• 2 months ago
Melai & Jason Francisco's Real Talk On Marriage And Parenting Together l Usap Tayo l Smart Parenting

Join Melai and Jason Francisco as they get real about marriage and parenting in their exclusive interview with Smart Parenting! From date nights to what they love most about each other, they dish out laughs and honest advice on what really matters for parents. #PreviewBall2024 #melasonfamily #MelaiCantiveros #JasonFrancisco #spatpreviewball2024
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00:00Actually, it's a ballroom night because she's a D.A.
00:02I'm just kidding.
00:03It's our date night.
00:05We had a time together.
00:06Our kids are upstairs.
00:30We squeeze in with our schedule.
00:37We can't adjust to our work.
00:39We're the ones who adjust to everything.
00:41My free time, my dad's free time.
00:44Sometimes, we have a date night inside the house.
00:47Our favorite date night is talking to each other.
00:50So, my dad is a D.I.
00:53We've been together for a long time.
00:55It hasn't happened yet.
00:56So, our date night is with our two kids.
00:59So, it hasn't happened yet.
01:01So, it's just like that in the preview.
01:03Our date night is just like that.
01:09Our bonding with the kids is...
01:13Their favorite thing is to tickle each other in bed.
01:16That's also my favorite thing with my husband.
01:18Tickling in bed.
01:20You know, the four of us play together.
01:22When the four of us are together, they're so happy.
01:24We laugh.
01:26Sometimes, they make fun of the three of us.
01:28Sometimes, we make fun of Melag.
01:31Maybe, it's movie time.
01:33One day, it's movie time.
01:35So, that's it.
01:36And the four of us.
01:42Our marriage is...
01:48Rollercoaster.
01:49Rollercoaster.
01:50Unpredictable, maybe.
01:52Unpredictable.
01:53You don't know what will happen to us.
01:56Maybe, we'll be like this later.
01:58Don't make them happy.
02:00Let them think.
02:01That's all I can say.
02:06I admire most about my spouse is...
02:11Very responsible.
02:13It's like this.
02:14I'm about to throw up.
02:15I haven't eaten yet.
02:16Very responsible because...
02:19He really cares about our family.
02:22You can't say anything but...
02:24Sky's the limit.
02:25So, very...
02:26What I can admire?
02:28You.
02:33What do you admire to me?
02:39What do you admire with your spouse?
02:41I admire her for being a strong woman.
02:44Strong wife.
02:50As a father, don't ignore death.
02:53If they want to be noticed, do it.
02:56Sometimes, we ignore their attention.
02:59So, give them time even if they're busy.
03:02When they notice you, acknowledge them.
03:05Approach them.
03:06Their attention.
03:07Because...
03:08It's very important to them.
03:11Actually, it makes sense.
03:12In fairness.
03:13It's true.
03:14Sometimes, as parents, when we're on the phone...
03:16Mom, mom, mom.
03:17So, you won't be like...
03:18You're doing this.
03:19We're doing this.
03:20But, you know, it makes sense everyday.
03:22When they notice you, give them 5 to 1 minute.
03:26Or 30 seconds.
03:27What's that?
03:28If it's not that important, I'll come back to you later.
03:31Because, why?
03:32We, as parents, ignore them.
03:34But, it's very important.
03:35Okay?
03:36My advice to parents is...
03:40Keep calm.
03:43Keep calm.
03:44Because, we need to be calm to our children.
03:46Keep calm.
03:47Keep it simple.
03:48Because, sometimes, we're pressured by other parents.
03:51That their children are successful.
03:53No.
03:54We have our very own authentic style.
03:57And, very own family.
03:58So, be happy with your family.
04:00Be happy with your own happiness.
04:05With your own authentic family.
04:07And, enjoy it.
04:09Keep it simple.
04:10No matter where you are.
04:11As long as you're together.
04:12Enjoy it.
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