Married at First Sight UK S9 E15
Married at First Sight UK S9 E15
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00:00I
00:01Definitely deserve to find love
00:03Previously true love means everything. I hope that she is the one six new singles tied the knot to a total stranger
00:12While Shannon's case of cold feet, this is a massive mistake was thawed by groom Ryan
00:18I'm happy like are you happy? I've touched a wee bit too quickly
00:22I feel like we are a good match and Luke's charm offensive. I love it
00:28A little bit puts Amy in unknown territory. I think it's here answer to my peers
00:34He's very gentle in life, which is alien to me, but for Hannah and Steven
00:39There's 100 Santa's back. It was the wedding day of dreams. I genuinely just feel like I can just fully be myself
00:46Haven't let my guard down with someone in a long time
00:50Tonight, thanks for having me over. It's the final visit of in-laws week. I'll be honest
00:55I was pissed off at the wedding where Adam's actions are put under scrutiny
00:59She gets married and then this guy's like, yeah, she's not really my type that did upset me
01:07And the newlyweds head off on honeymoon
01:10That's it. Oh, yeah, where are your hands?
01:13For some don't think I was gonna get this comfortable this far. It's a smooth start to married life. Love marriage and happiness
01:22absolute dream honeymoon
01:24But for Hannah and Steven Hannah's opinion is the only opinion. Oh shit
01:31Things take a turn for the worse don't make promises to people that you can't keep cuz I just say
01:36All right, we're done then happy that make you feel better leaving their marriage hanging by a thread
01:44Goodnight
01:46I
01:52Mean this is beautiful the newly married couples
02:03Have arrived on their honeymoons
02:16Oh, look what they've got and I do it at the same time. Yeah
02:24Since the wedding I think Amy is relaxing slowly
02:27But surely she's a slow burner and I just want to give her the space to come out of her shell
02:31I really don't want to be on top of her
02:33I mean, I'd like to but I don't want to be on top of her in that kind of way
02:37The Bahamas is like a dream honeymoon destination. I know we're quite lucky. I guess I knew I was lucky a long time ago
02:46I
02:52Got no nails could be a while I can do it. Oh, no, no, no, no, no
02:56We're in strong independent man, like you were with your suitcase. We're in Dominican Republic
03:01It's sunny blue waters Hannah's fit probably looks incredible in a bikini. So I'm really excited to spend some time it
03:08wait
03:10Yeah, always bad sex for seven years
03:16Cheers
03:26So I'll give me a Bella ring right enough of that enough of that as the honeymoons gets underway
03:34to the life
03:36beautiful
03:37Amy and Luke are starting married life with a cocktail. I have the goods
03:43Hello pineapple, man. Hello there
03:46I think this definitely is the start of an amazing honeymoon and I can't wait to get to know each other on a deeper level
03:52You look amazing, by the way
03:54So you from the bridge up there and I was like, whoa
03:59Luke is throwing a lot of compliments my way. How is it? Nice and sweet amazing. You know, what else is nice and sweet
04:08He's very charming, but I feel like he is pushing the buttons and still trying to test the water a little bit
04:14Much of which I like best if it's the pineapple or your lips. I think it's the latter
04:22I'm not really used to dealing with that so early on into meeting somebody
04:26Feel like you used to people giving it up to you. I'm day one
04:30I know it seems over the top, but I'm just very slow. We have literally just met I hear you
04:37I will definitely be on my best behavior
04:39Nothing, but the best for my wife
04:44I
04:47Just feel like it's nice to just chill after the whirlwind of it all it was a big day
04:51Come on, when I say around I saw you I was like instantly attracted to you looked stunning. Thank you when I was there
04:57I don't know what happened. I think I just tried absolute bollocks because I was nervous coming down the aisle. You were instantly a
05:03Lot of big energy did it ever question man? Like shit. She's a lot
05:06No, cuz I asked for a lot that kind of golden retriever vibe like love that you give me a bouncy
05:13The vibes are really nice. We clearly fancy each other
05:16I think my walls are already probably slowly coming down which is wild a lot of my friends said on the wedding day
05:22It's been really nice to see that you've been able to just be yourself from the beginning
05:24Which was a lot and I appreciate that but actually I think that's a really good sign
05:29One thing I'm really liking about you is how much you're willing to let learn how to handle me all those little things that you
05:35Learn over time. We've got to learn really quickly. I told myself after the wedding it was gonna take a couple of days
05:40To see how you behave and how you are so we can kind of fit into it navigate. Yeah. Yeah
05:46Yeah, the thing about Hannah that I've noticed is when she's got an opinion just stick to it
05:51We've probably said things so far that we've both gone should we said that but we've just dealt with it. We've laughed about it
05:56Cheers, babe. Cheers
05:58to a beautiful place
06:11I need wine after you're driving on the bikes today
06:14Yeah, it was giving me the fear. You must have felt comfortable though, because you won't all crash over. I just didn't want to ruin my eyebrows
06:22Me and Ryan are getting on pretty good so far
06:24I am definitely feeling that attraction, but I think it's super important to get to know each other a wee bit deeper
06:32What kind of things went wrong for you in your past relationships?
06:35Well, obviously my last one up with my health in the Edwards elsewhere probably didn't put enough time into them
06:41But yeah, I learned yeah, I have things have happened in my life have changed me as a person becoming a dad
06:47That was a big thing. It was like, you know, you've got a step up now
06:49I've got to be a role model from the big responsibility, isn't it? Yeah, it's massive. I can't even keep a plant alive
06:57That's what I mean
06:59It's just flowing. It's easier. We seem to have just clicked
07:02I didn't expect this, but you know what? I'm going with it and it's good
07:06Right. I think we should play a game. Let's do two turfs and a lie. Okay, let's go with that. Do you wanna go first?
07:14So I was expelled from primary school for graffiti in a teacher's car
07:21Been a model
07:24And my third I really like you
07:33I feel like the last ones alive
07:38Well, you're wrong the first ones alive the last song was train the last one is true
07:44Yeah, I'm just getting a good vibe from you. Yeah, like you're friendly. You're nice. You're outgoing like bubbly
07:50bubbly bubbly
07:53It was really nice to hear that Brian really likes me you did make me blush a little bit it feels scary and exciting
08:02I
08:18Can't draw in the Dominican Republic
08:21Hannah and Stephen are getting better acquainted by painting each other's portraits will make it a bit more interesting for you
08:33I'm
08:36Bringing the budgies out to surprise Hannah. She doesn't like doing things like this. So I'm trying to lighten the mood a little bit
08:42I've done it wrong already. I've made purple. Oh, what are you trying to make your weird tan color?
08:49So when I saw the activity I had my reservations it looks a little bit cringe
08:54However, I'm gonna try and just have some fun and be a bit silly
08:56I love that you're just not embarrassed right now. Why would I be embarrassed?
09:00Like look what you're wearing
09:06Okay, I'm gonna go small as you got quite a small head I need to meet you look muscly
09:12Have you got six? I got a full pot. Oh
09:15down
09:17for
09:21I've drawn like my ideal man
09:25I've drawn like why why won't you to look like?
09:29You've drawn me how you want me to look his head. You're like me Wow
09:36There's some things that are coming in that bother me a little bit about Hannah
09:39I wanted high energy, but Hannah is really full-on. It's all banter, but it's dying to great on me. I'm done
09:48Gonna write our initials. I think you should write princess not Hannah
09:52Getting well-trained
09:54Back in London Polly and Adam are the last couple to take part in in-laws week
09:59I don't mind it to be fair. I'd rather do the washing up and stuff than laundry
10:05That's what I find boring and are preparing for the arrival of Polly's best friend Alfie and Adam's friend Richard
10:12When we see him both like we don't know anything. I feel I've got so much to tell him
10:16On their wedding day
10:20Adam failed to make a good impression on Alfie
10:30Do you think you're attracted to me
10:33I'm not
10:35I'm not
10:37I'm not
10:39I'm not
10:41I'm not
10:43I'm not
10:46It's not the usual time I normally like dark girls, I think oh my god, you're unreal
10:52I won't just settle for someone. I think's okay. I
10:55Don't understand why it's so hard just to compliment your new wife. I just want him to like me
11:02No Alfie's
11:04Very protective of you. Oh, yeah, Alfie's gonna meet me at the salon
11:08I'm gonna be telling him absolutely everything. I just need to get out this apartment
11:13So chef duties on you what I'm cooking. Yeah, so I'll get the food the drink you do tidy or
11:20And you're going to the salon to gossip about me. Yeah, I got a guy so you better crack on
11:26Jesus
11:28At
11:38The wedding well, he was slightly concerned that Adam might not find her attractive
11:43So I'm hoping that there's been a conversation about that and he's been slightly more complimentary towards her
11:51Wedding day was obviously a few tears. We then sat and spoke about the whole type thing. That obviously made me really upset
11:56Mm-hmm. I was gonna ask honestly Alf. It's it's not a concern of mine anymore
12:02Wedding night. We had pillow talk for like two hours and
12:07then
12:08One thing led to another
12:10It was just very normal. It was very natural
12:14But then he was making you question yourself and your physical attractiveness I struggled to get behind it
12:27You're good good of you
12:29I'm be nice to speak to Richard and tell him what's been happening with me and Polly and get some advice from him
12:34As soon as she walked in. I knew she's not what you'd normally go for. Yeah, I'm used to but then
12:40Afterwards you were getting on so well. So do you feel the attractions growing more?
12:46We had a kiss at all or yeah, we got a little bit busy on the wedding night. Yeah, we did
12:53Special cuddles since that night there. Oh, yeah, I'm missing that spark
12:58So I feel like if we got in bed and got intimate and the next day she's gonna think oh
13:02He's been intimate with me now. He must feel it and then if I say our Polly
13:06I'm still missing something like I don't think it's ever gonna work. I
13:11Don't want her to get upset
13:15Adam tends to not think before he speaks. He's put his foot in it a lot
13:21At the last commitment ceremony, he basically said that if another man that walked in that was my type
13:25He'd be more than happy for me to like pursue it
13:29But he didn't mean it like that
13:30Okay, what he's saying is the fact that because he's not giving me what I want and need at the moment
13:37Because he cares about me that much he wouldn't want to stop me from having what I want with him with someone else
13:42And I'm not making excuses, but I do understand his thought process. I
13:48Feel like you are defending him slightly I am because you like him
13:52I've seen you go through
13:54Relationships where you justify somebody's actions that sometimes cannot be justified
13:59So at the moment like I understand what you're saying, but you've got a biased opinion
14:04Having somebody sit there and say I'm not attracted to her makes you feel really bad about yourself
14:10When you've shown him nothing but consideration and kindness
14:14That upsets me
14:17You
14:29Tonight Connor and I got into a bicker
14:31We would use to go for a nice dinner and she just decided she wanted to go for drinks without having discussing it
14:36I was hungry, but it doesn't seem to matter and there's never any compromise
14:41I
14:49Hoping I can nip this in the bud now when she listens so we can enjoy the rest of our honeymoon
14:55It's obviously we're getting to know how each of the handle certain situations
14:59Each time something's happened to kind of let you go because I want you to be comfortable in whatever we're doing
15:03And I want you to be happy and I don't want to speak arguments or anything like that
15:06It has been small things, but then tonight when we were going for dinner and just the slightest thing
15:13Decided you weren't hungry and that was it. It's not what happened. I had an opinion
15:18You did have an opinion, but Hannah's opinion is the only opinion. So yeah, I didn't say this is what I want to do
15:25I said why did the pair of us you make a decision? No, I wasn't making a decision
15:28Do no, I wasn't but that's what you do. I was not making a decision anything. We've
15:32Mmm, I was not making a decision. I was coming up with a different solution. I was saying I don't personally feel that hungry right now
15:38So why don't we?
15:40Listen, I just listen to you. I've not finished you jumping in
15:44Relationships are compromised
15:48It's your way or no way you can have your opinion I have yes
15:52I've been doing is trying to make you comfortable
15:55Then we've spoken about I never said you you have to put my feelings. No. No, I know you don't but I'm sure that's who
16:00I am as a person
16:02That doesn't mean I want the tension every time we go and do some I've never asked you to that didn't need all right
16:07I want them. I
16:08Am a reactive person and I have strong opinion
16:11So, how are we gonna move from from that because that is every time we go do something as a couple you're gonna go
16:15This is a problem. Let's make this a problem every time every time we've done something it's happened
16:22I'm not I'm fucking here with you
16:25But then it's turning to the fucking Hannah show because Hannah's got a problem with one thing again
16:29I didn't have a problem with the dinner. My opinion was wanted to change it. Listen your knees. No, we I wanted to change
16:35It's to suit our your needs. You didn't ask my needs afterwards. You come away and gone at least I got my way
16:41Those words not left your mouth
16:44Have those words left your mouth
16:46You say I'm have the world. Yeah, you're doing what we said
16:49We wouldn't do and you said something off-camera. I think I'm coming now. You pick the fuck off with that comment. They not lying
16:53Don't fucking say to me
16:56So the truth is
16:59On and off, okay, you've just fucking you didn't say it
17:02Do you want to talk about all the shit we've said off-camera then should I do it to you?
17:05Don't you dare go down that route? Oh, you're fucking pissing me off man Thomas shit. Oh
17:10my god
17:14I
17:16Told Hannah something about my family in complete confidence off-camera and she was gonna use it as ammunition
17:23I don't know whether we have to move on from this
17:26That whole thing just came absolutely out of nowhere
17:28It was a complete mind out of a molehill and I felt completely and utterly attacked
17:32My reaction was to fight back. I
17:35Appreciate that when you're having an argument with someone you shouldn't throw things at them
17:38But if you're doing that for me, I've got every right to try and protect myself
17:42Imagine someone sitting in front of you and being like you'll this you'll that you'll this you're that's fucking rude
17:46And I can't be asked to there. It's I'm done with this shit. I'm done. I'm done
17:55I
18:05Don't know it's been an absolute shit show. I
18:08Need a mature partner who can actually converse with me and we can work things out together
18:13unfortunately, just absolutely blue and whatever she's about to use would ruin my relationship with certain people and
18:19The fact I even got to her head. I don't trust that. She wouldn't do something horrible. Just so she got the upper hand
18:26and I
18:28Think it's best for us tonight just to spend some time apart
18:43There's someone's getting a massage
18:45That would definitely be you rather than me. Don't want to give you any more temptations
18:50I'm definitely not feeling receiving a massage
18:53I know Luke is my husband. Well, I don't really know him well enough yet. Oh
18:59Yes, oh, yes
19:03It's my muscles just trying to release feels like a little bit of gristle in a sausage sausage mother. No, where are your hands?
19:12Pump it that's it. Oh, yeah. Yes. I can't fucking go with it
19:18Let's do triceps just hold it like you're holding a chorizo and you're taking off the cover when it comes from the
19:26Supermarket you think very well
19:29Yes
19:34Is that what you say in black
19:37The last thing I tossed was a salad. But anyway, that was really nice
19:41Find it really sexy that she's doing this for me gets me more loosey-goosey. I really like that
19:46I'm sure Amy will, you know eventually be begging me for a massage
19:49But I need to have patience and I've got the patience of a saint. So it'll wait
20:05It's roasting
20:07Funny good been able to do something for not as many layers probably the least a minute closer see me in
20:13Yeah, definitely looking good. You're looking very well. Oh, you look nice sexual attraction for me
20:19It's definitely been there from day one
20:20We've just seemed to just hit the ground running and things are just getting better and we seem to get more comfortable with each other
20:25Now flirting quite a bit and I hope it continues. I don't think I was gonna get this comfortable this fast
20:31Very much. Obviously, there's still a lot to learn about each other
20:35But in the moment the foundations seem to be right
20:39Go get a kiss
20:44You are trouble middle name, yeah
20:58It was very nice have a little kiss with Ryan because we're getting so comfortable around each other
21:02It just feels natural now, maybe if he plays his cards right there might be a little bit more intimacy coming we see
21:13You
21:23It was weird to wake up on my own I think last night escalated further than it should
21:28I've written some stuff down and I've got my head straight about what I feel like. I need him to understand from my point of
21:34view
21:35There's things that I'm open to working on and there's also things that I don't think I'll be able to change
21:40I'm open to listening. So what he wants to say and we need to just go from there
21:46This morning I woke up feeling quite
21:48Deflated Hannah's a very reactive person with a lot of fire in a belly, which is fine
21:53But a lot of hopeful things were said last night
22:01I'm hoping Hannah's thought about everything that happened if I speak to her this morning and nothing's changed
22:06It's gonna be difficult to come back from it
22:10Oh
22:12Maybe I'll get straight to it
22:14Where's your head up? So I feel a lot calmer about the whole thing. Like I want to move forward from it
22:20I won't fall out of you
22:21There are times that I do react and I do
22:24Jump to things quite quickly and it's something I do want to work on
22:26If I get defensive and I give my opinion and I get snappy
22:29That's me trying to gain a bit of control
22:30But I do appreciate that that does come across as negative and it looks like I'm being a dick
22:34I don't want to talk to you
22:35But to me how you felt would be my first thought whereas kind of going into that it I was the secondary thought
22:41Right, let's break it down
22:42And because actually if we're gonna be brutally honest with the situation you probably were a second we thought in my brain in my brain
22:47I'm number one. Yeah, I get that. Yeah, I guess I've learned over the years again been a dad and and I've been long-term relationships
22:53I've learned to be less reactive
22:55Which is what I know you want him to try and do because I'm gonna take me a lot of time and I'm not asking you
23:00To do it straight away. I think what I'm finding quite hard is
23:03Be who you are, but also kind of filter yourself a little bit, but I will try and not be a drama queen
23:07I will try like I'm not gonna be fully straight-up silent. You are a drama queen. That's fine
23:12It's the reactiveness. Do you want to move forward?
23:15Of course, do you want to fall in madly love with me? We live happy ever after
23:20Think we should carry on the honeymoon. Hey, I feel like Hannah has made an apology
23:25Somewhat but at the same time I'm still a bit in the air in terms of my energy
23:29If I do get upset it can sometimes take me a bit of time to get back to where I was before
23:44Are you going to go in for a dip later?
23:45I don't mind the shallow parts what I just don't like fear of the unknown the feeling of the unknown
23:51You got married to a stranger. I
23:54Can control whether you touch me or not, but see you read
23:58That's got his own game I
24:01Am feeling very attracted to leave right now
24:04Well, I feel like I don't really know that much about him. So I need to delve into his life a little bit more
24:10They've already been on holiday with like an ex or anything. I
24:14Still don't know how many exes you've had. I
24:18Don't know either
24:20The reason I say that is because I've never really had any significant relationships. Do you call someone that you've
24:26Slept with an ex
24:28No, you like seeing somebody like in the build-up to get into a relationship
24:33But even then I don't think I would say I'm an I'm in a relationship. I think a relationship
24:38Starts here as opposed to here
24:43If I don't have how many girlfriends have you had I
24:47Think I've only had one significant relationship
24:51And how long was that for?
24:53two and a half years
24:55Solid and yeah, so that's a relationship. Yeah, my problem isn't
24:59Their commitment. My issue is that people say having a ride or die. I don't think I ever got close to that. Okay, I
25:07Feel like I need to just probably a little bit to be honest and open with me
25:12Honesty is the best policy with me. I'm glad he's bringing it to the table
25:16You know, I really want someone in my life. I
25:20Really like you. I
25:22Really like you. Yeah
25:25Scares me, but I like you. Yeah, I do really like you
25:29It's just like slow pace so far. I'm happy with that
25:42You ready
25:45Everything mate to be honest
25:47Back in London Adam and friend Richard are waiting for Polly and best friend Alfie to arrive for dinner
25:53Hello
26:02Bit nervous to see Alfie because I think he had a bit of a bad perspective of me at the wedding
26:07Because of what I said my type was obviously doesn't look homemade
26:12Well, I can't cook for four people because obviously we've got no pans and stuff. Have we? Yeah, I've got the chicken biryani
26:17Whatever it's called chicken biryani that you like and then I thought I would get something
26:21Saucy and they forgot to put that in the bag
26:23So we've basically got chicken and rice rice and chips tuck in and see what it's like
26:27Rice rice and chips. Yeah. Thanks for having me over. I
26:32Want Polly to be in a happy relationship and seeing Adam today will give me an understanding of whether this
26:39Marriage is really for her. So how have you guys found living with each other? Has that been a challenge?
26:44It's been alright to be fair. I feel like because we've been chucked into this
26:48Mad situation so soon. We've just got to be comfortable with each other
26:52The only thing that I thought would annoy you is how I word things. What do you mean by that?
26:58So because I'll be honest. I was pissed off at the wedding
27:07Just walked my mate down the aisle
27:10She gets married and then this guy's like, yeah, she's not really my type
27:14You're like, I'm real brunette
27:18That did upset me
27:32She gets married and then this guy's like yeah, she's not really my type you're like I'm real brunette
27:40That did upset me
27:43I
27:45Think that's me just like not wording it correctly maybe
27:50Think I was just being honest with you. I appreciate honestly, but she does really like you like
27:55Do you know I mean there is genuine emotion and connection from her end and obviously I hope that that is reciprocated
28:04He is really attentive I can see him genuinely making that effort towards how he words certain things I think as well like
28:10His
28:11Usual type in the past has never worked. The personality has never been there and obviously a very attractive girl
28:18It's just what he's used to. Yeah, I'd love to see Polly and Adam work out
28:23Personality wise they get on so well, and I think that's probably what Adam needs
28:28We're just on the same page about a lot of things. Is there anything that you're not on the same page about?
28:35It's not where I'd like it to be sexually
28:38I've
28:39kind of realized that this spark might not grow unless I let you in and try and ignite it instead of
28:47Fighting away from it. Yeah, that's part that you described earlier. There is a spot there whether it be a small spot
28:54oh, that needs to grow and
28:57through
28:58Activity that's probably gonna that's probably gonna help through having sex
29:02Yeah, Richard's definitely speaking my language when he's saying to Adam like why are you not just having sex?
29:08hopefully the fact that he's hearing it from one of his close friends made him realize that he doesn't need to pull his finger out
29:12I mean, I'll be gonna get a cab soon and
29:15Hey, cheers and let you two get down to business
29:21I
29:23Really don't want Polly to get too invested in this situation right now
29:27Polly falls for men really easily and she can give her all to something and if that isn't being reciprocated
29:34I would hate to see her hurt again
29:37I
29:57This morning, I'm finally very attractive
30:00We're connecting more on a personal level now. So I feel like that's making me fancy him a lot more
30:06Actually had a little bit of a cuddle last night
30:09It was difficult because I felt like it's as close as I can get without you know, breaking the first commandment
30:18Thou shall not enter the Holy City until the Sabbath
30:23Thank you for respecting my boundaries. Absolutely. I feel like we're definitely going in the right direction
30:28Yeah
30:30Madam we did share quite a passionate kiss last night to the little step. Well, but nothing further at this stage
30:40Like I'm a lot more confident with you to like be myself
30:43Yes, like you know Aladdin's cave
30:46Yeah
30:46When once you go in and then it's all dark and there's only one thing that you can have
30:51It's like I found that lamp inside of you and I don't attach anything else
30:57I'm getting to understand more of what Amy's made of inside. I
31:01Can't wait genuinely to see what more magic she's got inside of her
31:06Never been referred to as a lamp before
31:09Even if it's not shiny, we'll polish it
31:12I don't want to be a rusty lamp
31:14No, you're definitely not rusty
31:21Are you trying to show off?
31:24You like banned your nose
31:26It's the midpoint of the honeymoons
31:36And whilst Hannah enjoys a salsa class alone
31:41Who know
31:43cool, no, I
31:45Don't know if it's maybe the language barrier there. Luke is taking wife Amy to an animal sanctuary
31:51What they look like naked? I don't know like a frog
31:56Luke arranging the date today is really thoughtful. I am absolutely in my element
32:02It's literally my idea of a dream date
32:08Got your friends to feed it's a bit shy, isn't it? Yes
32:15You're loving this best day of my life
32:22Little dinosaurs. Hmm
32:25I'm watching her with the animals just make me so happy because I see that passion and I think I love the animals for making
32:30her feel like that
32:35I'm having the best day ever. Thank you
32:38Coming on a bit of a strange day
32:39Because I want to see you like this. Maybe you love animals so much because you know, they're like, they're not gonna hurt you
32:47should I mean like
32:49Animals are never angry at you. I live
32:51And the cuddly yeah, thank you, maybe not used to that I
33:00Am really enjoying Luke's company. I do feel like a couple walking around
33:04It's nice to see that he sort of gets a buzz out of how happy it makes me
33:10It's been 12 out of 10 date for me
33:21I
33:24Thank you
33:26Thank you. I'm gonna use your top six today
33:30Try it see you get on Shannon will be here for Christmas
33:34I'm gonna eat that that's like asking me to eat cereal with a fork. Hold it in that one down to that. There you go
33:43No, Shannon, come on get me knife and fork, please. I'm just gonna get impatient
33:47I am super pleased that we can have a laugh together a little bit Vance cheekiness
33:51It's one of the most important things to be in a relationship
33:54So what's been your highlight of this week?
33:57Honestly, just getting on as well as we have the chemistry that I've got with you is mud
34:02Yeah
34:03And I actually think this will carry on sailing quite easy because I don't think me and you are gonna like you
34:09Don't have anything to argue it. I don't think you're quite a serious person like I'm definitely not serious person
34:16And life's short. We're not here forever. I just want to enjoy it two of us have gone through way too much to take it
34:22too serious
34:24Obviously my dad getting sick
34:26That all happens super fast. Like he literally had nine weeks and that was it
34:32So I think that's really taught me that I need just have fun and I think that's why I joke all the time
34:36So you're telling me like you downplay it a little bit all the time. I know deep down really it does bother you
34:42It was your dad in that day. You have lung cancer
34:46And obviously that's one of the the hardest cancers to go through and it'll never leave you
34:52But you don't be proud trust me and you keep going and you have to do it for him
34:57Hmm
34:59Stop
35:01You good, hmm
35:04I
35:14Think having this tie being open with that it's not like me, but I think it just shows how comfortable I am with Ryan
35:21Get upset talking about it, but it totally has changed my look
35:26So good vibes only
35:29That's the one I've gone through it myself and if you ever want to speak about anything about it pinky promise
35:34Yeah, I've got you back. Thanks. It's not easy to see a shining upset, but she knows I'm here for a course
35:40I am I'm a husband and I will be
35:50You look very nice tonight. Thank you. Appreciate that. You look smart fresh out of backstreet boys
35:55Hey for the vibes
35:57After the argument and what happened we have moved forward. I just don't feel that we fully got back on track
36:03I don't want to dwell on it too much. I want to just have a quick conversation
36:07Move on and then we can have a really nice evening tonight. How are you? Okay. How are you? I'm okay. I
36:14Feel like I want to just get us back to like we were like dead silly and I just feel like it's got very serious
36:19It went from like amazing to crash to now
36:21We're like trying to get back up and I just missed that we'd like we had such a laugh at the beginning and I just
36:25Don't want it to feel like we've gone back to square one. I don't think we have gone back to square one
36:30I think it's a bump in the road, but given the
36:33emotional
36:34Aspects this whole thing brings I'm not even remotely back there yet. We don't have our usual support now
36:40But we are each other's support network. So as soon as we argue with each other, yeah, we've got quite isolating doesn't it?
36:45But I can we do like how do we like move forward?
36:49slowly
36:51Baby steps the argument was just full of raw anger and emotion and I'm trying to hold back certain things
36:58I won't talk about on camera. Currently. I'm still not quite over that. There's still some things. I'm trying to work through in my head
37:04Moving forward tonight for me. This is nothing against you, but I'm gonna stay on my own again
37:11Right, I've got a lot of things going on in my head right now
37:15I
37:16Don't just a lot. So tell me it's got a lot of thinking to do. It's not it's not against you
37:22No, it's not it's not aimed at you at all. It just feels like everything's everything's my fault
37:29I've just said it's not so what else is it?
37:31If it's not if you don't want to spend the night with me then obviously it's me
37:33I need to be in my own thoughts that just says to me that you don't want to make this work
37:36I don't think I'm back there yet. Neither am I I'm not but there is that I know and I can't lay there with you
37:41tonight and
37:43Try and pretend them. All right
37:45Why are we gonna move forward?
37:46We're supposed to be here to work on a relationship the longer we spend apart the longer we're gonna just get over it until
37:50We may as well just call it quits
37:52If you don't want to spend time with you, you don't wanna
37:55Spend the night with me. I need to think about what's going on
37:58I need to think about everything being in a relationship. You talk about it. You communicate it. You don't just think about it
38:04Yeah, and I'm communicating with you now that I need time to think it's been overwhelming
38:08It's been completely overwhelming
38:09But I want to make this work with you and I want to spend time with you not
38:12Spend time apart and have our own thoughts and then see if we can get it back on track
38:16I was actually looking forward to going to bed with you tonight and just chatting a little bit more and
38:19See if we can like push it forward a little bit and you've just mugged me off by being like meh not bothered
38:25I haven't moved you off. I
38:28Feel mugged off. Okay, I feel like you're pushing me to the side and you don't want me and your support system
38:33But I want you in mine. I
38:35Don't know what to tell you my head's just not where I thought it might be at this point
38:41Great I don't know what you want me to say. You promised me that you would never go to bed an argument
38:45That's what you're about to do. Listen. No, no, no, listen
38:48Okay, you also promised me that we would have conversations and stuff and we would work three things together
38:52I didn't come into this to go to sleep on an argument. That's what you're about to do
38:55No, it isn't it didn't need to be an argument. It is now
38:58Because of you because you'd not understanding where I'm coming
39:02You shouldn't have stood in front of someone and promised men that no matter what but you would support them
39:07You would stick by them and you would talk things through. Okay, don't make promises to people that you can't keep
39:11Okay, cuz I just stayed at fucking home. I wouldn't have done then
39:14All right, do you understand how I feel completely enough to be embarrassed and rejected and fucking left in the dirt?
39:19No, you don't think I feel rejected. No, I'm trying to explain to you
39:23I'm not rejecting you if I want to say if I want to be done. I just say I
39:27Just say I don't want that it just feels like you're riding out the inevitable
39:32All right, fuck it. All right, we're done then happy that make you feel better sit down. No, I'm trying to explain to you
39:38No, I'm trying to make a fucking dinner. All right, you can fucking go there. You can't shit me. Good night. I
39:46Feel complete blindsided I feel embarrassed we're here to build a relationship together and we're just spending time apart
39:52So I don't see how we move forward from this
39:57You
40:18At the apartments the husbands and wives are catching up after in-laws week good to see you both smiling
40:24You know, I mean I've never seen you grin that hard
40:38After yesterday
40:45You go got what she wanted
40:47Really
40:52I've took a very big step forward
40:56I need to stop being stubborn forget the whole type finger
40:59Yeah, you kind of just go with the flow and if it works it works if it don't it don't so in laws week was really
41:05Well relationship saving for you guys
41:08It happened really naturally
41:10it was great and hopefully it just
41:14Now continues and it can only go further for him with the attraction
41:18For me because I know how I feel about him and I want it to go that way
41:23I hope that it does
41:25Now they've been into her. I'm worried that Polly might start catching more feelings and Adam might just be like I'm testing the waters
41:32Hopefully he starts getting love struck from her
41:35You
41:42Do a fun last night
41:44What did you know in Copenhagen Shannon and Ryan's honeymoon is drawing to a close you meant to say, of course
41:51It's always the best time with you, Shannon
41:57Feeling good today a little bit tired. I'm not gonna lie. Maybe we had a little cuddle last night
42:06I'm super
42:08Peppermint instead
42:11Ryan didn't make the first move last night, which I was definitely appreciating
42:18See we'll see following instructions are
42:21I
42:23Think this is the happiest I've been all week having that a little bit of intimacy. I think it makes you feel closer with somebody
42:29This honeymoon. It's been great. Give it a solid 9 out of 10
42:35You
42:47Waking up this morning. I feel rejected
42:50I feel a little bit like he sold me a bit of a dream in terms of everything. He said in his vows
42:55He's just on the complete opposite. I'm annoyed at myself because I let my walls down way too quick. I
43:01Was trying my absolute best yesterday
43:03I was so open to having a conversation and getting us back on track and I don't really feel like he was on the same
43:09wavelength as me
43:11He's just shutting me out and pushing me down and that's not how you build a relationship. So I just feel a bit stuck
43:16We're just in this no-man's land
43:21Taking another night apart from Hannah is something I felt like I needed to do
43:25I need to stay true to myself throughout this process, which I promised myself
43:28I'd do my head's a bit all over the place still. I
43:33Don't know how I'm feeling about the marriage. I don't know how I'm feeling towards Hannah
43:37I just know I need a bit of time just to clear my head
43:40And
43:57This is gorgeous, I think this is your children
44:02We've had an amazing honeymoon
44:04Feel we've come on leaps and bounds since the wedding
44:07It's really refreshing that you're so different from my previous partners I
44:12Asked for a gentleman
44:14Someone that has manners and polite and cares about me
44:18The same way is this that I care about others and I feel like they've definitely delivered with that and I'm just not used to it
44:25I think that's why I do feel a little bit awkward when you compliment me and I am taken back by it
44:30I do give a lot of compliments because I genuinely
44:33Wanted to make sure that you understand how I feel like if I just tell you baby look gorgeous
44:38You've got you know, the hair of a model the body of a Greek goddess
44:42You know, I mean like I think in the beginning I kind of didn't understand why you were not like on board
44:47Yeah on board. That's the word. I think I really understand now where you come from. Yeah, I
44:53Feel like keeping things slow has helped mine and Leakes relationship blossom. I really like him and we really get on with each other
45:02It's been a gift this honeymoon it's been a gift talking of gifts actually I got you a picture
45:18And this is the other bit I wrote something small
45:22When I put stuff together in a paper, it means a lot
45:26to my wife Amy
45:28Remember how strange when we first met?
45:31Asked my wife. She'll tell you that
45:34Memories that last a lifetime we've had darling. We've been to the Bahamas. Are you mad?
45:40Your spirit goes a hundred miles an hour almost as fast as that waiter. We saw shaking your amaretto sour
45:49For us it's now the apartments and what comes after and
45:54Together we will bring more joy and laughter. I
45:57Just want you to know that at my zoo there will always be a table for two
46:04Your husband
46:09You're welcome
46:13I've got front row seats to her eyes and I know what I see and she's loving it and dinner couldn't have gone any better
46:21Usually I'd be really cringed out by this sort of thing
46:24But I feel like it's so sweet and it's really like touched my heart that he's gone through this effort
46:29This was an absolute dream end to a dream honeymoon
46:35Love marriage and happiness
46:37I
46:49Am nervous to see Steven I've not seen him so I don't know where his heads are
46:55There is a part of me that hopes we can get it back on track
46:57The back of my mind just keeps being like there was something there at the beginning. Can we rediscover that?
47:02But he's completely and utterly shot me out
47:05So I have never ever ever felt less like the ball is in my court in my entire life
47:21I think because of the last two dinners that we've had. I'm just a bit apprehensive. It could be a case of this being make or break
47:28How are you? How's your day?
47:32Peaceful
47:34Okay, how was yours fine chills, yeah
47:40Feel like you needed it. Not really
47:44How you feeling?
47:46I've been on like an absolute rollercoaster today. I woke up like fuck you give a shit don't care
47:52Bitches back Hannah's back not bothered guards up walls up
47:57then I
47:58Mellowed out a little bit and then I realized that actually I do give a shit and
48:03Deep in my gut. I was like, I feel like we can move forward from this if we both just remind ourself
48:08We felt the beginning and if we can get back there
48:10But because you obviously kept saying you wanted space if I'm honest, I felt like the ball was in your court
48:16okay, I
48:18Could sit here and say
48:21Yeah, see where you're coming from to make this conversation easier
48:25But at that time no, I didn't think that you can't see how I felt shut out
48:30No, cuz I was trying to explain it and you weren't allowing me to explain it in the thinking time has been good
48:36We've been thinking about
48:39If I'm in brutally honest
48:43We think about if I want it what me this what's this buzz it's marriage
48:50Because this is why we're here
48:54I think for me and I I said it last night and I genuinely mean it. I want it to work. I
49:00Won't be at this dinner right now. If that wasn't the case. I
49:04Think it's just understanding each other more
49:07But we just need to do it baby steps like everything else
49:12If I'm gonna be honest, I do feel a little bit like how long do you need we haven't really got time in this experiment
49:17That's the whole point. Everything is meant to be fast-tracked. So
49:20How long do you need? I do feel like I'm now on like protection mode a little bit
49:24So you probably will see a different side of me now
49:27You'll probably see a different side of me too because I'm exactly the same. That's fine. I
49:33Think I put on a front and I'm very strong and I'm very independent and I hold my shit together, but
49:38I'm a human being like I'm not a robot. I think
49:41Deep down and I'm gutted I think
49:43I don't know. I don't know. I
49:47Kind of want to draw a line under the honeymoon
49:51If it works perfect if it doesn't we can at least say we tried
49:56I just feel massively let down just feel like I
50:01Just feel like it here. I am in another situation where
50:04I'm trying so hard to protect myself again. It's just shit. I'm just like
50:09I'm trying so hard to protect myself again. It's just shit. I don't think shit
50:20Next time
50:24The three new couples make their debut these two look freaking good I've got good energies from you for holly
50:34Three's a crowd. I'm your wife. Give me the time of day
50:38What the fuck I just want it
50:42But they aren't the only couple you're not talking to me, what's the fucking point of this shit suffering a communication breakdown
50:49And the honesty box provokes judgment you probably aren't the man I need
50:54And frustration I struggle to relate to you as a person around your sister
50:59There was more fragility there cried at the fucking sight of them. I wouldn't say that that is me
51:05Emma hasn't taken on board any changes that she has to make about herself
51:08I'm running out of energy for it. Bullshit. I need to see some sort of sign that she might change. Oh
51:15It's not just fucking me
51:34You