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00:00We walk hand in hand, we dream together. We giggle and laugh like kids forever.
00:12We're two different people, but we're having fun. We talk about anything under the sun.
00:19We are sisters, we are friends. We've got magic that never ends.
00:27I got you sis, you got me. The best of friends we'll always, always be.
00:39We always have fun, being together. You know me the best, we're friends forever.
00:46Through good times and bad, I'm here for you sis. Right by your side, hit or miss.
00:53We are sisters, we are friends. We've got magic that never ends.
01:01I got you sis, you got me. The best of friends, the best of friends.
01:09The best of friends we'll always, always be. We are sisters, we are sisters.
01:24Let's start this morning that will never be stopped by the issue of kids saying,
01:30I'm big now, this is what I want.
01:33With?
01:36Janice.
01:37With?
01:38With.
01:39With. With Janice first.
01:41Ah okay, because we're reaching a point in our lives where we really want to make decisions for ourselves.
01:48Of course, for other people, especially for our parents, this is a bit painful because they feel like we're their baby.
01:56Among other things, they're afraid that we'll make wrong decisions in our lives.
02:00Right? They have expectations of us that of course we don't meet, that's more painful for them.
02:07Correct.
02:08Okay, just like Nori, where are you Nori?
02:11Nori, Nori, I have news. News?
02:15You always want your mom to follow you, right?
02:20It's like your mom doesn't want you to go out, she just wants you to stay in the house.
02:24You just do housework, why is it like that?
02:27Because she wants that instead of going out to the house to make friends, you just stay at home and do housework.
02:36Until now?
02:37Yes.
02:38Until now?
02:39Come on Nori, you already have a husband.
02:41I already have a husband, I only have 3 kids.
02:44Until now?
02:45Until now, it's like that. Sometimes I have friends but she really wants me to stay at home.
02:51Oh, your mom is okay.
02:53Of course, my mom is great.
02:55Very protective.
02:56You're a good kid, right?
02:57That's right.
02:59Meanwhile, she has 3 kids.
03:01That's okay.
03:02It's like you're not on the road yet, you're still there.
03:05This is Bing, she wants her daughter to focus on her studies but she doesn't like it.
03:10She wants to dance.
03:12Oh, is that so?
03:14Yes.
03:15Is that true?
03:16I want my daughter to focus on her studies first.
03:22She likes to dance.
03:25How old is your daughter?
03:26She's 14.
03:27Oh, really?
03:28I also want my daughter to focus on her studies but...
03:32Hi!
03:33Hi!
03:34Hi, I'll just focus on focusing on them.
03:37Yes.
03:38Let's all focus on our studies.
03:40How are you, Josa?
03:41Josa, come here.
03:43Your daughter is also a dancer.
03:45How old is your daughter?
03:46She's 14.
03:4714?
03:48Yes, that's how it is.
03:50She's too relaxed.
03:52Yes, that's how it is.
03:53What's our problem?
03:55What can I say about my daughter?
03:58When we look at her, she's a bit special.
04:03It's like she wants her parents to discipline her siblings.
04:10Oh, that's different.
04:11That's beautiful.
04:12She wants responsibility.
04:14It's like she prioritizes us over her siblings.
04:19She wants her parents to discipline her, especially when it comes to answering questions.
04:24Oh, she's a winner.
04:26That's why...
04:27That's why, my daughter...
04:28She's watching.
04:29She's messaging you.
04:30She's messaging you, Josa.
04:36Come on, let's say it.
04:37That's why, my daughter...
04:38That's why, my daughter...
04:39That's why, my daughter...
04:40That's why, my daughter...
04:41Why are you crying, Josa?
04:43Just continue your studies because everything is for you.
04:50That's for you.
04:51Just don't prioritize us because we're still your parents.
04:55Wow!
04:56That's right.
04:57That's right.
05:02That's why the title of our episode is,
05:05This is what I like.
05:07Who's with us, Jelly?
05:09With us is...
05:10This is really hard because when your parents are against what you want to do,
05:15especially when it comes to the career you chose,
05:18or what you chose to do for your life.
05:21Our guest has already entered the showbiz.
05:24Her dad is a bit old-fashioned.
05:25But she still entered.
05:27And she is Antoinette Martinez.
05:29Hi, Jelly.
05:30It's good to see you.
05:31Good morning.
05:32Thank you for the interview.
05:33Hello, ma'am.
05:34Here, here.
05:35This is a long story.
05:36Yes.
05:38Is it long?
05:39There should be one episode just for her.
05:41She's only 16 years old.
05:43She's already a breadwinner.
05:44I'm sure she has a lot of decisions that she didn't ask others.
05:50And she doesn't ask for advice from her parents.
05:54Why don't we ask her mom, Carla Estrada?
05:58Hi.
05:59Good morning.
06:00Thank you for having me.
06:04Here, single again.
06:05She's so close to her mom.
06:07Has it come to the point where the saying,
06:10Too close for comfort, came true?
06:12Regine Tolentino.
06:16Hi.
06:17Good morning, everyone.
06:18Good morning, everyone.
06:21It was a big decision for her to become gay.
06:24What did her parents say about this?
06:27Anton Ragazza.
06:29Good morning.
06:30Thank you for the interview.
06:31You're so sweet.
06:34She's a different kid.
06:35Her get-up is different.
06:36Is everyone okay?
06:37Does her mom like everything she likes?
06:39Aiza Seguera.
06:41We're sure that you like our conversation today.
06:45So, here it is.
06:46In...
06:47SIS!
06:49Join the conversation.
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06:58Collect stories from the barangay.
07:00From your friends, family, and friends.
07:04And learn from each other.
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07:08And learn more at SIS Production Office 928-7021 Local 312.
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07:37Welcome to SIS!
07:42Earlier, we heard the opinions of the three moms.
07:47Now, let's listen to the kids.
07:50Okay, like I said.
07:51We're at the point where we want to decide for ourselves.
07:56Let's do what we want.
07:58So, when did you first say,
08:02Okay, this is what I want.
08:04This is what will happen next.
08:05When I first came to Showbiz when I was 16,
08:08It was just a trial.
08:10I didn't really apply.
08:11So, I was here in 7B4 with my best friends.
08:14My mom said, let's try it.
08:16And when I got accepted unexpectedly,
08:19I said, okay.
08:20I can also help my family.
08:23Actually, I feel like I was able to decide when I told them,
08:27I have to stop my studies first.
08:30I have two little brothers and sisters.
08:34And I have a brother who is 15 years old.
08:37So, I want them to finish their studies first.
08:40So, I stopped my studies first.
08:43Even if your parents don't want you to?
08:45It's not that they don't want me to.
08:48Because my father, before I came to Showbiz,
08:53He already had an illness.
08:54So, he died last December 4.
08:56So, he only died last year.
08:59So, I told him, I want to help my family.
09:04He said, okay.
09:05Even if he's going to teach first,
09:06Because Showbiz is a bit of a chaotic world.
09:09I said, I'll try my best.
09:12Karla.
09:14I think I had my first baby at the peak of my career.
09:19Yes.
09:20I continued.
09:21Because of a lot of pressure.
09:22Actually, it's not just the pressure from my parents.
09:25Why is it like that?
09:27Especially from my friends,
09:29Friends,
09:30And lovers.
09:32Right?
09:33So,
09:34The story that you don't know, but you know.
09:38That's it.
09:39That's the most important decision that I made.
09:44That only you can decide.
09:47Regine.
09:48Me, ever since before,
09:50My parents have never really dictated to me what I should do.
09:54They've always been guiding me.
09:56I hope you'll do this.
09:57I hope so.
09:58Of course, there's an influence.
10:00But ever since,
10:01I was the one who followed.
10:03Last say.
10:04Last say.
10:05And they respect that.
10:06So, when did you make your first big decision?
10:10The first one,
10:12Getting married.
10:13Getting married.
10:14Yes.
10:15So, that's a major thing.
10:17Anton.
10:18For me,
10:19Being like this,
10:21Being gay,
10:22Because, of course,
10:23Especially to my parents,
10:24They would not accept.
10:25Of course.
10:26For their sons to be like this.
10:28But,
10:29Especially to you, Carla.
10:32That's it.
10:33Making my choice to be like this,
10:36That's the biggest decision so far.
10:39Was it a choice?
10:41I think so.
10:44But I'm still young.
10:45It's like,
10:46That's how it is.
10:48Or coming out,
10:49It's just the choice of where to come out.
10:50Yes, coming out in the open.
10:51Not being a closet.
10:53Closet queen.
10:54Something like that.
10:55Because it's ugly.
10:56At least, right?
10:57It's like I'm expressing myself.
10:59Now.
11:00Miss Aiza.
11:01Hi.
11:02Hi.
11:03Hi.
11:04Good morning.
11:05I cry too much with those.
11:07For me, the decision that,
11:09What decision?
11:10There's a lot.
11:11Maybe the decision that,
11:14I'll be myself.
11:18Since I was young,
11:20You know,
11:21Of course, my parents,
11:22When I was young,
11:24Maybe now,
11:25The decision that,
11:27I want it first.
11:29It's like,
11:30I don't want it to be,
11:32My decision.
11:33The decision that,
11:34Will come from you.
11:35Will come from me.
11:36That I'll do my best.
11:37Even if sometimes,
11:38They don't want it.
11:39If in my belief,
11:40They'll be good to me,
11:41And I'll be happy there,
11:42I'd go for it.
11:43That's all so far.
11:45Sometimes, of course,
11:46We also have things that we wanted to do.
11:48It's obvious that it's not that fabulous.
11:51And we still did it.
11:52In the end,
11:53Right?
11:54We still did it.
11:55Then, here it is.
11:56Mommy saw it.
11:58Daddy saw it.
11:59You cried there.
12:00Isn't it?
12:01I already told you.
12:02You know, for me,
12:03Every experience is a learning experience.
12:06All the decisions that we make in our lives,
12:08We can't learn nothing from it.
12:10So, that's it.
12:11Because I also understand my parents.
12:13Sometimes, I'll tell my mom,
12:14This is what I want to do.
12:15And she would tell me,
12:16I don't want to see you cry.
12:18But, you know,
12:19Mama, it's part of it.
12:21You know, it's a part of your life that you cry.
12:23It's a part of your life that you feel down.
12:25And,
12:26When will I experience that when I'm old?
12:28And you have to take the risk.
12:30That's true.
12:31So that you can learn.
12:32That's true.
12:33But, from the point of view of the parents,
12:35They can avoid it.
12:36All the parents here,
12:38You can understand that.
12:39If you can shield your children from
12:41The hurt that they would feel
12:44If they make a bad decision,
12:46That's what you'll do.
12:47So, if you can,
12:48Don't do it anymore.
12:49Because I already know the ending.
12:50I already know the ending.
12:51Yes.
12:52But, at the same time,
12:53We already went through that.
12:54They already went through that.
12:55We already went through that.
12:56For us,
12:57How will I know or learn
12:59If I don't try?
13:01What if I have a child?
13:02You know, my mom already experienced that.
13:04My dad already experienced that.
13:05You can't tell that to yourself.
13:09That's crazy.
13:10What about Anton?
13:11Because you had to stop your studies.
13:13You wanted to stop your studies.
13:14Yes.
13:15So that you can sing.
13:16Yes, because
13:17When I was young,
13:18I really wanted to sing.
13:20Then,
13:21I was studying at Lasalden
13:23When I started to work
13:25As a sing-along master.
13:27So, it's like
13:28It's a waste.
13:29It's a waste because
13:30There are only a few units left.
13:32Then, I'm already doing my thesis.
13:34You're already doing your thesis?
13:35I'm already doing my thesis.
13:36It's like
13:37Those are the final stages of my studies.
13:40Then,
13:41My job came.
13:42So, I had to make a big decision again.
13:44Then, I decided not to
13:46Go on with my studies.
13:47Then,
13:48I decided to just sing.
13:49Because,
13:50I would be
13:51Happier?
13:52Happier.
13:53Also, I like what I'm doing more.
13:54Singing.
13:55Rather than
13:56Becoming an engineer someday.
13:58It's like that.
13:59Or you thought
14:00There's an opportunity.
14:01Yes.
14:02I might not have it yet.
14:03Yes.
14:04Strike while the iron is hot.
14:05It's like
14:06You're earning here.
14:07Then,
14:08When you're still studying,
14:09You have to study.
14:10Then, take the board exams.
14:11It's like, it's been a long time.
14:12This is it.
14:13Then, grab the opportunity.
14:14It's like that.
14:16So, before you
14:17Made a big decision,
14:18Of course,
14:19You thought about it.
14:20When did you
14:21Tell yourself,
14:22Oh no, I'm not a kid anymore.
14:23Of course,
14:24In the beginning,
14:25You just followed.
14:26We're like that.
14:27We just followed
14:28What our parents told us.
14:30Because,
14:31You know,
14:32Somehow, we all know
14:33In the back of our minds that
14:34They all just want
14:35The best for us.
14:36When did you think that,
14:37Oh no,
14:38I'm not a kid anymore.
14:39It's my turn.
14:40It's my turn.
14:41It's my turn.
14:42When did you think that?
14:44I think,
14:45I thought about it
14:46And I felt it.
14:47When,
14:48I'm not happy anymore
14:49With what's happening.
14:50I mean,
14:51I'm not happy anymore
14:52That somebody's deciding for me.
14:54With whatever,
14:55You know,
14:56Actually, it started with
14:57The little things.
14:58With what to wear,
14:59What image to project.
15:00You know,
15:01When I'm not happy anymore,
15:02It's like,
15:03Wait,
15:04I want to,
15:05You know,
15:06Live my own life.
15:07And,
15:08This is not what I want.
15:09That's what you thought about?
15:10Me,
15:11I got tired of,
15:12It's,
15:13It's,
15:14My parents,
15:15Because they're very nice,
15:16And so,
15:17Super supportive.
15:18That's why,
15:19Their style is,
15:20The guilt trip.
15:21It's like,
15:22Oh,
15:23You can do that,
15:24It's all up to you.
15:25But,
15:26It's like that.
15:27So,
15:28At the time,
15:29I didn't get tired of it.
15:30But,
15:31I said,
15:32Okay,
15:33Maybe for this time,
15:34For me,
15:35What will make me feel better?
15:36What will make me feel better about myself?
15:37Do you make dishes?
15:38Or,
15:39Do you have,
15:40Let's say,
15:41Of course,
15:42If you're having a discussion,
15:43What is it?
15:44Do you just do what you want?
15:45Or,
15:46Do you tell them,
15:47Let me be.
15:48I'm old enough.
15:49Do you have to tell them that?
15:50Or,
15:51You just do what you want?
15:52I just do what I want.
15:53And,
15:54When we have a conflict,
15:55We talk about it.
15:56I'm going to explain.
15:57No,
15:58For example,
15:59Our major conflict is,
16:00Schedule.
16:01Because,
16:02Now,
16:03What's happening is,
16:04I'm the one scheduling,
16:05Then,
16:06They're the ones,
16:07Because they're the ones who say yes or no.
16:08I'm the one who accepts if yes or no.
16:09And,
16:10Sometimes,
16:11He won't tell me.
16:12Because,
16:13I always put a free day.
16:14So,
16:15I can be quiet.
16:16So,
16:17I'm balancing.
16:18Then,
16:19I have to walk.
16:20I have work.
16:21So,
16:22He's like,
16:23Mommy,
16:24Why?
16:25You didn't tell me.
16:26Mommy,
16:27Why?
16:28You know,
16:29You always put a free day.
16:30But,
16:31I'm always like that.
16:32It's part of it.
16:33He's cool.
16:34Sometimes,
16:35It's exciting.
16:36So,
16:37Is it time that,
16:38Mommy or daddy
16:39didn't agree with the decision?
16:40We're going to talk about,
16:41The return of Sis.
17:00So, Anton,
17:01While,
17:02You know,
17:03You're getting older,
17:04Your attitude changes,
17:06Your voice changes,
17:08Of course,
17:09Your hair color.
17:10Your hair color.
17:11Not yet.
17:12Did your mom and dad,
17:13Notice this?
17:15They noticed,
17:16Because,
17:17What I need in the house,
17:18Is different.
17:19Why is this kid,
17:20So noisy?
17:21The type of,
17:22And,
17:23What,
17:24As in,
17:25I shout in the house.
17:26That's like,
17:27The form of,
17:28Vocalization,
17:29In the house,
17:30Really.
17:31And,
17:32You're just rich,
17:33That you shout in your house.
17:35I hope,
17:36You hear,
17:37Your shout,
17:38In the house.
17:39No,
17:40I mean,
17:41In the house.
17:42Okay,
17:43What do you want?
17:44Your,
17:45Your,
17:46Your fabulous,
17:47Just fabulous.
18:08Flying high upon,
18:09The wings,
18:10Of love.
18:13Why is your voice so loud?
18:16I don't know.
18:17As in,
18:18I really can't explain,
18:19How I do that.
18:20It's inside,
18:21It's like the process of,
18:22Changing everything.
18:23It's inside.
18:24It's coming,
18:25It's,
18:26It's from within.
18:27It's a gift from God.
18:28It's from within.
18:29It's from within.
18:30It's from within.
18:32Earlier,
18:33We heard mommy Josa,
18:34Talking to her,
18:35Child,
18:36That,
18:37Don't put me first,
18:38Child,
18:39I'm still the parent,
18:40Right?
18:41We're still the parents.
18:43Then the other one,
18:44Mommy,
18:45I hope,
18:46Child,
18:47You focus on your studies.
18:48And the other one,
18:49Mom,
18:50Can I grow up?
18:51Right?
18:52It's like,
18:53What is this?
18:54With three children.
18:55It's like,
18:56I'm not prepared,
18:57That's how,
18:58My kids are.
18:59It's better,
19:00Just six.
19:01Right?
19:02So see,
19:03That's it,
19:04You're not prepared,
19:05That your child will tell you.
19:06You did that to your parents,
19:09Correct.
19:10That's what she said.
19:12That's right.
19:13So it means,
19:15If you did that,
19:16Your children will do the same.
19:17No.
19:18It's just natural.
19:19It's human nature.
19:20It's human nature.
19:21It's not intentional.
19:22It's not intentional.
19:23It's not intentional.
19:24It's not intentional.
19:25I'm tired of this repetition.
19:28If you're making a decision like that,
19:30Especially if they don't feel it,
19:32What are your parents saying?
19:35What are they saying to your decisions?
19:37My mom is funny.
19:38She has a reaction.
19:39What is it?
19:40She's like,
19:41Mommy, this and that.
19:45That's it.
19:46She doesn't like it.
19:47No, Mama.
19:50What happens is,
19:51If it's wrong,
19:52She'll stop it.
19:53But after a while,
19:54She'll say it.
19:55She'll say it.
19:56How?
19:57I'm telling you,
19:58That's it.
19:59She doesn't like it.
20:00Because it's really,
20:01She doesn't like it.
20:02She doesn't like it.
20:03But that's it.
20:04My mom's reaction is really funny.
20:06How about you, Regine?
20:07Because you and your mom are really close.
20:09Yeah.
20:10We're super close.
20:11She's my best friend.
20:12But sometimes,
20:14I step over the line.
20:16Like,
20:17You're my mom.
20:18Yes, I forget.
20:19I forget to respect her.
20:21So sometimes,
20:22She makes me know
20:25What my place is
20:27When I cross the line.
20:29It's like a non-stop conversation.
20:32Like that.
20:33In short,
20:34Is this a lie?
20:35Accepting.
20:37What about your mom?
20:38Contrary to your decisions,
20:39How do you know?
20:41How does she show you?
20:42Oh my,
20:43She'll do everything she can to show me
20:45By actions,
20:46Or examples.
20:47But she doesn't talk?
20:48Yes, she talks.
20:49She's like that.
20:50She's very vocal.
20:51She'll say everything.
20:52Because this is what happened.
20:53This is what happened.
20:54Don't repeat it.
20:55I know.
20:56You'll get hurt.
20:57This is for you.
20:58It's not for me.
20:59It's like that.
21:01So,
21:02In effect,
21:03I know that
21:04It's for my own good.
21:05That's why I accept it.
21:07Even if you don't want to.
21:09I hope you don't.
21:10I don't.
21:11That's why.
21:12This is what she's saying.
21:14What does your mom do
21:16When she doesn't feel
21:18Your decision?
21:19My decision?
21:20She'll just tell me,
21:21Okay,
21:22If that's what you want,
21:23You have to face the consequences.
21:26But she's not the type
21:27That says,
21:28It's up to you.
21:29It's up to your life.
21:30If you don't want to follow me.
21:31She's not like that.
21:32My mom is very supportive.
21:33So,
21:34That's it.
21:36How about in love life?
21:37Love life?
21:38There it is.
21:39In love life,
21:40We're dead.
21:41No,
21:42In love life,
21:43There's no problem because
21:44Freddy,
21:45When he courted me,
21:46Asked permission from my parents.
21:47So,
21:48My parents told Freddy,
21:50The decision is not up to us.
21:53Of course,
21:54Whatever my child's decision is,
21:55Even if we want it or
21:57If our child doesn't want it,
21:58We can't do anything.
21:59So,
22:00When Freddy answered,
22:02They told me,
22:04If that makes you happy,
22:06Okay,
22:07Go for it.
22:08But you have to handle the consequences.
22:09You have to face the consequences.
22:10Is it because
22:11Your parents have an age gap?
22:12Yes.
22:13My parents have an age gap of 10 years.
22:15But,
22:16Freddy and I are still breaking the record.
22:18We have an age gap of 29 years.
22:19So,
22:20The only problem for us is
22:21Other people misinterpret.
22:23Like,
22:24Why is he too old for you?
22:26You're too young for him.
22:27Like,
22:28Why is he too old for you?
22:30Because you're too old for him.
22:32So,
22:33My mom doesn't have a problem with that.
22:34My father doesn't have a problem with that either.
22:37That's on my father's side.
22:40Anton respects his parents.
22:43His parents respect his decision.
22:46Really?
22:48Yes.
22:49Let's listen to this.
22:52All I can say is,
22:53If Anton doesn't include me in his decisions,
22:56I respect his decisions.
22:58Because,
22:59He's somebody that,
23:03He's somebody who could rely on his decisions.
23:06Because he's matured enough
23:08To decide for himself.
23:13My mom is so angry.
23:16But, she has a mind of her own.
23:18She has a mind of her own.
23:23She knows that she can do it.
23:26So,
23:27If she knows that she can do it,
23:29She lets me do it.
23:30But if she doesn't,
23:31Then,
23:32She gets involved.
23:33How?
23:35She talks to me.
23:37And,
23:38Actually,
23:39We only talk now.
23:41We used to live apart.
23:43But now,
23:44We're together more often.
23:45So now,
23:46We talk more often.
23:47So,
23:48The decisions that I make,
23:49In my work,
23:50In my love life,
23:51In my private part,
23:54In my secrets,
23:55I tell them,
23:56We talk about it properly.
23:58What about your dad?
24:00My dad,
24:02He only accepted it late.
24:04Maybe,
24:06Because he really didn't like it.
24:08Because,
24:09There's no one in the family.
24:10It's just me.
24:11So,
24:12In my mother's side and father's side,
24:13It's just me.
24:14So,
24:15It's hard for him to accept it right away.
24:17But,
24:18Now,
24:19It's okay.
24:20There's no conflict anymore.
24:21There's no more,
24:22There's no more,
24:23He doesn't like me anymore.
24:24Even though,
24:25My relatives accepted it.
24:26What are your expectations
24:28From your parents now?
24:30Maybe,
24:31With regards to,
24:32I know everything.
24:33Of course,
24:34I have a daughter.
24:36Then,
24:37You know,
24:38It's really big.
24:39Not just my parents,
24:40But,
24:41The whole relatives.
24:42The whole family.
24:43You know,
24:44The Yamsun and Seguera clan,
24:45It's really big.
24:46Because,
24:47It's just me.
24:48You know,
24:49In the family.
24:50You're still a kid, right?
24:52So,
24:53You know,
24:54It's not just my mom and dad.
24:56It's my mom and dad.
24:57So,
24:58After them,
24:59You have to please
25:00Your relatives.
25:01It's like that.
25:02So,
25:03It's really hard.
25:04It's really big.
25:05I think,
25:06What parents expect
25:07In general,
25:08From their children is,
25:09The fact that,
25:10Of course,
25:11They raised you,
25:12And they did their best.
25:13So,
25:14It's like,
25:15It's your turn,
25:16When you grow up,
25:17To use the values
25:19That you learned
25:20When they raised you.
25:22To use it,
25:23To make you a good person,
25:25And to have a good future.
25:27That's what parents want.
25:28Now,
25:29I understand.
25:30They just want you to be happy.
25:31So,
25:32All the effort
25:33That they put in you,
25:34And the hard work
25:35That you put out,
25:36They want to see it.
25:37And they want to see it grow.
25:38Actually,
25:39That's my turn.
25:40You really appreciate your parents.
25:41That's my feeling.
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34:53In his life, we supported him.
34:58I supported him because he was happy with that decision.
35:08It's true. They can see how happy I am wherever I am.
35:12So there are no regrets when the staff studies.
35:17No regrets. I'm happy.
35:20Maybe they also know that if you're not happy with being an engineer,
35:24you won't be able to do the right thing.
35:26And the building, because of you, it won't be beautiful.
35:33It's good that you're not wearing a mic.
35:35It's good that you're not wearing a mic, Anton, for saying that.
35:38Okay, are you ready for the Is This Challenge?
35:41Are you ready for our Is This Challenge?
35:43Yes!
35:45Wow, they're happy!
35:47It will happen on the return of Sis!
36:09Now, usually, Sis and I ask questions to our guests.
36:14Now, we'll have a Sis Challenge with the audience.
36:18Instead of asking questions,
36:20we have chosen one to one.
36:26They'll ask questions to you.
36:28Yes, you'll choose from our board of inquisitors
36:33who you want to ask questions to.
36:36Antonette, let's go.
36:38Monica.
36:40Monica, brava.
36:44What is it that you can't go against your mom?
36:50Me?
36:51Because we're a family.
36:53We're always at home.
36:57Sometimes, when we talk,
36:59for example, if we're going to get married or something,
37:02my mom doesn't want that.
37:04She doesn't want us to be separated.
37:06So, I don't want that either.
37:07So, I won't go against her.
37:09There, at that point.
37:11At that point.
37:14Nilo.
37:16Nilo.
37:19If you were to leave your mom
37:21to become more independent,
37:23what do you think she'll say?
37:26Will you do it?
37:28I usually leave my mom.
37:32So that she'll become independent.
37:35That's true.
37:36That's a joke.
37:38I didn't experience your question.
37:41But what you're saying,
37:43if I leave my mom to become more independent,
37:49it won't help.
37:51I won't leave her.
37:52It won't help if I leave my mom to become more independent.
37:55Because since I've thought about it,
37:57I'm already independent.
37:58I'm the stepmother.
37:59The two of us.
38:02Regine.
38:03Me.
38:06Miss, what's her name?
38:07Marielle?
38:08Marielle.
38:09Marielle.
38:10Marielle.
38:11If you don't like something,
38:14but you'll do it for her,
38:16what will you do?
38:19For my mom?
38:20My parents?
38:22If I don't like something,
38:24I'll do it.
38:27Maybe,
38:28what I don't like?
38:33Maybe the way my kids grow up.
38:36Maybe there's a style they want to do.
38:39If it has anything to do with my kids,
38:42that I don't like, but they want it,
38:45maybe I'll just accept it because it's for the welfare of my kids.
38:49It's good for the baby.
38:51Maybe in the long run,
38:53she knows best because she's experienced it.
38:56But you said when it comes to your children,
38:58it's okay for them to grow up with you, right?
39:01It's okay.
39:02It's allowed?
39:03Yes, it's allowed.
39:05Anton.
39:07To Ms. Isabel.
39:11For example,
39:12your mom will decide
39:14for your relationship.
39:17What does she want and what do you want?
39:20Maybe what she wants from me is
39:22the man that...
39:25Of course, the man.
39:26The man that...
39:28Maybe what she wants is
39:30not me to take care of him,
39:32but me to take care of him.
39:33But that didn't happen because I chose.
39:38So now,
39:39I'm the one taking care of him.
39:41But it's okay.
39:42Because maybe someday, she'll take care of me too.
39:48Aysa, you don't have a choice.
39:50I don't have a choice, right?
39:52Ms. Olin.
39:53If there's one thing that your mom will change now,
39:57what is it?
39:58Will my mom change?
40:00To me?
40:01Yes, to her.
40:03To you.
40:04Will she change to me?
40:07I don't think so.
40:08Because no matter how strong I am
40:10or how stupid I am,
40:13maybe I got that from my two dads.
40:17You're still thinking about it, right?
40:19No, I'm not thinking about it.
40:21Actually, my parents are strong.
40:25They're strong.
40:28They're strong.
40:31That's what I like about them.
40:32So if they see me
40:35going against them,
40:37maybe that's what they got from me.
40:40They're also like that.
40:41They're also like that.
40:42Is that right, mom?
40:43My mom is strong?
40:44Yes, she's strong.
40:45And my dad too.
40:46And that's what you see.
40:48Actually, my mom and my dad are fighters.
40:52Especially my mom.
40:53When there's a problem,
40:55you know, I'm the one who's like,
40:57wow, do you have a problem?
40:59You know, I'm always like that.
41:00Because it's a different kind of problem.
41:03She's really head-on,
41:05but she's still able to do it.
41:08That's why I like her.
41:10Sometimes, even if it hurts our moms,
41:13we have to decide on our own.
41:15We still have to do this,
41:17because how will we learn?
41:19Correct.
41:20It's hard to please them,
41:21but it's not hard to care for them.
41:23And we're going to celebrate Halloween
41:27with our moms today.
41:30Of course.
41:33It's hard to please them,
41:35but it's not hard to care for them.
41:36So let's get to know them.
41:38Let's hear it from Miss Aiza Seguera.
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45:22Thank you, Aiza.
45:24And thank you to our audience participation.
45:27And of course, thank you to our guests.
45:30Thank you very much.
45:32And there's more!
45:34So don't go anywhere.
45:36We'll be right back with...
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45:56Sis, we all go through this.
46:00Yes, we all at some point in our lives,
46:02we really wanted to be on our own,
46:04to do things on our own,
46:05to decide on our own.
46:07I guess, we just don't want to depend on other people.
46:11Yes, it's like we're also part of the point
46:13that we're discovering ourselves,
46:16then we grow up.
46:18Are you ready, Jerry,
46:19that at some point,
46:20your children will also be independent?
46:22For now, since they're only 3 and 1, no.
46:25Yes, but you should prepare yourself.
46:29When they look at you,
46:30they might think you're crazy.
46:31Really?
46:32That's what I should prepare myself for.
46:34Maybe all parents,
46:35especially when their children are still small,
46:36should prepare themselves for the eventuality
46:39that that will happen.
46:41Because for me,
46:43I'm not that strict.
46:46Because I understand.
46:48I also went through that point.
46:49That's why I say,
46:51I have to understand,
46:53because I went through that.
46:55I know what they're feeling.
46:58Although, of course,
46:59I hope not.
47:01I hope I can know.
47:04Right?
47:05You just hope, right?
47:06But you can't always.
47:08And to our moms,
47:09you know,
47:11you won't really know
47:13if you raised your children right
47:16until they have their own family.
47:19They're the ones who really care.
47:21But in the process,
47:23all you have to do is just trust in them
47:26and pray.
47:27A lot of prayers
47:28that you really raised them right.
47:32See you again tomorrow.
47:34Dito lang sa
47:35SIG!
47:38First, we'd like to thank
47:39Bambi Fuentes,
47:41Salon de Manila,
47:42Chloe's for our eyewear,
47:44Optical Works,
47:45Wade Shoes,
47:46Janeline Shoes,
47:47Balloon Creations,
47:48Adidas,
47:49The Barnyard,
47:50Play and Display,
47:51JBL Furniture,
47:53Grand Flora,
47:54Bayo,
47:55Durascar,
47:56Luxaflex by Hunter Douglas
47:58for our vertical blinds,
48:00Republic Asahi,
48:02Zenzest,
48:03F&H,
48:04and Union Square.