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00:00:00In prison take care of me home sweet home. We're here Chris hasn't met my kids yet
00:00:05That can't happen until she's met my ex-wife. The plan is to have you upstairs when they're here
00:00:10I'm really starting to feel like he's trying to like hide me or something
00:00:19Just gave him a car literally an hour ago, and he's already gone. I love you, baby. Will you marry me?
00:00:26I
00:00:30Was talking to my sister you told me to do this yeah, she doesn't really know you
00:00:34You were sneaky individual. What else is a secret? I seem like a picture of what of you and somebody else
00:00:39There's a picture right do I trust out today like not a hundred percent trust
00:00:44I have no idea what's going on
00:00:50After witnessing this breakdown he's not okay inside
00:00:56To be
00:00:58I'm pregnant with twins. Oh
00:01:01You're not gonna go get my girl back. I want you. I want to be there for my kids
00:01:07I apologize for talking to other females
00:01:10I feel like once I'm respected the trust to come you can stay tonight, but you're not sleeping in my room cuz one couch
00:01:16You talk to her you'll say a couple words in front of me, and then you go in the other room Troy's ex is Yana
00:01:22They have a child together. I feel like she still loves Troy
00:01:26I just want to see my daughter, and that's it. I'm not going to Buffalo leave me alone
00:01:31Pack your and get out
00:01:37Where is Troy
00:01:39I
00:01:49Need to talk to her cuz some boy been up in here, and I'm in her having an affair
00:01:56Zaria today she telling me now
00:02:01Yeah, I'm trying to stay calm. Yo, I'm trying to stay calm trying to be calm
00:02:10I
00:02:12Really gonna do something a honor
00:02:14She's messy is oh
00:02:17I hear here in the mirror and she talked was um Zaria had an affair
00:02:22With somebody while he was in prison. He already know you don't
00:02:28Try and I have been married for three years
00:02:31Around a year ago things were not good. It was a lot of back and forth a lot of arguing and
00:02:38I just didn't feel like he was showing me the love that I needed at the time
00:02:42I told him that I felt weak. I told him that I couldn't make marriage work in prison
00:02:46he kept saying well, we only have X amount of time left, but I
00:02:52Developed feelings for this guy that I was talking to and
00:02:56I confessed to Troy that I was sexually intimate with somebody
00:03:02But
00:03:03Troy has made it absolutely clear that we have a clean slate. He said it multiple times
00:03:09So why is this being brought up? We not like this like, oh my gosh
00:03:15She's acting perfect and she cheated like it's not new
00:03:20Karen and Troy had a conversation while he was incarcerated
00:03:24About my infidelity and she encouraged him to move forward and told him that if it was her
00:03:30She want to be holding anybody down?
00:03:32So the fact that she's now acting as though that this is new information is just absolutely absurd and y'all keep calling with messy
00:03:39ass
00:03:43At this point I just feel like
00:03:45She's either with my head or something fishy is going on, but I'm gonna find out
00:03:53Would you ever to give a home to Troy
00:03:56Hey
00:03:59You're not gonna do it you was just talking to me Deanna I heard you you know
00:04:06Like it's no information he don't want who cried to you and what did you say?
00:04:26I
00:04:29Think it's about talking about I'm not talking about I'm coming what Yonah was just in on the phone
00:04:34She asked me where was it to react. I said in the back
00:04:41Here go Troy right here
00:04:55We open the door
00:04:58Playing with me here get out my house
00:05:16It's gonna be on a futon all night. Yeah, you got slick and you laid in the bed. Yeah, it felt good
00:05:26It was cool and in bed with you, I know it was okay now you're getting too cocky
00:05:37I'm glad anything going cool though so far
00:05:40You took an initiative to go get baby stuff without me asking
00:05:44Cuz I'm serious
00:05:46Yeah, we have an ultrasound today
00:05:50So I beat the years or something. Mm-hmm
00:05:52Let's get it
00:05:55I'm not sure
00:05:58If I want you going in with me, but we can definitely go
00:06:02You can take me there. We can do some stuff afterwards. Why would you want me going there with you?
00:06:07Just cuz I don't think we there yet
00:06:09Last night like you will say you were still seeing people
00:06:12So like I still don't know like your full intentions or if you're gonna be here
00:06:18You can still leave anytime you want to so I don't want to sit here and experience stuff with you
00:06:22And then next week you just decide like you don't wanna do nothing no more
00:06:28I'm just taking it day by day with you
00:06:31When I let you stay here last night, we didn't do anything. We came to the bed. I don't forget you
00:06:37Maybe when is when we seeing as they get more developed and we see more
00:06:41Maybe we'll be in a better space to where we can experience that together
00:06:45I'm only gonna miss I'll let you do this one time
00:06:48The
00:06:51Rest of the time I'm going in I
00:06:53Don't know if you're in position to tell me what I'm gonna do one time or what I'm not
00:07:00Well, hopefully we're in a better place so you can start going well, okay
00:07:05Just know that we need to reach that place
00:07:07Before I feel like I want to share my special moments
00:07:10I
00:07:14Shall take going into the ultrasound without me
00:07:16This is supposed to be a chance for me to redeem myself in the bank there. I'm most definitely gonna feel some type of way
00:07:23These are cute though, you can put me in the closet the most I've missed out on since I've been in prison was my son
00:07:32His name
00:07:33He fits me when I went in I told him one hand like this and
00:07:39Seeing the pictures and stuff in him when he was growing up. He'd be nice. Oh my dang. I've been going this long my whole
00:07:47Life I see the one time in person
00:07:50It's a support for me to step up to show her that I'm willing to be there for her and the kids
00:07:56I've said I look at some crib. I still have to buy two crews about the names. Oh gosh, what about the name?
00:08:04I think it's just a twins then they may should be
00:08:08What?
00:08:09true and
00:08:10truth
00:08:11No, that's dope. The boy can be true
00:08:16Tonight true come here truth. No, hell no and if anything like you
00:08:22Look, we should have had on her boys
00:08:25We had triplets. They can be a true honesty
00:08:29genuine
00:08:33I
00:08:36Decided yeah
00:08:43There you go my queen
00:08:46So you sure you don't want me going up there? No, I
00:08:50Don't we're still trying to work on stuff. We're still trying to improve on stuff. I just want to do this one by myself
00:08:55I
00:08:59Have another one coming up. So hopefully we good then
00:09:03We're gonna be good
00:09:05Yeah, hopefully hopefully I'll see you in a minute
00:09:17What I want most is to be up in there with her while she getting her ultrasound I
00:09:23Just got a show and approve that I'm committed and if that mean we stay out here let her do what she do
00:09:31That's what it is
00:09:32My biggest fear is that the next ultrasound I might be on house arrest or I might be
00:09:39possibly in prison
00:09:42That's what I'm most
00:09:44worried about
00:09:46I
00:09:51Don't we're not doing this. I'm not with you just been hiding from me. He's the world's worst liar
00:10:11I'm really excited. I've been working in
00:10:13This house
00:10:14So there's like music and everything. We have sex pretty much every day
00:10:19Sometimes we skip he nods out on the couch the entire time after 10 p.m. I
00:10:29Live up on the third floor Julian's kids live down here on the bottom floor a
00:10:38Little weird because I have not met them yet
00:10:43His ex-wife doesn't want me to meet them. It's really weird
00:10:47Hello, Julian still not told his ex-wife that I'm here at the house
00:10:54The days that I am off work and the kids are there
00:10:57I usually have to like hide upstairs for like five or six hours at a time
00:11:02It's like an adult game of hide-and-seek, and I've never found
00:11:06Oh, hey, hey, you look great. Thanks, baby. You look handsome
00:11:18No, I'm good
00:11:20How was it?
00:11:22Good. Yeah, fine. Yeah, it's always
00:11:26frustrating with
00:11:29all the back-and-forth arguing and just
00:11:33the detention
00:11:35A couple of weeks ago
00:11:37I told my ex-wife that we were dating that I'd met someone and we were dating and she went to googling and
00:11:42Then take a rocket scientist to find her mugshot photos of her walking into the bank and all this other stuff
00:11:47So it's a sensitive situation
00:11:49She wouldn't be happy with anybody you were dating. It wouldn't matter if it were me
00:11:53Or not, you can be dating mother Teresa and Princess Diana, you know wouldn't matter
00:12:00Yeah, she says you like a certain kind of girl is you like some grimy prison rat
00:12:06Yeah, Aladdin here and your princess Jasmine
00:12:10Chucky are you Abu?
00:12:11He can be the little monkey. I
00:12:14Didn't realize it was gonna be as hard as it's been. Uh-huh
00:12:18I think you get so worried about what other people think sometimes and like now she's caught up in what will people think
00:12:24Kind of thing and now I'm the one like I'm stuck up on the third floor
00:12:30I'm stuck like where I can't be in my house like half the time whenever the kids are here
00:12:36Like you're putting me in jail
00:12:38I'm not putting you in jail
00:12:40I'm in jail if I can't freely come and go about in most of the time you can most of the time isn't all
00:12:47The time like you can well you can come and go do or you want to all the time. I
00:12:53Didn't figure it's gonna be all like peaches and cream, but I didn't think it was gonna be
00:12:58So frustratingly annoying I didn't either so I can't like put pictures up in my house of me, and you know
00:13:06my family
00:13:07I have three children my oldest son lives with my mother in West Virginia my
00:13:13Two other children my twins that are 11 years old live with my ex in, Ohio
00:13:18I get really sad wishing that they could be there with me I
00:13:23Am trying to work on
00:13:26Getting you guys to meet
00:13:28That's the thing you're totally ungrateful about the whole thing. I don't think I'm being on you're complaining about
00:13:34We have access to me. I shouldn't be grateful to have access to my own house in my own life
00:13:39I think you're overreacting. I'm not overreacting. I think that you have not done anything
00:13:45You're more scared of her than you are of me. I use you know that's not true at all
00:13:51I'm not trying to make sure she's not mad. I'm trying to and I'm done talking about this
00:13:55I'm going to work all right. Whatever. I will talk to you later
00:14:02What Julian did just now downstairs is what he always does he like deflects and then
00:14:08He just shuts down when I finally push him too far, then he gets mad and he quiet. He's quiet
00:14:13He does never argues. He's never yells. I've never heard he does not raise his voice never
00:14:19This is more of like a passive aggressiveness
00:14:21Aggressiveness
00:14:22The conversation with Chris is it's tough. It's it's hard. It's a little bit of a complicated
00:14:29Puzzle sometimes everything he says is like corporate jargon speak and he speaks like that in real life, too
00:14:36I'm trying to do everything I can to keep Christine happy, but I'm also trying to keep things good with
00:14:43On top of everything else there's something I've been keeping from her
00:14:47And I'm just I'm really nervous to talk to her about it
00:14:51It's like a house of cards and I don't want this whole thing to come tumbling down
00:15:04This is what y'all are wearing this is what you're wearing colors wearing this, okay?
00:15:08I'm gonna go I'm gonna iron your stuff real quick. So it's I don't know why
00:15:17All
00:15:19Right, I'm gonna help you out cuz you moved on was slow this morning. Well, I
00:15:23Gotta go put my tires on my car. Yeah, daddy said it had to have some
00:15:27You know, you have like a budget. What's my budget?
00:15:31No budget reasonable. I mean you're just going to get tired. See nobody
00:15:35It's been a few weeks since I've been released. I hadn't gotten a job
00:15:39Like there's things that I can do. I got a PA certification
00:15:43in HVAC
00:15:45Feels good to be around the boys and do the daddy thing and
00:15:49Kimberly looks out for me, you know money-wise a lot of things planned
00:15:54Like we have our engagement party like
00:15:58But I helped Kimberly out a lot
00:16:00I mean, I didn't realize how much I was gonna actually be doing with Kacen and Kyler like get them both ready for school
00:16:07Put their shoes on cook dinner for them
00:16:10And I'm not used to it yet. I'm going to the shop
00:16:14No, they gotta eat put them at the table. I mean, I forget to feed them sometimes. I'm sorry
00:16:20I've spent about
00:16:23$15,000 on Joey
00:16:25He also goes shopping at every opportunity every dime. He's spending is my life savings. And yeah, he's definitely going through it
00:16:34Five hundred dollars, okay
00:16:37Did I teach you money management when you're in there?
00:16:39I mean when you had a job before you went there didn't you manage your money?
00:16:43No, I blew money. I
00:16:46Did make money in other ways. I didn't have to manage
00:16:50No, babe, we have to figure out another way to make money
00:16:53We'll talk about it later. I
00:16:56Definitely get nervous about what Joey's doing
00:16:58When I'm at work and I don't really know where he's at who he might run into what he might get into
00:17:04Because he doesn't always make the best decisions when I'm not around
00:17:08I'm headed to
00:17:11Rim shop in Greensboro that sales rims and tires and
00:17:15I don't think I was I'm supposed to just get tires, but I'm gonna get some rims, too
00:17:20I won't rims because I mean I just think they look a lot better with the mold
00:17:24Kimberly doesn't know that I'm gonna get rims too, but something I wanted to do
00:17:30I'm meeting BJ and Frank there. I used to be in prison with Frank
00:17:35I've known in all my life and BJ is my best friend growing up, you know
00:17:39And they're both doing pretty good right now
00:17:53That particular you're looking for today boss man, yeah, I was gonna put some wheels on the car parts and 24s or so
00:17:58I got a couple sides. I can show you come on boss, man
00:18:00Yeah, these right here the you choose. I'm one of a six book instead of a five
00:18:04Yeah, and we also have the revenge that I've mostly spoke think about it look around man
00:18:09Yeah, just let me know but I'll be at the counter if you need anything at all
00:18:14Which one you gonna get I'm gonna get that ones in the front with the five blades, let's order a man
00:18:19Yeah, I think I'm gonna get the ones in the front these I can do for 2200
00:18:23All right getting them today. Yeah. Okay. All right, and that would include the rims the tires with mountain bands and Mary
00:18:28Yeah, got the keys for me boss, man. All right, man. We'll take care of it for you
00:18:31I actually have a waiting area right here on the side boss
00:18:33Man, if you guys want to relax play some pool watching TV man, make yourselves at home
00:18:37Everything else
00:18:40Kimberly's got online check-in. So anything comes up on her account. She'll see it. She might get upset. I
00:18:47Wanted to do something nice for myself
00:18:50Rack them. Yeah, they rack is what it is
00:19:00That was a Kim and all them they're good everybody's good I'm glad y'all are doing good too. Oh, yeah, man
00:19:06I'm glad to be out. I am too. I can't do it. I just gotta keep your head straight. Yeah, that's all
00:19:12It's so easy to get off track. Yeah, it took a while
00:19:14I'm not trying to do that to Kimberly at all. Like I want to be with her. Yeah, I love that girl all my heart
00:19:20I actually believe you too. I do I promise you I do
00:19:26This is a different Joey than the Joey I know normally he'd be wanting to run around with
00:19:33Any any girl really?
00:19:37Oh
00:19:40Man still talk to her. Yeah, look like it's all in there. Like I miss you. I want a relationship. Yeah
00:19:48She chasing me man
00:19:56It should be a shame of taking your money you ready to pull up man
00:20:06I
00:20:17Have no idea what's
00:20:19Like I've never had any type of experience with like this type of religion
00:20:25It's not normal for me to like dress like this. You look beautiful like
00:20:37Oh
00:20:42Hello, Salam alaikum, I like Salam you are Arthur Arthur. I am Munshi. Nice to meet you
00:20:48Yes, nice to meet you. And you are hi. I'm Hope hope. Mm-hmm. Nice to meet you, too. Welcome to all I'm sir society
00:20:56If these have been a little rocky since I got out of prison about a month ago
00:21:00I go to work, you know Arthur pretty much just sleeps in hangs out
00:21:08No, I haven't did that shit baby
00:21:14I'll let you to take the shoes off
00:21:18Started talking to a therapist. So I'm just kind of unboxing a lot of stuff that I went through but I am finding it
00:21:25pretty difficult
00:21:27Without a community to be a part of make yourself home, you know
00:21:31I grew up in it
00:21:32My father was Muslim and I know that I need to be around other Muslims because it'll just make me want to be stronger
00:21:38You know and I can I'll be able to feel
00:21:40better
00:21:41Generally, it is a men's entrance and we have for the ladies a separate entrance, but you all are guests. So you're all good
00:21:49This is the place of worship. So basically we pray here
00:21:53Another room that's for the ladies
00:21:55It's been difficult watching Arthur struggle with his mental health
00:21:59I've been through a lot of mental challenges a lot of dark days and
00:22:04In those dark times Arthur was the light for me. And by the way, this is Martha. Hi
00:22:11Nice to meet you. Welcome. Welcome. Thank you. This is my wife. Yes
00:22:16I'm trying to be the light for him
00:22:18But I'm super nervous
00:22:21Just because I don't want to disrespect anyone's, you know religion or culture, I mean my hair is pink
00:22:28So what brought you here? I am Muslim
00:22:31however, I just I've kind of been alone in it because I went to prison and
00:22:36It's hard to decipher who's a real Muslim in there, right? So I didn't have my brothers
00:22:40So I just kind of shut everything out. I lost a lot of knowledge that I did I had
00:22:45About Islam it's never too late. We are not here to judge you
00:22:49This is your time, this is your place
00:22:52Inshallah, I want you to feel home
00:22:55She also was wanting to to know more about Islam. Sure. Do you proclaim any religion right now?
00:23:01I was raised Christian look Martha here sitting her family
00:23:06Catholic myself, you know in the beginning you have doubts and it's okay
00:23:11Let's go to the ladies section. Let's look at this man
00:23:14I
00:23:17Believe in God but
00:23:20practicing the religion
00:23:22That's different for me. So just kind of exploring for myself what I want
00:23:28I dress a bit like more revealing than most sometimes
00:23:34So it would be an adjustment
00:23:36Yes
00:23:37At the beginning it was difficult for me because I was like anybody else
00:23:41When the Quran says for a woman to cover the beauty basically is to avoid the attraction to other men
00:23:50coming from the
00:23:52Churches that I've went to it's just kind of comforting to know that women can worship and not feel like sexualized
00:23:59I was 11 years old when I was
00:24:04Sexually assaulted at church by a family friend and it went on for maybe a year
00:24:11I want to support Arthur fully and in all the things that make him happy
00:24:16That does put a different taste of religion for me in my mouth
00:24:31So important to me because this was gonna save my soul this was gonna help sustain me while I'm you know on this earth
00:24:42I forgot so much about Islam. So to hear it again to learn it again. I
00:24:47Know I'm doing something to please God and help my own self like help my spirit help me to be a better person. So
00:24:54It's just peace. It just it just brings you peace. How do you feel? I
00:24:59Feel good. I feel
00:25:01relaxed it relieved I
00:25:04Feel great. It's good to hear my friend. I was a criminal. You know, I mean I used to rob people
00:25:11When the devil is whispering to me when the Shaitan is whispering to me
00:25:14It's very strong. It's very like you don't have money right now
00:25:17Maybe you can go get some money by doing this and I'm just like stuff a lot like, you know
00:25:21I don't want to be a part of any of that
00:25:24What you are doing I think it is definitely a call from Allah. This life is a test as
00:25:31You pray as we seek his help with his support
00:25:35We defeated the Satan we want you to come here as often as you like thank you. Thank you. You are welcome
00:25:43I really just want to show Arthur like I'm supporting him and his religion and his beliefs
00:25:49That's the beauty of a woman is Islam
00:25:52Then you know you are big support for the your loved one your spouse
00:25:55Remember that he's gonna be the leader of the home. It's a woman. You need to follow his guidance
00:26:00How do you stand by your man as the head of the household if they're not like
00:26:05Providing or they don't have it a job income. He is responsible to provide for you
00:26:11100% okay, whatever you make for yourself. That's your money. He has no right to touch your money
00:26:18That's like complete opposite right now, and he should be ashamed of taking your money
00:26:24I've given Arthur everything, you know, I've given years of my life
00:26:28I've given loads of money and he lived behind the excuse that he was in prison and couldn't do it for me
00:26:35So now you're out of prison and it's an adjustment being out here
00:26:39But it's your turn to step up and show me that you can take care of me
00:26:43If you ever consider to convert to Islam just do it for yourself
00:26:47Don't do it to please him if you do it because to please him things will fall apart. Yeah
00:26:58I
00:27:03Hope for me today just have you fill out your insurance information
00:27:15There's been an ultrasound place all alone, I don't know it feels lonely it doesn't feel right have a seat, okay
00:27:22It feels like
00:27:24You know, you're missing something
00:27:26True like I know I'm missing the fact that like he's not in here with me
00:27:31I
00:27:54Don't know I'm gonna wait and just kind of come back so you can experience this with me. Yeah
00:28:01It's a call we can always get you scanned. Thank you. Yes, you will show me those babies. Oh, yeah. Okay
00:28:09Thank you, thank you
00:28:11The ultrasound is a big deal to me. You get to see life like the life you created
00:28:15I want you to be able to have that happy moment in his life, too
00:28:19And I want to be able for us to experience it together
00:28:22But he definitely has to earn it
00:28:25What's up, how you go? Yeah, we're good. We're good. Mm-hmm. What's that? The baby's good healthy
00:28:37Yeah, everything went good
00:28:40Let's go so we can get home cuz we've got to set up you're meeting a couple people all of that
00:28:46I don't think I'm gonna tell you if I had the ultrasound or not. I know the babies are healthy
00:28:51Or never
00:28:53Hopefully he works on it and he's in there with me so he can see them for herself. I know they help you. I
00:28:59Know you mad about this or whatever but like I'm still doing a game night tonight and you'll get to meet the kids
00:29:07Well, I'm ready to whoop y'all ass and whatever. Yeah, you know what we plan don't don't let it be no connect phone
00:29:13Oh boy, you really think you're doing something to you cuz you won't connect for you had us playing over the phone
00:29:20We don't know how to do that
00:29:22I'm nervous attack
00:29:24It's important for a true to make a good first impression on a kiss tonight just because like my kids are my life
00:29:30and for me to be
00:29:32Introducing him to my kids not knowing how stuff is gonna turn out just makes me a little bit nervous as their mom
00:29:37Well, I asked my head to come over because I do want you to still get to know Naya cuz y'all was cool when you
00:29:43Wasn't there, you know I'm saying but the last thing she know is about like us breaking up and what happened here. That's your partner
00:29:50Yeah, that's one of my closest friends. Like you will want me to be close with your clothes
00:29:53No, I don't not because yeah not close but you will at least want me to be cordial with your close friend
00:29:58Yeah, but tonight is a great night for you to show me how you interact with the kids
00:30:03Like what effort you're putting into like this building?
00:30:07This because we already have a family. We having to blend in we're adding people into it
00:30:12Especially like what I was trying to move forward and build it definitely matters a lot
00:30:18For sure, you think I'll be cool
00:30:20Copa steady
00:30:22Everybody gonna like it. They might not like that. I wolf them in the game cuz I am letting no kids be me and nothing
00:30:28That's ridiculous. I'm not
00:30:31I
00:30:33Gotta tell Sean tell you about seeing my PO
00:30:36Won't be yo fault out that I wasn't staying
00:30:40At the address that I home play to which is my mama I'm expecting to go back to prison
00:30:47Then it's gonna be drama. Yeah, I mean
00:30:54Come on
00:30:59No, what are you talking about Julian is the world's worst liar he's just been hiding from me
00:31:05Oh
00:31:07Whatever. Hey, hold on. I don't want to tell Kimberly and her get upset. Do you want to have a wedding?
00:31:13I'm not with you. I'm just not
00:31:19Prison take care of me home sweet home. We're here. Chris hasn't met my kids yet
00:31:23That can't happen until she's met my ex-wife. The plan is to have you upstairs when they're here
00:31:28I'm really starting to feel like he's trying to like hide me or something
00:31:36Which is true I just gave him a car literally an hour ago and he's already gone. I love you, baby
00:31:42Will you marry me? Yeah
00:31:45Hi, please. What's up? Who's hunting? I was talking to my sister. You tell me do this
00:31:50Yeah, cuz she doesn't really know you you a sneaky individual. What else is a secret?
00:31:54I see something picture of what of you and somebody else. She's a picture, right?
00:31:58Do I trust her today like not a hundred percent trust?
00:32:02I have no idea what's going on
00:32:06After
00:32:09Witnessing this breakdown. He's not okay inside. I
00:32:13Ain't feeling it to be exclusive. Yeah, I feel stupid. I'm bringing with twins. I'm coming
00:32:19We're not gonna go get my girl back. I want you. I want to be there for my kids
00:32:25I apologize for talking to other females
00:32:28I feel like once I'm respected the trust to come you can stay in the night, but you're not sleeping in my room
00:32:34You talk to her you'll say a couple words in front of me and then you go in the other room Troy's ex is Yana
00:32:40They have a child together. I feel like she still loves Troy
00:32:44I just want to see my daughter and that's it. I'm not going to Buffalo. Leave me alone
00:32:49Pack your and get out
00:32:55Where is
00:33:04I
00:33:07Need to talk to her got some boy been up in here and I'm in her having an affair and
00:33:14Zabria today she telling me now
00:33:19Yeah, I'm trying to stay calm. Yo, I'm trying to stay calm. I'm trying to stay calm
00:33:23I
00:33:30Really gotta do something to y'all
00:33:32She's messy is
00:33:35I hear
00:33:36Hearing in there and she talked about
00:33:38Zaria had an affair with somebody while he was in prison. He already know you don't
00:33:46Try and I have been married for three years
00:33:50Around a year ago things were not good. There was a lot of back-and-forth a lot of arguing and
00:33:56I just didn't feel like he was showing me the love that I needed at the time. I told him that I felt weak
00:34:01I told him that I couldn't make marriage work in prison. He kept saying well, we only have X amount of time left, but I
00:34:10Developed feelings for this guy that I was talking to and
00:34:15I confessed to Troy that I was sexually intimate with somebody
00:34:21but
00:34:22Troy has made it absolutely clear that we have a clean slate. He said it multiple times
00:34:27So why is this being brought up? We're not this like, oh my gosh
00:34:33She's acting perfect and she cheated like this not new
00:34:37Shady
00:34:38Karen and Troy had a conversation while he was incarcerated
00:34:42About my infidelity and she encouraged him to move forward and told him that if it was her
00:34:48She want to be holding anybody down
00:34:50So the fact that she's now acting as though that this is new information is just absolutely absurd
00:34:56And y'all keep calling with messy ass
00:34:59This game at this point. I just feel like
00:35:03She's either with my head or something fishy is going on, but I'm gonna find out
00:35:11Would you ever to get a hold Detroit?
00:35:17You're not gonna do it you was just talking to me Deanna I heard you you know
00:35:24Like it's no information he don't want who cried to you and what did you say?
00:35:32I know
00:35:46Do you think that's about talking about I'm not talking about I'm coming what y'all know was just in on the phone
00:35:52She asked me what was it to react. I said in the back
00:35:55She's gonna tell me some other all I don't even know about here go Troy right here
00:36:03Oh
00:36:13We open the door stop playing with stop playing with me here get out my house get out my house
00:36:32I
00:36:34Must be on a futon all night. Yeah, you got slick and you laid in the bed. Yeah, it felt good
00:36:44It was cool in a bit with you, I know okay now you're getting too cocky
00:36:55I'm glad they think I'm cool though so far
00:36:59You took an initiative to go get baby stuff without me asking
00:37:03Who's serious?
00:37:04Yeah, we have a ultrasound today
00:37:08See, I'd be the years or something. Mm-hmm. Let's get it
00:37:14I'm not sure
00:37:16If I want you going in with me, but we can definitely go
00:37:20You can take me there. We can do some stuff afterwards. Why would you want me going there with you?
00:37:25Just cuz I don't think we dare yet last night like you were saying you were still seeing people
00:37:30So like I still don't know like you're full of intentions or if you're gonna be here
00:37:36You can still leave anytime you want to so I don't want to sit here and experience stuff with you
00:37:40And then next week you just decide like you don't wanna do nothing no more
00:37:46I'm just taking it day by day with you
00:37:49When I let you stay here last night, we didn't do anything when he came to the bed. I don't forget you
00:37:55Maybe when is when we seen as they get more developed and we see more
00:37:59Maybe we'll be in a better space to where we can experience that together
00:38:03I'm only gonna miss I'll let you do this one time
00:38:09The rest of the time I'm going in I
00:38:11Don't know if you're in a position to tell me what I'm gonna do one time or what I'm not
00:38:18Well, hopefully we're in a better place so you can start going we will okay
00:38:22Just know that we need to reach that place before I feel like I want to share my special moments
00:38:30All right
00:38:32So take going into the ultrasound without me
00:38:35This was a big chance for me to redeem myself in the bank there. I'm most definitely gonna feel some type of way
00:38:41These are cute though, you can put me in the closet the most I've missed out on since I've been in prison was my son
00:38:49His name
00:38:52He fits me when I went in I told him one hand like this and
00:38:57Seeing the pictures and stuff of him when he was growing up. He'd be nice. Oh my dang
00:39:02I've been going this long my whole life. I see it the one time in person
00:39:08It's a support for me to step up show her that I'm willing to be there for her and the kids. I
00:39:14Said I look at some crib. I still have to buy two cribs about the names. Oh gosh, what about the name? I
00:39:22Think it's just a twins and then I should be
00:39:26What true and truth?
00:39:29No, that's though the boy to be true
00:39:34The name truth come here truth. No, hell no
00:39:38And if anything like you I look we should have had a couple it's
00:39:43We had triplets. They can be a true honesty
00:39:48genuine
00:39:54Excited yeah
00:40:01There you go my
00:40:04So you sure you don't want me going up there? No, I
00:40:08Don't we're still trying to work on stuff. We're still trying to improve on stuff
00:40:12That's why I do this about myself
00:40:17Another one coming up. So hopefully we're good then
00:40:21We're gonna be good
00:40:23Yeah, hopefully hopefully I'll see you in a minute
00:40:35What I want most is to be up in there with her while she getting her ultrasound I
00:40:41Just got a show and approve that I'm committing and if that mean we stay out here let her do what she do
00:40:49That's what it is
00:40:50My biggest fear is that the next ultrasound I might be on house arrest or I might be
00:40:58possibly in prison
00:41:00That's what I'm most
00:41:02worried about
00:41:04I
00:41:10Don't we're not doing this. I'm not with you just been hiding from me. He's the world's worst liar
00:41:29I'm really excited. I've been working in
00:41:31This house
00:41:33So there's like music and everything. We have sex pretty much every day
00:41:37Sometimes we skip he nods out on the couch the entire time after 10 p.m. I
00:41:47Live up on the third floor Julian's kids live down here on the bottom floor a
00:41:56Little weird because I have not met them yet
00:42:01His ex-wife doesn't want me to meet them. It's really weird
00:42:05Hello, Julian still not told his ex-wife that I'm here at the house
00:42:12The days that I am off work and the kids are there
00:42:15I usually have to like hide upstairs for like five or six hours at a time
00:42:21It's like an adult game of hide-and-seek and I'm never found
00:42:24Oh
00:42:27Hey, hey, you look great, baby, you look handsome
00:42:36No, I'm good
00:42:38How was it?
00:42:40Good. Yeah, fine. Yeah, it's always
00:42:45frustrating with
00:42:47all the back-and-forth arguing and just
00:42:51the detention
00:42:54A couple of weeks ago
00:42:55I told my ex-wife that we were dating that I'd met someone and we were dating and she went to googling and
00:43:00Then take a rocket scientist to find her mugshot photos of her walking into the bank and all this other stuff
00:43:06So it's a sensitive situation
00:43:08She wouldn't be happy with anybody you were dating. It wouldn't matter if it were me
00:43:11Or not, you'll be dating mother Teresa and Princess Diana, you know wouldn't matter
00:43:18Yeah, she says you like a certain kind of girl is you like some grimy prison rat
00:43:24Yeah, I'm Aladdin here and your princess Jasmine
00:43:28Talkie are you a boo? He can be a little monkey. I
00:43:32Didn't realize it was gonna be as
00:43:35Hard as it's been. Uh-huh
00:43:36I think you get so worried about what other people think sometimes and like now she's caught up in what will people think kind
00:43:43Of thing and now I'm the one like I'm stuck up on the third floor
00:43:48I'm stuck like where I can't be in my house like half the time whenever the kids are here
00:43:54Like you're putting me in jail
00:43:56I'm not putting you in jail
00:43:58I'm in jail if I can't freely come and go about in most of the time you can most of the time isn't all
00:44:05The time like you can well you can come and go do whatever you want to all the time. I
00:44:12Didn't figure it's gonna be all like peaches and cream, but I didn't think it was gonna be
00:44:16So frustratingly annoying I didn't either so I can't like put pictures up in my house of me and you know
00:44:24My family I have three children. My oldest son lives with my mother in West, Virginia
00:44:31My two other children my twins that are 11 years old live with my ex in, Ohio
00:44:36I get really sad wishing that they could be there with me. I
00:44:42Am trying to work on
00:44:44Getting you guys to meet
00:44:46That's the thing you're totally ungrateful about the whole thing. I don't think I'm being on
00:44:51You're complaining about let me have access to me. I shouldn't be grateful to have access to my own house in my own life
00:44:57I think you're overreacting. I'm not overreacting. I think that you have not done anything
00:45:03You're more scared of her than you are of me. I issue. No, that's not true at all
00:45:09I'm not trying to make sure she's not mad. I'm trying to and I'm done talking about this
00:45:13I'm going to work. All right, whatever. I will talk to you later
00:45:20What Julian did just now downstairs is what he always does he like deflects and then
00:45:26He just shuts down when I finally push him too far. Then he gets mad and he quiet. He's quiet
00:45:31He does never argues. He's never yells. I've never heard he does not raise his voice never
00:45:37This is more of like a passive aggressiveness
00:45:39Aggressiveness
00:45:40The conversation with Chris is it's tough. It's it's hard. It's a little bit of a complicated
00:45:47Puzzle sometimes everything he says is like corporate jargon speak and he speaks like that in real life, too
00:45:54I'm trying to do everything I can to keep Christine happy
00:45:57But I'm also trying to keep things good with
00:46:01On top of everything else there's something I've been keeping from her
00:46:06And I'm just I'm really nervous to talk to her about it
00:46:09It's like a house of cards and I don't want this whole thing to come tumbling down
00:46:22This is what y'all are wearing this is what you're wearing colors wearing this, okay
00:46:26I'm gonna go I'm gonna iron your stuff real quick. So it's I don't know why
00:46:29But
00:46:37All right, I'm gonna help you out cuz you moved on was slow this morning
00:46:39Well, I gotta go put my tires on my car. Yeah, daddy said it had to have some
00:46:45You know, you have like a budget. What's my budget?
00:46:49No budget reasonable. I mean you're just gonna get tires. There you go, buddy
00:46:53It's been a few weeks since I've been released. I hadn't gotten a job
00:46:57Like there's things that I can do I got EPA certification
00:47:01in HVAC
00:47:03Feels good to be around the boys and do the daddy thing and Kimberly looks out for me, you know money-wise
00:47:10Got a lot of things planned
00:47:12Like we have our engagement party like
00:47:16But I help Kimberly out a lot
00:47:18Aha, I mean I didn't realize how much I was gonna actually be doing with Kacen and Kyla like get them both ready for school
00:47:25Put their shoes on cook dinner for them
00:47:28And I'm not used to it yet. I'm going to the shop. No, they gotta eat put them at the table
00:47:34I mean, I forget to feed them sometimes. I'm sorry
00:47:38I've spent about
00:47:42$15,000 on Joey, but he also goes shopping at every opportunity
00:47:46Every dime he's spinning is my life savings. And yeah, he's definitely gone through it
00:47:51I'm gonna need you to stay under like $500. Okay
00:47:55Did I teach you money management when you're in there?
00:47:58I mean when you had a job before you went there didn't you manage your money?
00:48:02No, I blew money. I
00:48:04Did make money in other ways. I didn't have to manage
00:48:08No, babe, we have to figure out another way to make money
00:48:12We'll talk about it later. I
00:48:14Definitely get nervous about what Joey's doing
00:48:16When I'm at work, and I don't really know where he's at who he might run into what he might get into
00:48:22Because he doesn't always make the best decisions when I'm not around
00:48:27I'm headed to
00:48:29rim shop in Greensboro that sells rims and tires and
00:48:33I don't think I was I'm supposed to just get tires, but I'm gonna get some rims, too
00:48:38I won't rims because I mean I just think they look a lot better with the mold
00:48:43Kimberly doesn't know that I'm gonna get rims too
00:48:45But something I wanted to do
00:48:48I'm meeting BJ and Frank there. I used to be in prison with Frank
00:48:53I've known all my life and BJ is my best friend growing up, you know, and they're both doing pretty good right now
00:49:08How you doing today
00:49:11And then particularly you're looking for today boss man, yeah
00:49:13I was gonna put some wheels on the car pricing point forwards or so
00:49:16I got a couple sides like a show you come on to the bus man
00:49:18Yeah, these right here the you choose. I'm one of a six book instead of a five
00:49:23Yeah, and we also have the revenge that I want to spoke think about it look around man
00:49:27Yeah, just let me know but I'll be at the counter if you need anything at all
00:49:32Which one you gonna get I'm gonna get that ones in the front with the five ladies, let's order a man
00:49:37Yeah, I think I'm gonna get the ones in the front these I can do for 2,200
00:49:41I'm gonna get them today. Yeah, okay
00:49:43All right, and that would include the rims the tires with mount them bands and Mary. Yeah, wait got the keys for me boss, man
00:49:48All right, man. What's it careful for you?
00:49:49I actually have a waiting area right here on the side boss man
00:49:51If you guys want to relax play some pool watching TV man, make yourselves at home
00:49:55everything else
00:49:58Kimberly's got online checking so anything comes up on her account. She'll see it. She might get upset
00:50:05I wanted to do something nice for myself
00:50:08Rack them. Yeah, they rack. Hey is what it is
00:50:18That was uh, Kim and all them they're good everybody's good. I'm glad y'all are doing good, too
00:50:23Oh, yeah, man. I'm glad to be out. I am too. I can't do it
00:50:28Just got to keep your head straight. Yeah, that's all it's easy to get off track. Yeah, it took a while
00:50:32I'm not trying to do that to Kimberly at all
00:50:35Like I want to be with her. Yeah, I love that girl all my heart. I actually believe you too
00:50:40I do I promise you I do
00:50:44This is a different joy than the joy, I know normally he'd be wanting to run around with
00:50:51Any any girl really?
00:50:56Bitch he's texting me man. Oh, man still talk to her
00:51:00Yeah, look like it's all in there like I miss you I want a relationship damn she chasing me man
00:51:14It should be a shame of taking your money you ready to pull up now
00:51:31I
00:51:35Have no idea what's
00:51:37Like I've never had any type of experience with like this type of religion
00:51:43It's not normal for me to like dress like this. You look beautiful like
00:52:00Hello Salam alaikum. I like Salam. You are Arthur Arthur. I am Munshi. Nice to meet you
00:52:06Yes, nice to meet you. And you are hi. I'm Hope. Hope. Mm-hmm. Nice to meet you, too
00:52:12Welcome to our answer society
00:52:14If these have been a little rocky since I got out of prison about a month ago
00:52:19I go to work, you know Arthur pretty much just sleeps in hangs out
00:52:26No, I haven't did that yet, baby
00:52:30I
00:52:32Let you to take the shoes off
00:52:35I've started talking to a therapist. So I'm just kind of unboxing a lot of stuff that I went through but I am finding it
00:52:43pretty difficult
00:52:45Without a community to be a part of make yourself home, you know
00:52:49I grew up in it
00:52:50My father was Muslim and I know that I need to be around other Muslims because it'll just make me want to be stronger
00:52:56You know and I can I'll be able to feel
00:52:58Better
00:53:00Generally, it is a men's entrance and we have for the ladies a separate entrance, but you all are guests. So you're all good
00:53:07This is the place of worship. So basically we pray here
00:53:11Another room that's for the ladies
00:53:13It's been difficult watching Arthur struggle with his mental health
00:53:17I've been through a lot of mental challenges a lot of dark days and
00:53:22In those dark times Arthur was the light for me. And by the way, this is Martha. Hi
00:53:29Nice to meet you. Welcome. Welcome. Thank you. This is my wife. Yeah
00:53:34I'm trying to be the light for him
00:53:37But I'm super nervous just because I don't want to disrespect anyone's, you know religion or culture. I mean my hair is pink
00:53:46So what brought you here? I am Muslim
00:53:49however, I just well kind of been alone in it because I went to prison and
00:53:54It's hard to decipher who's a real Muslim in it, right so I didn't have my brothers
00:53:58So I just kind of shut everything out. I lost a lot of knowledge that I did. I had
00:54:03About Islam. It's never too late. We are not here to judge you. This is your time. This is your place
00:54:10Angela I want you to feel home
00:54:13She also was wanting to to know more about Islam. Sure. Do you proclaim any religion right now?
00:54:19I was raised Christian. Look Martha here sitting her family Catholic myself, you know in the beginning you have doubts
00:54:27And it's okay
00:54:29Let's go to the ladies section. Let's let's say this man
00:54:34Of course, I believe in God but practicing the religion
00:54:40That's different for me. So just kind of exploring for myself what I want
00:54:47I dress a bit like more revealing than most sometimes
00:54:52So it would be an adjustment
00:54:54Yes
00:54:55At the beginning it was difficult for me because I was like anybody else when the Quran says for a woman to cover the beauty
00:55:04Basically is to avoid the attraction to other men
00:55:08coming from the
00:55:10Churches that I've went to it's just kind of comforting to know that women can worship and not feel like sexualized
00:55:17I was 11 years old when I was
00:55:22Sexually assaulted at church by a family friend and it went on for maybe a year. I
00:55:30Want to support Arthur fully and and all the things that make him happy
00:55:34That does put a different taste of religion for me in my mouth
00:55:39Allah
00:55:41Who I come on
00:55:45Me
00:55:48Allah so important to me because
00:55:51This was gonna save my soul. This was gonna help sustain me while I'm you know on this earth
00:56:00I forgot so much about Islam. So to hear it again to learn it again. I
00:56:05Like I know I'm doing something to please God and help my own self like help my spirit help me to be a better person
00:56:11so
00:56:12It's just peace. It just it just brings you peace. How do you feel? I
00:56:17Feel good. I feel
00:56:19Relaxed it relieved. I
00:56:22Feel great. It's good to hear my friend. I was a criminal. You know, I mean I used to rob people
00:56:29When the devil is whispering to me when that's your time is whispering to me. It's very strong. It's very like
00:56:34You don't have money right now
00:56:35Maybe you can go get some money by doing this and I'm just like stuff a lot like, you know
00:56:39I don't want to be a part of any of that
00:56:42What you are doing. I think it is definitely a call from Allah. This life is a test as
00:56:49We pray as we seek his help with his support
00:56:54We defeated the settlement. We want you to come here as often as you like. Thank you. Thank you
00:57:00You are welcome, I really just want to show Arthur like I'm supporting him and his religion and his beliefs
00:57:07That's the beauty of a woman is Islam
00:57:10Then you know you are big support for the your loved one your spouse
00:57:14Remember that he's gonna be the leader of the home as a woman. You need to follow his guidance
00:57:19How do you stand by your man as the head of the household if they're not like?
00:57:24Providing or they don't have it a job income. He is responsible to provide for you
00:57:29100% okay, whatever you make for yourself. That's your money. He has no right to touch your money
00:57:36That's like complete opposite right now, and he should be ashamed of taking your money
00:57:42I'm giving Arthur everything, you know, I've given years of my life
00:57:46I've given loads of money and he lived behind the excuse that he was in prison and couldn't do it for me
00:57:53So now you're out of prison and it's an adjustment being out here
00:57:57But it's your turn to step up and show me that you can take care of me
00:58:01If you ever consider to convert to Islam, just do it for yourself
00:58:05Don't do it to please him if you do it because to please him things will fall apart. Yeah
00:58:20Hello
00:58:22Today just have you fill out your insurance information
00:58:33Just being an ultrasound place all alone, I don't know it feels lonely it doesn't feel right have a seat, okay
00:58:40it feels like
00:58:42You know, you're missing something
00:58:45To like I know I'm missing the fact that like he's not in here with me
00:58:53Oh
00:59:11Yeah, so I'm I don't know I'm gonna wait I'm always you just kind of come back
00:59:15Okay, so you can experience this with me. Yeah, thank you a little bit
00:59:20It's a call we can always get you scanned. Thank you. Yes, you will show me those babies. Oh, yeah. Okay
00:59:27Thank you, thank you
00:59:29The ultrasound is a big deal to me. You get to see life like the life you created
00:59:33I want you to be able to have that happy moment in his life, too
00:59:37And I want to be able for us to experience it together
00:59:40But he definitely has to earn it
00:59:43What's up, I go get one good we're good. Mm-hmm. What's that? The baby's good. Yeah healthy
00:59:55Yeah, everything went good all right, let's go so we can get home cuz we've got a setup you're meeting a couple people all of
01:00:02that I
01:00:05Don't think I'm gonna tell you if I had the ultrasound or not. I know the babies are healthy. We're never
01:00:10Hopefully he works on it and he's in there with me so you can see them for herself and know they help you
01:00:17I know you mad about this or whatever. But like I'm still doing the game night tonight and you'll get to meet the kids
01:00:26Well, I'm ready to walk y'all ass and whatever. You don't even know what we plan. Don't don't let it be no connect phone
01:00:34You really think you're doing something to you cuz you won't connect for
01:00:37Playing over the phone. We don't know how to do that
01:00:40I'm nervous to take
01:00:42It's important for a true to make a good first impression on the kids tonight just because like my kids are my life
01:00:48and for me to be
01:00:50Introducing him to my kids not know how stuff is gonna turn out just makes me a little bit nervous as their mom
01:00:55Well, I asked I had to come over because I do want you to still get to know Naya cuz y'all was cool when you
01:01:01Wasn't there, you know I'm saying but the last thing she know is about like us breaking up and what happened here
01:01:07That's your partner. Yeah, that's one of my closest friends. Like you will want me to be close with your clothes
01:01:12No, I don't not because yeah not close, but you will at least want me to be cordial with your close friend
01:01:16Yeah, but tonight is a great night for you to show me how you interact with the kids
01:01:21Like whatever you're putting into like this building
01:01:25This cuz we already have a family. We having to blend in we're adding people into it
01:01:31Especially like what I was trying to move forward and build it definitely matters a lot
01:01:36For sure, you think I'll be cool
01:01:38Copa steady
01:01:41Everybody gonna like him. They might not like that. I wolf him in the game cuz I ain't letting no kids be me and nothing
01:01:46That's ridiculous. I'm not
01:01:49I
01:01:51Gotta tell Sean tell you about seeing my p.o. My p.o. found out that I wasn't staying
01:01:58At the address that I home play to which is my mama. I'm expecting to go back to prison
01:02:05Then it's gonna be drama. Yeah, I mean
01:02:17No, what are you talking about Julian is the world's worst liar he's been hiding from me
01:02:25Whatever. Hey, hold on. I don't want to tell Kimberly and her get upset. Do you want to have a wedding?
01:02:31I'm not with you. I'm just not
01:02:35Hey
01:02:37Guys welcome back to my youtube channel. So because I hope you're fine. I'm also fine in this video
01:02:41I'm gonna show different beautiful and unique
01:02:43Handbag ideas different classy heaven crotchet and bag designs of your self for your different friends and etc
01:02:50And it's very heaven and beautiful crotchet
01:02:52Bags ideas and I hope you like it. You can see it's color combination
01:02:55You can see it different project
01:02:57Styles of your bags and handbags ideas shoulder bags, and I hope you like it
01:03:01Then you like your sleeves like me to share more you and I have to shake your bias you soon
01:03:05I'll see you in the next video
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