• 2 weeks ago
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00:00And my baby? How is my baby?
00:03Today he was moving all day. He kicked me and hit me.
00:07That means that he is growing healthy and strong.
00:10Healthy and strong? And if it's a girl?
00:13She is growing healthy and strong.
00:15Honey, what God gives is fine.
00:18I will give my son or my daughter in the same way that I love you.
00:31What we can do is advance the first meeting.
00:34Son.
00:35Mom, what are you doing here?
00:38I came to mass to the church that is around here and I was on my way home.
00:44Since I was around here, I came to invite you to eat.
00:52Hello.
00:53Hello handsome boy.
00:56Hello handsome boy.
01:04It smells delicious.
01:06And it's going to be delicious.
01:10My baby is getting bigger every day.
01:12Hey honey, your mom doesn't answer my calls. Is everything okay with her?
01:16Yes, everything is fine.
01:17In fact, today when I went out to eat, I ran into her at the reception of the office.
01:21She told me she was coming from the church that was close to work and we went out to eat.
01:26I'm glad you tell me it's okay. I feel calmer.
01:35It's her.
01:38Hello mom, is everything okay?
01:40I wanted to see if you came to dinner at home.
01:43You are about to leave work and you can come over here and we can have dinner together.
01:49I already left, mom.
01:51In fact, I'm already at home.
01:53Really?
01:54Yes, but I promise to come by tomorrow to see you.
01:57Son, did you think about what we talked about at dinner?
02:02About coming to live here again, at home?
02:06Mom, we talked about it and I can't go live with you.
02:10I have my family, my house.
02:13Please, please, I beg you.
02:16Don't leave me alone.
02:18Don't leave me alone in this house.
02:20Mom, please don't cry.
02:23Let me talk to Gracema and I'll tell you.
02:27But please try to rest.
02:29I love you.
02:31I hope they tell me yes.
02:35I need you.
02:36I need you a lot.
02:38I love you too.
02:41I leave you.
02:46Mom.
02:54She insists that she is alone, that I don't leave her, that I am her only son.
02:59And the truth is that it hurts me a lot.
03:02Your mother was always accompanied by your father.
03:04She didn't feel alone.
03:06Now without him, her life is full of loneliness, my love.
03:11It is logical that she looks for you and wants you to go with her.
03:14Yes.
03:17And if your mother comes to live with us, there is a free room, my love.
03:22Wouldn't it bother you?
03:24Bother me?
03:25She is your mother, my love, and you have to support her.
03:28Make her feel good.
03:30Talk to her and bring her here, okay?
03:38Go live at your house?
03:40No, son, no, no, no, no.
03:42I don't want to go live at your house.
03:46Let's see, why not, mom?
03:48Let's see, why not?
03:49But how?
03:50Because this is my house.
03:52Because here I have lived all my life.
03:54Because here are all the memories with your father.
03:57Because I have lived with you.
03:59Here are all my things.
04:00This is my life.
04:05Son, please understand me.
04:10Understand me.
04:11I couldn't leave my house.
04:14If I do, I'll die, son.
04:20Don't end up killing me and taking me to live there.
04:24Please.
04:30Well, we can't leave her alone, love.
04:32It is clear that your mother is going through a terrible time and we must support her.
04:37Calm down, my love.
04:40Come.
04:41We are going to go live with her.
04:45So you won't be alone and you'll be at home.
04:48And I'll help you with everything in the house.
04:50And you'll have me by your side.
04:53Thank you, my love.
04:54Seriously, you're an angel.
05:00I just hope there won't be any problems.
05:17Why did you move the things in the bathroom, Irasema?
05:20Don't worry, mother-in-law.
05:21I'll put them back in place.
05:22I see that you also moved my things here.
05:25Irasema, don't move my things.
05:28Leave them where they are, please.
05:30I'll put them back in place, mother-in-law.
05:32Don't worry.
05:33I already finished cleaning.
05:35I'm going to the kitchen.
05:36Manuel will be here soon.
05:37No, no, no.
05:38I'm going to cook.
05:40Because in this house, I've always cooked for my family.
05:44I'll cook for my son.
05:45I'm his mother.
05:47Hello, I'm here.
05:50The boss let us leave early because it's the weekend.
05:54Son, I'm going to prepare dinner.
05:56You beat me.
05:58But right now I'm going to cook.
06:01That face, my love.
06:05What happened?
06:06What happens is that I can't stand your mother anymore, Manuel.
06:09Since we got here, she's been in charge of making my life impossible.
06:14I don't know what to do anymore.
06:16Everything bothers her.
06:17That if I wash her, that if I eat other things,
06:20that if I want to cook.
06:22I don't know what to do anymore, Manuel.
06:24Please.
06:25I don't know what to do anymore, Manuel.
06:26Please.
06:31I want to leave here.
06:34I'm going home.
06:37Manuel!
06:38Son!
06:40Can you help me get a can of peaches?
06:52Son, please.
06:56I need you to help me.
06:58Don't leave me alone.
07:00I didn't want to tell you, but...
07:03I've been feeling very bad.
07:05Very bad.
07:06My heart hurts.
07:08I'm short of breath.
07:11I don't know.
07:12I feel like I'm suffocating.
07:15I'm afraid of dying.
07:17Let's go to the doctor.
07:18No, I already went.
07:21It's serious.
07:23That's why I don't want to be alone.
07:24Please don't leave me.
07:25Please don't leave me.
07:26Manuel.
07:27I'm leaving.
07:28Are you coming with me?
07:30Son.
07:32Are you going to leave me after what I just told you?
07:36Manuel.
07:41It hurts.
07:44It's okay.
07:45It's okay.
07:49Irazema!
07:50Irazema!
07:52Irazema!
07:53Please don't go.
07:59Let her go.
08:00Please, Irazema.
08:03Let her go.
08:06A good wife doesn't leave.
08:08She stays to support her husband.
08:11She took you away from me.
08:13Stay with me.
08:15Let's live like before.
08:17Without that woman in the way.
08:19Mom, that woman is my wife.
08:21She's the mother of my son who's about to be born.
08:24I am your mother.
08:26Before you were a wife, you were a mother.
08:29I've taken care of you since you were born.
08:32When you got sick, who was by your side?
08:35Her or me.
08:36Obviously, me.
08:37Always me.
08:38Taking care of you, protecting you, loving you.
08:42And now you don't love me.
08:44Knowing how sick I am.
08:47How serious I am.
08:52Mom.
08:55Who took you to school?
08:58Who sacrificed for you so you could have a career?
09:04Your father and I gave everything for you.
09:08And now you want to leave me.
09:11Alone.
09:13When I need you the most.
09:19Mom, let's go to the doctor.
09:21No, no.
09:22Enough.
09:24Let me die already.
09:25I know you don't care.
09:27Get out.
09:28You don't care.
09:29Leave me alone.
09:30Go.
09:32No, don't answer.
09:33It's probably her.
09:35I told you to go.
09:37Don't answer.
09:38How am I going to answer, Mom?
09:40It's my wife and she's pregnant.
09:41What if something happened to her?
09:42She just left.
09:43For God's sake.
09:45Honey.
09:46Hi, what's up?
09:47Manuel.
09:49The baby is about to be born.
09:51When I got home, the fountain broke.
09:53Please come.
09:54I need you.
09:55No, no.
09:56Wait for me.
09:57I'm on my way.
09:58Hold on.
09:59I'm on my way.
10:00One second.
10:01Mom, the baby is about to be born.
10:03The fountain broke.
10:04I have to go help her to take her to the hospital.
10:06What if that's a lie?
10:08What if it's just a blackmail to get you to leave?
10:11Iracema would never be blackmailed.
10:13She called me because she needs me.
10:15I need you.
10:16I need you.
10:18Well, you're coming with me.
10:19I'm going to take Iracema to the hospital
10:20and then I'll take you to the doctors.
10:21No, no, no.
10:22I don't want to go to any hospital.
10:23What do you mean?
10:24I don't want to go.
10:25I don't want to go.
10:26I don't want to kill people.
10:27I don't want to.
10:28I don't want to go.
10:29Can you stop being a bitch, please?
10:30I'm not a bitch.
10:31You are a bitch, Mom.
10:32I don't want anything.
10:33Mom, it's for your health.
10:34Please come with me.
10:35Mom, please.
10:36You don't want me to die.
10:37I don't want you to die, Mom.
10:38Listen to me.
10:39It's for your own good.
10:40Let me go.
10:41Let me go.
10:42No, Mom.
10:43It hurts.
10:44You're crazy.
10:45Why are you running?
10:46It hurts.
10:47Hello.
10:48My wife is here.
10:49She's in the labor process.
10:50Her doctor is Dr. Islas.
10:52What's her name?
10:54Irazema Becerra Garcia.
10:59She was admitted in by emergency.
11:02The doctors are treating her labor.
11:04But I have no information yet.
11:06Excuse me,
11:07one more thing.
11:09My mom is in a serious condition.
11:10They say she's close to the heart attack.
11:12Could you please take care of her?
11:13I'll take care of her right now.
11:17No.
11:47In a little while, I'll come to tell you, and you can go see her, your wife, and your son.
11:52Excuse me.
11:57So it was all a blackmail by my mom.
12:07Virgin of Guadalupe.
12:10Please, I'm begging you.
12:13Guide me to know how to handle the situation with my mom.
12:18Guide me to know how to help her so she's okay.
12:25Please help me so she doesn't feel alone.
12:28So she stops blackmailing people.
12:30So she gets along with Iracem.
12:34Please, Virgin of Guadalupe.
12:37Guide me.
12:47My son.
12:57Between you and Iracem and my mom, you're driving me crazy!
13:00Crazy, mom!
13:01She got mad at me for leaving her when she needed me the most.
13:04When my son was born.
13:05Why?
13:06Because I was with you.
13:08When you were having such a magnificent health.
13:10It's just...
13:12It's not okay, mom!
13:15My son.
13:17My son!
13:19My son!
13:31Forgive me, Iracema.
13:34She's my mother and I can't leave her alone.
13:39I didn't know the baby was about to be born.
13:42I didn't know.
13:45Forgive me, Iracema.
13:50I've been thinking about it, Manuel.
13:53And I think the best thing for all of us is for you and me...
13:56to separate.
13:58You're going to live with your mom and she's going to live with my son.
14:02And I'm going to get married and live in peace with my son.
14:06No, Iracema.
14:10I don't want to separate from you, my love.
14:12I don't want you to leave my side.
14:16I don't want you and my son to leave my side, please, Iracema.
14:19Forgive me.
14:21I'm begging you, my love.
14:22Please forgive me.
14:24Please.
14:31There has been a lot of pressure for me in the last few days.
14:34From my mother and my wife, who left the house.
14:38Why did she leave?
14:39Because of my mother.
14:41Since my father's death, my mother has clung to me.
14:44She wanted me to be close to her.
14:46To have breakfast with her, to eat with her, to have dinner with her.
14:49Until I went to live with her and left my wife at home.
14:52She's been the mother I've always been.
14:55Pretty, attentive, affectionate.
14:58But with my wife, she's different.
15:00What your mother is going through is the stage of the age of fear.
15:04What do you mean? The stage of fear?
15:06The stage of the age of fear is the most difficult age for older people.
15:11When they are completely alone.
15:14You got married.
15:15There were no problems because your father lived.
15:18He left and that's when your mother changed.
15:21It is difficult for older people to discover themselves completely alone.
15:25It is a very hard blow for them.
15:28For some older adults, it is a great trauma that is not easy to assimilate.
15:32They resort to blackmail, invent thousands of things, diseases that are dying.
15:37And all to keep people they love by their side.
15:40So they don't feel alone.
15:42So they don't live alone.
15:44But they don't do it out of malice.
15:46But out of fear of loneliness.
15:48Your mother is going through this process right now.
15:51And she, like you, needs psychological therapy to be able to assimilate.
15:57And to face reality.
15:59Yes, doctor.
16:02My whole world has changed since my husband died.
16:12It's just that I don't know what to do.
16:17I don't know what to do.
16:19I don't know what to do.
16:21I don't know what to do.
16:23I don't know what to do.
16:25I don't know what to do.
16:27It's just that my house is empty.
16:33I miss him everywhere.
16:38I'm afraid of loneliness.
16:40I'm afraid.
16:43Help me, please.
16:46Help me.
16:57Thank you for listening to me, Gacema.
17:00And for listening to my son.
17:02And for forgiving him.
17:04He loves you.
17:06He was suffering a lot because of you.
17:10Because of me.
17:15With psychological therapy, I feel much better.
17:19I live without fear of loneliness.
17:22Thank you for forgiving me.
17:25You are a woman with a big heart.
17:29Mother-in-law, I'm so glad to see you too.
17:32We are family.
17:35Come, let's meet your grandmother.
17:46My family.
17:49I didn't see it, but this is my new family.
17:51Now I understand.
18:07I lost a husband, but I have a son.
18:11I have a daughter and I have a grandson.
18:16My family, my new family.
18:19My family, my new family.
18:32When we become adults, most people tend to fall into irrational fears.
18:39Like being alone.
18:40And that's why we can often become manipulative and blackmailing people with our loved ones.
18:49We, as relatives of our grandparents, must be patient and give them the attention they need to make them feel safe.
18:57So that with love and plenitude they overcome the age of fear.
20:10I'm coming crazy for my love.
20:18Every second you're erasing the matter.
20:23How many times do I have to tell you?
20:28I can't get away from your obsession with love.
20:32I'm just lost in my own heart.
20:36I can't get away from your obsession with love.
20:44I miss you so much.
20:49As if I'm dying for you.
20:53When I think of you.
20:58I feel like I'm losing myself.
21:02When I think of you.
21:07I feel like I'm losing myself.
21:11When I think of you.
21:16I feel like I'm losing myself.
21:21How many times do I have to tell you?
21:25I can't get away from your obsession with love.
21:29How many times do I have to tell you?
21:33I'm just lost in my own heart.
21:37I can't get away from your obsession with love.
21:41I'm just lost in my own heart.
21:45I can't get away from your obsession with love.
21:49I'm just lost in my own heart.
21:53How many times do I have to tell you?
21:56How many times do I have to tell you?
22:00I can't get away from your obsession with love.
22:05I'm just lost in my own heart.
22:09I can't get away from your obsession with love.