Facebook es mucho más que una simple plataforma para conectarse con familiares y amigos. Con su diseño y funcionalidades, esta red social ha sabido apelar a emociones humanas profundas, tales como el narcisismo, la búsqueda de reconocimiento social y la necesidad de aceptación. El uso constante de Facebook fomenta la interacción y la creación de comunidades, facilitando la conexión entre personas que comparten intereses. Además, la plataforma permite a los usuarios expresar sus pensamientos y sentimientos, lo que a su vez refuerza su autoestima y pertenencia a un grupo.
Sin embargo, esta búsqueda de validación social puede tener un costo. El impacto emocional puede variar de positivo a negativo, afectando nuestra salud mental y nuestras relaciones interpersonales. En este sentido, es crucial entender cómo Facebook no solo facilita la comunicación, sino que también puede influir en nuestra percepción de nosotros mismos y de los demás. Al reconocer estos aspectos, los usuarios pueden utilizar Facebook de manera más consciente y saludable.
Al final del día, comprender la influencia emocional de Facebook nos ayuda a navegar mejor en un mundo digital que, aunque conectado, presenta sus propios retos. ¡Descubre más sobre este fenómeno social y cómo afecta nuestras vidas diarias!
#Facebook, #EmocionesHumanas, #ReconocimientoSocial
**Keywords:** Facebook, influencia emocional, narcisismo, reconocimiento social, aceptación, salud mental, relaciones interpersonales, vida digital, comunicación social, comunidad.
Sin embargo, esta búsqueda de validación social puede tener un costo. El impacto emocional puede variar de positivo a negativo, afectando nuestra salud mental y nuestras relaciones interpersonales. En este sentido, es crucial entender cómo Facebook no solo facilita la comunicación, sino que también puede influir en nuestra percepción de nosotros mismos y de los demás. Al reconocer estos aspectos, los usuarios pueden utilizar Facebook de manera más consciente y saludable.
Al final del día, comprender la influencia emocional de Facebook nos ayuda a navegar mejor en un mundo digital que, aunque conectado, presenta sus propios retos. ¡Descubre más sobre este fenómeno social y cómo afecta nuestras vidas diarias!
#Facebook, #EmocionesHumanas, #ReconocimientoSocial
**Keywords:** Facebook, influencia emocional, narcisismo, reconocimiento social, aceptación, salud mental, relaciones interpersonales, vida digital, comunicación social, comunidad.
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00:00Facebook. It doesn't look like anything from the other world, does it?
00:04Just a tall building.
00:06But don't be fooled.
00:08Facebook is everywhere.
00:11My name is Barack Obama, and I am the person who has forced Mark to wear a jacket and tie.
00:17In just over six years, he has gone from the university campuses to the White House, and everything in between.
00:23They have accumulated a dementia database with information about us.
00:27Mark Zuckerberg's goal is to reach ubiquity. He wants us all to use his service.
00:33But I don't. I have rejected Facebook from the beginning.
00:36When my son asked me,
00:38Why don't you let me be on Facebook? And why don't you have it?
00:41I started to think about why I'm not on Facebook.
00:44It's just a website, a way to contact friends and family through the Internet, right?
00:48So why does it generate such intense reactions in people?
00:51In life, there is only what we share with the world through Facebook.
00:55It's almost like life has stopped making sense if we don't amplify it and stage it on social media.
01:02Facebook has exploded.
01:04It's more than just a social network. It's more than just a simple website.
01:07Facebook is a way of life.
01:10And although it has over a billion users,
01:14it's not my way of life.
01:17I am one of those people who hate Facebook, viscerally.
01:21But I'm starting to realize that my children are growing up in a world marked by Facebook.
01:25And the most terrifying thing is that I don't even know what that means.
01:28And my son kept asking me more questions.
01:31Why don't you let me have it? You'd better have a good reason.
01:34Right now you're too young to have Facebook.
01:36What? It's not fair. I have a friend who has Facebook.
01:39But he's about to turn 13, which is the legal age to be on Facebook.
01:43So I have no choice. I have to think about why I'm not on Facebook.
01:48But I'm not alone in my hatred of Facebook.
01:51I hate Facebook. Five reasons why I hate Facebook.
01:54Do you know what I hate the most about Facebook?
01:57Fuck you, Facebook.
01:59No one will ever convince me that Facebook is not a fucking invention.
02:04There's even a Facebook page for people who hate Facebook.
02:08But I'm part of the group that hates and rejects Facebook without even giving it a chance.
02:13And I don't care, because I love trying new things.
02:16I worked under the rain for two days to get my first iPhone.
02:19And I even went to live with my family in Los Angeles to work in an industry that has enthusiastically adopted Facebook.
02:24I'm a very social person and I have all kinds of friends.
02:28Not just Facebook friends.
02:30Should I deny this prejudice to my son?
02:33I have to find out before he turns 13.
02:36Is there something wrong with Facebook?
02:38Or am I the one who has a problem?
02:40So I've gathered a group of young Facebook fans to help me investigate and document the process.
02:45We're not just a group of people making a documentary.
02:48The documentary is about you.
02:55Let's see who gets it.
02:57We need Zuckerberg. That's the idea.
03:00I need to find out what he was thinking when he came up with this masterpiece of disaster.
03:06If anyone can teach me how to use it, that's him.
03:09The customer service is busy.
03:15Maybe it's him.
03:18Hi, this is Darius from Facebook.
03:20I can't talk to you right now, but leave me a message and I'll call you as soon as possible. Thank you.
03:27What are you doing? Leave a message.
03:29He's got a good job, really. He's Director of Entertainment Strategies and Global Creative Solutions.
03:34Director of Entertainment Strategies and Global Creative Solutions.
03:39That gives me a good idea.
03:43I'm sorry. David Vialet is unavailable. Leave a message after the tone.
03:48We're trying all the numbers with this extension.
03:518,400.
03:52Why 8,400?
03:54Because he was born in 1984. It's his year of birth.
04:05This is Mark from Facebook. I can't talk to you right now, but leave me a message and I'll call you as soon as possible.
04:12Hello, Mark from Facebook.
04:14I don't know if you're that Mark, but I'm doing a documentary on Facebook,
04:18and I'd love to interview any Mark from Facebook.
04:21So I'd love to interview you if you had some time.
04:24My number is 310...
04:26How funny.
04:27It wasn't him, was it?
04:28It sounded like his voice. It could have been him.
04:30I know people who work there, and he has an important position.
04:33And there's no other Mark. He's the only one.
04:36Dude, give me that number now.
04:39Although I couldn't talk to Mark from Facebook, I did contact the creator of Facebook and his twin brother.
04:45You know, the twins from the movie about Facebook.
04:48Were you surprised that it became so big so fast?
04:52If the idea made sense, and the people at Harvard University liked it,
04:56then the kids from the other universities had to like it as well.
05:00Mark Zuckerberg shot the idea down.
05:02He didn't think about creating a social network.
05:05Until you guys...
05:06Yes, well, it's clear that he didn't, if you look at the timeline of the events.
05:10What he did was sabotage us to get Facebook out first,
05:13which was an idea of ours, and not the website we had then, Harvard Connection.
05:18The concept of contacting people, thanks to Facebook, my life has changed for the better.
05:25Wow.
05:27And that's also...
05:28Wait a minute.
05:29Were you surprised there?
05:31Do you use Facebook?
05:32Absolutely.
05:34And you use Facebook?
05:35Yes.
05:37Do you both have Facebook?
05:38Yes.
05:39We're Facebook users, yes.
05:41We've always been defenders of what it represented.
05:44Social networks are not what has harmed us.
05:47So, in a nutshell, you like Facebook?
05:49Yes.
05:50Yes.
05:51It was a unique and very fun experience to participate in the page.
05:55I can imagine.
05:56Of course, it's still ironic, because if there's someone who can swear to Facebook...
06:02Yeah.
06:03...and refuse to make an account, that's you.
06:06But they had Facebook, and they didn't have a problem giving a good image of the social network.
06:10Although not everyone knows how to give a good image on Facebook,
06:13a bad Facebook page starts with a bad profile picture.
06:18While you're wondering what motivates people to upload these kinds of pictures to Facebook,
06:23I'm wondering...
06:24What do these people say on Facebook?
06:28Okay, so, if you're looking for Facebook status, you can type anything,
06:32and this engine searches for any word that people are using on Facebook.
06:35For example, all the people who are posting things about Maria.
06:38Wow, I got caught last night.
06:40That kind of thing.
06:41It's delusional, because they're real people posts.
06:43I've looked for Maria, and look what appears.
06:45Look at what this girl says.
06:46Last night's party was awesome, I wish we had recorded it.
06:49I danced until I burst.
06:50There was a girl in balls, I went blind.
06:52Avirra, yes, Maria.
06:53Which is the word I looked for.
06:54I'd marry him without thinking twice, and if I could, I'd rape him.
06:58She just posted this.
07:00Tell me what you think this girl is like.
07:02Someone who says what she thinks.
07:03She seems a bit of a whore.
07:05Here, for example, she's tagged in a picture and says,
07:07Fuck feelings, be a whore.
07:09Here's a picture of her.
07:10She's doing something awful to the world.
07:13I want to find out what she thinks,
07:15what her Facebook profile says about her.
07:18Find her and send her a message.
07:20Tell her we want to talk to her on Skype or something like that.
07:27Can you see me?
07:29No, I see a picture of you looking very pretty, but I can't see you.
07:32Okay, so let's start with your name.
07:35My name is Samerly.
07:37If you were someone who doesn't know you at all,
07:39and you saw your own Facebook page,
07:41how would someone describe you?
07:43They would look like...
07:46A lot of fun, bright, funny, funny baby.
07:52Maybe extroverted, creative.
07:55Samer, do you think your Facebook page is a good reflection of your personality?
07:59When you look at my Facebook page,
08:01you're looking at my day-to-day life,
08:03you're looking at how I really am, so...
08:05You may have underestimated Samer.
08:07What I didn't know was that some of her posts
08:09were nothing more than lyrics to songs.
08:22But that's the least of it.
08:23Why did she post that lyric on her page?
08:25And what you post on your Facebook page
08:27can have consequences in the real world.
08:30Yes, I hope the students at the institute
08:32take into account the kind of information
08:34they're willing to share with the rest of the world.
08:39Facebook.com
08:41Facebook.com
08:43Facebook.com
08:45Facebook.com
08:47Facebook.com
08:49Facebook.com
08:51Facebook.com
08:53Facebook.com
08:55Facebook.com
08:57It's what Facebook has.
08:58You can become whoever you want.
09:01Let's take, for example, the movie Catfish.
09:03Hi, Megan.
09:04Hi, how are you?
09:05Your voice is not what I expected.
09:07It's a documentary about a guy
09:09who was fooled by a fake Facebook profile.
09:11Sounds fun.
09:14If I created a new version of myself,
09:16who would I be?
09:17Well, someone much cooler than I am now.
09:19We're going to turn you into an incredible guy.
09:21Come on, let's go.
09:34What we can do is take this image
09:36of a Formula 1 driver
09:38who's in a similar position to yours in this picture
09:40and we put you in his place.
09:43So we...
09:44I think that's very convincing.
09:46Let's put you right in there.
09:47Here we go.
09:55Wow.
09:56We're going to put you jumping from a cliff
09:58and you're going to be around the most interesting man in the world.
10:01If I wanted to, I could be in the Playboy mansion.
10:03Of course.
10:04This is great.
10:05A little bit of Alavelta
10:06and here you are in Mount Everest.
10:08I'm in all the sarahs.
10:09Okay.
10:10So we're already in the air.
10:12We're in the air.
10:13Steve Steele.
10:14Steve Steele exists.
10:15Confirmed.
10:16Steve Steele seems very cosmopolitan and fascinating.
10:19Yes, we were talking at...
10:20At the Coliseum.
10:21At a party on the beach in Miami.
10:22Nipton says this.
10:23Dude, what happened to the party last night?
10:25What a crazy night.
10:26Those girls we met were so hot.
10:29And thank you for getting us the girl.
10:31You're the man.
10:32That's life.
10:33What do we do now with Steve Steele?
10:35We send friend requests.
10:37Okay.
10:38And we update his profile so he looks like the cool guy he is.
10:41It seems like he's doing pretty well.
10:43How many friends does Steve Steele already have?
10:45Only 31.
10:46Hey, he's only been alive for two days.
10:4831 friends, he's not that bad.
10:50In my life, friends are people I've met for real.
10:53Real people.
10:54On Facebook, you don't even need to be a real person to make friends.
10:58Confirm friendship.
10:59Confirm.
11:00Confirm.
11:01Confirm.
11:02Confirm.
11:03I just made like nine friends in a few seconds.
11:05This is the best.
11:06So, let's go, friends.
11:08Find friends.
11:09Look at this.
11:10Now my friend.
11:11Now I can know everything about her.
11:13So, I just found out that my brother is probably going to jail.
11:17Hey, look at his phone number.
11:21Hello?
11:22My name is Steve Steele.
11:23You just accepted my friend request on Facebook about five minutes ago.
11:27Okay.
11:28Is it weird to put your phone number on your Facebook page?
11:31Any stranger could call you.
11:35Well, it's super weird.
11:37I didn't know I was there.
11:39It also says which school you go to, where you live, all those things.
11:42Your email, your birthday date.
11:44How old are you?
11:4517?
11:47Uh-huh.
11:48It's kind of scary.
11:49You have a brother who's about to go to jail.
11:52Did you just post that?
11:55Okay.
11:56I'm going to hang up.
12:00Are you going to...
12:01Okay, bye.
12:02Hey, wait.
12:03Do you think it's okay if I use this conversation in my movie?
12:07Well, no.
12:10No?
12:11You don't want me to use your voice in my movie?
12:13No.
12:14This is giving me a bad feeling.
12:16Well, it's giving you a bad feeling.
12:17I told you this was going to give you a bad feeling.
12:19You should shoot this scene again, but with Gavardine and a mustache.
12:22Oh, my God.
12:23Julie Cunningham just accepted my friendship request.
12:25Confirm friendship, confirm, confirm.
12:27This is great.
12:28Hey, is this Kyla?
12:29What's up, Joseph?
12:30My name is Steve.
12:31I'm Kate.
12:32I'm Steve.
12:33I'm calling from Los Angeles, California.
12:34Now all of these are my friends.
12:35You accepted my friendship request a minute ago.
12:37How do you know I'm not a stalker?
12:39I just sent you a friendship request from a fake profile.
12:42I'm actually a stalker.
12:44Now we're Facebook friends, but we don't know each other at all.
12:47And you don't know who I am, but I know who you are.
12:51And I'm standing in front of your house.
12:58Hello?
13:08So Steve made friends with a guy named Stouty Stout last night.
13:10Turns out he lives in Los Angeles and has posted his address and phone number.
13:14So I said, I've got a new friend.
13:16Let's see if I can pay him a visit and ask him how he's doing.
13:2035.
13:21Oh my God.
13:2216.
13:2435.
13:26Here it is.
13:28It's right here.
13:30And I think that's him.
13:31I recognize him.
13:32Hello?
13:34Hello.
13:35May I?
13:38Hi.
13:39You're not Stouty Stout, are you?
13:41Yes.
13:42From Facebook?
13:43Yes.
13:44My name's Steve.
13:45Steve Steel.
13:46We're Facebook friends.
13:47Hi.
13:48I saw your phone number and your address.
13:49I stopped by to say hi because you seem like a nice guy.
13:51And since I've got a few hours off...
13:54Okay.
13:55I thought I'd pay you a visit.
13:56Yes, of course.
13:57Are you okay?
13:58Yes, I'm building some stuff.
13:59Can you show me what you're building?
14:01Okay.
14:02Well, this is one of those things.
14:03To hang small guns.
14:05Really?
14:06Yes.
14:07You show up at someone's house unannounced and it turns out you're making a furniture for guns.
14:12I'm doing a documentary about Facebook.
14:14Don't you think it's weird that we've never met, that you have no idea who I am,
14:18but I can still go on Facebook and in a few hours know everything about your life,
14:22where you've been, what you're doing, who your family and friends are,
14:25where you live, what you do, what you like?
14:28Well, yeah.
14:29Doesn't that make you think that it might not be such a good idea to post things on Facebook?
14:33I don't have any issues with those things.
14:35If you go through all the pictures I've posted, you'll see there's even urine samples.
14:39Yeah, I've seen them.
14:40I'm not having any issues with that.
14:41I see.
14:42Does that really show how well Facebook works?
14:44Do you know what to expect?
14:46It's almost like we're friends now.
14:47Yeah, it all fits.
14:48Yeah.
14:49But don't think you can come and steal my tools.
14:51I've got a few hours to kill, let's have a good time.
15:09Do you have any beer left, Stout?
15:13Thanks, Stouty Stout.
15:15Nice to meet you, man. I'll text you on Facebook.
15:18He's exactly like his Facebook profile.
15:20He's lovely.
15:21Now we're friends in real life because we met on Facebook.
15:24I don't see anything wrong with that.
15:27Stouty Stout.
15:30Steve Steele has even become friends with a celebrity, like Roseanne Barr.
15:34And she hates everyone.
15:36Facebook is nothing more than a bunch of narcissists.
15:39I'm the first.
15:40I've got an account too.
15:41But I'm not interested in other people's lives.
15:43It's boring.
15:44No one is as interesting as me.
15:46If people try to collect as many friends as possible on Facebook,
15:50it's because they're narcissists and they don't have friends in real life.
15:54So what do you think I should do, Roseanne?
15:56Should I open an account on Facebook?
15:57No.
15:58Actually, interacting with other people helps you develop your social aptitudes
16:02instead of atrophying them even more.
16:04Because it looks like yours already are.
16:06With all of you, the incomparable Kathy Griffin.
16:12I wondered if this would work without Facebook.
16:19I just saw her pass by.
16:21It's her.
16:22There she goes.
16:23There she goes.
16:24There she goes.
16:28I think it's her.
16:29I think I saw her.
16:30I think it was her.
16:31This could be my big opportunity.
16:33Are you here to pick her up by chance?
16:37No?
16:38Sucks.
16:39At least on Facebook you know exactly where the person is
16:42and you can show them your sign.
16:46Thanks to Facebook, Steve Steele has become friends with nine Kathy Griffins.
16:50Now they can all read Steve's most intimate thoughts.
16:53I wonder if that would work without Facebook.
16:56Can you see the camera?
16:57No.
16:58A table for two.
16:59It's hard because these guys are my friends.
17:02I know some of them.
17:03I guess if we were on Facebook, I'd tag them.
17:06Oh, God.
17:09Brance X.
17:10Cubami.
17:11Studio City.
17:12I hate traffic in Los Angeles.
17:14What do you get for a birthday party for an eight-year-old?
17:17Rice and spicy tuna.
17:18I could eat this all day.
17:19Nobody's going to like the spicy tuna.
17:21You don't like the spicy tuna?
17:23What a video.
17:24I'm going to have to go to the bathroom.
17:26I'm going to have to go to the bathroom.
17:28What a cute video.
17:29This is not as acceptable as it would be on Facebook.
17:32I don't think my friends want to be my friends and I'm still like this.
17:35This is much easier on Facebook.
17:38But on Facebook, you do more than make friends.
17:41It's very likely that all the girlfriends of my children and all the boyfriends of my daughter
17:44start being friends on Facebook.
17:47Is there a boy you like?
17:50No.
17:51Yes.
17:52No.
17:53What's his name?
17:54No.
17:55There's no proof.
17:56Troy.
17:57Troy.
17:58Shut up, Brayden.
18:00My wife and I started going to school.
18:02We didn't have a cell phone, we didn't have text messages, we didn't have email,
18:06but we had a phone.
18:08And we wrote letters, real letters, handwritten.
18:11I don't know if you know.
18:12I'm sure you haven't noticed, but I like you a little bit.
18:15I know you didn't see it coming.
18:17You have a great personality and you're pretty.
18:20Come on, you have it all.
18:21It's so weird.
18:22I'd do anything for you.
18:24It's just a brief synopsis of the first page.
18:27And there's one, two, three, four pages with more than the same thing.
18:33So I had to find someone to explain to me how Facebook dates work.
18:37Meet Matt.
18:38He's single and he only talks on Facebook.
18:41What's your method?
18:43I just ask for friendship on Facebook when I meet them.
18:45I ask their name, I add them and I go see them.
18:47When I get them to accept me, I know I have a chance.
18:50Matt teaches me his method.
18:52You don't do that anymore, asking people for their phone numbers?
18:54No.
18:55Phones are outdated.
18:56You have to go straight to Facebook.
18:57What you do is start a normal conversation.
18:59You go to a bar and I bet you in less than five minutes
19:02you're able to get a girl's Facebook data.
19:05Thank you very much.
19:06How are you doing tonight?
19:07Good.
19:08Yeah? Have they put you in charge of the bar or what?
19:10Yeah, for me this is a lot of people.
19:12Yeah, yeah, you seem busy.
19:14Hey, you're not on Facebook by any chance?
19:17Well, yeah.
19:18Oh, yeah?
19:19Well, why don't you give me your email and I'll add you to Facebook?
19:23What do you say?
19:24No, I'll write it for you.
19:25Okay, perfect, thanks.
19:26What's your name?
19:27Alex.
19:28Alex, I'm Matt.
19:29Nice to meet you, Alex.
19:31How are you doing?
19:32Good, and you?
19:33Not bad, not bad.
19:34What are you up to tonight?
19:35Nothing, just a girl's night.
19:37A girl's night?
19:38Monday is informal, so I've come to the right table.
19:40Yeah.
19:43Listen, Matt, we were actually leaving.
19:45But why don't you give me your email or I'll give you mine
19:48and we'll talk on Facebook and see how it goes.
19:49You're on Facebook?
19:50Yeah, and you?
19:51You're on Facebook?
19:52Yeah.
19:53I guess like most people, right?
19:54Okay, well, I'm going to put it on my phone.
19:56Yeah, sure.
19:57Will you give me your email?
19:58Nice to meet you, girls.
19:59Take care.
20:00You too.
20:03She met you yesterday and she added you as a friend.
20:05What's the first thing she's going to see about you?
20:07The first thing she's going to see is my profile picture.
20:09Clearly, this guy is doing things right.
20:12He goes out with girls like these and stuff,
20:14so it's pretty damn clear that he's no shit.
20:16Let's take a look at his pictures and see what he's like in real life.
20:20Not bad, not bad.
20:23This picture's good.
20:25Pictures can be deceiving.
20:26The girl's got a big ass, but that can get to her too.
20:32She's got great tits.
20:33She's got great tits, to be honest.
20:34Yeah, yeah, she's not bad.
20:36She says almost six and a half, I'm sure.
20:38I'll send her a message.
20:43I never said I was an intellectual or anything,
20:45but I've got a great physique.
20:50I don't like to ask them to go out with me,
20:52I'd rather let him fall.
20:54Hey, hon.
20:56Great to meet you.
20:58You look great in the picture.
21:02Do you like to fuck?
21:06When you send a message like that, what kind of response do you expect?
21:10For example, Jacky, no.
21:11That would be a good response.
21:12My God, is this what my daughter expects?
21:20I could tell my daughter that making friends on Facebook is a bad idea.
21:24But this summer, a cousin of mine got married and attended the wedding.
21:29And how did he meet his partner?
21:31How did his romance begin?
21:33On Facebook.
21:35Some strangers who meet on Facebook.
21:38We are officially a Facebook couple.
21:40Yes, in fact, when we got engaged, we sent it live on Facebook.
21:45So Claire has printed all the messages that we wrote on Facebook,
21:52cut them out and made an album.
21:55I'm turning into...
21:56A whore.
21:57A whore.
21:59It's a Facebook miracle.
22:01We're on Facebook all day.
22:03The truth is that...
22:04Throughout our relationship...
22:05I hadn't thought about it until now.
22:07Now that I think about it...
22:08It's not as sinister as it seems, is it?
22:10I hope not.
22:12And it's something that happens all the time.
22:15This couple met because they're both called Kelly Hildebrand.
22:19Literally, there are thousands of couples who get married every year thanks to Facebook.
22:24You can kiss the bride, but first you have to update your Facebook profiles.
22:29But to keep using Facebook once you're married is to tempt fate.
22:33Just look at the statistics of broken marriages because of Facebook.
22:36And I've known cases of people who really went through this.
22:39Hi, Angelica?
22:40Yes.
22:41Hi, I'm Brand.
22:42Nice to meet you.
22:43Likewise.
22:44We were married for about two and a half years.
22:46He was deployed, he was mobilized in Iraq, and he sent me a friend request.
22:50So I added him.
22:51We went out for a month or so, until I got pregnant.
22:55Then I found pictures of girls sending him letters.
22:58I'm sure Facebook had a lot to do with our divorce.
23:02Facebook took it from me, so I created a fake profile.
23:05You created a fake Facebook profile?
23:08And you sent him a friend request?
23:09Yes, I sent him a friend request.
23:11And he accepted it?
23:12Yes, he accepted it.
23:13And I started sending him very direct messages, like,
23:16How are you?
23:17And he, on his Facebook profile, he was saying things like,
23:20I'm married.
23:21And I answered him, I don't care, I just want to sleep with you.
23:24Very straightforward.
23:25And then he said to me,
23:26All right, but don't tell anyone.
23:29Wait, wait, and what was your reaction?
23:31I wrote him back and said,
23:32Hey, I'm Angelica.
23:35Fuck you.
23:36We said goodbye exactly 30 minutes ago, or an hour ago.
23:40You told me everything was going to work out between us, and so on.
23:43And as soon as I turn around, you're on Facebook,
23:45trying to sleep with an aunt you've never seen in your life.
23:49And what was his reaction when you threw these accusations at him?
23:52He asked for a divorce.
23:54He told all our friends, but telling them
23:56that I was the one who had been cheating on him.
23:59He turned the situation around to humiliate me,
24:01as if to show me the harm I could do to myself.
24:04I don't care what he does to me, you know?
24:07But when my son is older,
24:10and he sees that we're not together,
24:13I'm sure he's going to wonder why.
24:18What am I supposed to tell him after all this?
24:21I have no idea.
24:27Oh, man.
24:29He blames Facebook for the deterioration of his marriage.
24:32At first, I totally agreed with him, but now I'm like,
24:34my God, at least he was able to unmask that guy thanks to Facebook.
24:38Because if he hadn't caught him red-handed,
24:40he would have had to keep swallowing it.
24:43The blame for his marriage being a failure
24:46is not on Facebook,
24:48but on the asshole he married.
24:51Don't you think?
24:53My wife doesn't have Facebook either,
24:55so I don't know what effect it could have on our relationship.
24:59Who are you talking about?
25:01The girls you went out with as a teenager before we got married?
25:05What would happen if they wanted to be your friends on Facebook?
25:08Yeah.
25:09Well, I'd say no, I don't want them to be his friends.
25:12So I should ignore his friend request?
25:15No, you're sending them to hell on my behalf.
25:18And what would happen, for example, in a divorce case,
25:21if the lawyers wanted to check the Facebook stories of their clients?
25:26That's a great question.
25:28As soon as you open up on Facebook,
25:30as soon as you uncover your life,
25:31can you keep something private?
25:33These journalistic findings are the last challenge
25:35of the executive president of Facebook and his team,
25:37who have already received criticism in the past
25:39for changing their privacy policy.
25:42A lot of social media fans are fed up with Facebook.
25:45Facebook develops tools to collect data
25:47about the centers of interest of its users.
25:50They have hidden motives to invade our private lives
25:52and use that information to get benefits.
25:55We never sell the user's information.
25:58Advertisers who use the page
25:59have no access to the user's information.
26:02Facebook, in particular,
26:04is the most terrifying spy machine ever built.
26:09When people can control what they share,
26:11they feel comfortable and share more things.
26:13The more things people share,
26:14the more open and interconnected people are in the world,
26:16and so many of the big problems we face
26:19can be solved more easily.
26:21Mark Zuckerberg is part of a generation
26:23that is not afraid of the Big Brother.
26:25He is not afraid that the government may be spying on him.
26:28What this generation wants
26:30is for others to spy on it.
26:32Privacy has died.
26:35And if you think it's Facebook's fault,
26:37it's because you have a very wrong notion
26:39of how private your life is.
26:42This is Matt.
26:43He is twenty-something years old,
26:44he knows about computers,
26:45and last week I challenged him to find on the Internet
26:47all the personal information he could about me,
26:49even though I'm not on Facebook.
26:53Okay, so this is what I found out.
26:55The names of your family members.
26:57My wife, my son, my daughter, and my other son.
27:00Cool.
27:01And more relatives.
27:02Who's this? Your brother?
27:03Yeah, that's my brother, Sam.
27:04That's my mom, and that's my dad.
27:06Cool.
27:07Okay, so...
27:08Okay, you've found my family.
27:09All your family.
27:10And these are the phone numbers
27:11that I've found related to you.
27:13This is my cell phone.
27:14And this is my old house.
27:15I don't know if it's where you live or where you lived.
27:17On the street...
27:21Yeah, this is my address.
27:22Yeah, it's ours.
27:23My wife bought it.
27:24Yeah.
27:25These are my Amazon purchases.
27:28Uh-huh.
27:29And this is...
27:30This is the school my kids go to.
27:32I found your driver's license number.
27:34D441.
27:39That is my driver's license number.
27:41And all my tax data.
27:43I think this is your son's email.
27:44That's easy to find.
27:46Your work history and all that stuff.
27:48A series of family recordings.
27:50It's all on YouTube.
27:51This is my birthday date.
27:52My social security number.
27:54My father's curriculum.
27:55My mother's email.
27:56My work history.
27:57This is terrifying.
27:58Yeah.
27:59What else have you found?
28:00Nothing else.
28:02And all this without having posted a single word on Facebook.
28:05Does it change anything that people can find out about what you do every day?
28:08Or that they can see pictures of your holidays?
28:12There are more reasons to think twice
28:14before writing anything on Facebook.
28:16The Nashua police discovered that a gang of thieves
28:18had been using the social network
28:20to rob 18 homes in August.
28:24This is Mr. X.
28:25Mr. X is a home robber.
28:27Now he uses Facebook to pick out his victims.
28:31Yeah, to me, what people post on Facebook is like their digital garbage.
28:35I can dig into it at will, dissect it,
28:38and deduce almost everything I need to know.
28:40Here we have a perfect example.
28:42These people move to the UNOM.
28:43They're announcing that they're not going to be in their apartment.
28:46And now how would you find out more information about them?
28:48You can go into their biography.
28:50It tells you what school they went to, where and when they were born,
28:52where they live, where they work, their phone number.
28:55On their wall, there are conversations with other people
28:57about what they're doing, who they're with,
28:59where they're going, and when they're leaving.
29:01Yeah, it's pretty clear that they're in California.
29:03They have a convertible, they have fat friends.
29:06They think they're taking pictures of themselves.
29:08But what they tell you are all the other things that appear in the picture.
29:11That's where I get the information from.
29:13And how do you become friends with them?
29:15As soon as you open a fake profile,
29:17it's enough for one of them to bring it to you,
29:19so that the others can bring it to you.
29:21All their profiles are interconnected,
29:23so you can get information from the whole group.
29:26I'm sure this guy isn't at home,
29:28because he's uploading pictures from his cell phone.
29:30And they're geo-located.
29:32It's giving you the date and the place where they are.
29:35And to know if it's worth going to their house,
29:37I have to see what kind of things they have.
29:39If they have a watch, if their wife has expensive jewelry,
29:42and if they're not going to take all their holiday jewelry.
29:45I can go into Google Maps and enter their address.
29:48I can go to Google Street View to see what their house looks like.
29:53It's safer for them and for me,
29:55because it's basically a guarantee that we're not going to run into each other.
29:58This seems like a good goal.
30:00How do you know that the house doesn't have an alarm?
30:02You just need the right tools.
30:04Alarms can be neutralized.
30:06What tool can you use to ring an alarm?
30:08I can't tell you what tools.
30:11During the day, people are less suspicious.
30:13Especially if you're in a good neighborhood,
30:15and you drive a good car, and you're well dressed.
30:18Twenty-one.
30:21It doesn't seem like there's anyone home.
30:26And if you weren't here, I'd sweep this house today.
30:30But criminals aren't the only ones who use Facebook.
30:33Now the police also use Facebook to catch them.
30:36Facebook can give information about an account by court order.
30:39But most of the time it's not necessary,
30:42because it's the criminals themselves who share their crimes on Facebook.
30:45Have they become more stupid because of Facebook?
30:48Or were they before, but now they're on Facebook?
30:50And once the networks have heard about it,
30:52your stupidity stays on the Internet forever.
30:54Here we see that he's put American tape on his wrists, ankles, and mouth,
30:57but the scariest thing is his father's foot.
30:59This happens when my daughter gives me a blow back.
31:02The image shows several young men in the desert.
31:04They're armed, and they're holding a T-shirt
31:06with an image of President Obama,
31:08and it appears that he's been hit with a bullet.
31:11As a father of three children, this scares me.
31:14How do I keep his mistakes out of Facebook?
31:17How do I keep his stupidity out of Facebook?
31:22My six-year-old son is an IT expert.
31:25His world revolves around computers,
31:28and my older son already sends text messages and chats with his friends.
31:31My son is going to have to get rid of Facebook soon,
31:34and there's nothing I can do to stop him.
31:37How do parents deal with their children's Facebook?
31:40Do you remember Summer?
31:42Well, I asked his mother.
31:44Do you control Summer's Facebook page?
31:46I try to give him a little privacy, you know, because he's a teenager.
31:51Besides, I know I can't leave any comments in his posts,
31:55because he can delete them.
31:58This is a method to raise children, but there are others.
32:01That's your laptop, and this is a .45 caliber gun.
32:08Your mother insisted that I shoot her.
32:11This one's for her.
32:13This is Cheyenne.
32:15She says she's completely hooked on Facebook.
32:17She's 18.
32:19As soon as I wake up, I grab my phone from the nightstand
32:22and I start checking Facebook.
32:27You're checking it right now?
32:29Yes. I'm on it for more than 12 hours a day.
32:33What's the longest time you've spent without using Facebook?
32:36Well, an hour.
32:38And people don't mind talking to you
32:40and you're on the phone all the time?
32:42Yeah, and they say, hello?
32:45She checked Facebook 43 times while she was trying to interview him.
32:50Okay, okay, let's go back to the interview.
32:52All right.
32:53Is there anything else in your life that takes up so much time and effort?
32:57No, it's like my best friend.
33:00Well, I have a best friend in real life,
33:03but it's like...
33:05I don't know how to explain it.
33:07It's weird.
33:09But, yeah, I check it.
33:15I pay more attention to Facebook
33:17than any other person or anything else.
33:21Wow.
33:22Okay, can I see your phone for a second?
33:28So now that you're not checking Facebook,
33:30how do you maintain a conversation with someone?
33:36I don't.
33:39When I finally took her phone, she didn't say a word.
33:45Are you okay without your phone?
33:50I just want to read a message.
33:52Do you want me to give it back to you?
33:54Yeah.
33:55Okay.
33:58I wasn't as surprised by how hooked she was on Facebook
34:01as her inability to communicate outside of Facebook.
34:05What if Facebook did this to my son?
34:07She's totally hooked on this form of communication
34:10by short messages.
34:11She can't even make full sentences.
34:13It's crazy.
34:14When you left a few minutes ago, I was talking to her.
34:17Are they guys or girls?
34:18Both.
34:20Do you have fans?
34:21They know me by my Facebook nickname.
34:24It's not my real name.
34:25Wow.
34:26Oh my God.
34:27But you're Chesty London, the one on Facebook.
34:32So you're kind of famous.
34:34Yeah.
34:35But are you serious?
34:36Because if you're serious, I believe you.
34:38Right?
34:39Yeah.
34:40This was a kind of discovery.
34:42Facebook wasn't as addictive as the feeling it gave her.
34:46Facebook made her feel famous.
34:48In the world of Facebook, she's a star.
34:51This is Kitty.
34:52They call her the Pink Lady of Hollywood.
34:56Welcome.
34:58Hi.
34:59How are you?
35:00Come on in.
35:02Wow.
35:04It's not a joke.
35:05Everything is pink.
35:06Even my dog is pink.
35:08Your dog is pink?
35:09His name is Kissy.
35:10Kissy Poo.
35:11Kissy.
35:12I'm a character actor.
35:13I'm not that famous, but I'm a television personality.
35:17I've been the Pink Lady for 28 years.
35:19I've coined the brand, and that's how I sell myself.
35:22You seem to have an obsessive personality.
35:24For me, perfect.
35:25And tell me, what role has Facebook played in your career?
35:28Everything I do, I share.
35:30I'm always connected to my BlackBerry.
35:32It's like a drug.
35:33I take a lot of photos, because people love photos.
35:36Photos are the Nova Mask.
35:38I get tons of likes.
35:40Everyone likes it.
35:41And it's funny, because it wasn't popular in school.
35:43It was a thing, but now I'm super popular.
35:45I have thousands of friends.
35:47Can you show me your Facebook page?
35:49Yeah.
35:50Okay.
35:51Do you have to?
35:52Yeah, of course.
35:53Okay.
35:54I'm always exaggerating.
35:55I don't have as many friends as I told you.
35:57I see.
35:58I'm the worst.
35:59836.
36:00It's still a lot.
36:01No.
36:02No way.
36:03What do you mean no way?
36:04I don't know why I don't have more.
36:05I have to get more and as soon as possible.
36:07Make friends right now.
36:08Out of this list, how many people do you know in real life?
36:1150, at most.
36:13If you were given to choose between money and fame, what would you choose?
36:17Probably the fame, because it's more fun.
36:20Everyone wants recognition.
36:22Everyone wants to be loved.
36:23And that's what Facebook does.
36:25It makes you feel good.
36:26And that's it.
36:27Oh.
36:28And I guess it makes her feel better.
36:30I guess.
36:31I guess.
36:32And good?
36:33Oh, my God.
36:34You know what?
36:35Thank God that Facebook exists.
36:37Because it allows her to fulfill her dream to a certain extent.
36:40Facebook gives her that dream.
36:41What she wants most in the world is to have a little fame and be relevant.
36:44And Facebook gives it to her.
36:46How would she have achieved that 10 years ago?
36:48It would have been impossible.
37:00Would Jesus have opened an account on Facebook?
37:02Would Jesus have opened an account on Facebook?
37:04It's a good question.
37:06You know, it's very possible.
37:09Because Jesus used the available methods at that time to spread his message.
37:15So it's possible.
37:17It turns out that Jesus is on Facebook.
37:20And it makes sense, because if it's used well, Facebook can do miracles.
37:24When we lost contact with someone, we had to do a little detective work to find him again.
37:29With the Internet, it's much easier.
37:31A father and a daughter who had not seen each other for years celebrate their reunion tonight.
37:36I'm the happiest man in the world.
37:38They just removed a vital organ from me.
37:40Ali donated a kidney to a man she met five months ago on Facebook.
37:44An unknown man who asked for help.
37:47His name is Dan Garrett.
37:49And the page simply said,
37:51My husband needs a new kidney.
37:54Thanks to Facebook, more than a million jobs have been created.
37:57And income of more than 100 billion dollars has been generated.
38:00And the truth is that it helps people preserve their relationships and share important moments.
38:05I realized this once a cousin of mine came to visit me.
38:08He had leukemia at 21 years old.
38:10He has already had three kidney transplants.
38:12He has been about to die so many times that he has lost count.
38:15And we have not spoken more than a couple of times in the last 15 years.
38:19Would it have been different if I were on Facebook?
38:22There are thousands of Facebook users who have died, but their Facebook profiles are still active.
38:27For example, my good friend Denise Cramsey, producer of This House is a Ruin,
38:32who died tragically and suddenly.
38:34Her Facebook page is still active.
38:38That's her.
38:46Look, there are pictures of her and stuff.
38:48I don't have any of those pictures, I've never seen them.
38:54I didn't even know I had a Facebook page.
38:56And that made me think about the other relationships I've had throughout my life,
39:01and the ones I had lost.
39:03Oh my God.
39:05It's him.
39:07Oh my God, it's him.
39:10He was my best friend at high school.
39:13Literally, one of my favorite people in the world.
39:15I haven't seen him in 20 years, I don't even know anything about him.
39:17We had completely lost contact.
39:19But Steve Steele has located him in 30 seconds, literally.
39:23Now I can send him a message. How do you do that?
39:27What do you do?
39:28Bran doesn't know that every time he goes on Facebook as Steve Steele,
39:32everyone else can see him.
39:35Is he connected now?
39:37Yes, yes.
39:38Yes, he's connected right now.
39:40Shouldn't you be working?
39:48Okay, I'll admit it.
39:51What are you doing, guys?
39:54I've spent a lot of time making Steve Steele on Facebook.
39:58And the truth is, I've been having a good time.
40:00But I've started posting photos of my real life.
40:03So Steve Steele's Facebook friends are starting to become my real friends.
40:09The truth is, it's hard for me to tell what belongs to Steve Steele and what belongs to me.
40:18Look, I'm not saying Facebook isn't good. I've already admitted it.
40:22Really, the important thing isn't Facebook.
40:24I've realized that the important thing, what makes Facebook so popular, is something else.
40:29And I've discovered what it is.
40:31I'm digressing a bit, so I'm going to sum it up.
40:34What makes Facebook so exceptional is its ability to appeal to two of the most powerful human emotions.
40:40Narcissism and insecurity.
40:44To begin with, Facebook allows you to create a world that revolves around you.
40:49And it allows you to coordinate this world,
40:51relying only on people you accept as friends.
40:55It's like controlling the list of guests to an exclusive party where you're the star.
41:00Facebook allows you to feel important and safe at the same time.
41:04It's a pretty great idea.
41:07That's why Facebook works.
41:10Does it make sense?
41:11Yes.
41:12What do you mean exactly?
41:15You used to say that either the problem was Facebook, or the problem was yours.
41:20And now you're telling me that Facebook isn't bad at all.
41:24Look, you can't say that Facebook isn't bad at all.
41:27But after everything we've seen, I'd say that the root of the problem is not Facebook itself.
41:33So what is it?
41:36Dr. Driupinski has conducted a narcissism test on the Internet.
41:41He has come to the same conclusion over and over again.
41:43The famous ones are the most narcissistic and insecure people.
41:46The highest score of 34 points was given by a collaborator of Howard Stern's program, Robin Quivers.
41:52You've come to the conclusion that Robin isn't just the most narcissistic person in our program,
41:56but the most narcissistic person you've ever met.
41:59Come on!
42:00Yeah.
42:01It's the worst case of narcissism you've ever seen.
42:04I believe it.
42:05I don't know about the worst case, but it's the winner.
42:08Are you ready?
42:10I have a natural talent to influence others.
42:12I'm not good at influencing others.
42:14I'm not sure if I would make a good leader.
42:16I see myself as a good leader.
42:18Jesus!
42:20I'm like everyone else.
42:21I'm an extraordinary person.
42:22How can I say that I'm not good at influencing others?
42:24I'm not sure if I would make a good leader.
42:26I see myself as a good leader.
42:28I'm an extraordinary person.
42:29How can I say that I'm not good at influencing others?
42:31Am I the only one who answers like a normal person?
42:34Come on!
42:3535!
42:38The highest score is 40.
42:39The average score in the United States is 15.
42:42What are you laughing at?
42:45Does that mean you're too narcissistic for Facebook?
42:49Maybe.
42:50It's possible.
42:52What did he mean by that?
42:53To find out, I went to the source.
42:57Here he is.
42:58I'm Bran.
42:59Nice to meet you, Bran.
43:00Thank you for coming.
43:01A pleasure.
43:02There's one thing I want to ask you.
43:03One of the strangest phenomena in the world is Facebook.
43:06It feels like Facebook has emerged at the same time
43:09as the popularization of mobile phones with a camera.
43:12We document all aspects of our lives,
43:14and not only do we document them,
43:16but they only exist if we spread them around the world
43:18through Facebook or email or Twitter or any other medium.
43:22It's almost like life has stopped making sense
43:25if we don't amplify it and stage it on social media.
43:28Is Facebook considered addictive?
43:30There's something called conductive addiction.
43:33If you feel anxiety or you're not comfortable
43:35or you have low self-esteem or you feel that life is not worth it,
43:39you can get lost in that virtual world
43:41and somehow take refuge in a world of drowsiness.
43:43And what's the link between narcissism and Facebook?
43:46In a way, they go hand in hand
43:48in the sense that there is a frequent mechanism known as dissociation.
43:51Dissociation is something that affects people
43:53who have suffered a narcissistic wound
43:55and are subject to narcissistic processes.
43:58The need to project yourself into the world
44:00is a fundamentally narcissistic impulse.
44:02It's like our true self doesn't exist
44:04unless you share these things.
44:06Do you have Facebook?
44:07Yes, but I don't usually get involved.
44:09I don't have time to tell people what I'm doing.
44:11It doesn't go with me.
44:12Exactly, it sounds good when you say it.
44:14Another thing I wanted to ask you about
44:17and that was a little disconcerting to me
44:20is that I did your narcissism test.
44:23Yes.
44:24And I was a little surprised
44:25because I thought the answers were very obvious.
44:27You didn't use any kind of cheating?
44:29No, I was 100% honest.
44:31Jake was with me.
44:32You answered honestly.
44:33I answered honestly and this is my score.
44:3535.
44:36Yes, 35.
44:3735.
44:38More or less what Robin Quivers got.
44:40It's a lot, isn't it?
44:41Yes, it's a very high score.
44:43It means that in any case
44:44you have very developed narcissistic defense strategies
44:48and that you may have suffered
44:49some narcissistic injury in your childhood.
44:51What is a narcissistic injury?
44:53Abandonment, lack of affection, mistreatment,
44:56that kind of thing that somehow makes you
44:58distrust other people,
45:00have problems in your relationships
45:02and in your personal life.
45:03In your case, I don't know if it's like that or not
45:05because we don't know each other,
45:06but maybe Facebook scares you
45:07because it's a place where those certainties
45:09you have about yourself could be left out.
45:13Maybe you find other people who don't reinforce all this.
45:21But it doesn't mean that you think you're great.
45:24It actually means that you feel a little empty inside
45:27and maybe you don't regulate your emotions
45:30and you need a series of things to protect you,
45:33to cheer you up,
45:34to not face those underlying feelings
45:36that are not so pleasant.
45:38And maybe those underlying feelings
45:39will be exposed through Facebook.
45:46Mom!
45:52How are you?
45:53Good.
45:55You seem a little quiet.
46:06Why do you say that?
46:07It's scratched.
46:10It's really scratched.
46:14What did I mean by that?
46:17I didn't know what to think
46:19until I understood it all of a sudden.
46:22What scared me wasn't Facebook.
46:24What scared me was how I would be on Facebook,
46:27how I could get Facebook out of me.
46:29And that's why I've been avoiding it.
46:31But it turns out that I actually love Facebook,
46:34or at least my own version of Facebook.
46:37My life is a safe, protected and totally controlled social network.
46:41The problem wasn't Facebook,
46:43but my own problems,
46:45my need to control everything.
46:48I'm a narcissist and an insecure person.
46:51And I'm not on Facebook,
46:53because Facebook is me.
47:02My fatherly instinct is to protect my son
47:04from anything that can hurt him.
47:07But sooner or later,
47:08I'll have to realize that he's growing up.
47:17It's just that I don't think it's possible
47:19to prevent him from opening an account.
47:21It's as if we, as kids,
47:22had been told,
47:23you can't have a bike.
47:24I don't want us to become the kind of parents
47:26who forbid their children to have Facebook.
47:28I agree.
47:29That's never going to work.
47:30Yeah.
47:32Kaylis?
47:33Yes?
47:34What are you doing, pal?
47:36Can we come in?
47:39Yeah.
47:40I want to talk to you about Facebook.
47:42Okay.
47:44I was thinking that when you turn 13,
47:46you might be able to...
47:48Dude!
47:52Put the phone down!
47:56My name is Kaylis Pimbidik
47:58and I don't have a job.
48:02What would you do if you had Facebook?
48:06Let's see.
48:08If I had Facebook...
48:11I don't understand that thing
48:13about telling your life like,
48:14click,
48:15tuna salad is the best thing in the world.
48:17I don't understand that.
48:18I'd probably post things
48:19that people would actually want to see.
48:21Funny things and stuff.
48:23Like,
48:24for example,
48:25there's a place to park
48:26in the mall parking lot.
48:28There's a free spot.
48:30And when you park,
48:31it turns out it's a dwarf car.
48:33Like,
48:34damn it!
48:35The place looked bigger.
48:36I thought I could park.
48:38Okay, that's funny.
48:40Yeah, but I didn't count.
48:42It's funny in the picture.
48:47You should work in Hollywood.
48:49Why do you think I don't have Facebook, Kaylis?
48:52Oh, here's the funny part.
48:54I think you don't have Facebook
48:55because everyone has it.
48:56And you don't want to be the kind of person
48:58that thinks,
48:59well,
49:00like everyone is on Facebook,
49:02well,
49:03I guess I also have to fit in.
49:05But you don't want to fit in.
49:07You want to be a different person.
49:10The problem is not the problem,
49:11it's your attitude with respect to the problem.
49:14Captain Jack Sparrow,
49:15I just remembered another quote.
49:17Come on, say it.
49:18Okay.
49:20The optimist sees the donut
49:22and the...
49:24I forgot what the other one's called.
49:25The other one sees the hole.
49:28Because the donut has a hole.
49:30The optimist sees the donut
49:31and the pessimist sees the hole.
49:34Yes, that.
49:35I get it.
49:36So for you,
49:37you see the good things,
49:38like the optimists,
49:39you see the good things about Facebook,
49:41but the pessimists see the bad things,
49:43how it destroys people's lives.
49:45But actually,
49:46it's not their fault,
49:47I mean,
49:48it's not Facebook's fault,
49:49it's their fault.
49:50So what am I,
49:51an optimist or a pessimist?
49:54You're neutral.
49:55You see the donut,
49:56but you also see the hole
49:58and you ask yourself
49:59why they put a hole in the donut.
50:03You're right.
50:04And although I still have a couple of months
50:06before we decide
50:07what to do with Kayles and Facebook,
50:08it's time to decide
50:09what I'm going to do with Facebook.
50:12Here it is.
50:13Today is the big day.
50:15Are you excited?
50:16I'm ready.
50:17I still have no idea
50:18what you're going to do.
50:19Neither do I.
50:21But today is the day.
50:24The big moment.
50:25This is ready.
50:26The question is,
50:27do I close the Facebook issue forever
50:32or do I take it all in at once
50:34and just embrace it?
50:39Ready?
50:40Ready.
50:41And you?
50:42I'm ready.
50:46Here it is.
50:57You're ready.
50:58I'm ready.
50:59I'm ready.
51:00I'm ready.
51:01I'm ready.
51:02I'm ready.
51:03I'm ready.
51:04I'm ready.
51:05I'm ready.
51:06I'm ready.
51:07I'm ready.
51:08I'm ready.
51:09I'm ready.
51:10I'm ready.
51:11I'm ready.
51:12I'm ready.
51:13I'm ready.
51:14I'm ready.
51:15I'm ready.
51:16I'm ready.
51:17I'm ready.
51:18I'm ready.
51:19I'm ready.
51:20I'm ready.
51:21I'm ready.
51:22I'm ready.
51:23I'm ready.
51:24I'm ready.