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00:00What complications and problems can be caused by not having sex with married women?
00:06In today's video, we will talk about this topic.
00:08Assalam-o-Alaikum, I am Dr. Tahira Rubab. I am a psychotherapist and relationship therapist.
00:13Many of my female clients and male clients visit the clinic and report that
00:19females are very reluctant or often refuse to be intimate with their husbands
00:29or their desire is very less or sexual activity is very painful for them.
00:34Those women who are very less in sexual activity, especially when they have a baby
00:43or something like that, then the gap with the husband starts to increase
00:48because of course, there is a lot of change in the woman's routine.
00:50But when married women start to give very long gaps,
00:55there are a lot of complications on their body, on their health, on their mood,
01:02and even on their hormones.
01:04What are those effects?
01:07Today's video is especially for our sisters and women who watch our channel
01:14and who cannot consult at home and cannot go anywhere.
01:18This is our video for them.
01:21Research has shown that sexual activity, whether it is in men or women,
01:28sexual activity is a very normal and positive activity that helps your body,
01:35your mood and many other things to get regular.
01:40It regulates your mood and improves your physical system.
01:46In a previous video, I told you that sexual activity has a very deep relationship
01:53with the health of your heart.
01:56That is, the health of your heart is very closely associated with your sexual activity
02:05and dysfunction.
02:07So, females who do not go into sexual activity for a very long time,
02:11let's say you have started dieting and you have taken yourself from two meals a day to one meal.
02:20So, if you practice the habit of skipping food for a month or two,
02:27then slowly the switch in your brain of hunger goes off
02:31and then you start wanting to eat only once and your hunger starts to decrease.
02:37Similarly, when you have sex or intimacy, you may not use it as frequently,
02:43but at least you are talking, because when you talk,
02:46some signals go into your body and your brain gets activated.
02:51But in our country, normally women do not want to talk about it,
02:54do not even talk about it and then their sexual activity decreases.
02:58The more your sexual activity decreases, the switch in your brain,
03:04which is very important to be on and off,
03:06the stimulation of your eyes decreases permanently and it goes off.
03:13Just like I gave you an example of eating and dieting,
03:17then your desire also starts to decrease,
03:21your interest does not go and you do not even like to do it.
03:26When you have sexual inactivity,
03:29that is, you become sexually inactive,
03:33you do not remain active, then of course your sexual health starts to affect.
03:39How does your sexual health affect?
03:41It is very important for women to go into sexual activity,
03:44especially for married women to go into sexual activity with their husband
03:49once or twice a week, whatever is appropriate for you,
03:53it is very important because
03:55first of all, their hormones are dependent,
03:58it has a very deep relationship with the marital relationship you are using,
04:04that your hormones start to get regulated,
04:07they remain balanced and their balance remains and it happens with sexual activity.
04:13The second bad thing that comes in women,
04:19especially their mood, their irritability, sadness and anger starts to remain a lot.
04:28Why? Because sexual activity activates the happy hormone in your brain and body
04:34and if your happy hormone is activated once a year, once a month,
04:39or once every six months, then it may not be activated
04:43because when you go into sexual activity after such a long time,
04:46it is not necessary that you have orgasm or you can reach the full peak of pleasure.
04:53As a result, it is also not necessary that your required hormones in your body are activated
05:00to improve your mood and your mood improves or there are changes in it.
05:07So, to improve your mood frequently,
05:12you need to use your marital relationship from time to time.
05:20You don't have to use it to satisfy your husband.
05:24Of course, it is a requirement of a relationship,
05:27but you also have to do it because your mental health,
05:32your mental health, your hormones are dependent on it.
05:37The next harm that comes in women after using less sexual activity or marital relationship
05:44is the vaginal dryness of women,
05:47that is, in their private part, there is a lot of dryness,
05:52which can also cause rashes
05:57and their vaginal friction,
05:59that is, their elasticity,
06:02which is naturally from the side of Allah,
06:05there is elasticity in it,
06:07there is friction in it,
06:08it starts to decrease,
06:09there is a lot of dryness,
06:11and friction can occur.
06:14So, the reason for this is that whenever you use sexual intercourse with your husband,
06:19it can be painful for you,
06:21you can get a lot of cuts,
06:23you can get wounds,
06:24and then it will be registered in your brain as a painful activity for you,
06:29and you will never want to go that way.
06:32This is a major reason for vaginal dryness,
06:35which is the absence of sexual activity.
06:40The fourth major reason that has been seen in women
06:44is that their desire decreases,
06:47their desire decreases.
06:48The more you eat, the more you pay attention to eating,
06:54the less you eat, the less you pay attention to eating.
06:58In the same way, the more you use intercourse,
07:01the more you need your body and your body,
07:07and when you go towards it,
07:09normally your desire also increases.
07:14But if you go towards sexual activity once in a blue moon,
07:19then your desire is not equal,
07:22but then you have to use your intercourse with compulsion,
07:27which is an unpleasant event for women at many times,
07:32and it can also be painful,
07:35which is why women often refuse to use sexual activity or intercourse.
07:41So, to all my sisters who are listening to me,
07:45who are watching me,
07:47I request them that when your husband comes to you,
07:51and expresses his need to you,
07:53then instead of denying him,
07:55do this activity because it is not just your husband's need,
07:59it is more than your need,
08:01because the whole system of your body is dependent on it,
08:05and you are not doing it for him,
08:07you are doing it for yourself.
08:09Yes, if you don't want to do painful intercourse,
08:13if you feel pain during pregnancy,
08:15if you feel pain during PDS,
08:17if there is a decrease in your desire,
08:19if you are facing all these issues,
08:21then I treat all these issues.
08:23If you want, you can visit my clinic.
08:25For this, we tell women some exercises,
08:28we help them,
08:29you can become a part of that group,
08:31and you can get treatment from us.