It's Showtime: Single mom, ikaapat na beses nang tataya sa pag-ibig! (August 30, 2024) (Part 3/4)
Aired (August 30, 2024): Kahit nakaranas siya ng tatlong failed relationship ay hindi ito naging hadlang para kay Sharmaine upang sumubok ulit magmahal. Ngayon ay isa siyang searcher sa ‘EXpecially For You’ at handa na siyang muling kumilala ng panibagong taong magbubukas muli ng kanyang puso.
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00:00It's really hard for a woman to look for someone
00:03because you're not the one courting, right?
00:06It's like in our culture, Filipinos,
00:09the woman is the one courting.
00:11So it's embarrassing if you're too aggressive.
00:14That's why sometimes, it's all about timing, right?
00:17Timing is everything.
00:18When will the person come for you?
00:22But men can also react.
00:23It's also hard for them.
00:25Because you're saying it's hard for a woman
00:27because you're expecting her to court you.
00:29But for a man, even if you look like you're courting,
00:31if you don't like it, you don't like it.
00:33Right?
00:34It's even harder because you're the one starting,
00:37and you're the one who's always feeling rejected.
00:39Like, ah, you don't like it.
00:41That's how it is.
00:42What can we learn from you?
00:46From what you've been through?
00:48Well, maybe the first thing I learned
00:52from all the experiences I've had
00:55is to really love yourself first.
00:58Because I'm the type of person
01:00who really gives 100% when it comes to love.
01:04There's really nothing left for me.
01:06It's really self-worth.
01:10The most important thing is
01:12to love ourselves first
01:14before we love other people.
01:16Are you the type of single mom
01:18who, when you meet someone,
01:20and you think they like you,
01:22do you feel that you should be straight
01:24and say, love me,
01:27because I have two kids?
01:29Yes, I always say that.
01:31I always say that I have kids.
01:33I never deny my kids.
01:35I always say that I have two kids.
01:37Because that's when you'll know
01:39if they're really serious
01:41or if they just like me.
01:43So, yes.
01:45I'm always direct to the point
01:47that I tell them that I have kids.
01:49So your ex accepts that you have two kids.
01:53Is that right? No?
01:56The last one.
01:58He accepts, but he has some hindrances
02:03that he really doesn't like.
02:05What hindrances does he accept, but he doesn't like?
02:08Because my son's parents are still there.
02:11So we should just ignore them?
02:13Exactly.
02:15Exactly.
02:17Don't just ignore them.
02:19Because he said it's a hindrance.
02:21He just wants the two guys to be there.
02:23So the two guys should be ignored?
02:25What's going on?
02:29The concept is scary.
02:31No, it's not.
02:33Because he's...
02:35Is he jealous?
02:37But your ex is a foreigner, right?
02:39Yes.
02:41Mexican.
02:43Yes, Mexican.
02:45Mexican, then you met,
02:47you became a couple,
02:49he knows that you have two kids.
02:51Yes, because he saw it on social media.
02:53I posted it to my kids.
02:55We met on a dating app.
02:57That's where we started.
02:59So...
03:01Then, when he found out,
03:03what became the problem?
03:05Because you also had an issue,
03:07that's why you separated.
03:09Your kids had something to do with it, right?
03:11Yes.
03:13He can't talk to my kids' parents.
03:15Like...
03:17What did he say to him?
03:19What did he say to him?
03:21If it's just like that,
03:23he should've just found another girl.
03:25He doesn't have kids,
03:27he's really single.
03:29If it's just like that,
03:31he should've...
03:33Why do you have a connection with your kids' parents?
03:35Because of my kids.
03:37Of course, I didn't force them.
03:39They also need...
03:41Connection with their biological dad.
03:43But do their parents provide for your kids?
03:45Of course.
03:47That's why you have a connection.
03:49Maybe he's jealous.
03:51That's all.
03:53We're civil to our kids.
03:55But he can't understand that
03:57because he really can't do it.
03:59He doesn't want to be too attached to his kids.
04:01But if you stop
04:03the support of your kids
04:05to their parents,
04:07can he provide for them?
04:09Actually, he also tells me
04:11that it's a big responsibility
04:13if...
04:15Will he admit it?
04:17Yes, he will admit it.
04:19Because he can say,
04:21No, no more talk.
04:23Don't talk to them. I will provide.
04:25He never...
04:27He can't impose it.
04:29He can't live without his kids.
04:31How long did your relationship last?
04:353 years and 2 months.
04:37That's a long time.
04:393 years and 2 months.
04:41It's hard for you because
04:43he doesn't want to see your kids.
04:45Yes.
04:47You also need to spend time with your kids.
04:49Yes.
04:51Does he have a plan?
04:53Yes.
04:55Because he doesn't play anymore.
04:57He wants to be with his family.
04:59And the painful thing is,
05:01he forgot that he has a partner.
05:05You know what? I'm going to ask the writer.
05:07Did he have a partner?
05:09Did his partner back out?
05:13That's a good story.
05:15That's a good story.
05:17That's why you're the highest honor.
05:21That's why there's a person backstage.
05:23I'm the one who said that.
05:25There's someone doing that.
05:27That's why I heard it.
05:29I thought it's just my imagination.
05:31I heard,
05:33Meme, can you do it today?
05:35He's behind you.
05:37Meme, do I still need to do it today?
05:39He said, is that okay?
05:41He's wearing shoes.
05:43Let's call him.
05:45He has a partner.
05:47It's Danica.
05:49Danica, come here.
05:51She's wearing winter shoes.
05:53Danica is wearing rubber shoes.
05:55She's wearing pants.
05:57I'm ordering
05:59Ternong Damit.
06:01Yes.
06:03That's why she typed,
06:05Places, places.
06:07That's how it is.
06:09That's how it is.
06:11That's like a heart.
06:13Places, places.
06:15That's too much.
06:17I'm just kidding.
06:19Hi, Danica.
06:21Danica's hair is planted again.
06:23Sorry, Danica.
06:25It's a bit long.
06:29Sorry, Danica.
06:31She chose her
06:33most beautiful, Lenny Robredo out.
06:35Have you been backstage before?
06:37Not really.
06:41I don't know if I'm going to stand
06:43or sit.
06:45That's why I'm asking.
06:49What was the explanation
06:51of the staffs at the back?
06:53What did they say to you?
06:55Give me a massage.
06:57Give me a massage.
06:59I'm sorry.
07:01It's too much.
07:03The topic is broad.
07:05The topic is broad.
07:07We can't let it go.
07:09Where were you?
07:11She was hiding.
07:13She was backstage.
07:15She was there for a long time.
07:17She forgot about it.
07:19What were the times
07:21when Charmaine was depressed
07:23because of her ex?
07:25The Mexican.
07:27Foreigner.
07:29Three years.
07:31She was okay with the kids.
07:33What was your part in that story?
07:35If you weren't there, why did we call you?
07:39Actually, I'm here in the Philippines.
07:41We're separated.
07:43Us too.
07:45Were you in America?
07:47Yes, I was in California.
07:51She's in the Philippines
07:53so she's in America.
07:55Were you a part of that story or not?
07:57Were you aware at least?
07:59Yes.
08:01If she wouldn't open up,
08:03my mom would tell me
08:05because she's with my mom at home.
08:07Of course, she sees my sister
08:09when she's sulking.
08:11She's like,
08:13you have a lot of sisters.
08:15She always says that.
08:17Again and again,
08:19I always advise her
08:21but I tell her
08:23that it's up to her.
08:25She's the only one who can decide
08:27what's right for her.
08:29She doesn't have anyone to talk to
08:31but she has a lot of people around her.
08:35It's a good thing that we called you.
08:37You've been waiting for so long
08:39and your advice was
08:41that it's up to you.
08:43I hope you have
08:45a point of view.
08:47It's different.
08:49But it's up to you
08:51to decide.
08:53When you go to Charmaine's house,
08:55do you wait for a long time?
08:59She's in the bathroom for a long time.
09:01Did you meet her ex?
09:03In a video call.
09:05Are you in LDR, Charmaine?
09:07No, I'm in America.
09:09I'm in the U.S.
09:11Oh my God.
09:13She's in the U.S.
09:15That's where she met the Mexican.
09:17She's looking at her nipples.
09:19Her nipples are beautiful.
09:21There's a jet lag in the speedboat.
09:23It's just a speedboat.
09:25Jet lag.
09:27You don't even know
09:29where you're going.
09:31It's already late.
09:33Your brother doesn't even know
09:35where he's going.
09:37Anyway,
09:39if you were to ask
09:41Danica,
09:43because you know her,
09:45what's wrong?
09:51For me, it's nothing.
09:55Will you be able to return to the stage, Danica?
09:57No, in your opinion,
09:59is there anything wrong with her exes?
10:01Is there anything wrong with her exes?
10:03Or is there anything wrong with Charmaine?
10:05Because there are three.
10:07There are three.
10:09Two of them still have children.
10:11And the other one,
10:13why do you think?
10:15If you were to ask.
10:17Because my sister,
10:19like she said,
10:21because my sister is the one who sings.
10:23She loves him so much
10:25that she almost
10:27pours her whole self
10:29just for him.
10:31That's it.
10:33She almost pours her whole self.
10:35But the truth is,
10:37does she hide it?
10:39Does she do that to herself?
10:41But the thing is,
10:43when you really love someone,
10:45you can't control it.
10:47You're doing everything you can.
10:49When I hear that
10:51I don't know how you do it.
10:53How do you control
10:55that you'll only give to the person
10:57you really love.
10:59Because if you love someone,
11:01you won't save your partner.
11:03Your last try.
11:05Let's share.
11:07I don't get it.
11:09How can you not give everything?
11:11Because you're lucky
11:13that the person you meet,
11:15you pour your whole self,
11:17you reciprocate.
11:19Even if you don't reciprocate,
11:21when you love someone,
11:23do you save?
11:25You shouldn't.
11:27But she also has a lot to think about.
11:29Her two children.
11:31It's not just her.
11:33Is it possible
11:35to control
11:37what you give?
11:39No.
11:41What you can control is
11:43whether you stop or continue.
11:45But what you save
11:47is only this.
11:49What you don't pour.
11:51You'll think about it when you're tired.
11:53No, don't.
11:55Is this right?
11:57It's too much.
11:59What I feel is
12:01the bad thing is when you pour
12:03what's the effect
12:05of what you're pouring?
12:07Because it might drown.
12:09It might drown.
12:11And you're running out.
12:13And when you're running out,
12:15she doesn't want
12:17the person to run out.
12:19Because when she meets you,
12:21you're a different person.
12:23You're full of life,
12:25you're pleasant to talk to,
12:27you're pleasant to be with.
12:29And when you're tired,
12:31you pour yourself.
12:33You're a different person.
12:35And sometimes you think
12:37you're just pouring love.
12:39But when you pour too much
12:41love to her,
12:43she loses her humanity.
12:45You know that?
12:47When you love too much,
12:49the other person looks stupid.
12:51Because when you pour
12:53too much to her,
12:55she loses her humanity.
12:57That can have an effect
12:59on other people.
13:01She should be balanced.
13:03What about you?
13:05What about the three of you?
13:07Is it the same?
13:09Are you fighting?
13:11Again and again?
13:13Maybe.
13:15Because the last time,
13:17our situation was different.
13:19Because
13:21at first,
13:23we became
13:25LDR.
13:27That's right.
13:29I told you.
13:31You made me ride a speedboat.
13:33She's here.
13:35I'm here.
13:37LDR was the first one.
13:39The first one?
13:41Not the last one.
13:43LDR is wrong.
13:45She was with us in the US.
13:47The first one.
13:49What's the problem with LDR?
13:51She didn't
13:53work out because
13:55we're far apart.
13:57It's hard.
13:59Why did you move to the US?
14:01My mom petitioned me.
14:03My mom is in the US.
14:05My father is here
14:07in the Philippines.
14:09Because they're far apart.
14:11At that time,
14:13I was 21.
14:15Where was your baby?
14:17Was he with you?
14:19He's with me now.
14:21In the US?
14:23No, I petitioned him.
14:25Okay.
14:27So,
14:29based on their story
14:31and what her brother said,
14:33the problem is
14:35you're full of love.
14:37Yes.
14:39What's our realization?
14:41I feel like
14:43there's nothing bad.
14:45Your intention is to love.
14:47Yes.
14:49But you should think
14:51if you love someone too much,
14:53will you drown him?
14:55Or will he be able to?
14:57Maybe
14:59you're suffocating
15:01with your love.
15:03If you love someone too much,
15:05will you drown him?
15:07If you love someone too much,
15:09will you drown him?
15:11Especially if you love someone
15:13and you want to make him happy.
15:15But if you love someone too much,
15:17you want to make him happy,
15:19you're taking away his humanity.
15:21Yes.
15:23Especially if you have two children,
15:25you're going to drown them.
15:27Yes.
15:29Always.
15:31He's going to come to you.
15:33He's going to love you.
15:35He's going to love you and your child.
15:37That's right.
15:39Even if you love someone too much,
15:41if you're giving away
15:43your love,
15:45you should think when to stop.
15:47And choose yourself.
15:49Yes.
15:51Are you ready for a 4-month single?
15:53I feel like
15:55I deserve to be happy.
15:57I'm open
15:59to meet
16:01a new friend.
16:03Okay.
16:05Do you have a husband or boyfriend?
16:07No, I have a girlfriend.
16:09A girlfriend.
16:11Okay.
16:13Are you ready?
16:15Yes.
16:17We're excited to meet him.
16:19Charmaine,
16:21it's time to meet our Searchies.
16:23Let's meet Searchie No. 1.
16:25Reveal.
16:29What's up, my love people?
16:31I'm Jay, 35 years old.
16:33I'm the single uncle of Capo Manila.
16:35Single uncle?
16:37So you have a lot of nephews.
16:39You're their favorite uncle.
16:41Yes, especially during Christmas.
16:43You're fond of kids.
16:45How long have you been single, Jay?
16:475 years.
16:49How old are you and your last ex?
16:51We were
16:53M.U.
16:55So you have a girlfriend?
16:573.
16:59They were M.U. last time.
17:01Yes.
17:05Do you have a pick-up line, Jay?
17:07Yes.
17:09Charmaine, are you a solid show-timer?
17:11Why?
17:13Because I want you to be with me
17:15forever.
17:19That's different.
17:21That's good.
17:23Partnership.
17:25That's good.
17:27We're 50-50.
17:29Thank you, Jay.
17:33Let's meet Searchie No. 2.
17:35Reveal.
17:41What's up, my love people?
17:43I'm Victor, 31 years old.
17:45I'm a fitness trainer from Las Vegas City.
17:47I'm single.
17:49Victor.
17:51Are you a gym instructor?
17:53Yes.
17:55Wow.
17:57What's your nationality?
17:59I'm from Nigeria, West Africa.
18:01Nigeria.
18:03Do you speak Tagalog?
18:05A little.
18:07How long have you been here in the Philippines?
18:09What?
18:13How long have you been here in the Philippines?
18:157 years.
18:177 years.
18:19So,
18:21did you have a Filipino girlfriend already?
18:23I had before but not anymore.
18:25Not anymore.
18:27You're single now.
18:29Yes, I'm single.
18:31I want to have abs.
18:33What exercise do I have to do?
18:35I have to
18:37wash what I eat
18:39because it's very important to wash...
18:41Wash your eat?
18:43To take care of your
18:45your meal plan and also
18:47your diet plan.
18:49And also like some
18:51workout programs like that for abs workout.
18:53Oh.
18:55That's how skinny people I know are.
18:57They're so skinny.
18:59What did the gym instructor say?
19:01Watch what you eat.
19:03They don't eat, they watch.
19:07You're really skinny.
19:09Yes, I'm skinny.
19:11But I can't lift
19:13They're weak.
19:15Weak.
19:17Victor, do you have a pick up line for Charmaine?
19:19Yes. Charmaine,
19:21do you have a map?
19:23Why?
19:25Because I keep getting lost in your eyes.
19:29Good job.
19:31Lost in your eyes.
19:33Thank you, Victor.
19:35Searching number 3, reveal.
19:37What's
19:39up, skinny people?
19:41I'm Gil,
19:4333 years old, the training manager
19:45of Quezon City.
19:47Hello, Gil.
19:49Hi, Bella.
19:51Is your name Nicky?
19:53Nicky Hill.
19:55His name is Chocolate.
19:57Chocolate Hill.
19:59Is it Hill or Gil?
20:01Actually, Gil.
20:03Thank you, Bella, for clarifying.
20:05For Gilbert.
20:07For Gilagit.
20:09Oh, my God.
20:11I've been asking for Gil.
20:13Gil, Gil.
20:15My dad's name is Gilbert.
20:17My dad wanted me to be a junior,
20:19but my mom didn't want it.
20:21So I just got Gil.
20:25I'll give it to you, but not the whole thing.
20:29But it's hard because you always
20:31correct what people call you.
20:33Gil, Gil.
20:35Actually, that's what happened
20:37my whole school life.
20:39So after college, I just used Ken.
20:43Because I have a second name, Kenet.
20:45So I just use Ken.
20:47You don't want to be Ken?
20:49You can be Ken, too.
20:51Why don't you just be Net?
20:53So when you have a girlfriend,
20:55who are you? You're Net-Net.
20:59I'm your Net-Net.
21:01What do you do in life, Gil?
21:03I work.
21:05You should.
21:07What do you do?
21:09I'm a training manager at a company.
21:11Christian told me not to say it.
21:15Thank you, Christian.
21:17He's angry.
21:19Why? Is it a TV pipe?
21:25Why? TV pipe or GMA?
21:27It's a technology startup
21:29based in New York.
21:31So we help restaurants
21:33scale their operations.
21:43Pick up line to Charmaine.
21:45Charmaine?
21:47Charmaine?
21:49Charmaine?
21:51Do you have a partner?
21:53Why?
21:55I'll be with you.
21:57I've been saying this for so long.
21:59Do you want to be my partner?
22:03This is too much for Danica.
22:05I'm sorry, Danica.
22:07We're here for you.
22:11What did you say, Danica?
22:13Gil will let you go home?
22:15You go first.
22:17She'll help him.
22:19You'll fall for her.
22:21Okay.
22:23So,
22:25Charmaine will talk
22:27to our boys.
22:31What's your first song?
22:33This is your first song gig.
22:35First question.
22:37In your opinion,
22:39is it difficult for solo parents
22:41to find a new love?
22:47Is it a disadvantage
22:49for a solo parent
22:51to find a new love?
22:53Does it mean
22:55you have less chance?
22:57Jay?
22:59Being a solo parent
23:01has never been difficult.
23:03I've heard her story.
23:05She's been through a lot.
23:07She has two children.
23:09Children are a gift
23:11from God.
23:13It has never been difficult.
23:15Thank you, Jay.
23:17She's smiling.
23:19She's happy.
23:21It's like her mom
23:23sponsored her.
23:25Victor?
23:27Yes, Paul?
23:29The question is...
23:31Is it a disadvantage
23:33for a single parent
23:35to date?
23:37First of all, I believe that
23:39there is advantage and disadvantage
23:41in everything in this world.
23:43But I'm not going to talk about
23:45disadvantage because it's irrelevant.
23:47For example,
23:49there are a lot of guys
23:51who are willing to do anything
23:53to be with
23:55a solo parent.
23:57As long as the kid
23:59is willing to take him
24:01as a father figure.
24:03I know that I'm a father figure.
24:05I don't mind.
24:07Because kids are a gift
24:09from God, like what my friend said.
24:11Thank you, Victor.
24:13Thank you very much.
24:15Very well said.
24:17So, what are your products?
24:19He didn't answer.
24:21It's worth it.
24:23It's better for them to talk.
24:25You'll be convinced.
24:27Then they'll have products.
24:29No cash out.
24:31Gil?
24:33Okay, first of all, I agree with
24:35what Victor said.
24:37But aside from that,
24:39for me, it's not a disadvantage.
24:41I don't know much about
24:43having a kid.
24:45Though it's a big factor.
24:47But for me, I want to look at the bright side.
24:49It's not a disadvantage.
24:51Actually, she has more to offer
24:53because she already has a kid.
24:55It's hard to raise a new baby,
24:57but she raised him.
24:59She worked hard for that.
25:01I mean, the man
25:03who will love them,
25:05he'll enter
25:07and will continue on
25:09I don't know who raised him well.
25:11And for me,
25:13it's more of Llamada
25:15than Dejado.
25:17I think he was asked
25:19because that's the reason
25:21why the last one didn't work.
25:23It would've been okay,
25:25but he didn't accept it wholeheartedly.
25:27It's like, okay,
25:29he has a kid,
25:31but there's a part of his story
25:33that he didn't accept wholeheartedly.
25:35I think that's the reason.
25:37It's like,
25:39it's not common
25:41to encounter that.
25:43It's like, okay,
25:45but he already has a kid.
25:49For example,
25:51he already has a kid.
25:55That's why they feel
25:57it's a disadvantage for them
25:59because there's an extra...
26:01Their title,
26:03not everyone will appreciate
26:05that title of being a parent.
26:07Some people won't appreciate
26:09that title.
26:11But for the three of them,
26:13no, it's not a disadvantage.
26:15Danica,
26:17if you were to push
26:19one, two, or three,
26:25Three.
26:27Who? Number three.
26:29Number two.
26:31Number three.
26:33Number three.
26:37Number three.
26:49Number three.
26:51Kill them!
26:53Why?
26:55Because he wanted to say
26:57that it's not a disadvantage
26:59to have...
27:01Actually, all of them said that.
27:03Yes, because that's part of the title.
27:05The first one who said that was one.
27:07Then number two pushed,
27:09then three confirmed.
27:11He said that it's not a disadvantage.
27:13So it's like...
27:15But I also said that, why didn't I choose?
27:17You didn't agree.
27:19He doesn't like Granny Goose.
27:21He doesn't like Granny Goose.
27:23Congrats, Gil.
27:25You now have a green flag.
27:27Next question, please.
27:29Can you call a relationship
27:31serious if the marriage
27:33is not planned?
27:37Can you call a relationship serious
27:39if the marriage is not planned?
27:41Gil, number three.
27:43Would you consider
27:45a relationship serious if you're not
27:47talking about marriage?
27:49I thought...
27:51Oh, sorry, Gil. It's Victor.
27:53Oh!
27:55She's with the speedboat.
27:57I thought
27:59it was Victor.
28:01You can call her.
28:03I don't know
28:05if I'm with her.
28:07We're with the boat.
28:09She's also jetlagged.
28:11Maybe she used a banana boat.
28:13We really flew.
28:15She's also looking at me.
28:21It's not for me.
28:23It's for Charmaine.
28:25Actually, it's okay.
28:27She's also looking at me.
28:29She said, why do Filipinos look like that?
28:33Filipinos look like that.
28:35Yes, Gil?
28:37Actually, it's okay. I can answer in English
28:39if you prefer that.
28:41Back to you.
28:43I told you to work.
28:47Just kidding.
28:49You can answer
28:51in which way you like. English, Tagalog,
28:53whatever.
28:55First of all, for me,
28:57it's not related
28:59if the relationship is serious.
29:03First of all, it's not related to each other.
29:05I think they're independent.
29:07I'm not saying
29:09it's against me or for wedding.
29:11For me,
29:13it's not related to each other.
29:15You can be serious when you get married.
29:17You can get married but you're not serious.
29:19But my own personal take on that
29:21is for me,
29:23I prefer to get married.
29:25Because
29:27it's not
29:29what will make your relationship last.
29:31But the public testament,
29:33the celebration with all the people you love,
29:35plus the legal implications
29:37that you have the right
29:39to get married.
29:41But my question is,
29:43can you be serious even if you're not getting married?
29:45Yes, you can.
29:47For example,
29:49if a woman
29:51doesn't want to get married,
29:53can she say,
29:55I'm serious but I won't get married.
29:57For Gil, it's possible.
29:59For Jay,
30:01I believe that everyone...
30:03English too.
30:05English people.
30:07I believe that
30:09all relationships should be directed towards marriage.
30:11But I believe that
30:13what's important is that
30:15God is in the center of the relationship
30:17and there's a love
30:19and respect in that relationship.
30:21And yes,
30:23I'm okay even if I don't get married.
30:25Thank you, Jay.
30:27Is it possible for you
30:29to have a serious relationship
30:31even if you're not getting married?
30:33Yes, it's possible.
30:35Okay.
30:37Please take charge.
30:39What was the question again?
30:41Would you call
30:43a relationship serious
30:45if you're not married yet?
30:47Or if there's no consideration
30:49of marriage?
30:51For me, yes, because
30:53relationship is a process, right?
30:55We have to take the process.
30:57We have to get to know each other.
30:59We have to get to know our families.
31:01We have to know what we like and what we don't like.
31:03And for us to do that,
31:05we have to be serious.
31:07Before we can get to the stage of talking about marriage,
31:09we have to be serious to know more about each other.
31:13He should have been serious
31:15before he got to that point.
31:17Thank you so much, Victor.
31:19What's going on?
31:21What's going on?
31:23His nose is bleeding.
31:25Victor laughed.
31:27You're fine. It's okay.
31:29It's normal. Thank you.
31:31I have to...
31:33I have hung over with Victor.
31:35It's a good thing we have a very
31:37intelligent friend here.
31:39She translates everything to us
31:41because our English is
31:43like our cell phone.
31:45Sometimes, it's low bat.
31:47Sometimes, no signal.
31:49We got your point. Thank you very much, Victor.
31:53Charmaine!
31:55You're going to give a green flag.
32:01This time, I'll give a green flag to number 1.
32:03It's to Jay!
32:05He said,
32:07with respect.
32:09We love each other.
32:11Even if there's no marriage,
32:13it's okay.
32:15Marriage is not for everyone.
32:17Right?
32:19There are people who are not
32:21married to me.
32:23But he's very serious.