Married at First Sight UK S09E10
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00:00Am I too much for you?
00:03Previously...
00:04I care for you a lot.
00:05I really appreciate Kieran being vulnerable.
00:07..in an Emotional Experts Week...
00:09Why do you think you chose her body to focus on?
00:13..couples faced their crises head-on.
00:15I didn't want to lie.
00:17You're never going to want to rip my clothes off, are you?
00:19But with hands-on help from the experts...
00:22We're going to start focusing in on both of your wrists.
00:25There's a fresh start ahead. This is what we need.
00:28..there was breakthrough...
00:29It was nice to get closer. It felt very natural.
00:32..after breakthrough...
00:34Behind closed doors was sound.
00:36Communication is key.
00:38Boom!
00:40..but Eve's failure to take part...
00:42You couldn't even just write something.
00:44I'm not there yet.
00:46..crushed Charlie's fragile hopes.
00:48I'm laying my heart out on the line here.
00:50I'm getting...
00:52..back.
00:57Tonight...
00:59Hello!
01:01..an unexpected reconciliation...
01:03If they do come in together, then I'll call it out later.
01:06..sparks an unwanted intervention.
01:08What have you done to her? It's a bit of a bully.
01:10A bully.
01:12I don't want to do this anymore.
01:14..and the first honesty box of the series.
01:17Here we go.
01:19What is the biggest obstacle in the way of our happiness?
01:21Definitely sex.
01:23What do you think you should do to prevent us
01:25from being stuck in the friend zone?
01:27..prompts Polly to demand answers.
01:29I will leave in a minute. You need to just shut up.
01:32I just want him to be honest. Don't start getting aggy at me.
01:35I didn't try to make you look stupid.
01:37You tried, but it made me look stupid.
01:39If Polly continues to talk to me like a child, it pisses me off.
01:42..and this marriage isn't going to work.
01:52What are you looking forward to, like, your first dinner party?
01:55Is the food good? The food's actually nice.
01:58Why do you look so beautiful?
02:00Eh? Look at that big smile on your face.
02:02I think we need to get ready.
02:04Need to sort this bonnet out, cos I ain't going looking like this.
02:07I wouldn't either.
02:09All right, rude!
02:16How do you feel like we are going to be walking in
02:20this week after Charlene's help?
02:23I do feel like we have took a good step in the right direction.
02:27Yeah, I do definitely think it's helped. Yeah.
02:30I feel like the Eve and Charlie situation,
02:33I feel like that could be brewing.
02:35I do definitely think that it could be a bit more heated.
02:38Now more has been unpacked from last week.
02:41Last night, Eve told me and Holly some pretty shocking things
02:44about how Charlie's been treating her.
02:46To be honest, I think them as a couple is quite volatile.
02:49I think it's very, very toxic
02:51and I'm not going in there with high hopes.
02:55It has been a very turbulent week with me and Eve.
02:58There's been refusing to move in, refusing to do the tasks,
03:02and the tasks are there to hopefully get us to a better place.
03:05So it just makes me feel like she's not 100% committed.
03:11You look lovely. I'm so excited.
03:13Despite instant chemistry on their wedding day...
03:16She's perfect.
03:17..Eve's need for patience on honeymoon...
03:19I need a wee bit more time sometimes to feel comfortable.
03:22I need my own space. ..caused the couple to clash.
03:24You left me alone again.
03:26I don't like being shouted at.
03:28At the first commitment ceremony...
03:31We had a really big fight for honeymoon
03:33to the extent where I moved out and we haven't kissed since that day.
03:36I cut everything.
03:38..expert advice helped the couple move forward.
03:41It really is about how you can heal trauma
03:44and, as a result, show up for your partner in a better way.
03:47I want to give this 100%.
03:50But Eve's failure to take part in Experts Week...
03:54It's really sad that you feel like you couldn't even just write something.
03:58I'm not there yet. ..sent the couple into a downward spiral.
04:02Go. Just go.
04:10I am still very overwhelmed about yesterday.
04:13You can't control our emotions and you can't take words back.
04:29I don't know why I'm struggling so much, but I am.
04:32I'm really struggling to get over things that have happened between us.
04:39But I do see good in her, I see good in us.
04:42So I think I'm just going to have to throw myself into it
04:45and if this doesn't work, I don't know what will.
04:49So, clearly, yesterday wasn't a great day for us.
04:53A lot of emotions, both ways.
04:56Yeah. I am sorry for hurting you.
04:59Sorry too. Breaks my heart, Charlie. Me too.
05:02And then I think we both shut down a wee bit and...
05:06..and we don't get anywhere. No.
05:08So let's just try and move forward, enjoy the good together
05:12and let's try not to maybe go in too much on things.
05:17Let's just be positive. Yeah.
05:20Go forward. Yeah. We've got this. Let's give up.
05:23OK? Good. Yeah. Cool. Good.
05:28I am pushing myself harder than I'm ready to probably go.
05:33And I'm just hoping that this works.
05:38Casper and I are still in separate apartments,
05:41but it was really good to have Mel over.
05:44We've learnt a lot about each other and feel in a better place.
05:49Obviously, I'd like Casper and my relationships
05:52to be more husband and wife,
05:54but I think we need more time in this new realm of positivity.
05:59We're going to be happy, we're going to be us.
06:02I'm feeling really good.
06:04Feeling positive about where Emma and I are at.
06:07Wow, look at you! Hello! So much colour.
06:10We're in a far better place now than we were.
06:13I'm excited for tonight cos we both enjoy this sort of thing.
06:16Ready to go? Woo!
06:18You all right? Yeah, I'm not bad.
06:20I'm well excited. I know. Another party.
06:23LAUGHTER
06:25I think we're going to be OK.
06:27I think we're going to be OK.
06:29Another party.
06:33I'm still not feeling that great.
06:36But it's probably best if I don't.
06:38Don't come? It won't be bad, though.
06:41Are you sure you don't want me to stay with you?
06:44No, it's fine, honestly. I appreciate you even saying that.
06:48Holly needs you there tonight. Got to look after my girl.
06:51Obviously, I'm not sure how her and Alex are right now.
06:54Hopefully, they're in a better place.
06:56Hopefully, there's not going to be, like, any drama tonight from it.
06:59Yeah, no.
07:10I actually found Experts Week really productive.
07:13I took everything Paul said and I've really put it into use.
07:17But because of the communication problem,
07:19yet again, me and Alex have rowled.
07:21He's not even got one bag through the door
07:23and he was already straight back out.
07:25How you doing? You good?
07:27Welcome. You all right?
07:29During Experts Week, Paul helped Holly and Alex work through their issues.
07:33Can I finish my... And this is what annoys me.
07:36They're talking over me as well.
07:38I feel like I can't always get my thought out
07:40because by the time you've finished what you're saying, we're not speaking.
07:43Communication and time is key.
07:45So now we're going to come up with a safe word
07:48to prevent you from overstepping.
07:50Mango.
07:52Mango out the room.
07:54Jake, that's what I was just about to say.
07:57Oh, you big softie.
08:04Last night, me and Alex had a row.
08:06He's just quite petty when I think about it, really.
08:09I was passing him things, tidying up.
08:12I was just going, fridge, drawer.
08:14And he said, don't speak to me like a dog.
08:18Alex blows the littlest things out of proportion
08:21when, really, we have bigger problems.
08:23We don't know how to communicate without arguing,
08:26so we need to stop complaining about,
08:28I don't want to put a drink in the fridge
08:30and start worrying about if we can even have a conversation
08:33without killing each other.
08:35Me and Holly had a disagreement
08:37in which she spoke to me in a way I didn't like.
08:40In the conversation with Paul, we set boundaries.
08:43Then, less than 24 hours later,
08:45she overstepped the boundary and it's all kicked off again.
08:50I do feel like I deserve an apology from Holly.
08:52For me, it's not water under the bridge.
09:01I'm actually really looking forward to seeing everybody
09:03and just spending some time with you.
09:05Good, me too.
09:06I am really excited to walk into the dinner party with Eve today
09:09because we are good when we're good.
09:11We're just really bad when we're bad.
09:15I do feel like shit's going to hit the fan.
09:17Do you? Yeah, big time.
09:19If even Charlie walk in tonight hand-in-hand as a united front,
09:23I will definitely question it because I know that's not the case.
09:29I'm just today feeling really anxious.
09:33If we don't work past this,
09:34then I don't think my time here is going to continue
09:37because I can't be with someone like that.
09:49Here we are, second dinner party, right off the back of Experts Week.
09:53I wonder how that impacted our couples.
09:56Yes, first impressions have happened now.
09:58We're now moving into some of the norming and storming stages
10:01and we're going to see factions develop.
10:03We're going to see subgroups develop.
10:05And tonight, I think it'll be quite fascinating to watch.
10:10Oh, we're first.
10:11We're first.
10:12First at the dinner party.
10:13Well, here they are, Emma and Casper.
10:15Yes, this is your couple, Mel.
10:17This is my couple.
10:18We sat down and shared some time together this week
10:21and I really tried to get them to move away
10:23from all of these differences about each other
10:26that they'd been focusing on toward more of a,
10:29what are the strengths here?
10:31Champagne?
10:32Yes, yes, that would be nice.
10:34I'm going for it.
10:37It appears that your magic has worked
10:39because this is the strongest we've ever seen these two.
10:42Who else do you think got experts this week?
10:45Did you think everyone got experts?
10:47No, they were trusted to behave
10:49without experts supervising them.
10:52The bad ones got the experts.
10:54Like we did.
10:57Oh, Casper.
10:59How are you? How are you?
11:01Orson and Rochelle.
11:02Look at that.
11:03Now, this is really good to see
11:05because, of course, Rochelle didn't turn up last time.
11:08So it's so lovely to see them come in as a couple.
11:12How was your week been, though?
11:14Yeah, good.
11:15It's been really nice.
11:16Good.
11:17Yeah, I can't complain.
11:18Like, you know, I've been way more positive.
11:20OK.
11:21A lot of the stuff that came out in the commitment ceremony
11:24is now, it's not in the past,
11:25but it's like all of that stress is sort of gone.
11:27He's come into the apartment, you know, every morning,
11:30going like, morning!
11:31Oh, bless.
11:33But, of course, keep in mind she's saying
11:35he comes into the apartment in the morning,
11:37so they're still not living together,
11:39but it's a positive step.
11:40Yes.
11:41Hello!
11:42Hello!
11:44Kieran and Christina, what an entrance.
11:46Indeed.
11:47I mean, these are our pair of balls of energy
11:50entering together, bringing all of that energy into the room.
11:54Yes.
11:55How's your week been?
11:57So we had, like, the experts' golden envelope.
12:00It was just a perfect thing for us.
12:02It really gave Kieran the opportunity to be, like,
12:05really open and, like, vulnerable,
12:08so it just had a bit of a light bulb moment
12:10and, like, we're just, like, actually enjoying the experience
12:13instead of, like, putting so much pressure on ourselves.
12:16But you are in a good place.
12:17Oh, God, we couldn't be happier at the moment.
12:20Aw, beautiful.
12:23I, like, really opened up to Christina.
12:25OK.
12:26The thing is with Christina, like, she's an emotional girl,
12:28very, very emotional, so I've kind of...
12:30I've had my emotions reserved because I don't want to put
12:33anything on her because she is so emotional,
12:35so I've kept everything to myself.
12:36The last thing she needs is to hear about everything
12:38that's going on in my brain when she's struggling herself.
12:41So I disagree with that.
12:42That's the first thing she needs to hear,
12:44because what they need to build is emotional connection,
12:48and they can only do that if Kieran is willing to fully open up.
12:52Yeah.
12:54Hello!
12:55Hello!
12:56Hi!
12:58Holly and Adam.
12:59You all right?
13:00This is the second time they've entered
13:02where Adam doesn't hold Polly's hand.
13:05She just has this stiff arm that she grabs on to.
13:07Yeah.
13:09How you doing?
13:10Really good.
13:11We had Charlene.
13:12She came to us.
13:14We had massage oils.
13:16Woo!
13:18So I got a lovely little massage last night.
13:20Genuinely, over the last few days,
13:22there's been a lot more vocal, like, compliments.
13:25There's hands in bed.
13:27A lot more touchy-feely.
13:28So it's definitely helped, and we both think that it's progressing.
13:32So slow steps forward, but at least it's forward and not...
13:35Backwards.
13:36..back.
13:37That's really good news.
13:38So...
13:39Does that make you happy?
13:40Does it excite you?
13:41It does.
13:42I am getting the fanny flutters.
13:43Yeah!
13:44Cheers!
13:45Cheers to fanny flutters!
13:47The fanny flutters?
13:49Yeah.
13:50That's a good sign.
13:51That's a good sign.
13:53Have you managed to see Alex this week at all?
13:55Yeah, I was at gym with him this morning.
13:57Is he giving anything about him and Holly, or...?
13:59I think they're just bought in ads.
14:02I feel like they're both so fired up.
14:04I think it's a stubbornness.
14:06Yeah.
14:07Nobody wants to say, I'm wrong.
14:09I agree with Orson, he's 100% correct.
14:12Holly is supremely stubborn, and guess what?
14:15Her husband, equally supremely stubborn.
14:17What's so sad here is that when I left them on Experts Week,
14:20they were in a strong position.
14:22I would argue the strongest position they've ever been.
14:25Chances of their walking in holding hands?
14:27Not a chance.
14:28LAUGHTER
14:30Holly!
14:33Oh!
14:35And here Holly is by herself.
14:37Oh, no.
14:38You OK? You good?
14:40I'm good, I just need a second one to calm myself.
14:43It's always so hard to walk into a mixer
14:46or a dinner party by yourself, isn't it?
14:48It takes such courage.
14:50So what happened?
14:51So he was coming to me back in last night...
14:53Yeah.
14:54..and he'd not even got a sandal through the door
14:56and he was straight back out.
14:57Oh, OK.
14:58I literally passed him a piece of paper and said,
15:00will you put that in the drawer and that water in the fridge?
15:02And he was like, don't speak to me like I'm a fucking dog.
15:07But that's, like, something little that he reacted wrongly.
15:11You then put your defences up, he put his defences up.
15:14I didn't, no.
15:15I went in the bathroom and sat on my own, just calmed down.
15:17And I come back out and he said,
15:19you need to start behaving like the 30-year-old woman you are,
15:22that you claim you are, and don't speak to me like you speak to your son.
15:25And I thought, do not bring my kids into it, first of all.
15:28And then I sat on the couch and I went,
15:30I'm apologising if you feel like I said it to you in any manner,
15:33because I wasn't.
15:34Yeah.
15:35And he was like, yeah, she was, wanted to argue,
15:37so I just went, swear down, I said, I'm going, I'm leaving.
15:39As I'm walking out the door, he got all leery, so I just walked off.
15:43What's also challenging here is that I work with them on setting boundaries
15:46and making sure that they're not name-calling,
15:48they're respecting each other.
15:50So it sounds like that has fallen apart.
15:53Oh, hello!
15:55Oh, here's the pageant queen entrance.
15:58Woo-hoo-hoo!
16:00Sasha looks super excited to be walking in with her husband.
16:04She does.
16:05Super proud of him.
16:06Mm-hm.
16:07You're drawing mint together?
16:09Yeah.
16:10Well, at first, I let my dad on,
16:12I thought, you know what, she didn't want me.
16:14But we're very similar.
16:16We have the same character, she's a bottom as well,
16:19she thinks I'm a punching bag as well, she keeps digging me all the time.
16:22Does she? Oh, yeah.
16:23Put your leg in the wall.
16:24Love it!
16:25Love it?
16:26Love it!
16:27Aw!
16:30So, Eve and Charlie, I do not have high hopes for them at all.
16:36Oh.
16:37It's giving toxic.
16:40It actually upsets me, you know, because Eve has got such a big heart
16:44and she genuinely doesn't want to give up.
16:47She's got such a big heart and she genuinely just wants to be loved by someone.
16:51Some of the stuff she was saying to us last night about Charlie was awful.
16:55What I didn't like, though, was that the commitment ceremony,
16:59Eve got me to feel like a...
17:01Oh, no, I know, but this is why I said to her last night,
17:03so why was she sitting there, like, fucking all over each other?
17:05It's just like, because if she doesn't, then she gets shitty.
17:08Do you know what I've said to Eve?
17:09I think you both need to move back in together,
17:11see that she's still the way she is,
17:13and then that'll be a clarification that this relationship's never going to work,
17:16because them being apart, they're not seeing each other enough.
17:18Yeah, but they're not seeing each other enough because Charlie's been mean.
17:21Now I can understand what Eve was saying on the sofa with the experts.
17:24Do you not think you're mean to me? She is fucking mean.
17:26Yeah.
17:27If anything, she's a little bit of a bully.
17:29Wow.
17:30Strong word.
17:31Yeah.
17:32That is such a strong statement,
17:34when actually Polly doesn't know both sides of the story.
17:38Do you think she's coming in on her own?
17:40100%. I would be shocked if they come in together,
17:42and if they do come in together, then I'll fucking call it out later.
17:47Oh, my God.
17:50They're together!
17:52Hi, everybody.
17:53Hello.
17:55It's fake.
17:56How are you?
17:57They're so happy.
17:59Oh, my God.
18:11Hi, everybody.
18:12Hello.
18:13How are you?
18:14Hi, Eve.
18:15Hello.
18:16How are you?
18:17They're so happy.
18:19Oh, my God.
18:21Hi, darling. Are you all right?
18:23Yes.
18:24It's just so fake.
18:26Are you OK?
18:28Yeah.
18:29Why have you walked in together?
18:31Why have you walked in together?
18:33What do you mean?
18:34Why have you walked in together?
18:36Do you not think that that's giving everyone, like, false hope?
18:39What do you mean?
18:40We talked to Swallow, she was dead.
18:42Oh, you did?
18:43That's really confronting, isn't it?
18:45Why did you walk in together?
18:46Absolutely.
18:47What's it got to do with you, Polly?
18:49You know, at this point, she's really inserting herself
18:52into someone else's relationship.
18:54Fill it up, Ross. Fill it up.
18:56Oh, you're getting smashed.
18:57Yeah, mate.
18:58I'm going to fucking need it after they've just walked in.
19:01Go on, talk to me.
19:03Yeah, it's been tough.
19:05It's been a tough week, just mentally.
19:07It's just been draining.
19:08But we're fine. We are actually fine.
19:11Well, it's almost like Eve and Charlie
19:13are in two completely different relationships.
19:15Here's Charlie saying to Casper,
19:17everything's fine, we're going OK.
19:19And it sounds like, on the other hand,
19:21Eve is telling a very negative story
19:23about what's going on between them.
19:27So what's changed since last night
19:29for you to want to walk in together?
19:31I just think that's really confusing.
19:33Um...
19:34Do you know what I mean?
19:36We just talked, we got everything off our chest.
19:38And we more or less said
19:39that we're just going round in a fucking circle,
19:41so if we don't, we either need to make a decision
19:43to this isn't good for us and go,
19:46or we need to try and squish everything.
19:48I just cannot fathom how you are putting yourself
19:51in this position when you've divulged
19:54as kind of much as what you have.
19:57And it's not good, Eve.
19:59Don't do this now.
20:01This is not fucking healthy, Eve.
20:03You cannot keep lying to yourself with what's happened
20:07because all you're going to do is change who you are
20:10for someone else who's not giving you what you want.
20:12And it's not fucking fair.
20:14She wants me to move in, move in, move in.
20:16At least if I do that, I can say I've done everything.
20:19If you are not happy,
20:20then you need to remove yourself from this situation
20:23because you two walking in how you are
20:25when she's been how she's been towards you
20:27is not normal because you are not how you were
20:30when we met you on the hen do.
20:32And I'm not having it, I'm not letting you change who you are
20:34because you want to please someone else.
20:36I just think we needed, like, a...
20:38setting boundaries and just having a good chat.
20:41It was good. Like, it's just what I needed
20:43because I've just been spending a lot of time on my own.
20:46I'm sorry, guys. I know I've been rubbish.
20:48Chas, it's just...
20:49You haven't been rubbish. We've all gone through shit.
20:51If you feel better for that, own it, yeah,
20:53but at the same time, just know that we're going to be around.
20:55I know, and I know you're all here.
20:57Don't feel like you have to be on your own.
20:59This, I'm not, I'm not having this.
21:01I just don't need any more fuel putting the fire out at the minute.
21:04No, no, no. Can I just make the decision myself?
21:06Yes, absolutely.
21:07You know, I have talked about my head, right?
21:09And, you know, there she is, that she doesn't like me seeing any of you,
21:12she doesn't like me doing anything because I'm not spending time with her,
21:15and she's made it out like I'm just running after all news
21:17and wanting to hunt it out with her, and it's not true.
21:19If you don't want to be in our company and you don't feel safe with our company,
21:22what are you going to do, sit in a room on your own?
21:24What you're seeing is two different forms of support.
21:26What is happening right now with the ladies and Eve
21:29is anger towards Charlie.
21:31What you see happening with Charlie and her group is actual support and advice,
21:35and this shows you how friends can be incredibly dangerous
21:39and detrimental to your relationships.
21:41That's right.
21:42You know what she said yesterday?
21:43I go, I can't get over what you did on honeymoon.
21:45She goes, pfft, that was two weeks ago, mate.
21:47And she says to me, I know.
21:50Where is she?
21:51I don't know.
21:56I'm going to go and put on.
22:02Hello.
22:03Come on, darling.
22:08Take the positive out of everything, that's it.
22:11Hi, darling.
22:12How's it been?
22:15How's it been?
22:16Honestly, come on, cut the bullshit.
22:18How's it been?
22:20Why's it been bad?
22:21We've not moved in with each other yet.
22:24We're just bickering.
22:25We did a task the other day.
22:27What did you have? What was that?
22:28To write a letter to each other.
22:30OK.
22:31Something that we haven't told each other yet.
22:32OK.
22:33But she refused to do it.
22:35I kind of just felt like,
22:36are you actually in this for the real deal, you know?
22:38Have you acknowledged what you've done to her
22:41that's made her how she is with you?
22:43Yeah, like, I feel like I've apologised, I've said I'm sorry.
22:46I literally, I don't know if, like,
22:48there's not really much else I can do.
22:49Can you see what you've done to her is a bit...
22:53It's a bit of a bully.
22:57Ouch.
22:58A bully?
22:59You are very much...
23:00A bully.
23:01OK.
23:02That's what...
23:03The things that she's saying, do you know what I mean?
23:05No, not at all,
23:06because I don't feel like I've acted like that.
23:10Cool.
23:11So that's what everyone thinks of me, that I'm a bully?
23:13No, no, no. No, no, no.
23:14That's not...
23:15Who used the word bully, then?
23:16Me.
23:17But you haven't asked me at all what went down.
23:19No, I haven't, and this is why I've just told you what I've said,
23:21which is why I'm now asking.
23:22And personally, I don't feel comfortable talking to you about it,
23:25if I'm totally honest.
23:26OK.
23:30Hello.
23:31You all right?
23:32Yeah.
23:35Hello.
23:36Come by, ma.
23:37Come by, ma.
23:39Bully, lol.
23:41Oh, yeah.
23:42Fantastic.
23:43Yeah, great.
23:52Yes, it's very clear that Charlie feels completely attacked
23:55by Polly tonight.
23:56Mm-hm.
23:57Polly has misread the situation,
23:59or she's only half read the situation,
24:01and she's pounced too soon and she's really done some damage here.
24:04What's happening?
24:05Nothing, I don't even want to talk about it.
24:07How are you guys?
24:08I ain't got me, though, yeah.
24:09Good.
24:10Yeah, just watching it.
24:11Good.
24:12Good.
24:13Good.
24:17I need to get out of this room.
24:18Yeah.
24:22That conversation did not go well.
24:24What is this all about?
24:26I called Charlie a bully.
24:34She was like, where did that come from?
24:36And I said, me.
24:37I said, I said it.
24:39So that didn't go well.
24:41I'm not going to lie about it.
24:45Charlie, what happened there?
24:47She called me a bully.
24:48What did she say?
24:49Apparently I've been bullying you.
24:50I told her not to get involved today.
24:51Please.
24:52How much have you told these people?
24:53Because I literally cannot believe that she has just said on camera
24:56that she thinks that I'm a bully.
24:58Is that what you've been telling people?
25:00I've told them things that have happened, yeah.
25:01The honeymoon, what all the things she said to me and all I did.
25:03And that makes me a bully?
25:05I felt bullied.
25:09I wish you'd spoken to me about that, Eve.
25:10I did tell you that, Charlie.
25:12You didn't tell me that you thought I was a bully.
25:13Charlie, I told you that you were bullying me.
25:14But verbally and mentally.
25:15Didn't I say you were emotionally and verbally abusing me?
25:17Didn't I? Yeah.
25:18You didn't call me a bully.
25:19That's a horrible word.
25:20That could be her.
25:21That could be her use of the word.
25:22That's an awful word.
25:23But I did tell you this, Charlie.
25:25Please, I did.
25:26I know, I know, I know.
25:27But I feel like I've taken accountability for it
25:29and that is just not fair.
25:31You haven't even given me a chance to even build a relationship with them.
25:33I did tell them not to get involved today.
25:35I swear to God, I say it, I say it, I say it.
25:37I know, I know, I know, I know, I know.
25:39I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know.
25:42I swear to God, Charlie, I told her not to.
25:44She promised me she wouldn't.
25:45She shouldn't have said that to you.
25:47Not there.
25:48I can't do this.
25:49I know.
25:50I don't want to do this anymore.
25:51It's OK.
25:52It's OK.
25:53I'm not a bully.
25:54I'm sorry for what I did to you.
25:55I know.
25:56But that doesn't make me a bully.
25:57Do you want to go?
25:58Please, just get the cameras off me now.
25:59Just give her a minute.
26:00I'm so upset.
26:01Is that what you really think I've done to you?
26:02I'm so sorry.
26:03I didn't mean to make you feel like that.
26:04Come here, come here, come here, come here.
26:05I'm sorry.
26:06I'm sorry.
26:07I'm sorry.
26:08I'm sorry.
26:09I'm sorry.
26:10I'm sorry.
26:11I'm sorry.
26:12I'm sorry.
26:13I'm sorry.
26:14I'm sorry.
26:15I'm sorry.
26:16You have never heard of someone who's been bullied like that.
26:18Come here, come here, come here, come here, come here.
26:24Do you know what happened, then, with Jale?
26:36Do you know what Polly said?
26:38Apparently, Polly said that she's a bully.
26:42Oh.
26:43That's why she walked out.
26:44Did Paul say that is how I decided to say you're a bully. Yeah, I said she sounds like a bully
26:51The one thing I have realized tonight. Yeah, it's Charlie's basically spent all of this week on our own
26:56Maybe we need to tread carefully with them. Yeah. Yeah, of course
27:00I think he's had a lot of shoulders to cry on I wouldn't say Charlie's have to say
27:08All right, oh my goodness
27:11What is he doing by the line get a cuddle big lad, where's your loss? It's not very well, it's not very well
27:20Yeah, yes, I was not ready for that
27:24It's good. Then. Yeah. Yeah, mate. Yeah, we're good. Very good you
27:28Yeah, we're getting better. Good. There's more. I'm complimenting her and
27:33I'm being a little bit more affectionate
27:35I just don't want to force it, but she understands that and that's the main thing
27:40I always feel like there's so much more that Adam isn't saying he's holding back. Isn't he?
27:47He's not really saying what he's feeling
27:53Always back Oh Eve's back alone. Thank you so much for speaking to her
28:01Yeah
28:02Is she coming back I don't know
28:10So
28:12Yeah, I said that she was a buddy to you and I really appreciate you doing it and I can't help but be so relieved
28:17Hmm, well, I just like me with the timing was wrong. I get that
28:21I am really sorry that I might have done it in the wrong way. Thank you
28:24She's not
28:28Eve's being a little duplicitous here if you ask me. Yes when she's in the presence of Charlie
28:33She shows loyalty to her now. She's here with Polly. She's showing loyalty to her. It's hard to know where her real position is
28:41Tell us some goss
28:43What's happening with you and Ali? We have not had a conversation
28:47Like you two were cool. Like how could you go from you know, I mean zero to 100
28:53I do want to have a conversation with him and stuff, but I just scares me that it's gonna escalate again
28:57And I don't want that
28:58I just want us to have a clear mindset and just talk and it'd be okay and we agreed to disagree but in a
29:03respectful manner
29:18Don't be last
29:23I
29:25Feel like you need to make the effort
29:29You're right
29:35This can't be easy for honey say my bro
29:54I'm in trouble
29:58Well her anger at him didn't last long that's a very fast kiss and make up I'm confused you confused
30:05Yeah, I think as soon as she laid eyes on Alex
30:09She just melted because she massively fancies him
30:12We know that they have great sexual chemistry, but lust is only going to get them so far. They need to work on communication
30:20You look really nice, thank you. So do you know I'm really nice you dropped the bomb
30:27What's the crack man, we need to learn on communication I think I
30:32Do care about you. I really hope we can work past this between us both
30:37Because there obviously is something
30:40It's cool, man. We just work on it, man
30:43Because we know we can get on because look at you look at our honeymoon. Everything was fine until the first dinner party
30:49And then I don't know it just turned into a shit show I apologize if I made you feel anyway, and I'm sorry
30:55It's really nice to see it. They've made up and that they're in a good place and that hopefully they're able to move forward from this
31:10You actually you are
31:18Oh
31:22Look at it
31:25Rochelle, okay
31:29Charlie's back
31:31So they've managed to repair something
31:34Let's see how far it goes. I was completely taken off guard with Polly. She came into that conversation
31:40in a
31:41Totally disrespectful way. I didn't even really want to go back in but me and Eve have had a conversation
31:47And I've decided to join the dinner party for our sake as a couple
31:57Red flag
32:04You are too busy fuming about being
32:13It's once there's something fair Sasha look at me then
32:18And I just want to say the best thing for me I appreciate how much you have been communicating with me
32:24It's better. I'm there. So it means a lot to me
32:28Everybody looking good. I'm
32:47I
33:02Charlie still looks pretty frosty with Polly
33:15You're okay
33:17I mean, I'd be lying if I said I was fine
33:24And she doesn't know
33:26To make a judgment based on a one-sided conversation is really really harsh. Yeah, and I would have much preferred
33:36Maybe spoken to me like an actual human being rather than just glaring into my soul like I've gone and done the worst thing in
33:43the world
33:48Just bitchy and like it's nasty and it's unnecessary
33:53But yeah, I won't be wasting my breath on her anymore
34:01Wow, yeah quite a steer
34:03I
34:16Think I was not feeling good. It's
34:19Like a night and day from commitment ceremony. He's woken up every day being positive. Have you snogged?
34:25Oh, no, no snogging yet. No snogging yet. I reckon he's gonna get in there
34:29Definitely a step in the right direction. The energy is better
34:35The positivity is starting to build but they still haven't snogged so they haven't moved their relationship out of the friendzone yet
34:41Oh
34:50Kissing again good again
34:57How lovely to see so much kissing around a table physical intimacy definitely growing with some of that couple, yes
35:11Meanwhile
35:35I think I'm gonna try and grab a chopper. Just be nice
35:42Oh, well
35:54Have you got something to say, you know, yeah, but I'd rather tell them I okay cool
36:11I
36:27First of all, I want to apologize. I do really want to apologize because I did not take
36:34Your thoughts and feelings into consideration over the last week. I am really sorry
36:40And I do really appreciate you obviously opening up to me
36:43With the whole Eve situation because you didn't have to and you did I'm now if you're happy to
36:50finish off this conversation about
36:53How you think it's gone and for me to just I appreciate your apology
36:57But I don't feel I'm ready to talk to you about my relationship
37:02Fine. I don't really know you I
37:05Keep my cards close to my chest and I'm just
37:09What goes on between me and Eve is actually me and Eve and I just don't I don't I don't feel ready to know
37:14I get that and I accept that and I will respect that. Thank you. I am really sorry about it's okay
37:19How I come into it without
37:21Thinking of how you felt before I kind of come into it. It's okay. Thank you very much
37:26Do you feel like that was resolved not there? Yeah, it seems like there's so much tension and animosity still left between them
37:33The words were great. The actions were great, but ultimately I feel like we're back at square one
37:42It's not yeah, I accept her apology good
38:04It was going well
38:08My anxiety
38:11Good evening in this box the questions designed to help you as couples
38:17They will encourage you to open up and strengthen your marriages
38:21The questions are genuinely
38:24Constructed to help all of you on your journey. So please be honest
38:29Love Paul Mel and Charlene
38:34We love you too wait until you see what's in the box
38:40Right Emma, what is the biggest obstacle standing in the way of our happiness?
38:49In a relationship definitely sex
38:53In
38:58Order for us to be happy in a relationship obviously intimacy is a is a great thing and like
39:04We're a while off that don't get me wrong. But that's the thing. I'm probably thinking most about like is, you know
39:11Will we have a shag?
39:17I'd love to be top shagging with you
39:19Of course this is another example of Emma using her humor and her fun playful nature to hide something that is really quite painful for her
39:27At the moment. She's feeling rejected by Casper. Yeah
39:33My blushing
39:40Go on raw
39:42What have you learned about your sex life and how do you feel about it and how do you feel about it?
39:48About yourself so far
39:51So I've learned that when I feel safe I can be very physically affectionate
39:59Loving my walls can come down very quickly. I can be vulnerable
40:04I always thought that was a me thing, but it must be the
40:07Picking the wrong people because when I'm with you, I'm a different person. So I've learned a lot
40:12Oh
40:14Isn't that beautiful that is so powerful
40:18For Sasha to say that I thought I couldn't communicate in relationships previously because it was me
40:23But now I realize I didn't feel safe. I'm safe with you. Yeah, really powerful stuff
40:29Charlie
40:30What can I do to improve our marriage?
40:39And
40:42I think just
40:46Allow me to prove to you that I'm here for like the right reasons and I want to prove to you that I I
40:51Am NOT the person that you think I am and like just give me the opportunity
40:55To show you that I'm not that person that was on the honeymoon
41:00Believe me when I say that that was a blip. I'm so serious about this and like I'm sorry for the mistakes
41:06I've made I just want you to come full steam ahead with me and allow me to prove you wrong
41:11I'm not here to hurt you and I'm not here to be a dickhead and I'm actually a pretty right person
41:29So Eve how likely do you feel that we can get back to how happy we were on our wedding day
41:41I
41:44Think what we've seen here is that Charlie is clearly still invested in this relationship
41:49In spite of all that's happened and she's been very vulnerable here in front of everyone
41:55Mmm, it's brave. Yeah, I
41:58Definitely have hope I definitely do
42:01You know, we had a rough
42:03Time in Mexico and at the end of that I don't think me and you thought we could come back from that either of us
42:09Then we had the dinner party and it was so it was so so good
42:15And I did think you know what this can frickin work and then we've dipped again. So
42:22How the start of today like I was so overwhelmed today like I couldn't console myself at all
42:27Like I was in a horrible place again. I didn't think we'd come back from it and then you know
42:32You and Polly had the conversation and then I just seen hurting you and when I chased you
42:37Broke my heart to see you like that and then you know, we talked and stuff
42:41So I do have hope that we'll be able to get back on track
42:44I do I do
42:46See, I'm sorry for what I know. Listen, I think we've got this in the bag if we just do the bare minimum
42:51Maybe there is hope between even Charlie because Eve sees a path forward clearly Charlie's fighting for it
42:57And that's all you need is two people who want to fight for their relationship
43:07Okay, what do you most admire about me
43:24And you got this house
43:28The only guy who's ever made me feel so beautiful even when I wake up first thing in the morning
43:33I
43:56Have craved
43:58Just someone to
44:00Make me feel so comfortable in my body for so many years and when was on the honeymoon like
44:06You made me feel so sexy in my bikini with my little mom Tom and stretch marks a little power marks
44:14And you've shown me like all that self-love. I've worked on so many years
44:18Like there's a man out there that will look at me and admire that
44:22I
44:28Love that that is so special for Holly to be feeling that
44:34That was that was so nice. Well done guys. I was well done, babe
44:42What do I need to do to deepen our connection Oh God
44:48Our
44:50Connection right now is is deep enough for what it should be at this point in our relationship
44:56I don't think if we could get any deeper with you know without rushing it
45:00So I think our connection is good. I think it's strong. Honestly, what you're doing is enough
45:12Next question
45:14What could I do to improve our marriage?
45:18I
45:19Feel like in the last two days
45:21We have definitely taken a step in the right direction and as soon as I'm gonna get really emotional
45:28I
45:29Know I am so overwhelming and so full-on and so sensitive and so so emotional
45:36I
45:43Couldn't imagine you in another light
45:45Like I love I love everything about you
45:49Even when you be in this crazy Christina that you think you're being I'm like, this is amazing. This is what I need in me life
45:59Wow, I mean the one thing Christina needs to hear is I accept you as you are and he's just saying that
46:06Absolutely, naturally
46:08It's quite clear that these two have started peeling back
46:10Those layers of fun and started looking at each other as two humans trying to connect. It's very beautiful. Yeah
46:17Karen
46:20Can you see yourself falling for me? Yeah
46:36It means the absolute world
46:41Adam yeah
46:44What do you think you should do to prevent us from being stuck in the friend zone
46:49If we're stuck in the friend zone
46:51That's because I'm not ready to take it to that next step
46:54And if I take it to that next step and then a couple of weeks time say I'm not feeling it still
46:59That would upset you and hurt you. So
47:01Yeah, but I feel like you've dodged that question because that's what you say to that every time you're asked that is but that is
47:06the truth
47:08That's not really dodging the question. Yeah, but you have we are the question because you've said that to every time you've been asked it
47:14But you that's that questions asking me how we got the friend zone
47:17Well, it says what do you think should prevent us from getting stuck in the friend? Oh prevent?
47:22I thought it says take us. No prevent us. Oh
47:25Well, my so I'm sorry rethink rethink what do you think you should do to prevent and listen I
47:33Get it. You just read it. No, don't start getting Aggie at me
47:39You've just read it to me I get the question now ask for you know, I get it now
47:43I just said I apologize for getting it wrong
47:45Jesus I
47:48Feel like I'm annoyed down my answer is not gonna be the truth. I'm just feel like I'm pissed off now
47:52My piss off for
47:54Because she I heard the question and then she's literally talking to me. I come a piece of shit
47:58Yeah, I'm saying I prevent like I heard the question
48:04Watching Adam. It seems that throughout the night
48:06There's been an accumulation of lots of little digs lots of little occasions where Polly has given him feedback to say you're not doing it
48:13Right, this is really the accumulation of that where now I think he feels he's being picked on
48:17I do feel like you spoke to me the tone
48:20I've not not not heard before. It was a different tone
48:27Just wait, does everyone just shut up for a minute? I
48:33Reworded in a way that you'd understand I didn't say that to you in any type of shitty. I need there's gonna be shit questions anyway
48:43Fucking hell ask the fucking question
48:51Oh does our level of physical intimacy
48:55Everyone please just shut up just shut up
49:05Come on
49:13That's just how I fell
49:16All right, no, it isn't all right though
49:18But you just fucking made me like a dickhead in front of everyone else because you've taken it different
49:22I felt like an idiot in front of everyone
49:33I will fucking leave in a minute. You need to just shut up because I need to just listen to one person
49:40I just felt like an idiot from giving some massive explanation and then use like you don't in the question
49:46I
50:01Heard the question wrong gave you an answer and you went you thought the question tried to make me look stupid
50:06I'm not what you need and then I read it and I was like, oh shit. I apologize everyone
50:10Try to make I said I said I apologize everyone. I've read it wrong
50:13So that Adam's deflecting the question that I've asked him
50:15It does give me doubts and it's made me realize that things aren't where I thought they were
50:20I just wanted him to be honest and open with how he feels. I didn't try to make it look stupid
50:25I'm ready again, but it made me look stupid
50:27I'm gonna lie to you and pretend it didn't upset me or like piss me off. It pissed me off
50:30I've seen a side to other I don't really like if Polly continues to talk to me like a child
50:35Then she's not the right person for me and this marriage isn't going to work
50:43Next time I feel content. I feel so sure the strength of some marriages
50:49I can't see myself on folks. You know, yeah, there is so much love around and I just don't feel that with Casper
50:56Highlights the weakness of others. I've pulled back. I don't know where she's at. I feel like I've got a guard up now
51:02I don't look into Polly's eyes and think I really want to kiss you. Oh my god
51:07And as Charlie demands answers, what did you do last night you went into my safe space, that's not true
51:14Oh my god, I'm lying again. Someone please Eve is in the firing line Eve with respect. You've lied on the couch today
51:37You