Cally Jane Beech & fiancé DJ O'Neal are giving couple goals! Report by Mccallumj. Like us on Facebook at http://www.facebook.com/itn and follow us on Twitter at http://twitter.com/itn
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00:00Look at this, it's a couple. This is just too much.
00:02I know, and do you know it's our, like, one-year-engaged anniversary today.
00:05Congratulations!
00:07We're here to watch all the men dance.
00:09How is she dragged through this? How is this happening? This must be true love.
00:13It were difficult. I quite like the...
00:16Bit of fun, innit, babe?
00:17I mean, you could give the dancers a run for their money. I mean, look at...
00:20That's what I've come for. See a little bit of this.
00:22No, don't say that. You can't get recruited.
00:24You'll be getting recruited.
00:26That's what I'm looking out for. At least girls.
00:28Listen, you two are a picture of love.
00:30Absolutely healthy, gorgeous relationship.
00:33Help us out. The girlies were all single and struggling.
00:36How do we find this, guys?
00:38Do you know what? You've just got to have your standard.
00:41Don't settle for anything less.
00:42Draw your line. Stick to it.
00:44Don't accept things that you just think is society.
00:47I always say to people, take things off face value
00:50and don't try and always see the best in people
00:52because we're so guilty of that, aren't we?
00:54We've struggled in the past and we've always had
00:57ups and downs in our past relationships.
00:58That's because that person wasn't for us,
01:00but we tried to see the best in that relationship
01:02and in that person.
01:03And just take it face value of what they show you.
01:07Believe it. Don't try and change them.
01:09It is what it is.
01:10Obviously, she's an absolute worldie, right?
01:12I want to know, when did you know?
01:14When does it click for you?
01:16Weirdly, it was scary for me because I knew it quite early on.
01:20So I actually was pretty scared at the thought and the feeling of it.
01:24No, I'd say, yeah, so far.
01:26Yeah, pretty much.
01:27Within the first ten minutes.
01:29Really cliche, but pretty much from day one I was like...
01:32When they say that love at first sight kind of thing,
01:34it is a true thing and we didn't think that at first,
01:37didn't we, that that could really happen?
01:39And you know when people say to you,
01:40when you know you know and you think,
01:41oh, that's such a cliche thing to say.
01:42Just emotionally, physically.
01:43That was everything just aligned and we were like,
01:46we're literally the same person.
01:48So when a guy is genuinely into a girl, right,
01:51what changes, what are the things they should be,
01:53what should we look out for?
01:55Just authenticity, just to be themselves.
01:58And you know what I've seen on Instagram,
02:00what actually really resonated with me,
02:02when people say, when guys say things like,
02:04oh, well that's just who I am.
02:06You know when girls say that they want like this
02:07or they expect a bit more of this
02:09or would love a bit more attention
02:11or a bit more love and understanding
02:12and a guy's just go, that's just the way I am.
02:14No.
02:16A guy will do everything and more for the right person.
02:20So that'll be a little lesson.
02:21Prepare to adapt.
02:22You two are like the solid couple,
02:23so that's why we're all like on you for advice.
02:26But listen, on a sad note,
02:27I don't know if you saw on the way here,
02:29Molly Mae and Tommy have split.
02:30Yeah, I did see that.
02:31That's such a shame.
02:33But I feel like tensions can sometimes be high
02:36when you've had children and things take over
02:38and you don't get as much time for each other.
02:39So who knows?
02:41I feel like they could bring it back together.
02:43I'd like to see that.
02:44And how do you feel like seeing that
02:45because you've experienced breakups
02:47in the public eye and love island breakups.
02:48What is that like?
02:49It's really hard,
02:50especially when you've got a child
02:52and you're trying to navigate your way around it
02:54and everybody's asking questions,
02:56want to know what's going on.
02:57And sometimes you just need that privacy
02:58to adapt yourself and understand what's going on.
03:00And it is difficult because you do have a public life.
03:03So everybody wants to know what's happened,
03:05if you're okay.
03:06You have a little army behind you,
03:08kind of supporting you.
03:09So it is hard, but she obviously wants her privacy respected.
03:12So I think people need to give her that for now.
03:14Amazing.
03:15Well, keep being couple goals.
03:16Start sharing more advice for us
03:18because we need it, guys.
03:19It's hard out here.
03:20It's hell.
03:21We'll try, we'll try.
03:23I'll see you on there.
03:24Let's see if you can take on the stage.
03:25I know.
03:26See ya.
03:27Take care.