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00:00Namaskar, I am Madhulika Singh and in a special interview of Rajasthan Patika, we have with us a person who is a mother, a sister, a daughter and a wife.
00:09And in all those forms, she has established her own identity. She is known as a strong woman.
00:15Since she has come to Mewar, she has won the hearts of the people of Mewar with her simplicity and a gentle behavior.
00:20So, Mr. Nivrati, we welcome you.
00:23Namaskar.
00:24I wish you a very happy Navratri.
00:26I wish you a very happy Navratri.
00:28I wish you a very happy Navratri and I wish all the viewers a very happy Navratri.
00:33First of all, I would like to know, there is a belief among the common people that the royal families live a royal life.
00:41So, what is your opinion on this?
00:43And the treatment you have been given since the beginning, how is it that you belong to Odisha?
00:48So, from the beginning, you must have been brought up like princesses.
00:52So, what kind of culture was there and what kind of culture is there here?
00:55And is the treatment still the same?
00:58I think when you are born in such a family, then there are a lot of responsibilities along with privileges.
01:10And as we know that life is the best teacher, teaches everything.
01:19So, as you grow up, you learn, you begin to understand what your responsibilities are.
01:28Not just towards you, not just towards your family, but also towards the people.
01:34So, people have a lot of expectations and they have a lot of love.
01:40It is now your responsibility to give that respect.
01:47So, when you know that responsibility, it takes a back seat.
01:59So, definitely we are blessed to be born in such a family.
02:08I mean, God chose us and gave us birth in such a family.
02:13Then I am very fortunate that I have married into such a family.
02:21So, the responsibility increases even more.
02:26Ma'am, my next question is that you belong to Odisha.
02:30And the culture of Mewar is very different.
02:33So, how did you manage to settle here? How did you put yourself here?
02:38I think it happened very naturally and organically.
02:42As I said in the answer to the previous question, you understand it.
02:52So, when you understand it, you naturally get immersed in that color.
02:57During the wedding, my father and my father-in-law sat together and discussed the customs, traditions and rituals of our wedding.
03:21During that time, we came to know that even though we are from the East and West,
03:30but our Sanatan culture is very common.
03:35Hindu culture is very common.
03:37So, the names are different, but our culture is very similar.
03:42So, there was no difference.
03:47Even there, our attire is very similar.
03:51We just wear the costumes here.
03:54There, we wear more sari.
03:57So, there was no different feeling.
04:02It was a very normal feeling.
04:05And when I came here after getting married, I always say that it felt like I reached the right place.
04:13Everyone was very warm and welcoming.
04:18And I think the credit for that goes to the family here.
04:23They welcomed me so happily in their family that I never felt like I was joining someone else's family.
04:34The same treatment was there.
04:36Yes, and the behavior of the people was the same.
04:39And I am very thankful and grateful to the people here for the love they have shown towards me.
04:49Yes, they will always love you.
04:52Yes, thank you.
04:53Ma'am, I wanted to know about your routine.
04:55What kind of a routine do you have?
04:57You want to spend time with your children and your children also want to spend time with you.
05:03So, how much time can you give them?
05:06You must have a lot of work to do in your busy life.
05:10Actually, the children spend time on their own.
05:14Whether they are busy or not, if they need their mother,
05:19then somehow or the other, if they were here right now,
05:23they would have been sitting in front of me in this interview to spend their time.
05:29And for me, as it happens for every homemaker,
05:35I am a homemaker and family is the first priority.
05:42So, if they need me, they come first.
05:48That is their priority.
05:50So, everything else is adjusted around them.
05:55So, the day starts with them and ends with them.
06:01You can say that a mother comes first in all the roles.
06:04A mother's responsibilities come first.
06:06A mother has a lot of responsibilities, definitely.
06:09Every mother has a lot of responsibilities.
06:11But my good fortune is that I get a lot of support from my family.
06:16Whether it is from my in-laws or from my parents.
06:20There has always been a lot of support.
06:23There is a saying in English that to raise a child,
06:27you need the whole village.
06:29A single person cannot raise a child.
06:33So, here, all the people, whether they are family members,
06:39extended family members, staff, help, teachers, school,
06:46we all work together to raise the children,
06:52to nurture them, to give them values.
06:56We all try to do this together.
07:01One of my questions is that,
07:04Laksharaj ji is known for his attitude towards the common people.
07:11And you have the same nature.
07:15How much support do you want from him?
07:18How supportive is he as a husband to you?
07:23I think he didn't give me a chance to leave.
07:27Because he has been very supportive from the beginning.
07:31And it is my good fortune that I didn't have to say such things.
07:39Because he has always been supportive without saying anything.
07:45And his biggest example is with the children.
07:52In the upbringing of the children,
07:55when they were small, I always used to say this,
07:59but in today's people, I feel that a lot of fathers hesitate
08:06that they will not change the diapers of their children,
08:09they will not bathe them, they will not feed them,
08:12they just want to be involved in the time of playing.
08:16But Maharaj Kumar, despite being a Maharaj Kumar, he does everything.
08:22And spending time with the children is also his priority.
08:28He is so busy, he travels a lot,
08:32he has meetings, he has to give time in the office,
08:36he has social commitments,
08:38but despite that, he takes out time for the children.
08:42This is a very good thing.
08:44He is also playing the role of a father very well.
08:47Ma'am, I would like to know,
08:49it has been 10 years and you have 3 children,
08:53what do you do for fitness?
08:56Do you do yoga or do some exercises?
09:01All these things happen off and on,
09:04as time permits, as schedule permits,
09:07we try to do it, yoga of course,
09:12walking is part of our life only.
09:17Like my parents had elections,
09:22so during the time of propaganda, walking was the only thing,
09:25so despite that, we have to focus on health,
09:33even if not for ourselves, but for the family.
09:37And apart from that, as you said, there are 3 children,
09:42and Maharaj Kumar runs between the children,
09:48I think that becomes a lot of exercise.
09:51Yes, yes, yes.
09:53All these mothers do this exercise.
09:56I think every mother does this,
09:59from husband to family, from children,
10:03while catering for everyone, their life is spent.
10:08Yes, yes.
10:09Ma'am, I would also like to know from you,
10:11what are your hobbies,
10:13and how do you take out time for yourself,
10:16even though there are many hobbies,
10:18but for you, how much time do you give yourself?
10:21Any special hobby, or what do you like to do?
10:25I think hobbies are such things,
10:29they are ever-developing,
10:31they keep changing,
10:33or you keep adding new hobbies,
10:38so definitely reading was a big hobby,
10:41but after the birth of the children,
10:44it has been left behind.
10:46Listening to music,
10:48driving is something that I am very very passionate about,
10:53I love driving,
10:55and there is a way to unwind.
11:01Apart from that,
11:03some things that I like,
11:06about history,
11:08or about my heritage,
11:11the place where I am from, Urussa,
11:15and the place where I got married,
11:18in Mewar,
11:19I like to know about that place,
11:23and while reading about that place,
11:29I get to know about the similarities,
11:32like what is the old relationship between Urussa and Mewar,
11:36whether it is the Jagannath Mahaprabhu's temple,
11:39or the Jagadish temple,
11:41so it is very nice to know about these things,
11:44about festivals,
11:46about our rituals,
11:49this is very close to my heart.
11:53What kind of movies do you like to watch?
11:57I think light movies,
12:00Any recent movies that you have watched,
12:03or any favorite?
12:05Oh God!
12:07The recent movies that I have watched,
12:09may not be a recent release,
12:13but I can't remember them off the top of my head.
12:19Ma'am, we will also talk about a serious topic,
12:22as you know,
12:24the crimes against women,
12:27have increased a lot,
12:29and you must have heard about Kolkata rape case,
12:32so I would like to know your views on this,
12:35what kind of criminals should be punished,
12:39or how should they be scared,
12:42so that the crimes against women reduce,
12:46should there be such a law?
12:50Definitely, everything is dependent on the law,
12:56and this is a very sensitive topic,
13:01a very serious issue,
13:03and as a woman,
13:05as a mother,
13:07I feel very strongly about this topic,
13:12but what can be done,
13:17what can't be done,
13:19what should be done,
13:21there can be a lot of discussion about it,
13:23but the government,
13:26is capable of talking about these issues,
13:31and it is their department to make laws,
13:36so I have a lot of faith in our Prime Minister,
13:43and I believe that the kind of laws he is bringing,
13:50to strengthen women,
13:53to keep them safe,
13:55and to take action with strength,
14:02I have a lot of faith in this.
14:05Yes, it should be done,
14:07because all the women,
14:09as you can imagine,
14:11the kind of crimes that are happening,
14:13it should not be like that,
14:15our India is worshipped for women,
14:17and Navratri is also going on,
14:19so if Shakti is worshipped,
14:21no one will be able to bear the condition of Shakti.
14:23I am the mother of two daughters,
14:25so I feel very angry,
14:29I feel very bad,
14:33and I feel more bad,
14:37that the daughters who are being tortured,
14:41what is happening to their mother?
14:43Nirbhaya, talk to Kant,
14:45and in all these years,
14:47no change has been made,
14:49their mother is still asking for justice,
14:51and the situation is still the same,
14:53so there should be strict laws,
14:57I think.
14:59Yes, there should be,
15:01and I have faith that it will be done,
15:03but we should also look at other countries,
15:09where the laws are so strict,
15:11that people themselves,
15:13go in the right direction,
15:15but let us see,
15:19we will have to have faith in the government.
15:23Ma'am, one more question,
15:25as you know that
15:27youth are more influenced by social media,
15:31so how would you like to give a message to the youth,
15:35that social media overpowers them,
15:37and they should not be like that,
15:39and the children also,
15:41they grasp a lot of things,
15:43so they should not do such things,
15:45so can you give a message on this?
15:49I think, even with regards to mental health,
15:53if social media is linked to mental health,
15:57so if you talk about it,
16:03because a lot of people,
16:05ask for validation from social media,
16:07and the children,
16:09the youth,
16:11at such a young age,
16:13I think,
16:15when they are at an impressionable age,
16:17at that time,
16:19it is very important
16:21to make them understand,
16:23that the real validation,
16:25you can only give to yourself,
16:27you can ask for validation from your family,
16:33but from the rest of the world,
16:35that validation,
16:37especially through social media,
16:39should not be expected,
16:43because,
16:45this is also a very serious issue,
16:49where the children,
16:51they are committing suicide,
16:53they are committing suicide,
16:55they are doing dangerous things,
16:57to break records,
16:59they go to different places,
17:01to different corners,
17:03and their lives are lost,
17:05they feel very bad,
17:07so I think,
17:09they need to know,
17:11they need to be taught,
17:13that they are self-sufficient,
17:15they should have that confidence,
17:17on themselves,
17:19that I am not dependent on anyone else,
17:21for happiness,
17:23I have to give happiness to myself,
17:25I have to give confidence to myself,
17:27if you,
17:29are going through any pain,
17:33so for that pain also,
17:35till you don't make yourself understand,
17:37how can anyone else make you understand,
17:41absolutely,
17:43parents also have a very important role,
17:45I think,
17:47they should also see the children,
17:49they should guide them,
17:51absolutely,
17:53only parents can teach these things,
17:55but then,
17:57the child also needs to make himself understand,
17:59one thing is that,
18:01now a days,
18:03people also go to counsellors,
18:05I feel,
18:07in India,
18:09counsellors have not started,
18:11till now,
18:13because,
18:15in most of the joint families,
18:17I mean,
18:19they don't stay,
18:21but they used to stay,
18:23they used to stay,
18:25because,
18:27there were so many people in the house,
18:29there used to be a person,
18:31with whom you could talk,
18:33share,
18:35and he could give you advice,
18:37or he could make you understand,
18:39and you could also give him,
18:41that level,
18:43that you could take advice from him,
18:45or you could understand from him,
18:47but if,
18:49today's youth,
18:51will not keep an open mind,
18:53then how will it happen,
18:55so that understanding,
18:57that you have to keep an open mind,
18:59is necessary,
19:01parents also have an important role in this,
19:03I think,
19:05that they should also see the children,
19:07they should guide them,
19:09absolutely,
19:11and these things can only be taught by parents,
19:13but then,
19:15the child also needs to make himself understand,
19:17one thing is that,
19:19now a days,
19:21people also go to counsellors,
19:23I feel,
19:25I feel,
19:27that,
19:29this has not started yet,
19:31because,
19:33in most of the joint families,
19:35I mean,
19:37they don't stay,
19:39but they used to stay,
19:41they used to stay,
19:43because there were so many people in the house,
19:45there used to be a person,
19:47with whom you could talk,
19:49share,
19:51and he could give you advice,
19:53or he could make you understand,
19:55and you could also,
19:57give him that level,
19:59that you could take advice from him,
20:01or you could understand from him,
20:03but if,
20:05today's youth,
20:07will not keep an open mind,
20:09then how will it happen,
20:11so that understanding,
20:13parents have to give to the children,
20:15that it is necessary to keep an open mind,
20:17that,
20:19even if they are not relatives,
20:21if you feel more comfort,
20:23in a counsellor,
20:25then go to the counsellor,
20:27to talk,
20:29but if,
20:31in my situation,
20:33I,
20:35rather than going to someone else,
20:37I would like to talk more,
20:39in my family,
20:41first of all,
20:43I will talk to Mr. Maharaj Kumar,
20:45after marriage,
20:47I will talk more to Mr. Maharaj Kumar,
20:49I will talk to my parents,
20:51and that confidence,
20:53which my husband,
20:55or my parents can give me,
20:57today,
20:59I talk to my children also,
21:01children talk to me,
21:03so I feel,
21:05that confidence,
21:07which you get from your inner circle,
21:09no one else can give you that,
21:11and if there is any,
21:13lack there,
21:15then maybe,
21:17there is a communication gap,
21:19between parents,
21:21routine life,
21:23parents are also working,
21:25they are not able to give time to their children,
21:27children are hesitating,
21:29how to talk to their parents,
21:31if something has happened to them,
21:33how to deal with it,
21:35yes,
21:37digital media,
21:39in the sense,
21:41social media,
21:43social media,
21:45instruments,
21:47phones,
21:49tablets,
21:51because of these things,
21:53nowadays,
21:55children are facing a lot of problems,
21:59it is scientifically,
22:01proven,
22:03a lot of research has been done on it,
22:05so,
22:07my suggestion,
22:09is that,
22:11as far as possible,
22:13keep a distance from it,
22:15I know a lot of people,
22:17who monitor the screen time,
22:19of their children,
22:21what are they seeing,
22:23what are they listening,
22:25what are they learning from it,
22:27they check it,
22:29and then say,
22:31you can see this, you can't see that,
22:33so,
22:35all these things,
22:37if you take a little personal attention,
22:39or personal interest,
22:41then,
22:43it can be beneficial for the children also,
22:47Ma'am, this is a serious topic,
22:49let's move away from it,
22:51now, I would like to know,
22:53your father and mother,
22:55both have a political background,
22:57so,
22:59what do you think about it,
23:01and what do you see in the future,
23:03to go into politics,
23:05or something like that,
23:07in politics,
23:09here,
23:11I would like to say,
23:13that first of all,
23:15my parents,
23:17are the third generation,
23:19from my father's family,
23:21they are the third generation,
23:23who are in politics,
23:25my great grandfather,
23:27was the first one,
23:29who joined in politics,
23:31and,
23:33he has been a chief minister,
23:35he has been an MLA,
23:37then, my grandfather,
23:39was an MP,
23:41and,
23:43after him,
23:45my parents,
23:47and many people from my father's family,
23:49many people from our family,
23:51are in politics,
23:53and,
23:55ever,
23:57what I have seen,
23:59from my childhood,
24:01and what I know,
24:03from people,
24:05who have given their blessings,
24:07again and again,
24:11my family,
24:13has spent their life,
24:15serving people,
24:17and,
24:19they,
24:21became public servants,
24:23to serve people,
24:25became public representatives,
24:27to serve people,
24:29they have never joined politics,
24:31with their selfishness,
24:33they have never joined politics,
24:35with their selfishness,
24:37so,
24:39it is very important to understand,
24:41that when you do politics,
24:43with this mindset,
24:45then,
24:47you have to sacrifice a lot,
24:49from your family,
24:51I mean,
24:53you are not able to give time,
24:55to your family,
24:57your time,
24:59is not yours,
25:01and,
25:03more than that,
25:05your thoughts,
25:07are not only yours,
25:09if you,
25:11join a party,
25:13I mean,
25:15if you represent a party,
25:17then,
25:19you have to stay in tune,
25:21with the party's ideology,
25:23and,
25:25the party,
25:27or your position,
25:29cannot be used,
25:31for your selfishness,
25:33so,
25:35first of all,
25:37I felt,
25:39that,
25:41I have to say this,
25:43to my parents,
25:45and,
25:47when a child,
25:49comes from such a family,
25:51and,
25:53such thoughts,
25:55are given to them,
25:57then,
25:59it is understood,
26:01that,
26:03doing politics,
26:05or not,
26:07is not your decision,
26:09it is people's decision,
26:11whether they want you,
26:13or not,
26:15whether they want you,
26:17to be their representative,
26:19or not,
26:21whether they want you,
26:23to be their medium,
26:25to take their problems,
26:27forward,
26:29or to bring,
26:31a solution for them,
26:33so,
26:35when you understand this,
26:37you cannot,
26:39think that,
26:41I will do politics,
26:43because my family is doing it,
26:45this decision,
26:47I think,
26:49is of people,
26:51and then,
26:53if your ideology,
26:55and the ideology of the party,
26:57are similar,
26:59if you get blessings from that party,
27:01then you can,
27:03get blessings from people.
27:05Ma'am,
27:07one more question,
27:09which role model,
27:11do you follow?
27:13I think, again,
27:15I am very fortunate,
27:17that the family,
27:19I come from,
27:21is a role model,
27:23whether,
27:25male or female,
27:27it is very,
27:29difficult,
27:31to take the name of one,
27:33there are many people,
27:35and,
27:37everyone gets to learn,
27:39everyone,
27:41gets,
27:43inspiration,
27:45motivation,
27:47and,
27:49you know,
27:51you can make them proud.
27:57I just hope so.
27:59One last question,
28:01from Rajasthan Patrika,
28:03which message,
28:05would you like to give,
28:07to the readers of Rajasthan Patrika,
28:09and to all the people,
28:11connected to it?
28:13To all,
28:15the viewers,
28:17to all of them,
28:19first of all,
28:21I would like to wish them,
28:23a very happy Navratri,
28:25and to all,
28:27the Gods and Goddesses,
28:29I would like to pray,
28:31that truth always triumphs,
28:33and good always triumphs,
28:35and in your family,
28:37there is always happiness,
28:39peace and prosperity.
28:41Ma'am, thank you very much,
28:43for connecting with us,
28:45and,
28:47for everyone,
28:49from all of us,
28:51if we get a chance,
28:53we would like to meet again.
28:55Sure,
28:57it was nice talking to you.