Fast Talk with Boy Abunda: Angeli Khang, nakaranas ng pang-aabuso sa ama! (Episode 399)
Aired (August 9, 2024): Ibinahagi ni Angeli Khang ang dinanas nila ng kanyang kapatid noon sa Saipan kasama ang kanilang Koreanong ama na may mabigat daw na kamay pagdating sa pagdidisiplina. #GMANetwork #GMADrama #Kapuso
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00:00We still have a lot of questions.
00:07Who is Angelica?
00:09We have an idea that you grew up in Saipan and came from South Korea.
00:15Your father was a military general.
00:18But this is just a few of the things we know.
00:21What is your story?
00:22Who are you?
00:25Growing up, I was adopted by my mom.
00:30At first, I was adopted by my mom.
00:33My mom was converted from Catholic to born-again Christian.
00:38So growing up, Christian values...
00:41Where are you from?
00:42Are you from South Korea or Saipan?
00:44I'm from the Philippines.
00:45Philippines?
00:46Yes, I was born here in the Philippines.
00:47So after my elementary school, when I went to Saipan with my dad,
00:53I really respected my dad.
00:57And I missed him so much from not seeing him for a long time.
01:01But maybe my dad's military discipline was different.
01:06Wait a minute.
01:07So your dad was a military officer where?
01:11At the U.S.
01:13At the U.S.?
01:14Yes.
01:15But he was from South Korea?
01:18Yes.
01:19Alright. So that's where you started.
01:21You were born here in the Philippines.
01:23Seven years old.
01:24You joined your dad in Saipan.
01:26And then what happened?
01:28His way of teaching, a motherly love will never...
01:31A motherly love will never be true.
01:33But a dad's love, a father's love is uptight.
01:37And a dad's love is very different from a mother's love.
01:41But since my dad was military disciplined,
01:44he became more uptight.
01:47It became too much for us to handle.
01:51The both of us, me and my brother.
01:53My older brother.
01:54Older brother?
01:55Yes.
01:56Did he hurt you?
01:57Yes. Physically abused.
01:59You were physically abused.
02:01How bad was that?
02:02What was that? A beating? Was it a belt? A punch?
02:05How did he hurt you?
02:07He hurt me in every way.
02:09One time, there was a fight.
02:12He owns a construction company there.
02:15He saw a fight.
02:17He hurt my older brother.
02:19He hit him in the back.
02:20And my brother's back wasn't red.
02:23It was purple.
02:24And the reason was only...
02:28Maybe there was...
02:30The reason was only...
02:31My dad was being asked to solve a math problem.
02:33But my brother didn't...
02:36He didn't get an answer right away.
02:38My dad got an answer.
02:40And he won.
02:41When my brother couldn't take it anymore,
02:44and he went back to the Philippines,
02:46I didn't tell my dad that I knew he went back.
02:50Because my brother ran away.
02:51He ran away from my dad.
02:53And I want my dad to admit,
02:56the way he treated me,
02:58he suddenly pushed me to the dishes.
03:01He pushed me there.
03:02And he didn't let me eat for a week.
03:05Since we have a farm there,
03:08we have a garden,
03:09and I eat every time I feed the dogs.
03:12I eat avocados,
03:14oranges,
03:15apples.
03:16I don't eat for a week.
03:18Sometimes when I feed the dogs,
03:20I see how delicious it is to feed the dogs.
03:22Should I just eat this?
03:24But I got to the point where
03:27I went to school with a class.
03:30Until the very end,
03:33super...
03:34I couldn't show my temper in school.
03:37How long was this?
03:38Three years, four years.
03:40Maybe five.
03:42Three to five years.
03:45And every time your dad hurts you,
03:47do you just cry?
03:49Yes.
03:50Up to a certain point,
03:52you endured all of this.
03:54How did you get out?
03:57I thought,
03:58I actually thought there was a normal parenting hood.
04:02You thought it was normal?
04:04Yes.
04:05That if you make a mistake,
04:07it's normal that your parents hurt you.
04:11But I didn't realize that it was too much.
04:15Until I realized that
04:17I went to school with a class,
04:19my hands were bleeding.
04:23What my dad always tells me to comfort me,
04:26I want the best of you.
04:35I want the best of you.