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00:03For everyone watching on Facebook and YouTube,
00:06thank you very much.
00:07I'm Boy Abunda.
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00:58Careful!
00:59Happy Birthday!
01:00Thank you!
01:01Good job, Boy!
01:02Wow!
01:03The cake is cute.
01:04Thank you, Ia!
01:05Thank you!
01:06Wish?
01:07There should be a wish, right?
01:08Yeah, of course, Boy.
01:09Before you blow out your candle.
01:10It should be a prayer.
01:11Thank you, Lord.
01:12I am alive.
01:13Thank you, Lord.
01:14We are alive.
01:15That's it, right?
01:16Thank you, Lord.
01:17Thank you, Boy.
01:18We are alive.
01:19Thank you, Lord.
01:20We are alive.
01:21That's it, right?
01:22Thank you, Lord.
01:23You're very kind.
01:25Thank you, Lord.
01:26You're very kind.
01:27Happy birthday, Taboy!
01:29Thank you, thank you.
01:31Thank you very much.
01:32And thank you for celebrating my birthday with me.
01:35Of course, Taboy.
01:36Thank you very much.
01:37I'm nervous for you.
01:38How do you celebrate your birthday?
01:43Nothing, just at home with the kids.
01:47I used to have a birthday blues, but not anymore.
01:50Because I'm just like you, just happy to be alive.
01:54And happy to have my children and my family.
01:57And we're okay with that.
01:59Every day is like your birthday when you learn to be grateful for these things.
02:03Today is exciting because we're going to hear some tips from Ms. Ia Villanueva Arellano.
02:11Okay.
02:12A lot of mothers, fathers, and siblings are listening to our story.
02:16Just some tips on how to raise four plus one children.
02:22Oh my goodness.
02:23Go ahead.
02:24I think, Tito Boy, it's a big thing that...
02:28That's number one.
02:29It's a big thing that I'm healthy and fit.
02:34Because then I'm able for my family.
02:38And it allows me to be with my children, do things with my children, do things for my children and my family.
02:46So I think that's really one major thing is to get fit and get healthy.
02:52So that you can use your body and do things with confidence and with strength.
02:58Yeah.
02:59Because only then can you take care of your children.
03:01Yes.
03:02Only then can you express your love for your children.
03:06Yes, yes.
03:07And you have more patience, you have more endurance, you can accompany them in their trips.
03:13Do you argue in front of your children?
03:16No.
03:19Do you argue in front of the children?
03:22No, we don't argue.
03:23But I do recall there was a time when Drew and I were discussing something.
03:29And we weren't even raising our voices.
03:32And Primo was under the impression that we were fighting.
03:35And he was asking, he said, Mama, Papa, are you fighting?
03:39And we had to explain.
03:40I was like, no, love.
03:41Mama and Papa were not angry at each other.
03:43We're just discussing something.
03:45So I don't think, no, we don't fight.
03:48So when you get into problems, what happens?
03:50I mean, you go to a certain space where it's just the two of you and you talk.
03:55Yes, we talk or it's either I'll be quiet and then when I'm ready to tell him how I feel,
04:02I normally do it through a message, through a long text.
04:07Because at least that way I can tell him how I feel without being interrupted.
04:12Okay.
04:13And is it a deliberate effort that you don't want to be seen?
04:18Because now Primo won't be there for long.
04:22Leon will be there.
04:23Yes.
04:24Elena will be there.
04:25Right?
04:26Astro will be there.
04:27And a lot of people will be asking about the fifth baby.
04:29Do you have a name?
04:30No, not yet.
04:31Nothing final yet.
04:32Nothing final yet.
04:33But you know if it's...
04:35It's a baby girl.
04:37It's a baby girl.
04:38And you're happy about it.
04:39Yes.
04:40Okay.
04:42And you're due...
04:43First week of Feb.
04:44Of Feb.
04:45First week.
04:46But you're still working.
04:47You're still active.
04:48Yes, Tita Boy.
04:49And it is good.
04:50I have to, Tita Boy.
04:51I have bills to pay.
04:52Children to feed.
04:56Which is why I really need to stay fit and healthy because I need to be able for my family.
05:03You know, having five or six or how many children you want,
05:08is it something that is deliberate?
05:11Did you talk to your husband about it?
05:13That we planned?
05:14Yes.
05:15Well, every time people ask me,
05:16Wow, was this planned?
05:17I always tell them,
05:18Did someone plan to have five children?
05:22So no, this was not planned.
05:24It was not planned.
05:25But it was always a welcome surprise.
05:29Yeah.
05:30It was always a welcome accident.
05:31Because I always knew that until I wasn't tied or until he was tied,
05:36I always knew that there was a possibility.
05:39Do you have plans?
05:41Yes.
05:42Yes, there is a plan.
05:43There is a plan.
05:44That you want to stop?
05:46Yes.
05:47Where will you stop?
05:48Maybe here.
05:51Maybe here.
05:52Did your husband agree?
05:53I told Drew, because when we weren't sure yet whether or not I was pregnant,
05:58I told him,
05:59I just want to give you a heads up,
06:01because I have a really strong feeling that I'm pregnant.
06:04He said,
06:05That's not it, that's not it.
06:07I said,
06:08Okay, but I really think I am.
06:10And I said,
06:11Love, I just want to let you know,
06:13because I know that out of the two of us,
06:15I'm the one who's like,
06:16Oh, we might have another baby.
06:18And he would always be like,
06:19No, we're okay.
06:20We're okay.
06:21When you were pregnant, what did he say?
06:22Then he said,
06:23Love,
06:24If there is,
06:25Okay.
06:26If there isn't,
06:27It's still okay.
06:28So I was like,
06:29Okay.
06:30All right.
06:31So then it made me feel a lot better.
06:33Okay.
06:34Let's go to how you achieve a healthy, exciting marriage.
06:40Oh, how do we?
06:42Okay, I'll guide you.
06:43In terms of time.
06:44Okay.
06:45When it comes to time,
06:46what do you do, Drew?
06:47We make time.
06:48How?
06:49We make time.
06:50We have,
06:51It's like work.
06:52You think we're paying each other?
06:55I have to buy his time.
06:56No, we really set a schedule.
06:59Like we'll put it in our calendar.
07:01Okay, love.
07:02We're going to have a date here,
07:04or we're going to be together.
07:05But there are also times when it's like,
07:07You know what, love?
07:09Or especially when he's not traveling.
07:12Love,
07:13Let's watch a movie,
07:14or let's try a new restaurant.
07:18It can be spontaneous.
07:19Right at the moment.
07:20Okay.
07:21So that's time.
07:22Yeah.
07:23Second, intimacy.
07:24Yes.
07:25Yes.
07:26You have forked heads.
07:27I don't know if we're lacking there.
07:32And where do you sleep?
07:33In the same room?
07:34Yes.
07:35So how?
07:37I don't know.
07:38But you know,
07:39We'll find a way.
07:41You will find a place.
07:43And you will make it happen.
07:45So,
07:46But,
07:47Yeah.
07:48You know,
07:49Actually, it's funny,
07:50Uncle Boy.
07:51And of course,
07:52intimacy now has changed
07:54for the two of us
07:55because of the children that are present.
07:58But,
08:00I guess that's what parenting has also taught us.
08:03To just kind of like,
08:05figure it out and make it happen.
08:06If you want something,
08:08you make it happen, right?
08:09But you know in your heart and mind
08:12that you can't lack each other.
08:15Yes.
08:16Absolutely.
08:17Because you know what, Uncle Boy?
08:18I really believe that
08:19a healthy and happy marriage
08:21will be the best gift
08:22that we can give our children.
08:23That's right.
08:24I love the way you put it.
08:25And I really,
08:26and I'm so grateful that
08:28Drew also believes the same.
08:30And he gives,
08:32I think the amount of respect
08:34and love that we have for each other
08:39is something that I'm just so grateful for
08:41and has really brought us to where we are now.
08:44Jealous.
08:45Does it still happen?
08:47No.
08:48Although, Uncle Boy,
08:49I'm guilty of the women who dream
08:52that Drew cheated on me in my dream
08:55and the next day,
08:56I feel like I have something against him.
08:59But it's just a dream.
09:00But it's just a dream.
09:01Oh God, really?
09:02Sometimes, Uncle Boy,
09:03it's a running joke.
09:04There was one time,
09:05I had a dream.
09:06I can't.
09:07He said something that was so offensive.
09:11Uncle Boy,
09:12this is what I said in my dream.
09:13I said,
09:16Then he woke up.
09:17He was scared.
09:18He said,
09:19This is so annoying.
09:20Okay.
09:21But he didn't even do anything.
09:23I don't know.
09:24I don't know.
09:25It was just a nightmare.
09:29In real life,
09:30no, I don't get jealous.
09:32And he doesn't get jealous either.
09:36As long as we don't give each other a reason to.
09:40And you have four kids.
09:41Then we have the four kids.
09:46I guess we're just lucky
09:47that we don't find ourselves
09:48in that kind of scenario
09:50where it might,
09:51you know.
09:52How hands-on are you with the kids?
09:54I'd like to say very hands-on.
09:56Yeah.
09:57I'd like to say very hands-on.
09:59But also because,
10:00you know, Uncle Boy,
10:01it's not because
10:02you are required to.
10:03Yes, it's because
10:04we just love being with them.
10:05The joy is there.
10:06The joy is there.
10:07And Uncle Boy,
10:08at this age,
10:09they love being with us.
10:11They still love us.
10:13And I know there's going to be a time
10:15when they're going to be busy
10:16with their friends.
10:17It's hard to imagine.
10:18It's hard to imagine.
10:19That's why right now,
10:20it's like, you know what?
10:21I just want to enjoy this time
10:23that I have,
10:24that I still have with them.
10:26And while they still think
10:27that we're awesome people.
10:29Right?
10:30Right?
10:31Yes.
10:32And because of that,
10:33let's do fast talk.
10:34Here we go, Uncle Boy.
10:36Let's take a shower first.
10:39Okay.
10:40We have two minutes to do this
10:41and our time begins now.
10:43Okay.
10:44Ia, titili or iire?
10:46Iire.
10:47Trick or treat?
10:48Trick.
10:49Treat.
10:50More pa, tama na?
10:51Tama na.
10:52Hands on, hands off?
10:53Hands on.
10:54Chika minute, chika all day?
10:56Chika minute.
10:57Mom of five, mom of more?
10:59Mom.
11:02Happy wife, happy life?
11:04Happy life.
11:05Hot preggie, sexy preggie?
11:07Fit preggie.
11:08Cuddling with kids,
11:09cuddling with Jew?
11:11Cuddling together.
11:12Matalat na asawa, maharot na asawa?
11:15Matalat.
11:17Anak na kamukha mo?
11:19Oh my goodness, Astro.
11:21Anak na kaugali mo?
11:23Primer.
11:24Anak na kaugali ni Jew?
11:26Leon.
11:27Jew sa umaga o Jew sa gabi?
11:29Ay, wala siyang kwenta sa gabi.
11:31Sa umaga.
11:32Bumibiyahin na Jew o nasa bahay na Jew?
11:35Nasa bahay na Jew.
11:37Guilty or not guilty?
11:38Pinaglihiyan ang asawa?
11:41Minsan.
11:42Matakaw pagbuntis?
11:44Oo.
11:45Masungit pagbuntis?
11:46Minsan.
11:47Mas maganda pagbuntis?
11:50Kayo magsabi.
11:53Nangangalabit pagbuntis?
11:55Ay, minsan.
11:59Ikaw o si Jew, unang nagsusori?
12:02Pareho.
12:03Ikaw o si Jew, unang napapagod?
12:07Pareho.
12:08Ikaw o si Jew, unang umiinit ang ulo?
12:12Ako.
12:13Unang nangangalabit?
12:16Minsan.
12:17Pareho, I can't say.
12:18Lights on or lights off?
12:19Off.
12:20Happiness or chocolates?
12:21Happiness.
12:22Best time for happiness?
12:24Every day.
12:25Complete this.
12:26Motherhood is?
12:28A gift.
12:33Right today as we talk, ano pa ang mga pangarap ni Ia Villania?
12:39I've always wanted to ask you this.
12:42Ang kasagutan po sa pagbabalik ng Fast Talk with Boy Adler.
12:47We're back on the show kasama natin si Ia Villania.
12:51Ia, ano pang mga pangarap mo?
12:55Alam mo tito Boy, nakakatawa.
12:59Actually, I used to have all these dreams but I've learned to just deal with the cards that are handed to me.
13:08And I feel that it's been better that way.
13:11Because no matter how much I've dreamt, it was always God that had His way.
13:17And when I went His way, it was always better than I ever imagined.
13:22Kailan nagbago ito?
13:24Hindi ko napansin na nagbago siya pero na-realize ko na lang siya as I was growing in faith.
13:29And then I realized how good God has been to me.
13:32Even when hindi yun yung iniisip kong tahakin.
13:38Tapos that's where He would lead me and then it would end up to be so much better for me.
13:45I ask because pag tinatanong mo, when I talk to young mothers whose lives I have been part of,
13:53ibang-ibang talaga yung pagdalaga pa.
13:55Tapos pag nagkakaroon ng anak, it changes.
14:00This whole journey about ambition, about dreaming.
14:05The ambition is not just about me now.
14:08It's really about being with the family, enjoying things together as a family.
14:13If I have a dream, my dream is to just travel with my family.
14:17Yun na yun.
14:18My dream would be to have funds that would be able to sustain a lifestyle of traveling and being with the family.
14:30I'm not even looking to have a luxurious kind of life.
14:34But I just love to be able to travel with my children.
14:38Even if it means economy.
14:40Okay na ako dyan.
14:42Nayintindihan ko kayo kasi it's not about being in first class.
14:45No, no, no.
14:46It's not even about mansions and yachts and whatever.
14:50It's about being with the family and travel.
14:53Pero one of them comes to you and says,
14:56Mom, I want to be in showbiz.
15:00Okay.
15:02I was asking you about this.
15:05Sabi, we'll cross the bridge na when we get there.
15:09As of the moment, they're just enjoying being with us whether it means it's work or not.
15:16Okay.
15:17Yeah.
15:18Kasi like I've seen the shoots of your children and Primo enjoys it and is very good.
15:25He does.
15:26He does.
15:27He enjoys it.
15:28He enjoys it.
15:29He enjoys it.
15:30Talk to Tito Boy.
15:31But iba Tito Boy yung showbiz sa commercial shoots.
15:35I know.
15:36Si Drew, hindi kailanman ia from a wife's point of view napansin na gusto pumasok sa politika?
15:43No.
15:44Ayaw?
15:45No.
15:46No.
15:47Never.
15:48No, no, no, no.
15:49Ayaw.
15:50The moment he does, it would probably be like, sino ka?
15:54And he would probably also be, sino ako?
15:57But yeah, no, he would never.
15:58No, but right now, naisip ko lang dahil you know how close I am to daddy, to the dad.
16:03Yes.
16:04And maraming pagkakataon that we would talk about what?
16:07I mean, his friends were politicians, etc.
16:09Yes, yes, yes.
16:10Well, it just occurred in my mind because he's a people person.
16:12Si Drew, napakadaling makasundo ng lahat.
16:15Yes.
16:16Diba?
16:17Yes.
16:18And I'm not saying that's the only requirement to be a politician, but certainly.
16:20And he also has really good values too.
16:22Very good.
16:23Yeah.
16:24Very, very good.
16:25And I'm so proud of what he has become today.
16:29Yeah.
16:30Diba?
16:31You do headlines every day, sa 24 oras.
16:34Kung merong headline.
16:36Halimbawa, there's a headline tomorrow about Ia Villana.
16:41What would that be?
16:42Oh my goodness.
16:44Ia Villana.
16:46Pagod ng umire.
16:52Pagod ng umire.
16:55I love that.
16:56So, let's end it with five.
16:57Okay?
16:58Lord, please.
16:59Tapos na.
17:00Dahil napapanood ka sa televisyon halos, hindi halos, halos araw-araw, you know,
17:04people, some people have forgotten that you actually is a singer.
17:08Actually, that's why, Tuto Boy, when you asked me about my dreams, my dream was to come here
17:14to the Philippines and be a performer, a singer, and a dancer.
17:18Diba?
17:19Because you were part, diba?
17:20You were singing in Australia.
17:21I would do front acts in Australia.
17:23Ano ang pinakamagandang bagay na ginawa mo?
17:26Anong sasabihin mo sa Diyos?
17:28Living a life that just wants to give Him honor and glory in everything that I do
17:37and in all that I need to be.
17:38And Tuto Boy, that's my prayer every day.
17:40If I can honor Him through the wife that I am, if I can honor God through the mother that I am,
17:46through the host that I am, through the influencer that I am,
17:49then that's really what my prayer is every morning.
17:54Yeah, thank you so much.
17:55Tuto Boy, thank you.
17:56Thank you for spending my birthday, for being here on my birthday celebration.
18:01Happy birthday to you, Tuto Boy!
18:04Maraming maraming salamat.
18:05Happy birthday, Tuto Boy.
18:06Thank you, thank you, Tuto Boy.
18:07Thank you, thank you very much.
18:10Hi.
18:11Hi, kids.
18:13But there'll be a time when hindi anong papatawag na ng kids.
18:17I know.
18:18Primo, Leon, Alana, Astro, and of course, your first child, Drew.
18:24Oh, yes.
18:25The kuya of them all.
18:27The kuya.
18:28Nay, tay, kapuso, maraming salamat po sa inyong pagpapatuloy sa amin,
18:31sa inyong mga tahanan araw-araw.
18:33Be kind, make your nana and dada proud, say thank you.
18:36Do one good thing a day and make this world a better place.
18:39Goodbye for now.
18:40God bless.
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