06:52Best sex positions

01:06:53Is also one of the

01:06:54Most dangerous

01:06:55Sex position

01:06:56Why I say this

01:06:59The name of the position

01:07:00Is cowgirl position

01:07:01Okay

01:07:02Yes

01:07:03What happens here is

01:07:04A boy

01:07:05Is lying down

01:07:06And a girl

01:07:07Is sitting

01:07:08And then

01:07:09She inserts her penis

01:07:10Into her vagina

01:07:11This is one of the

01:07:12Dangerous positions

01:07:13Because

01:07:14If you are doing it

01:07:15Without any practice

01:07:16Vigorously

01:07:17Or just

01:07:18Jumping

01:07:19Then the chances of

01:07:20Penis fracturing

01:07:21Are very high

01:07:22Oh shit

01:07:23And

01:07:24Till now

01:07:25Whenever

01:07:26Penis has fractured

01:07:27The reasons

01:07:28Are mostly

01:07:29That they were

01:07:30Into

01:07:31A cowgirl position

01:07:32Oh shit

01:07:33I think

01:07:34Many people

01:07:35Don't know

01:07:36That

01:07:37It can also be

01:07:38Dangerous

01:07:39If you don't know

01:07:40How to do things

01:07:41In the right way

01:07:42Yes

01:07:43And it is also

01:07:44One of the best

01:07:45Sex position

01:07:46Because

01:07:47Here

01:07:48You get deep

01:07:49Penetration

01:07:50Number two

01:07:51The girl

01:07:52Controls

01:07:53How much

01:07:54Depth she needs

01:07:55Right

01:07:56Number three

01:07:57You are facing

01:07:58Each other

01:07:59Absolutely

01:08:00Yes

01:08:01And when you do that

01:08:02Along with this

01:08:03When you grind

01:08:04You know

01:08:05When you go

01:08:06Back and forth

01:08:07Move to the side

01:08:08Or

01:08:09Hop

01:08:10This gives

01:08:11A good sense

01:08:12Of deep penetration

01:08:13Which makes

01:08:14Both the partners

01:08:15Feel good

01:08:16And

01:08:17Here

01:08:18Because of

01:08:19Going back and forth

01:08:20Going back and forth

01:08:21Doing it

01:08:22The clitoris

01:08:23Of a female

01:08:24Gets stimulated

01:08:25So it's like

01:08:26Double pleasure for her

01:08:27Okay

01:08:28And I think

01:08:29Again what you mentioned

01:08:30That women

01:08:31Can control

01:08:32That position

01:08:33Yes

01:09:04Okay

01:09:05Can I

01:09:06Wait for a while

01:09:07Okay

01:09:08Okay

01:09:09Great

01:09:15So

01:09:16First question

01:09:19Biggest turn off

01:09:21When you can't

01:09:22Stand for yourself

01:09:23And your people

01:09:25Got it

01:09:27Your

01:09:28Most memorable kiss

01:09:30My first kiss

01:09:32I think this one

01:09:33Everyone

01:09:34Yeah, my first kiss

01:09:35Has been the most memorable one

01:09:36I liked it so much

01:09:37That I thought

01:09:38I want to do it more

01:09:39And I was doing it

01:09:40Straight for next

01:09:41Few days

01:09:42Same

01:09:43Spot

01:09:44Same place

01:09:45Same timing

01:09:46Oh my god

01:09:47I've never heard

01:09:48This though

01:09:49I've never heard

01:09:50This though

01:09:51My first kiss

01:09:52Yeah, I'm like wow

01:09:53Great

01:09:54That is cute

01:09:55I would say

01:09:56The most embarrassing thing

01:09:57On a date with you

01:09:59Honestly

01:10:00I haven't been

01:10:01On many dates

01:10:02Very few

01:10:03And they have been

01:10:04Decent enough

01:10:05Nothing like this

01:10:06Has happened

01:10:07That I felt

01:10:08Because I haven't been

01:10:09On many dates

01:10:10So you've been lucky enough

01:10:11To not have those

01:10:12Embarrassing moments

01:10:13No

01:10:14If you want to share yours

01:10:15It'll be great

01:10:16Okay

01:10:17Yeah, I want to

01:10:18Please

01:10:19Yeah

01:10:20So

01:10:21What happened once

01:10:22I went on this date

01:10:23Okay, we were sitting

01:10:24On the table

01:10:25It was a rooftop

01:10:26And it was a little hot

01:10:27In Bangalore

01:10:28It was in Bangalore

01:10:29And we were sitting

01:10:30Side by side

01:10:31This girl

01:10:32She picks up a tissue

01:10:33Okay

01:10:34Okay

01:10:35She wipes her neck

01:10:36Fine

01:10:37She starts wiping

01:10:38Her underarms

01:10:39Okay

01:10:40And

01:10:41I would not even kid

01:10:42The tissue was

01:10:43Literally wet

01:10:44Like

01:10:45And that is

01:10:46Completely fine

01:10:47Okay, that's fine

01:10:48Now what did she do?

01:10:49We ordered a

01:10:50Plate of momos

01:10:51So the momos

01:10:52Were already on the table

01:10:53She wiped her underarms

01:10:55She kept that

01:10:56Wet tissue

01:10:57Next to the momo

01:11:00And

01:11:01I was like

01:11:02I don't want this

01:11:04I don't want this

01:11:06Let's order another plate of momos

01:11:08She did not keep it on the table

01:11:10But it was just next to the

01:11:11Why didn't you tell her that?

01:11:13What did you say?

01:11:14What was your reaction?

01:11:15You can't say anything

01:11:16Were you like

01:11:17Let's order something else?

01:11:18Like

01:11:19She did not keep it on the plate

01:11:20I know, I know

01:11:21She kept it next to the plate

01:11:22Yeah, yeah, yeah

01:11:23But still

01:11:24I was like

01:11:25I am done

01:11:26And I'll be very honest with you

01:11:27I have never spoken to that girl

01:11:29Since then

01:11:30What, you blocked her?

01:11:31I did not block her

01:11:32I am not someone who blocks someone

01:11:33Until and unless it is

01:11:34Extremely

01:11:35Affecting me

01:11:37But

01:11:38We just didn't

01:11:39Go forward

01:11:40I did the same

01:11:41That's like

01:11:42Unhygienic

01:11:43And not even thinking about

01:11:44The person who was sitting

01:11:45Exactly

01:11:46I think there is a courtesy

01:11:47When you do that

01:11:48Where you can either

01:11:49Go to the washroom

01:11:50Or even if you are doing that

01:11:51Okay, maybe just be

01:11:52Sensible enough to

01:11:53Keep it in a safe space

01:11:54I know

01:11:55Not on the first date

01:11:56At least

01:11:57Just go to the washroom

01:11:58Do that and come back

01:11:59Exactly

01:12:00So that was my

01:12:01I do that

01:12:02I do that

01:12:04So what is

01:12:05The idea of

01:12:06A perfect lazy Sunday

01:12:07With your partner

01:12:09Until and unless

01:12:10My partner

01:12:11Needs a lazy Sunday

01:12:12Then only I will do that

01:12:13Otherwise

01:12:14I am not somebody

01:12:15Who would like to sit home

01:12:16I like going out

01:12:17Exploring new restaurants

01:12:18Places

01:12:19I love

01:12:20Doing new activities

01:12:22So yeah

01:12:23I would prefer doing that

01:12:24Anytime

01:12:25So which is

01:12:26The most

01:12:27Lazy Sundays

01:12:28Which is the most

01:12:29Adventurous activity

01:12:30You have done with your partner

01:12:31Most adventurous activity

01:12:32Oh my god

01:12:33I can't

01:12:34I can't

01:12:35It's too private

01:12:36Say

01:12:37Outside

01:12:38Outside the bedroom

01:12:39Say

01:12:40Maybe you have gone for

01:12:41A go-karting

01:12:42You have gone for

01:12:43A beautiful trek

01:12:44On a Sunday

01:12:45Or something like that

01:12:46I am just gonna keep it

01:12:47Very generic

01:12:48Okay

01:12:49Not gonna say

01:12:50Anything

01:12:51I am excited to know that

01:12:52Off camera

01:12:53Off camera

01:12:54Okay

01:12:55That won't be right

01:12:56But

01:12:57The most

01:12:58Adventurous thing

01:12:59Which I have done

01:13:00With my partner is

01:13:03It's too basic

01:13:04I think no

01:13:05It won't be fun

01:13:06To answer that

01:13:07Forget it

01:13:08Tell us

01:13:09Tell us the generic

01:13:10Okay

01:13:13Yes

01:13:14I am someone

01:13:15Who loves

01:13:16Trekking

01:13:17Wow

01:13:18Yes

01:13:19One I would say

01:13:20Is that

01:13:21Okay

01:13:22Near the waterfall

01:13:23I have kissed

01:13:24My partner

01:13:25Beautiful

01:13:26Yes

01:13:27There is a waterfall

01:13:28Going on

01:13:29With the scene

01:13:30The whole scenario

01:13:31Yes

01:13:32And there is a fog

01:13:33Mountain

01:13:34Greenery

01:13:35And we are kissing there

01:13:36That is so cute

01:13:37And it was so warm

01:13:38It is so cute

01:13:39I could just feel it

01:13:40That it's cold outside

01:13:41And it's hot here

01:13:43So that is one thing

01:13:44Which I have done

01:13:45That is so sweet

01:13:46Okay

01:13:47But you should do it

01:13:48You should try it

01:13:49I love mountains

01:13:50By the way

01:13:51Yes

01:13:52Because

01:13:53Every year

01:13:543-4 times

01:13:55You will find me

01:13:56In some mountains

01:13:57Sitting there

01:13:58But mine is

01:13:59I go alone

01:14:00See it this time

01:14:01Find a waterfall

01:14:03Okay

01:14:04Okay now

01:14:05Three

01:14:06Sex positions

01:14:07That

01:14:08Everyone should try

01:14:09Okay

01:14:11Number one is

01:14:12This is one of my

01:14:13Favorite sex positions

01:14:14Tabletop position

01:14:15So basically

01:14:16Your partner

01:14:17Or a female partner

01:14:18Is on the table

01:14:19And the man is

01:14:20Penetrating

01:14:21It's very hot

01:14:22If you think about it

01:14:23Like that

01:14:24Because you are not on the bed

01:14:25But you are on the table

01:14:26And it's elevated

01:14:27Yes

01:14:28Number two

01:14:29Would be

01:14:30Spooning

01:14:31Right

01:14:32Spooning is

01:14:33Such a

01:14:34Great position

01:14:35It gives

01:14:36Deep penetration

01:14:37And you are

01:14:38Right next to each other

01:14:39And you feel good

01:14:40Yeah

01:14:41That is

01:14:42I think spooning

01:14:43Is a very underrated

01:14:44Sex position

01:14:45Number three

01:14:46Would be

01:14:47One is

01:14:48People

01:14:49Doggy style

01:14:50Follow

01:14:51Or

01:14:52Doggy style

01:14:53Do this

01:14:54Sex position

01:14:55But

01:14:56Another one would be

01:14:57The variation of that

01:14:58Which is

01:14:59Sleeping doggy

01:15:00Wherein

01:15:01You are penetrating

01:15:02The man is penetrating

01:15:03From behind

01:15:04But here

01:15:05You are

01:15:06Standing

01:15:07And the girl

01:15:08Is not in doggy position

01:15:09But you are

01:15:10Leaning

01:15:11On each other

01:15:12Okay

01:15:13Got it

01:15:14Like you are

01:15:15Leaning on each other

01:15:16Yeah

01:15:17Or on the bed

01:15:18Or on the surface

01:15:19I would like to add

01:15:20One more position

01:15:21I am sorry for this

01:15:22No worries

01:15:23Lotus

01:15:24Yeah

01:15:25Lotus position

01:15:26Is also

01:15:27A beautiful position

01:15:28Here

01:15:29You sit on each other

01:15:30And face each other

01:15:31So all your

01:15:32Body parts

01:15:33Are aligned

01:15:34Yes

01:15:35I think this is

01:15:36More of a

01:15:37Spiritual position

01:15:38Yes

01:15:39It is also

01:15:40One of the

01:15:41Spiritual positions

01:15:42Yes

01:15:43And you should

01:15:44Do sex in this

01:15:45Position as well

01:15:46Here

01:15:47Sex does not mean

01:15:48That you do it

01:15:49You can simply

01:15:50Insert the penis

01:15:51Inside

01:15:52The vagina

01:15:53And just sit like that

01:15:54And just connect with each other

01:15:55Yes

01:15:56You don't have to

01:15:57Do everything

01:15:58Absolutely

01:15:59Just keep it like that

01:16:00I know what you are talking about

01:16:01And I have read about it

01:16:02A little bit

01:16:03I think I have a little

01:16:04Knowledge about it

01:16:05Where I have read

01:16:06Here

01:16:07It is related to

01:16:08Spirituality

01:16:09Yes

01:16:10Your body aligns

01:16:11And your chakras also match

01:16:12Matches

01:16:13And the energy

01:16:14That is exchanged

01:16:15In that position

01:16:16It helps

01:16:17To connect with each other

01:16:18More well

01:16:19And you are facing

01:16:20Facing and

01:16:21Imagine you are doing

01:16:22Eye gazing here

01:16:23Yes

01:16:24It is so nice

01:16:25Exactly

01:16:26Great

01:16:27Beautiful

01:16:28All four of them

01:16:29Thank you

01:16:30Your biggest turn on

01:16:31Being brave

01:16:32And being courageous

01:16:33Perfect

01:16:34Now

01:16:35What is the deal breaker

01:16:36For you

01:16:37In a relationship

01:16:38When

01:16:39My partner is

01:16:40Okay

01:16:41When I am happy

01:16:42And chirpy

01:16:43But he is not

01:16:44Okay

01:16:45When I am

01:16:46You know

01:16:47Dark

01:16:48And

01:16:49When I am not

01:16:50Doing well

01:16:51Like

01:16:52I have my

01:16:53Good days

01:16:54And I have my

01:16:55Bad days

01:16:56But it does not mean

01:16:57That I will always be

01:16:58Happy

01:16:59And keep everything

01:17:00Good

01:17:01And always bring

01:17:02Happiness

01:17:03Obviously

01:17:04I do that

01:17:05But

01:17:06Sometimes

01:17:07Sometimes

01:17:08There are days

01:17:09When I don't feel

01:17:10Good

01:17:11I feel dull

01:17:12I get irritated

01:17:13I get angry

01:17:14So deal with that

01:17:15Accept my flaws as well

01:17:16Right

01:17:17I am not saying

01:17:18That I will not work

01:17:19On my flaws

01:17:20But be there for me

01:17:21When I am

01:17:22Both

01:17:23A light

01:17:24And a dark

01:17:25A light and

01:17:26What would we say

01:17:27We can say

01:17:28No light

01:17:29When I am both

01:17:30A light and no light

01:17:31Yes

01:17:32Exactly

01:17:33So

01:17:34That is one thing

01:17:35Which makes a huge

01:17:36Difference to me

01:17:37If I see

01:17:38That my partner

01:17:39Cannot handle it

01:17:40Then

01:17:41That's a deal breaker

01:17:42For me

01:17:43Because

01:17:44I am not perfect

01:17:45Absolutely

01:17:46Absolutely

01:17:47I think what you are

01:17:48Mentioning again

01:17:49Is like

01:17:50In highs

01:17:51Or

01:17:52When you are

01:17:53At your peak

01:17:54You will find

01:17:55A lot of people

01:17:56But when you are

01:17:57In the lowest

01:17:58Who is there

01:17:59With you

01:18:00That matters

01:18:01That matters

01:18:02Yeah

01:18:03And

01:18:04To be very honest

01:18:05With you

01:18:06Nowadays

01:18:07I feel

01:18:08People are

01:18:09Okay

01:18:10Being about

01:18:11Highs

01:18:12But not

01:18:13Being about

01:18:14Low

01:18:15Which is very bad

01:18:16Yes

01:18:17Which is very bad

01:18:18Yes

01:18:19I believe in true connection

01:18:20And if I am with someone

01:18:21I will accept everything

01:18:22And I want this

01:18:23In return

01:18:24Rest

01:18:25We will work together

01:18:26We will sort out things

01:18:27It's not like that

01:18:28I will work on my flaws

01:18:29But

01:18:30100%

01:18:31I will be good in that

01:18:32There is no guarantee

01:18:33And be okay with that

01:18:34Absolutely

01:18:35Great

01:18:36Now

01:18:37If you had a super power

01:18:38In the bedroom

01:18:39What would it be?

01:18:40Whatever is going on

01:18:41In my partner's mind

01:18:42I want to know everything

01:18:43This is my super power

01:18:44That you scan it

01:18:45What is going on

01:18:46Inside

01:18:47We want to know

01:18:48What is going on

01:18:49In our partner's mind

01:18:50What is going on

01:18:51That is one thing

01:18:52That I would love to do

01:18:53Great

01:18:54If you could go back in time

01:18:55And relive one moment

01:18:56What would that be?

01:18:57So

01:18:58This is

01:18:59Out of subject

01:19:00But

01:19:01I went to Ladakh

01:19:02Near Pangong lake

01:19:03At midnight

01:19:04I know that

01:19:05I think

01:19:06Around 3 or 4

01:19:07At night

01:19:08And at that time

01:19:09I was with my friends

01:19:10And when I

01:19:11Looked up

01:19:12I could see

01:19:13Milky way

01:19:14Wow

01:19:15And

01:19:16That was

01:19:17Unbelievable

01:19:18I thought

01:19:19I was hallucinating

01:19:20Because I was on the mountain

01:19:21And above

01:19:22You know

01:19:23I started rubbing my eyes

01:19:24And I

01:19:25Told my friends

01:19:26Just come out

01:19:27Because there was a car

01:19:28I mean

01:19:29All of us

01:19:30Were in four wheeler

01:19:31So I told them

01:19:32Come out

01:19:33I can see something here

01:19:34I think I am hallucinating

01:19:35So when they came out

01:19:36When they saw

01:19:37They were like

01:19:38Dude this is real

01:19:39And I couldn't believe it

01:19:40And blue patches also

01:19:41Like a milky way

01:19:42Wow

01:19:43It was beautiful

01:19:44Wow

01:19:45I just can't explain that

01:19:46And

01:19:47I tried to capture it

01:19:48In my phone

01:19:49But I couldn't

01:19:50I think

01:19:51I understand

01:19:52What you are trying to say

01:19:53Because

01:19:54What you see in that moment

01:19:55Spluttered stars

01:19:56And stars

01:19:57In between

01:19:58And sides

01:19:59And colors

01:20:00It was beautiful

01:20:01Wow

01:20:02And I love such things

01:20:03Yeah

01:20:04Wow

01:20:05I love such things

01:20:06So I think

01:20:07That is one of the moments

01:20:08You want to go back

01:20:09And try to see

01:20:10The same thing

01:20:11With my partner

01:20:12It will be more romantic

01:20:13I think the next time

01:20:14You go there

01:20:15Take your partner

01:20:16I am going to do that

01:20:17Yes

01:20:18Let's go

01:20:19Last one

01:20:20What is a turn on

01:20:21Which is very underrated

01:20:22Simply saying

01:20:23I love you

01:20:24Wow

01:20:25I think

01:20:26From this question

01:20:27Finishing this rapid fire

01:20:28Was very important

01:20:29With the kind of answer

01:20:30That you gave us

01:20:31Yeah

01:20:32Because

01:20:33All of this

01:20:34Sums up to

01:20:35One thing

01:20:36That is

01:20:37Saying

01:20:38I love you

01:20:39I love you

01:20:40It's beautiful

01:20:41It's beautiful

01:20:42I think

01:20:43That heaviness comes in my heart

01:20:44Automatically

01:20:45When I say

01:20:46I love you

01:20:47It just comes from here

01:20:48I know

01:20:49Because I think

01:20:50You are a very true person

01:20:51When you are falling in love

01:20:52Yes

01:20:53And I think

01:20:54Everything is activated

01:20:55Just like that

01:20:56Great

01:20:57Just say

01:20:58I love you to your person

01:20:59Every now and then

01:21:00It's very important

01:21:01And

01:21:02People don't

01:21:03Usually do that

01:21:04And I think

01:21:05Thank you for mentioning that

01:21:06That it is the most

01:21:07Underrated thing

01:21:08Go and say it

01:21:09Text it

01:21:10Do anything

01:21:11To your partner

01:21:12Say I love you

01:21:13Great

01:21:15Yay

01:21:17With this

01:21:18We come to an end

01:21:19Of our rapid fire round

01:21:20And Khushboo

01:21:21You were amazing

01:21:22Really

01:21:23You were great

01:21:24Please praise me again

01:21:26Okay

01:21:27With that

01:21:28Here you go

01:21:29As mentioned earlier

01:21:32Thank you so much

01:21:33Books and coffee and edit

01:21:34Wow

01:21:36So there are few things

01:21:37In the bag

01:21:38Thank you so much

01:21:39Thank you

01:21:42I would love to see

01:21:43Please

01:21:47Okay wow

01:21:48It's a notebook

01:21:49And then there are notepads

01:21:50And other things

01:21:51Okay

01:21:52This is going to be useful for me

01:21:55Thank you so much

01:21:56Great

01:21:57Thank you for this

01:21:58I hope you like this

01:21:59Yes

01:22:00Absolutely

01:22:01I love all these

01:22:02Naughty stuffs

01:22:03I love it

01:22:04So with that

01:22:05We come

01:22:06To an end

01:22:07Of our podcast

01:22:08And thank you

01:22:09Thank you

01:22:10Thank you so much

01:22:11For coming in here

01:22:12And educating

01:22:13All of us

01:22:14With your thoughts

01:22:16So before you leave

01:22:18A message

01:22:19Which you

01:22:20To all your followers

01:22:22Who are watching this podcast

01:22:23You would like to give them

01:22:24A message

01:22:26I just want to give this message

01:22:28That

01:22:29Be happy

01:22:30Explore

01:22:32Try to know

01:22:33Intimacy

01:22:34More

01:22:35Because

01:22:36Intimacy

01:22:37And sex

01:22:38Are very important

01:22:39In our lives

01:22:40And you

01:22:41And me

01:22:42And all the people here

01:22:43We all have

01:22:44One thing in common

01:22:45That is sex

01:22:46We have come here

01:22:47For this reason

01:22:48We are stemmed from

01:22:49Sex

01:22:50Basically

01:22:51So yes

01:22:52This is one thing

01:22:53That I would

01:22:54Love you guys

01:22:55To do

01:22:56And explore

01:22:57And know

01:22:58And be knowledgeable enough

01:22:59Absolutely

01:23:00Thank you so much

01:23:01Thank you so much

01:23:02For coming

01:23:03And until then

01:23:05See you

01:23:06Bye-bye

01:23:07Take care

01:23:33Subscribe

01:23:34Like

01:23:35And share

01:23:36This podcast

01:23:37With your friends

01:23:38And family

01:23:39Because

01:23:40Sex

01:23:41Is a beautiful thing

01:23:43And

01:23:44No one should have

01:23:45Any problem

01:23:46Talking about it

01:24:04Bye-bye

01:24:05Bye-bye

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