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00:00Hey guys, welcome back to Karma TV with me, Gabrielle Ryan, and my next interesting topic.
00:04So tonight I want to ask our ladies what are the things that they want but will never ask for?
00:09See, I know that I always want a guy I'm dating to give me his jumper, but I would never ask him for it.
00:15But I want to know what else they won't tell you. Let's go and get some answers.
00:24What do you want but won't ask for?
00:27Oh my god.
00:28Oral.
00:29A hug.
00:34Attention, first of all.
00:36And are there any physical things a guy could do that you wouldn't ask for?
00:39I think I'm just going to go with the flow and see where he wants to go. I would never ask for anything.
00:44Yeah.
00:45Why a hug?
00:46Just because, you know, you just want it and you don't want to ask for it.
00:50And then you just want to be able to like, just ask for love, basically.
00:55And sometimes you don't always get it and you just want to be able to ask and not have to ask and just have it, basically.
01:01Like doing the dishes, like, you know, like tiny things like that, yeah.
01:05Some care and, like, sweetness. Love, yeah. But I would never ask for those things.
01:11What would you want, say, from someone you meet?
01:14Funny, smart and pays attention to detail.
01:18Physical things that a guy could do that perhaps you wouldn't ask him for?
01:21I find lifting weights quite attractive.
01:24I would never ask for my boyfriend's sweatpants, but I would always like to try them on.
01:31I wouldn't ask for marriage. I wouldn't ask for babies and I wouldn't ask for lots of money.
01:38But that's everything I want, apart from marriage and babies, just the money.
01:41How come you find honesty important? Why, yeah, why would you just ask?
01:45For me, sincerity and honesty. If I need something or he needs something, honesty is the best way to go.
01:52And what about, like, physical things that a guy could do that you wouldn't ask for but you want him to do secretly?
01:58I would like a guy to pay. But I would, like, if we were dating for a while, I would, like, want to spend money as well.
02:05Honesty, yeah.
02:07Well, it depends on the dating, though, so if it's the beginning of the dating, you won't really ask, of course.
02:13But I think as you go ahead with the person, then you start, kind of, maybe being more comfortable and asking for things.
02:21So just say we met on Tinder or something, then maybe I'd ask maybe a few dates down the line if they were still on it, maybe?
02:28Yeah!
02:29Want to, yeah, maybe want them to come off Tinder!
02:32Yeah, if it's going well, maybe, yeah.
02:34So what about other physical things a guy could do or emotional things?
02:38Um, maybe not talk to other girls on Tinder and make it really obvious.
02:43Yeah, we wouldn't ask for that, but that's a very good one.
02:45What about in bed? What wouldn't you ask for then?
02:48Not really, like, yeah, so far so good, I think, yeah.
02:51Wouldn't ask for a cup of tea in bed.
02:53Like, maybe the chemistry between us will actually show what I want and what I don't want, so I'd never ask for anything, but, like, it will show if I want anything.
03:01That he takes control.
03:03Yes.
03:04We shouldn't have to tell a guy that, right?
03:06But it's really hard to ask for it.
03:09Yeah!
03:10Just to be like, just focus on me and that's it.
03:12More foreplay.
03:15Today more toys and stuff like handcuffs.
03:18Yeah, because you're not being asked for it.
03:20No, yeah, yeah.
03:21In the beginning, especially girls, they find it hard to ask what they want, but I personally try not to, I mean, like, try to ask, I mean, to force myself to ask and, you know, just be open about it, why not?
03:36A bit more spontaneity, I guess.
03:38What about emotional things that you want, but probably wouldn't ask for from someone you're dating?
03:43Someone who's quite committed, but you don't, you never want to say that to their face, because obviously that kind of brings up doubts, I guess.
03:49So, yeah, something like that, maybe.
03:51I'd never ask for hugs or kind of affection.
03:55Carey, like, sometimes.
03:57Flowers, you wouldn't want to ask for flowers, but, you know, you'd disexpect it, wouldn't you, sometimes?
04:02Just hope.
04:03Yeah, just hope for it, sometimes.
04:04Hey guys, me again.
04:05So I've just finished speaking to our ladies, and what they all said is that mostly they want more of the emotional traits, like attention and just hugs and affection from you, more than physical things that you could do, like spending money, for example.
04:18But what some said is that actually, they would just ask and be more open with you once they felt more comfortable.
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04:33I've been Gabriella Ryan, and I will see you next time.